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November 18, 2011
Foodie Friday

If you're a fan of Food Network's The Best Thing I Ever Ate, you might have heard about Michael's Genuine. On their sweet tooth episode, three - 3!!! - big-name chefs said the best dessert they ever ate was at Michael's Genuine in Miami. During last year's Miami Book Fair International, the girls and I had to try it out and we fell in love.
So since we were going to Miami and Michael's Genuine is definitely a treat, I thought it would be a great place to celebrate our anniversary. Fortunately, The Man agreed. I was an epic-fail at taking pictures. The food looked so good that we just kept diving in before I even thought about it.


As I said, Michael's Genuine is definitely a special treat. The food is delicious, yet rich, and the service is wonderful. If you ever get to Miami and want to splurge a little, I'd highly recommend it. After all, how often do you get to eat somewhere that three of the best chefs in the business recommend?
Have you had the chance to eat somewhere that's been featured on Food Network? Have a recommendation you think should be on Food Network? What is your The Best Place I Ever Ate pick? (Honestly, the best place I ever ate is not Michael's Genuine. It's Nikolai's Roof in Atlanta. OMG. That was 20 years ago and I still remember it!)
Published on November 18, 2011 09:34
November 17, 2011
Thankful Thursday
Thanksgiving is next week! Woot! I love turkey day. I love all the cooking, the gathering, the stuffing of mouths and the bellies full of satisfaction afterward. I also love hearing what everyone is thankful for.
I'm grateful for so much in my life throughout the year and thank God every day, but I don't always get a chance to specifically say it aloud to the world. So in celebration of Thanksgiving, each Thursday in November here on the blog I'll be sharing some things I'm thankful for.
This week I am thankful for the material things I have been blessed with:
I have a home. It is by no means Better Homes & Gardens worthy - in fact, is not even guest worthy most of the time - but it is a roof over my and my family's heads. It isn't new with all the latest and greatest upgrades, but it is spacious enough for a family of five (sometimes six). It needs repairs and appliances have needed to be replaced, but I am grateful that I own it (well, I'm paying a mortgage on it anyway), that it gives us more than just a space to lay our heads, but a place to actually live.I love my car! After years of driving the mom's requisite used minivans and SUV to fit all the soccer players, I have something I love to drive. And it's mine with room for only one other person. Of course, that means we still have a family vehicle, too, and the teens have what they need. They may not have the vehicles they would prefer, but what they have gets them from Point A to Point B safely and reliably, which is all a mom asks for. The insurance bill is painful, but I'm grateful for what it means each time we pay it. I'm also grateful we can afford the fuel for all the places we need to go.Then there is The Man's Harley. This is a luxury that we're determined to hang onto as long as possible. We worked hard for it, waiting many years before allowing ourselves to indulge, and it has rewarded us in so many ways. Riding on the back allows my mind to roam free, which has done wonders for my writing. We've also met new people and made friends that we otherwise might not have made. This is one of those guilty pleasures I'm grateful to have.We have clothes, dishes, food in the fridge and cabinets, comfortable furnishings, computers and cell phones and extra little gadgets. I love my Kindle even if it's old by today's standards and my iPad, especially because it was kind of free. We don't have every game system in the world and we don't even have television except what comes in on the airwaves, but we have so much more than many and I am so grateful for that.Books! I have hardbacks and paperbacks, some even signed, overflowing my shelves, and ebooks stacked up on the Kindle. Each of these provides an opportunity to escape into another world, providing much more substance to my life than any of those electronic gadgets. God has given me so much and He can take it away in the blink of an eye. If He does, I hope He at least leaves me books. I can survive without the rest if I can have books to escape within.Writing this has made me feel so spoiled. It's easy to wont for more and for better - the house needs this, the kids need that, I want this, we want to go there - but I really do have so much. I think of what Katniss would think if she saw how we lived - what people in our real world who don't have a home, food or even clean water would think and I become disgusted. But thinking about it also makes me that much more grateful because there's only one reason I have what I have - I'm blessed. I've been given a good life, full of opportunities and choices not everyone is offered. Yes, I've worked for it all, but only because I was born and put into places and situations where I even had that chance to work for it.
We can complain about the laundry, but at least we have clothes, a washer and dryer, water and electricity. We can complain about the dishes, but at least we have cooked and served food to our families. We can complain about grocery shopping, but at least we have the means to provide. We can complain about housecleaning, but at least we have four walls around us and a roof over our heads, beds to sleep in, places to clean our bodies. So many people would give what little they have to enjoy our complaints.
So what are you grateful for?
I'm grateful for so much in my life throughout the year and thank God every day, but I don't always get a chance to specifically say it aloud to the world. So in celebration of Thanksgiving, each Thursday in November here on the blog I'll be sharing some things I'm thankful for.
This week I am thankful for the material things I have been blessed with:
I have a home. It is by no means Better Homes & Gardens worthy - in fact, is not even guest worthy most of the time - but it is a roof over my and my family's heads. It isn't new with all the latest and greatest upgrades, but it is spacious enough for a family of five (sometimes six). It needs repairs and appliances have needed to be replaced, but I am grateful that I own it (well, I'm paying a mortgage on it anyway), that it gives us more than just a space to lay our heads, but a place to actually live.I love my car! After years of driving the mom's requisite used minivans and SUV to fit all the soccer players, I have something I love to drive. And it's mine with room for only one other person. Of course, that means we still have a family vehicle, too, and the teens have what they need. They may not have the vehicles they would prefer, but what they have gets them from Point A to Point B safely and reliably, which is all a mom asks for. The insurance bill is painful, but I'm grateful for what it means each time we pay it. I'm also grateful we can afford the fuel for all the places we need to go.Then there is The Man's Harley. This is a luxury that we're determined to hang onto as long as possible. We worked hard for it, waiting many years before allowing ourselves to indulge, and it has rewarded us in so many ways. Riding on the back allows my mind to roam free, which has done wonders for my writing. We've also met new people and made friends that we otherwise might not have made. This is one of those guilty pleasures I'm grateful to have.We have clothes, dishes, food in the fridge and cabinets, comfortable furnishings, computers and cell phones and extra little gadgets. I love my Kindle even if it's old by today's standards and my iPad, especially because it was kind of free. We don't have every game system in the world and we don't even have television except what comes in on the airwaves, but we have so much more than many and I am so grateful for that.Books! I have hardbacks and paperbacks, some even signed, overflowing my shelves, and ebooks stacked up on the Kindle. Each of these provides an opportunity to escape into another world, providing much more substance to my life than any of those electronic gadgets. God has given me so much and He can take it away in the blink of an eye. If He does, I hope He at least leaves me books. I can survive without the rest if I can have books to escape within.Writing this has made me feel so spoiled. It's easy to wont for more and for better - the house needs this, the kids need that, I want this, we want to go there - but I really do have so much. I think of what Katniss would think if she saw how we lived - what people in our real world who don't have a home, food or even clean water would think and I become disgusted. But thinking about it also makes me that much more grateful because there's only one reason I have what I have - I'm blessed. I've been given a good life, full of opportunities and choices not everyone is offered. Yes, I've worked for it all, but only because I was born and put into places and situations where I even had that chance to work for it.
