Amy Sue Nathan's Blog: Women's Fiction Writers, page 43
December 30, 2012
Dear WFW Friends,
Wishing you a wonderful 2013 filled wi...
Dear WFW Friends,
Wishing you a wonderful 2013 filled with as much writing and reading as you want!
See you next year with an exciting giveaway!
Amy xo


December 27, 2012
Holiday Hoopla! ARCs Of THE GLASS WIVES Have Landed!
The holidays are a crazy time — and a slow time. Around here, it’s perpetual Sunday. Both my kids are home, with no school, no studying. They’re staying up late and sleeping late. Meals are wonky. Schedules are non-existent. I’m still getting work done but not as much as I’d planned. But—as you may have seen on Facebook or Twitter, my Advance Reading Copies of The Glass Wives arrived!
This milestone kicked-off a weekend-long celebration that included:
Reading random pages
Looking for a few favorite scenes to see how they read “for real”
Staring at the font on random pages
Holding the book in different positions just to see how it looked
Leaving the book in different rooms just to see how it looked
Sharing the fun news with friends and family IRL and online
Mailing a book to my parents, which resulted in marathon reading, even in the park, in the cold
And once we’re all settled into 2013, I’ll have an ARC giveaway, so be sure to check back!
This week, I’m over at The Debutante Ball today instead of tomorrow (see what I mean about wonky holiday schedules?), appropriately talking about Endings. Book endings, specifically. Don’t worry, there are no spoilers, but it might surprise you to learn how the ending for The Glass Wives actually came to be. You can check it out here.
Another tidbit that might interest you are the acknowledgments that DIDN’T make it into the book. There is no dedication or acknowledgments pages in the ARC, and I’m glad, because that’s one final surprise for the folks who do read it. But there are many who couldn’t or wouldn’t make it into the book…and quite a few reasons why. You can read The Acknowledgments That Won’t Make It Into My Book on Huffington Post Books, by clicking here.
See you one more time before next year!
Amy xo


December 17, 2012
Guest Post by Author Nancy DiMauro: What Is Women’s Fiction? I Know It When I See It!
Dear Friends,
After three days of watching CNN, I decided it was time to shut off the TV and move forward with things that are normal, while not forgetting about the things that aren’t. It would have been easy to abandon the blog for a week, but then, when is the right time to keep going? The right time is now. I don’t stand on any soap boxes because that’s not what I’m here for, nor what I’m about, but when I saw authors tweeting and FBing blatant self-promotion over the weekend, I all but went bonkers.
I’m done with bonkers.
To each his or her own.
And my own is now to move forward with a normal post on our normal blog in a normal way. So please welcome Nancy DiMauro to Women’s Fiction Writers as she discusses, once again, the meaning of women’s fiction—as she sees it.
Amy xo
I Know It When I See It—or—What Is Women’s Fiction?
by Nancy DiMauro
More women buy books than men. Publishers look for “Women’s Fiction.” So, what the heck is women’s fiction?
The phrase “I know it when I see it” is a colloquial expression by which a speaker attempts to categorize an observable fact or event, although the category is subjective or lacks clearly defined parameters. (Here’s the link.)
Yes, I know I’m not supposed to quote Wikipedia, but the definition’s perfect for my purposes. Justice Potter Stewart’s famous quote from Jacobellis v. Ohio (1964) was his response to the question: “what is hard-core pornography?” Because the phrase “hard-core pornography” is difficult to define in a manner to include all possibilities, Justice Stewart refused to provide an objective test but instead articulated a subjective one.
Women’s Fiction is an umbrella term that encompasses any fiction whose audience is primarily females over the age of 25. So, how do you know it when you see it?
To me, stories in almost any genre comprise women’s fiction. I think J.D. Robb’s In Death series as well as Patricia Cromwell’s Scarpetta series are “women’s fiction” even though they are thrillers. I also see Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood by Rebecca Wells and The Notebook by Nicholas Sparks as women’s fiction. Chick lit was women’s fiction although we’re supposed to forget about that label now. And don’t get me started on “Hen Lit” which was Chick Lit aimed at the over 50 crowd. Women and men write Women’s Fiction.
No wonder there’s no set definition in the publishing marketplace.
