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Be Ready to Engage With Readers—29 Ideas for Social Media Updates to Share

by Edie Melson @ediemelson
The holidays are upon us and so is the holiday rush. While this time is filled with fun, sometimes it can be hard to keep up with a normal routine. Instead of stressing, look at this list for quick and easy social media updates to share!
These 29 tips are divided into three sections—things we can do now and share later, things we can share on the fly, and things we should avoid sharing.
Things To Do Now and Share Later1. Keep a running list of quotes that inspire you. 
2. Use the FB save option and bookmark updates from others that you can share later.
3. Make a list of open-ended questions you can ask. 
4. Bookmark and save funny videos to share later.
Things to Share on the Fly5. People love to complain about the weather. So share what the weather is doing in your area and ask for others to share their info.
6. Post a link to music. You can tie it to what you’re writing and get extra interest. For example, when I’m working on my Steampunk novel, I write listening to the Pandora station, Lindsey Stirling. When I’m working on my Christian living manuscript, I love to have on a station from Warren Barfield.
7. Share a picture of where you’re working. I’ve noticed that my friends and followers love it when I share pics of my screened in back porch.
8. Take a pic while you’re out shopping. Many stores will monitor mentions and they may share or like your update.
9. Post a Bible verse that spoke to you recently—the more recent the better.
10. We’re all more than just writers, capitalize on that and share a hobby or passion that gives your readers a better all-round picture of you as a person. 
11. We all feel overwhelmed. So share something you’re doing that helps calm the chaos.
12. Post a link to a recent Amazon review you wrote for another author’s book. 
13. Issue a challenge. Here are some ideas: 3 Things you’re thankful for.Move more.Random act of kindness.
14. Share a favorite recipe. 
15. Or if time doesn’t permit, ask for suggestions for something quick to fix for dinner.
16. Look at the calendar for inspiration and share a silly holiday. I recommend visiting Today is:National Craft Jerky DayNational Bavarian Cream Pie DayPins and Needles DayTurtle Adoption Day17. Everyone loves movies. List one of your old favorites, or ask for opinions about a recent release.
18. We’re writers and authors, don’t forget to share what’s on your To Be Read list.
19. Pets are always a great way to connect. If you have a furry friend, that’s a great way to connect on the fly. Share a funny story, a picture, or ask a question.
20. Everyone is engaged on social media. Ask for opinions on favorite networks and what updates people like to read most. 
21. Travel is always a good topic. Share places you’ve been and places you’d like to go.
22. Share a quick meme. I love to use the WordSwag app on my phone to make fast memes while I’m out and about. 
23. Don’t be afraid to be real on social media. If you’ve had something funny happen to you, share it. People trust those who don’t take themselves too seriously.
24. Always be aware of the seasons and share related content. With fall coming up, get ready because I love to post pictures of the beautiful changing trees. 
25. Remember the day-of-the-week hashtags. For example, Thursday is TBT (Throw back Thursday). These are great conversation starters.
Things to Avoid Sharing26. Stay away from political rants. Yes, most of us have options. If you choose to express them, make sure they’re not inflammatory—unless you’re trying to build a platform as a political activist or political writer.
27. Don’t share anything derogatory about another person, brand, or situation. Trust me when I say that you will NEVER regret being nice. Things shared on social media will stay on social media, so avoid the negative posts.
28. Avoid the poor-pitiful me post. This isn’t a legitimate request for prayer, but more on lines of: I’m having such a horrible day. I wish people wouldn’t be so mean. These are manipulative posts meant to elicit sympathy and get us to ask more questions. 
29. I recommend you NOT share times when you’re away from home. Post vacation pictures when you return and don’t give burglars an open invitation. 
This list is just a start. Truthfully, it could go on forever. Now it’s your turn to add your favorite go-to social media updates. Be sure to leave your thoughts and suggestions in the comments section below. 
Don’t forget to join the conversation!Blessings,Edie
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Edie Melson is a woman of faith with ink-stained fingers observing life through the lens of her camera. No matter whether she’s talking to writers, entrepreneurs, or readers, her first advice is always “Find your voice, live your story.” As an author, blogger, and speaker she’s encouraged and challenged audiences across the country and around the world. Her numerous books reflect her passion to help others develop the strength of their God-given gifts and apply them to their lives. Connect with her on her website, through Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.

