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March 18, 2011
A Half-Cocked Response
He that answereth a matter before he heareth it, it is folly and shame unto him.
Proverbs 18:13
We often go off half-cocked, responding before we hear the details. It happens so naturally, when we start hearing gossip about someone and make a rash judgement followed by a thoughtless response. We don't know all of the reported details let alone the actual truth regarding the situation. We simply pop off without fully evaluating the situation. We hardly ever know all of the details affecting the individual - has there been a significant loss of a friend, desperation, marital challenges, a troubled son or other factors that may be involved?
If we are to issue judgement, we should act like a judge. Decisions should only be made after fully evaluating all evidence and the factors affecting the situation. If that were the case, we would never judge for we can never know the situation of the individuals heart and soul. Jesus warns us in Matthew 7:2 - For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. Do you desire others to judge you in the same half-cocked manner? Or do you prefer that they provide support and encouragement during your time of need? The choice is ours - based upon how we do unto others.
Let's stop the half-cocked responses and focus on treating disturbing information the same way our Master does with us - with love, patience and understanding.
Doth our law judge any man, before it hear him, and know what he doeth?
John 7:51
Proverbs 18:13
We often go off half-cocked, responding before we hear the details. It happens so naturally, when we start hearing gossip about someone and make a rash judgement followed by a thoughtless response. We don't know all of the reported details let alone the actual truth regarding the situation. We simply pop off without fully evaluating the situation. We hardly ever know all of the details affecting the individual - has there been a significant loss of a friend, desperation, marital challenges, a troubled son or other factors that may be involved?
If we are to issue judgement, we should act like a judge. Decisions should only be made after fully evaluating all evidence and the factors affecting the situation. If that were the case, we would never judge for we can never know the situation of the individuals heart and soul. Jesus warns us in Matthew 7:2 - For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. Do you desire others to judge you in the same half-cocked manner? Or do you prefer that they provide support and encouragement during your time of need? The choice is ours - based upon how we do unto others.
Let's stop the half-cocked responses and focus on treating disturbing information the same way our Master does with us - with love, patience and understanding.
Doth our law judge any man, before it hear him, and know what he doeth?
John 7:51
March 17, 2011
The Forgiveness of Friendship
He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he that repeateth a matter separateth very friends.
Proverbs 17:9
Our friends are not perfect, nor are we. As such, we often do things that require forgiveness. As Solomon states above, it is through love that we "cover a transgression" and forgive. Otherwise, the issue will ultimately ruin the friendship. The phrase of "burying the hatchet" refers to making peace and forgiving contentious issues. Too often we "bury the hatchet" but we leave the handle sticking out! This allows us to grab the handle and pull the issue back up during the next confrontation. Maybe "forgiven but not forgotten" is a better phrase?
As Christians, we need to practice what we preach. We speak of God's love and forgiveness but do we imitate it in our daily life? Do we practice forgiving and forgetting or do we continuously bring up past issues? Nothing grips my heart stronger than to witness true forgiveness from a friend. While I may apologize and seek forgiveness, it their action of true forgiveness that lifts my burden and renews my spirit. As Christians, we should practice forgiveness more often - it is the single act that imitates our salvation the best. For through the forgiveness of Christ are we no longer sinners. Lighten some one's load today by sharing forgiveness with them!
Proverbs 17:9
Our friends are not perfect, nor are we. As such, we often do things that require forgiveness. As Solomon states above, it is through love that we "cover a transgression" and forgive. Otherwise, the issue will ultimately ruin the friendship. The phrase of "burying the hatchet" refers to making peace and forgiving contentious issues. Too often we "bury the hatchet" but we leave the handle sticking out! This allows us to grab the handle and pull the issue back up during the next confrontation. Maybe "forgiven but not forgotten" is a better phrase?
As Christians, we need to practice what we preach. We speak of God's love and forgiveness but do we imitate it in our daily life? Do we practice forgiving and forgetting or do we continuously bring up past issues? Nothing grips my heart stronger than to witness true forgiveness from a friend. While I may apologize and seek forgiveness, it their action of true forgiveness that lifts my burden and renews my spirit. As Christians, we should practice forgiveness more often - it is the single act that imitates our salvation the best. For through the forgiveness of Christ are we no longer sinners. Lighten some one's load today by sharing forgiveness with them!
