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An LGBTQIA+ Guide to Hippie Hollow, Texas’ Only Official Nude Park

The thought of nude beaches tends to come with assumed prerequisites of having liberated cultures and a local air of cultural progress. So Texas’ Hippie Hollow Park, with deep blue waters in the heart of a deep red state, doesn’t exactly feel like a natural spot for skinny dipping.

But the fantastically queer and welcoming hideaway of the state park offers a peek behind the collective assumptions many make about Texas. On the same lake where a makeshift armada of “Trump” flag-waving boats sank before the 2020 election, LGBTQIA+ Texans continue to strip down and get up to a gay old time at the only nude public park in Texas.

The best time to visit Hippie Hollow, Texas

 

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There’s no real wrong time to visit Texas’ Hippie Hollow, as the state only occasionally gets a cold snap. The crisp waters of the lake offer a welcome reprieve during the rest of the year when the heat returns for the remaining seasons: pre-summer, summer, and post-summer. When the temperature sits above 100 degrees Fahrenheit, having somewhere to take it all off without scrutiny is a welcome reprieve.

Both Pride Months (the city of Austin officially celebrates pride in August) also offer plenty of reasons to make way to the nude beach. With events both big and small, size doesn’t matter when it comes to partying among the queer community.

How to get there

Like most of the state’s destinations, the primary way to get to Hippie Hollow is on the open road. If coming from Austin, the most direct and scenic option is Route 2222; the drive takes about 35 minutes. Easy enough to remember, this windy pathway leads motorists out of the city and into the country.

Hippie Hollow is also doable as a day trip from San Antonio at about a 90-minute drive. But if you’re coming from further away towns like Dallas (three hours), you’ll probably want to stay overnight nearby.

Hippie Hollow Park: 7000 Comanche Trail, Austin, TX 78732

About Lake Travis

The many coves along the shore of Lake Travis make it one of the more popular lakes along Texas’ Colorado River. Photo: Trong Nguyen/Shutterstock

Lake Travis is a favorite among the Texas Highland Lakes, a group of artificial lakes created by dams on the Colorado River. For those with a keen sense of geography, this isn’t an odd offshoot of the more famous Colorado River: It’s a separate waterway in Texas that feeds into the Gulf of Mexico. The bodies of blue waters start deeper in the Texas Hill Country with Lake Buchanan, and end with the river-like Ladybird Lake, abutting downtown Austin.

Lake Travis is the second largest of the Highland Lakes and is known as a quick getaway for Austinites. It bends and forms several coves with sprawling lake houses looming large over the water, and has a surface area of close to 30 square miles. Many people think the destination and its several parks are best viewed from The Oasis, a perched dining complex with multiple patios and bars. It’s a locally famous spot for spectacular views and okay food. Sipping a margarita while watching the sun set over the lake from 450 feet above is well-worth slightly lowering your usually high foodie standards.

Hippie Hollow State Park is just over a mile north of the Oasis and is officially a nude park. The whole area has been unofficially nude since the 1950s (hence the name “Hippie Hollow,”) but was officially made into a park in 1985.  It’s open 9 AM to 8:30 PM, with the last admission at 8 PM. Entry fees are $8 for adults or $3 for seniors, payable by cash only. As with all state parks in Texas, admission is free for disabled veterans.

Hippie Hollow’s LGBTQIA+ connection

 

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When the invisible happened is up for debate, but long before the state turned Hippie Hollow into a park, the eastern half had been unofficially designated the “gay” side. From the parking lot, where visitors are greeted with large signs warning of the possibility of seeing nude bathers (along with a reminder that this park is exclusively for ages 18 and older), the trails leading east wind their way to the queer cove. While no one on the “straight” side would ever police queer visitors from being on the west side, the long-standing tradition means guests on the east end can relax even more, knowing their fellow nudists are likely members of the LGBTQIA+ community.

Events at Hippie Hollow, Texas

 

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There are a couple of events held at Hippie Hollow for queer people, but there is one to rule them all. And it’s Splash Days.

Splash Days

Splash Days is an iconic way to kick off Pride. It starts on Memorial Day weekend with a four-day version of MTV’s Spring Break from the 1990s – but if Carson Kressley hosted it instead of Carson Daly.

The penultimate day on Sunday is when queer people invade the lake and take over the beach, with parties starting in the parking lot. Boats and barges hang anchor, and party goers often begin on the beach and before hopping onto boats. The parking lot fills up early, and the best way to sail into this swimsuit-less hangout is by finding a boat to take you. So be sure to mention your love for sailing during the parties beforehand to land a captain with room for you to board – potentially wearing a life vest only.

Otter Fest

In mid-July (July 13, for 2024), party boats will swarm the shores at Hippie Hollow, Texas, for more queer partying in the buff during Otter Fest. Embracing the furrier side of gay men, this furry fun time is open to everyone regardless of gender or body hair status. But it’s the perfect event for stripping down and embracing the fuzz, especially for those who might normally feel ashamed of their hair.

Hippie Hollow Takeover by Queer Black Women Alliance

Happening on August 25, the Queer Black Women Alliance will celebrate Austin Pride by taking over Hippie Hollow. The non-profit has the goal of lifting up queer Black women in a state actively putting them down, and hosts these takeovers as a means of promoting body positivity and improving self-image by stripping down as much as every attendee would like.

Where to stay near Hippie Hollow, Texas

Several rental homes are available close to Hippie Hollow and The Oasis restaurant. Photo: Roschetzky Photography/Shutterstock

Lake Travis is an easy drive from the city of Austin in case you’d like to stay in a downtown Airbnb, but there are also fantastic stays closer to Hippie Hollow, ranging from rustic to luxurious.

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The Magical Cabin

Anyone who wants that classic “lakeside cabin” vibe, but with an interior design ready for Dwell Magazine, should descend upon this property and snag a night or more at the Magical Cabin. Shingled and ready to mingle, this wood-lover’s haven in the hills has fantastic lake views and direct access to the park via a quick wooded hike. It sleeps up to four guests, and summer rates are around $285 a night.

Miraval Austin Resort & Spa

For those who never say “budget,” the Miraval is the ultimate luxurious lakeview resort. On a hilltop with an infinity pool looking over Lake Travis, this wellness-heavy resort is all-inclusive (a rarity in the United States!) The splurge may feel worth it to soak up the organic good vibes before heading down to Hippie Hollow to relax in the sun on your soulful sojourn.

