Shelley Hendrix's Blog, page 2
April 15, 2013
April 2013 Ministry Update @Church4Chicks #YCantWeGetAlong
As I sit here in my pollen covered home after a night of spring storms, I wonder "How is it possible that this is already mid-April...2013???" Since my last ministry update, the dial has turned on my odometer. I'm a year older and living in my final year as a 30-Something. (Didn't I just celebrate my 30th Birthday?)
Reflecting on this first quarter of 2013, I wanted to share with you some of the highlights that your prayers and support have made possible:
Harvest House Publishers
"Why Can't We Just Get Along?" released on March 1, and I am overwhelmed by the reviews the book is receiving and by the emails I've personally received from readers whose lives have been changed as a result of the information within the book and by their own willingness to apply the principles in their lives and relationships. The e-book version is to be released any day now, and my hope is that this resource will help even more people find and cultivate Christ-honoring peace in their lives and relationships. If you have read the book already, it would be a gift to me and to this message if you would rate the book and even write up a quick "review" of it for other readers online:For Amazon click hereFor Goodreads click hereFor The Harvest House Publishers review site click hereAnd, if you are a Blogger and would like to read and review the book for your blog readers (with a free book or two to give away), please email me at Shelley@Church4Chicks.com with your blog website and your mailing address. Thank you!Please share the book info and links on your social network sites. Together, we can reach more people with the Good News of Jesus Christ and how HE is the answer to all our of relationships!
Church 4 Chicks hosted our first conference in Atlanta on March 16. Amid some major challenges and financial setbacks, the conference went beautifully thanks to an incredible team and an even more incredible God. We were blessed by Kim Hill's ministry and music, The Greenhouse (College) Band from Fellowship Bible Church in Roswell, GA, and by the wisdom and grace from our panelists who handled some really, really tough questions posed by our guests. It was an honor and a privilege to share principles from Romans 12 with the women and girls in attendance. It truly was an unforgettable day!If you or your church would be interested in hosting a "Friend Me" event or conference in your community, please let us know at Church 4 Chicks! We would love to partner with you in some way to help you create a similar event for the women in your area.I've also been privileged to continue as a host for "Atlanta Live" on WATC 57. My next dates hosting
With JoAnna Ward and Donna Ritchie
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"Friends and Neighbors"are April 17 and April 30 (when Stephen will join me as co-host!). I've also been able to enjoy the fun and blessing to be a guest host for "Friends and Neighbors" for some of the Spring episodes. If you'd like to watch my interview on Babbie's House, discussing the content of the new book, please click here to watch that (and enjoy some of Babbie's music as well!)I've had the chance to speak at events in other states as well as here in my own hometown and I never take these open doors for granted. God has been so good to this chick who felt invisible and "less than" for most of her life. Only HE could make something out of nothing and this is certainly how He has worked with me.
In the coming weeks ahead, I'll be touring with the "Think Like a Boss Tour" featuring host, Robyn Gaskins Smith. We are headed to San Antonio, DC, Philadelphia, Atlanta and more! I would definitely appreciate your prayers as we head to these cities to speak with women in business and leadership. It is a special honor to be a part of this group. You can check out more info at www.thinklikeabosstour.com (still under some construction, but bookmark it, especially if we're headed to your city!)
Please make sure to visit and subscribe to the Church 4 Chicks blog as well. We now have a team of writers helping us lead women to live with purpose, but without the pressure! You'll find that by clicking here.
I can't thank you enough for your prayers and your financial contributions that help provide and protect me as I seek to faithfully follow the leadership of the Spirit. If you would like to sow a seed by making a financial investment into a ministry that is getting results of changed lives and healthier families and relationships, there has never been a better time to make such an investment. You can send a tax-deductible donation to "Church 4 Chicks, inc. PO Box 1447, Woodstock, GA 30188." Your dollars and cents go to helping further the Gospel message of new life and new identity found only in the Person of Jesus Christ. We believe He is the answer to every need and every problem we face. We believe He is the One who heals lives, marriages, relationships, churches, communities, and so on. With your help, we can reach more people with this message. What a joy to partner with other Believers in reaching our generation with the message of Grace and Truth!
