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April 18, 2013

Official Pub Date!

Today is the official pub date for Nanny on the Run! It’s been an interesting journey to date, and I look forward to the next chapter beginning May 3rd, 5:00 p.m. at Fact and Fiction Downtown for the Book Launch Party.



For those of you who prefer your e-reader to a print copy, the Kindle conversion is underway!


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Published on April 18, 2013 20:11

April 11, 2013

Inspiration

When I opened my first Yogi® tea packet, I didn’t know that along with a great tasting cup of tea, I’d be treated to words of wisdom. Every tea bag has an inspiration attached. I don’t remember what my first one said, nor do I remember when I started saving those little pieces of paper and their thought-provoking words.


Yogi® Inspiration

Yogi® Inspiration


At first, I’d tear off random sayings and set them beside my keyboard. Then, I began to put a few on the kitchen table, resting them against the base of a planter. But sometimes they’d slide under the keyboard, or I’d roll them up in the center place mat when I had to make room on the table. And I didn’t want to lose them.


So now I keep them in a china dish my mother gave to me. In the living room, where the messages can be shared.


Yogi® inspirations

Yogi® inspirations


When I began to write this, I learned there is another way Yogi® inspirations can be shared. Through its web site, you can send a well-wish. The recipient receives an e-card with your message and, after he/she sends an address, your friend or family member will receive two tea bags. Sweet.




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Published on April 11, 2013 07:17

March 24, 2013

Powwows Throughout the Years

My introduction to powwows was North American Indian Days in Browning, Montana in the 1970′s. At the twenty-first annual event in 1972, my father, Dan Antonietti, was adopted into the Blackfeet tribe and named an honorary chief. That was, and still is, a big deal.


My Dad worked for the U.S. Department of Labor’s Manpower Administration. In his role as Project Officer for the Bureau of Work Training Programs, he was instrumental in securing monies and programs for the Blackfeet people. To honor and thank him for bringing Neighborhood Youth Corps and Operation Mainstream to Browning, Pete Stabs by Mistake named my father A-pi-na-ko Si-pis-to (“Morning Owl”) in a touching ceremony nearly forty-one years ago.


A Southern-Piegan Indian named Na-to-si (“Sun”) was awakened one morning at dawn by the hooting of an owl. After he fell back to sleep, the owl came to Na-to-si in his dreams and told him to give the name “Morning Owl” to someone he loved. When Na-to-si awoke, he remembered his dream. He called to his adopted son and said, “From now on, your name will be A-pi-na-ko Si-pis-to.”


My dad, Chief Morning Owl, in 1972

My dad, Chief Morning Owl, in 1972


Neighborhood Youth Corps float, North American Indian Days, 1972

Neighborhood Youth Corps float, North American Indian Days, 1972


Julie makes a new friend, North American Indian Days, 1972

Julie makes a new friend, North American Indian Days, 1972


I have attended other powwows since then. In 1991, Rich and I took our boys to their first powwow. Colin wasn’t walking yet, so he and Rich watched as Eric and I moved to the rhythm of the drums and joined the “All Dance.” We modeled traditional dance steps as best we could, foregoing any attempts at fancy dancing. Had Chief Morning Owl been in Missoula to watch us that day, I think he would’ve been proud.


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Karen and Eric in the “All Dance”


Eric, Colin and Rich at the 1991 Fort Missoula Powwow

Eric, Colin and Rich at the 1991 Fort Missoula Powwow


Eric and the dancers

Eric and the dancers


1991 Fort Missoula Powwow

1991 Fort Missoula Powwow


On March 9th, I went to the 12th annual Honoring Our Youth Pow Wow at Big Sky High School.


