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Patience aka WHY CAN’T I HAVE MY BOOK NOW?

Patience is probably one the virtues I wish I was better at. Writing is a slow process THAT TAKES FOREVER AND WHY CAN’T I HAVE MY BOOK NOW?

Depending on how fast you write, finishing the first draft of a single short story can take a month or more, and if you start working on a longer piece… that can drag on for years (just don’t be one of those people who is ‘working on a novel’ without ever writing a word, okay? Get it on paper.). You finally get the story done and stare at your lovely, little word blob and then it just magically becomes a book instantly. That’s a new mac attachment clearly, the iPublishnow.

Truth: ALL OF THAT WRITING ISN’T EVEN THE HALF OF IT.

After you finish that first steaming draft full of problems and trouble THEN you have to go back and edit, and sometimes rewrite it. And you do this step over and over and over. Until your eyes sizzle and coffee drizzles from your nose.

After that, you submit it off into the wild blue-green yonder where it either a) goes off to an agent to look for representation b) goes to a publisher (and probably the BUMBUMBUM slush pile) or c) self-pub baby!

(okay, those are not every option ever available for a writer, but let’s just stick with those three for simplicity’s sake, kay?)

From here, everything requires more steps.

AKA No don’t just type THE END and throw it up on Amazon and wait for the money to rain down from the muses that live above your bed.

From here it will try to find a home, contracts will be negotiated, drawn up, yadda yadda, THEN it will go through a series of edits, a title will be decided, descriptions created, covers  made, and formatting fought with. Annnnd probably more that I’m forgetting or just plain don’t know about because they haven’t happened to me yet.

End of story: There’s still a TON of steps from after you type the end to when you hold your precious word vomit baby in your arms and coo over it.

The fastest one has gone for me is a short story that took roughly 6 months from THE END to print version, and that was damn fast because it only had four people in the anthology.

The longest?

Well, let’s just say there are some 3+ year projects that haven’t moved forward past typing THE END yet.

That’s another part of writing you don’t learn about until you’re there. Projects can and will just freeze for unknown reasons. Sometimes a project falls through the little literary cracks and plops into a whole lot of nope. When that happens you’ve got to pull your story out of that muck and try to find your baby a new home. Sometimes it doesn’t work out and that little sucker lives in a drawer in your desk for forever.

The point is, if you’re going to play the game and get your thing out into the world then you’ve got to have a certain level of patience and know that things move SLLLOOOOWWWW when it comes to publishing.

Finish your projects, send them off, meet your deadlines (please don’t be the jerk to hold up everyone else), and then START ON A NEW PROJECT. Don’t sit and stare at the screen, waiting for an email of every step of the process, let go of that sent-off darling and start vomiting out a new lovely, word baby. Try to have projects out and about all the time, and remember to just breathe and keep writing: that’s your job.

Outlining aka WHO AM I AND WHY AM I WEARING PANTS?

For years, I considered myself a pantser (writing by the seat of yours pants, aka in your undies) when it comes to plotting and in life. I mean who needs pants, right?  I just kind of close my eyes and go and see where the story leads me (hopefully not outside since I lack pants), but for my last few stories I’ve found that the way I write has totally changed. Now I struggle to write anything without an outline, even just a short story. And what’s really scary about this, is that I actually am starting to enjoy it. WHO AM I AND WHY AM I WEARING PANTS?

I always figured that outlines would suck all the fun and awesome right on out of the story. I mean what fun is it if I know what’s going to happen? If I know the bulldozer powered by squirrels is coming then where’s the surprise?

 

 

 

The answer is that I still get to fling squirrels into bulldozers and be surprised when it turns out they know how to drive. I just don’t have to throw 700 squirrels only to realize that the window was never down so they never could have made it into the driver’s seat, and I’ve wasted all of my energy throwing squirrels into nothing.

Outlining lets me see where the big problems are and take a hammer to them when they’re still just 100 words, rather than an entire novel. It saves me time slaving away at an idea that’s just not working by letting me see the problems (the window being up and locked) before I start writing.