Are You Looking Back at Past Writing Disappointments, or Forward to God's Promises

by Edie Melson @EdieMelson
My friends, I don’t feel that I have already arrived. But I forget what is behind, and I struggle for what is ahead. I run toward the goal, so that I can win the prize of being called to heaven.This is the prize that God offers because of what Christ Jesus has done (Philippians 3:13-14 CEV).
Publishing is a tough business.
It’s almost impossible to write anything for public consumption without feeling like you’re throwing your heart into the lion’s den.And I don’t know about you, but I give negative comments a lot more credibility than the positive ones. The good ones I tend to disregard with the thought that the person commenting was just being nice.
Past rejections make it possible to shrivel up and die, at least as a writer. Feeding ourselves on what’s gone before forces us to a standstill. It’s easy to become overwhelmed with doubt, insecurity, and an almost overwhelming urge to give up.
Instead, we need to fill our minds with the affirmation that God sends our way.
I have two dusty scraps of paper that hang above my desk. One is from a critique partner. At the bottom of one of my pages she wrote several sentences, one of which told me she could see God in my writing.The other scrap is part of a note I received from one of my readers.
God sent me both of those messages when I was at a low point. He used them to renew my hope and assure me that He was using my words to touch others.
As writers, we must be careful who we let speak truth into our lives. If we give the enemy the power to tell us lies, we’ll find ourselves blocked and ineffective.
Instead, draw a line in the sand. Commit today, right now, to begin to live in the future, on the promises God has given you.
If you’re writing now, you know what I mean. You’ve heard that still, small voice call your name. You’ve gotten that confirmation you’ve asked for.
Now it’s time to move forward, believing God truly is big enough to make it happen. He doesn’t call us out, fully formed and ready. He calls us out when we’re weak—ready for Him to equip us.
Here's a prayer for those of us who are struggling to let go of the past.
Dear Lord, I have a memory problem. I remember negatives that I shouldn’t and forget positives that I should. Right now I can recall almost every negative remark ever said about my writing.Yet I have trouble remembering good comments.
Beyond that, my memory tends to rewrite history. It inflates and exaggerates the negative and minimizes the positive. I’m struggling to stay motivated and engaged because of this memory problem.
You are Lord of all—even my crazy thoughts. I know that You and You alone are able to help me. I need Your perspective and wisdom. I want to know honestly where I need to improve, but I also need to know what, and if, there’s anything good about the sentences and paragraphs I write.
I remember when I felt Your call to write. Assure me I didn’t imagine it or turn my selfish desires into a command from You. Help me recalibrate my faulty memory and sort out truth from fiction.
Sort through my mind and give me Your insight. I want to follow Your path with my writing, and I can only do that withYour illuminating truth. Amen.
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*This devotion and prayer are excerpts from Soul Care for Writers, from Bold Vision Books.
Edie Melson is a woman of faith with ink-stained fingers observing life through the lens of her camera. No matter whether she’s talking to writers, entrepreneurs, or readers, her first advice is always “Find your voice, live your story.” As an author, blogger, and speaker she’s encouraged and challenged audiences across the country and around the world. Her numerous books reflect her passion to help others develop the strength of their God-given gifts and apply them to their lives. Connect with her on her website, through Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.