In Him and For Him, Shelley Hendrix
Reflecting on this first quarter of 2013, I wanted to share with you some of the highlights that your prayers and support have made possible:
Harvest House Publishers"Why Can't We Just Get Along?" released on March 1, and I am overwhelmed by the reviews the book is receiving and by the emails I've personally received from readers whose lives have been changed as a result of the information within the book and by their own willingness to apply the principles in their lives and relationships. The e-book version is to be released any day now, and my hope is that this resource will help even more people find and cultivate Christ-honoring peace in their lives and relationships. If you have read the book already, it would be a gift to me and to this message if you would rate the book and even write up a quick "review" of it for other readers online:For Amazon click hereFor Goodreads click hereFor The Harvest House Publishers review site click hereAnd, if you are a Blogger and would like to read and review the book for your blog readers (with a free book or two to give away), please email me at Shelley@Church4Chicks.com with your blog website and your mailing address. Thank you!Please share the book info and links on your social network sites. Together, we can reach more people with the Good News of Jesus Christ and how HE is the answer to all our of relationships!
Church 4 Chicks hosted our first conference in Atlanta on March 16. Amid some major challenges and financial setbacks, the conference went beautifully thanks to an incredible team and an even more incredible God. We were blessed by Kim Hill's ministry and music, The Greenhouse (College) Band from Fellowship Bible Church in Roswell, GA, and by the wisdom and grace from our panelists who handled some really, really tough questions posed by our guests. It was an honor and a privilege to share principles from Romans 12 with the women and girls in attendance. It truly was an unforgettable day!If you or your church would be interested in hosting a "Friend Me" event or conference in your community, please let us know at Church 4 Chicks! We would love to partner with you in some way to help you create a similar event for the women in your area.I've also been privileged to continue as a host for "Atlanta Live" on WATC 57. My next dates hosting
With JoAnna Ward and Donna Ritchieon
"Friends and Neighbors"are April 17 and April 30 (when Stephen will join me as co-host!). I've also been able to enjoy the fun and blessing to be a guest host for "Friends and Neighbors" for some of the Spring episodes. If you'd like to watch my interview on Babbie's House, discussing the content of the new book, please click here to watch that (and enjoy some of Babbie's music as well!)I've had the chance to speak at events in other states as well as here in my own hometown and I never take these open doors for granted. God has been so good to this chick who felt invisible and "less than" for most of her life. Only HE could make something out of nothing and this is certainly how He has worked with me.
In the coming weeks ahead, I'll be touring with the "Think Like a Boss Tour" featuring host, Robyn Gaskins Smith. We are headed to San Antonio, DC, Philadelphia, Atlanta and more! I would definitely appreciate your prayers as we head to these cities to speak with women in business and leadership. It is a special honor to be a part of this group. You can check out more info at www.thinklikeabosstour.com (still under some construction, but bookmark it, especially if we're headed to your city!)
Please make sure to visit and subscribe to the Church 4 Chicks blog as well. We now have a team of writers helping us lead women to live with purpose, but without the pressure! You'll find that by clicking here.
I can't thank you enough for your prayers and your financial contributions that help provide and protect me as I seek to faithfully follow the leadership of the Spirit. If you would like to sow a seed by making a financial investment into a ministry that is getting results of changed lives and healthier families and relationships, there has never been a better time to make such an investment. You can send a tax-deductible donation to "Church 4 Chicks, inc. PO Box 1447, Woodstock, GA 30188." Your dollars and cents go to helping further the Gospel message of new life and new identity found only in the Person of Jesus Christ. We believe He is the answer to every need and every problem we face. We believe He is the One who heals lives, marriages, relationships, churches, communities, and so on. With your help, we can reach more people with this message. What a joy to partner with other Believers in reaching our generation with the message of Grace and Truth!
