Chris Bohjalian's Blog, page 40

June 15, 2011

The Night Strangers gets a starred review in Library Journal

Big thanks to the magazine and Christine DeZelar-Tiedman.

Here is the full review:

[STARRED] Bohjalian, Chris. The Night Strangers. Crown. Oct. 2011.

Chip Linton, an airline pilot suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder after a tragic crash from which he is one of only nine survivors, retreats with his family to a Victorian house in New Hampshire, but peace proves elusive. Why do the town’s “herbalists,” a group of gardening women who all have the first names of plants and flowers, take such an intense interest in the family, particularly Chip and Emily’s ten-year-old twin daughters? And what is behind the mysterious door bolted shut in the basement? VERDICT Bohjalian (Secrets of Eden) has crafted a genre-defying novel, both a compelling story of a family in trauma and a psychological thriller that is truly frightening. The story’s more gothic elements are introduced gradually, so the reader is only slightly ahead of the characters in discerning, with growing horror, what is going on. Fans of Alice Sebold’s The Lovely Bones and Margaret Atwood’s Cat’s Eye and The Robber Bride will find similar appeal here. —Christine DeZelar-Tiedman, Univ. of Minnesota Libs., Minneapolis
4 likes ·   •  3 comments  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on June 15, 2011 23:59 Tags: bohjalian, the-night-strangers

June 12, 2011

Can a Mets fan join Red Sox Nation?

The other day I contemplated the possibility of making a drastic change to my life, and turning 2011 into a year of serious transformation. We're talking a change so radical that my wife would have been left reeling and my pastor would have been shocked. This had the potential to be a tsunami of a mid-life crisis.

I wondered if I could start rooting for the Boston Red Sox.

Never before had I questioned my loyalty to the New York Mets. Until I was 13, I had lived in suburbs of New York City, rooting passionately for one very good team (the Miracle Mets of 1969) and a slew of mediocre ones. There is a reason the Mets play in Flushing.

Among my happiest moments of my first months in Vermont were watching the 1986 Mets-Red Sox World Series at Esox Bar in Burlington, Vermont. (For those of you who are not from the Mesozoic Period, that is the World Series in which Bill Buckner allowed a Mookie Wilson groundball to squirt through his legs like a gerbil on steroids.) I was living in a furnished apartment in a house on South Union Street, while my wife remained in Brooklyn, New York to sell the walk-in closet that we told people was a one-bedroom co-op. The South Union Street rental came with a neighbor who owned a Samurai sword, but it lacked a television set.

Consequently, I watched the Series at Esox, and it was a real experience to be the only Mets fan in Red Sox Nation. It was probably a bit like being Ralph Nader: Everyone hated me, but I still felt there was a moral righteousness to my very existence.

In any case, when I was at the gym in Bristol two months ago, Andrew Furtsch, a Red Sox fan, shared with me a "Sports Illustrated" essay about the indignities that come with rooting for the Mets: The bizarre ways they find to lose games. Bad personnel decisions. Allegations that the current owners ignored the likelihood that Bernie Madoff was perpetrating a massive fraud.

Then in May, the former Mets clubhouse manager, Charlie Samuels, was charged with stealing close to $2.3 million in memorabilia and equipment, including the uniforms the Mets wore on the first game played in 2001 after the attacks on 9/11. A few weeks later, the Mets owner made snarky, ham-handed comments about three of his best players in an article in "The New Yorker."

These were the last straws. The team looked morally bankrupt. And isn't baseball all about pastoral innocence and the boys of summer and our weirdly poetic affection for the game? Moreover, I've now lived in Vermont longer than I have everywhere else combined. Howard Frank Mosher is my literary godfather. How in the world could I root for any team but the Red Sox?

Unfortunately, it's not that simple. Oh, I tried. I watched Red Sox games on TV. I read all the stories about the Sox in this paper. I rented "Fever Pitch" and listened carefully as Jimmy Fallon tried to explain his love for the team to Drew Barrymore. And, still, I couldn't shake my interest in the Mets. My blood remained more blue and orange than red. (All of this begs the question: Why is it easier for professional athletes to change teams than fans? Would we, too, sell our loyalty for a mere few million dollars? Well, yes.)

Among my favorite books when I was a boy was Pat Jordan's essay collection, "The Suitors of Spring." It's a series of articles about pitchers. And one I still recall is his essay about Tom Seaver, the ultimate Met (who, of course, the Mets would trade away). The essay opens with Seaver flying a kite on a beach. He motions at the sea gulls overhead and says to Jordan, "I could watch them for hours. I'd love to fly like the gulls, but I can't. So I pitch." And that, on some level, is precisely why I write.