Dismantling the Myths of Story Structure for Writers

by Zena Dell Lowe @ZenaDellLowe
Myth #1: Story Structure Makes Projects Formulaic
One prevalent misconception about story structure is that it forces writers into a rigid formula. However, this couldn't be further from the truth. Story structure is not about paint-by-numbers; it's about uncovering the timeless, universal principles that underlie all successful narratives. These principles, as old as Plato and Aristotle's teachings, are woven into the very fabric of the universe, providing an intuitive guide for storytellers. Once you tap into these principles, rather than constricting creativity, you’ll be empowered to craft stories that resonate with readers on a profound level. 
I've discovered that even when I initially deviated from trying to hit the markers in a traditional three-act structure narrative, if my story worked in the end, I could find these universal beats within the story upon reflection. Conversely, when stories faltered, it was almost always due to one or more missing story elements derived from these universal storytelling principles. Story structure is not about conformity or formulaic writing but about enhancing creativity by grounding the story in foundational storytelling truths.
Myth #2: Story Structure Kills Creativity 
Another myth suggests that story structure stifles creativity. This is especially a concern for those who call themselves 'pantsers,' writers who prefer to dive into writing without a rigid plan. Writers who do this are often accused of being lazy. I think it’s more because the idea of trying to plan out the story in advance is overwhelming and prior attempts to plot it out have likely failed or seriously stalled their efforts. Never mind that pantsers tend to have to rewrite their stories like crazy. At least they were able to complete a first draft, which they felt they would never be able to do if they spent precious time trying to plot out the story before writing. 
I certainly understand this dilemma. However, make no mistake: this not a problem with story structure. Rather, it’s a result of not having the proper tools to embrace story structure. Those who have the proper framework in advance save themselves a tremendous amount of time later on. Story structure is a tool designed to maximize efficiency and liberate creativity, not restrict it. Just as societal rules like stoplights create order and safety, story structure provides a framework for writers to navigate their narratives. It guides them through the journey while allowing the freedom to explore creative possibilities along the way.
And by the way, being a 'pantser' or a 'plotter' isn't a rigid binary; it's a spectrum. It’s disingenuous to say that pantsers don’t plan any part of their story in advance. That’s impossible. As for those who try to plan out every single detail, well, even when following a structure, adjustments and alterations must be made as stories evolve. Think of it as a road trip—while you may have a general destination in mind, the journey itself is filled with unexpected discoveries. Story structure serves as a roadmap, ensuring you hit those key, important pitstops along the way, all while keeping you on track to reach your ultimate destination and leaving you plenty of room for spontaneity and exploration.
Myth #3: Story Structure Is Too Complex
While story structure might seem complex, it's not reserved for geniuses alone. You don't need to be a genius; you just need the right tools. For example, I use an adapted and modified version of The Hollywood Beat Sheet, which offers a practical and intuitive approach to structuring my story that demystifies the process for me. A tool like this helps writers break it down step-by-step. It becomes more manageable to craft your story than you ever thought possible. Complexity becomes clarity, and you gain confidence in mastering this essential craft.
Myth #4: I'm the Problem, Not Story Structure
I often hear writers say things like, “I start but I never finish.” “I get bogged down by the mythology.” “I have ADD.” “I'm too distractible.” “I'm not disciplined enough.” In other words, they see themselves as the problem, not their knowledge or lack of story structure. These writers believe, “There's a character flaw in me that makes it impossible for me to finish my stories. Learning story structure isn’t going to help.”
The thing is, if we feel lost in the story, of course we’re going to procrastinate. We’re going to be distracted and undisciplined because we’re avoiding the story since we don’t know where to go. Story structure isn't about fixing a presumed character flaw in yourself. It's a tool to help keep you motivated and disciplined. It eliminates your need to avoid. Suddenly, you can express your creativity more effectively. 
If you've ever struggled to finish projects, it's not a flaw in your character; it's a lack of the right guidance. When you have a clear idea as to where you need to go in your story, when you have a tool that can give you the right kind of guidance, you’ll find that it allows your creativity to flourish without being bogged down by mythologies or distractions.
Myth #5: I Already Know Enough About Story Structure
Knowing the basics is one thing, but mastering story structure is a continuous journey. Even if you've taken courses or read books before, always be on the lookout to elevate your understanding of story structure. It's not just about knowledge; it's about applying that knowledge effectively. Don't settle for 'good enough'; strive for excellence by honing your skills and gaining fresh insights.
Not all tools on story structure are created equal. Don't let past experiences cloud your judgment; give yourself a chance to discover a new perspective that can transform your storytelling journey.
Embracing Story Structure as a Creative Tool
Whether you're a seasoned writer or just getting started on your journey, the focus should always be on delivering a well-structured narrative. It's not about selling out; it's about making your creative journey more intentional and satisfying. The question you want to explore is not about writing proficiency but rather about crafting stories with clarity, compelling arcs, and essential structural elements. 
If this is something you struggle with, check out my online course for fiction writers, “Story Structure Made Easy” . This course aims to equip you with the tools necessary to plot your story with excellence. What sets this course apart is the Hollywood Beat Sheet, a tool born from years of experience in storytelling. It's unique, offering fresh insights and practical applications that you won't find elsewhere.
Join me in an exploration of storytelling that combines the wisdom of timeless principles with the creative latitude to tell your unique tale. My course is designed to keep you on track while fostering creativity, ensuring your stories resonate deeply with your readers.
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Zena has worked professionally in the entertainment industry for over 20 years as a writer, producer, director, actress, and story consultant. Zena also teaches advanced classes on writing all over the country. As a writer, Zena has won numerous awards for her work. She also has several feature film projects in development through her independent production company, Mission Ranch Films. In addition to her work as a filmmaker, Zena launched The Storyteller’s Mission with Zena Dell Lowe, a podcast designed to serve the whole artist, not just focus on craft. In 2021, Zena launched The Storyteller’s Mission Online Platform, where she offers advanced classes and other key services to writers. Zena loves story and loves to support storytellers. Her passion is to equip artists of all levels to achieve excellence at their craft, so that they will truly have everything they need to change the world for the better through story.
To find out more about Zena or her current courses and projects, check out her websites at WWW.MISSIONRANCHFILMS.COM and WWW.THESTORYTELLERSMISSION.COM

