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How Writing Ruined My Wife: The Scary Parts of Being Married to a Writer

by Kirk Melson
I used to love taking my wife out to eat. It was always a carefree time when we could visit about what was going on in our lives, share our dreams and our struggles. 
Then she began to write…fiction.
And the carefree quickly morphed into the socially awkward. Oh we still discussed our dreams and our struggles and what was going on in our lives, but the stories she was (and still is) writing began to intrude. 
I’ve always loved her book ideas and personally I think she’s a genius writer. And I’m NOT saying that because she’s my wife. She’s really good. She writes the kind of books I like to read—scifi and mystery/suspense—the kind of books a man can sink his teeth into.
And as an engineer I’m fascinated by the process. I still marvel at how her mind comes up with this stuff! But that’s also the challenging part for eating out…in public. Contrary to what I thought about fiction writers, these books don’t just spring forth fully formed. There are hundreds (sometimes thousands) of little details to be ironed out before everything fits together just right.
Details like how to murder someone. Or how to make her characters act right. I mean really, they’re imaginary characters. I would have thought they’d have been easy to control. 
As usual, I was dead wrong.
And meal times seems to be when Edie is most comfortable discussing these problems with me. I’m flattered really. I can’t imagine why she’d think I’d have any insight into the challenges she’s facing. 
And I can assure you, I do NOT have any experience in murdering someone.
But that doesn’t stop conversations like this from occurring at our favorite restaurants.
“I need your help with an issue I’m having with my antagonist.” An innocent enough way to start dinner conversation.
“Sure. How can I help?” I want to support her anyway possible. What else could I say?
“Well, we need to plan a murder.” She says it so matter of factly, like it’s a common topic of conversation. 
I notice a few people glance our way, like they’re certain they couldn’t have heard that correctly.
“Are you sure you want to talk about that here?” I can see it coming, but can’t stop it or even get out of the way.
“Why not? We’re alone, no kids. What could be better?” 
What indeed? “Okay, shoot.”
She frowns. “No, I need something more original than just shooting or stabbing someone. It’s got to be unique, and hard to solve.”
No those around us have stopped eating, some mid bite. My only thought is to get this topic finished and on to another one before someone calls the police. “I have to admit I can’t imagine. Maybe some kind of poison.”
“That sounds like a possibility, maybe something slipped into her food or drink.” She stares into space for a moment then smiles. “When I get home I’ll research some poisons and see if that helps.”
Then she’s off chatting about another subject. 
I on the other hand am signaling to the waiter for the check. I want to be long gone before the police arrive.
Has this happened to anyone else out there? Give a struggling spouse some perspective!
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Edie & Kirk Melson love nothing more than God and doing life together! Edie is an author who feels lost without her camera and a card-carrying introvert who loves to encourage an audience. And she embraces the ultimate contradiction of being an organized creative. As an author, blogger, and speaker she’s encouraged and challenged audiences across the country and around the world—often with her husband at her side. Kirk is an engineer of 40+ years. And while his professional training isn’t in the publishing industry, He’s Edie’s support in all she does. You can also find Kirk writing for www.Stop2Read.com sharing his insights on God's Word.
Kirk is instrumental in helping her behind the scenes as Edie directs the Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writers Conference and runs an online blog that's been included in the Writer's Digest list of 101 Top Sites for Writers since 2017. 
They live in the upstate of SC (the foothills of the Blue Ridge Mtns) near all three of their grown sons and grandkids. When they’re not playing with computers and/or babies, you can often find them with their big black dog wandering the mountains—Edie hanging off ledges for the best pictures and Kirk carrying her tripod.

