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June 26, 2016
The Writing Journey
For we walk by faith, not by sight. 2 Corinthians 5:7
As writers, we have chosen to follow a difficult path. I remember, after a particularly hard week, my husband remarked that he wished I’d chosen another career, something simple—like becoming a movie star.
His comparison was more appropriate than he realized. Success, for both career choices appears, from the outside at least, to rely on being popular with a lot of people. Reaching the top seems to come and go with the whims of an unknown audience. We struggle and strive for numbers—likes on our Facebook pages, followers on Twitter, and ultimately sales numbers. We seek to please our readers, our publishers, even other writers.
We are word people, caged and captured by the expectation of numbers.(Click to Tweet)
But when we have chosen this path at God’s calling, our focus needs to be somewhere other than those who will read our words. Our audience is an audience of One, and it is to Him and Him alone that we owe our allegiance. He will dictate, with wisdom far beyond our own, who will read our words and the reach they will have. And I for one, am well pleased to leave my destiny in His capable hands.
So today I encourage you to seek out the joy of your audience, because I know He is well pleased by your obedience to follow His call. Let Him lavish you with praise and protect you from worry. Leave the numbers to Him and concentrate only on the words.
As writers, we have chosen to follow a difficult path. I remember, after a particularly hard week, my husband remarked that he wished I’d chosen another career, something simple—like becoming a movie star. His comparison was more appropriate than he realized. Success, for both career choices appears, from the outside at least, to rely on being popular with a lot of people. Reaching the top seems to come and go with the whims of an unknown audience. We struggle and strive for numbers—likes on our Facebook pages, followers on Twitter, and ultimately sales numbers. We seek to please our readers, our publishers, even other writers.
We are word people, caged and captured by the expectation of numbers.(Click to Tweet)
But when we have chosen this path at God’s calling, our focus needs to be somewhere other than those who will read our words. Our audience is an audience of One, and it is to Him and Him alone that we owe our allegiance. He will dictate, with wisdom far beyond our own, who will read our words and the reach they will have. And I for one, am well pleased to leave my destiny in His capable hands. So today I encourage you to seek out the joy of your audience, because I know He is well pleased by your obedience to follow His call. Let Him lavish you with praise and protect you from worry. Leave the numbers to Him and concentrate only on the words.
June 25, 2016
Simplify Your Online Presence
By Penny L Hunt @PennyLHunt
Like many beginning writers, speakers and entrepreneurs I went a little overboard creating clever domain names, websites and e-mails. I had different business cards printed for each website but was never sure which card to hand out when, and often left potential clients as confused as I was. Back at the office keeping up with all the websites and e-mails became a total nightmare. Clarity with consistent follow-up became an impossible task. I still cringe thinking of lost opportunities.I linked all the old “foo-foo” sites and e-mail addresses to the new one and, voila! my social media life became manageable again. “But,” I asked, “What will happen to all my contacts still holding those really cute and clever business cards I designed?” Edie assured me this too was easy and would not include having to rent a bi-plane with banner reading, “Now Reach Penny At www.PennyLHunt.com”
All that was needed was to contact the company where my domains are registered (GoDaddy) and have them link all domains and e-mail addresses to my new, all grown-up, simple yet fabulous website: www.PennyLHunt.com Bounce! Don’t Break…
The next time I saw I Edie I shared what I had accomplished. She said, “Great,” looked deep into my eyes and had me repeat after her, the golden rule of every writer: “Drive everything to your website—Drive everything to your website—Drive everything to your website.”
My new business cards have arrived from VistaPrint http://bit.ly/1UajVrR adorned with a professional head shot of my smiling face on the front along with web, email addresses and phone number, and “I love referrals” with a QR code on the back.
I’m on my way to the shredder with boxes of old business cards embellished with flowers, scrolls, butterflies and entirely too many words and catch phrases. I will miss them. Alas, it’s all part of the journey. Perhaps I’ll keep a copy of each card for posterity…
So, what’s in your business card holder?
TWEETABLESimplify your online presence - @PennyLHunt on @EdieMelson (Click to Tweet)
Penny L. Hunt is an author, speaker and on-line devotions writer. Her latest book: Bounce! Don’t Break… features the award winning poem, Four Flames of Honor – A Tribute to Military Wives. amzn.to/1S6p58z www.PennyLHunt.com
Like many beginning writers, speakers and entrepreneurs I went a little overboard creating clever domain names, websites and e-mails. I had different business cards printed for each website but was never sure which card to hand out when, and often left potential clients as confused as I was. Back at the office keeping up with all the websites and e-mails became a total nightmare. Clarity with consistent follow-up became an impossible task. I still cringe thinking of lost opportunities.I linked all the old “foo-foo” sites and e-mail addresses to the new one and, voila! my social media life became manageable again. “But,” I asked, “What will happen to all my contacts still holding those really cute and clever business cards I designed?” Edie assured me this too was easy and would not include having to rent a bi-plane with banner reading, “Now Reach Penny At www.PennyLHunt.com” 
All that was needed was to contact the company where my domains are registered (GoDaddy) and have them link all domains and e-mail addresses to my new, all grown-up, simple yet fabulous website: www.PennyLHunt.com Bounce! Don’t Break… The next time I saw I Edie I shared what I had accomplished. She said, “Great,” looked deep into my eyes and had me repeat after her, the golden rule of every writer: “Drive everything to your website—Drive everything to your website—Drive everything to your website.”
My new business cards have arrived from VistaPrint http://bit.ly/1UajVrR adorned with a professional head shot of my smiling face on the front along with web, email addresses and phone number, and “I love referrals” with a QR code on the back.
I’m on my way to the shredder with boxes of old business cards embellished with flowers, scrolls, butterflies and entirely too many words and catch phrases. I will miss them. Alas, it’s all part of the journey. Perhaps I’ll keep a copy of each card for posterity…
So, what’s in your business card holder?
TWEETABLESimplify your online presence - @PennyLHunt on @EdieMelson (Click to Tweet)
Penny L. Hunt is an author, speaker and on-line devotions writer. Her latest book: Bounce! Don’t Break… features the award winning poem, Four Flames of Honor – A Tribute to Military Wives. amzn.to/1S6p58z www.PennyLHunt.com June 24, 2016
I’ve Attended a Writing Conference. Now What?
by Lori Hatcher @LoriHatcher2
If you’re a serious writer, you know the value of attending writers conferences. The combination of training, networking, and inspiration is like gasoline on a campfire for a writer’s career. Last month God blessed me with the opportunity to attend one of my favorite conferences, the Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writers Conference.