It’s the combination of strong female characters and stories that focus on the issues we wrestle with every day that makes Women’s Fiction. I want to identify with the protagonist’s character development arc; the story of who she was when the adventure started and who she becomes as a result. It may be, and often is, that the character development is the B or secondary plot, but it’s there. Eve Dallas from the In Death series has changed dramatically. She’s become more as she has accepted the joys and hardships that come with being a woman, and having gal pals.
Think about it: Conan the Barbarian and James Bond don’t change.
I started writing fantasy because most fantasy protagonists are alpha males like Conan. Women were fought over, and protected. Sure there were a few exceptions. And I wanted a main character I could identify with. Women role models in fantasy were few and far between.
So, I write stories about strange universes and kick-butt main characters. My fantasy protagonists find the idea of a metal bikini instead of plate armor ridiculous. After all, what warrior would go to battle so ill protected? They are guardians, spies and psychic detectives. They are women. And to me, I write women’s fiction.
Nancy’s novel, Paths Less Traveled: Strange universes. Kick-butt heroines. Available at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, and Musa Publishing.
You can find Nancy at her blog, web site, Facebook and Twitter.


December 12, 2012
Guest Post: Author Rita Plush Shares Her Twelve-Year Journey To Publication
Rita Plush is here with us on Women’s Fiction Writers today to share her story of writing, querying, and publication. You’re sure to be inspired by Rita and her determination to see LILY STEPS OUT in print. I know I am!
Please welcome Rita to Women’s Fiction Writers!
Amy xo
Lily Steps Out…Finally: My Journey To Publication
By Rita Plush
Back in the 70’s and early 80’s, with college-aged children of my own, I was a student, plugging away over an eleven-year period to earn degrees in English Literature and Creative Writing. But it was only when I tried to get my first novel published, that I came to understand the true meaning of commitment and patience.
Originating as a short story, “Lily Steps Out,” is a middle-age coming-of-age novel about a married woman who ‘steps out’ of her domestic life into the business world after her husband retires. This is an interesting couple, I thought, and continued writing about them.
I brought my efforts to my writers’ group and listened to their input and critiques. I worked on the characters, dialogue and plot line. After a time, the pages became chapters. Eventually, I had the first draft of a book which I painstakingly edited and brought back to my group. More recommendations, more character development, till the moment came—five years from that first chapter—when I decided this is a book, and tried to find an agent.
The dozens query letters I sent out brought in almost as many rejections—some agents didn’t respond at all—and I began to realize that finding an agent might take almost as much time and effort as writing the book itself. I labored on, and then months later, voila! An agent who liked what she saw—characters alive and vivid with real lives and real problems. Bidding wars and movie deals danced in my head, but alas, though publishers thought the writing “energetic and entertaining” and “were drawn to the characters,” they didn’t take my book.
My book. My book was about a woman with spirit and drive, a homemaker who’d spent her life caring for her family and then wanted more out of life than making beds and cooking dinners. Did Lily sit back because things didn’t go her way, or did she risk everything she had to get the life she wanted? And so I took a lesson from Lily. If my agent couldn’t find me a publisher, I’d find one on my own, and offered Lily to the handful of publishers who accepted non-agented fiction.
To my disappointment, my efforts fared no better than those of my agent, and something began to nag at me. Was I objective about the book? Or had I developed such a crush on Lily and my other characters that I couldn’t see what was right about them and what was not? Maybe I needed some of that proverbial space between me and them, and so I set the book aside and began another novel.
Years passed. Self-publishing had become the route for many authors who couldn’t otherwise get their books into print. Lily called to me.
But first, I dug deep, looking for the gold in Lily Gold. I tightened the prose, eliminated every non-essential scene and bit of dialogue that didn’t reveal a character’s personality or move the story forward, updating the social references along the way. I hired a professional editor to proof-read and fine-tune the whole business, and signed up a graphic artist to design the cover.
I was so close to self-publishing, I’d already chosen the company and sent them the cover on approval. Then one day I slipped my hand into a coat pocket and out came a scrap of paper with Penumbra Publishing written in my own handwriting. What’s this? I said to myself.
This, it turned out, was my prayed-for-dreamed-of-I-don’t-pay-to-get-published-publisher, who found my novel, “…engaging, with unique characters that gave the tale a certain refreshing charm.”
The rest, as they say is history, Lily’s history, and the twelve years from start to finish, when I began the book to the day it was accepted. Was it worth all the time and effort? Yes indeed! Keep at it, don’t give up.