5 Good Reasons to Take a Christmas Break from Writing

By Lori Hatcher @LoriHatcher2
With the Christmas season upon us (are you reading this while Black Friday shopping?), many writers struggle to create content amidst the pull of holiday activities. I mean, which would you rather do, write a blog post or watch It’s a Wonderful Life? Edit an article or make Peanut Butter Temptations ? Write a newsletter or decorate with the newest nativity set you found at Hobby Lobby? 
Even the most disciplined writer feels the pull to ditch writing and do Christmas.
I say, “Why not?”
Obviously, if you have a contract deadline or you’ve committed to submit an article, blog post, or devotion somewhere official, you must honor these commitments. But if you have some flexibility, taking time off from writing might not be a bad idea.
5 Reasons to Take a Christmas Break from Writing
1. People don’t read as much during December. Readers are busy with Christmas, too. Most blogs register their lowest number of pageviews in December. People are on the internet to shop, not read. If you’d like to take a break from blogging, December’s the best month to do it. If you don’t want to stop posting entirely, consider doing a Best Of series by sharing some of your most popular posts.
2. Many agents, editors, and publishing houses take extended time off during the holidays.If you’re working on a book proposal or pitch, recognize that publishing professionals, like the rest of us, take vacation time during the month of December. They have kids on break from school and college students home for the holidays, too. Publishing houses are unlikely to schedule Pub Board and Editorial Board meetings when key decision makers are out of the office. How sad would you feel if you missed your grandkids’ Christmas recitals to submit a book proposal in December, only to have it languish in someone’s Inbox until January?
3. Distracted minds seldom create engaging content. Let’s face it. If our hands are on the keyboard but our mind’s in the kitchen baking cookies, we’re gonna find it hard to write something wonderful. If our bottom’s in the chair but our heart’s at the Christmas parade, give it up. Nothing beautiful’s coming out of those fingers. Set your computer aside and go celebrate.
4. Time off can refill and refresh us. When we savor the season, dive deeply into family and church events, and spend time with friends and loved ones, we get filled up. We experience things that can inspire innumerable future posts, articles, and chapters. Savor the sights and sounds of the season. You’ll use it later, I promise. Give yourself permission to take time off without guilt, then come back renewed. 
5. Jesus celebrated. We can, too.The gospels bulge with stories about how Jesus attended weddings, festivals, and feasts. He honored holy days and celebrations. His wholehearted and holy participation reminds us that God in the flesh set aside His daily work to join with others to celebrate God’s goodness, so we can too. In the spirit of Jesus, go celebrate His birthday. Then come back, happy, holy, and ready to write for His glory.
Merry Christmas!
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Lori Hatcher loves to inspire and equip others through the written and spoken word. A popular women’s ministry speaker and writing/speaking instructor, Lori is an Advanced Communicator Gold and Advanced Leader Bronze with Toastmasters International. She writes for Our Daily Bread, Guideposts, Revive Our Hearts, and Crosswalk.com. Check out her latest devotional, Refresh Your Hope, 60 Devotions for Trusting God with All Your Heart, from Our Daily Bread Publishing. Connect with her at LoriHatcher.com or on FACEBOOK, TWITTER(@lorihatcher2) or PINTEREST(Hungry for God).

The Post Writing Conference World

by Henry McLaughlin @RiverBendSagas
Hello, fellow writer!
Another way to phrase this title is, “You Just Finished a Writers Conference. Now What?”
At a conference, your mind fills with visions of submitting requested material. Then there is the looking forward to applying all you learned. And let’s not forget firming up the networks you started with other writers.
Yes, this is all true and wonderful.
The word for what happens next is REALITY. It’s what happens when you walk in the door to your home.
Reality starts with the unpacking and sorting laundry rather than business cards. Reality is watering the droopy and thirsty gardens after several days of being away. And you’re amazed at how quickly the lawn grew. If you have a swimming pool, you’re faced immediately with adding water, checking chemical levels, cleaning leaves and other debris.
If you have pets, they’re running to meet you, ecstatic you’re home, yet giving you the look that sends waves of guilt over you because you left them.
Kids want to be hugged, chattering about what they did while you were gone, or snitching on their siblings.
Your spouse is waiting for the chaos to simmer down so they can welcome you home and have some special time with you.
And you might say to yourself, “Wait. Was the conference a dream? Did I imagine all that good stuff?” The calendar reminds you it’s been a few days since you’ve been home.
My advice is for you to take control of what happens next.
First, reconnect with God. Do this before you do anything else. You’re going to need his presence, his wisdom, his peace, and his direction as you ponder your writing and your return to reality.
Make the time to settle into your real world. Spend time with your spouse, with your kids, with your animals. Listen as they share their adventures. The priority here is to reconnect with the most important and most valuable people in your life. Make time to adjust to normal life with its routines and chores and relationships. Especially the relationships. Those relationships are what will get you through the challenges, the defeats, and the victories of your writing journey.
Perhaps at the conference, an agent or editor asked for a proposal or a query letter or chapters of the story you’ve labored over for years. Several years ago, one of the top agents in the country told us at a conference if this happens to you—Great! Celebrate it! But don’t send it as soon as you get home. If you send it shortly after the conference, it will be waiting for the agent/editor when they get into the office, along with everything else that came in while they were away. Your submission may get lost in the volume of material they will need to sort through.
Wait and make it the best you can. What you send is what the agent or editor will base their decision on. If it takes weeks or months for you to make it the best you can, let it take weeks or months. Don’t sweat the time. Focus on preparing the best material you can.
The same with applying all you learned. Put it aside for a few days. Then go through it one class at a time and decide what, if anything, is still useful to you and your writing. Sift through and glean the gems and nuggets that will improve your story and help you grow into a better writer.
For networking with all your new friends and writing partners, follow the same pattern. Give them time to settle into their own reality. Reach out gradually. Check out their website, their blog, their social media presence. Ask God for guidance—Lord, is this someone you want me to build a relationship with?
These are some nuggets I’ve learned over many conferences. I pray you find them helpful.A question for you: What have you found most helpful in returning from a conference?
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Henry’s debut novel, Journey to Riverbend, won the 2009 Operation First Novel contest.
Henry edits novels, leads critique groups, and teaches at conferences and workshops. He enjoys mentoring and coaching individual writers. 
Connect with Henry on his BLOG, TWITTER and FACEBOOK.