For me, outlining has become the process of inspecting a car or a house or a boat or some other big thing (What do people with lots of money even buy?) before you buy it. You have to make sure all the widgets work and that the parts are going to move together before you start driving it anywhere, otherwise you’re likely to end up on the side of the road with spiders crawling out of the engine and no idea what went so terribly wrong.

My outline technique is short. I just write out a summary of what happens, the major points, and big events. Usually this ends up being a few thousand words and I’ll write it several times, working out the kinks every time until I’ve got a story that’s solid enough to just be driven. Then I ride it on into town with as few pit stops as possible.

Be Boring

When I was first starting to really take myself seriously as a writer (as in writing every day and trying to actively get published), I remember thinking that I was way too boring to write anything exciting. I mean, I don’t do drugs, or get black out drunk every night. I don’t go wild and travel through dangerous areas in the dead of night. Hell, I think the most dangerous thing I do on a regular basis is walk into my bookshelf nearly every morning when I’m getting ready for work because despite nearly a year of it being in the same place, it’s always a surprise!

I grew up with stories about the wild antics of writings, with the motto ‘write drunk, edit sober.’ I always thought I was too much of a bore to fit in, but what I’ve found over the last few years has been the opposite. Schedules actually help me keep at my writing more than any sort of wild life ever could. Knowing that I’m home by 4 every day and sticking to the schedule lets me prepare to write. It’s become a habit now. I don’t have to sit and wait to be inspired to write, it’s simply 4:00 and time to write.

Now clearly not every day works out in an ideal way, but having a steady life where I am not totally clueless about what’s coming next helps keep me grounded. When I’m not stressing about what’s going to happen tomorrow (or where I’m going to get my next fix) keeps me focused on the story at hand. I’ve fond that the only real way to get any writing accomplished is really simple: sit on your butt (or stand at your standing desk) and write. There’s nothing else that puts the words into the world. Not talking about writing, not daydreaming, not reading. At the end of the day the only way to write is…. to write.

And a boring, stable life helps that happen.

Now, that doesn’t mean you have to keep a boring life in all aspects. Try new things, travel to new places, eat weird food that you can’t pronounce, and do things that scare you, but never feel like having a stable life is a disadvantage when it comes to being creative.

10 Things I Wish I’d Learned In My Creative Writing Degree

When I finished my BA in English with a focus in Creative Writing, I was convinced I knew everything. Then I went to try to get a short story published in something besides the college run literary magazine and realized I didn’t have a clue what I was doing. For a while I was really angry about how little I came out of school knowing how to do. (Some days I still am.) It felt like my entire degree had been geared towards learning how to write what my professors wanted me to write, certainly not for me. I learned how to write for the deadline, make the changes the professor wanted, and to turn in a paper on time.

Learning how to turn things in on a deadline is a great skill to have learned, but I still get upset when I think about all the things I wished I’d learned in my program, and the things I wished I’d even known to ask about! Here’s a list of 10 things I wish I had learned about with my degree.

10. How to find magazines open for submissions

Aside from flyers posted in the common areas, and professors passing out handouts about journals, how do I find the places that accept them? What’s a SASE? What do you mean a cover letter; what’s suppose to be in that? What should I include in my bio? Is my title and name included in the word count? What’s a standard manuscript format? What’s multiple submission versus simultaneous submission? I don’t just throw my poems into the air and they’ll teleport to a magical poetry magazine?

9. The publishing process

What is the process that something has to go through to be published? Who looks at it first and what happens from there? What is an acquisitions editor? Copy edit versus line edit? Who will I talk to if I have a question? How do I put something into an ebook format? What are my options? What’s the difference between a small press, a mid-level press, a big-six, and self publishing? What’s an average contract look like? It’s all instant right?

8. Writer Beware!

So 90% of profit to the publisher and 100 year exclusive rights are normal in a contract right? Also selling my first-born is just standard, yeah? You always have to pay someone to publish something for you. You pay them a lot of money and the nice vanity press makes magic for you, right?

7. Business behind writing

Tax write-offs? What are those? What do you mean taxes exist when you make money from writing things? It’s not just a magical pot of money? What do you mean keeping up with receipts and contracts? What are these contracts for anyway? I’ll just sign it and not really read it, cause it’s not important, right?