Grand entry at Honoring Our Youth Pow Wow, 2013

Grand entry at Honoring Our Youth Pow Wow, 2013


Honoring Our Youth Pow Wow

A four-year-old dancer


Honoring Our Youth Pow Wow, 2013

Fancy and traditional dancers at Honoring Our Youth Pow Wow, 2013


I thought about Chief Morning Owl as I watched the dancers and listened to the drummers. In 1979, Dad’s work changed when he moved to the Department of Labor’s Veterans’ Employment and Training Service. As I sat in the Big Sky gymnasium that afternoon, Mom and Dad were nearing the end of a trip to Washington D.C. The previous week, Dad had attended the National Legislative Service Committee meetings as Montana’s legislative chairman for the VFW. Eighty-five years old, he’s still championing for the rights of others.


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Published on March 24, 2013 17:37

March 6, 2013

Our Introduction to the Big Sky Documentary Film Festival

The 10th Annual Big Sky Documentary Film Festival was held February 15th-24th in Missoula, Montana. For the fourth year running, my husband Rich and I were fortunate to partake in many of the Festival’s films.


Our introduction to the BSDFF was in 2009. That year, our brother-in-law Lance’s friend, Kimberly Reed, directed and starred in one of the feature films, Prodigal Sons. Missoula Independent’s Nick Davis wrote, “In a story that would push the limits of even the most madly creative of fiction writers, this reality show just keeps getting better.”


He was right. In addition to Reed’s thought-provoking film—about identity, family, and relationships—we were treated to a lively Q & A with her following the movie.


Rich and I left the theater that evening asking each other how we had overlooked the Festival the previous five years. We left, too, wanting to see more. There were 143 films that year and though we did see more in the following days, we barely skimmed the surface.


Since 2010, we’ve purchased all-screening passes for the Festival. We have friends who’ve joined us as well, and collectively we’ve applauded, laughed, cried, and discussed a variety of the subjects and people we’ve watched on the big screen. We are better stewards of the earth because of the BSDFF.  We’re more conscientious about our use of water and electricity. We bought reusable produce bags and a composter which have decreased our use of plastics and reduced the amount of garbage we generate. And we recycle everything we can.


Seven people attended the first film of the inaugural BSDFF ten years ago. The numbers have multiplied since then.



This year, the winner of the Best Feature Documentary was Blood Brother, a poignant story about Rocky Braat and his journey to care for HIV-positive orphans in India. Our efforts to be more mindful of how we live pale compared to the difference Rocky Anna, as the children call him, is making in the lives of the children he serves.


The Big Sky Documentary Film Festival, now heading into its eleventh year, is held each February in Missoula. Filmmakers from across the country and around the globe grace our city with their presence and their films. Keep an eye out for the 2014 dates and mark your calendars. The BSDFF is a treat beyond measure.


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Published on March 06, 2013 20:26

February 18, 2013

Happy Library Lovers’ Month

A good library will never be too neat, or too dusty, because somebody will always be in it, taking books off the shelves and staying up late reading them.”  Lemony Snicket


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Missoula Public Library’s “Wall of Love”


February is not lacking for days to celebrate. We have Groundhog Day, Fat Tuesday, Valentine’s Day, Random Act of Kindness Day, and Presidents’ Day. We also have the entire month to celebrate books and reading and all that our libraries offer, because February is Library Lovers’ Month.


I love libraries. As a young girl growing up in Butte, Montana, some of my fondest memories are of walking uptown with my sister, Laurie, and our best friends—sisters, too—to our public library. The quietness demanded by the librarians created a sense of reverence among the four of us.


Today, libraries aren’t always quiet. We no longer have to whisper about books, we can talk about them. Out loud. There are programs for book lovers of all ages, beginning with Tiny Tales for the youngest among us at our local library.


Library Valentine

A message of love from young library patrons


So it’s sad that we have to worry about library funding in our cities and in our schools. But we do. My high school media assistant position is funded only through the end of this school year. I hope that will change.


I recently received an email listing the following talking points about libraries:


Public Libraries



84% of Americans 16 or older have been to a library or bookmobile. In the last year, 59% of Americans used library services.

Throughout the economic downturn, patrons have increasingly turned to the local library for information on a wide range of subjects, including job searching.