How Professional Writers Approach Deadlines

by DiAnn Mills @DiAnnMills
Deadlines tend to have a bad reputation. Editors require writers to submit contracted work on a specific day, and that can be a difficult task. But let me re-phrase that: editors require creative, out-of-the-box thinkers to submit a writing project on a specific date. Not a week or months later. If a writer labored in any other profession, they’d be dismissed for not completing their contracted work. 
Deadlines are a good thing for editors! This allows them to stay on schedule with the publishing house as they work through all areas to ensure the project is perfected for readers. 
What’s the downside of not making a deadline for the publisher? While the editor loves working on projects that are submitted on time, extra work is involved to deal with those arriving late. Every area connected with publishing a book is affected. Frustration and irritation can easily generate unwelcome emotions for all those who must adjust their schedules. The writer they once adored has demonstrated a lack of respect for the publishing house.
What’s the downside of not making a deadline for the writer? When a writer’s contract is finally completed and submitted, the publishing house might not be enthusiastic about contracting again., especially if they had to scramble to complete their work in a timely manner. The writer has proven he/she can’t be trusted with professionalism. The delinquent writer has damaged their integrity.
We writers must plan for our manuscripts to be turned in on or before the due date. Here is a five-step process to ensure we maintain our commitments. I’ve used this method for years, and while I might be up writing and editing in the wee hours of the morning, my publisher is happy.
5-Step Plan to Ensure I Meet My Writing Commitments1. As soon as a writer has a deadline, he/she studies their calendar. How many writing days (not including weekends, holidays, or traveling days) are available before the due date.2. Now back up the deadline two months. Determine how many writing days are available until two months before the due date.3. Divide the word count by the number of days reached in step 2. That’s how many words need to be written every day. We can’t shirk here, and if we do, then we need to make up for the lost word count on another day.4. With two months to spare before the contractual submission date, let the manuscript rest for two weeks. Don’t touch it. I call this the “cooking” time. Then with fresh eyes, edit hard using the method best suited for your personality. I’m a big fan of text-to-voice software. Newer versions of Word have this editing aid. Scrivener and other writing software also have this tool. Another editing help is Grammarly or Prowriting Aid .5. Turn in the manuscript on time. Celebrate. Relax. 
With the above simple process, a writer is labeled as easy to work with and a true asset to the publishing house. This marks a professional writer.
What approach do you use to meet your deadlines?
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DiAnn Mills is a bestselling author who believes her readers should expect an adventure. She creates action-packed, suspense-filled novels to thrill readers. Her titles have appeared on the CBA and ECPA bestseller lists; won two Christy Awards; and been finalists for the RITA, Daphne Du Maurier, Inspirational Readers’ Choice, and Carol award contests. 
She is the former director of the Blue Ridge Mountain Christian Writers Conference, Mountainside Marketing Retreat, and Mountainside Novelist Retreat with social media specialist Edie Melson. Connect here: DiAnnMills.com

Five Ways for a Writer to Stay Motivated When You Feel Like Quitting

Edie here and today I have some exciting news! Someone I greatly respect and admire is sharing her first, of I hope will be many, monthly posts with us here on The Write Conversation. Dr. Katherine Hutchinson-Hayes is a friend to many of us and I'm so glad she'll be sharing her insight with us all. Please give her a warm TWC welcome!!! 