6. That you don’t have to drink to write

Well my classmates regularly come to class drunk and no one cares so that’s just the norm right? All writers drink, it’s just a natural part of life and if you don’t get drunk to write, you’re doing it totally wrong.In fact, hell let’s have class at the bar! That will make life easier for everyone! What do you mean you don’t want your classmate’s drunken critique?

5. It’s okay to write in more than one area

You mean I don’t have to say ‘Yes I only write poetry.’ and never take a fiction class or touch a short story lay out? You mean I never learn anything about screenplays because none of the classes think it’s worth talking about? I won’t burst into flames if I write a poem and a short story in the same day?

4. Not all advice is good.

You mean ‘Stop writing genre crap’ isn’t good advice? ‘Stop writing dead grandma poems’ isn’t good advice? What makes good advice then? If the teacher tells me that this character is stock and boring then I have to chop them and redo everything until every person in the world is pleased, right?

3. Read whatever you want

You mean there are things beside the classics? I can read things other than Shakespeare and still be considered literate? I can even read… GASP….romance and sci-fi and it’s okay? No one will revoke my writer status and shun me forever?

2. More grammar

We don’t actually need a course on grammar because that’s not important. We’ll just throw some comma worksheets into English 1101 and that’ll be fine.

1. GENRE FICTION IS FINE

I won’t burst into a non-writer pile of goo the second that I write something beside ‘literary’ fiction? How is your work not ‘horror genre crap’ won’t be a question I’ll ever have to answer to graduate?  You mean people read things beside literary fiction?

 

 

I understand that programs can’t teach everything but to me, a creative writing program not allowing genre fiction and constantly disparaging it only hurts the students. Also, never teaching students how to submit their work sets them up for failure. A lot of these are things that I could have (and eventually did) learn on my own, but many of them I didn’t even think to ask about or look for until well after I’d graduated.

What I learned in my program was how to cater towards a small audience and how to have my stories controlled and reigned in. I learned that genre is ‘crap’ and that literary writing is the only thing worth reading or writing. I learned that workshops can be incredibly toxic (‘This is a dead grandma poem so I didn’t waste my time reading it. You suck.’), and that writing is meant to exist in a void where it is just discussed for its academic merit. I learned how to recite the classics, and follow in the path carved out into the world of the academic.

What I’ve learned is that I don’t need a degree to learn how to write (in fact I’m beginning to think it’s better that way). What you need is a hardcore dedication to your work. You need to write every day and believe in your own vision. If you don’t know something you hunt down the information and devour it whole without waiting for someone else to teach it to you.

So in the end, I don’t necessarily blame my program, but I can’t say I can recommend it to anyone else. Learn what inspires you and scrap the rest.

A piece of paper given to you by a university will never dictate your ability to write.

“Books are written with time stolen from other people”

Selfish.

It’s a word that plays on repeat in my brain. On a good day I’ll only hear it once or twice. On a bad day it plays a song that lasts from the moment my eyes open to the second I finally drift to sleep.

One of the things that I struggle the most with writing is the selfishness that it requires. I don’t mean the Golum hoarding type of selfishness, I mean the ‘I have to go lock myself in my bedroom for the entire evening rather than hang out with my friends/family’ sort of selfishness.

I’ve always been very bad at saying no or not doing something for someone else. I am a people pleaser at my very core, and I struggle with any time I have to say no to doing something for someone. I have a terrible case of balloon hand where I volunteer for tasks that pop up and cut away from my time.

I want to help everyone and do everything for all of the people I care about. I will drop everything and drive eight hours through the night if someone really needs me to. But the problem with that is that I constantly give away time that I need to spend on my writing.

What I probably struggle the most with is writing in the evenings when my roommates are home. I adore my roommates and it’s rare that we’re all home at the same time so I want to savor that, but I struggle to get much work done when camped out in the living room half listening to a conversation, and half plotting on how to kill the troublesome centaur in chapter 3.

I’m half way everywhere and getting nothing done.