Why Writers W.R.I.T.E

by Crystal Bowman
Writers write for a variety of reasons. For some it’s a hobby, for some it’s a ministry, for others it’s a career, and for many it’s all of the above. We write because God has called us to write. We write to process our thoughts and emotions. And we write because we have something to say. 
Let’s look at the word WRITE and dissect it letter by letter.
W – WORDS
As a writer, I love words. I love the rhythm of words, the sound of words, and the playfulness of words. As we string words together, we create phrases, sentences, paragraphs, and stories. I often think of words like the pieces to a jigsaw puzzle. Every word needs to fit perfectly with the word before it and after it. Extra pieces are unnecessary, and missing pieces leave the project incomplete. 
A skilled writer uses words to evoke emotion and offers scenarios that the reader can clearly visualize. Words are powerful, sensitive, harsh, or tender. With an endless supply of vocabulary words, writers must choose their words carefully as they create their masterpieces and share them with others.
R – REACH
Written words have far greater reach than spoken words. Even if my message is recorded, my spoken words may only reach a handful of people. Written words, however, can reach hundreds, thousands, and millions. 
Many of my children’s books have been translated into foreign languages with global distribution. I am unable to travel to all these places to share the Bible stories and devotions God has put on my heart, but my books can go anywhere and everywhere. Whether you write books, magazine articles, blog posts, or newsletters, the words you write and the messages you share through your writing will reach more readers than you will ever know. 
I – INSPIRE
Our words can inspire others to do better, try harder, love deeper, be more empathetic, and draw closer to God. The morning devotion that arrives in an inbox can be just what someone needs to start their day. A magazine article may motivate someone to step out of their comfort zone and tackle something on their bucket list. A blog post might convince someone to reach out to restore a broken relationship. And the book you wrote on finding joy may inspire someone to face their day with a smile no matter the circumstances. 
T - TEACH 
As a former preschool teacher, I appreciate opportunities to teach children through my books. From alphabet books and counting books, to Bible story books and picture books, I can help children learn and grow academically, spiritually, and emotionally. 
As a reader, I appreciate opportunities to learn from my fellow authors who write books on soul care, healthy habits, Bible studies, and hospitality. I enjoy learning and growing to become the person God created me to be. I also enjoy historical fiction since history was not my best subject in school. I recently read a novel that taught me about the Halifax Explosion since the event was woven into the setting of the story. 
E – ENTERTAIN
After a long, busy day of facing daily demands, there’s nothing I love more than sinking into a comfy spot and reading a good novel to escape my reality for an hour or two. Romance, humor, suspense, mystery, adventure—you name it! Anything and everything is possible when we open a book and turn the pages. Books that entertain us are gifts from the author, and I appreciate those who use their gift of writing to create stories for pure enjoyment. Reading is affordable, comfortable, exciting, and effortless. 
IN CONCLUSION
I am grateful for the opportunities God has given me to write, and I am grateful for all writers who use their gift of writing to reach, inspire, teach, and entertain the world with their chosen words. 
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Crystal Bowman is an award-winning, bestselling author of more than 100 books for children and families. She also writes lyrics for children’s piano music and is a monthly contributor to Clubhouse Jr. Magazine, Arise Daily, and Christian Children's Authors. She enjoys coaching children's writers as well as teaching at writers conferences. When she is not writing or speaking, she likes going for walks and spending time with her huggable grandkids. She and her husband live in Michigan and Florida and try to avoid snowstorms.
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Enter the 2025 CAN Marketing Awards!