I can't change my DNA. Too many of my best childhood memories begin and end in (groan) Flushing.

So, let's go Mets! Just, please, try and keep your embarrassments on the field.

(This column originally appeared in the Burlington Free Press on June 12, 2011. Chris's next novel, "The Night Strangers," arrives on October 4, 2011.)
 •  0 comments  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on June 12, 2011 13:53

June 5, 2011

Fond memories of Camp Lord of the Flies

The world is filled with responsible, safe summer camps for children, and my sense is that if I had spent another decade and a half under my parents’ roof, they would have found one for me. Instead I spent a portion of three summers at a sleep-away camp in Connecticut that boasted crafts and canoes and a terrifying wooden fire lookout tower, then dormant, that was the boys’ urinal.

Boys and men, trust me: You have not peed in the woods until you have done so from the top of a 50-foot-tall fire lookout tower. You know that rhetorical question about whether bears do their business in the woods? Trust me, it’s the reason they live in the woods.

Obviously, the 10-year-old boys there were not supposed to be climbing the old fire lookout tower, but it was an irresistible attraction. And, in all fairness, what the camp lacked in supervision, it made up for in neglect. Consequently, I have nothing but fond memories of Camp Lord of the Flies.

My wife, meanwhile, was going to one of two camps here in Vermont, where she would ride horses. Both camps are still thriving. The first, Teela-Wooket in Roxbury, is now the Windridge Tennis and Sports Camp. My wife recalls the place fondly whenever we drive past it, and how one summer she lived on candy from the Roxbury General Store. She was a city kid and had never in her life seen anything quite like a real Vermont country store. She would sit on the wooden porch steps inhaling the store’s sugary Pixy Stix the way Al Pacino in “Scarface” inhaled — never mind.

The second camp, Kiniya in Colchester, is now part of Camp Dudley YMCA. Among my wife’s happiest childhood memories is riding horses into Lake Champlain on hot summer days to give the animals (and riders) a chance to cool off.

In any case, soon summer camps across the country will start welcoming their charges. I have nothing but respect for the young adults who were my camp counselors. Really, is there anything more terrifying than a bunch of poorly supervised elementary school boys with bows and arrows? At Camp Lord of the Flies, we never took out anyone’s eyes during archery, but once we replaced a camper’s toothpaste with craft paste. We filled the old-fashioned sleeping bags (or “mummy bags”) with beads from the craft tent, which made it all but impossible to sleep. We convinced one camper in our cabin that a cut on his lower back that he couldn’t see was badly infected and he was going to die of lockjaw. And our games of “Capture the Flag” made rugby scrums look like tea parties.

These days, summer camps seem to be more specialized than when I was a boy. They focus on theater or lacrosse or ultimate Frisbee. If you live near Charleston, S.C., you can send your young ones to the Charleston School of Protocol and Etiquette’s sixth annual Summer Etiquette Camp. The “Civil Savvy Camp for Children” runs from 9 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. for five days, costs $1,195, and you can bet your 11-year-olds will have first-rate handshakes by the end of the week. Nor will those young ones ever again confuse the shrimp and the salad forks!

I will always be a fan of summer camps, whether they are of the sleep-away variety or the kind where children get to come home in the evening and share their new expertise with (for instance) cutlery. As parents, we know that summer camps help our children mature and gain confidence. After all, what doesn’t kill us, makes us stronger.

Besides, what better places are there for our kids to go when school’s out than those small worlds where they can indulge their passions and, just maybe, pee off a 50-foot fire tower?

(This column originally appeared in the Burlington Free Press on June 5, 2011. Chris’s next novel, “The Night Strangers,” arrives on October 4, 2011.)
 •  1 comment  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on June 05, 2011 06:50 Tags: summer-camps, the-night-strangers

June 4, 2011

Chris reviews Lisa See's "Dreams of Joy" in the Washington Post

“One death is a tragedy,” goes the gruesome quip, “one million is a statistic.” Even the inner ring of Dante’s “Inferno” pales next to the nightmare that confronted rural Chinese during Mao Zedong’s Great Leap Forward, from 1958 to 1961. Historians put the death toll from starvation and disease at between 30 million and 45 million.

Which brings me back to that grim truth about how we react to numbers. The death of 30 million to 45 million people is a jaw-dropping statistic, but it’s still utterly incomprehensible. “Dreams of Joy,” Lisa See’s sequel to her 2009 novel, “Shanghai Girls,” makes that tragedy real and personal.

