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Do You Trust Your Gut?

Hi everyone! Are you familiar with the MBTI test? It’s set up to help you understand the way that you function in the world. “Perception involves all of the ways of becoming aware of things, people, happenings or ideas. Judgment involves all of the ways of coming to conclusions about what has been perceived.”  One of […]

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Success Shortie: What Everyone SHOULD Ask At The End Of An Interview.

Hi everyone! I love getting your questions! I gave a talk on interviewing skills at a SHRM event  and received a wonderful note of appreciation from an attendee named Frank. (Love getting those too!) In the note he shared his takeaways and then added that he wished he wrote fast enough to capture my list […]

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Do The People Around You Trust You?

Hey everyone! Did this question make you feel a little nauseous in the pit of your stomach? My mind did something like, “Yes! I think so… I hope so! Do they?” Then I started going through people in my mind to reconfirm my initial belief. Trust is this amorphous concept that we all know but […]

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Why Being Underestimated Can Be A Good Thing.

Hi everyone! I had a thought recently that may surprise you: Being underestimated may be a good thing. I know this seems to contradict my typical messaging and popular belief. People battle with being underestimated for many different reasons. Being too young or too old, or being of the wrong gender or background. Perhaps it is unconscious bias or simply a […]

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An Example Of Resilience.

Hi everyone! Almost everyone has a 9/11 story — especially those of us who lived in NYC at the time. Some of my friends’ stories brought me to tears. However, it was the story of a stranger that I have always remembered. Her story stuck with me as an example of perseverance, resilience, and heart all […]

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Managing The Relationships In Your Life.

Hi everyone! I have always thought that 13 was a lucky number. This is especially true for me today, since thirteen years ago today I married the most wonderful man. Happy Anniversary honey! (Let’s see if he reads this.) My husband and I don’t fight. We occasionally get snippy with each other but nothing that actually gets us […]

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How To Get Back Into Work After Summer Fun.

Hi everyone! Labor day weekend is around the corner! It rings in the last days of summer and signals the start of a new school year. September is actually one of the best times to apply for jobs. Since hiring happens in waves and summer is slow, the early Fall speeds up. More interviews happen and there is […]

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What To Do When ‘Things Happen’.

Hi everyone! Things happen. We can plan, but we can’t always control. It is a lesson I am trying to teach my son, who absolutely does not like it when things don’t go as planned! I explain to him that we need to be flexible and understanding with ourselves and others. I admit that it is not […]

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Success Shortie: Not Sure How To Answer A Question? Try This.

Hi everyone! In one of my recent newsletters, I gave you tips on how to answer any question. But what about those pesky questions that you can’t, shouldn’t or don’t want to answer? Whether it’s inappropriate, out of scope, or on a topic you would rather not dwell on, every now and then you are asked a […]

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Would You Be Friends With Someone Who Did This?

Hi everyone! How nice are you to yourself? Think about how often you put yourself down, are hard on yourself or have negative thoughts? If your friends spoke to you that way, would you be friends? If this sounds familiar, don’t beat yourself up. It is way too common. In fact, statistics show that nearly […]

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