Peace Retreat Tiny House

Across the lake from Hippie Hollow is this cozy tiny house that saves space and cash as an affordable getaway that doesn’t sacrifice style. The lakefront house has a balcony overlooking a secluded cove, and the lofted sleeping space is as cozy as can be. It’s dog-friendly, and guests also get free use of kayaks and stand-up paddleboards. Rates are around $100 per night in the summer.

What to wear to Hippie Hollow, Texas

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It may seem paradoxical to include a clothing section in a guide to a nude beach, though you do need to be dressed in the parking lot before entering the park. But there’s one article of clothing that’s highly recommended for wearing beyond the entrance gate: water shoes. Water shoes can be a lifesaver on the jagged rocks and razor-sharp zebra mussels that can hide out of view but be a huge pain. And it’s a bit of a rocky walk down to the water to reach the actual beach within the park. While it means not being completely in the buff, your feet will thank you for not completely baring it all.

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The 30 Most Bike-Friendly Cities in the US in 2024

Non-profit advocacy group People For Bikes this week released its ratings of the most bike-friendly cities in the US and around the world. More than 2,500 cities received a ranking this year, nearly 40 percent of which were included for the first time. The group’s Bicycle Network Analysis ranks cities on a scale of 0 to 100 across what the group has dubbed its “SPRINT” criteria: safe speeds, protected bike lanes, reallocated space for biking and walking, intersection treatments, network connections, and trusted data.

Among small cities – those with a population under 50,000 – Mackinac Island, Michigan, came out on top with a score of 99.

No medium-sized or large city scored about a 78, with that score going to Davis, California. That’s not to say there aren’t great metropolitan areas for biking, however. Minneapolis (score 71), Seattle (65), and San Francisco (61), which topped the charts for cities above 300,000 people, each is undergoing significant infrastructure projects to make biking easier. Factors including sprawl, traffic, and longer commuting distances make it difficult for big cities to score as highly as smaller ones. Other cities known for being bike-friendly like Portland, Oregon, and New York City, failed to score even a 60, despite having vast networks of dedicated bike lanes.

Cities in The Netherlands dominated the group’s international rankings, topped by The Hague at 89 and Utrecht, Amsterdam, Almere, and Eindhoven also making the top 10. The Belgian cities of Brussles and Leuven, Paris and Lyon, France, and Munich, Germany, also made the cut.

Here are the final rankings:

Small Cities ( under 50,000 residents)

Mackinac Island, Michigan: 99Provincetown, Massachusetts: 96Harbor Springs, Michigan: 92Springdale, Utah: 89Washburn, Wisconsin: 89Fort Yates, North Dakota: 88Crested Butte, Colorado: 87Blue Diamond, Nevada: 85Murdock, Nebraska: 84Sewanee, Tennessee: 83

Medium Cities (50,000-300,000 residents)

Davis, California: 78Cambridge, Massachusetts: 72Berkeley, California: 71Boulder, Colorado: 70Corvallis, Oregon: 70Ankeny, Iowa: 70Ames, Iowa: 66Anchorage, Alaska: 64Hoboken, New Jersey: 62Grand Forks, North Dakota: 61

Large Cities (300,000+ residents)

Minneapolis, Minnesota: 71Seattle, Washington: 65San Francisco, California: 64St. Paul, Minnesota: 61Portland, Oregon: 59Philadelphia, Pennsylvania: 58New York City, New York: 56Washington, D.C.: 46Denver, Colorado: 46Milwaukee, Wisconsin: 46 More like thisCyclingNewly Bike-Friendly Cities Want to Stay That Way Post Pandemic

Traveling to Italy? Italian Law Requires You Always Have Your Passport on You

We’re well-practiced at carrying our driver’s licenses in the US, but it might surprise you that there are countries in Europe where it is illegal to venture out without your passport.

While it might be rare to be stopped and issued a ticket, Italian law mandates that all citizens and foreign visitors must carry a valid form of identification at all times. For non-EU citizens, this means a passport – the only official document that proves your nationality and immigration status. Your US driver’s license will not suffice.

While the enforcement of this law may vary, it’s important to note that police in Italy have the authority to conduct random checks. If you fail to produce your passport, you could face a fine or even a brief detention.

Carrying your passport everywhere presents a security concern, particularly in crowded areas with a higher risk of pickpocketing. Italy recently topped the list of Quotezone’s European Pickpocketing Index, which pulled data from reviews of the top five tourist attractions in each European country left by visitors on TripAdvisor. Popular Italian tourist attractions like the Colosseum and Trevi Fountain in Rome and the Gallerie Degli Uffizi in Florence saw the highest number of pickpocketing mentions in online reviews.

Of course, there are things you can do to help keep your documents safe, such as wearing a secure money belt or hidden pouch to keep your passport close and minimize the chance of theft. You might also consider carrying a photocopy of your passport or a digital copy on your phone, keeping the original in a hotel safe. This might be acceptable to some police officers, but it’s not a guaranteed solution and taking that risk is ultimately yours.

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The Italy Travel Reddit forum discusses travelers’ experiences. Many commenters mentioned that tourists are asked to produce passports for proof of the children’s age at some of Italy’s main sites, such as the Vatican. You’ll also need an ID to take the train, even for a day trip within the country.

“On travel days, we needed our passports at the train station in Naples. There were roving police checking passports at the Naples terminal. We were checked twice in a fifteen-minute period,” says one commenter who visited Italy last summer.

In another community thread on the European advice blog Rick Steve’s Europe, an American told of their experience on a private wine-tasting tour.

“We were pulled over by the local polizia at a routine traffic stop,” they write. “Even though our guide was driving, the officer requested the ID of one of the passengers. Luckily, we all had our passports because I insisted that everyone have theirs on their person at all times,” the commenter continues.

Ultimately, what might happen — nothing, a fine, or detention — will depend on the person in authority who pulls you over. However, if you are questioning whether it’s a legal requirement to carry your passport while on vacation in Italy, the answer is yes: always have your passport on your person.

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This New Haven Hotel Offers the Country’s Most Eco-Friendly Accommodations

For almost two decades, a hulking concrete block stood vacant on the New Haven harborside steps from Yale University. Engineered by the modernist architect and furniture designer Marcel Breuer, this Brutalist landmark served as the headquarters for Armstrong Tires in the 1970s before being inherited by Pirelli.