We can complain about the laundry, but at least we have clothes, a washer and dryer, water and electricity. We can complain about the dishes, but at least we have cooked and served food to our families. We can complain about grocery shopping, but at least we have the means to provide. We can complain about housecleaning, but at least we have four walls around us and a roof over our heads, beds to sleep in, places to clean our bodies. So many people would give what little they have to enjoy our complaints.
So what are you grateful for?
Published on November 17, 2011 05:00
November 14, 2011
Why the Potty Mouths?
Every now and then I get a reviewer who comments or complains about the profanity in my books. And there may even be others who comment on those reviews with appreciation to know because they don't want a book with cuss words, especially the f-bomb. Well...so what. My books aren't for everyone and I'm okay with that. *shrugs*
But I've also had a handful of readers ask me how my particular characters can cuss so much considering their background with angels. They've said it's not just my books, but others with angels, too. Now this is a good question...or discussion. I can only speak for my characters, though.
First, if you pay attention, you'll notice that Alexis doesn't cuss all that much in Promise except when she's really pissed off. Tristan's the only one who drops the f-bomb and he doesn't exactly have an angelic background. Sophia - the closest, so far, to the angels - doesn't cuss and admonishes Alexis whenever she lets one fly. Owen, Amadis his entire life, hasn't blurted out anything...yet anyway. So, really, it's just Alexis and Tristan (of the good guys, anyway) and even then it's not much.
Until you get to Purpose. In early drafts, nearly every other word out of Alexis's mouth was a cuss word and she particularly liked to drop the f-bomb. She's going through an emotional (and mental and physical) storm in this book, she's been through hell and she doesn't really care what anyone thinks of her potty mouth. She's in the habit, too, so even as things improve, she doesn't censor her words. Once again, though, if you pay attention, you'll notice a definite drop-off as soon as...well, something very good happens.
Still, even in Devotion, after she's changed over and living on the angels' island, she has a bit of a problem here. But I'm okay with that. Honestly, I think it makes her (and Tristan) more real. After all, neither of them are truly angelic. Yes, there's angel blood in their background, but there's also Daemonic blood. And honestly...how alike are you to your ancestors of over 2,000 years ago? The Amadis may serve the angels, but they are not angels themselves. They have quite a bit of HUMAN in them.
And that's kind of the point of the books. One of the major themes of the entire series is that you don't have to be perfect to be on the good side. So why would I make my main characters perfect?
I'm sorry if the profanity offends some readers. I'm sorry they can't see beyond that for the people the characters really are. I'm sorry because if they judge characters and books based on profanity, I can only imagine how they judge real people in their lives. Because nobody's perfect. And even those closest to being perfect admit to getting a certain satisfaction that only the word "fuck" can provide.
Yes, I enjoy that satisfaction myself on occasion. Nearly every day. Go ahead and judge me. It's not your judgment I'm worried about.
Are you offended by profanity in books? If you know a book contains profanity, even just once or twice in 90,000 words, will you refuse to read it? Other thoughts? Have a favorite cuss word you'd like to share? Go ahead. It's Monday - a reason in itself to let one fly.
But I've also had a handful of readers ask me how my particular characters can cuss so much considering their background with angels. They've said it's not just my books, but others with angels, too. Now this is a good question...or discussion. I can only speak for my characters, though.
First, if you pay attention, you'll notice that Alexis doesn't cuss all that much in Promise except when she's really pissed off. Tristan's the only one who drops the f-bomb and he doesn't exactly have an angelic background. Sophia - the closest, so far, to the angels - doesn't cuss and admonishes Alexis whenever she lets one fly. Owen, Amadis his entire life, hasn't blurted out anything...yet anyway. So, really, it's just Alexis and Tristan (of the good guys, anyway) and even then it's not much.
Until you get to Purpose. In early drafts, nearly every other word out of Alexis's mouth was a cuss word and she particularly liked to drop the f-bomb. She's going through an emotional (and mental and physical) storm in this book, she's been through hell and she doesn't really care what anyone thinks of her potty mouth. She's in the habit, too, so even as things improve, she doesn't censor her words. Once again, though, if you pay attention, you'll notice a definite drop-off as soon as...well, something very good happens.
Still, even in Devotion, after she's changed over and living on the angels' island, she has a bit of a problem here. But I'm okay with that. Honestly, I think it makes her (and Tristan) more real. After all, neither of them are truly angelic. Yes, there's angel blood in their background, but there's also Daemonic blood. And honestly...how alike are you to your ancestors of over 2,000 years ago? The Amadis may serve the angels, but they are not angels themselves. They have quite a bit of HUMAN in them.
And that's kind of the point of the books. One of the major themes of the entire series is that you don't have to be perfect to be on the good side. So why would I make my main characters perfect?