by Susan U. Neal RN, MBA, MHS @SusanNealYoga
Attention Christian authors! Are you ready to get noticed for your exceptional marketing efforts? The Christian Authors Network (CAN) Excellence in Marketing Awards are back for 2025, offering you a chance to amplify your reach, gain recognition, and take your author platform to new heights.
This prestigious award celebrates outstanding Christian author marketing. By entering, you’ll gain access to exclusive promotions and priceless publicity that can make a real difference in your career.
Why Enter the CAN Marketing Awards?
The benefits go beyond just winning. Here’s what you could gain:Media Exposure: Press releases announcing the winners will be shared with over 400 major Christian media outlets, including magazines, websites, and TV networks. This kind of exposure positions you as a respected voice in Christian media.Reach Thousands of Readers: Gain exposure to 15,000 Christian readers—a promotional email boost that’s simply priceless.Grand Prize Public Relations Package: The top winner will receive a public relations package from Jones Literary, valued at $1,997. This package includes media training, coaching, an editorial calendar, and more to set you up for continued success.Retailer and Blogger Announcements: Your book will be introduced to over 1,400 Christian retailers and 400 book review bloggers, generating interest, reviews, and sales.Social Media Boost: Winners will be highlighted in the CAN blog and Celebrate Lit’s Social Media Building Giveaway Share Promo.Award Recognition: Winners will receive an award trophy and be celebrated at The Blue Lake Christian Writers Conference on March 14, 2025—an excellent networking opportunity!Expert Feedback: Receive valuable insights from industry judges on your marketing campaign. Their advice can guide your future strategy and help you refine your approach to better connect with your audience.
Words from Past Winners
Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith, author of Sacred Rest, shares: “It was a joy to be selected as the 2019 gold winner...The experience has allowed me to work with many authors and publishing houses to create book launches and PR marketing strategies to gain more media exposure for their works.” 
The CAN Marketing Awards have catapulted past winners into the spotlight, and this year, it could be your turn!
Who Can Enter?
The awards are open to all Christian authors, whether traditionally or independently published, in both fiction and nonfiction. Submit your most innovative and results-driven marketing campaign from 2024 under one of these categories:Online Marketing: Website, blogs, newsletters, social media campaignsPhysical Media and Print Materials: Posters, postcards, flyers, direct mailBroadcasting and Events: Podcasts, videos, conferences, book signings, and tours
Our judges will be looking for strategic campaigns with measurable results. They want to see genuine human engagement, creativity, investment, and solid outcomes! Be sure to include analytics and any success metrics in your submission.
Ready to Amplify Your Platform?
Invest in this career-boosting opportunity. Don’t wait—submit your entry by December 1, 2024 for a chance to win this prestigious honor. Learn more about the guidelines and submit your entry at https://christianauthorsnetwork.com/marketing. Stand out from the crowd and let your message reach new horizons with the 2025 CAN Marketing Awards!
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Susan U. Neal, RN, MBA, MHS: Susan’s mission is to improve the health of the body of Christ. She has her RN and MBA degrees, as well as a master’s in health science. She is a CERTIFIED HEALTH AND WELLNESS COACHwith the American Association of Christian Counselors. She published five books, the Selah award winner 7 STEPS TO GET OFF SUGAR AND CARBOHYDRATES, CHRISTIAN STUDY GUIDE FOR 7 STEPS TO GET OFF SUGAR AND CARBOHYDRATES, HEALTHY LIVING JOURNAL, SCRIPTURE YOGAa #1 Amazon best-selling yoga book, and YOGA FOR BEGINNERSwhich ranked #3. She published two sets of Christian Yoga Card Decks and two Christian Yoga DVDs that are available at CHRISTINAYOGA.COM. Her digital product HOW TO PREVENT, IMPROVE, AND REVERSE ALZHEIMER’S AND DEMENTIA is a great resource. To learn more about Susan visit her website SUSANUNEAL.COM You can also connect with Susan on FACEBOOK, TWITTER, and INSTAGRAM.

Writers Do Not Give Up—Your Words Inspire Others

Edie here and boy do I have a treat for you. We have another new columnist at The Write Conversation! Today I'm introducing you to a woman I greatly respect, Kennita Williams. I know you will benefit from her humble wisdom as much as I have. AND she'll be joining us every month. Be sure to give her a warm TWC Welcome!