Although it isn’t necessary to have read “Shanghai Girls” to understand “Dreams of Joy,” it enriches the experience if you have. That previous novel introduced sisters Pearl and May Chin, young models in Shanghai in 1937. Their lives are cushy: Their mother loves them, men adore them, and their pictures are plastered across the city to sell cigarettes and soap. All hell breaks loose, though, when the Japanese invade and their father sells the girls into arranged marriages. Thus begins a picaresque from Shanghai to Los Angeles, a journey in which Pearl pretends to be the mother of May’s baby, Joy. Their lives come apart in 1957, when the FBI is investigating the family to see whether they’re communists. Joy learns that May is her actual mother and the Chinese painter Z.G. Li is her father. The novel ends when Joy leaves for China to help build the communist nation and find her dad, her mother in pursuit to bring her home.

Meanwhile, Pearl arrives in Shanghai days after Z.G. and Joy leave for the commune. Although all three will be reconciled briefly in Shanghai after Z.G. has reestablished his reputation and returned from the country, soon Joy heads back to Dandelion Number Eight to be with the young man with whom she has fallen in love.

Much of the first half of the book is devoted to how the two women cope with their reduced circumstances. Joy misses the indoor plumbing she took for granted in Los Angeles; Pearl is a street sweeper in Shanghai, wistfully collecting scraps of the posters of her and her sister that once adorned city walls. She takes up residence as a boarder in a single room in what had once been the family home.

In the second half of the novel, the story grows darker and more powerful. What Joy viewed as the pastoral utopia from her first stay at the commune slides into the slow-motion killing fields of the Great Leap Forward: People are starving to death as the agricultural plenty of the new nation is mismanaged by urban commune leaders who understand nothing about farming. Joy says, “Hunger has turned me into an old woman nearing death.” Families are “hiding the corpse of mother, father, brother, sister, wife, husband, grandma, or grandpa in the house, so an extra ration can be picked up each day at the canteen.” Other families, even more desperate to eat, are resorting to cannibalism, trading their infants in a ritual they call “Swap Child, Make Food.”

Back in Shanghai, Pearl can’t get a travel permit to see Joy because the regime doesn’t want anyone in the city to know how dire the situation in the county has become. But Pearl has her suspicions.

Once again, See’s research feels impeccable, and she has created an authentic, visually arresting world. Sometimes, I wish she had used her considerable talents as a stylist to convey Joy’s naivete, instead of relying upon period-friendly shortcuts. The character talks about going to “second base” with Tao, her future husband, and refers to sex as the “husband-wife thing.” But once her life begins to unravel, Joy comes of age fast, and through her we glimpse the tragedy in one of history’s most horrifying statistics.

(Bohjalian is the author of 14 books. His next novel, “The Night Strangers,” will be published in October. This review originally appeared in the Washington Post.)
2 likes ·   •  0 comments  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on June 04, 2011 07:23 Tags: bohjalian, lisa-see, the-night-strangers

May 29, 2011

A pause before a neighbor's headstone

The older section of the cemetery in Lincoln, Vermont is accessed from Quaker Street, and bordered by an unas suming chain-link fence that seems to be comprised of equal parts metal and rust. But the modest markers and tomb stones run in parallel lines along the top of the ridge, and the views of the sur rounding hills and the channel with the New Haven River are among my favorite in the village.

I was there the other day because Monday is Memorial Day. And since the Lincoln Community School always makes an effort to bring the entire student body there this time of the year to remember the dead, it seems to me that one middle-aged man can find the time, too. I get there annually in May and wander aimlessly for a few moments, pausing beside different markers.

For most of the country, Monday’s holiday is more about barbecues and beer than remembrance. It is the pistol shot that sets in motion the bacchanalian race we call summer. There’s nothing wrong with that and no one should writhe in guilt or self-loathing because they spend part of Monday flipping burgers or gardening. I promise you, if the weather cooperates I will be riding my bike.

But once upon a time, the day was called “Decoration Day.” One of my favorite stories that Vermont novelist Dorothy Canfield Fisher left us, “Memorial Day,” follows a group of small children in 1913 who are decorating the graves of the Civil War dead, while the soldiers in the ground below them are trying — and failing — to warn them that their sacrifices should not be glorified: “The soldier in his grave groaned ‘Misery! Misery!’ straining to be heard, till the blades of grass growing over him shook.”