Abandoned and facing demolition, Connecticut-born and based developer Bruce Becker saw the potential. Snapping up the deeds, the owner of Becker + Becker set about reconfiguring the monolith as a supercharged luxury hotel with a touch of Bauhaus and earth-friendly credentials.

“Hotel Marcel was created through the adaptive reuse of the iconic Brutalist Pirelli Building,” Becker told Matador. The paneled exterior and two-story void remains almost exactly as the legendary architect left it, but inside now contains 165 hotel rooms and suites, a Penthouse Loggia used for conferences and celebrations, and a restaurant linked by a sustainably savvy ethos.

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A model for sustainability in New HavenPhoto courtesy Hotel MarcelPhoto courtesy Hotel Marcel

Operating under the Hilton’s Tapestry Collection, Hotel Marcel is one of only 10 LEED Platinum-certified hotels in the United States. As a 100 percent electric business, it’s also slated to be the country’s first Passive House-certified and Net Zero hotel. The eco agenda goes far deeper than banishing single-use plastics and the hotel has eliminated the need for fossil fuels.

“As an Architect, Developer and Owner, I preserve important works of architecture in a way that also protects the climate by designing them to have zero emissions,” continues Becker.

The hotel’s own microgrid and rooftop forest of over 1,000 solar panels generates renewable energy while KONE elevators mean every time you skip the stairs, you’re helping power the hotel. Rooms remain toasty warm courtesy of triple-pane windows and innovative heat pumps. Making it easier for travelers to reduce their carbon footprint, there are 12 Level 2 EV chargers and 12 Level 3 superchargers on the premises.

Becker isn’t stopping there. “Hotel Marcel offers an easily replicable toolkit of decarbonization ideas that, if adopted by other hotel brands, can have a rapid and transformative impact on the hospitality industry to reduce its carbon footprint,” he says. It’s the blueprint for the hotels of the future.

Ivy League accommodation at Hotel MarcelPhoto courtesy Hotel MarcelPhoto courtesy Hotel MarcelPhoto courtesy Hotel Marcel

Becker’s team worked compassionately with Breuer’s daring foundations. Originally assigned to research and development, the two lowest floors contain the hotel lobby, restaurant, and the first sweep of guest rooms. The seven remaining floors hover almost impossibly above a negative space buttressed by columns.

Despite sharing a parking lot with the Swedish furniture giant, there’s nothing flat-pack about the room decor. All units are outfitted with custom modern mid-century furnishings and warm walnut accents. Serta hybrid mattresses topped with luxury organic linens guarantee side, back, and even maverick stomach sleepers the deepest slumber. Those chic stone vanities were purchased from next-door in neighborly spirit.

Everything in these utilitarian yet sophisticated rooms has purpose: nifty garment steamer, a state-of-the-art digital lockbox, and bedside USB outlets. Breuer’s signature Cesca chairs are installed in each room while token wall hangings spotlight local up-and-coming creatives. Up-to-the-moment technology means anything else is at the swipe of the touch panel.

Standard and deluxe rooms peek at New Haven’s skyline and Long Island Sound whereas entry-level rooms are illuminated by a natural solar shower from the lightwell. Trimmed with restored mahogany and ebony plucked from the 1970s offices, Hotel Marcel’s historic suites are the pièce de résistance. With its private lounge, soaking tub, and eye-popping harbor views, the Chairman Suite is worth the splurge.

Super green eats and Haus tipples at BLDGHotel MarcelHotel Marcel

The hotel restaurant and bar, BLDG, serves breakfast, lunch, and dinner as well as weekend brunch in a design-forward, linenless setting next to the lobby. Texan-born Chef Megan Gill takes sustainable farm-to-table dining seriously, with meat, poultry, and organic microgreens sourced from Upstate and New Jersey homesteads and maple syrup from the Catskills.

There are Latin and Italian shades on the modern American menu with chorizo slipped into morning eggs and too-good-to-share whipped ricotta focaccia appetizers. Larger plates look to land and sea, with the likes of miso-glazed salmon and grass-fed local beef. Anything uneaten and leftovers gets tipped into the compost, just one component of the kitchen’s efforts to tackle waste.

Hotel Marcel’s Monday through Friday Happy Hour is an excuse to sample the “Haus” cocktails. “The Pirelli’s” scotch base with ginger, honey, and activated charcoal holds Orientation Week bugs at bay while the rum infused “Sippin On Solar” keeps things green. Perfect for designated drivers, Zero Proof libations are crafted from Seedlip liqueurs.

Hotel Marcel supports all-electric travel in ConnecticutPhoto courtesy Hotel Marcel

Your climate-first getaway starts way before check in. Located in the Historic Long Wharf District minutes from the Yale campus, Hotel Marcel is less than a mile from Union Station’s Amtrak platform where you’ll rendezvous with the property’s emission-free Ram ProMaster shuttle.

Road tripping New England? Make your rental a Tesla. Located at the intersection of Interstates 91 and 95, those Tesla-exclusive Level 3 chargers have vehicles road-ready in 60 minutes flat. There’s no finer legacy for a former tire factory than New Haven’s greenest boutique hotel.

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I Unintentionally ‘rawdogged’ a Long-Haul Flight. It’s as Horrible as It Sounds

In 2013, I was an international student in Sydney and took the over 24-hour flight with Qantas back to my home for Christmas in the UK. I was well versed in surviving long-haul flights. I spent most of my twenties flying between Scotland, Australasia, and Asia. But nothing could have prepared me for the endurance of unintentionally “rawdogging” this brutal journey in economy class.

Recently, a subset of travel influencers on TikTok have started posting about taking a flight without using any form of entertainment. No headphones, no movies, and no books — some people even pass on eating, drinking, or even going to the bathroom in extreme cases. One of the most popular people putting out these videos goes by the handle @WestWasHere. He told GQ that it’s like meditation, and very much a challenge to conquer in a sealed metal tube with hundreds of all-too-close strangers. The goal is to simply sit back, relax, and stare out the window or at the flight map. Online discourse being what it is, it goes by names like “rawdogging” a flight, going “bareback,” and “flying raw.”

Believe me, it’s as stupid as it sounds.

