Lisa Williams's Blog, page 2

Australian Zoo!

Wow… wow… wow!!!

All I am going to say, is that!!  We have had an amazing time traveling and meeting the most wonderful people but today was the highlight of the whole trip! We went to the Australian Zoo! What an incredible place and Holly was like a little kid.  We had no idea what was planned for us, and we thought we would just go through the zoo on our own, checking it out and paying tribute to the late Steve Irwin… but no. We had a whole behind the scenes, VIP tour planned for us. 

We were met by Hannah who was ready with her golf buggy and off we went.  Both Holly and I are massive Steve Irwin fans, and I remember exactly where I was when I heard the news that he had passed away.  We didn't know the story as to how he became involved with the Australian zoo, but we found out it was his parents and it started on 4 acres and he and Terri bought it and expanded and expanded it to what it is now, which is an incredible place for animals and wildlife.  You can see the passion that the whole family had for nature and animals and as we were escorted from different places you could feel the energy.  

You could sense that the animals were happy and free.  Even the birds that were in the demonstration were flying around the zoo… it was funny to see the keepers trying to call them in and they were not playing ball… they wanted to fly and be free for a while and so thats what they did! 

We got to feed so many animals but the highlight for Holly was when she got to hold a Koala… when I asked her to come to australia with me, she said… "Only if I get to hold a Koala" and today was the day! And she was overwhelmed with emotion.  For me… was holding the 17 kilo python…. well I never really held it… Holly had the head, I felt safe with the tail but even so it was a big deal for me. 

What an amazing place, and we had a great time.  The passion for the animals really came through and you can see how Steve wanted the whole place to be a place for everyone to learn about nature and wildlife.  Holly and I both commented on how wonderful that you can see this clearly.  Its amazing when you experience the passion that others have.  So lets think about it. What are you passionate about?  Are you doing enough to bring that passion out?  Could you do more?

When you find your passion its incredible how you bring it in to your life. Feel what you are passionate about with every cell of your body and go with it and believe that you can achieve anything! 

Sending lots of love from Cairns where we have just arrived, tired and still smelling of Koala but blissfully happy!

With love

Lisa xx

How can we help?

It's a time of need at them moment for many people and as Holly and I watched the news that was unfolding on the TV a few days ago to witness Christchurch, a beautiful city which has been turned to ruin, and a site of devastation and destruction, it takes us to a place of being thankful. 

It did for me. 

When we arrived in Christchurch a little over a week ago, Holly said to me, that she didn't want to be a on a high floor as she feared that there would be another quake. We were put on the 13th floor of all things.  Sometimes knowing information can be really hard and you never know what you can do with it.  Who would listen to you?  I remember seeing 9/11 and Princess Diana's death… but who do you tell and who would listen.  Sadly you don't have specifics about when this information is going to come about.  Sometimes you see things a long time before anything happens, and then it could be only days before. 

Either way, it's not easy knowing things like this, and it certainly freaked Holly out when we were watching it on TV. 

What it took me to, is that we are having a lot of natural disasters which are hitting the world.  The floods, the cyclones in this part of the world where I am at the moment are only mentioning a few.  Yet what it brings is a togetherness and healing.  It brings people together of all walks of life to help.  They bond over the destruction.  Its sad but true. 

I watched how work mates helped each other from the rubble, and how strangers gave a helping hand to those in need.  How doctors came running and gathered supplies to help the injured from stores and cars, and how many people didn't go home until they knew that their friends were safe.  Something like this brings out the good in everyone, you rush to do what you can, and help out in the small ways. 

In a way it's healing but we can do without this.  Something I often question, I don't have all the answers and many think I do because I have a direct link to spirit, however, I wonder if the world was united in it's healing and we come together, would these disasters happen?  It is the universes way to get us to love and help each other? It's possible.  