March 16, 2011
True Happiness
He that handleth a matter wisely shall find good: and whoso trusteth in the LORD, happy is he.
Proverbs 16:20
We spend a vast amount of our resources seeking happiness. Not only do we commit our financial assetts but our time and relationships in search of finding happiness. Sadly, we often don't really know what we are looking for. How do you define happiness? Is it the largest house, the fastest car, the most exotic clothing or the latest electronic gadget? Realistically, each of these are much like us - they have a limited lifespan and can only provide a limited duration of happiness. Houses deteriorate, cars become old and worn, clothes go out of style and electronics are surpassed almost weekly. No wonder the goals we seek for happiness leave us empty and unfulfilled once we acquire them.
If we actually look at the dictionary's definition of happiness, you will see a key word: contentment. Most of the elusive items we seek for happiness have no ability to provide contentment. However, Paul states in Philippians 4:11 that he has learned to be content in whatever state of life he may be currently residing. But how can we be content? Jesus tells us in John 14:27 - Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid. When we have the peace of the Holy Ghost, we have a peace not of this world. Likewise, the contentment that comes with this peace is not of this world. If we are seeking true happiness, we must look outside this world - to God's love.
True happiness and contentment can only be obtained by one method - having Christ in our lives. As such, we will have peace and contentment no matter what our state in life may offer.
Proverbs 16:20
We spend a vast amount of our resources seeking happiness. Not only do we commit our financial assetts but our time and relationships in search of finding happiness. Sadly, we often don't really know what we are looking for. How do you define happiness? Is it the largest house, the fastest car, the most exotic clothing or the latest electronic gadget? Realistically, each of these are much like us - they have a limited lifespan and can only provide a limited duration of happiness. Houses deteriorate, cars become old and worn, clothes go out of style and electronics are surpassed almost weekly. No wonder the goals we seek for happiness leave us empty and unfulfilled once we acquire them.
If we actually look at the dictionary's definition of happiness, you will see a key word: contentment. Most of the elusive items we seek for happiness have no ability to provide contentment. However, Paul states in Philippians 4:11 that he has learned to be content in whatever state of life he may be currently residing. But how can we be content? Jesus tells us in John 14:27 - Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid. When we have the peace of the Holy Ghost, we have a peace not of this world. Likewise, the contentment that comes with this peace is not of this world. If we are seeking true happiness, we must look outside this world - to God's love.
True happiness and contentment can only be obtained by one method - having Christ in our lives. As such, we will have peace and contentment no matter what our state in life may offer.
March 15, 2011
The Proper Perspective
The fear of the LORD is the instruction of wisdom; and before honour is humility.
Proverbs 15:33
Too often we lose perspective on our role as Christians. We long for the honor and respect but fail to recognize that humility is a predecessor! Unfortunately, our pride tends to take control and push for recognition. As a result, we are quick to point out our sacrifices and efforts as Christians in hopes of being honored for our contributions. However, Solomon points out that humility, not pride, is the prerequisite for honor.
We all have opportunities to serve others as Christians. However, it is how we serve them that matters. Do we serve others with the individuals benefit as the focus of our efforts or do we serve others with our recognition as the focus of our efforts. There are different motivations for our actions, some in a humble manner and others in a prideful manner. Without humility, our efforts are received in a different manner by the recipient and by God. No individual enjoys being treated in a haughty manner, regardless of their state of need. Nor does God appreciate our efforts if they are not genuine in the heart.
I am convinced our assistance of others falls in the same category as alms, prayer and fasting that Jesus speaks of during His Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 6:1-7, 6:16-18). If our efforts are based upon peer recognition, there are no rewards. But if we serve in private, we are rewarded by our Lord publicly.
As we serve others, let's keep the proper perspective. Our service is to reflect upon our Lord not ourselves. He will honor us rather than ourselves.
Proverbs 15:33
Too often we lose perspective on our role as Christians. We long for the honor and respect but fail to recognize that humility is a predecessor! Unfortunately, our pride tends to take control and push for recognition. As a result, we are quick to point out our sacrifices and efforts as Christians in hopes of being honored for our contributions. However, Solomon points out that humility, not pride, is the prerequisite for honor.