The route from Australia to Scotland takes around 26 hours in total, and before that 2013 nightmare of a flight, I actually found the last leg, the short one-and-a-half-hour trip from London to Edinburgh, was usually the most challenging part. That was before I experienced an over 24-hour journey from Sydney to Heathrow via Singapore without onboard entertainment.

When I boarded the Qantas flight in Sydney, I had a bulkhead seat with a pop-out screen in the armrest. After taking off, I pushed the release button and positioned my screen to check out the choice of movies. I’m unashamed to admit that I find this very exciting. “A classic rom-com and a couple of new releases, and I’ll be halfway home in no time,” I thought. But the screen was blank.

I clicked it back into position, thinking I’d try the turn-it-off-and-back-on trick, but nothing happened. So, I hit the call button and asked for a system reset. The cabin crew helpfully did so and came back to try to light up the screen themselves. But no cigar.

We were about an hour into the flight, and I was told to hold tight as the crew had to start the beverage service. I grabbed my book and knocked out the few remaining chapters as the guy to my right was on his own endurance test with Ewan McGregor in The Impossible. Little did I know that, shortly, I would be the one crying my eyes out.

After multiple resets, the flight attendant told me that, unfortunately, my screen would not work and that, because the flight was full, I couldn’t change my seat or move to business or first class. Surely, this was impossible, and I asked to talk privately with a senior crew member. Although they were as apologetic as you’d imagine, I was told moving seats was a no-go.

On the eight-hour leg from Sydney to Singapore, I re-read the beginning of my book, drank too much wine, sat on the toilet and cried, considered how I’d like to die onboard if the pilot lost control, and overthought failed relationships.

I had the same dreaded seat on the flight to London, but I was assured that when the plane refueled in Singapore and we had to disembark, they’d get an engineer to sort out the technical issue for the remainder of the journey to the UK.

This honestly gave me little assurance, and as I re-boarded and checked the system and was met with the same black screen, I crumpled. I was a nervous wreck and had a panic attack as the plane took off. There was a new crew to explain my situation to, and just like the first round, they delivered the party line apologetically, but they were unable to move me to another seat on the full plane.

For the remaining 14 hours, I slept a lot. Now feeling hungover and emotionally drained, I remember wishing for sleep, checking a stopwatch I had set on my cell phone: three hours, four hours, five. I felt trapped and, honestly, a little scared.

There is nothing glamorous, big, or brave about “rawdogging” a flight. I had no come-to-Jesus moment, mental clarity, or meditative, introspective breakthrough. Nor did I receive financial compensation from Qantas, only a lazily written apology email from customer service.

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European Flights Getting More Expensive With This Airline’s $77 Environmental Cost Surcharge

German airline Lufthansa announced this week that flights may increase by up to $77 starting next year to cover the costs of greener fuel.

The airline aims to recoup the rising costs of adopting more sustainable aviation fuel by adding an environmental surcharge to ticket prices. This surcharge, which could reach up to $77 per passenger, is expected to take effect on flights departing from 27 European countries, Britain, Norway, and Switzerland as early as 2025.

“The amount of the surcharge varies depending on the flight route and fare and is between 1 euro and 72 euros,” says the Lufthansa Group. “The Environmental Cost Surcharge will be levied on all tickets issued from June 26, 2024, and applies to departures from January 1, 2025,” the airline continues in a statement.

Lufthansa’s move comes in response to stricter environmental regulations implemented by the EU and the International Civil Aviation Organization. These regulations aim to curb the aviation industry’s significant contribution to greenhouse gas emissions.

Sustainable aviation fuel, derived from bio-based materials, is considered a vital tool in achieving this goal. However, production of greener fuel remains limited, and it’s currently more expensive than traditional jet fuel.

The airline emphasizes that the surcharge is necessary to offset the rising costs associated with complying with environmental regulations. They point out that airlines have long warned that stricter ecological standards could translate to higher ticket prices.

The announcement has divided opinion. Environmental groups see it as a necessary step towards a more sustainable aviation industry. However, the price hikes may disproportionately impact budget travelers and hinder the affordability of air travel. And perhaps airlines should explore cost-cutting measures elsewhere before passing on additional expenses to customers.

Lufthansa states the group “will not be able to bear the successively increasing additional costs resulting from regulatory requirements in the coming years on its own.”

Lufthansa’s decision will likely be a harbinger of similar moves by other European airlines facing the same cost pressures and environmental regulations. In the coming months, we will likely see further debate on how to balance the need for a cleaner aviation industry with the affordability of air travel for passengers.

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What to Consider Before Going on a Psychedelic Retreat, According to a Facilitator

People have long been traveling to remote areas to seek enlightenment or healing through the use of psychedelics. In recent years, psychedelic retreats have lost their taboo status. They’re easy enough to find and book in places like Jamaica, Costa Rica, Mexico, and throughout South America. Personal stories about retreat experiences, once reserved for underground magazines and spiritual bookstores, are regularly published in mainstream publications. It’s been folded into the wider category of wellness travel, and the Global Wellness Institute started its Psychedelics & Healing Initiative in 2022.

The increased interest comes as once-illegal drugs are starting to lose their stigma. The United States government is researching psychedelic-assisted therapy for veterans to help process trauma, and states and cities across the country have started to decriminalize or loosen penalties on psilocybin and other psychedelics.

Yet for many people even passingly curious, reliable information on what a psychedelic retreat encompasses can be hard to find. Part of this is due to the fact that each is different depending on what type of psychedelics are used, as well as the set and setting, who is leading the group, and the goals for going. To learn more about what a retreat experience may encompass — and what to look for when seeking out a retreat — I reached out to Sia-Lanu Estrella. Estrella runs retreats in Peru, South Africa, and Australia, and has a podcast and learning programs. Her third book, The Rainbow Tablets: Abundance and sacred co-creation, released in June.

Photo: Sia-Lanu Estrella

When I caught up with Estrella over a call to learn more about her path to her current work, she was in the Peruvian Andes.

Estrella had just received a promotion when she decided it was time to pivot the work she focused on in life. She was working as a senior account director at an advertising agency and offered a promotion to group account director, the highest role before general manager.

“I left that day and threw up in the gutter,” Estrella says. “I realized that’s not the kind of reaction you should be having at receiving such an amazing promotion, and it made me realize that I wasn’t following my heart.”