Writers Do Not Give Up—Your Words Inspire Othersby Kennita "Kay" Williams
Writing can sometimes feel like a solitary and challenging journey. There are moments when the words flow, and then there are seasons when every sentence feels like a struggle. In these times, doubt can creep in, making you wonder if your work has any real value or impact. But remember, as a writer, you hold a gift. Your words have the power to inspire, heal, and encourage others in ways you may never fully understand.
When you feel discouraged, know this truth: you are called to write. Your words matter, and they can impact on the lives of others far beyond what you may ever see.
The Bible says in Habakkuk 2:2 (NIV), “Then the Lord replied: ‘Write down the revelation and make it plain on tablets so that a herald may run with it.’” God instructed Habakkuk to write the vision down so others could be inspired and moved to action. Writing is not a passive activity—it is a divine assignment with the potential to lead others toward hope and truth.
Writing as a Calling
Like Habakkuk, you are called to write, to share insight and encouragement. Even when you feel no one is listening, your writing is a tool God uses to reach others. You may not always see the immediate impact of your words, but that does not mean they are not making a difference.
Just as a seed is planted before it grows into something visible, your words are seeds being sown in the hearts of others. Trust that even in seasons of doubt, your words serve a purpose far greater than you may realize.
The Power of Words
Proverbs 18:21 reminds us, “The tongue has the power of life and death.” Your writing has the potential to bring life—to offer encouragement, wisdom, and joy to those who read it. Think about moments when someone else’s words impacted you. Someone took the time to write, and their words made a difference in your life. What if that writer had given up?
Your writing has the same potential. Your unique voice, perspective, and experiences make your words irreplaceable. Someone is waiting to be inspired by what you have to say.
Perseverance in Writing
Every writer faces challenges—writer’s block, self-doubt, and the pressure to produce something meaningful. But what separates successful writers from those who give up is perseverance. Galatians 6:9 encourages us, “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” Writing is a form of doing good—it is your way of serving others through your gift.
Do not let temporary setbacks convince you that your writing doesn’t matter. Keep going, knowing that in due time, the seeds you’ve planted will grow.
Trust the Process
Writing is an act of faith. You may not see the impact right away, but trust that God is using your words in ways you cannot imagine. On the hard days, when doubt overwhelms you, remember that God gave you this gift for a reason. He placed a message within you that the world needs to hear.
Keep writing, keep believing, and trust in the process. The work you are doing is not in vain. Someone, somewhere, is waiting for your words to bring them hope and clarity.
Let me pray for you!
Dear Heavenly Father,
I thank You for the gift of writing. When doubt and discouragement creep in, remind me that You have called me to this work for a greater purpose. Strengthen me to keep going, even when the journey is hard. Help me to trust that my words will inspire and bless others. Let my writing reflect Your love and wisdom, and may it bring hope to those who need it. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
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Dr. Kennita “Kay” Williams is a Visionary Leadership Coach, Author, Resilience Expert, and Wellness Advocate. Through her Business/Ministry, Clear Vision, she empowers leaders to navigate challenges, gain clarity, and lead with purpose. Dr. Kay’s mission is to inspire wholeness and healing. She can be contacted at www.clearvisionleader.com.

Surrendering our Writing to God’s Plan

by Katherine Hutchinson-Hayes @KHutch0767
Throughout my journey as an author, I’ve encountered successes and failures, difficult times, and moments of triumph. Despite achieving publication victories, I grapple with disappointment, closed opportunities, and rejection. During these challenging periods, I seek solace in God, which helps me to recall that there’s much to appreciate. Ultimately, I’m reminded that God is at the center of each struggle and victory, especially when we embrace the power of surrender.
Writers who follow the Christian faith have been given a unique talent to convey the truth and love of God through their writing. Whether it’s a Bible study, a gripping novel, a devotional, or a blog post, we can motivate, uplift, and provoke others in their spiritual path. However, this talent comes with significant accountability, and we must employ it judiciously. 
4 Ways to Surrender Our Writing to God1. Convey the message of Christ with clarity and modesty: In James 3:1, we read: “Not many of you should become teachers, my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly” (NIV). This passage reminds us that, as writers, we are responsible for handling God’s truth with care and precision. We should be thorough in our research, prayer, and study of the Bible, consistently striving to convey the message of Christ with clarity and modesty.2. Write with Compassion and Empathy: Beyond accuracy, we must also strive to write with compassion and empathy. Our words shouldn’t be used to tear down or belittle others but to build up and encourage them. As Ephesians 4:29 says, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what helps build others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen” (NIV).3. Glorify God: As we write, we must also remember our goal isn’t to impress others with our words but to glorify God. Whether we’re writing for an audience of one or one million, our focus should always be honoring Him. As it says in Colossians 3:23-24, “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving” (NIV).4. Surrender our Writing to God: We must surrender our writing to God’s plan and life purpose. We may have our ideas and goals, but ultimately, it’s God who directs our paths. As Proverbs 16:9 says, “In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps” (NIV).Let’s strive to write with accuracy, compassion, and humility, always focusing on glorifying God and surrendering our writing to His plan. May our words reflect His love and truth, and may they inspire others in their faith journey.
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Dr. Katherine Hutchinson-Hayes is a review board member and contributor to Inkspirations (an online magazine for Christian writers), and her writing has been published in Guideposts. Her work in art/writing is distinguished by awards, including the New York Mayor’s Contribution to the Arts, Outstanding Resident Artist of Arizona, and the Foundations Awards at the Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writer’s Conference (2016, 2019, 2021). She is a member of Word Weavers International and serves as an online chapter president and mentor. She belongs to FWA (Florida Writers Association), ACFW (American Christian Fiction Writers), CWoC (Crime Writers of Color),
AWSA (Advanced Writers and Speakers Association), and AASA (American Association of School Administrators). She serves on the nonprofit organization Submersion 14 board and the 540 Writer’s Community board and is an art instructor for the nonprofit organization Light for the Future. Katherine hosts the podcast Murder, Mystery & Mayhem Laced with Morality. She has authored a Christian Bible study for women and is currently working on the sequel to her first general market thriller novel. Her thriller A Fifth of the Story will debut in February 2024 through Endgame Press.
Katherine flourishes in developmental editing and coaching writers. She has a twenty-year career in education, leadership, and journalism. Katherine freelances as an educational consultant for charter schools, home school programs, and churches. In this role, she has written and edited curriculum, led program development, and helped manage growth facilitating and public relations.
She also works as an editor and book coach through her consulting business. Katherine provides skill, accountability, and professionalism so clients can begin, develop, and finish their writing projects for publication.