We all have opportunities to serve others as Christians. However, it is how we serve them that matters. Do we serve others with the individuals benefit as the focus of our efforts or do we serve others with our recognition as the focus of our efforts. There are different motivations for our actions, some in a humble manner and others in a prideful manner. Without humility, our efforts are received in a different manner by the recipient and by God. No individual enjoys being treated in a haughty manner, regardless of their state of need. Nor does God appreciate our efforts if they are not genuine in the heart.
I am convinced our assistance of others falls in the same category as alms, prayer and fasting that Jesus speaks of during His Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 6:1-7, 6:16-18). If our efforts are based upon peer recognition, there are no rewards. But if we serve in private, we are rewarded by our Lord publicly.
As we serve others, let's keep the proper perspective. Our service is to reflect upon our Lord not ourselves. He will honor us rather than ourselves.
March 14, 2011
Hope Everlasting
The wicked is driven away in his wickedness: but the righteous hath hope in his death.
Proverbs 14:32
Often times when I read through this verse, I blow right by the last half. Yet, it is the crux of our faith that Solomon is discussing. The dictionary defines hope as "to cherish or desire with anticipation" (verb) or "desire accompanied by expectation of or belief in fulfillment" (noun). Do we really look forward to our death? Or is it the assurance of what follows? As Christians, we know that we do not cease to exist at death, but rather go to be with our Father afterwards.
An observation by one of my sons following a funeral for one of his peers that was not saved has stuck with me over the years. He stated, "I feel sorry for them, since they were not saved, they have no hope for the future. Death is the end for them." Without Christ, what do you have to look forward to after death? Nothing, at best or eternal damnation, at worst. With Christ, we have an everlasting hope to be with Him as he promised in John 14:1-3.
As Christians, we are directed to share the love of God with everyone (Matthew 28:19-20). There is no greater task than sharing hope everlasting to those in a hopeless situation!
Proverbs 14:32
Often times when I read through this verse, I blow right by the last half. Yet, it is the crux of our faith that Solomon is discussing. The dictionary defines hope as "to cherish or desire with anticipation" (verb) or "desire accompanied by expectation of or belief in fulfillment" (noun). Do we really look forward to our death? Or is it the assurance of what follows? As Christians, we know that we do not cease to exist at death, but rather go to be with our Father afterwards.
An observation by one of my sons following a funeral for one of his peers that was not saved has stuck with me over the years. He stated, "I feel sorry for them, since they were not saved, they have no hope for the future. Death is the end for them." Without Christ, what do you have to look forward to after death? Nothing, at best or eternal damnation, at worst. With Christ, we have an everlasting hope to be with Him as he promised in John 14:1-3.
As Christians, we are directed to share the love of God with everyone (Matthew 28:19-20). There is no greater task than sharing hope everlasting to those in a hopeless situation!
March 13, 2011
Extra Baggage
Only by pride cometh contention: but with the well advised is wisdom.
Proverbs 13:10
It is interesting to note that Solomon proclaims that contention only comes with pride. So the question becomes: if we get rid of pride, will we eliminate contention? And the simple answer is yes! No one desires to have contention in their life, but unfortunately, many of us have quite a bit of pride. I don't think many recognize the additional baggage that comes along with pride.
If we seek to eliminate pride in our lives, think of the benefits beyond tossing the extra luggage of contention out the window. No longer would we be distracted from serving God. Our priorities would be better aligned with His plan for our life. We would have the ability to humbly serve others, showing the love of God to others.
What a bargain for our lives - we get rid of one despicable trait and our life gets simpler! Join me in pushing pride out the door and lightening our daily struggles. I am sure that our life and others will be blessed by our action!
Proverbs 13:10
It is interesting to note that Solomon proclaims that contention only comes with pride. So the question becomes: if we get rid of pride, will we eliminate contention? And the simple answer is yes! No one desires to have contention in their life, but unfortunately, many of us have quite a bit of pride. I don't think many recognize the additional baggage that comes along with pride.
If we seek to eliminate pride in our lives, think of the benefits beyond tossing the extra luggage of contention out the window. No longer would we be distracted from serving God. Our priorities would be better aligned with His plan for our life. We would have the ability to humbly serve others, showing the love of God to others.