She moved to a career in marketing and communications, eventually becoming the head of communications and a senior communications specialist at a financial services company. Estrella held that role for five years, and trained in healing modalities and novel writing outside of work. Then she started to cut down her hours to focus on her healing work and follow her passion.

It all started with Peru. She visited Cusco and other popular tourist spots with a travel agency when she was 25.

Photo: Sia-Lanu Estrella

“But I didn’t really have that full sacred experience of remembering that I was looking for,” Estrella says, adding that what she did see was the privilege that she had. Estrella spent two years learning Spanish, returning back to Peru regularly, including a trip to volunteer with an orphanage. On one trip, a Peruvian friend took her to meet Apu Ausangate, a powerful mountain spirit.

“My friend told me I couldn’t go as a tourist,” Estrella explains. “I had to meet the mountain the Peruvian way. So, he shared with me the local ceremonial ways and we went to the mountain in sacredness. From that day forward, the mountain walked with me. It was unlike anything I had ever experienced.”

Six months later, she felt the spirit calling her to bring a retreat group. When she did, she felt the spirit telling her to move to Peru. Three months later, she sold her apartment and belongings, quit her job, and arrived in Peru with two bags.

“I used to be very Western in my mindset,” Estrella says shortly after I mention the word psychedelics. “We call them plant medicines and plant teachers, because they are actual consciousness. The first time I heard this, I didn’t understand it and I thought it was probably just drugs, and I was someone who had never taken drugs. But then as I got to understand more and open up into the sacredness of it, I realized how much misinformation we have in the West and how much we are kept away from these incredibly powerful healing tools.”

Estrella says people who go on her retreats gain a new perspective on their relationships with loved ones and themselves, but also their relationship with work in a way that can help people find their purpose.

Photo: Sia-Lanu Estrella

“When people come back to these sacred lands and they feel that frequency and have the opportunity to be present and step out of their usual rat race, they have time to just be and to connect, open, receive, and start to remember within themselves,” Estrella says. “It brings so much clarity, but it also brings this connection with the self and with the land.”

It’s also important when visiting sacred lands to ensure the retreat gives back — going to a place and only taking an experience without something in return has “a very different energy.”

“This is how the land then actually opens up the greatest magic to the participants,” Estrella says.

Estrella’s key things to consider for a psychedelic retreat

Photo: Sia-Lanu Estrella

Location: the land should awaken something in your heart.Facilitator: meet the facilitator if possible. Hopefully they offer an exploration call. You want to feel a connection to their energy and approach.Group size: if you want a deep, supported and transformational experience, it is best to choose a group size of 22 people of less. The experience in a larger group is very different and the energy can become a bit messy.Connection to the land: the land will only open its full magic if the facilitator is deeply connected and embodied with that land. And, if the land is not the facilitator’s birthplace or ancestral lineage, they should be working with a local tour guide who is really connected with the land.Inclusions and exclusions: be clear on this so there are no hidden costs.Giving back: some retreats do everything through an offshore agency. So, they are taking from the land but not giving back. Try to choose a facilitator who works with a local agency and supports locals.Integration support: most facilitators step away the moment the retreat is over. Look for a retreat that includes integration support.Reviews: written reviews are great. But are there video reviews or podcast episodes with past participants? This will give you a better feel.

First things first: Respecting local customs and culture

Being with people who know and respect the local culture is one of the most important things to look for before booking a retreat.

“That is a massive differentiating factor when you’re looking at these kinds of wellness or spiritual experiences in sacred places,” Estrella says. Estrella, for example, lived in Peru for three years, has fostered relationships with local wisdom keepers on her visits, and has a Peruvian goddaughter in the sacred mountains.

“When it came time to run my retreats, I already had the right people who were in that beautiful alignment and that deep honoring of the land so that I could create the kind of authentic spiritual and mystical experiences that I wanted to create,” Estrella says.

“There are plenty of places that you could just drop in, run a retreat, make your money, and leave,” Estrella says, noting that the boom in spiritual and wellness tourism has drawn some opportunistic characters. “But that’s not how I approach this work. For me, it’s a really sacred calling.”

Selecting a group for a retreat is a bit of an art

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Estrella’s retreats reach a wide range of people. She’s had people from 25 to 70 years old who come from the UK, Europe, Canada, the United States, and Australia. They’re doctors, lawyers, content creators, people in financial services, and people who work in alternative healing spaces.

“These kinds of deep and connected experiences appeal to everyone,” Estrella says.

While there’s broad appeal, it’s important to find a tour operator who is selective about who joins the retreat.

“If a facilitator opens it up to anybody, you can get a really mixed energy in the group,” Estrella says. “There’s not that synergy, and it can become a little bit disjointed and sometimes there can be some unpleasantness in the group.”

Estrella requires people who are interested in joining her retreats to book a call to see if it’s a right match for their intentions on going. Estrella goes over plant medicines on her introduction calls with people interested in her retreats. She asks about previous psychedelic experiences to get a gauge of where they’re experience is, and explains the sacredness of these plants and the role they play in mental, spiritual, and physical wellness. It also helps Estrella get a sense of how the person will fit in the overall group.

“One of the incredible things about having an experience like this is the community and the connection that comes out of it,” Estrella says. “I often see that these friendships continue for many years or a lifetime, because people stay in touch.”

Understanding the plant medicines in use

Different retreats will use different plant medicines depending on location and the focus of the retreat. Do your research ahead of time, and speak with the retreat facilitator, to understand what the experience encompasses.

“There can be a lot of misconceptions around psychedelics because we are fed a lot of misinformation. Yet, they are so much more than psychedelics,” Estrella says. “They are plant teachers with their own consciousness. On my Peru retreat, clients have the opportunity to sit with the Wachuma (San Pedro) plant medicine. He is known as ‘Grandfather,’ and is a heart-opening medicine derived from the San Pedro cactus.”

The plant medicines push people beyond the box they set for themselves, Estrella says. Wachuma has been used in the Peruvian mountains for thousands of years as a way to break down ego and work through traumas.

“With Wachuma, the journey is around 10 to 12 hours,” Estrella says. “Once you drink, you are committed. So, the medicine takes us beyond those barriers of ego and mind. And, because of the cosmic nature of the medicine, it helps us access much higher awareness.”