I'm sorry if the profanity offends some readers. I'm sorry they can't see beyond that for the people the characters really are. I'm sorry because if they judge characters and books based on profanity, I can only imagine how they judge real people in their lives. Because nobody's perfect. And even those closest to being perfect admit to getting a certain satisfaction that only the word "fuck" can provide.
Yes, I enjoy that satisfaction myself on occasion. Nearly every day. Go ahead and judge me. It's not your judgment I'm worried about.
Are you offended by profanity in books? If you know a book contains profanity, even just once or twice in 90,000 words, will you refuse to read it? Other thoughts? Have a favorite cuss word you'd like to share? Go ahead. It's Monday - a reason in itself to let one fly.
Published on November 14, 2011 05:00
November 11, 2011
Special Day for Author Friend Jessica Bell
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I'm so excited! My virtual author-friend and supplier of first-hand knowledge of Greece and Australia for my books, Jessica Bell, has just released her debut novel! (Pst, Foodie Friday will return next week.)
Today is THE day to help Jessica Bell's debut, STRING BRIDGE , hitthe bestseller list on Amazon, and receive the all-original soundtrack, Melody Hill: On the Other Side, written and performed by the author herself, for free!
All you have to do ispurchase the book today (paperback, or eBook), November 11th, andthen email the receipt to:
jessica.carmen.bell(at)gmail(dot)com
She willthen email you a link to download the album at no extra cost!
To purchase the paperback: Amazon USA
To purchase the eBook: Amazon USA Amazon UK
To listen to samples of the soundtrack, visit iTunes.
If you arenot familiar with String Bridge,check out the book trailer:
Rave Reviews for String Bridge:
"Jessica Bell's STRING BRIDGE strummed the fret of myveins, thrummed my blood into a mad rush, played me taut until the final page,yet with echoes still reverberating. A rhythmic debut with metrical tones ofheavied dark, fleeting prisms of light, and finally, a burst of joy—just aswith any good song, my hopeful heartbeat kept tempo with Bell's narrative." ~ Kathryn Magendie, author of Sweetie and Publishing Editor of Rose & Thorn Journal
"Poet andmusician Jessica Bell's debut novel String Bridge is a rich exploration of desire, guilt, and thedifficult balancing act of the modern woman. The writing is lyrical throughout,seamlessly integrating setting, character and plot in a musical structure thatallows the reader to identify with Melody's growing insecurity as her worldbegins to unravel … String Bridge isa powerful debut from a promising writer, full of music, metaphor, and just ahint of magic." ~ Magdalena Ball, author of RepulsionThrust and Sleep Before Evening
"Jessica Bell is a brilliant writerof great skill and depth. She doesn't pull back from the difficultscenes, from conflict, pain, intensity. She puts it all out there, no holdsbarred, no holding back. She knows how to craft a scene, how to developcharacter, how to create suspense. This is an absolutely brilliant debut novel.I look forward to reading hernext novel, and next and next." ~ Karen JonesGowen, author of Farm Girl, Uncut Diamonds and House of Diamonds
Connect with Jessica:
String Bridge: http://www.stringbridge.com/
Goodreads: http://www.goodreads.com/jessica_bell
Website: http://www.jessicacbell.com/
Blog: http://thealliterativeallomorph.blogspot.com/
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/author.jessica.bell
Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/MsBessieBell
Publisher: http://www.luckypress.com
Please TWEET and/or FACEBOOK this post using #StringBridge!
Today is THE day to help Jessica Bell's debut, STRING BRIDGE , hitthe bestseller list on Amazon, and receive the all-original soundtrack, Melody Hill: On the Other Side, written and performed by the author herself, for free!
All you have to do ispurchase the book today (paperback, or eBook), November 11th, andthen email the receipt to:
jessica.carmen.bell(at)gmail(dot)com
She willthen email you a link to download the album at no extra cost!
To purchase the paperback: Amazon USA
To purchase the eBook: Amazon USA Amazon UK
To listen to samples of the soundtrack, visit iTunes.
If you arenot familiar with String Bridge,check out the book trailer:
Rave Reviews for String Bridge:

"Poet andmusician Jessica Bell's debut novel String Bridge is a rich exploration of desire, guilt, and thedifficult balancing act of the modern woman. The writing is lyrical throughout,seamlessly integrating setting, character and plot in a musical structure thatallows the reader to identify with Melody's growing insecurity as her worldbegins to unravel … String Bridge isa powerful debut from a promising writer, full of music, metaphor, and just ahint of magic." ~ Magdalena Ball, author of RepulsionThrust and Sleep Before Evening
"Jessica Bell is a brilliant writerof great skill and depth. She doesn't pull back from the difficultscenes, from conflict, pain, intensity. She puts it all out there, no holdsbarred, no holding back. She knows how to craft a scene, how to developcharacter, how to create suspense. This is an absolutely brilliant debut novel.I look forward to reading hernext novel, and next and next." ~ Karen JonesGowen, author of Farm Girl, Uncut Diamonds and House of Diamonds
Connect with Jessica:
String Bridge: http://www.stringbridge.com/
Goodreads: http://www.goodreads.com/jessica_bell
Website: http://www.jessicacbell.com/
Blog: http://thealliterativeallomorph.blogspot.com/
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/author.jessica.bell
Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/MsBessieBell
Publisher: http://www.luckypress.com
Please TWEET and/or FACEBOOK this post using #StringBridge!
Published on November 11, 2011 06:28
November 10, 2011
Thankful Thursday
Before I get into Thankful Thursday, I can't help myself from saying:
Happy Birthday, Dad!!!
I don't know if he reads this blog, but it doesn't matter. I love my dad and am so very thankful to have him in my life.
Okay...back to our regularly scheduled program.
I'm grateful for so much in my life throughout the year and thank God every day, but I don't always get a chance to specifically say it aloud to the world. So in celebration of Thanksgiving, each Thursday in November here on the blog I'll be sharing some things I'm thankful for.