Don't Let Your Writing Get Sidetracked by Distracting Questions

by Larry J. Leech II @LarryJLeechII
Write at home or at a coffee shop?
With friends or by oneself?
Music or no music?
Short chapter or long chapter
Write or edit?
A popular villain in Batman Forever movie said near the end of the movie in an exasperated tone, “Too many questions. Too many questions.”
Writers often face a number of questions. Sometimes the answer is cut and dried, black and white, or simply this and not that. But most of the time, the answer relies on the writer’s personal preference.
In all my years of working with writers, particularly those new to the publishing journey, many want a concrete answer. They often get frustrated when there isn’t one. 
3 Frequent Questions from Writers I Hear Are:“How long should my chapter be?“How many words should I write a day or how many hours?”“When should I write?”
All great questions, but none of which have a concrete answer. Chapters can vary in length, depending on the topic or the story. I teach that 2,300-2,700 words works best, but a chapter of 1,200 words can work, if it fits the flow of the story. Thirty-five hundred words can work too. 
The most important thing to remember about chapter length: don’t bog down the story with unnecessary details or information that could make the reader lose interest. If the reader does, reading becomes work and they’ll likely stop reading.
As for the second question, whatever works best for the author, which is something I say often. Some people are capable of writing 1,000 words a day. Others 500. The key is not committing to a total that will eventually overwhelm the author and they stop writing. I do stress to NOT try and write for eight straight hours on a weekend. Most new writers just don’t have the discipline to write for that length of time. 
Remember, 500 words a day equals 2,500 words a week, 10,000 words a month, 60,000 words in six months. And I would discourage an author from writing seven days a week early in their writing journey. That’s just too demanding. 
The third question depends on each person. Jerry B. Jenkins wrote many of his first books at night after his kids went to bed. Ted Dekker wrote late at night early in his career. Each person must find their peak writing time. Several writers I’ve coached have said they write best in the morning, around 4:00-5:00 a.m., before the family gets up. I always reply, “Hats off to you. I do one thing at that time. … Sleep.”
I’m sure you’ve heard this, and read this, over and over: Writing a book is a marathon, not a sprint.
So, don’t wear yourself out at the beginning and flame out. Pace yourself. Find what works best for you. Enjoy the journey. 
In the end, you want to make sure you finish what you started. And celebrate. And rejoice!
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Editor-in-Chief at Bold Vision Books and writing coach of award-winning authors, Larry J. Leech II has spent more than forty years writing and editing. He started his career as a sportswriter in southwestern Pennsylvania where he covered prep, college, and pro sports, including the Pittsburgh Pirates and Steelers. 
In 2004, after 2,300 published articles, Larry moved into the book publishing industry. Since that time, he has ghostwritten 30 books, edited more than 400 manuscripts, and coached hundreds of authors through the writing and publication process. You can find him online on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram.