What to expect during the retreat

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“It taps into a higher wisdom, a cosmic wisdom, so we get to see things from a different perspective” Estrella says. “The other thing that can happen is people get a lot of clarity about what they want to be doing in their lives … books that they’re going to write or shifts that they’re going to make in their professional career.”

Estrella recalls a mother whose son had died at 21, and the plant medicine showed her “the greater cosmic connection between her and her son, and she saw a past life that they had together.” Another example she shared was a radiation oncologist who went on one of Estrella’s retreats who transitioned to working as an integrative cancer consultant working with psilocybin as a treatment.

Estrella says there’s also an aspect of physical healing. She had asthma to the point that doctors were worried about her living in the high altitude of the Andes Mountains. After two sessions with San Pedro that were focused on her lungs, she never used an inhaler again after consistently needing them throughout her life. This is especially true for people who have physical ailments that have an emotional root that can be explored through a retreat.

They types of psychedelics used on retreats are almost never addictive, and can be safe to use under the right conditions with an experienced guide. Still, as with any substance, people should understand the health risks and consult their doctor prior.

The retreat doesn’t end after the trip

Following up after is just as important as pre-retreat calls and the experience itself.

“This is such an important thing for people to consider when they’re choosing a retreat, because most facilitators don’t do any sort of integration or follow up work,” Estrella says. “What can then happen is people have this incredible, awakening, expansive experience, but they get back to their day-to-day lives.”

Everyday life, especially for someone who took a retreat to get away from it all, can quickly lead to people losing “that magic that they’ve awakened,” Estrella says, adding that her post-retreat integration session a month later helps people anchor themselves in a new way of being. WhatsApp groups where people share their challenges, resolutions, inspirations, and solutions also help. Resources for people to continue their learning are also important, like Estrella’s online programs and books, to keep the retreat from feeling like a one-off mystical experience and more like a permanent mindset shift.

“The integration from a really powerful wellness or spiritual retreat can be bumpy,” Estrella says. “Often people come back and their ‘old life’ might feel jarring. It takes time and presence to anchor the new higher version of themselves.”

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14 Stunning Airbnbs in Sicily That Will Take Your Breath Away

Off the toe of Italy’s boot, Sicily is one of the most naturally beautiful regions of the country and one of the most culturally diverse places in Europe. The island’s architecture, language, cuisine, and cultural traditions have been influenced by many civilizations over the centuries, including the Phoenicians, Greeks, Arabs, Normans, Romans, and British. Sicily is — to put it simply — a very special place. From world-class vineyards built on volcanic soil, and pretty fishing villages which are still traditionally operated, to seasonal farm-to-table restaurants, there’s a lot to enjoy on vacation here. There’s also a superb range of Airbnb Sicily rentals. Peppered across the island there are one-of-a-kind Airbnb properties that will take your breath away — here are some of the best.

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If you’re wanting to stay in Palermo for a few days or base yourself there for your vacation, this group-sized Airbnb is fitting. It’s situated on one of the oldest streets in the city, Il Cassaro. The street dates back to the late 16th century and is a great place to start a walking tour of Palermo to explore the many historical monuments, churches, bars, street food vendors, museums, and other must-see sights.

The recently renovated apartment is set in a 17th-century building and has four bedrooms. There’s a possibility to add extra sleeping space (a double sofa bed in one bedroom, and another in the second) if needed. This can be arranged on request, so it’s worth reaching out to the owner to discuss options if you’re traveling with a large group. The rooftop terrace and other outdoor spaces that lead off bedrooms offer views of the historic neighborhood and have nice seating areas. There’s ample room in the shared living areas to accommodate a big party of guests with previous patrons raving about the spaciousness and location of this Palermo Airbnb.

Eleven guests, four bedrooms
Price: $357 per night

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Choosing where to stay in Palermo is important. It’s not difficult to find something unique here, but to truly experience the culture and history of the remarkable city, opt for an Airbnb with character. This particularly special rental is situated in the Politeama Libertà district of Palermo. Close to many of Palermo’s most popular attractions, such as the Teatro Massimo and the Palazzo dei Normanni, this area of the city is also home to some of the best shopping, dining, and entertainment options.

The sensational Airbnb is located on the second floor of an Art Nouveau building. It’s important to note that there’s an elevator. Many apartments in Palermo are reached via narrow staircases and it’s rare to find a rental with elevator access. The entire apartment has been renovated maintaining the Art-Nouveau style of the exterior. No detail has been overlooked here and it’s clear this space has been curated with love by an artist and book lover. Iconic Sicilian tiled floors can be found throughout and design-focused furniture, stacks of books, and pretty terraces make this one of the most impressive Airbnbs in Palermo.

Six guests, three bedrooms
Price: $347 per night

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If you’d rather be situated in a more countryside location, but be close to the beach, this three-bedroom house near the town of Bochini is a great option. Located in the southeast of Sicily, Bochini is close to the ancient baroque town of Noto and is surrounded by sprawling natural landscapes. Noto is known for its baroque-style architecture and is renowned as one of the best-preserved old towns in Italy. This countryside retreat is also a short drive from the coast. The main beach of Lido di Noto is a particularly popular spot, with its long stretch of fine sand and shallow waters that make it perfect for families with young children.

On that note, this Airbnb is perfectly set up for a group or family. Set between olive and almond groves on the old road between Noto and Avola, the house sleeps six. There’s a recently renovated swimming pool and a lovely garden with organic fruit and vegetables that guests can harvest. The interior is authentically farm-house style and as well as the garden area there is a barbecue, a pizza oven, and an outdoor shower.

Six guests, three bedrooms
Price: $331 per night

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On Ortigia, a small island located off the southeastern coast of Sicily, this apartment is in the heart of La Judecca, the historic quarter close to the famous cathedral and the sea. Considered one of the most beautiful destinations in Sicily, Ortigia is a pedestrian-only island. It’s honored for its ancient Greek ruins and production of soap, candles, and fragrances made with natural ingredients like local olive oil.

This two-bedroom apartment is on one of Ortigia’s most photographed streets. The location is ideal. It’s central but housed within a residential building so it’s a quiet escape, away from loud narrow streets and nightlife. The rooftop terrace offers views of the historic tiled buildings and has a comfortable shaded seating area and a sun lounger. The interior is peppered with traditional Sicilian pottery and art, with antique wooden headboards and Art-Deco light fixtures. It’s worth noting that the stairs leading to the second floor are spiraled and are perhaps not the best for young children or those requiring easy access.