Rita Plush is an author, teacher, interior designer, and Coordinator of the Interior Design & Decorating Certificate at Queensborough Community College; there she teaches several courses in the program. Rita has also lectured on the decorative arts at libraries throughout Long Island, and at Hofstra University and CW Post-Hutton House.
Her writing practice includes fiction and non-fiction and her stories and essays have appeared in many literary journals including The Alaska Quarterly Review, The Iconoclast, The MacGuffin, Passager, and most recently www.persimmontree.org. “Lily Steps Out” is her first novel (Penumbra Publishing, May 2012), and she is at work on a second novel that follows some of the characters in “Lily.” She is also putting the finishing touches on a collection of short stories called “Step into My Heart, the Door is Round and Wide.” Rita is a member of LIAG, Long Island Authors’ Group.
Newsday’s Act II, July 19, 2012, featured Rita as “published and proud,” and Times Ledger—August 23-29—headed their feature, “Rita Steps Out.”
“Lily Steps Out” is available through www.amazon.comin both ebook and trade paperback, and from www.barnesandnoble.com in ebook format.
Visit her website www.ritaplush.com for more information about Rita and Lily.


December 5, 2012
Guest Post: Writing, Rejections, and Going for that Overhead Smash by Author Holly Robinson
My friend Holly Robinson’s novel, THE WISHING HILL (and its stunning cover) will be published by Penguin in Summer 2013. Oh, and she’ll have another novel published in 2014! So I’m going to make sure she comes back to talk more about all that crazy awesomeness! But today, Holly shares with us why it’s important to just keep on writing, and trying no matter what. Why? Because you just don’t know the moment that something is just going to go flying over the net. (The tennis pun is weak, I agree, but my intentions were good.)
Please welcome Holly to Women’s Fiction Writers!
Amy xo
Writing, Rejections, and Going for that Overhead Smash
By the time my agent was sending out my fifth novel, I figured I’d paid my dues as a writer. Yes, it’s true that I majored in biology and had never even read James Joyce, but I atoned for that mistake by flinging myself into graduate school to earn an MFA in creative writing. I even published short stories in literary journals where the payment was two copies. I collected enough rejection slips that, one Halloween, I dressed as a Rejection Slip, donning a lacy slip with my rejections stapled all over it.
“Are you still writing?” friends and relatives asked, year after year.
“Of course. And this one is it,” I always answered.
And then came novel #5. This will be the one, I told myself, just like Charlie Bucket in Willy Wonka & the Chocolate Factory: This will be my golden ticket!
When the rejections amassed that fifth time, though, I lost faith. That tiny negative voice in my head, the one that was usually like some bee you can wave off, began to sound like a trumpet in my ear. The voice blared: You are not smart enough to be a writer.
“Let’s try one more editor,” my blessed agent said.
I knew the editor he was sending my fifth novel to, and she is one of the smartest in the business. As a book doctor and ghost writer for many years, typically on nonfiction health books and celebrity memoirs, I’d had the opportunity to work with her on several books. I desperately wanted her to love my novel.
I waited three agonizing weeks. Then the editor’s reply came: “I’m sorry, but the novel just doesn’t work for us,” she said, adding various detailed observations about where the plot flagged and why the characters didn’t ring true.
“Should I get you some wine?” my husband asked when he found me prone on the sofa, the rejection letter crumpled in one hand and a bouquet of Kleenexes in the other.
“Go get me chocolates. Good chocolates,” I hissed. “I’m never writing fiction again.”
I was devastated enough by that one rejection to eat my way through an entire box of dark chocolate truffles, drink half a bottle of Grand Marnier, and watch Nicole Kidman attempt to sing in Moulin Rouge. By now, that trumpeting voice in my head had turned cocky and mean: Your sentences are dull and stupid. Your plot lines are insipid. Your descriptions are trite. Your characters are flat and uninteresting. Who would want to read your writing?
That was it. I was done with fiction.
With so much extra time on my hands, I decided to do something entirely unlike me: I took tennis lessons.
I had never played a sport in my life, and I rapidly discovered that practicing a sport means getting yelled at a lot. My tennis coach’s nonstop badgering nearly made me quit: “Get up to net! Come on, don’t stand around the baseline! Go for it! You want that overhead smash!”
My problem was that I was too timid and polite. I got hit on the head with tennis balls more than once, nearly pummeled to the ground by aggressive women on the other side of the net going for their overhead smashes.