For four days I attended classes, met conferees, and brainstormed with industry professionals. Now that I’ve come down from the mountain, it’s time to get to work. The time and money I spent will do me no good if I don’t apply what I’ve learned.
Maybe you haven’t had the opportunity to attend a conference this year. Or perhaps you have, but are struggling to implement what you heard. As I wrote my To Do list, I thought it might be helpful if I shared it with you.
My Post Conference To Do List:Experiment with the idea of writing in 45-minute time blocks with 15-minute breaks in between. Michele Cox, author of Just 18 Summers, writes in 25-minute blocks with 5-minute breaks. She says it’s the single greatest step she’s taken recently to increase her productivity.During these time blocks, concentrate only on the task at hand. Minimize distractions and set myself up to work uninterrupted by putting my cell phone in another room and closing all web pages and email programs that could disturb my concentration.Share more personal glimpses into my life on my Hungry for God Facebook page. Hartline Literary agent Diana Flegel reminded me that my readers want to connect with me as a person, not just as a faceless ministry entity.Schedule regular Goodreads giveaways for my devotional book, Hungry for God … Starving for Time. Diana said her clients usually experience a spike in books sales when they offer Goodreads giveaways. (If you’d like a chance to win a copy of my book, Hungry for God … Starving for Time on Goodreads, click here.)As author/editor James Watkins advised, determine when my most creative time of the day is (early mornings) and use that time exclusively for writing. Save tedious, boring, or mindless tasks (administration, financial, social media scheduling) for other times.Plan regular meetings with other authors to brainstorm new ideas, titles, and concepts.Write with a specific reader in mind. Fellow author and my Rhode Island sister Lori Roeleveld has even named her intended reader. Bottom line—know to whom I’m writing.Explore Unsplash, a new (for me) website for royalty-free photos to use in my blog posts.Put extra effort into crafting compelling titles. Baker Publishing editor Vicki Crumpton’s wise words are ringing in my ears—“If you don’t hook ‘em with a catchy title, they’ll never read on.” Start saving for next year’s conference. There’s no better investment than a writers’ conference to move me forward on me writing journey.As you can see, I’ve got my work cut out for me. And now, by sharing my goals with you, I’ve accomplished item number 11 on my list, Ask someone to hold you accountable.
Now it’s your turn. Have you attended a conference and come away with new goals? Or maybe you’ve brainstormed a few on your own. Join the conversation by sharing them in the comment section.
TWEETABLEI've attended a #writing conference, now what - @LoriHatcher2 (Click to Tweet)
Lori Hatcher is a blogger, women’s ministry speaker, and the author of the Christian Small Publisher’s Book of the Year, Hungry for God … Starving for Time, Five-Minute Devotions for Busy Women.A Toastmasters International contest-winning speaker, Lori’s goal is to help busy women connect with God in the craziness of everyday life. She especially loves small children, furry animals, and chocolate. You’ll find her pondering the marvelous and the mundane on her blog, Hungry for God. . . Starving for Time . Connect with her on Facebook, Twitter (@lorihatcher2) or Pinterest (Hungry for God).
If you’re a serious writer, you know the value of attending writers conferences. The combination of training, networking, and inspiration is like gasoline on a campfire for a writer’s career. Last month God blessed me with the opportunity to attend one of my favorite conferences, the Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writers Conference.For four days I attended classes, met conferees, and brainstormed with industry professionals. Now that I’ve come down from the mountain, it’s time to get to work. The time and money I spent will do me no good if I don’t apply what I’ve learned.
Maybe you haven’t had the opportunity to attend a conference this year. Or perhaps you have, but are struggling to implement what you heard. As I wrote my To Do list, I thought it might be helpful if I shared it with you.
My Post Conference To Do List:Experiment with the idea of writing in 45-minute time blocks with 15-minute breaks in between. Michele Cox, author of Just 18 Summers, writes in 25-minute blocks with 5-minute breaks. She says it’s the single greatest step she’s taken recently to increase her productivity.During these time blocks, concentrate only on the task at hand. Minimize distractions and set myself up to work uninterrupted by putting my cell phone in another room and closing all web pages and email programs that could disturb my concentration.Share more personal glimpses into my life on my Hungry for God Facebook page. Hartline Literary agent Diana Flegel reminded me that my readers want to connect with me as a person, not just as a faceless ministry entity.Schedule regular Goodreads giveaways for my devotional book, Hungry for God … Starving for Time. Diana said her clients usually experience a spike in books sales when they offer Goodreads giveaways. (If you’d like a chance to win a copy of my book, Hungry for God … Starving for Time on Goodreads, click here.)As author/editor James Watkins advised, determine when my most creative time of the day is (early mornings) and use that time exclusively for writing. Save tedious, boring, or mindless tasks (administration, financial, social media scheduling) for other times.Plan regular meetings with other authors to brainstorm new ideas, titles, and concepts.Write with a specific reader in mind. Fellow author and my Rhode Island sister Lori Roeleveld has even named her intended reader. Bottom line—know to whom I’m writing.Explore Unsplash, a new (for me) website for royalty-free photos to use in my blog posts.Put extra effort into crafting compelling titles. Baker Publishing editor Vicki Crumpton’s wise words are ringing in my ears—“If you don’t hook ‘em with a catchy title, they’ll never read on.” Start saving for next year’s conference. There’s no better investment than a writers’ conference to move me forward on me writing journey.As you can see, I’ve got my work cut out for me. And now, by sharing my goals with you, I’ve accomplished item number 11 on my list, Ask someone to hold you accountable.
Now it’s your turn. Have you attended a conference and come away with new goals? Or maybe you’ve brainstormed a few on your own. Join the conversation by sharing them in the comment section.
TWEETABLEI've attended a #writing conference, now what - @LoriHatcher2 (Click to Tweet)
Lori Hatcher is a blogger, women’s ministry speaker, and the author of the Christian Small Publisher’s Book of the Year, Hungry for God … Starving for Time, Five-Minute Devotions for Busy Women.A Toastmasters International contest-winning speaker, Lori’s goal is to help busy women connect with God in the craziness of everyday life. She especially loves small children, furry animals, and chocolate. You’ll find her pondering the marvelous and the mundane on her blog, Hungry for God. . . Starving for Time . Connect with her on Facebook, Twitter (@lorihatcher2) or Pinterest (Hungry for God). June 23, 2016
We are Equipped
by Henry McLaughlin @RiverBendSagas
God has a will, a plan for each of us. Psalm 139:16 (NLT) tells us, You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed.