Five Ways for a Writer to Stay Motivated When You Feel Like Quittingby Dr. Katherine Hutchinson-Hayes @KHutch0767
During a writer’s retreat where I was teaching and speaking, I received an emergency phone call from one of my family members between classes. The call left me feeling crushed, as the conference was a dream opportunity. My heart raced listening to the graphic details of the dilemma. Words unfolded like the suspenseful thrillers I write. The situation was overwhelming, and I felt powerless to help despite my desire to be there for my loved one. I had traveled out of town and was miles away. 
“Are you okay? Did you call the police? Which hospital?” I remember asking as I hurried to the bathroom so no one could see the tears spilling onto my new shirt. In that moment of crisis, I believed I would have to quit and leave my assignment. I also remember saying, “Every time things work out for me in my writing career, something happens where I must take care of someone else. Why do I even bother?” 
Later that day, before packing to leave, I spoke with my spouse about my relative's self-inflicted crisis. We mutually agreed that it was not my responsibility to resolve the situation. After taking time for prayer, contemplation, and a long run, I concluded that God wanted me to stay and prioritize my writing career.
As a Christian writer, staying motivated can be challenging, especially when faced with distractions, discouragement, and disappointment. Sometimes, it isn’t just the rejection or battles we face within the publishing industry that make us feel like quitting. It’s also our daily challenges, like complicated family dynamics. However, it’s essential to remember that God is always with us and has a plan for our writing journey. God also has a plan for our troubled loved ones, and unfortunately, we can’t rescue everyone from everything. With that mentality, we’ll eventually burn out.
5 Tips for Writers to Stay Motivated When Distracted, Discouraged, or Disappointed
1. Pray: Take a moment to reach God and pray for guidance and strength. Remember, He is always there to listen and offer comfort whenever we need it.
2. Find a community: Seek out the company of like-minded Christian writers who genuinely understand our struggles. We can find the strength and encouragement to keep moving forward in their presence.
3. Set goals: By setting clear goals, we empower ourselves to stay focused and motivated on our journey towards success. Remember to break down those goals into smaller, achievable steps to keep the momentum going.
4. Celebrate small victories: Recognizing and appreciating the small victories is vital, as they are the foundation of our success and encourage us to keep pushing towards our goals. Even though they may seem small, they are significant and worth celebrating. Let's take a moment to acknowledge and cherish these accomplishments.
5. Take breaks: Take a moment to pause and recharge when feeling overwhelmed or discouraged. Remember that rest is crucial to refocus and come back stronger.
Remember our purpose and why we started writing in the first place. Our writing has the potential to impact and inspire others, so keep pushing forward, even when it's hard. God has given us a unique gift and a purpose for our writing. Stay motivated and keep pushing forward, even when distracted, discouraged, and disappointed.
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Dr. Katherine Hutchinson-Hayes is a review board member and contributor to Inkspirations (an online magazine for Christian writers), and her writing has been published in Guideposts. Her work in art/writing is distinguished by awards, including the New York Mayor’s Contribution to the Arts, Outstanding Resident Artist of Arizona, and the Foundations Awards at the Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writer’s Conference (2016, 2019, 2021). She is a member of Word Weavers International and serves as an online chapter president and mentor. She belongs to FWA (Florida Writers Association), ACFW (American Christian Fiction Writers), CWoC (Crime Writers of Color),
AWSA (Advanced Writers and Speakers Association), and AASA (American Association of School Administrators). She serves on the nonprofit organization Submersion 14 board and the 540 Writer’s Community board and is an art instructor for the nonprofit organization Light for the Future. Katherine hosts the podcast Murder, Mystery & Mayhem Laced with Morality. She has authored a Christian Bible study for women and is currently working on the sequel to her first general market thriller novel. Her thriller A Fifth of the Story will debut in February 2024 through Endgame Press.
Katherine flourishes in developmental editing and coaching writers. She has a twenty-year career in education, leadership, and journalism. Katherine freelances as an educational consultant for charter schools, home school programs, and churches. In this role, she has written and edited curriculum, led program development, and helped manage growth facilitating and public relations.
She also works as an editor and book coach through her consulting business. Katherine provides skill, accountability, and professionalism so clients can begin, develop, and finish their writing projects for publication.