I spent hours and hours on the tennis court. I joined a travel team and moved up the ranks. Still, I hung back, always playing it safe, until one day my coach lost her temper.
“You know,” she said, “the only person who really cares about whether you screw up out here is you! Just get up to net and take the balls in the air! You might miss. But you might surprise yourself if you try.”
The metaphor here is obvious, and so were the flaws in my tennis playing. I had to force myself to net again and again. Until one day, to my shock, I found myself looking for those overheads and smashing them down at my opponent’s feet. I missed a lot of balls, but I made some great shots, too.
I became more confident at tennis, and that made me start writing again. What did I have to lose by trying another novel? Nobody was going to publish it, probably, but so what? I love writing fiction. So I started another book.
This is one of those happy-ending stories, but with a twist. While I was writing my sixth novel, The Wishing Hill, I also revised and self-published that fifth novel, Sleeping Tigers. Self publishing wasn’t the way I wanted to go, but going to net in tennis had taught me to gamble. I revised Sleeping Tigers and published it myself.
Meanwhile, I finished my newest novel, The Wishing Hill. The same editor at Penguin, the one I had always dreamed about working with on a novel, bought it. She recently bought the new novel I’m working on, too. It will be published a year after The Wishing Hill.
What’s the takeaway here?
If you are a writer, you will surely get rejected. Nobody cares but you.
Writing, like anything else, is all about keeping the ball in play, watching for new opportunities, and not being afraid to go to net.
Want to make it as a writer? You have to fail first—and sometimes many times. Get to the net and write another book. Keep going for that overhead smash, and you might surprise yourself.
Holly Robinson is an award-winning journalist whose work appears regularly in national venues such as Better Homes and Gardens, Family Circle, Huffington Post, Ladies’ Home Journal, More, Open Salon, and Parents. She also works as a ghost writer on celebrity memoirs, education texts, and health books. Her first book, The Gerbil Farmer’s Daughter: A Memoir, was named a Target Breakout Book. Her first novel, Sleeping Tigers, was named a 2011 Book of the Year Finalist by ForeWord Reviews and was more recently listed as a Semifinalist 2012 Best Indie Book by Kindle Book Review. She holds a B.A. in biology from Clark University and an M.F.A. in creative writing from the University of Massachusetts, Amherst. She lives north of Boston with her husband and their five children.


December 4, 2012
The RWA – Women’s Fiction Chapter Disbands But The Best Is Yet To Come
Dear Friends,
If you are a women’s fiction writer (duh) you may want to read the Writer Unboxed post by Laura Drake I’ve linked below. It explains what has been happening with RWA (Romance Writers of America) and why the chapter (of which I am Secretary) — the Women’s Fiction chapter — has decided to disband.
In a nutshell? It’s because RWA will no longer allow us to identify ourselves as writers of women’s fiction, first and foremost, and still be voting members. Oh, they still want us to pay dues, but they won’t let us have a chapter or vote. Um, no thank you. To stay active, members need to claim to be romance writers.
But, on the bright side, the current board is charging ahead to establish a new group of writers and enthusiasts of women’s fiction where we can be honest about what we write.
Please know that this new loop or group or whatever it will be called will have no direct impact on Women’s Fiction Writers! This blog has become my online home, and yours! But, I will be on the ground floor of what’s going on, I’ll be posting information here, so that anyone and everyone who writes women’s fiction can benefit.
I think the best is yet to come!
Amy xo
Please read: CHANGE IS NOT THE ENEMY by Laura Drake


November 28, 2012
Submission Guidelines For Writer Rejections: A Guest Post By Author Janet Josselyn
We’ve all gotten them. Rejection letters. They run the gamut from leftover napkins scrawled with obscenities to carefully worded and helpful emails that enable us to shelter a bit of self-esteem. Wouldn’t it be fabulous if we could dictate how those letters were written? After all, if we’re going to get them, shouldn’t they meet OUR guidelines?
Author Janet Josselyn thinks so! And I agree!
Please welcome Janet to Women’s Fiction Writers!
Amy xo
Despite Its Evident Merit—Submission Guidelines for Rejections
by Janet Josselyn
Rejection is a staple of a writer’s diet and it comes in many forms and guises. My personal favorite, however, is the rejection that describes how talented my writing is while simultaneously rejecting what I have written. I have a stack of those backhanded compliments. I culled the most flattering and they appear at the beginning of Thin Rich Bitches.