Each of us is on this earth for a specific reason. We may not know it completely right now. We may be in a season of preparation to enter that calling. But God has a plan for each of us.
Some are called to be pastors and teachers, some doctors, lawyers. Some to be auto mechanics, electricians, and plumbers.
Some, like myself, are called to be writers.
In Jeremiah 29:11 (NLT), God tells us “For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.”
Whatever our calling, God will not just throw us into.Whatever our calling, God will not just throw us into it, like throwing a toddler into the pool so he is forced to learn to swim.
He prepares us.
What makes the preparation fun, and at times frustrating, is that it’s uniquely different for each of us.
One person may go through an entirely different set of life experiences than me, yet end up as a writer. I think this is another example of how God cares for us as individuals. He has a unique and personal relationship with each of us. We are all His favorite child.
And he equips us.Hebrews 13:21 (NLT) may he equip you with all you need for doing his will. May he produce in you, through the power of Jesus Christ, every good thing that is pleasing to him. All glory to him forever and ever! Amen.
From childhood, I’ve had a love for words and books, for reading, for stories. In my career, each job has called for me to read more, to read better, and to write: case records, personnel reports, court documents, training curriculum, and policy and procedure.
Then the glimmer of writing fiction stirred in my heart. And the equipping continued. Books on writing, writing conferences and classes, critique groups, critique partners, mentors, coaches, developing a learning heart and a thick skin. All designed to teach me the craft and the business of writing, to humble myself before Him, to submit to His plan and will for my life.
And it’s been worth every step. It goes beyond being published.
I’ve become a better person and a better Christian. My relationship with Him is closer than ever. He’s rewarded me with insights into myself and with precious friendships I would never have experienced had I not made the choice to follow what He called me to do.
What is He calling you to do? How is He equipping you?
TWEETABLES
God doesn't just throw us into our calling, He prepares us - @RiverBendSagas (Click to Tweet)
We are equipped - Henry McLaughlin, @RiverBendSagas (Click to Tweet)
Henry’s debut novel, Journey to Riverbend, won the 2009 Operation First Novel contest.
He serves as Associate Director of North Texas Christian Writers.
Henry edits novels, leads critique groups, and teaches at conferences and workshops. He enjoys mentoring and coaching individual writers.
Connect with Henry on his blog, Twitter and Facebook.
God has a will, a plan for each of us. Psalm 139:16 (NLT) tells us, You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed.Each of us is on this earth for a specific reason. We may not know it completely right now. We may be in a season of preparation to enter that calling. But God has a plan for each of us.
Some are called to be pastors and teachers, some doctors, lawyers. Some to be auto mechanics, electricians, and plumbers.
Some, like myself, are called to be writers.
In Jeremiah 29:11 (NLT), God tells us “For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.”
Whatever our calling, God will not just throw us into.Whatever our calling, God will not just throw us into it, like throwing a toddler into the pool so he is forced to learn to swim. He prepares us.
What makes the preparation fun, and at times frustrating, is that it’s uniquely different for each of us.
One person may go through an entirely different set of life experiences than me, yet end up as a writer. I think this is another example of how God cares for us as individuals. He has a unique and personal relationship with each of us. We are all His favorite child.
And he equips us.Hebrews 13:21 (NLT) may he equip you with all you need for doing his will. May he produce in you, through the power of Jesus Christ, every good thing that is pleasing to him. All glory to him forever and ever! Amen.
From childhood, I’ve had a love for words and books, for reading, for stories. In my career, each job has called for me to read more, to read better, and to write: case records, personnel reports, court documents, training curriculum, and policy and procedure.
Then the glimmer of writing fiction stirred in my heart. And the equipping continued. Books on writing, writing conferences and classes, critique groups, critique partners, mentors, coaches, developing a learning heart and a thick skin. All designed to teach me the craft and the business of writing, to humble myself before Him, to submit to His plan and will for my life.
And it’s been worth every step. It goes beyond being published.
I’ve become a better person and a better Christian. My relationship with Him is closer than ever. He’s rewarded me with insights into myself and with precious friendships I would never have experienced had I not made the choice to follow what He called me to do.
What is He calling you to do? How is He equipping you?
TWEETABLES
God doesn't just throw us into our calling, He prepares us - @RiverBendSagas (Click to Tweet)
We are equipped - Henry McLaughlin, @RiverBendSagas (Click to Tweet)
Henry’s debut novel, Journey to Riverbend, won the 2009 Operation First Novel contest. He serves as Associate Director of North Texas Christian Writers.
Henry edits novels, leads critique groups, and teaches at conferences and workshops. He enjoys mentoring and coaching individual writers.
Connect with Henry on his blog, Twitter and Facebook.
June 21, 2016
How to Help a Writer Brainstorm
by DiAnn Mills @DiAnnMills
Writers of all genres welcome brainstorming sessions.
The opportunity to discuss new ideas and solve problems in a creative environment is an amazing resource. Our minds kick down the doors that hold our imaginations captive, and the result is a collective stroke of genius.Sometimes those who offer their assistance do more harm than good. A writer shares an idea with passion and enthusiasm. The book project is a seed wanting to burst into a beautiful, well-developed project. When the writer finishes, the listener says, “Great idea, but …” “You should record every detail, but …”“I’d love to hear more, but …”
The word "but" has stopped the writing of
more books than any of us could imagine.The word “but” has stopped the writing of more books than any of us could imagine. How many novels and nonfiction projects never blessed readers because the writer met with discouragement? When a steel trap closes down our dreams, negativity ruins any progress. Instead, what if a listener responded in this way?
“Great idea, and …”“You should record every detail, and …”“I’d love to hear more, and …”
Do you taste the delight of encouraging a writer to see more, be more, stretch more with one small word? The word “and” opens up the windows of the imagination with sweet encouragement.