This week I am thankful for the sustenance in my life:
My two businesses that continue to thrive in this economy, providing income that may not yet be making me rich but has been just enough. This is especially true this past year. Ever since The Man lost his job of 21 years last December and our income was cut in half, I've been the sole provider in my household of five (six if you count the nephew who lived with us for half the year) (and that's three or four teenage boys who eat A LOT!). Even as The Man continues to be unemployed, we continue hanging on. And I haven't had to worry about looking for a job myself, thanks to my businesses.Again, my business partner and our employee without whom I wouldn't have these two companies. Well, maybe one, but I'd feel very lonely in it and wouldn't be thriving nearly as well. They are proof that God loves me.The ability to work and in many capacities - the mental and physical skills and capabilities that not everyone has. I can sit at a computer for hours on end with little discomfort. I can physically move objects with no pain. I can think critically, identify problems, create solutions and serve others. These are all things I can do for others in exchange for sustenance. Not everyone is blessed with one of these capabilities, let alone all of them. Of course, some are blessed with even more, but I have exactly what I need to provide at least the basics for myself and my family.My special talents of writing and creativity that allow me to do what I enjoy and be able to support my family with it.Our thousands of clients, past, present and future, who entrust us with their own futures, as well as our ability to deliver on that trust.The 50,000+ people who have downloaded Promise on their Kindles and other ereaders. They may not all ever read it, since many of those got it for free, but I appreciate every single one of them because in their own way, they've still contributed to Promise's - and my - success.The tens of thousands of readers who invested their precious time in reading Promise and enjoyed it enough to buy and read my other books. In other words, my fans. Managing a family and household and running one business are stressful enough. Writing was and still is my outlet. Adding the second business - the publishing company - however, might have thrown me into the asylum if it weren't for you, my fans. You seriously do keep me going. I appreciate every review, every piece of fan mail and every time you tell a friend about my books. Because of you, I can write and manage the publishing company full time. I appreciate each and every one of you.It's easy to complain about everything we have to do, having to go to work, dealing with asinine bosses and co-workers and how little we get paid. But, especially in today's economy, we need to be grateful that we have jobs. Or if we don't, that we at least have the ability to work for when the right job does come along. Not everyone in this world is in the situation or has the physical and mental capabilities to work, to support themselves, to contribute to society in this way.
This year hasn't been easy, but it could have been a lot worse for my family if I didn't have all of these blessings. Thank you, God, for providing for us.
What blessings have you received in this area? Sure, we could always use and always seem to want for more, but take a peek at what you do have and tell me: How has God provided for you?
Happy Birthday, Dad!!!
I don't know if he reads this blog, but it doesn't matter. I love my dad and am so very thankful to have him in my life.
Okay...back to our regularly scheduled program.
I'm grateful for so much in my life throughout the year and thank God every day, but I don't always get a chance to specifically say it aloud to the world. So in celebration of Thanksgiving, each Thursday in November here on the blog I'll be sharing some things I'm thankful for.
This week I am thankful for the sustenance in my life:
My two businesses that continue to thrive in this economy, providing income that may not yet be making me rich but has been just enough. This is especially true this past year. Ever since The Man lost his job of 21 years last December and our income was cut in half, I've been the sole provider in my household of five (six if you count the nephew who lived with us for half the year) (and that's three or four teenage boys who eat A LOT!). Even as The Man continues to be unemployed, we continue hanging on. And I haven't had to worry about looking for a job myself, thanks to my businesses.Again, my business partner and our employee without whom I wouldn't have these two companies. Well, maybe one, but I'd feel very lonely in it and wouldn't be thriving nearly as well. They are proof that God loves me.The ability to work and in many capacities - the mental and physical skills and capabilities that not everyone has. I can sit at a computer for hours on end with little discomfort. I can physically move objects with no pain. I can think critically, identify problems, create solutions and serve others. These are all things I can do for others in exchange for sustenance. Not everyone is blessed with one of these capabilities, let alone all of them. Of course, some are blessed with even more, but I have exactly what I need to provide at least the basics for myself and my family.My special talents of writing and creativity that allow me to do what I enjoy and be able to support my family with it.Our thousands of clients, past, present and future, who entrust us with their own futures, as well as our ability to deliver on that trust.The 50,000+ people who have downloaded Promise on their Kindles and other ereaders. They may not all ever read it, since many of those got it for free, but I appreciate every single one of them because in their own way, they've still contributed to Promise's - and my - success.The tens of thousands of readers who invested their precious time in reading Promise and enjoyed it enough to buy and read my other books. In other words, my fans. Managing a family and household and running one business are stressful enough. Writing was and still is my outlet. Adding the second business - the publishing company - however, might have thrown me into the asylum if it weren't for you, my fans. You seriously do keep me going. I appreciate every review, every piece of fan mail and every time you tell a friend about my books. Because of you, I can write and manage the publishing company full time. I appreciate each and every one of you.It's easy to complain about everything we have to do, having to go to work, dealing with asinine bosses and co-workers and how little we get paid. But, especially in today's economy, we need to be grateful that we have jobs. Or if we don't, that we at least have the ability to work for when the right job does come along. Not everyone in this world is in the situation or has the physical and mental capabilities to work, to support themselves, to contribute to society in this way.
This year hasn't been easy, but it could have been a lot worse for my family if I didn't have all of these blessings. Thank you, God, for providing for us.
What blessings have you received in this area? Sure, we could always use and always seem to want for more, but take a peek at what you do have and tell me: How has God provided for you?
Published on November 10, 2011 04:50
November 9, 2011
Writer Wednesday - Raine Thomas
Every Wednesday I like to introduce indie, self-pubbed and small press authors with the hope that you'll meet an author new to you and find some new favorite books. Today we have fellow contributor at The Writer's Voice Raine Thomas.
About Raine:
Raine Thomas is the author of the exciting and original series of YA fantasy/romance novels about the Estilorian plane, including the Daughters of Saraqael trilogy and the upcoming Firstborn trilogy. She is a proud member of Romance Writers of America and is a contributing blogger to The Writer's Voice. When she isn't planning weddings, writing or glued to social networking sites, she can usually be found on one of Florida's beaches with her husband and daughter or crossing the border to visit with her Canadian friends and relatives.