So lets pretend that, that is the case, why not come together with love, and share this. Respect each others opinions and understand the pain that is caused.  Lets stop over reacting to petty issues and look at the bigger picture.  Be aware of what message we are projecting out and making it our reality.  Its something that I have talked about for so long, however listening to Holly and her making me aware of things, I've taken it to another level and changed my life again for the better. 

We can all do it.  We can all have an effect on everyone around us.  Those random acts of kindness we share, opening a door, being someone a coffee, helping a stranger. Just a smile can make someones day!  These are the things that we can all do to make a change and share the love in the world.  It's been a journey of this, and someone recently at the Melbourne show, gave me some 'Ripple cards' and they do just that. They have random acts of kindness on them, and messages just to share with others.  I loved the concept, and now in the wake of this earthquake it's become more apparent that we have to share the love and help others. 

So think about the love that you have, and what you want in your life.  Bring it in and project it to others, and who knows it could change the world!

There is something comforting about a Teddy Bear!

We have just finished the New Zealand Leg of the tour and we are back in Australia, Melbourne in fact.  We are looking out to the lights of the city, where a world is moving fast but in this room, the time has stood still.  What a joy it is to be in one place for the next few days.  Being away is hard but I am so thankful and grateful that Holly is able to travel with me.  She looked at me and just took over and took care of everything.  I was told not to work, just relax… and here I am blogging!!! Tut tut.

However when we arrived we went up to the lounge and a lovely Scottish woman gave us a Teddy Bear… and it just reminded me of the simple things in life that make everything okay.  The simple life is something that many of us crave for, me included, and having Holly around has certainly made my life a lot less chaotic… The things that make me happy, is knowing that I have the support of Holly in everything that I do, hearing Charlie's laugh, having my friends and family to laugh with, crawling into bed to watch a movie and snuggle and knowing that I am loved by someone very special in my life.  These are the simple things that make my life complete. 

Everyone is different, we all have different needs, and wants and desires. But when it comes down to basic needs, we all just need to be loved.  But we have to love too.  We get what we give out and that is what we have to remember as I have said many times before.  

So when you are rushing around from place to place, working against the clock, take a moment just to reflect on what it is that makes you happy.  What simple thing can you do for yourself or someone else to make everything okay!

Sending love around the world from Holly and I

Lisa xx

People are the same where ever you go

I have to say that kicking off the New Zealand tour has been incredible.  Holly and I have both been sick and that could be because of the jet lag and not having any time to get over it, before the media tour started.  But like troopers we carried on with the job at hand, being smiley and having fun.  And what fun we have had. 

I have to say that being in New Zealand has been like being back home in the UK…. everything about it, has an English vibe and I love it.  Many people ask me what it is about the tour that I love, and it's always one thing.  The people! I can travel all around the world and see different sights and experience different things, which of course is incredible in it's self. But for me it's the people.  

People are what make it for me, and Holly and I were discussing this recently that no matter where we go, every one seems to be so great.  You meet people along the way, and then you meet others who you have met before.  Tonight in the meet and greet with the members it was like seeing old friends again.  I loved it!!!

But what I have noticed is that you get back what you put out there. And that is what we both have surrounded our selves with.  If you put out great vibes you get it back and that includes great people.  So what we have to remember is that what ever you project you will receive that back. Some would say that that is karma, others would say that you are setting an intention.  However you see it or call it… it's true. 

Treat each other how you would want to be treated.  Put out the energy that you want to receive and you will find that you will get it all back.  Yes of course there will always be those who want to poo poo your happiness, but thats there issue. You can choose to ignore them, or you can choose to react. Whatever you do, you are creating the energy.  So think carefully before you act, or react and think carefully about what you say when you get angry… because those words or actions could one day "bite you in the bum" as I would say!

Off to Palmerston North now… it's strange to be leaving Auckland, but I'm happy to be back on stage doing what I love. 