The next time you’re a part of a brainstorming session, keep these three things in mind.Brainstorming does not mean placing a roadblock on your mind’s ability to think outside of the world’s definition of logic.Leave the word “but” out of your feedback. There’s a time and place when the project is in editorial stage to offer insight and constructive criticism.Use the word “and” in your responses. Open the pathway of free thinking with unique and unusual ideas. We never know where the road will take us.
Your turn! What does an effective brainstorming session mean to you?
TWEETABLES
The word "but" has stopped more books. Learn to brainstorm effectively - @DiAnnMills (Click to Tweet)
How to help a writer brainstorm - @DiAnnMills on @EdieMelson (Click to Tweet)
DiAnn Mills is a bestselling author who believes her readers should expect an adventure. She combines unforgettable characters with unpredictable plots to create action-packed, suspense-filled novels.
Her titles have appeared on the CBA and ECPA bestseller lists; won two Christy Awards; and been finalists for the RITA, Daphne Du Maurier, Inspirational Readers’ Choice, and Carol award contests. Library Journal presented her with a Best Books 2014: Genre Fiction award in the Christian Fiction category for Firewall.
DiAnn is a founding board member of the American Christian Fiction Writers; a member of Advanced Writers and Speakers Association; International Thriller Writers, and the Faith, Hope, and Love chapter of Romance Writers of America. She is co-director of The Author Roadmap with social media specialist Edie Melson where she continues her passion of helping other writers be successful. She speaks to various groups and teaches writing workshops around the country.
DiAnn has been termed a coffee snob and roasts her own coffee beans. She’s an avid reader, loves to cook, and believes her grandchildren are the smartest kids in the universe. She and her husband live in sunny Houston, Texas.
DiAnn is very active online and would love to connect with readers on any of the social media platforms listed at www.diannmills.com.
Writers of all genres welcome brainstorming sessions. The opportunity to discuss new ideas and solve problems in a creative environment is an amazing resource. Our minds kick down the doors that hold our imaginations captive, and the result is a collective stroke of genius.Sometimes those who offer their assistance do more harm than good. A writer shares an idea with passion and enthusiasm. The book project is a seed wanting to burst into a beautiful, well-developed project. When the writer finishes, the listener says, “Great idea, but …” “You should record every detail, but …”“I’d love to hear more, but …”
The word "but" has stopped the writing ofmore books than any of us could imagine.The word “but” has stopped the writing of more books than any of us could imagine. How many novels and nonfiction projects never blessed readers because the writer met with discouragement? When a steel trap closes down our dreams, negativity ruins any progress. Instead, what if a listener responded in this way?
“Great idea, and …”“You should record every detail, and …”“I’d love to hear more, and …”
Do you taste the delight of encouraging a writer to see more, be more, stretch more with one small word? The word “and” opens up the windows of the imagination with sweet encouragement.
The next time you’re a part of a brainstorming session, keep these three things in mind.Brainstorming does not mean placing a roadblock on your mind’s ability to think outside of the world’s definition of logic.Leave the word “but” out of your feedback. There’s a time and place when the project is in editorial stage to offer insight and constructive criticism.Use the word “and” in your responses. Open the pathway of free thinking with unique and unusual ideas. We never know where the road will take us.
Your turn! What does an effective brainstorming session mean to you?
TWEETABLES
The word "but" has stopped more books. Learn to brainstorm effectively - @DiAnnMills (Click to Tweet)
How to help a writer brainstorm - @DiAnnMills on @EdieMelson (Click to Tweet)
DiAnn Mills is a bestselling author who believes her readers should expect an adventure. She combines unforgettable characters with unpredictable plots to create action-packed, suspense-filled novels.
Her titles have appeared on the CBA and ECPA bestseller lists; won two Christy Awards; and been finalists for the RITA, Daphne Du Maurier, Inspirational Readers’ Choice, and Carol award contests. Library Journal presented her with a Best Books 2014: Genre Fiction award in the Christian Fiction category for Firewall.
DiAnn is a founding board member of the American Christian Fiction Writers; a member of Advanced Writers and Speakers Association; International Thriller Writers, and the Faith, Hope, and Love chapter of Romance Writers of America. She is co-director of The Author Roadmap with social media specialist Edie Melson where she continues her passion of helping other writers be successful. She speaks to various groups and teaches writing workshops around the country.
DiAnn has been termed a coffee snob and roasts her own coffee beans. She’s an avid reader, loves to cook, and believes her grandchildren are the smartest kids in the universe. She and her husband live in sunny Houston, Texas.
DiAnn is very active online and would love to connect with readers on any of the social media platforms listed at www.diannmills.com.
Writing Through Tragedy
by Lucinda Secrest McDowell @LucindaSMcDowel
Will we ever get used to hearing that there has been a mass murder of innocent people? In a church? In a theatre? In a school? In an office? In a nightclub?
I hope not.
I hope we remain horrified. And utterly saddened. I hope we never get blasé or resigned to this kind of life.
Because then “they” would win. The ones who hate. The ones who crave power or fame or just some twisted sense of belonging to something big.I will not live in fear! Not for myself, not for my children and grandchildren, most of whom reside in large prominent cities—high target zones.
But I will cry. For the ones who are lost. And for the ones they left behind who must relive the violence and loss over and over again. And I will cry out. Against terror. For laws that might protect. I will cry out that there must be a better way.
God -- the One who created us and loves us all -- knows lament. Have you read the Psalms lately?
O Lord, how long will you forget me? Forever? How long will you look the other way? How long must I struggle with anguish in my soul, with sorrow in my heart every day? How long will my enemy have the upper hand? Turn and answer me, O Lord my God! Restore the sparkle to my eyes, or I will die. Don’t let my enemies gloat, saying, “We have defeated him!” Don’t let them rejoice at my downfall. But I trust in your unfailing love. I will rejoice because you have rescued me. I will sing to the Lord because he is good to me. (Psalm 13)
How long, O Lord? How long will the wicked be allowed to gloat? How long will they speak with arrogance? How long will these evil people boast? They crush your people, Lord, hurting those you claim as your own. Who will protect me from the wicked? Who will stand up for me against evildoers? Unless the Lord had helped me, I would soon have settled in the silence of the grave. I cried out, “I am slipping!” but your unfailing love, O Lord, supported me. When doubts filled my mind, your comfort gave me renewed hope and cheer. …But the Lord is my fortress; my God is the mighty rock where I hide. (portions of Psalm 94)
Are you devastated by the random acts of violence in our world today? (And the targeted acts of violence?)