About Becoming:
Every three years, Amber Hopkins explodes. Okay, not a blown-to-smithereens explosion, but whatever it is always hurts like hell and leaves her life a shambles. She's already worked her way through five foster placements, and she's doing whatever she can to avoid getting blasted into a sixth.
As her eighteenth birthday approaches and she feels the strange and powerful energy building, disaster looms. When the inevitable explosion occurs, her life gets its biggest shakeup yet. She'll not only learn how her fellow foster and best friend, Gabriel, really feels about her, but she'll discover that she isn't really without family.
To top it all off, she'll finally find out why she's having the power surges: she isn't entirely human.
Amber must Become, transitioning to another plane of existence and risking the loss of the most important relationship she's ever had. Her choice will impact the future of an entire race of beings, and will pit her against an enemy that will prey upon her doubt to try and take her very life.
Kind of makes the explosions now seem like a cakewalk.
Sounds awesome, right? Will have to check it out!Raine (don't you love that name???) has a special post for us, so let's get to it. Hi, Raine! Thanks for coming!
Thanks so much, Kristie, for giving me the chance to take over yourblog for the day. I'm excited to have this introduction to your amazingfollowers! Now, however, comes the pressure of finding a great topic. Hmm…
*Taps chin in thought*
*Watches Tristan—er, the Promisetrailer—for the seventh time*
Inspiration strikes! I'll make a writing confession: I love writingguys. By this I mean that I adore writing about guys and experiencing scenesthrough their perspective. I wonder what that says about me? *taps chin again**shrugs*
In the movie As Good as it Gets,Jack Nicholson plays an author who is asked by a female fan, "How do you writewomen so well?"
He replies, "I think of a man…and I take away reason andaccountability." An insult, yes, but impeccably delivered and straight to thepoint.
So, how does a female author writing in the third-person (my favoredform of narration) put herself in the mind of a male? Does she "think like awoman and take away sensitivity and the desire to replace the toilet paperroll?"
Okay, okay…sorry! But this reiterates the point that men and women arejust plain different, making it a challenge for one to fully understand (andwrite) the other. In my case, I grew up with three brothers and no sisters. Myhusband also has only brothers. Family gatherings are heavily laden withtestosterone and the viewing of sports of one kind or another.
Thus, I find writing from the male perspective practically secondnature. I get into a scene and ask myself, "What would my husband say here?" or"How would my brother act in this situation?" I also get feedback from guysregarding whether scenes from the male perspective are realistic, which certainlyhelps.
I thought I'd present you with a short blurb from Becoming, the first book in the Daughters of Saraqael trilogy. Thisscene is written from the perspective of the male protagonist, Gabriel. Do youthink I captured a realistic "male" moment here?
"So, who's the chick?"Ethan asked when Gabriel approached. There were many ears tuned into theirconversation.Gabriel raised aneyebrow. "What—seriously?""Yeah, man." Ethanglanced back at Amber. "She's smokin—" He cut himself off. Tilted his head.Stared harder. "Holy—is that?" Now he looked stunned. "No way."Ignoring the commentsaround him, Gabriel glanced to his right and spotted Jason Harrison among thewould-be volleyball players. Giving the other guy a nod, he said, "Hey, Jason,can I run something by you?"Shrugging, he said,"Sure." He looked wary, though.They stepped away asthe others began selecting teams. Staying within sight of Amber but out ofhearing range of anyone else, Gabriel stopped beside a neatly-pruned rose bush.When Jason stopped beside him, he said without preamble, "Michelle dropped byyesterday."Jason frowned. Hiseyes were less friendly than usual, as was his tone. "Yeah. She already toldme.""Told you what,exactly?"Jason's face flushed.Crossing his arms over his chest and shifting his gaze to Amber, he muttered,"Amber told Michelle she, uh, didn't want to come to the party with me.""Michelle said that,did she?"Perhaps gleaningsomething from Gabriel's tone, Jason caught his gaze. He hadn't been classvaledictorian for nothing, and realization was quick to enter his eyes.Gabriel continued, "Iimagine she said that Amber laughed at the idea of coming to the party with youor something?"Jason uncrossed hisarms, running one hand across the back of his neck. "Essentially. She saidAmber told her that she wouldn't go out with me if I was the last guy alive—craplike that.""You know Amber,"Gabriel said, indicating their years together on the high school track team."You know she isn't like that. Everything you just said is complete B.S."Jason nodded inunderstanding and looked again toward Amber."Damn. What a bitch."Knowing he meantMichelle, Gabriel smiled dryly. "You have no idea.""Guess I should'veknown better, considering the source. I imagine you didn't ask her to ask me toget Amber off your hands, right?"Gabriel just raised aneyebrow."Figured. Well, screwit. At least I know. Thanks, man." Now, he grinned. "Come on. Let me at leastkick your ass at some V-ball if you get the girl.""You're sure welcometo try."What do you think? Do you have other tips on writing the oppositegender? I'd love your comments!
Thanks for giving me a reason to view Tristan—er, the Promise trailer—for inspiration. Ifyou're interested in YA fantasy/romance featuring strong male and femalecharacters, I hope you'll check out my Daughters of Saraqael trilogy, availablein all e-bookstores, as well as in paperback on Amazon.com!
Haha! Yeah, I like to watch Tristan, too. I call it getting into character. Hehe. Thank you, Raine, for joining us!
Raine can be found at:Twitter (http://twitter/Raine_Thomas)
Facebook (http://www.facebook.com/rainethomas)
Website (http://rainethomas.com)
Blog (http://RaineThomas.com/blog/)

Raine Thomas is the author of the exciting and original series of YA fantasy/romance novels about the Estilorian plane, including the Daughters of Saraqael trilogy and the upcoming Firstborn trilogy. She is a proud member of Romance Writers of America and is a contributing blogger to The Writer's Voice. When she isn't planning weddings, writing or glued to social networking sites, she can usually be found on one of Florida's beaches with her husband and daughter or crossing the border to visit with her Canadian friends and relatives.