In Him and For Him, Shelley Hendrix
April 8, 2013
"As much as possible, as far as it depends on you, be at peace with everyone." A new post/excerpt from #YcantWeJustGetAlong
“Do all that YOU can to live at peace with everyone.” This biblical mandate (see Romans 12:18) doesn’t ask of us the impossible. It doesn’t ask us to play God or try to be a god to anyone. It doesn’t ask us to be perfect. It reveals the ability we have to make powerful choices in our lives that, in doing so, increases our own peace so that we, in turn, can make a greater impact for good in our generation. Whenever we’re riddled with guilt or bitterness or regret, we remain shackled in chains that have already been unlocked for us. But it has always been and will always be our choice to remain in those shackles or to cast them off and run in the freedom purchased us by the forgiveness of the God who forgave us long before we could have even begun to wonder how we could make things right with Him. He set things right. He initiated the forgiveness of all of our wrongs toward Him. And He is the One who makes us able to offer that kind of forgiveness to others, whether they realize they need it or not. One final thought: whenever we see that a confrontation is necessary, it is vital that we take the time needed to examine our own hearts and motives first. The importance of this cannot be overstated, so please take the time to do this thoroughly by asking yourself and answering these questions:
1. What is my motive in confronting this other person/group? If your answer reveals a desire for revenge, to put the other person in his/her place, or something of that flavor, please wait until your emotions have calmed down enough to handle the confrontation with respect for the other person.
2. Am I ready to accept that the other person may not respond the way I would prefer? Take the time to release your expectations and desires to your heavenly Father. Going into the confrontation with an agenda can put both you and the other person on the defensive if/when things don’t go your way.
3. Is this safe? Not to be melodramatic, but the truth is that some confrontations are unwise because the emotions involved can escalate in some situations putting one or both people at risk for harm—either verbally or physically. If it isn’t safe, don’t confront (or don’t go it alone). Common sense applies here. (As shared in detail in the above section.)
4. What do I hope to gain? If you recognize that the importance is that your voice be heard, and not that the other person respond the way you desire, then you are probably ready to confront.
Remember ... “the truth may be painful, but it should never be hurtful.” (James Eubanks)Check your motives, investigate your desires, evaluate your safety, and acknowledge your hopes before heading into a confrontation with another person or group. I believe these steps will help you to get your thoughts together for a respectful confrontation with just about anyone. (Just about!)
Go in peace.
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This post is an excerpt from "Why Can't We Just Get Along? Six Effective Skills for Dealing with Difficult People" published by Harvest House Publishers. For more information on this book, along with a sneak peek and online ordering options, please visit: http://harvesthousepublishers.com/book/why-cant-we-just-get-along-2013/
April 2, 2013
In Honor of #Autism Awareness Day
I shared our family's journey to my daughter, Macey's diagnosis with Asperger's in a blog series a while back called "Our Pearl Story."
You'll find it here:
http://www.shelleyhendrix.org/2010/10/pearlstake-timepart-1.html?m=0
"The best thing you can do for a person with Autism is be patient." ~ Macey
March 1, 2013
Today's the Day!! #YCantWeJustGetAlong @Harvest_House
Today's the Day!!!
"Why Can't We Just Get Along?" is no longer a dream. It's no longer a project. It has been officially released!
Check it out, get a sneak peek, check your local bookstores, and let MY pain endured in relationships increase YOUR peace in your own! You can read more here
“When first stumbling upon this review opportunity I didn’t realize just how pertinent this book would be to my own life… Shelley’s book is a hand-held mirror for the soul, graciously challenging readers to take the focus off of others and put it back on ourselves…”
—GibsonFamilyMissions.weebly.com
February 27, 2013
February 9, 2013
Connect with my Author Page for a chance to win a FREE copy of my book!
It's hard to believe that in just a few short weeks, my latest book, "Why Can't We Just Get Along?" will be in stores everywhere. (Dreams really DO come true!) With the release of this book, along with the on-going work of my next project, I've been encouraged by my publishing/marketing team to put an Author Page on Facebook where I can connect with more people in an online space that makes it easier for all of us to stay engaged as we learn what it means to Live with Purpose...Without the Pressure!
So, with this in mind, I want to encourage you to visit my FB page and simply click the "Like" button. Once the page reaches 750 "likes" I'll be able to start giving away some FREE, autographed copies of my book. We will draw names out of those on the page (and we're well on our way to reaching 750) to receive their free copy. Fun!!
Connect with me on Facebook Here. Once you "Like" the page, please take just a moment to "Share" it with your friends. The sooner we reach that magic number of 750, the sooner we can begin the party of FREEbies!! Thanks so much for your support!!