What do we do with our pain?
I don’t have all the answers. But I know where to turn.
To God. In lament. In lament, a petitioner addresses God on some occasion of calamity. We are writers so we process through writing.
If you (like me) are feeling helpless and hopeless, may I suggest you join me by reading one of the Psalms of Lament in the Bible and then, using the same elements, WRITE your own Prayer of Lament:Be still and enter God's presence. Invite Him to sit with you in your sorrow and confusion. This is usually best done in silence.Write through the painful or evil situation that happened which is causing such grief and horror. Articulate your feelings as you think of the suffering and injustice.Wait and allow God to speak into your heart and soul as you continue to intercede in prayer for the people, places and circumstances of this tragedy.Identify with those involved and call out to God in honesty. Yes, lament. Articulate your complaint and confusion and even anger to God. He can take it.Know that our God is a God of compassion. Take time to confess your trust in God's power and provision - in His sovereignty. Use your own words.Listen for God's word of assurance to you. And then write those words to yourself and perhaps share them with your community so desperate for answers. Sometimes the greatest answer is God saying "I am here."Conclude with an offering to God that you will praise Him for who He is - and that you know the end of the story is His ultimate victory.
Sometimes this is all we can do in the face of violence, tragedy, fear, anger, pain and grief.
But it’s a beginning…
TWEETABLES
Things to remember when #writing through tragedy - @LucindaSMcDowel (Click to Tweet)
When tragedy strikes, consider #writing your own #prayer of lament - @LucindaSMcDowel (Click to Tweet)
Lucinda Secrest McDowell, M.T.S., is the author of 11 books, contributing author to 25 books, and has published in more than 50 magazines. A graduate of Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary and Furman University, she studied at the Wheaton Graduate School of Communication and served as Communications Specialist for the Lausanne Committee for World Evangelization (Thailand) and Editor for Billy Graham’s International Conference for Itinerant Evangelists (Netherlands). A member of Advanced Writers and Speakers Association (AWSA), she has received “Writer of the Year” awards from both Mt. Hermon and Blue Ridge Writers Conferences. Cindy speaks internationally through her ministry “Encouraging Words” and co-directs the New England Christian Writers Retreat. Known for her ability to convey deep truth in practical and winsome ways, she writes from “Sunnyside” cottage in New England. Visit her online at www.EncouragingWords.net
Links www.NewEnglandChristianWritersRetreat.com
Blog/website www.EncouragingWords.net
Will we ever get used to hearing that there has been a mass murder of innocent people? In a church? In a theatre? In a school? In an office? In a nightclub?I hope not.
I hope we remain horrified. And utterly saddened. I hope we never get blasé or resigned to this kind of life.
Because then “they” would win. The ones who hate. The ones who crave power or fame or just some twisted sense of belonging to something big.I will not live in fear! Not for myself, not for my children and grandchildren, most of whom reside in large prominent cities—high target zones.
But I will cry. For the ones who are lost. And for the ones they left behind who must relive the violence and loss over and over again. And I will cry out. Against terror. For laws that might protect. I will cry out that there must be a better way.
God -- the One who created us and loves us all -- knows lament. Have you read the Psalms lately?
O Lord, how long will you forget me? Forever? How long will you look the other way? How long must I struggle with anguish in my soul, with sorrow in my heart every day? How long will my enemy have the upper hand? Turn and answer me, O Lord my God! Restore the sparkle to my eyes, or I will die. Don’t let my enemies gloat, saying, “We have defeated him!” Don’t let them rejoice at my downfall. But I trust in your unfailing love. I will rejoice because you have rescued me. I will sing to the Lord because he is good to me. (Psalm 13)
How long, O Lord? How long will the wicked be allowed to gloat? How long will they speak with arrogance? How long will these evil people boast? They crush your people, Lord, hurting those you claim as your own. Who will protect me from the wicked? Who will stand up for me against evildoers? Unless the Lord had helped me, I would soon have settled in the silence of the grave. I cried out, “I am slipping!” but your unfailing love, O Lord, supported me. When doubts filled my mind, your comfort gave me renewed hope and cheer. …But the Lord is my fortress; my God is the mighty rock where I hide. (portions of Psalm 94)Are you devastated by the random acts of violence in our world today? (And the targeted acts of violence?)
What do we do with our pain?
I don’t have all the answers. But I know where to turn.
To God. In lament. In lament, a petitioner addresses God on some occasion of calamity. We are writers so we process through writing.
If you (like me) are feeling helpless and hopeless, may I suggest you join me by reading one of the Psalms of Lament in the Bible and then, using the same elements, WRITE your own Prayer of Lament:Be still and enter God's presence. Invite Him to sit with you in your sorrow and confusion. This is usually best done in silence.Write through the painful or evil situation that happened which is causing such grief and horror. Articulate your feelings as you think of the suffering and injustice.Wait and allow God to speak into your heart and soul as you continue to intercede in prayer for the people, places and circumstances of this tragedy.Identify with those involved and call out to God in honesty. Yes, lament. Articulate your complaint and confusion and even anger to God. He can take it.Know that our God is a God of compassion. Take time to confess your trust in God's power and provision - in His sovereignty. Use your own words.Listen for God's word of assurance to you. And then write those words to yourself and perhaps share them with your community so desperate for answers. Sometimes the greatest answer is God saying "I am here."Conclude with an offering to God that you will praise Him for who He is - and that you know the end of the story is His ultimate victory.
Sometimes this is all we can do in the face of violence, tragedy, fear, anger, pain and grief.
But it’s a beginning…
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Lucinda Secrest McDowell, M.T.S., is the author of 11 books, contributing author to 25 books, and has published in more than 50 magazines. A graduate of Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary and Furman University, she studied at the Wheaton Graduate School of Communication and served as Communications Specialist for the Lausanne Committee for World Evangelization (Thailand) and Editor for Billy Graham’s International Conference for Itinerant Evangelists (Netherlands). A member of Advanced Writers and Speakers Association (AWSA), she has received “Writer of the Year” awards from both Mt. Hermon and Blue Ridge Writers Conferences. Cindy speaks internationally through her ministry “Encouraging Words” and co-directs the New England Christian Writers Retreat. Known for her ability to convey deep truth in practical and winsome ways, she writes from “Sunnyside” cottage in New England. Visit her online at www.EncouragingWords.netLinks www.NewEnglandChristianWritersRetreat.com
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June 20, 2016
5 Simple Ways Counting Kittens Can Boost Your Blog Traffic
by Molly Jo Realy @RealMoJo68
For realz. Who doesn’t love photos of cute kittens? (Which begs the question: Are there ever any ugly kittens? I think not.) And better ratings? And smart, helpful people? Those social bees will be swarming all over for a piece of this sweet pie.