Some editors, on the other hand, don’t even attempt to say something flattering in their form rejections. “We’re sorry to say that your piece ‘The Comely Behavior Manual for U.S. Army Generals’ wasn’t right for us, despite its evident merit. Thank you for allowing us to consider your work.” Apparently the “evident merit” wasn’t sufficiently evident. In response, I have this to say:
Dear Editors:
Thank you for submitting your recent rejection of our latest submission. Unfortunately, the rejection isn’t right for us at this time, despite its evident merit.
Before submitting a rejection in the future, you might want to familiarize yourself with our Submission Guidelines for rejections:
Ditch the happy face after the part where you assure us that there is a publication “somewhere” that will appreciate our work.
There are only so many chuckles you can get out of making fun of conservative white men who work and have female wives. Open the humor up a little, please. Sometimes it’s actually funny to make sport of people who look or act odd. People who go all crazy-ass on people who eat meat can be really funny.
Are all of the published authors of your journal related? We are not suggesting incest-style “related,” but we are suggesting “old boys club, wink-wink, nod-nod, not-if-you-are-a-girl-writer related.” Okay, just had to play the gender card. You guys are liberals, right?
Evident merit comes in many sizes. Despite its evident merit, a rejection should evidence sufficient merit or it will not be right for us at this time.
Thank you for allowing us to consider your rejection.
Best regards,
Rejected Writers Everywhere
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Janet Eve Josselyn graduated from Colby College, Harvard Graduate School of Design and Boston College Law School. She is an attorney and an architect. She has published one novel, Thin Rich Bitches, and has written numerous articles for publications in the US and the UK.


November 26, 2012
Seré Prince Halverson Talks About Book Clubs, Book Covers, And Books That Make Her Feel Less Alone
I met Seré Prince Halverson almost a year ago because we are both members of the debut authors group, Book Pregnant. Right away Seré captured my attention with her kindness and charm, and that was even before I knew much about her book, THE UNDERSIDE OF JOY.
Today marks the paperback launch of “Joy.” Same book, new cover, and hopefully many new, enthusiastic readers.
When you’re finished reading the interview and getting to know Seré, treat yourself to excerpt of THE UNDERSIDE OF JOY (published by Dutton) by clicking here.
But first, welcome Seré to Women’s Fiction Writers!
Amy xo
Seré Prince Halverson Talks About Book Clubs, Book Covers, And Books That Make Her Feel Less Alone
Amy: Seré, congratulations! Today is the paperback release of THE UNDERSIDE OF JOY! What’s it like to be re-introducing your book to new readers?
Seré: Thank you, Amy! It feels different than when the hardcover came out because it’s not quite such a huge unknown. I’m excited, but I’m happy to say that I’m also sleeping at night, which was something I could not say when the hardcover came out. I had serious Debut Author Insomnia.
I’ve discovered that I really enjoy talking to book clubs and have been blown away by their insightful discussions. A lot of those I’ve visited have had a picnic theme to tie in with the Life’s a Picnic store in the book. So, to celebrate the paperback release, I’m having a Win a Picnic Basket for your Book Club drawing. I thought it would be fun to deliver Sonoma County goodies and wine right to their doorstep! And planning a picnic is much more pleasant than Debut Author Insomnia. Details are here.
Amy: Without giving anything away, can you tell us a little bit about the story and how you came up with the idea?
Seré: A woman walks into a market…That woman was me. I walked out with a bag of groceries, and a vision of an Italian American family. That vision collided with some other visions I’d been having of a young woman, curled up in bed in despair. She had once everything she ever wanted and now had lost it all. But I didn’t know her story yet. And those visions collided with my fear of sleeper waves, my love for Sonoma County, my contemplations of mother/stepmother relationships and how harshly society judges mothers who leave their children, without knowing the circumstances behind that decision. (Yes, it was a rather big collision of visions.)
Amy: Oftentimes paperback editions have a brand new book cover — and that’s the case for TUOJ. How was the process of having a new “look” for your book?
Seré: First, let me say that I was very attached to the first cover. I loved the beautiful simplicity of it. My paperback publisher, Plume, always creates a new cover, but I was a bit skeptical. Until I laid eyes on it. Very different from the first, but I fell in love all over again, this time with the vertical treatment of the horizontal photograph, the water reflection, the little girl—together, they capture important elements of the story.
Amy: Do you have something you’d like readers to take away from your book?