Expanding Writing and Marketing with LinkedIn

by Karen Whiting @KarenHWhiting
One social media that helps freelancers get connected for media interviews, grab reader's attention with video, get editing and coaching jobs, and more is LinkedIn. It's the second biggest platform for video watching.
LinkedIn's audience is more professional, and that means tweaking the way one posts and reaches out.. Users are professionals and tend to use it during the work week, but not as much on weekends. It's not a platform for direct marketing but for networking, and making business connections. That's great for getting to know editors, professionals who can help indie authors with graphics, printing and more, and connecting for marketing opportunities to speak or be a media guest. Nonfiction authors may find more prospect son LinkedIn but the groups for writers and connecting to editors are great for any writer.
First, update your profile. Check profiles authors who write books in your genre and decide what to showcase. You can share your authority to write, awards, and even speaking experience. Choose what's relevant to the types of connections you desire.. Notice in the profile where you can add graphics related to your work including documents or articles you've had published, and even a header photo behind your photo. Images and links to documents showcase your talent and ability. For example, add images next to your experience and your published works.
Once you update your profile, check your other social media, website, and online retail sites to make sure they are updated. 
Here are ways you can use LinkedIn for book promotion and to garner interest about your book.
Focus on GoalsSet a few goals of what you hope to gain from LinkedIn and set a strategy for reaching those goals.Use the profile to target your needs as a writer. That may be for editing jobs, speaking, getting published, or other goals. Once you decide that. be sure those interests come first and add related experience
Make Fruitful ConnectionsBefore asking to connect, heck the person's profile to be sure they are active users.Connect with authors in your genre for review possibilities.Connect with experts in the topic of upcoming books for possible endorsements, or to find people to interview. This is the place to go when seeking professional influencers.Connect with media hosts and station managers for guest opportunities. Connect with people you admire in your field. These people may open doors for you.Follow experts in marketing and books to gain from their wisdom.Publicists and coaches will ask to be friends to sell services. Discourage them with a reply that you are an expert and open to being hired.
Create Useful PostsUse key SEO phrases and words in hashtags to attract people you want to connect to such as event planners, editors, and publishing industry service providers. Limit hashtags to five on this platform.Repurpose posts from other social media, but tweak it for professionals. Avoid posting about your dog, kids, cat's antics, or other personal photos.Use posts to teach skills related to your brand, especially as LinkedIn is so connected to the google search engine. You can also post about a new release with reasons professionals might want to read or review it. Use posts to practice before creating a PPT for an event. You can share about a process or topic you will be teaching on and get feedback. Or you can do a survey or ask questions related to an upcoming talk.Create posts to link to great articles from which you learned. Add a note on the specific way it's useful.
Post Articles and VideosWrite articles but be focused on one topic in each article. It does not need to be long, but it should offer value.Repost articles or blog posts that garnered attention.Create short videos to share tips, information, and benefits of your book.
Join the Right Groups Join writing related groups and add comment on topics to increase your expertise.Join professional groups connected to topics you write about or areas in which you coach. It's a great place to discover opportunities for connecting, guest posting, and speaking as well as conferences that can expand your expertise. These groups tend to be lead generation opportunities.
Special Opportunities from LinkedInIf content management pops up to ask you to answer a few questions because they identified you as an expert, take advantage of the invite. Those are used to post AI writing suggestions and create articles that will be viewed by a huge number of people and may get posted links on google search engines. This increases both visibility and credibility.Endorse people's profile and hope others will endorse you too. If some write great endorsements ask if they'd review a book.
Money Making OpportunitiesExpand money-making opportunities by posting you have a specialty like editing or coaching you can offer. Showcase your talent by posting tips and articles in the area where you want to be hired.Fill out the services offered in your profile.Note that recruits and people hiring usually go through your profile.
Make the most of LinkedIn whether your goal is to learn more about writing and publishing, grow credibility, connect to publishers and authors, or find readers in the professional world. Watch for Changes. For example LinkedIn plans to roll out more uses of AI that could be helpful to authors.
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Karen Whiting (WWW.KARENWHITING.COM) is an international speaker, former television host of Puppets on Parade, certified writing and marketing coach, and award-winning author of twenty-seven books for women, children, and families. Her newest book, The Gift of Bread: Recipes for the Heart and the Table reflects her passion for bread and growing up helping at her grandparent’s restaurant. Check out her newest book Growing a Mother’s Heart: Devotions of Faith, Hope, and Love from Mothers Past, Present, and Future. It's full of heartwarming and teary-eyed stories of moms.
Karen has a heart to grow tomorrow’s wholesome families today. She has written more than eight hundred articles for more than sixty publications and loves to let creativity splash over the pages of what she writes. She writes for Crosswalk. Connect with Karen on Twitter @KarenHWhiting Pinterest KarenWhiting FB KarenHWhiting.

You are a Writer, Even in the Silence

by Tammy Karasek @TickledPinkTam
I’m excited about today and my post here on The Write Conversation. Why? Today marks my fifth anniversary of writing for the team. I had another post written and ready to send, and then had a thought—I know, that could be scary—but I thought it would be fun to share with you my very first post I submitted here back on November 18, 2018. 
There are times as a writer we can feel at a total loss for words. Have you experienced this? As a lover of words, this can make us wonder or doubt if we are in the correct field. We want to write, but we sit in silence. 
If I’m a writer, why can’t I find the words I want to say?
In those times where we have the lack of words, we can learn to use this quietness for our good. Often as writers our thoughts race faster than our fingers can tap on the keys or write with pens. But when the words seem to elude us—no matter how much we stare at the blinking cursor—we can become impatient and frustrated. We can yell out a groan or huff loudly as if that will dump words back into our brain. Just me?
What if we re-train ourselves to appreciate the silence? What if we learn to use that time as a great opportunity to stretch ourselves as writers?
I have three suggestions on how to use the silence and loss of words to better our writing:Take the opportunity to grab a study Bible, journal and pen and find a new spot to sit for a bit. Pick a word. Use either a word in your current work in progress or one on your mind. Start in the concordance and see if it’s there. If so, then follow it and all the marginal notes on a fabulous rabbit trail of study. If the exact word isn’t there, find a similar word and do the same. Often digging through scripture will get the mind processing. Go for a quick walk to get some fresh air. Changing the scenery from your same four walls can often jolt a new idea. And the body stretch is a great thing for a writer who tends to sit most of the day for his or her job. My last suggestion is one I’ve used a lot lately. Take a moment to do what I call Get Prone before the Throne. I turn off any noise and lie down on the floor in my office. Then I pour it all out to God. I tell Him that I’m stuck, and tell Him of the doubts and negative thoughts that satan is trying to overrun my thinking process with. And if I’m honest, there just may be a little tantrum action from time to time to blow off frustration steam!
Did it ever occur to us having writer’s block might be a little nudge from God? It may be that God is hungering for our time together way more than we are. We can get caught up in deadlines, word counts and posts to be set to drop that we forget to keep God in the very thing He’s called us to do. Write. Do we include Him? Hopefully we are writing FOR Him, but are we writing WITH Him? Ouch. I’m feeling a little guilt myself on this one. 
Instead of complaining when we have silence in our writing—or writer’s block—we can learn or train ourselves to use this as a tool in our writing life. Don’t let doubt creep in when the words just don’t come. We are still writers. Instead, let God use the silence for our good. Better yet, for His good. 
We’d love to hear some of your ideas on ways you’ve learned to take the writer’s silence and use it for your good in your writing life. 
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Tammy Karasek uses humor and wit to bring joy and hope to every aspect in life. Her past, filled with bullying and criticism from family, drives her passion to encourage and inspire others and give them The Reason to smile. She’s gone from down and defeated to living a “Tickled Pink” life as she believes there’s always a giggle wanting to come out! A writer of Romance—with a splash of sass. She’s also The Launch Team Geek helping authors launch their books and also a Virtual Assistant for several best-selling authors. She is now under contract for her book on Launch Teams due to release Fall 2023. Her work was also published in a Divine Moments Compilation Book—Cool-inary Moments. She’s also the Social Media Manager for the Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writers Conference, Founding President and current Vice-President of ACFW Upstate SC, and Founding President of Word Weavers Upstate SC. She’s a writing team member for The Write Conversation Blog, Novel Academy, MBT Monday Devotions, The Write Editing and more. Connect with Tammy at HTTPS://WWW.TAMMYKARASEK.COM.