Much love 

Lisa xx

PS. If you are a member and coming to one of the shows, we are now offering a new FREE service where we will take your picture and you can download it from the site.  I know many of you have attended shows before and gotten blurred photos, so hopefully this way you can get a happy snap and your eyes are open and you are smiling and it's not blurred!! :)

Believing in yourself!

As I start to gear up towards the Australian and NZ tour it takes me back to 2009 when my parents came with me.  It was a bitter sweet tour in so many ways but one of the most memorable moments was when my dad came to me a the end of the Auckland date and told me he finally believed in my gift. 

It was incredible.  He hadn't believed for years and it was something that was always an issue.  He used to ask me when I was going to get a proper job and I would laugh, but it was something that I needed to hear, after so long that he accepted what I did. 

Now I am heading back to the same places and I'm not faced with my fathers views but I do know that there are a lot of skeptics out there.  But to me that isn't an issue because it's about being true to myself and knowing that I am doing something that helps so many people and that they get closure and comfort from the connections that I give. 

I was actually watching the edits of Lisa Williams Live, season two and watching the readings even blew me away with the information that I was given, especially when you watch the post show interviews.  As I was watching I could see how people would question what I do and they would question how I get my information. 

Having said that, it's not easy to get the information through and you do have to give what you get... and trust in yourself. 

So next time you doubt yourself or someone doubts you, stop and feel your emotions... are you believe true to yourself... but all you have to do is believe in yourself and know that if it feels right for you, then it's right and you cannot move away from that fact. 

So start believing in yourself and owning what you feel!

Sending lots of love, and Holly and I are heading to Tucson tomorrow for the Gem show, and we are getting new stones and crystals, so watch out for lots of goodies coming your way!

Have a great weekend

Lisa xx

Sometimes you just have to give love back!

It's been a while since I blogged and as much as I love blogging there have also been some issues that have kept me away. 

But then I sat today and thought, why should others keep me away from doing something I really love.  And yes I do love blogging and sharing my life with you, as you have always supported my gift and encouraged the journey that I am on. With that said I want to thank you!

Negative people really can get a hold of you, but you have to turn it around and make a change. Those people who fire negative comments are those who are jealous of you. Jealous of who you are, what you may do for a living, who your friends are and who you decide to be in a relationship with. 

I have had to deal with jealousy all my life.  I don't like dealing with it, as it's an emotion that is not worth any energy.  But because I have this gift there are others who are ready to put you down, and then with the added situation of having a book and a TV show... thats when people start firing on all cyclinders.  It's so sad to see that happen. 

But what you can't do is control what others do, but you can decide on how you are going to act. This is the one thing that was the hardest lesson for me over the years.  That is not to let it get to you.  Sadly over the last 5 years I have had to grow a very thick skin... and to learn NOT to google yourself!!! hahaha

My mother has a great philsophy and she always says one thing when I tell her if someone is bothering me, "Just ignore them" and it's true and has worked in a lot of cases.  However there are times that you also have to face things.  But the jealously is something that I am choosing not to face, I am not going to act, I will deal with it accordingly.  Other issues I will face, and I will face them head on. I have learnt to have a voice and speak my mind and will continue to do so if I have to, but for those people who are negative and make negative comments I will take my mom's advice :)

So I am back, I will possibly make a change and go back to blogging on my website but until now... I'm here and I'm not going anywhere!

So when you find that someone is talking negative about you, stop and instead of reacting, ask yourself if they have cause to do so and if they don't then could they be jealous of something that you have in your life.  Then react in a way that you see fit. If people see that it doesn't get to you then you will find that it will stop.  It's not easy but shower them with love because it's clear that they are lacking something in their life and love will always conquer all!

Sending love out to everyone!

Lisa xx

 

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year.  It's been a crazy 2010 and I know that 2011 will be so much better and not only for me personally but for others.  I spoke about Adam Eliot who said to me, that 2010 would be a mad year and that 2011 would be so much better, and he was right and now I am looking forward to all that 2011 brings. 