Every three years, Amber Hopkins explodes. Okay, not a blown-to-smithereens explosion, but whatever it is always hurts like hell and leaves her life a shambles. She's already worked her way through five foster placements, and she's doing whatever she can to avoid getting blasted into a sixth.
As her eighteenth birthday approaches and she feels the strange and powerful energy building, disaster looms. When the inevitable explosion occurs, her life gets its biggest shakeup yet. She'll not only learn how her fellow foster and best friend, Gabriel, really feels about her, but she'll discover that she isn't really without family.
To top it all off, she'll finally find out why she's having the power surges: she isn't entirely human.
Amber must Become, transitioning to another plane of existence and risking the loss of the most important relationship she's ever had. Her choice will impact the future of an entire race of beings, and will pit her against an enemy that will prey upon her doubt to try and take her very life.
Kind of makes the explosions now seem like a cakewalk.
Sounds awesome, right? Will have to check it out!Raine (don't you love that name???) has a special post for us, so let's get to it. Hi, Raine! Thanks for coming!
Thanks so much, Kristie, for giving me the chance to take over yourblog for the day. I'm excited to have this introduction to your amazingfollowers! Now, however, comes the pressure of finding a great topic. Hmm…
*Taps chin in thought*
*Watches Tristan—er, the Promisetrailer—for the seventh time*
Inspiration strikes! I'll make a writing confession: I love writingguys. By this I mean that I adore writing about guys and experiencing scenesthrough their perspective. I wonder what that says about me? *taps chin again**shrugs*
In the movie As Good as it Gets,Jack Nicholson plays an author who is asked by a female fan, "How do you writewomen so well?"
He replies, "I think of a man…and I take away reason andaccountability." An insult, yes, but impeccably delivered and straight to thepoint.
So, how does a female author writing in the third-person (my favoredform of narration) put herself in the mind of a male? Does she "think like awoman and take away sensitivity and the desire to replace the toilet paperroll?"
Okay, okay…sorry! But this reiterates the point that men and women arejust plain different, making it a challenge for one to fully understand (andwrite) the other. In my case, I grew up with three brothers and no sisters. Myhusband also has only brothers. Family gatherings are heavily laden withtestosterone and the viewing of sports of one kind or another.
Thus, I find writing from the male perspective practically secondnature. I get into a scene and ask myself, "What would my husband say here?" or"How would my brother act in this situation?" I also get feedback from guysregarding whether scenes from the male perspective are realistic, which certainlyhelps.
I thought I'd present you with a short blurb from Becoming, the first book in the Daughters of Saraqael trilogy. Thisscene is written from the perspective of the male protagonist, Gabriel. Do youthink I captured a realistic "male" moment here?
"So, who's the chick?"Ethan asked when Gabriel approached. There were many ears tuned into theirconversation.Gabriel raised aneyebrow. "What—seriously?""Yeah, man." Ethanglanced back at Amber. "She's smokin—" He cut himself off. Tilted his head.Stared harder. "Holy—is that?" Now he looked stunned. "No way."Ignoring the commentsaround him, Gabriel glanced to his right and spotted Jason Harrison among thewould-be volleyball players. Giving the other guy a nod, he said, "Hey, Jason,can I run something by you?"Shrugging, he said,"Sure." He looked wary, though.They stepped away asthe others began selecting teams. Staying within sight of Amber but out ofhearing range of anyone else, Gabriel stopped beside a neatly-pruned rose bush.When Jason stopped beside him, he said without preamble, "Michelle dropped byyesterday."Jason frowned. Hiseyes were less friendly than usual, as was his tone. "Yeah. She already toldme.""Told you what,exactly?"Jason's face flushed.Crossing his arms over his chest and shifting his gaze to Amber, he muttered,"Amber told Michelle she, uh, didn't want to come to the party with me.""Michelle said that,did she?"Perhaps gleaningsomething from Gabriel's tone, Jason caught his gaze. He hadn't been classvaledictorian for nothing, and realization was quick to enter his eyes.Gabriel continued, "Iimagine she said that Amber laughed at the idea of coming to the party with youor something?"Jason uncrossed hisarms, running one hand across the back of his neck. "Essentially. She saidAmber told her that she wouldn't go out with me if I was the last guy alive—craplike that.""You know Amber,"Gabriel said, indicating their years together on the high school track team."You know she isn't like that. Everything you just said is complete B.S."Jason nodded inunderstanding and looked again toward Amber."Damn. What a bitch."Knowing he meantMichelle, Gabriel smiled dryly. "You have no idea.""Guess I should'veknown better, considering the source. I imagine you didn't ask her to ask me toget Amber off your hands, right?"Gabriel just raised aneyebrow."Figured. Well, screwit. At least I know. Thanks, man." Now, he grinned. "Come on. Let me at leastkick your ass at some V-ball if you get the girl.""You're sure welcometo try."What do you think? Do you have other tips on writing the oppositegender? I'd love your comments!
Thanks for giving me a reason to view Tristan—er, the Promise trailer—for inspiration. Ifyou're interested in YA fantasy/romance featuring strong male and femalecharacters, I hope you'll check out my Daughters of Saraqael trilogy, availablein all e-bookstores, as well as in paperback on Amazon.com!
Haha! Yeah, I like to watch Tristan, too. I call it getting into character. Hehe. Thank you, Raine, for joining us!
Raine can be found at:Twitter (http://twitter/Raine_Thomas)
Facebook (http://www.facebook.com/rainethomas)
Website (http://rainethomas.com)
Blog (http://RaineThomas.com/blog/)
Published on November 09, 2011 07:09
November 7, 2011
Genesis Release Tour Wrap Up & Winner!