Fisher, who worked with blinded soldiers in France in the First World War, knew well what the Vermont Civil War dead accomplished; she understood that their sacrifices mattered. But she also understood that war is hell and dying isn’t pretty.

And that is why Monday is not merely a day to light the briquettes in the barbie.

Among the Lincoln dead in that section of cemetery off Quaker Street is a fellow named Alden G. Babcock. Babcock died on Aug. 14, 1863, at the age of 21 — two weeks shy of his 22nd birthday. Beside his gravestone is a small American flag and an American Legion marker. He enlisted in the Union Army in September 1862, a part of Company G, the 14th Vermont Volunteers. He was one of 952 officers and enlisted men. He agreed to serve for nine months and did precisely that, mustering out on July 30, 1863, in Brattleboro. Among the action he likely saw were days two and three of Gettysburg; he may have been among the Vermonters who helped defend the Union lines against Pickett’s Charge.

And yet two weeks after he finished his tour of duty, he was dead. My neighbor, Elliot Fenander, lives across the street from the cemetery and grew interested in the mystery. He solved it. The cause of death on Alden G. Babcock’s death certificate, signed by Lincoln Town Clerk William W. Pope? “Camp fever” — the all-purpose term used for typhus and malaria in the 1860s. Roughly two-thirds of the Union dead died of disease.

Did Babcock know he was dying when he was mustered out? Or did he expect to recover at home on the family farm? Perhaps he imagined he would help with a second cutting. Instead he died after barely one score and change on this earth.

The Lincoln cemetery, like most Vermont cemeteries, has a great many men and women like that from wars spanning two and a half centuries. Fathers and mothers, daughters and sons. Neighbors.

And so while I will enjoy my day off from work Monday and savor the start of my favorite season in Vermont, I will also take a moment to bow my head in gratitude for the generations of Alden Babcocks among us.

(This column originally appeared in the Burlington Free Press on Sunday, May 29, 2011. Chris’s next novel, The Night Strangers, arrives on October 4, 2011.)
2 likes ·   •  0 comments  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on May 29, 2011 12:28 Tags: memorial-day, the-night-strangers

May 28, 2011

The Night Strangers -- a new source

Voila!

A new source on the web for all things "Night Strangers," including events on the October/November Night Strangers "Let's Keep It Dark" rock and roll book tour. Simply click here:

https://www.facebook.com/TheNightStra...

Thanks, as always, for your faith in my work.
 •  0 comments  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on May 28, 2011 08:06

May 22, 2011

A Grace note: Thank you.

My wife and my daughter first appeared in this column in May 1993 when she was in utero. Since then, she has endured having everything from her diapers to her dates chronicled (or, to use the precise journalistic terms, "exploited" or "made fun of") in this space. I have used her shamelessly whenever I've needed to, and I've needed to often: Feeding a weekly column is a lot like feeding the cast of "The Biggest Loser" when they all go on their "uh-oh, this show's been cancelled" binge. It's insatiable.

Well, I am about to exploit her again. Her high school graduation is imminent. Now, before the orchestra comes up and you hear me leading the village of Anatevka in "Sunrise, Sunset," rest assured that I am not going to get sloppy on you this morning. The fact is, a lot of parents have children graduating from high school this spring. As a matter of fact, I am merely one of two writers for this newspaper who have a 17-year-old daughter named Grace about to graduate from high school. It is, thankfully, a pretty common rite of passage, an important moment almost equidistant in time between a girl's first Barbie and her first Botox.

Nevertheless, it is impossible not to roll the tape back and relive those iconic moments that every parent savors. Grace is an only child and our family unit was always perfect as a small world of three.

A few years ago I wrote an essay about that for a book called "What I Would Tell Her," a collection of letters or stories that dads wrote for their daughters. I'm sure I never focused as carefully on any 2,000 words I've written -- and, just for the record, I have written no fewer than 2 million words for books, magazines, and this newspaper.

And I think that's because there is no role in my life I have taken more seriously or loved more than being a dad and a husband: A dad to Grace Experience and a husband to Victoria. (I never took being a son seriously. Just ask my dad. Same with being an advertising executive when I was a young man. And it's hard to take any columnist seriously who coined the expression "turd hockey.")

Among the advice I offered my Grace that has relevance for any 17- or 18-year-old girl finishing high school?

"Don't wear four-inch heels around Soho if you don't have to. You're just asking to derail a promising dance career."

"It's your room and your space. If you can find the shirt you want in those mountains of clothes, it doesn't matter if there's no path on the floor to your bed."