In one year, 30 million Americans used library connections to search and apply for jobs.

Over 92% of libraries provide access to job databases and online job applications.

Although in the last 10 years the number of computer workstations has doubled, 87% of urban libraries do not have enough computers to meet the daily demand.

Libraries provide an important link between the government and the public – when  people need to research court cases, look up a fact from an Environmental Protection Agency study or file their taxes they come to the library to do it.

Studies show that a child’s brain develops the most between birth and age three. Many of the 16,604 public libraries in the United States support parents and caregivers with early childhood literacy programs that train care givers in how to read to children, encourage parents in engaging in their children’s literacy development and are designed to help young children learn to read.

Support funding for the Library Services and Technology Act (LSTA). LSTA funding helps libraries meet community needs, better utilize technology to provide enhanced services, reach underserved populations, and much more.

School Libraries



Research repeatedly shows that an effective school library program is an integral component of a student’s successful education. Across the United States, studies have demonstrated that students in schools with effective library programs learn more, get better grades, and score higher on assessments than their peers in schools without such resources.

Even though school libraries are where students develop skills they will need for the 21st century, only 60 percent of public schools have a state-certified school librarian.

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“They help people look for books”


Libraries. We love them. We need them. John Alfred Landford once said, “No possession can surpass, or even equal a good library, to the lover of books. Here are treasured up for his daily use and delectation, riches which increase by being consumed, and pleasures that never cloy.”


He also said, “No matter what his rank or position may be, the lover of books is the richest and the happiest of the children of men.”


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Library lovers span the generations


Happy Library Lovers’ Month. Visit your local library. Borrow a book. Read. Repeat.


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February 7, 2013

A New Job!

In my first post, I wrote that I’d “be replacing the wonder of birth with the wonder of books.”


That was shorthand for two things. One: My forthcoming novel, Nanny on the Run, which will be out this spring. Two: I hoped to begin work as a library assistant. At the time of my writing, I’d applied for three positions. I’d interviewed for one (which I didn’t get), and I had an interview scheduled for another. I was hoping to be called for the third. I didn’t write about these facts, though, because I didn’t want to jinx my chances of getting hired.


By the time I learned that I didn’t get the second job, I had an interview lined up for the third. The old adage, third time’s a charm, delivered its magic and I got the job!


I was hired as the new media assistant in the Hellgate High School library.


Hellgate High School

Hellgate High School


For the past six years, I served as a library volunteer at Sentinel High School—my son Colin’s alma mater. It was bittersweet saying goodbye to the Sentinel library staff, but walking into Hellgate on my first day was another homecoming.


Hellgate High School library

Hellgate High School library


My son Eric graduated from Hellgate in 2006, and I had volunteered in the library for two years. The teacher librarians who were there during my volunteer tenure, Peggy Cordell and Julie Burckhard, welcomed me back.


Hellgate High School library

Hellgate High School library


I’m doing some of the things I did as a volunteer, but I’ve learned—and am learning­—to do a lot more. I love my new job.


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January 29, 2013

National Day of Service

On January 19, 2013, I, along with others nationwide, responded to President Obama’s call to action to serve as a volunteer for the National Day of Service. I was the first volunteer to arrive that morning at The Parenting Place, a community-based non-profit whose mission is to prevent child abuse and neglect through strengthening families.


After welcoming me, staff member Megan asked, “What organization are you with?”


“I’m not with an organization,” I said, explaining I’d signed up through the National Day of Service website. I didn’t tell her the rest of the story: I’d been a volunteer in various capacities since my teenaged years, but this was the first time my volunteerism had included the possibility of winning a trip to D.C. for a presidential inauguration.


Megan directed me to an office to store my coat. As I headed in that direction, I heard her tell her co-worker, “They don’t know each other.”