Just like with books on the shelf, a post on the blog is competing with many more like it. The reality is titles are the money-maker. You could have found the cure for the common cold, but unless your title gets the reader’s attention, no one else will benefit from your wisdom.Hooking your readers feels a bit like putting together a jigsaw puzzle while blindfolded but like any puzzle, once you get the border established, the rest will fall into place.
Take a look at the title for this post. Got your attention, didn’t it? Let’s break it down into manageable morsels and get you some title honey to help attract your Swarm.
5 Things to Remember1. The Popularity Contest.Social media is interactive. Become a Bee Ninja and learn from the masters. Then share and share alike. Cross links, reposts, and mentions are a great way to let others know you recognize their sweet social media savvy, and they may return the favor. At the very least, your readers will know you do your research.
2. It’s a Numbers Game. “Five Easy Solutions” or “Ten Alternate Ways” gives your readers a selection to choose from. They may not agree with everything you say, but who doesn’t love counting the seconds when the Big Apple falls on New Year’s Eve? Give your Swarm a reason to see if their favorites made your list. And then ask them to leave a comment of what they would add.
3. Keep it Simple. Notice how often the words “easy” and “simple” are used in countdown titles. Would you read a post that offered 25 Complicated Steps to Brushing Your Hair? How about 31 Ways to Confuse Yourself in the Kitchen? Remember your Swarm is made up of worker bees. You want them to have time to promote you, not get frustrated and fly away. A short list plus easy options equals a happy hive.
4. Kittens. Yes, I mean kittens. Cute, cuddly, attention-grabbing kittens. Do you have any idea how many posts generate kitten memes? I don’t either, but I hear it’s, well, a lot. Find something specific to your brand or subject matter that others will buzz about then stand back and watch them play.
5. The End Goal. Imagine a large stadium or court with the clock ticking down. Tick. Tick. Tick. The ball snaps or bounces and you leap out of the impending rush of opponents. Your teammates cheer and buzz as you reach the goal, make the pass. Even the visitors have to admit, you have what it takes. And you sweetly take the win.
Not every posts needs every element, but a good title will draw your Swarm in. A great post will keep them buzzing.
With some sweet tea and a spoonful of honey, ~ Happy writing.
Molly Jo
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Molly Jo is a writer, editor, social media ninja, and producer of the weekly Firsts in Fiction podcast. She has been featured in children’s magazines, on blogs and devotional websites, and her short stories have earned her awards and scholarships from nationally acclaimed writing programs. She is the founder of New Inklings Press and author of
The Unemployment Cookbook: Ideas for Feeding Families One Meal at a Time,
and other books available through her website and on Amazon.Her current work in progress, NOLA, is a location mystery set in New Orleans and is scheduled for publication in late 2016.
You can find her on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, and her blog, Frankly, My Dear . . .
For realz. Who doesn’t love photos of cute kittens? (Which begs the question: Are there ever any ugly kittens? I think not.) And better ratings? And smart, helpful people? Those social bees will be swarming all over for a piece of this sweet pie.Just like with books on the shelf, a post on the blog is competing with many more like it. The reality is titles are the money-maker. You could have found the cure for the common cold, but unless your title gets the reader’s attention, no one else will benefit from your wisdom.Hooking your readers feels a bit like putting together a jigsaw puzzle while blindfolded but like any puzzle, once you get the border established, the rest will fall into place.
Take a look at the title for this post. Got your attention, didn’t it? Let’s break it down into manageable morsels and get you some title honey to help attract your Swarm.
5 Things to Remember1. The Popularity Contest.Social media is interactive. Become a Bee Ninja and learn from the masters. Then share and share alike. Cross links, reposts, and mentions are a great way to let others know you recognize their sweet social media savvy, and they may return the favor. At the very least, your readers will know you do your research.
2. It’s a Numbers Game. “Five Easy Solutions” or “Ten Alternate Ways” gives your readers a selection to choose from. They may not agree with everything you say, but who doesn’t love counting the seconds when the Big Apple falls on New Year’s Eve? Give your Swarm a reason to see if their favorites made your list. And then ask them to leave a comment of what they would add.
3. Keep it Simple. Notice how often the words “easy” and “simple” are used in countdown titles. Would you read a post that offered 25 Complicated Steps to Brushing Your Hair? How about 31 Ways to Confuse Yourself in the Kitchen? Remember your Swarm is made up of worker bees. You want them to have time to promote you, not get frustrated and fly away. A short list plus easy options equals a happy hive.
4. Kittens. Yes, I mean kittens. Cute, cuddly, attention-grabbing kittens. Do you have any idea how many posts generate kitten memes? I don’t either, but I hear it’s, well, a lot. Find something specific to your brand or subject matter that others will buzz about then stand back and watch them play.5. The End Goal. Imagine a large stadium or court with the clock ticking down. Tick. Tick. Tick. The ball snaps or bounces and you leap out of the impending rush of opponents. Your teammates cheer and buzz as you reach the goal, make the pass. Even the visitors have to admit, you have what it takes. And you sweetly take the win.
Not every posts needs every element, but a good title will draw your Swarm in. A great post will keep them buzzing.
With some sweet tea and a spoonful of honey, ~ Happy writing.
Molly Jo
TWEETABLES
5 Simple Ways Counting Kittens Can Boost Your Blog Traffic - @RealMoJo68 (Click to Tweet)
Tips to compose blog post titles that bring in traffic - @RealMoJo68 (Click to Tweet)
Molly Jo is a writer, editor, social media ninja, and producer of the weekly Firsts in Fiction podcast. She has been featured in children’s magazines, on blogs and devotional websites, and her short stories have earned her awards and scholarships from nationally acclaimed writing programs. She is the founder of New Inklings Press and author of
The Unemployment Cookbook: Ideas for Feeding Families One Meal at a Time,
and other books available through her website and on Amazon.Her current work in progress, NOLA, is a location mystery set in New Orleans and is scheduled for publication in late 2016.You can find her on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, and her blog, Frankly, My Dear . . .