"Yes, food is love. Especially bruschetta made with good bread, finely chopped tomatoes, and extra virgin olive oil."

"There's nothing wrong with chick flicks. The term is senselessly derogatory and offensive."

"Get a rope ladder for your bedroom window. Fire happens."

"Wear a scarf around your neck when it's cold. You need always to protect that lark-like voice of yours."

"Your laugh is charismatic. It's candy. It's chocolate. It makes everyone who hears it fall in love with you."

"You don't have to stay up till 4 in the morning. Really. There are things to do as early as midnight."

"Minimize your regrets -- which means minimizing your tattoos."

This month and next I offer my heartiest congratulations to all of the girls and boys -- now women and men -- whose friendship my daughter cherished over the years and who are graduating from high school. And while these are just names to most readers, at different times in the last 17 years they have meant the world to Grace: Isaac, Ellen, Bridget, Yuki, Cameron, Amelia, Jess, Becca, Ryan, Anna, Claire, Elisabeth, Erica, Lena and Matthieu.

And Grace, your mother and I thank you for being our daughter and for the indescribable joy you have brought into our life. We are always more proud of you than you know -- and certainly I am grateful for the countless times you have allowed me to make my weekly deadline by turning your life into performance art.

(This column originally appeared in the Burlington Free Press on May 22, 2011. Chris's next novel, "The Night Strangers," will be published on October 4, 2011.)
2 likes ·   •  1 comment  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on May 22, 2011 04:52

May 15, 2011

Now even the vigorous can rest in peace

My mother-in-law died the same day as Osama bin Laden. Most comedians would kill for an opening line like that. Let’s face it: The world is filled with mother-in-law jokes.

But Sondra Blewer left behind four reeling daughters when she died suddenly of a cerebral hemorrhage May 1, and three devastated sons-in-law. She had celebrated her 80th birthday in Manhattan not quite three months earlier, looking — in the words of my daughter, one of her five grandchildren — “as glamorous and beautiful as any grandmother on ‘Gossip Girl.’” Her quirks were legendary among her family and friends, and among the reasons she was so beloved.

She was, for those of you who have read “Before You Know the Kindness,” the inspiration for the indefatigable Nan Seton, the matriarch of that novel’s Seton family. Like Nan, she lived in New York City nine months a year, but would retreat to the ancestral homestead in Sugar Hill, N.H., for the summer. As her oldest daughter observed in her eulogy at the funeral, Sondra Blewer was still cutting the grass herself last summer, using a 20-year-old Toro lawnmower she had to push. My mother-in-law would allow me to lift the lawnmower up the three stone steps that separated one section of the lawn from an elevated patch of grass beside the porch, but that was the extent of my involvement and her only concession to age.

I spent the summer between my freshman and sophomore years of college at that house with her and her daughter, working as a dishwasher and then seafood chef at one of the White Mountain’s most solidly mediocre surf and turf restaurants. I have always appreciated the way she welcomed me into her world in northern New Hampshire. Her one question when her daughter asked whether her new boyfriend could spend the summer in Sugar Hill? “The whole summer? What on earth are we going to do with him when you get sick of him?”

Clearly, what I lack in charm I make up for in persistence. But, along with her daughter, she took me in. She wrote me lengthy critiques of my books, always as honest as my editor and my wife — which sometimes is more honesty than I crave, but always precisely the amount that I need. Whenever I would visit New York City on business, we would try to have dinner or breakfast together, and I will always smile when I think of our last breakfast together at Sarabeth’s on 92nd and Madison. The following is an abbreviated part of her exchange with the waitress:

Waitress: The frittata comes with your choice of a blueberry, cranberry or bran muffin, a croissant, a scone, a cheese Danish, crumb coffeecake or an English muffin.

Sondra Blewer: Do you have toast?

She did like her toast. She was a creature of habit.

I never called her anything but Mrs. Blewer. Worlds would have collided had I ever called her Sondra or Mother or Mom. And, after all, why would I have called my mother-in-law anything but “Mrs. Blewer?” We had only known each other three decades and change. Her Valentine’s Day cards to me were always signed, “Sincerely, Mrs. Blewer.” As my wife noted, however, I could take pride in the reality that she sent me a card at all, since she did not mail them to her daughters. Mrs. Blewer loved me, but new age sentimentality was never going to trump old school formality.

Among her desires for her funeral was to have her family serve as the pallbearers: They did. Daughters and sons-in-law and one of her grandsons carried the coffin into the church. Then, as if it were a flag, the four daughters draped upon the casket the burial quilt that she had made herself for precisely this occasion.