I recently read the quote that became the title of this post, “Books are written with time stolen from other people” and as much as I’ve searched the Internet I can’t figure out who said it (if you know please tell me!). But this quote is probably one of the truest things I’ve ever read. The time spent on writing is time not spent doing something else, and a lot of  that means cutting time with people you love.

How do you get around it?

For me, I’m starting to adjust myself to getting up earlier in the morning and trying to write then. I’m looking at a few other options to see if I can make the time I need without feeling like I’m cutting contact with the people I love, because while writing can be a lonely job, you need contact with people and a support network for the inevitable swings that writing brings.

I think this problem is particularly an issue when you work full time, because after that 8-10 hours a day are gone, there’s not many hours left to fit in everything else. To everyone with children, and spouses, I admire your dedication even more. I’m single, childless and still stress about time on a daily basis.

The truth of the matter is that there is no way to just magically ‘find’ time in your day like a discarded nickel found in the washing machine. You make time, you carve it out from the flesh of the day and you have to leave pieces behind because there just isn’t enough to go around. The important thing is to be aware of what you’re cutting out, and to take control of the hours you can free.

Writing Spaces

A writer’s space is one of the places he or she will spend the most time. While I know a lot of writers who tend to write in more public spaces like Starbucks (or other coffee shops) I also know a lot who work at a particular desk day after day. These desks tend to reflect a lot of the wrter within the space so I thought it would be neat to show what my writing space looks like.

The cork board is a new development, and so far it’s been a lot of fun to be able to pin various things that inspire me on the board and to use it to piece together ideas. I also have a large white board (not pictured) that I sketch things out on and keep track of everything on it, and it’s been one of the best investments I’ve made.

One of the biggest pieces in my desk area is an infographic of the 22 Rules of Storytelling from Pixar. It took saving up for a while to be able to get the strange sized poster framed, but it was totally worth it. This is probably my favorite thing hanging by my desk and when I’m staring into space I often read over those rules again and again. Sometimes it inspires me, and sometimes it helps me look at things in a new way. Regardless it always makes me happy. it’s a beautiful rendition of some incredibly helpful rules and it always fills me with wonder looking over them.

I also have one of my favorite pictures in the world, it’s when I met Neil Gaiman, and right before he told me it was “nice to meet a fellow author.” In the grand scheme of things I know this was a tiny, teeny little moment, but meeting him and hearing those words is often one of the things that keeps me up writing my words long after I should have been in bed.

I’ve got a folder of writing advice or references that I keep handy to look at while I’m working. There’s also a magical unicorn, because why not? I mean when are unicorns not the answer?

The newest addition is a small canvas that I painted with one of my favorite quotes put on it. “Done is better than perfect.” the picture reads, and it’s something I have to remind myself of regularly. I know getting caught up in the perpetual struggle for something to be perfect, and I often struggle with it, erasing word after word and making no real forward progress when I really should just be finishing my project. I have to remember that I can’t edit what’s not on the page and that words can be changed, but that I need to get the idea down on paper and then I can start picking at it and adjusting it.

I think that’s what the most important thing about every writer’s desk is that it has the power to inspire them. It’s filled with the things that inspire them, that keep them writing long after his or her energy has run out, and the day should be over. The desk is a place of work, of passion and imagination that requires effort and coorindation. I know I have a habit of redecorating somewhat frequently, but I’m happy to keep my desk almost the same, only with an occasional new item added in.

What’s your writing space look like?

Opportunity + Preparation = Luck

A few months ago I posted about putting a ban on the word luck, and I’ve been done pretty well with keeping my word and owning what I’ve done. Recently I saw an incredible quote that finally summed up what I felt about luck. It’s from a Business Insider article, and is something that Betty Liu heard from her television coach.

“Opportunity + Preparation = Luck” (hence the blog post title, I’m so clever)

You can be in the exact right place and meet the exact right person but if you’re not prepared then it’s for nothing. Imagine meeting a Hollywood executive looking for his/her next big movie option, and runs into you. You don’t have a screenplay written, you’ve just got a kind of half-formed idea. Even though you’re in the right place, things probably aren’t going to work out for you because you’re not prepared.