Thanks to all of you and the fantabulous tour hostesses, Genesis launched with a big BANG! Sales have been fantastic with Genesis consistently sitting in the Top 20 of at least 2 Amazon categories since its release. I could not have done this without all of you, lovely readers, and the following blogs:
The Writer's Voice
MamaKnowsBooks.blogspot.com
Confessions of a Bookaholic
Author Brenda Pandos
Author Heather McCorkle
Books N Makeup Done
All Things Books
Taking It One Book at a Time
The Indie Elite
A Simple Love of Reading
Book Reader Addicts
A Life Bound by Books
Author Keary Taylor
The Excuse Editor
Forbidden Reviews
Stella Ex Libris
Me and Reading
Lavender Lines
I hope you found some new blogs to follow while participating in the tour. If you don't follow them yet, what are you waiting for???
And now what I know you're really here for... Did you win the Grand Prize? Well, if your email address starts with...
desitheblonde
You did!!!
Congratulations, !!! Woot!!!
You win the Grand Prize of a Soul Savers tote bag stuffed full with signed copies of all three of my books and Soul Savers swag!
Everyone else, be sure to check back on the blogs to see if you won a daily prize.
Thank you again for playing along. I hope you enjoyed the release tour. We'll have more fun in February with the Devotion tour! Woohoo! Can't wait!
The Writer's Voice
MamaKnowsBooks.blogspot.com
Confessions of a Bookaholic
Author Brenda Pandos
Author Heather McCorkle
Books N Makeup Done
All Things Books
Taking It One Book at a Time
The Indie Elite
A Simple Love of Reading
Book Reader Addicts
A Life Bound by Books
Author Keary Taylor
The Excuse Editor
Forbidden Reviews
Stella Ex Libris
Me and Reading
Lavender Lines
I hope you found some new blogs to follow while participating in the tour. If you don't follow them yet, what are you waiting for???
And now what I know you're really here for... Did you win the Grand Prize? Well, if your email address starts with...
desitheblonde
You did!!!
Congratulations, !!! Woot!!!
You win the Grand Prize of a Soul Savers tote bag stuffed full with signed copies of all three of my books and Soul Savers swag!
Everyone else, be sure to check back on the blogs to see if you won a daily prize.
Thank you again for playing along. I hope you enjoyed the release tour. We'll have more fun in February with the Devotion tour! Woohoo! Can't wait!
Published on November 07, 2011 13:23
November 4, 2011
Foodie Friday
As I
mentioned last week
, my little goat-cheese-making adventure didn't go quite the way I expected. It all turned out fine - quite deliciously, in fact - but I thought I was doing it all wrong. Cassandra, from Genesis, wasn't a whole lot of help. We followed
this recipe
, but it went a bit like this:
Me: "I cooked it to 180, just like it said."
Cassandra: "I didn't have this metal stick thing - what do you call it?"
Me: "A candy thermometer. So how did you know when the milk was heated enough?"
Cassandra: "By look and smell. And yours looks right. What did you do next?"
Me: "I added the lemon juice, just like the recipe said. But it's not curdling! The recipe says 20 seconds, but I think she means 20 minutes. Maybe even 2 hours?"
2 hours later, the mixture still looks the same.
Cassandra peers at the iPad with the recipe pulled up and shakes her head: "I do not understand this...thing, but what kind of curdles do you seek? This is exactly how it needs to look."
Me: "It is?" I don't say: "You could have said that 2 hours ago!"
Cassandra starts ladling the milk mixture into the cheese cloth: "This cloth is not good cloth. You need to weave tighter cloth for this purpose."
Me: "I, um, bought it. At the store. It's cheesecloth. But the comments on the recipe do say to use butter muslin or hankie cloth instead."
Cassandra, as she ties the bundle to the wooden spoon: "Yes, muslin works better. But there you go! Now just let it drip."
2 hours later and...
We have cheese! Served with flat bread, as Cassandra prefers.
That little bit there (1/2 a cup?) is what a full quart of milk made. However, as the recipe says, I used several layers of cheesecloth and as Cassandra points out, it's not tightly woven. Some of the cheese seeped between layers and scraping it out became futile (not to mention would have put threads in our cheese). With tighter cloth and fewer layers, we probably would have had a little more at the end. We added garlic and chives and it was delish!
Have you ever made cheese? I heard it can become addicting - and I do want to do it again. I'm also thinking of trying some other types of cheeses, the kind that require rennet and aging. If you have any tips, please share!
Me: "I cooked it to 180, just like it said."
Cassandra: "I didn't have this metal stick thing - what do you call it?"

Cassandra: "By look and smell. And yours looks right. What did you do next?"
Me: "I added the lemon juice, just like the recipe said. But it's not curdling! The recipe says 20 seconds, but I think she means 20 minutes. Maybe even 2 hours?"
2 hours later, the mixture still looks the same.
Cassandra peers at the iPad with the recipe pulled up and shakes her head: "I do not understand this...thing, but what kind of curdles do you seek? This is exactly how it needs to look."
Me: "It is?" I don't say: "You could have said that 2 hours ago!"
Cassandra starts ladling the milk mixture into the cheese cloth: "This cloth is not good cloth. You need to weave tighter cloth for this purpose."

Cassandra, as she ties the bundle to the wooden spoon: "Yes, muslin works better. But there you go! Now just let it drip."
2 hours later and...
We have cheese! Served with flat bread, as Cassandra prefers.
That little bit there (1/2 a cup?) is what a full quart of milk made. However, as the recipe says, I used several layers of cheesecloth and as Cassandra points out, it's not tightly woven. Some of the cheese seeped between layers and scraping it out became futile (not to mention would have put threads in our cheese). With tighter cloth and fewer layers, we probably would have had a little more at the end. We added garlic and chives and it was delish!
Have you ever made cheese? I heard it can become addicting - and I do want to do it again. I'm also thinking of trying some other types of cheeses, the kind that require rennet and aging. If you have any tips, please share!
Published on November 04, 2011 05:15
November 3, 2011
Thankful Thursday
This month we celebrate Thanksgiving in the U.S. and I think it might be my favorite holiday of the year. I mean, I love Christmas! I've always thought of it as my fave. But food, family, giving thanks and NO presents to buy, wrap and return? If it's not a tie, Thanksgiving is a very close second.