June 19, 2016
Happy Father's Day to the Coolest Dad Ever
by Edie Melson @EdieMelsonToday is my first Father's Day ever without my dad.
Daddy passed away on December 4, 2015, and I was privileged to give a tribute at his memorial service.
Today, in honor of him, I thought I'd share it with you.
My Daddy Was a Traveling Man
Some of my earliest memories were of being bundled into our VW Squareback for a trip across country. We lived in Texas and traveled mainly west, to New Mexico, Arizona, and amazing places in that part of the country.
But my dad was a traveling man way before I came on the scene. I’ve seen the pictures to prove it. He traveled with his best friends before he got married and with my mother after they became husband and wife.
And when we came along, he included his daughters in his travels. We started traveling with mom and dad almost as soon as we were born.
Each trip started the same way, just after midnight. I’d go to bed at the regular time, listening to the hustle and bustle of mom and dad packing up our camper as I drifted to sleep. Later, I’d be roused just enough for daddy to pick me up and deposit me in a makeshift bed in the back of the VW Bus. I’d snuggle in, my sister close by, and we’d sleep until the bright sun woke us up many miles outside of Dallas.
I remember picnics on the side of the road. Nights spent under the stars. I remember camping in our VW Bus and eating Dinty Moore Beef stew and Spam sandwiches. We camped all over the country. We’ve been in blizzards so bad that we had to scrape ice off the inside of the camper while it was moving and the heat was on. We’ve driven through 110+ weather in death valley without air conditioning. I even have a picture of our VW camped under a huge fir tree on top of Mt. Saint Helens, years before she erupted. 
My dad’s favorite trip was always the same, though. The Grand Canyon held a fascination for his photographer’s eye. It was where he and my mom spent their honeymoon, and I think that by the time I was 16, I’d visited the Grand Canyon with them 18 times. He used to say he could stand on the rim for the rest of his life and the view before him would never be the same twice. I remember one particular trip to the North Rim of the Grand Canyon. We pulled off at a roadside park to cook bacon and eggs. And we suddenly found ourselves in the middle of a swarm of dive-bombing bees, intent on adding themselves to our eggs as additional protein.
He frequently let me tag along as he rose early, in the black cold of predawn as he chose a perfect place for sunrise pictures. On those excursions I learned so much about lighting, composition and the importance of framing an image to photograph. I didn’t know I was learning anything. All I cared about was the fact that my daddy wanted me along with him. I also learned something more subtle—the importance of making time for the people and the activities you love.
We didn’t grow up rich. We always had enough, but mom and dad’s priority was making sure we could spend important time together as a family. Our vacations were never extravagant. No five-star resorts for us. But they were always an adventure we shared.
If you ask my mother today, she’ll tell you that the decision to spend time together instead of amassing things was the best decision they ever made.Daddy also instilled in me the love of reading – and without meaning to – ignited my love of writing. Looking back, I realize this was just one more way he fed his passion for travel. Through books he could go anywhere an author’s imagination could take him. He particularly loved science fiction, and I remember early on sitting on my daddy’s lap watching the original Star Trek television show.
But he didn’t limit his reading only to fiction. He read everything. As a matter of fact, He’s the only person I ever met who loved to read encyclopedias. Our house always boasted more books than we had shelves – even though at least one room in every house had floor to ceiling book cases.
In some ways though, his travel didn’t serve him well. His intellect made him skeptical, and He struggled with what life after death would look like. He couldn’t settle on what God meant by an assurance of Heaven. Because he was a just and humble man, he had trouble reconciling the fact that Jesus was the only way to heaven. To him it was the height of egotism to believe there was only one way to get to Heaven.After I grew up and got married, he and I had some difficult conversations about Christianity. But even as we disagreed, he made sure I knew how much he loved me and kept our relationship strong and intact.
I believe this lack of certainty haunted him as he grew older. In 1998, he went in for quadruple bypass surgery. I remember being there through the doctor appointments when they asked him what life-saving measures he wanted. “I want you to fill me up with every tube you’ve got, hook me up to every machine that will help, even prop me in the corner, but DO NOT LET ME GO."
Then in 2011, after his diagnosis of dementia, I once again asked him if he’d like to know for certain that he was going to Heaven. This time he took a deep breath and said yes. He listened and I could see the truth break through. He prayed as he made the decision to place his hope in Jesus, no matter what. With his amen came an instant transformation. Gone was the fear and paranoia about death and in its place was a profound core of peace. That was when he found this church family and for me – you all are a gift from God. Oh he still struggled and fought against the disease, but under-girding that battle was a certainty that He had an advocate who would ensure his victory after death.
As that disease began to bring him closer and closer to Jesus, he got ready to travel again. And I got to watch a beautiful closure in the circle of life when it came time for Daddy to leave. I sensed his Heavenly Father reach down, wrap him in a blanket of peace, and gently carry him on. Our joy came with being certain of where he was going.
And right now I know he’s seeing things that defy earthy words. Yes my daddy was a traveling man, and he’s once again blazing a trail, and I know he’s looking forward to the time when we’ll once again be traveling together as a family.I love you, Daddy, and I miss you so much...
June 18, 2016
The Days of June
by Edie Melson @EdieMelson
This image was taken last weekend while we were at a production of our local Shakespeare in the park. We love taking advantage of all there is to do during the summer months.
Since summer is truly upon us, especially here in the south. I'd love to know what some of your favorite summer pastimes are.
Be sure to share your thoughts in the comments section below.
I invite you to use this image any way you like online. Post it to your blog, share it on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, anywhere you'd like. All I ask is that you keep it intact, with my website watermark visible.
Don't forget to join the conversation!Blessings,Edie
This image was taken last weekend while we were at a production of our local Shakespeare in the park. We love taking advantage of all there is to do during the summer months.
Since summer is truly upon us, especially here in the south. I'd love to know what some of your favorite summer pastimes are.
Be sure to share your thoughts in the comments section below.
I invite you to use this image any way you like online. Post it to your blog, share it on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, anywhere you'd like. All I ask is that you keep it intact, with my website watermark visible.
Don't forget to join the conversation!Blessings,Edie
June 17, 2016
25 Things People Say to Writers—And How We’d Like to Reply
by Edie Melson @EdieMelson
Below is my list of comments I’ve received over the past years since I’ve admitted to being a writer.