Luck comes to people who work hard and put themselves into positions to luck out. You’re never going to just get lucky and land a new job in a different field by sitting at home and never learning those skills you need. You’re never going to just happen to sell the next Harry Potter sitting at home never writing.

You have to put in the time and effort for all the pieces to fall into place.

Conning it up: Tips and tricks for an awesome con time!

I just returned from rocking my butt off at ConNooga this weekend with some of the most amazing friends a girl could hope for. Seriously, my convention family is incredible and I adore every single one of you.

Cons, for me, are a ton of fun and just about the most exhausting thing in the world. When you spend most of your time alone or with just a few people being in a situation where you’re suddenly surrounded by thousands of people can be overwhelming. Especially when you’re on and working the whole weekend.

Yes, at conventions I’m working, connecting with readers, writers, publishers, and friends. From the moment I get there until the moment I go back home, I’m on and working. What that means is smiling, answering questions, and interacting with people. As an introvert with some serious anxiety issues, it can be incredibly difficult.

Over the years I’ve gotten better. I no longer hide in my room between panels, or eat alone, or go to bed as soon as my last panel is over. I talk to strangers, don’t let one jerk ruin the weekend, and I stay out and interact with people (which includes occasionally uncomfortable, creepy situations). I also have fewer moments of ‘Oh god why am I here with all these incredibly talented people when I am a potato’  which helps as well. I figured that now was as good a time as any to share a couple of things I’ve learned over the years and see if maybe it can help anyone else have a better time.

1. Have a comfort group

Have a person (or a few people) that you can go to when you get overwhelmed and that calm you down. This can be a friend, a mentor, etc. It’s great when you have a table near this person, but that doesn’t always happen. I’m fortunate to have built up a great network of people that make me feel safe and I can go to them when I get frazzled and get my head right again. I also have a great group of people who remind me that I have a right to be here and that my point of view is valuable.

2. Take some time before your panel

Panels scare the ever-loving daylight out of me. The thought of something stupid coming out of my mouth gives me nightmares weeks before I even get to a convention. But they’re also one of my favorite things because I love helping people. So, before most panels I try to find a chance to escape to the bathroom and do the wonder woman pose in a stall for a few seconds. There’s an awesome Ted Talk that explains more about this, but it helps me feel more confident. I also try to make a conscious effort to not cross my arms or slouch. If I project confidence long enough, I start to feel confident again. I often stand with my hands on my hips behind my table or twirl from side to side to work off my anxious energy. It makes people laugh, but it helps me feel better.

3. Study the convention before you go

Knowing who is going to be there and where it’s going to be can help immensely. Learning that a convention is at a hotel you’ve been to before makes it less frightening (especially for me because I have zero sense of direction and get lost in my own neighborhood frequently). Make a list of addresses you need to know (hotel, convention center, gas station, restaurant, etc.) and keep them in your pocket or purse.

Also, don’t be afraid to reach out to people who are going to the same convention. This is especially true if you’re a guest and don’t know anyone. Email some of the other guests, introduce yourself, and make plans to meet up there! For me, talking to someone on social media first is awesome and way less frightening than talking to a stranger in person.

4. Know when you need a moment

Going to hide in the bathroom or your room when you get overwhelmed is okay! The point is to come back out and get at it again as soon as you can. Take a few deep breaths, and try to calm down. Try listening to your favorite song, reading something you love, or just going on a walk. It’s okay to freak out, but the point is to not let it conquer you.

5. Don’t let one thing ruin your weekend

At some conventions I have unfortunate encounters with creepers who make it difficult to enjoy anything after it’s happened. What I’ve found works for me is to take a walk with a friend, get out of the area, go get food (or drinks or nothing). The movement helps calm me back down and reminding myself that awesome people way outnumber the creeps helps me remember why I’m here and that at the end of the day I love conventions and the wacky, awesome family I’ve found in them.