Don’t Be a Leaky Writer

by Martin Wiles @LinesFromGod
Slowly, we filed into the room—some rubbing their sleepy eyes. For months, no alarm had governed our lives. Summer vacation still tickled our brains. A few were already seated—eager, ready to get started. Most lugged a large cup of coffee or water or something. The session before us was long. Some of us brought iPads, and others carried notebooks. Our first teacher-in-service day was at hand. 
I was one of the eager ones. Every year, on the first day of our meetings, I anticipate our Head of School’s devotion. He’s a wise man for whom I hold deep respect. Each year, he gives us a different word for our school theme. So, I sat, anticipating what this year’s word would be. He didn’t disappoint me. Transformed. 
To illustrate the theme, he showed a circle of cups his wife had taped to a tray. Encircling the larger circle of cups was a circle of smaller cups. I noticed the larger cups had holes in them. 
When he brought out a water pitcher, I wondered what was next. But we had heard his devotion by this time, and I imagined I knew what was coming. The water filled the large cups—until it encountered a hole. Then, it quite naturally leaked from the cup. Nor could it fill the smaller cups because the holes caused the water to leave the cup before it overflowed. 
He ended with an application. We teachers and the other faculty were the large cups, but we didn’t need the holes. And somehow, we were supposed to overflow into the smaller cups—the students we taught. 
Paul says we need to allow the Spirit to guide our lives so we won’t obey the desires of our sinful nature, which leads to holes and interferes with overflowing. “So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Then you won’t be doing what your sinful nature craves” (Galatians 5:16 NLT).
But we don’t have to be teachers to learn from the illustration. We writers can also learn a thing or two. Just as God wants believers to channel the mercy we have received from him, he also wants experienced writers to leak into the lives of learning writers. Someone helped us; now it’s our turn to help someone else. We might do this through editing, a writing group, or one-on-one mentoring, but do it we should. 
In many ways, the writing life is solitary, but holes appear when we invest only in ourselves and forget about others who are on a similar journey. God has enough work for all of us. Our job is not to compete but to overflow into each other’s lives so we can send God’s message of love to the world through our words—words that are crafted as carefully as possible with God’s help and each other’s assistance. 
Holes appear when love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, gentleness, goodness, faithfulness, and self-control don’t pepper our lives. And when the holes appear, we can’t fill up and then leak into the lives of others, or at least not to our full potential. God wants us to overflow, not leak. 
Think of ways to keep the holes out of your writing cup so you can overflow into the lives of other writers. 
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Martin Wiles lives in Greenwood, SC, and is the founder of Love Lines from God. He is a freelance editor, English teacher, pastor, and author. He serves as Managing Editor for both Christian Devotions and Vinewords.net and is an instructor for the Christian PEN (professional editor’s network). Wiles is a multi-published author. His most recent book, Hurt, Hope and Healing: 52 Devotions That Will Lead to Spiritual Health, is available on Amazon. He and his wife are parents of two and grandparents of seven. He can be contacted at mandmwiles@gmail.com.

What Happens When Your Writing Routine is Suddenly Disrupted?

by Beth Vogt @BethVogt
I had a new experience last month.
I broke two bones in my right wrist—yes, my dominant hand. This is my first time ever breaking a bone or two, and it was all thanks to our sweet dog Jo. She's 12 years old now, getting a bit deaf, and she meanders quite a bit when we take her on walks. I like to take photos when we go on our morning walks. Of the sunrise. Or the occasional deer. Some cheerful sunflowers. Her meandering and my photography spelled disaster early one morning when she tripped me. Down I went, hitting the asphalt hard.
So here I am wearing a hard cast through October, voice dictating my blog post. It's been interesting, to say the least.
Here's one thing I learned: it hurts to break a bone, even two little bones in your wrist.
Some are of you are thinking, “Duh, Beth!” But as a first timer to x-rays and splints and now a cast, I really didn't know. I’ll be much more sympathetic to people wearing casts in the future.
Here's another thing I learned: it's just an arm cast. Is this inconvenient? Yes. I had just settled into the routine of writing sprints every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. These 90-minute writing times were so helpful to producing word count for my work in progress (WIP).
Now this.
I'm trying voice dictation, which is anything but perfect. As I work on this blog post, it's pretty user friendly. Other days, it's been so grumpy, acting like I'm speaking some unknown language and refusing to correctly type every other word I say. That's not fun at all.
But you know what I realized? There are people who face far more challenging things than an arm cast every single day of their lives. Eventually, I won't be wearing this cast. But they will still have to navigate their obstacles.
One more thing I've learned: I can choose to be as grumpy as voice dictation or I can choose gratitude.
Some days I've been grumpy. (Just being honest here.) I can't write in my daily gratitude journal, but once again thanks to voice dictation, I can speak what I'm grateful for into a Word document. Just a few things I’m thankful for:I didn't get a concussion when I fell.I didn't need surgery on my wristMy husband’s been so helpful and picked up a lot of slack.Family and friends have been so encouraging. 
Just one more thing I want to share with you, my friends. I've been reminded God sees us where we are. And he loves us. He gave me two specific Bible verses that encouraged me when I was feeling grumpy, and I'd like to share them with you:

For I am the LORD your God, who upholds your right hand,who says to you, “Do not fear, I will help you.” Isaiah 4:13 NASB95

Even there your hand will lead me, And your right hand willLay hold of me. Psalm 139:10 NASB95
How have you adjusted when your writing routine was disrupted? What lessons did you learn?
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Beth K. Vogt believes God’s best often waits behind the doors marked “Never.” She’s authored 15 novels and novellas, both contemporary romance and women’s fiction. Beth is a Christy Award winner, an ACFW Carol Award winner, and a  RITA® finalist. Her newest contemporary romance novel, Dedicated to the One I Love, released June 20, 2023. Her novel Things I Never Told You, book one in her Thatcher Sisters Series by Tyndale House Publishers, won the 2019 AWSA Golden Scroll Award for Contemporary Novel of the Year. An established magazine writer and former editor of the leadership magazine for MOPS International, Beth blogs for Learn How to Write a Novel and The Write Conversation and also enjoys speaking to writers group and mentoring other writers. She lives in Colorado with her husband Rob, who has adjusted to discussing the lives of imaginary people. Connect with Beth at BETHVOGT.COM.

 

Three Tips to Move Forward When You find Yourself Writing in Circles

by Lilka Raphael @Lilka_Raphael
Three Steps to Minimize Writing Frustration
“I am irritated by my own writing. I am like a violinist whose ear is true, but whose fingers refuse to reproduce precisely the sound he hears within.” Gustave Flaubert
In a perfect world, we would write from beginning to end without delay and interruption. However, life happens. A writer’s life is often circular, not linear. The process of writing is plagued with insertions, deletions, and revisions. We can have the best of plans only to succumb to circumstances beyond our control.
When we feel like we are going in circles, it is tempting to quit. Still, the very things that delay our plans can also teach us empathy and grant us insight that benefits our readers. Here are three suggestions to minimize the vexation that accompanies the privilege of writing.
1. Stop WritingThough counterintuitive, it may be time to put our efforts elsewhere. Do not remain bogged down with a project to the detriment of other viable opportunities. Be willing to pivot and invest time in something else. If you are concentrating on one project, consider jumping ahead to another chapter. When we acquiesce to writing in a different sequence, our creativity can flow freely. We can then resume our original work with a fresh perspective that obliterates writer’s block.
2. Trust Your InstinctsWriting is often challenging but it should not be a battle. If you struggle to write the words, your audience may struggle to read them. Forcing something that is not quite finished toward publication is one of the biggest regrets I hear from other writers. If they had taken more time, spoken to another agent, or selected a different publisher, their work would have met their expectations. Rushing forward isn’t always the answer. Everything we write is not suitable for immediate publication. Patience allows us to remain confident as we await the proper timing, market conditions, and industry professionals that will allow our work to shine. 
3. Trust God’s TimingWe all crave immediate success. Yet, we may not be mature enough to manage the blessing we pray for. God must prepare us for the pitfalls that accompany our gains. Likewise, our blessings are connected to other people. It’s not all about us. Trust God to put the pieces together at the designated time. We can remain at peace when we flow with setbacks instead of fighting them. Every delay is not an obstacle. Instead, view them as detours that allow us time to refine our work.
Breathe. Take the pressure off. Frustration stifles creativity. Navigating life’s challenges through prayer, discipline, and perseverance will allow us to contain it.
And we desire that each one of you show the same diligence to the full assurance of hope until the end, that you do not become sluggish, but imitate those who through faith and patience inherit the promises (Hebrews 6:11-12 NKJV).
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A Florida native, Lilka Finley Raphael has been a licensed pharmacist for over thirty years. Her passions for writing, gardening, and photography prompted her to share her experiences and life lessons on her blogs B Is for Blessed and God, autism, & me. You can learn more about her at lilkaraphael.com
Lilka’s greatest achievements are her two adult sons who have flown the nest. Happily married for thirty-two years, she lives east of Atlanta with her husband, Rod. They now share their home with two German Shepherds—Holly and Ivy—and one naughty kitty, Moxie. 