Seré: My favorite books pull me in and make me feel like I’ve walked in someone else’s shoes, whether they’re Birkenstocks or Manolo Blahniks or old holey Keds with a flappy right sole. The best books also make me feel less alone–even if the characters’ lives are completely different from mine. And I love books that challenge and move me. Those are the kinds of things I hope readers feel when they read The Underside of Joy.
Amy: What is your definition of women’s fiction?
Seré: Such a hot topic these days. Definitions are sometimes necessary, especially for marketing, but they’re also limiting. I like to think the definitions are evolving. The Underside of Joy is a story about motherhood but also about family, war, food, love, death, grief, joy, resilience—lots of things that involve women and men. The book had a pink flower on the cover and now the paperback has a little girl on the beach—clearly marketed as women’s fiction, right? Right. And yet, I’ve received such thoughtful e-mails from a number of male readers, ranging in ages from 25 to 89.
So I’m going to say I see women’s fiction as an extremely broad category of fiction, which is marketed toward women but can usually be read and enjoyed by both women and men. (Men who aren’t scared off by feminine-looking covers, that is.)
Amy: What’s your best advice for aspiring authors of women’s fiction?
Seré: My advice for aspiring authors of women’s fiction is the same as my advice for aspiring authors of any fiction, in fact it’s the same for aspiring anyones—anyone who is working at something they’re passionate about. Writers love this one because we need it in the face of all that rejection: It’s the Winston Churchill quote—a favorite of my dear friend and writing sister, Elle Newmark: “Never, never, never, never give up.” Just don’t. Keep going. That doesn’t mean you can’t break away for periods of time if you need to, but keep rolling your work-in-progress around in your head, and always come back to it.
It took me hundreds of rejections and three completed novels before The Underside of Joy was published. Even if it hadn’t been published, I wouldn’t regret the years I’ve spent writing and learning my craft. Passion is a good thing. Elle also said, “Passion is our consolation for mortality.” She died last year, after a life of writing and living passionately—a life very well-lived. I learned a lot from her and am learning from her still.
Thanks so much for these great questions, Amy! I’m looking so forward to reading The Glass Wives!
Oh, thank you, Seré, all of that means so much to me!
Seré Prince Halverson worked as a freelance copywriter and creative director for twenty years while she wrote fiction. She and her husband live in Northern California and have four (almost) grown children. The Underside of Joy is her debut novel. Published by Dutton in January 2012, it will be translated into 18 languages.
You can find Seré on her website, blog, and on Facebook.
Don’t forget to read the excerpt of THE UNDERSIDE OF JOY by clicking here.


November 20, 2012
I’m Thankful For Big Libraries, Small Towns, And A Smidgen Of Chutzpah
Learning to be an author in addition to being a writer is an interesting process. While in the midst of planning publicity, working on a new website, and sharing news both regularly and prudently (I think both are important), I’m very aware that yes, book sales are going to be an important factor if I don’t want to become a one-book wonder. (No intention of that, mind you, and WIP is coming along nicely, if I do say so myself. Which I do. Also have a tickling of a story for book 3!)
And then last week I learned that THE GLASS WIVES will be published in hardcover for the library market. That means that libraries can purchase a copy (or ten, um, book clubs!) of my novel and it will be sturdier and last longer than the trade paperback edition. Because libraries are book buyers, this is a good thing. Whether we all like it or not, not everyone can afford to buy every book. And some people can’t afford or choose not to buy any books. And this doesn’t mean they’re not book lovers or voracious readers. It means that I want libraries to have copies of my book so that everyone who wants to read it has the opportunity to do so, no matter where they choose to obtain their [legal, I'm looking at you, book pirating sites] copy.
The point here is to garner the attention of readers any way possible. This is not lost on me.
So, after I was finished with a personal celebration, knowing that my editor and publisher have confidence that libraries will want to stock-up on THE GLASS WIVES, I printed out THE GLASS WIVES page from the St. Martin’s Griffin Spring catalog, the first three pages, and a copy of the cover. And I marched my debut author behind over to the library in my town.
Small town. Big new library.
I introduced myself to the adult services librarian, leading with “I live in Small Town and St. Martin’s Press is publishing my first novel in May.” Yes, that is a way to get a librarian’s attention. She was lovely, and interested, and her smile stretched across her face. She asked if she could shake my hand (heartily, I might add) to congratulate me. She asked questions about how long it took me to write it, the agent-process, and she made many correct assumptions about the excitement level in my brain and heart. The librarian needed to pass along my information (complete with actual telephone number) to the person who purchases fiction for the library because of course she was at lunch when I showed up.