Four guests, two bedrooms
Price: $325 per night

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Immersed in the countryside near Agrigento — home to the UNESCO World Heritage Site, Valle dei Templi (Valley of the Temples) — this two-bedroom villa is an excellent base for exploring the southern coast of Sicily. The Valle dei Templi archaeological site contains some of Sicily’s best-preserved Greek temples from antiquity including Temple Euryalus and Temple Concordia and is a must-see when visiting the island. In fact, the south of Sicily is worth considering basing your trip around. From stunning beaches of Marina di Modica, Ragusa and Marina di Ragusa, Porto Empedocle and San Leone, Realmonte and Scala dei Turchi to the historic fishing port town of Sciacca there’s a lot to explore. Hiring a car in Sicily should be considered because the island is small enough for a one or two-week road trip. You can start in Palermo and then tour the coastal regions.

This traditional villa is set on 10 hectares of olive and citrus groves and has a large swimming pool with a diving board, plenty of outdoor seating, and shaded areas to relax in the warmer summer months. The interior decor is charming, with Sicilian tiles, dark wood slatted shutters, terracotta flooring, and plenty of quiet reading nooks.

Four guests, two bedrooms
Price: $325 per night

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This private villa is meters away from the ocean in the borough of Mondello just outside Palermo. Mondello beach is a popular with locals and visitors looking to escape the city. Particularly during the summer months, Mondello’s stretch of fine white sand and shallow electric blue waters offer respite from the busy narrow streets of the capital and the heat. Due to its proximity to the airport and transport links, the old historic fishing port, and the surrounding coastal area are superb places to look for an Airbnb.

This Airbnb Plus is one to bookmark. It’s close to the famous beach and a superb transport link to Palermo. What makes this rental stand out is its proximity to the beach, shops, and the village center, but it’s situated on a quiet side street where, even in summer, guests are promised a peaceful stay. The ambiance of tranquility filters through the house too. White decor with accents of baby blue and stunning French windows make the two-bedroom feel airy and light. The garden is an added haven. With perfectly manicured lawns, a sprawling patio with ample seating, and an outdoor hot and cold shower, this Airbnb, inside and out, ticks all the boxes.

Four guests, two bedrooms
Price: $217 per night

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Another Airbnb Plus, this seafront home looks out over the ocean in the small village of Stazzo on the eastern coast of the island. Stazzo is known for its stunning black sand beaches, rocky coves, and breathtaking views of the Mediterranean Sea. It’s also close to the coastal city of Acireale which sits at the foot of Mount Etna. If traveling in spring, the cultural event of Carnevale di Acireale draws people to the region. The February celebration is one of Sicily’s most spectacular cultural events and one of the largest and most frequented carnivals in Italy.

This flagstoned three-floor terrace is an ideal place to base yourself in eastern Sicily. It’s a stone’s throw away from the sea and comfortably sleeps a group of six. The interior is impressive with bright, fresh, well-furnished bedrooms — the attic room has vaulted wood ceilings — and a large living room, a dining room, and a well-equipped kitchen with an adjoining terrace.

Six guests, four bedrooms
Price: $195 per night

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See more photosThis epic villa sits on the rocks in Solanto, a charming coastal town on the northern shore just outside Palermo. It’s a great base if you’d like to be close to the city but on the water. Solanto is well known for its medieval castle, Castello San Marco, which sits atop a rocky outcrop overlooking the town and offers panoramic views of the ocean. From Solanto, you can reach Palermo city center in around 40 minutes, and the Airbnb has a parking space. Sicily isn’t big, so hiring a car and making some day trips is an excellent idea (if you’re brave enough to take on the Sicilian road rules.) The historic villa has been fully renovated and has a sprawling terrace over the rocky coastline. A Guest Favorite Airbnb with five-star reviews, this is one to bookmark.

Eight guests, two bedrooms
Price: $641 per night

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See more photosAnother option in Solanto is this design-focused house, which is a bit more modern and has direct access to the Mediterranean. The house, a fusion of contemporary design and traditional Sicilian touches, has four double bedrooms and three bathrooms. The outdoor space is jaw-dropping. The large terrace overlooks the ocean. Furnished with comfortable sofas, chaise longues, tables, and chairs, this terrace is an extension of the living area, perfect for al fresco dining while enjoying the ever-changing colors of the sea. A staircase leads directly from the terrace to a platform built on the rocks, providing a perfect spot for sunbathing or diving into the water. Or, if you’d prefer, there’s a stunning swimming pool where you can take in the Sicilian sunset. Near the rental, you’ll find a nautical club to rent motor boats, snorkeling, and dive gear.

Eight guests, four bedrooms
Price: $1,443 per night

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See more photosThis penthouse is on Ortygia Island, the heart of Syracuse. Syracuse is the only city on the Ionian coast of Sicily. Despite the central location of the rental, past guests rave about the tranquil ambiance and gorgeous terrace overlooking an inner courtyard. It’s located on the second floor of a historic building dating back to the 17th century, so you’ll need to climb a flight of stairs. There are three bedrooms: the master with an en-suite bathroom with a tub and a private terrace, and two double bedrooms with a balcony.

Six guests, three bedrooms
Price: $769 per night

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See more photosThis apartment offers stunning views of the eastern coast. It’s situated just over a mile from the resort town of Taormina, which is quite small, so come peak season, it can feel crowded. That’s why you need to find an Airbnb retreat with a pool. A space where you can enjoy the spectacular views in peace. This two-bedroom is within a luxury residential complex with a shared swimming pool, well-kept garden, and private parking. Check-in is professionally managed by multilingual staff who can advise you about the area, what to do, and, most importantly, where to eat.

Four guests, two bedrooms
Price: $855 per night

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See more photosLocated outside Noto (another UNESCO World Heritage Site nicknamed “The Capital of Baroque,”) this three-bedroom villa is set amidst an olive grove, offering a tranquil escape just 10 minutes from the city. It has breathtaking views of the rolling hills and the Mediterranean Sea in the distance. The villa has a light and airy ambiance with large windows that blur the lines between indoor and outdoor living. It’s an excellent option for families and groups looking for a relaxing retreat near city amenities. The outdoor area has an eco-friendly pool with a sundeck and a generous garden with a lawn area and Sicilian flora.