The rest of the group, five women and three children, trickled in. After brief introductions, we posed for a photo before settling in to work. 


iserve: Margie, Rebecca, Josie, Betsy, Karen, Carla, Linda, Aydin, Nicholas, and Nico (not pictured: photographer Katie).


Strangers at the onset, we learned of our connectedness as our day progressed.


Book lovers Aydin, a second grader; his brother Nicholas, a third grader; and I were tasked with the job of cleaning and organizing the library. I enjoyed chatting with the boys about books, authors, and illustrators.


When Aydin pulled an Eric Carle book off a shelf he said, “Oh, my teacher would love this book!”


“Who’s your teacher?” I asked.


“Mrs. Dungan.”


I smiled. Kathy Dungan teaches at the elementary school my sons, Eric and Colin, attended. She is our friend and neighbor, and had been to our house for dinner the previous weekend. We’ve shared many conversations about education, books, and reading throughout the years.


Parenting Place library

Karen, Nick and Aydin on library duty


Carla—mother of Aydin; Nicholas; and Katie, a sixth grader and our photographer extraordinaire—sang Kathy’s praises as she described how she has facilitated educational opportunities for Aydin that meet his abilities. We shared our mutual admiration for the 1st and 2nd grade multiage classrooms that my boys, and now Aydin, have benefited from.


The Parenting Place

Carla disinfecting with Simple Green


Linda brought her four-year-old son Nico to help. They were champions in converting a back room into a space designated for babies and toddlers. Nico, Aydin, Nicholas and Katie did a wonderful job serving as game testers, too.


The Parenting Place

Linda washing the small pieces and parts


The Parenting Place

Nico, master toy-sorter


Josie and Margie organized the art supplies, then Josie and I moved to the puzzle and game nook. We discovered that Josie’s daughter and my son, Eric, served as AmeriCorps volunteers 2011-2012 for City Year, an organization dedicated to keeping students in school and on track for graduation.


Craft nook at the Parenting Place

Josie cleaning and sorting the art supplies


While enjoying a bagel, I learned that Betsy’s daughter was packing to leave for a study abroad program the following day. Talking about the challenges of limiting luggage to “fifty pounds for six months,” I shared our experience of weighing Eric’s suitcase—also with a fifty-pound weight limit—on our veterinarian’s scale before he set out for twelve months in Argentina.


The Parenting Place kitchen

Betsy making the kitchen sparkle


Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. once said, “Everybody can be great … because anybody can serve. You don’t have to have a college degree to serve. You don’t have to make your subject and verb agree to serve. You only need a heart full of grace, a soul generated by love.”


We served together, children and adults, to honor President Obama and the life and legacy of Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.. No one in our group won the trip to D.C., but we were grateful for the opportunity to serve. We began our day as strangers. We ended it as friends.




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January 15, 2013

You can’t win if you don’t try.

A recent newspaper article reminded me of a motto I adopted years ago: You can’t win if you don’t try.


The article described how Jess Parrish, a wood carver, wanted to plunge into the world of ice carving. Ice carvers in his state refused to grant him an apprenticeship, though. The market was small, and they feared training a competitor.


Jess turned to the internet, which led him to the National Ice Carving Association and to his first competition six years ago in Green River, Wyoming. His chain saw burned up with two hours left to go in his event. He left early, not waiting around for the rest of the two-day competition.


Then, Jess received a phone call telling him that because he was the sole entrant in the amateur category, he was the de facto winner. He was encouraged to pursue ice carving, which he did. Four years later, he launched his own business.




Jess Parrish, of Longmont, works on an ice sculpture of a dragon outside Todd Reed Jewelry Store in Boulder on Dec. 1. Parrish has been ice carving for about six years and launched his business, Cool Hand Ice Carving, about two years ago. (Kira Horvath/Longmont Times-Call)




Jess Parrish, right, places huge slabs of ice into place with the help of his apprentice, Joaquin Botello, as they begin working on an ice sculpture of a dragon outside Todd Reed Jewelry Store in Boulder on Dec. 1. (Kira Horvath/Longmont Times-Call)


Twenty years ago, my boys were winners in a local coloring contest. They won first and third places in their respective age groups. Eric, aged five, won a can filled with Crayola markers. Colin, aged two, delighted in the stuffed bunny he won. When we picked up their prizes, we learned one of the reasons they’d won was because there were more prizes than participants.