In the parenthesis after each comment is what I wish I could have said.
I’m happy to report I’ve not given in to the temptation…yet.
1. Aren’t you published yet? (I really don’t have the space here to get into this. I usually just do a mental eye-roll.)
2. Can I give you a call so you can tell me how to get published. (Sure, it’s so easy I can cover it in a phone conversation.)
3. I have an idea for something you should write about. We could split the profits. (yeah, I do all the work and you get half of almost nothing. Sounds like a deal to me…)
4. I just wrote a book, can you contact your publisher/agent for me? (I could, but you really wouldn’t like what I had to say about you.)
5. Why don’t you take the day off, it’s not like you work for a living. (unprintable reply)
6. Can I read your manuscript? (Like I don’t have enough stress in my life already)
7. Writing must be the easiest job in the world. (If you like 20-hour days, pennies per hour, horrific critiques, and serving up your heart for others to chew on daily.)
8. Anyone can write a book, what else do you do? (see number 6)
You should get that published.9. You should get that published. (Really? Like I hadn’t thought of that.)
10. I’ve heard that if you….you’ll be a much better writer. (Nothing I like better than advice from someone who has no clue.)
11. Aren’t you finished with that yet? (Of course I am, I just decided not to try to get it published.)
12. I hate reading, it’s such a waste of time. (unprintable reply)
13. Have you ever written anything I might have read? (Yes, if morons could read.)
14. Will you read my manuscript? (*Screaming and running in the other direction*)
15. Are you still doing that writing thing? (Believe me, if I could quit, I would.)
When can I get your book for free?16. When can I get your book for free? (What part of “I do this for a living” do you not understand?)
17. Can you edit/write my essay for me? (I write commercially, not academically. There is a difference, and I could probably guarantee you a failing grade.)
18. Will you make me a character? (Only if I can kill you.)
19. What do you do with all your spare time? (In the vein of number 17, why don’t you come over and find out…)
20. My book doesn’t need editing, my high school English teacher went through it for me. (There are some teachers who know about writing commercially, but they are in the minority.)
21. Writing, can you make a living at that? (Well, theoretically you can.)
I thought you were a real writer.22. I thought you were a real writer, these are just magazine articles (or blogs or devotions or any number of other things). (Yeah, they pay me and give me deadlines because they don’t have anything better to do.)
23. Why don’t you take me to lunch, I know all authors are rich and famous. (Obviously you don’t know any other authors. Most laborers in third-world countries make more per hour than authors.
24. Writing, it must be nice to make so much money for not doing anything. (Yep, I lay around all day watching TV and eating bonbons.)
25. My book is perfect just the way it is. God gave me every word and I’m not changing a thing. (Let me know how that turns out for you.)
These really are things I’ve heard more than once. I used to get frustrated or try to educate those I spoke with. Now I just keep a list. Well, actually I keep two. One, of all the stupid things people say to writers. Two, character sketches of those I can add to my stories. (Never underestimate the ability of writers to get even.)
I’d love to know what folks have said to you. Be sure to add your thoughts in the comments section below.
Don’t forget to join the conversation!Blessings,Edie
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Below is my list of comments I’ve received over the past years since I’ve admitted to being a writer. In the parenthesis after each comment is what I wish I could have said.
I’m happy to report I’ve not given in to the temptation…yet.
1. Aren’t you published yet? (I really don’t have the space here to get into this. I usually just do a mental eye-roll.)
2. Can I give you a call so you can tell me how to get published. (Sure, it’s so easy I can cover it in a phone conversation.)
3. I have an idea for something you should write about. We could split the profits. (yeah, I do all the work and you get half of almost nothing. Sounds like a deal to me…)
4. I just wrote a book, can you contact your publisher/agent for me? (I could, but you really wouldn’t like what I had to say about you.)
5. Why don’t you take the day off, it’s not like you work for a living. (unprintable reply)
6. Can I read your manuscript? (Like I don’t have enough stress in my life already)
7. Writing must be the easiest job in the world. (If you like 20-hour days, pennies per hour, horrific critiques, and serving up your heart for others to chew on daily.)
8. Anyone can write a book, what else do you do? (see number 6)
You should get that published.9. You should get that published. (Really? Like I hadn’t thought of that.)10. I’ve heard that if you….you’ll be a much better writer. (Nothing I like better than advice from someone who has no clue.)
11. Aren’t you finished with that yet? (Of course I am, I just decided not to try to get it published.)
12. I hate reading, it’s such a waste of time. (unprintable reply)
13. Have you ever written anything I might have read? (Yes, if morons could read.)
14. Will you read my manuscript? (*Screaming and running in the other direction*)
15. Are you still doing that writing thing? (Believe me, if I could quit, I would.)
When can I get your book for free?16. When can I get your book for free? (What part of “I do this for a living” do you not understand?)17. Can you edit/write my essay for me? (I write commercially, not academically. There is a difference, and I could probably guarantee you a failing grade.)
18. Will you make me a character? (Only if I can kill you.)
19. What do you do with all your spare time? (In the vein of number 17, why don’t you come over and find out…)
20. My book doesn’t need editing, my high school English teacher went through it for me. (There are some teachers who know about writing commercially, but they are in the minority.)
21. Writing, can you make a living at that? (Well, theoretically you can.)
I thought you were a real writer.22. I thought you were a real writer, these are just magazine articles (or blogs or devotions or any number of other things). (Yeah, they pay me and give me deadlines because they don’t have anything better to do.)23. Why don’t you take me to lunch, I know all authors are rich and famous. (Obviously you don’t know any other authors. Most laborers in third-world countries make more per hour than authors.
24. Writing, it must be nice to make so much money for not doing anything. (Yep, I lay around all day watching TV and eating bonbons.)
25. My book is perfect just the way it is. God gave me every word and I’m not changing a thing. (Let me know how that turns out for you.)
These really are things I’ve heard more than once. I used to get frustrated or try to educate those I spoke with. Now I just keep a list. Well, actually I keep two. One, of all the stupid things people say to writers. Two, character sketches of those I can add to my stories. (Never underestimate the ability of writers to get even.)
I’d love to know what folks have said to you. Be sure to add your thoughts in the comments section below.
Don’t forget to join the conversation!Blessings,Edie
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