(You can also find me on Twitter as well.)
February 5, 2013
Chick Chat with Babbie Mason
"Chick Chat" with Babbie Mason
It is always such a treat to be anywhere that Babbie Mason happens to be. Getting to be on her show is an extraordinary privilege. This is my third opportunity to be on her program, and it was by far my favorite experience on this program.
On today's edition of "Babbie's House" we had an opportunity to discuss my newest book, " Why Can't We Just Get Along? " which releases everywhere on March 1. Hearing from women whose lives have already been impacted by this message only confirms that God has something special planned for readers who choose to walk humbly through this journey of "being at peace with everyone." In fact, every time I would allow my mind to question the importance of this message, God would confirm how much it is needed through a real life situation I would experience myself or would hear about from another woman about her struggle with:co-worker dramaoverly authoritative employersfamily strifechurch politicsneighbors fighting
Click here to see the interviewWhy CAN'T We all Just Get Along??
I've wondered this myself in my own life and relationships at times; I've wondered as I've observed unnecessary drama unfold between other women; I've even seen it transpire in the wonderful world of social media. I finally had enough of trying to figure it out on my own and went to God with this question, "God, if we were made from and for relationship, Why Can't We Just Get Along???"
I'm so thankful for His faithfulness to meet me right where I was; to love me enough to show me where I was a victim of my own wrong thinking; and to reveal to me some not-so-secret secrets found in His Word--breathed from His very own heart to ours.
I'd love for you to consider getting a copy of this book. Guys, you may think this is just a book by a chick for chicks--but some of the books that have helped ME the most, as a woman, are the books written by guys to guys. This book will help you, for sure, in your own relationships, but will also help you gain insight into why the women in your life might be struggling to get along better with one another.
You can find more info on the book, including a free sneak peek into some of the chapters, at www.HarvestHousePublishers.com (Click Here)
It is always such a treat to be anywhere that Babbie Mason happens to be. Getting to be on her show is an extraordinary privilege. This is my third opportunity to be on her program, and it was by far my favorite experience on this program.
On today's edition of "Babbie's House" we had an opportunity to discuss my newest book, " Why Can't We Just Get Along? " which releases everywhere on March 1. Hearing from women whose lives have already been impacted by this message only confirms that God has something special planned for readers who choose to walk humbly through this journey of "being at peace with everyone." In fact, every time I would allow my mind to question the importance of this message, God would confirm how much it is needed through a real life situation I would experience myself or would hear about from another woman about her struggle with:co-worker dramaoverly authoritative employersfamily strifechurch politicsneighbors fighting
Click here to see the interviewWhy CAN'T We all Just Get Along??I've wondered this myself in my own life and relationships at times; I've wondered as I've observed unnecessary drama unfold between other women; I've even seen it transpire in the wonderful world of social media. I finally had enough of trying to figure it out on my own and went to God with this question, "God, if we were made from and for relationship, Why Can't We Just Get Along???"
I'm so thankful for His faithfulness to meet me right where I was; to love me enough to show me where I was a victim of my own wrong thinking; and to reveal to me some not-so-secret secrets found in His Word--breathed from His very own heart to ours.
I'd love for you to consider getting a copy of this book. Guys, you may think this is just a book by a chick for chicks--but some of the books that have helped ME the most, as a woman, are the books written by guys to guys. This book will help you, for sure, in your own relationships, but will also help you gain insight into why the women in your life might be struggling to get along better with one another.
You can find more info on the book, including a free sneak peek into some of the chapters, at www.HarvestHousePublishers.com (Click Here)
February 1, 2013
Because of God's love, we are free to cheer others on instead of competing for the wins #Ycantwegetalong
Excerpt from
Releases March 1, 2013Click the book cover to go to the publisher's website and read a free preview!January 30, 2013
#Ycantwegetalong ??
Photo by Amelia Grace Photography
God never takes from one of His children to give to another. A win for win is a win for all!
More on this can be found in my newest book:
January 28, 2013
The truth has always been the truth #YCantWeGetAlong
Quote from "Why Can't We Just Get Along?" which releases on March 1, 2013!For info on ordering and to get a sneak peek, please CLICK HEREto be re-routed to Harvest House Publishers' website