Cake making 1993

Eric and Colin making a Mother’s Day cake, 1993.


I’ve heard a variation of my motto. You can’t hit the ball if you don’ t swing the bat. Would Eric and Colin have won had there been more competitors? Who knows. What we do know is this. They swung their bats and they hit the balls.


Eric & Colin Buley

Eric: 2006. Crayola tin: 1993. Colin: 2008.


I keep the Crayola tin on my desk as a reminder to swing my bat. And I swung three times in the past month. Last week, I learned that I hit the ball when I received a phone call offering me the media assistant position I’d applied for at Hellgate High School.


I started yesterday. Walking into the Hellgate library, where I served as a volunteer from 2004-2006, I felt like I had hit the ball out of the park.




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January 7, 2013

World Book Night

Celebrate World Book Night 2013 on April 23rd
Giver applications are due January 23rd

It was a thrill to be a giver last year on World Book Night 2012. Of the 25,000 givers nationwide, three of us celebrated books and reading with students and staff at Willard Alternative High School.


World Book Night 2012

Karen Buley presents The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian


The Namesake WBN 2012

Karin Knight reads from The Namesake


World Book Night 2012

Kim Anderson shares Housekeeping


I had the privilege of sharing Sherman Alexie’s book, The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian, which won the 2007 National Book Award for Young People’s Literature. Alexie has been on my radar for years, ever since I heard him speak at the University of Montana. He was inspirational, funny, and his words about the craft of writing prodded me to continue to plug away at my own writing.


World Book Night 2012

The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian!


World Book Night 2012

Great smiles for great books


World Book Night 2012

Humor in Sherman Alexie’s words


This year, I’m applying to be a giver of Vanessa Diffenbaugh’s The Language of Flowers. Not only has Diffenbaugh written a powerful debut novel about what can happen when you age out of foster care (you might find yourself homeless and sleeping in a park like protagonist Victoria Jones), she also is a co-founder of The Camellia Network, whose mission is to create a nationwide movement to support youth transitioning from foster care.


A bouquet of angelica, bellflower, flax, lisianthus and orange to Vanessa Diffenbaugh. White carnations, cosmos and peppermint to all who make World Book Night 2013 possible.


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Published on January 07, 2013 20:57

December 31, 2012

Nursing and books

I have loved books for as long as I can remember. And for almost as long, I have been fascinated with the world of nursing. My mother sparked my interest with her stories when I was a young girl. Later, countless Cherry Ames books fueled my desire to become a nurse. As did my candy striping days. I felt important beyond measure when I walked past the bold-lettered sign at Saint James Hospital: “NO VISITORS UNDER THE AGE OF SIXTEEN” and knew that, though only fourteen, I had a job to do.


Fast forward to 2012. “I’m an OB nurse,” I would say. “And a writer,” I added in recent years.


The former has ended. The latter has not. Less than three weeks have passed since my exit interview for the nursing job I held for nearly twenty-one years. It felt bittersweet as I walked into Community Medical Center to offer parting words that day. Bittersweet, knowing I would be replacing the wonder of birth with the wonder of books.


I said goodbye to my old website this month, too, as library books and You Tube videos taught me about WordPress. Looking at the photos our older son, Eric, helped me stage for my website years ago induced pensive feelings. Those photos captured much of my and my mother’s essence. And though neither of us is practicing right now, we will always be nurses.


So I share the photo that graced my website for six years and helped garner stories for Nurses on the Run.


Karen Buley memorabilia


 I share one of our alternates, too. It’s a poignant reminder of the boxes of childhood books my parents moved on my behalf. Not once, but twice.


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