And while the suddenness of her death may make it harder for the rest of us to heal, there is comfort in the reality that Sondra Blewer died just the way that she lived: On her terms. She left a message on my wife’s and my answering machine here in Vermont the day before she died, and she sounded wonderful: Cheerful and energetic and, most importantly, happy. She was vibrant and vital and preternaturally vigorous until the very end.

(This column originally appeared in the Burlington Free Press on May 15. Chris’s next novel, “The Night Strangers,” arrives on October 4, 2011.)
2 likes ·   •  10 comments  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on May 15, 2011 05:48 Tags: blewer, sugar-hill, the-night-strangers

May 10, 2011

Midwives

Sibyl Danforth is just not happy about this. . .

http://www.slate.com/id/2293389/pagen...
1 like ·   •  2 comments  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on May 10, 2011 16:37 Tags: midwives

May 8, 2011

The Broccoli Rocket, the Funky Fruit Mingle and other Proustian madeleines from my mother's recipe files.

I have never been shy about the reality that my late mother, Annalee Carolyn Nelson Bohjalian, was always going to be the first person voted off "Top Chef." Actually, even that aggrandizes her skills in the kitchen.

Let me try again: My mother's idea of a home-cooked meal was canned peas, instant mashed potatoes and a chicken breast baked until it looked like a trilobite -- all prepared amid the inviting smog of a kitchen that reeked of Eve cigarettes. Everyone had a great time at her dinner parties and no one went home hungry, but this was largely because the guests would often eat dinner before coming and because my parents served enough booze to make Don Draper happy.

It was the era.

Last month I came across her acrylic file box with her favorite recipes. It is at once appalling and touching. Among the discoveries?

She had three recipes for "mock hollandaise sauce." My favorite was the one from an old Woman's Day magazine that was basically tennis ball-sized scoops of warmed mayonnaise and sour cream, and then a tablespoon of lemon juice.

She had cards for "mock" crab cakes, "mock" cheesecake, and something called a "mock" cookie pie -- suggesting that somewhere in most people's culinary canon is a genuine cookie pie.

There were magazine recipes with wonderfully retro names, such as the "Potato Tornado," "The Hurry Curry," and "the Broccoli Rocket." This last one is essentially boiled and pulverized frozen broccoli and a can of mushroom soup that is then shaped like a rocket. In theory, kids will love it, because we all know the best way to get children to eat their vegetables is to make them inedible but shape them like spaceships.

There is one dip that includes mayonnaise, ketchup (spelled catsup), and mustard -- a sort of condiment smorgasbord. And who could ever forget the "Funky Fruit Mingle" -- what today we call a "fruit cup."

There were also at least a half-dozen recipes for curried chicken, though I swear I have no memory of my mother ever serving curried chicken when I was growing up.

But there were a number of recipes that I did recall, and I remember them fondly -- especially the ones she wrote meticulously by hand on her index cards. There was what she referred to with great gusto and a horrific French accent as her "pots de creme" -- or as she would say it, "Poh [really spit out that P] Duh Cre [great guttural gagging sound]." It was, as far as I could tell, chocolate pudding with some whipped cream from an aerosol spray can on top. But the only thing my mom loved more after dinner than her vaguely homemade pots de creme were those Eve cigarettes and a piping hot cup of that morning's coffee. Yummy!

I also recognized her handwritten recipe for "fruits de mer," or pasta shells, bottled clam juice, frozen shrimp and fake crab. Completely inedible. It was so bad that one Saturday morning not long after my wife and I were married and visiting my parents, we threw out all the "fruits de mer" leftovers when they were shopping and told my mom we had eaten it for lunch. We didn't want to hurt her feelings, and I am confident that she went to her grave in 1995 believing her "fruits de mer" was a gift to us all.

That's the thing about those recipe cards that left me both smiling and a little wistful. On her "pots de creme" notes she had scribbled, "Chris loves." On her beef stew card she had written, "Andy loves," referring to my brother.

My mom may not have been an especially talented chef. She may not even have liked to cook all that much. But she loved her family, and that legacy can be found in those cards.

Happy Mother's Day.

(This column originally appeared in the Burlington Free Press on May 8, 2011. His next novel, "The Night Strangers," arrives on October 4, 2011.)
5 likes ·   •  0 comments  •  flag
Share on Twitter
Published on May 08, 2011 07:16 Tags: mother-s-day, the-night-strangers