6. Play pretend

Sometimes when I go to conventions I pretend I’m someone else. I pretend to be a really outgoing, boisterous, confident person. I wear outrageous clothes, talk loud and play pretend like when I was a kid and would pretend to be a power ranger. By the end of the weekend, I’m ready to take that persona off, but it can get me through the convention. I have a particular skirt, and a particular pair of shoes that ‘transform’ me into this persona and when I’m really worried about shrinking away at a convention I’ll wear those and fake it till I make it in the confidence field.

7. Remember everyone else is nervous too

Almost every person you meet at a convention is nervous about it. I’ve even had someone nervous about talking to me (to me!!) and it’s strange to suddenly realize that no one is perfect and always confident. This weekend I heard a New York Times bestselling author say that they felt like at any moment someone was going to realize a mistake had been made and come take everything from them. That’s a feeling I fight through every day, and realizing even the people you admire fight that battle is incredibly comforting.

You’re not alone with your fear, we’re all wrestling with it too.

I hope maybe that helps someone else, and if you have any tips or ideas I’d love to hear them!

Spiffy Gidgets, Gadgets and Gizmos for Writers

So the title here is a little bit of a lie since some of these things aren’t gidgets, gadgets or gizmos, but are instead just websites that I find really cool or helpful.

This post is a long time in the making, and it’s basically a list of things, places, and things that I’ve fond helpful in my own writing and wanted to pass along. Share the wealth and all that jazz, right?

First off is the Aqua Pad which is insanely cool. Showers are one of the places where I get a ton of ideas, and trying to write something down while sopping wet and covered in soap doesn’t go so well  as I have learned after several failed attempts to get an idea onto a notepad while in the shower. The Aqua pad lets you do just this, writing while IN THE SHOWER.

Second is a fantastic website (and now an app!!) Coffitivity. I know a lot of people love writing in a coffee shop but that can get expensive after your third $3 mochai chai dance party latte. This is a great way to save money, but still get the soothing ambient sound of a coffee shop.

Nex up is another website, 750Words which I’ve written about before. They will track your writing, and help you meet the goal of writing 750 words a day. What’s incredible about this is that it will track how long it takes you to reach those words, how many times you were distracted, as well as commonly used words and the emotional tone of the piece. All in all, really awesome and amazing if you like stats!

If you haven’t read On Writing yet then you’re missing out on one of the best books about writing the craft behind it. Whether you’re a fan of Stephen King’s stories or not, the book has an incredible amount of insight and help for writers at all levels.

Another book that has been incredibly helpful is Save the Cat. While it’s mainly discussing screenplays, the prinicipals behind story telling can apply to almost any medium. I loved this from beginning to end and think everyone could use reading this.

The last helpful spot on the internet is Terrible Minds a blog put out by the awesometastic Chuck Wendig. His posts on writing are helpful, funny, and NSFW. The best of all worlds! He also has a ton of  books out on writing, and just some incredible stories. You should go buy them all!

 

Now that I’ve shared a few of my favorite places and things tell me some of yours. I could always use new gidgets, gadgets and gizmos!

Done is better than perfect

So the incredible Chuck Wendig recently wrote a blog post about The Days When You Don’t Feel Like Writing and, as usual, hit the nail straight on the head and sent it spiraling into another dimension of baddassery and amazingness.

Writing every day, especially on the days when you don’t feel up for it, has changed how I get work done. The days when every word is like trying to pull teeth from a live, hungry great white are the ones that matter the most. If you can write on those days, you can write anytime, anywhere. And you start to believe that. That’s power right there.

I use to make excuses for why I didn’t get any words on paper, but that just it made it easier to continue to skip days of writing because I ‘didn’t feel like it’ and just didn’t want to.

What I’ve realized is that when I come back to edit my work I don’t usually notice what was written on the days when I was pulling teeth and the days I was really feeling it. They all need editing, reworking and pulling together to become cohesive. Nothing shows up perfect.

It’s actually one of the new things I’ve started telling myself “done is better than perfect” because you can’t edit a draft that doesn’t exist yet, you can’t publish a book that was never written.

So write whether you’re feeling it or not. Write when you have the time, whether you want to write or not, because at the end of he the day no one is going to pinpoint the moment you struggled in your writing of the first draft.

Get it done, and then worry about everything else.