I’m fortunate to live in an educated, education-centric community. I’m in contact with the local book club that started in 1938 and boasts over 100 members. It’s also not lost on me that the fact that THE GLASS WIVES is set in a Chicago suburb and about a divorced mom, and that I LIVE in a Chicago suburb and am a divorced mom, may send 9200 locals scampering for the book in stores, online, in this very library, looking for something or someone familiar, looking for answers and insights to my real life, or—gasp—theirs. They won’t find it, but hey, I’m no dummy.
I just nod and say, “You’ll have to read the book.”
Amy xo
A short synopsis of THE GLASS WIVES has now popped up on Goodreads! You can see that by clicking here—and if you’re so inclined to add it to your “to read” list, I think that gets you on Santa’s good list. I know it gets you on mine. xo


November 14, 2012
Have You Written A Novel? Author Roberta Gately Says Chase Your Dreams And Enjoy The Journey
If you’re in the writing, editing, revising, querying, or submission trenches, it’s good to remember to keep your sense of humor—and your eye on the prize. Author Roberta Gately shares her story of missteps and determination that led to her first and second novels being published.
Please welcome Roberta to Women’s Fiction Writers!
Amy xo
Have You Written A Novel? Author Roberta Gately Says Chase Your Dreams And Enjoy The Journey
by Roberta Gately
So you’ve written a novel, and after congratulating yourself heartily, you think – yikes, what’s next? As an aid worker and nurse, I’d been writing articles for years, and I tackled a book because when I was working with the International Rescue Committee in Iraq in the early days of the US invasion, a New York Times reporter told me I should. What higher recommendation, right? So, I toiled away at a memoir – an account of my adventures (and a few misadventures) and then, (cue the applause), it was done. I was thrilled, certain the publishing world would come knocking on my door. But, I quickly realized they didn’t know me, didn’t know I had the next great book, and I’d have to call them, so unbelievably, I did. I reached a harried receptionist in one or another publishing house, and told her I’d written a book.
“So, do I just drop it off?” I asked innocently. (Okay, you could also say inanely.)
There was a long pause. In retrospect, I’m sure she was thinking – who the hell is this idiot? But, she didn’t say that. Instead, she sighed (interpretation – she’d heard that one before) and forged ahead.
“Why, no. You need to get an agent, and when you’ve done that, they will send it to us. That’s how it works.”
Aha! A light went off. One more step and then it was off to the races. Only – not really. The toughest part about writing is that very step – finding an agent. Undaunted, I researched the whole agent thing and plunged in, sending query after query until finally, several agents were interested. I had my pick and I picked the one that seemed the best.
But, he wasn’t. My manuscript languished with him until finally one day, he said a publishing house was interested and I was summoned to New York City to lunch with the big boys. They loved my non-fiction book, they said, but wanted some changes, and to my untrained ear, it was all gibberish. I had no idea what they were talking about. My agent didn’t seem to have understood either, and he became increasingly harder to reach. I finally fired him and wrote a novel. I quickly found new agents (through a writer friend) and the rest, as they say, is history. Once I had my new agents, I knew my novel would find a home, and it did – Simon & Schuster. “Lipstick in Afghanistan” was published in 2010 and my second novel – “The Bracelet” was released just a few days ago.
The other publishing house still contacts me from time to time to ask how the changes in my memoir are coming. At first, I used to say, I was working at it. But when my first novel was published, they wrote to congratulate me, and then they asked about the memoir.
“I hope to get back to it,” I said.
And that’s true. I do.
Though I haven’t yet.
So if you’ve written something or hope to, just do it. Chase your dreams. No one else can do that but you. And enjoy the journey. No matter what comes, your journey should be cherished.
For a sneak peek into THE BRACELET click here!
A nurse, humanitarian aid worker, and writer, Roberta Gately has served in 3rd world war zones ranging from Africa to Afghanistan. She has written on the subject of refugees for the Journal of Emergency Nursing and the BBC World News Online. She speaks regularly on the plight of the world’s refugees and displaced. Her first novel – “Lipstick in Afghanistan” was published in 2010. Her second novel – ‘The Bracelet” – was released on November 6, 2012.
You can find Roberta on her website, Facebook, and Twitter.


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