When Storms Disrupt Writing Deadlines

by Julie Lavender @JLavenderWrites
I’m writing my column from my 83-year-old mom‘s house, which happens to be about ten minutes away from my home, because power has not been restored yet in my house. We’re three days post-Helene ravaging our country as I write. Were you affected by this dreadful storm?
So many in our great nation have suffered devastating losses due to hurricane Helene. It will take a while to recover. But as the saying goes, and one I firmly believe, nothing catches God by surprise. God knew about the winds and the waves, calms the winds and the waves, and always always brings good out of devastation.
I’m so grateful power was restored to my mom‘s home for a number of reasons. Obviously because of her age and health, I wanted power restored there long before my house. She stayed with my brother in the next county over the night of the storm because he has a generator. 
I’ll admit I have a lot of selfish reasons for being so grateful for her restoration. On top of my priority list quite possibly was a nice warm shower. Because we’re on well water, once we lose electricity then we might have two good flushes and half a shower left in the well before the water stops pouring.
I’m grateful to be able to move over a few items that didn’t spoil to my mom‘s refrigerator for us to cook in the next couple of days.
Though it’s not as hot outside as some of the storms we’ve faced during hurricane season in the summer, I’m also very grateful for air conditioning. I know – first world problems, but I am grateful. My financially-strapped family grew up in south Georga without air-conditioning, but I have certainly become spoiled as an adult.
I am also extremely grateful for the capability to have cell phone service and Internet opportunities. You see, my husband and I have huge deadline for educational books we’re working on. And though I’m sure my editors and publishing house would be very compassionate and empathetic with all that’s happening in this part of our country, not meeting our deadline will throw production schedule off, possibly for a whole year.
One of my favorite writing profession perks is the ability to write from home. But not just at home – in recent days, to be able to work in the lobby of a hotel in our downtown, ravaged city. One of the few hotels that had power and Internet capabilities. It wasn’t the hotel we spent the night in, because there were no rooms available in this one. Ours was a few miles down the road closer to the center of town but had no Wi-Fi.
I love that I had the opportunity to sit in the upstairs dining area of our Publix grocery store following the storm and work on my book projects. Every cashier line snaked down the aisles of the grocery store for people desperately trying to find food. I sat upstairs and pecked away computer keys.
At one point in the day, I sat in the parking lot of our closed Chick-fil-A, because though they had no power to prepare food, I tapped into the opportunity to research the Internet on my phone.
I’ve known for a long time that the mobility of my laptop was an extra special perk of writing, because I’ve often met deadlines while being at one of my children’s homes, at a writers conference, on vacation, or many other places, I never dreamed I would try to meet a deadline the day after a hurricane.
The large oak tree that’s laying on my porch roof and splintered the railing of my porch will have to wait. We’ve checked to make sure it didn’t puncture the roof. The sticks and limbs covering my yard will have to wait. And the other trees in the backyard that were pushed over like pick-up sticks will have to wait. 
The contents of my refrigerators and freezers couldn’t wait, so we did take a break from our deadline to get those cleaned out and tossed in dumpsters. 
And a phone call to our insurance adjuster couldn’t wait either. I stayed on hold – like so many who were facing such dreadful and devastating losses – while sitting in that hotel lobby mentioned above, a hotel lobby where I was not even a registered guest but had been given permission to work and pecked away towards my deadline.
Writers are creative for sure. And I most certainly had to find creative ways to try to meet a deadline following hurricane Helene.
I don’t know where you are in relation to this dreadful storm, but please know that I am praying for your swift recovery, whatever that might look like. March on fellow writers, and keep packing away at the keyboard to meet deadlines. God bless your home and your family. May God bless your home and your family with whatever storm of life you’re facing. 
Join the conversation and tell us some of the unusual places you’ve worked on a writing project. And don’t stop praying for our writing comrades who are facing storm-related challenges. 
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Julie Lavender’s first picture book comes out next month with End Game Press. A Gingerbread House makes its debut in October. Julie is the author of books for adults and kids, and she and her husband are busy completing eighteen books for the educational market that will launch next year.