Dudley Seth Danoff's Blog, page 9

Penis Size Myths (Your Penis is Not Too Small!)

The variation in size among human penises is less than that for hands, fingers, or noses.

Penises can be as short as one-and-a-half inches or as long as eight inches.  However, the overall number of organs that fall at these extremes are exceedingly few.

The average length of a penis in its fully flaccid (relaxed, limp, normal) state is about four inches. The overwhelming majority of men fall within centimeters of that average.

Penis girth varies even less, ranging between one to one-and-a-half inches in diameter when flaccid.

But what about all those myths we hear about size?  Aren't some men huge?

The truth is, a very tall man might have a longer penis than a short man, just as he will probably have bigger feet and hands. However, the difference in penis size between two such men will be far less than that of their other appendages.

A short man's hand might be three full inches shorter than that of a tall man. He might wear a size eight shoe compared to a size thirteen. But his penis might only be a fraction of an inch shorter.

I have often seen penises on short men that were as big, or bigger, than those of most professional basketball players.

Of far more importance, given the concerns of most men, is the size of the erect penis. The erect penis averages about six inches in length (although most of my patients prefer the term "half a foot long").

More importantly, the variation in the size of the erect penis is far less than that of the flaccid penis. If one man's penis is five inches long when soft and another's is three inches long, that two-inch size difference is likely to shrink to near zero when they become erect. It is even possible for the smaller penis to be bigger when erect.



When Erect, Most Penises Are the Same Size

The range in size for erect penises is simply much less than that of flaccid penises.  Nature made it possible for just about any man, regardless of his overall size, to mate with any woman. So when you hear men brag that their penises are a foot long, take it with a few grains of salt. They are either rare exceptions or liars.

The only technical way they're not lying is if they're adding to their measurements that portion of the penis that's inside the body. (The penis actually begins several inches deep in the pelvic cavity).

When people ask what is the biggest penis I have ever seen, I tell them it did not belong to any of the oversized professional athletes I've examined, nor to any of the Hollywood "studs" who come through my office.

I tell them that it belonged to a short, slightly built, old man who was having prostate surgery. A pleasant, mild-mannered, pious man in his eighties, this patient was married to the same woman his entire adult life. Neither of them had the slightest idea of how relatively huge the penis was that had sired their nine children. I have never had so many helpers in the operating room! Half the nurses in the building wanted to assist me just to view this magnificent organ—not because they were attracted to it, but because medical professionals are compelled to look in awe at any huge or anomalous appendage.  And that's what this was—huge, and unusual.

Average men are all about the same average size.  Chances are your penis, whatever it looks like, is not too small!

Good in Bed, Always: The Superpotent Man Knows How to Handle Stress

Superpotent men do not succumb to the debilitating power of anxiety or depression, and that confidence includes the bedroom. They often find themselves in situations that other men may find inhibiting, such as being with an aggressive sexual partner, or someone who prefers unusual sexual practices.

To a man with P.W., these might be stressful situations that elicit fear and self-doubt.  But for the superpotent man, they are challenges, and he responds to them like an athlete who is up against a worthy opponent (or one who has teamed up with a great partner). New and unusual sexual situations bring out the best in him.

How does the superpotent man keep his cool?



Positive Thinking

Practicing a superpotent attitude can improve sexual performance.  The superpotent attitude is, "My penis is my friend. What's good for him is good for me. He never lets me down."

If you start to feel anxious in a sexual scenario, turn that feeling into positive energy. You can convert that anxious, edgy feeling into stimulation and become even more aroused.

Nothing is more debilitating to sexual satisfaction than anxiety and depression. Even though depression is known to diminish sexual desire and responsiveness, it is not inevitable. The emotional contours of a man's life do not have to interfere with his sexuality. Even a superpotent man is vulnerable to the occasional "situational depression." Every man is vulnerable to the worries and fears that afflict all people at one time or another. If you have faith in yourself, develop a healthy method for dealing with your emotions, and learn how to extract the positive elements from every experience, you will climb out of depressions quickly and convert your worries into effective action.

To put it simply:

To become a man of penis power, you must develop the capacity to prevent negative emotions from impeding your ability to achieve

an erection .

You cannot let the stress of your outside life intrude into the bedroom. If you are depressed, rest assured that your penis will also be depressed.



Practicing the Superpotent Attitude

You should now have a clear understanding of the chief characteristics of superpotent men. Superpotent men are not all shaped by the same cookie cutter. They are tall and short, plain and handsome, young and old, rich and poor. Their penises are big, small, and average. They have sex all the time, frequently, or just occasionally. They are bold and aggressive, coy and self-effacing. They like blondes, brunettes, or redheads, dark women or pale, tall or short, buxom or slim.  They prefer the missionary position or sitting up or the canine way or with their partner on top—or all of the above. They like sex in the morning, at night, in the afternoon, or at all times of day.

Penis Power and superpotency is defined by who you are and how you choose to control your life. Discovering your Penis Power does not come from imitating someone else or from living up to a hypothetical standard set by an external source. It comes from examining the aspects of your personality, relationships, and self-image that you want to improve and by making those needed changes.

Penis Power™ is about self-understanding and self-expression, and most of all it is about realizing your full potential. There are an infinite number of ways to express it. Your way is as good as anyone else's. The important thing is to harness that power and use it to extract the most pleasure from your entire life—inside and outside of the bedroom.

The first step to developing a superpotent attitude is to remember that self-doubt, and the penis weakness it creates, is a temporary sickness that can only be cured by your own willpower.

I can say this for certain because I've seen it. I've known patients to become superpotent after learning a few facts and getting a simple pep talk. They readjust their attitudes, about themselves and their penises. They adopt positive personality traits and reject the old, negative traits that were holding them back.

After that, they're off and running with great results almost immediately.

Of course, not everyone's situation improves immediately. Some men have to work at it for some time, or use specific procedures I describe in my book.

But the one thing that almost all men need is the penis education they should have received when they became men.