It's about setting intentions.  Every New Year we set a new years resolution and we try to stick to it and often by the end of January we have reverted back into old routines and actions, and we don't realize that we do it.  But what we have to do is set the intention.  That is something that we want to happen.  I remember doing just that back in August, I set the intention to meet some one who would love me unconditionally.  I looked out over the ocean in Malibu and put that intention out there.  I knew that if someone was to love me then they would also take on my son too and not set conditions.  And that person walked into my life.  Little did I know that they were already in my life, but I never saw them that way.  That person was Holly!  

So by setting the intention it happened.  But you have to mean it.  You have to want it within your soul, not just your head.  That is often a place where New Years Resolutions come from. We want to lose weight, stop smoking, find a new job, but if we don't believe it and set the intention to know that we can do it, it will never happen. So you have to think carefully about what you want and you have to release the old to let in the new.  I did just that.  Many of you may remember me burning photos and memories to make room for new ones last year and look at how the year ended… I am happy with love and someone who loves me and my son unconditionally.  

So I know that 2011 is going to be amazing as I am setting the intention now… I set the intention when the New Year began.  So far it has been! 

So know that you can change anything in your life with belief, love and intention and watch the rest unfold, as if you truly believe, it will happen. 

Happy New Year everyone!!!

Lisa xx

The gift of love

Sometimes its the most simplest of things that can create a lasting memory. 

This year I lost one of my closest friends to cancer. Her name was Elaine Saller, and she had this incredible infectious personality that you would just love to be around.  Many of you may remember my tribute to her back in April. 

Well the Saturday after her passing, her daughter and I sat and drank champagne out of the glasses that I had bought for her mom at Christmas. It's a funny story.

This time last year I went to Elaine and told her I had gotten her christmas gift and that it was in the car, she beamed and said, "Oh Lisa I found the best gift for you but I can't get to the stores because I can't risk going out and catching something while I am doing chemo, but I want to tell you what I want to get you" The gift she wanted to give me was exactly what I had bought her... swarovski crystal stemmed champagne glasses. 

I had the already in the car and we both said that once she had bought mine we would swap gifts... Sadly it never happened and I opened the gift in February when I knew she wasn't going to win her battle. 

So when her daughter and I drank champagne of course we had to use the glasses!  I washed mine carefully and placed it to dry. About 10 minutes later the glass fell over and the crystals went flying around the kitchen.  I panicked and picked up every single one of them. It was as if Elaine was saying "huh... you only drink champagne with me out of those glasses" and it's remained that way ever since. I only have one left and I have never drank out of it again!

I kept the crystals thinking I would do something with them and never did... 

I was preparing lunch for our friends today and Holly came home from work and called me into the bedroom and said that she had a gift for me.  From around her neck she pulled out a silver handmade heart pendant that hung down by the heart chakra which held all the swarovski crystals that came out of that champagne glass that day. "The party can't start without Elaine" were her words and I cried like a baby!

I am very blessed to have someone so caring and thoughtful and full of love in my life, who never thinks of herself but always someone else.  She is talented and creative and wonderful.  

But it made me think about all the things that we can get in life, some of life's luxuries but it's the simple things in life that can make us happy. The love that we have, the smile that we put on someone elses face and the ability to make someone laugh.  It's these small things that make it all worth while. 

So while this time is often about giving and receiving, why not just give a gift of love... not through a gift but just telling them what you feel inside.  

Thank you all for listening I couldn't wait to share my story!

With love

Lisa xx

The picture below is of my crystal heart that Holly made this morning for me.  www.hollyriddel.com

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Positive passion!

You know it never ceases to amaze me how many people waste energy on something that they don't believe in.  I was just reading through some emails and I saw a google alert for my name and normally I never look but I did and it was for a skeptic's group who meet up and talk about the so called frauds that are around in this world of spirituality. 