What a bargain for our lives - we get rid of one despicable trait and our life gets simpler! Join me in pushing pride out the door and lightening our daily struggles. I am sure that our life and others will be blessed by our action!
March 12, 2011
Waste Not, Want Not
The slothful man roasteth not that which he took in hunting: but the substance of a diligent man is precious.
Proverbs 12:27
Proverbs 12:27
March 11, 2011
Know When To Hold 'em
He that is void of wisdom despiseth his neighbour: but a man of understanding holdeth his peace.
Proverbs 11:12
Solomon highlights the challenges to those not wise in maintaining a peaceful relationship with his neighbor. For the wise, it is simple to hold their peace and not create disturbances with their neighbors. Simply put, if you want peace, you must hold your peace. As my Dad used to say, "Free advice is valued for what it costs." Those who receive the unsolicited advice normally don't desire it nor value it. As a result, it causes tenion with no positive effects.
There are times when I feel so unwise - for it is sometimes too difficult for me not to speak my mind. I get agitated with the situation and pop off a remark that results in strained relationships, regret and akward situations. As I study the verse above, I recognize the source of my problems - I allow my frustrations to overload my mouth because I fail to maintain peace within. When we are at peace with God, no earthly issue can cause us to become agitated.
So, if I will retain His peace within me, I will not become agitated and will be able to refrain from saying things that I will regret later. Have you mastered the ability to "hold your peace"? If not, seek the One that provides a peace that exceeds all undestanding. He freely gives it to all that seek Him!
Proverbs 11:12
Solomon highlights the challenges to those not wise in maintaining a peaceful relationship with his neighbor. For the wise, it is simple to hold their peace and not create disturbances with their neighbors. Simply put, if you want peace, you must hold your peace. As my Dad used to say, "Free advice is valued for what it costs." Those who receive the unsolicited advice normally don't desire it nor value it. As a result, it causes tenion with no positive effects.
There are times when I feel so unwise - for it is sometimes too difficult for me not to speak my mind. I get agitated with the situation and pop off a remark that results in strained relationships, regret and akward situations. As I study the verse above, I recognize the source of my problems - I allow my frustrations to overload my mouth because I fail to maintain peace within. When we are at peace with God, no earthly issue can cause us to become agitated.
So, if I will retain His peace within me, I will not become agitated and will be able to refrain from saying things that I will regret later. Have you mastered the ability to "hold your peace"? If not, seek the One that provides a peace that exceeds all undestanding. He freely gives it to all that seek Him!
March 10, 2011
March 9, 2011
Unwelcomed Guests
But he knoweth not that the dead are there; and that her guests are in the depths of hell.
Proverbs 9:18
We are often unaware of the situation around us. And the picture painted by Solomon in the verse above is pretty gruesome! His warning against succoming to temptation has a graphic finality to it that causes me to pause and think. While I doubt the individual he is describing was aware of the hideous results, the final results remain the same - enjoying the presence of the dead in hell. Not exactly who I would put on the invitation to our next dinner party!
However, we are in the same company if we have not committed our lives to Christ. We are sinners bound for the same destination - death and hell. While it is not a pleasant topic to cover, it reaffirms our desire to not be there. And likewise, we would never want such results for those we love. Perhaps, the graphic visualization will spur us to being proactive in sharing God's word with those we love.
Do you have loved ones who don't know Christ as their personal saviour? If so, help them in removing their name from the guest list of hell! If you love them, show it by leading them to Christ.
Proverbs 9:18
We are often unaware of the situation around us. And the picture painted by Solomon in the verse above is pretty gruesome! His warning against succoming to temptation has a graphic finality to it that causes me to pause and think. While I doubt the individual he is describing was aware of the hideous results, the final results remain the same - enjoying the presence of the dead in hell. Not exactly who I would put on the invitation to our next dinner party!
However, we are in the same company if we have not committed our lives to Christ. We are sinners bound for the same destination - death and hell. While it is not a pleasant topic to cover, it reaffirms our desire to not be there. And likewise, we would never want such results for those we love. Perhaps, the graphic visualization will spur us to being proactive in sharing God's word with those we love.
Do you have loved ones who don't know Christ as their personal saviour? If so, help them in removing their name from the guest list of hell! If you love them, show it by leading them to Christ.