As Writers We Must Battle and Defeat the Doubt that Always Comes

by Edie Melson @EdieMelson
It’s incredibly difficult to follow God’s path without defeating the doubt that has taken up residence in our souls. 
Doubt can be crippling to a writer. Like fear, doubt comes bubbling up from deep inside of us. It can handicap us in ways that are obvious and ways that kill us from the inside out. 
Writers face two major sources of doubt. The first comes from the voices that live in our heads. They accuse us, holding our less-than-perfect work up to ridicule in our minds and pointing out all the reasons we’ll never be good enough. The second is the voice of the enemy. He also whispers ugly lies that grow into weeds of doubt. If we don’t take care of these vicious plants—ripping them out by the roots—they’ll strangle our creativity and drown out our words. But the enemy is crafty. 
Other Important Truths About the Doubt Writers FaceHe uses different voices to speak these lies. Sometimes you’ll hear him in the voice of a well-meaning friend or relative. At other times, his voice will seem to come from a person of influence or from your mind. He’s a master at speaking in first person and imitating my voice.Believers often speak of our personal calling. We long to know that special something that God has for us to accomplish within his kingdom. Sometimes we treat the search for our calling as a quest or even a treasure hunt. But truthfully, our calling is buried deep within us, something we’re born with. It’s not a discovery to be made but a desire and yearning to accept and grow into. God has ordered all our days before we were born. He’s set into motion the events in and around us to shape us into what He has for us. Everything we need has been accounted for and placed within our grasp at the proper time. 
When we try to push past His timetable, we can become our own worst enemy. By rushing ahead or trying to work things out on our own, we make a jumbled mess. 
I’ve never met a writer whose road to publication was a straight path. All of them tell stories about a much longer journey, often filled with detours and odd twists. 
But one thing they all say is that they wouldn’t be where they are today without the experience they gained along the journey. 
Here’s my story:
I stared at the letter in my hand, almost unable to comprehend what I read. It was two days before Christmas, 1999. I’d been so sure God had called me to write, specifically to write Bible studies. This particular manuscript had been at the publishers over a year and, until that moment, I’d only received encouragement about the progress toward my first book contract.
Dear Mrs. Melson, We’re sorry but this manuscript doesn’t fitour needs at this time. While it’s a good manuscript, you just don’t have the platform needed.
First came the tears, then anger and frustration. Why had God planted this seed of hope within me only to deny me the opportunity?
Fast forward to Christmas 2007, the first year our family celebrated Christmas apart. Our oldest was serving as an infantry marine in Iraq. To say it was a tough year is almost a laughable understatement, but we made it through. God brought our son home safe.
Then on Veterans Day 2011 my first book debuted—a devotional for military families. The best first book I could have ever had because it was birthed out of the fire of experience. But I had to walk the path to get there. 
During those years—that long time which felt more like treading water than moving forward—God was refining my heart and giving me time to learn to write well.
I learned that just because I had a heart to write, and a calling to write, I still had a lot to learn. Raw talent is never enough. Nothing can replace experience.
Take a look around you right now. You’re in a unique place, a place that has a lot to teach you, a place you’ll never be able to return to. Don’t waste the experiences you have access to right now. Go deep and wide as a writer, and no matter what the future brings you’ll have built a boat circumstances can never sink.
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Edie Melson is a woman of faith with ink-stained fingers observing life through the lens of her camera. No matter whether she’s talking to writers, entrepreneurs, or readers, her first advice is always “Find your voice, live your story.” As an author, blogger, and speaker she’s encouraged and challenged audiences across the country and around the world. Her numerous books reflect her passion to help others develop the strength of their God-given gifts and apply them to their lives. Connect with her on her website, through Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.