I learnt a long time ago not to read articles or to google myself but it was interesting what they were saying, and as I read the comments, half of them hadn't even been to see a medium at work, so what they were basing their information on was not on factual information just something that they believed in.  However the fact that they meet up to talk about this monthly shocked me. 

Why waste energy on something that is negative. However to them it could be positive and they are hoping to change the world. 

My father taught me how to deal with skeptics.  He was a huge skeptic until he travel australia and NZ with me and hunted for the hidden microphones and ear pieces and also listened to the audience members. It was hard for me to grow up in a world where my own father didn't believe but I got used to his comments. But when he came to me and told me he believed, it was a huge shock!!! And it was to other people also. 

We have to have passion on life but we have to have positive passion. Not constantly knocking someone who is just trying to help others in their time of need. Or to help others develop their own gifts.  To me that is negative. We have to just accept that we are all different and that we want different things in life and we all have different beliefs.  If we focus on what we want and how we can make a difference for our higher good and for the good of others then that is more positive.  Share the love and healing around. The support and compassion, that is what is better than being negative.  

Be passionate bout healing others and helping them to grow. Especially around this time of year when others need hope and love. 

Sending lots of love and hugs your way for the holidays!!!

Lisa xx

So much change :)

It's amazing how much can change in a year! It's not been the easiest year but I don't think it has for anyone. I remember adam eliot an astrologer who gave me a reading last year, and he said you will want 2010 to end and that I wouldn't be happy romantically until October 2010. 

Well when you are told this back in 2009, you kind of think... wow what is going to happen and really can I wait until then!! haha I used to say to clients that it's only a short period of time to happiness when they used to say the same to me when I gave them a psychic reading. 

But it's true there are something that are worth waiting for and then there are others that I just to say to people, 'If I could just put you to sleep for the next XXX amount of time and then wake you up, it will be fine'.  But sometimes we have to go through these things to grow and learn and understand. 

It was ironic how last week symbolized a huge new beginning and being without internet... AGAIN was a blessing. Because when you are stressed you can easily wrap yourself up in mindless things to take you away from the situation. However I didn't. 

We moved the office (the mailing address remains the same if you are wondering) and also house, which was something that needed to be done. But I was thinking back to what Adam said, and it was October that I was finally in the relationship that I wanted to be in and HAPPY... in fact beyond happy, and so is Charlie and it was last week that my divorce was final.  So there were so many things that I am grateful for. 

My new relationship has opened my eyes to many things, but most of all accepting who you are and also respecting yourself.  It's been a long time since I felt like I had someone in my corner and now I do.  You would think that coming out to people and telling them that you are in a same sex relationship with someone is the hardest thing, but it isn't, it's actually showing people that you are no longer going to be a pushover and that you are respecting yourself.  

And respecting myself meant that I had to tell people my feelings towards Holly my partner, but also to let people know that I can be strong and have a voice. I wasn't heard for a long time and I felt I had a voice like a mouse always hiding behind someone but now it's important for me to be heard, and it's the same for everyone. We all deserve to have the opinion and let others hear it. Some may not like what they are hearing then there are others who will value what you are saying and they will respect that you are standing up for what you believe in. 

Holly has done just that, she has shown me that you have to stand up for yourself and be true, and it's not always the easiest pathway, but it's the true pathway.  Charlie also pointed it out. We were all discussing an issue that I wasn't happy about and he said, "Mom, why don't you just tell them" and I thought, you know, he's right! And so I did, and I felt so much better about it. Yes it had to fester a little but the more it did the more I felt strong enough to do something about it. 

So it's time for us all to face things that we know we have to, it could be contacting that person that we have been putting off for so long, it could be saying sorry, or it could be standing up for something you believe in.  What ever it is, it's going to make you feel better.  Once you voice it, it's out there in the universe, and it's done... how other want to react is up to them. 

Be strong and know that you are doing what is right for you!

Hugs and love

Lisa xx