Five guests, three bedrooms
Price: $679 per night

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See more photosThis home is set within a cave underneath a centuries-old shepherd’s hut. Beautifully renovated to modern standards, the tiny home offers a stay you’ll remember and exceptional views over the small town of Scicli, located on the southeastern corner of Sicily. The town’s collection of late-Baroque buildings puts it on the UNESCO World Heritage Site list, and getting lost down the labyrinthine alleyways of Baroque churches, palazzos with ornate balconies, and carved doorways will keep you snapping photos around every corner. The cave house has stayed true to its origins with original stone brick walls and furnishings created by local artisans, and there’s a fabulous grotto-type swimming pool sunken into the charming terrace area.

Four guests, two bedrooms
Price: $417 per night

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See more photosAirbnb recently made an update to help travelers find the top one, five, and ten percent of homes worldwide, and this one is currently sitting within the first group. This trophy is awarded for overall star ratings, recent guest reviews, host communication, cancellation rates, and quality-related issues that have been reported to Airbnb.

The villa has a prime location, far from the hustle and bustle of tourist crowds on the northern coast. It’s around 30 miles from Palermo, making day trips into the city a breeze. The nearest village is Campofelice di Roccella. Here, you can wander narrow streets lined with traditional houses, visit local shops selling fresh produce and regional specialties, and experience the warmth of Sicilian hospitality. The Airbnb has 360-degree views over the countryside, mountains, and the ocean. You can enjoy the vistas from the panoramic patio, infinity pool, and manicured grounds peppered with olive trees and Sicilian flowers.

Twelve guests, six bedrooms
Price: $1,345 per night

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Why You Shouldn’t Move to Another Open Seat on a Flight

Any Economy-Class air traveler worth their salt knows that once the “boarding complete” announcement is made, it’s time to seek out a better seat — like a neighbor-free seat or even better, a full row. I’ve personally done it multiple times on flights that had a lot of available space, including a few instances when I got to stretch across four seats and catch some Z’s while on gruelling 10-plus hour trips. But, apparently, I shouldn’t have.

I knew that self-upgrading was not allowed. Moving from a simple Economy seat to a seat that carries an extra charge or a much higher rate, such as a seat in Business, Premium Economy, or one with extra legroom, is prohibited for the obvious reason that you did not pay for it. However, I was certain that moving to an open seat of the same rate was no big deal.

But according to air travel professionals, for your safety and that of everyone else on the aircraft, everyone should stick to their assigned seat. This is especially true when flying in smaller airplanes whose balance is calculated using individual seats.

Flight attendant Hailey Way, who has worked for SkyWest Airlines and charter airline iAero Airways, explains by email that on small regional planes, moving seats is not allowed, “unless it is passenger-to-passenger seat exchange.”

“If it’s deemed safe to rearrange passenger seating on an aircraft to accommodate weight and balance, then this is done prior to takeoff,” says Way, “Passengers should obey their assigned seats from then on.”

While there is more leeway on larger aircrafts, it’s still preferable that passengers keep the seats that were assigned to them prior to boarding.

“On commercial aircraft seating is usually split into multiple areas for weight and balance, not counted by individual seats,” explains Tyler Herbert, an airline pilot in Canada. “Based on passenger counts in these areas, our load planning crew will issue a weight and balance so ideally you would have people sitting where they are counted for accuracy.”

A tried-and-tested, but not fool-proof, method to easily get a neighbor-free seat on a long flight is to book one in a row of three where the middle seat is still free but either the window or the aisle is occupied. Because nobody wants to spend an entire flight sandwiched in between two strangers, there is a good chance the seat will remain empty — unless it is a full flight, of course.

And for those who believe that passengers should not moved from their assigned seats for identification purposes in the case of a fatal accident, Way debunks the idea.

“While the manifest is taken into account for passenger record or ‘souls’ on board, the full process of identifying victims in such accidents is much more complex. So, yes it is a myth that passengers’ bodies are solely reliant on the manifest. You have to take into account personal belongings, like ID’s. Also, forensic evidence will be examined along with DNA samples collected at site. Furthermore, visual identification from relatives or other family members is another way to get more accurate identification.”

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Natty Light Is Giving Away a 10-Night ‘American EuroTrip’ to Five US Towns Named After European Destinations

There’s no denying the joys of a European vacation. There’s also no denying that the cost can be eye-opening or even put an indefinite hold on any planning — even when traveling to Europe on a budget and booking your international flight at the cheapest time. The beer brand Natural Light is hosting a promotion that puts a twist on going to Europe with a tongue-in-cheek, expenses-paid, 10-night “American EuroTrip” to five cities in the United States that “share the same name and cultural charms of some of the top European vacation destinations.”

“Vacationing to Europe’s top destinations will set you back thousands of your hard-earned US dollars, guaranteed,” the contest announcement states. “With those high costs, it better be the trip of a lifetime—but a summer in Europe where you can’t buy an ice-cold Natural Light…why even go?”

Natty Light was my go-to beer in college in Auburn, Alabama. It’s safe to say that international travel was far from what I was thinking about when cracking open a can on hot summer days. Odes to Natural Light don’t pop up as frequently as love letters to cherished craft beer brands, but when they do, they’re about as Americana as they come. It’s only fitting that the brand is centering travel across the United States.

The trip takes the idea of “travel dupes,” meaning anywhere that delivers a similar experience as a popular destination, to a new level.

Where Natural Light’s American EuroTrip goes:

Paris, TexasDublin, OhioVenice, FloridaAthens, GeorgiaHolland, Michigan

As with all travel dupes, you can’t expect to land in a place with the same name and expect the same experience. Still, these are some towns and cities that are more than worth visiting in their own right. What Dublin, Ohio, lacks in the number of centuries-old pubs and Irish folk music, it makes up for with summer food markets and gorgeous walking paths. Athens, Georgia, doesn’t have the Acropolis, but it is a music center and fun college town where bands like R.E.M. got their start. The Eiffel Tower is in Paris, but the only Eiffel Tower replica with a cowboy had on top is in Paris, Texas. Holland, Michigan, does really have an abundance of windmills.

To throw your hat in the ring to be the lucky person to go on the trip (with a guest), follow Natural Light on Instagram, X, or Facebook and comment #NattyEuroTrip and #sweepstakes on the entry post. Entrants must be 21 or older, and the contest ends at 11:59 PM ET on July 4.

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