I'm grateful for so much in my life throughout the year and thank God every day, but I don't always get a chance to specifically say it aloud to the world. So in celebration of Thanksgiving, each Thursday in November here on the blog I'll be sharing some things I'm thankful for.
This week I am thankful for the people in my life:
My Herd (aka my sons), without a doubt. I appreciate their presence in my life, their love, the ability to love them, the lessons they've taught me and all the blessings they've brought me. I love them more than can ever be communicated and I am so thankful for the time we've had together.The Man - I just don't think there's anyone else out there who would put up me with any better. He's been a real trooper and I'm thankful we've made it this long.The rest of my family - my parents, siblings, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews and in-laws. I'm very lucky to have a fabulous group (and it's a very large group!) of in-laws.The Best Business Partner Ever - Until they've been in business with someone else, people don't really understand the importance of a good business partner. In many ways, this person is much like your spouse. When you go into business with someone else, you are not only financially responsible for yourself, but also for your partner and their family. You must find someone who complements your strengths and weaknesses, who has similar financial goals, values and beliefs and who you can trust just as much (if not more than) your spouse. I am soooo blessed to have Chrissi in my life not just as a friend but as the Best Business Partner Ever (for me).Friends, some whom I've known since childhood and some I've known for only a few years. I have a wide circle of people I call friends, even some I've never met (you!), and a very small circle of really close friends who are practically sisters. I'm grateful for all of you.Other writers, some who are close friends, some who probably don't know who I am, all who have been a huge support network in this crazy occupation. Thank God, too, for the internet and our ability to connect, making this profession a lot less lonelier than it used to be.Readers who are fans and even those who are not. I am thankful for everyone who picks up a book rather than the remote or game controller because you keep our industry going. And I am really thankful for those who have read my books, who spread the word about them with reviews or just by blabbing their real or virtual mouths and who write to let me know how much they love my books and characters. I am so grateful for fan mail. Every day I get a huge smile on my face from my fans - you keep me going.Finally, I'm thankful for all the people who have entered and either remained or left my life. I strongly believe God puts each person in our lives - whether for a minute or for a lifetime - for a reason. We've needed to come into contact or know each person either for our benefit or for theirs and most likely, for everyone's, even those who have hurt us. So I'm grateful for every little touch my life has received from someone else and for every little touch I've been able to give others.Who are you grateful for? What people in your life would you like to acknowledge?
I'm grateful for so much in my life throughout the year and thank God every day, but I don't always get a chance to specifically say it aloud to the world. So in celebration of Thanksgiving, each Thursday in November here on the blog I'll be sharing some things I'm thankful for.
This week I am thankful for the people in my life:
My Herd (aka my sons), without a doubt. I appreciate their presence in my life, their love, the ability to love them, the lessons they've taught me and all the blessings they've brought me. I love them more than can ever be communicated and I am so thankful for the time we've had together.The Man - I just don't think there's anyone else out there who would put up me with any better. He's been a real trooper and I'm thankful we've made it this long.The rest of my family - my parents, siblings, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews and in-laws. I'm very lucky to have a fabulous group (and it's a very large group!) of in-laws.The Best Business Partner Ever - Until they've been in business with someone else, people don't really understand the importance of a good business partner. In many ways, this person is much like your spouse. When you go into business with someone else, you are not only financially responsible for yourself, but also for your partner and their family. You must find someone who complements your strengths and weaknesses, who has similar financial goals, values and beliefs and who you can trust just as much (if not more than) your spouse. I am soooo blessed to have Chrissi in my life not just as a friend but as the Best Business Partner Ever (for me).Friends, some whom I've known since childhood and some I've known for only a few years. I have a wide circle of people I call friends, even some I've never met (you!), and a very small circle of really close friends who are practically sisters. I'm grateful for all of you.Other writers, some who are close friends, some who probably don't know who I am, all who have been a huge support network in this crazy occupation. Thank God, too, for the internet and our ability to connect, making this profession a lot less lonelier than it used to be.Readers who are fans and even those who are not. I am thankful for everyone who picks up a book rather than the remote or game controller because you keep our industry going. And I am really thankful for those who have read my books, who spread the word about them with reviews or just by blabbing their real or virtual mouths and who write to let me know how much they love my books and characters. I am so grateful for fan mail. Every day I get a huge smile on my face from my fans - you keep me going.Finally, I'm thankful for all the people who have entered and either remained or left my life. I strongly believe God puts each person in our lives - whether for a minute or for a lifetime - for a reason. We've needed to come into contact or know each person either for our benefit or for theirs and most likely, for everyone's, even those who have hurt us. So I'm grateful for every little touch my life has received from someone else and for every little touch I've been able to give others.Who are you grateful for? What people in your life would you like to acknowledge?
Published on November 03, 2011 10:04
November 2, 2011
Writer Wednesday - Megan Curd (Psst - with a giveaway!)

Today I am happy to be a stop on the Bridger Book Tour and to host Megan Curd! Bridger is Megan's debut YA fantasy book that's been receiving great reviews .
[image error] About Bridger:
Ashlyn McVean doesn't believe in fairy tales. That is, until Ashlyn is thrown into the crosshairs of grudges her grandmother created long ago. After finding out she is one of two people able to cross between faerie realms, Ashlyn is faced with trying to understand her abilities, along with navigating a new relationship with her boyfriend, Liam. As if being on a centuries old hit list and dealing with crazed pixies isn't enough, her new abilities mean trouble for Liam. Knowing her new life puts everyone she loves in danger, Ashlyn must decide what's most important in her life between friends, family, love, and ultimately, realms.
About Megan:
When not writing, Megan enjoys spending time with her family and friends. Traveling and snowboarding are hobbies she loves, and doesn't turn down the opportunity to play xBox with her brother and friends when it presents itself. Megan currently resides in Eau Claire, Wisconsin with her husband, son, and two dogs.
GIVEAWAY!
You can win an ebook copy of Bridger simply by commenting here and you'll also be entered to win the Grand Prize of a signed print copy of Bridger and swag. Ends November 12 so hurry up and...comment!
Published on November 02, 2011 15:53