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Leadership History Lesson for November 14th

On this day in leadership history in 1889, New York World reporter Nellie Bly (Elizabeth Cochrane) began an attempt to surpass the fictitious journey of Jules Verne’s Phileas Fogg by traveling around the world in less than 80 days. Bly succeeded by finishing the journey the following January in 72 days, 6 hours and 11 minutes.

What���s the leadership lesson? Honorable leaders know when to challenge old paradigms and lean into growth and innovation. Keep growing as a leader.

Nellie Bly – Wikipedia

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Leading with Honor Wisdom for Today, November 12, 2021

���When self-doubt creeps in, remember this advice ��� ���To thine oneself be true. Go out there and be 100 percent me.��� You can do it.��� ��� Lee Ellis

 

 

 

 

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Coaching Clip – How to Conquer Leadership Doubts and Fears

If you���re not intentional and careful, the battle of leadership doubts and fears can undermine your success as an honorable leader. In this new coaching clip, Lee uses the recent World Series win by the Atlanta Braves to share his insights on how to break through your limitations and be a winner.

Also, read the companion coaching article on this topic – “Bouncing Back When You Make An Error”

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Happy Veterans Day

Happy Veterans Day from Lee Ellis and the Leading with Honor Team

 

 

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Coaching Article – Bouncing back when you make an error

Have you ever had to coach yourself through a stressful moment and conquer the doubts and fears attacking your mind? Believing in yourself is always important, so let���s pause, reflect, and do some self-coaching on this point.

2021 World Series Revisited

The recent Baseball World Series gave us a couple of good examples of how important it is to believe in yourself. At the All-Star Break last summer, the Atlanta Braves��� win-loss record was 44-44. It was a team not likely to make it to the National League playoffs, let alone the World Series. But they did not quit, they bounced back, and from watching those six games in the series, it was clear they believed in themselves and each other.

Game 6 of the 2021 World Series was crucial. The Braves had won three games in the best of seven series. If they win, they are world champs for the first time in 26 years.

Here’s my coaching clip on this important topic of leadership doubts and fears. Please watch and then continue reading below:

Max Fried���s Self-Coaching Story

In Game 6 Max Fried is chosen to pitch for the braves. In Game 2 of the Series, he didn���t do well and was the losing pitcher, so clearly his manager believed in him. But he got off to a bad start. In the first inning he makes an error and gets his ankle crushed by the runner when Max was covering first base on a ground ball. What a way to start the game. It had to be devastating, yet Max gathered himself, believed in himself and pitched a fantastic game, giving up no runs and only four hits in the six innings he pitched. It was a stellar performance and with that win, the Braves became the World Champions.

After the game Max Fried shared the wisdom that we all need to remember: ���I just told myself that I was going to go out there and be 100 percent me and just try to pitch and win a ballgame.���

Now let���s take a different perspective���from the batter���s box.

Dansby Swanson���s Self-Coaching Story

Baseball is an unusual sport. The batter is battling nine opponents and one of them is throwing pitches between 90-100 miles an hour. (Can you imagine 9 on 1 in another sport?) His challenge is to hit the ball to a location where his opponents can���t get it.

Braves shortstop, Dansby Swanson, is standing at the plate of the World Series with 14 million people watching, with two strikes, knowing if he misses, he���s out. One can imagine the stress he was facing. He had struck out before in the World Series and in the previous game he had made an error that opened the door for the Astros to win.

But Dansby shows us how to bounce back from mistakes. In the second inning, he made a spectacular bare-handed scoop of a ground ball to throw out the runner. Now batting in the fifth inning, here comes the ball at 95 miles an hour; the decision to swing or not to swing is a decision that must be made in a tenth of a second. With all that weight on his shoulders, Dansby hits the next pitch over the fence for a two-run home run���giving the Braves an extra cushion for the win.

The Battlefield of the Mind

I share these two examples because I want us all to remember these scenarios of very experienced professionals facing challenging, crucial situations. Yet by believing in themselves, they came through to achieve success. Batters (and pitchers) go into unavoidable slumps, and even emotionally healthy people battle self-doubt, fears, shame, and times of low self-worth.

Yes, we all struggle with some layer of self-doubt and encounter these battles, so let���s examine some healthy ways to break free and hit that home run.

Here are four practical steps that will get you to move in the right direction, literally and figuratively:

 

Remember that doubts and fears are normal. Managed wisely, they help keep us on our toes; a little doubt can keep us humble. But if they take over, they will undermine our success. When you feel them start to have a negative impact that is truly undermining your confidence, push back and reflect on your true self.

 

Believe in Yourself. You are a capable person with strong values. You have fought battles before to keep your commitments, to own your responsibilities, to stand for what you believe in and to do the right thing. Talk to yourself and listen.

 

“Whether you believe you can, or you can���t, you are probably right.” – Henry Ford [Tweet This]

 

Reflect on how you will respond in a wise and healthy way. Gather yourself and clarify what is the right, honorable, and appropriate response for the situation. If you think your emotions might push you toward unhealthy responses, seek counsel from a wise mentor, friend, or teammate. This reflection step is critical so that you can respond as a secure, healthy person, even though the situation may be a scary one.

I always like to remember the wisdom shared by Shakespeare in Polonius��� farewell speech to his son Laertes as he was about to sail off to Paris.[1]

This above all: to thine own self be true,

And it must follow, as the night the day,

Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Farewell; my blessing season this in thee!

 

Respond. Go do it, but make sure it���s done with confidence and a positive attitude that is respectful of others. Your response may be a yes for one person���that makes them happy, or a no for another person���that makes them unhappy. That���s okay. You have evaluated your response and made a choice that is based on love and respect for yourself and others.

When self-doubt creeps in, remember, the advice above: To thine oneself be true and go out there and be 100 percent you. You can do it.

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Get the Best Coaching Products For Honorable Leadership

Purchase the award-winning books from Lee Ellis and FreedomStar Media in one package. Leading with Honor outlines the 14 leadership lessons learned along with dramatic stories from the POW camps of Vietnam. Engage with honor is the next release that applies many of the original leadership lessons into a practical Courageous Accountability Model. These books would make great gifts for your work team or fellow leaders in your sphere of influence.

Purchase in the Leading with Honor StorePurchase on Amazon.com

 

[1] Farewell speech by Polonius to his son Laertes as he was departing for France. Hamlet�� Act 1, Scene 3

 

 

 

 

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10 Traits of Highly Motivated People

At a recent event, friend and colleague Mary Kelly noticed these 10 traits of motivated people that were there. I liked them and thought would too.

Please check them out on her website, and post your favorite motivational traits below ���

 

 

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November 7th ��� Shoot-Down Anniversary

Sunday, November 7th, 2021 begins a special week. On November 7, 1967 (54 years ago) my aircraft commander Capt Ken Fisher and I were flying a combat mission over N. Vietnam in this F-4C Phantom, tail number BB600. It had been decorated with victory stripes to honor our Ops Group Commander Col. Boots Blesse, a famous Korean War ACE.

 

That day this beautiful beast was blown out of the sky, and Ken and I were fortunate to have great equipment and training. We ejected over enemy territory and were captured immediately. Ken would be my cellmate and leader for the next 1955 days–more than five years. He was six years senior and a courageous leader and role model for a young kid like me. His character, courage, and commitment were a great influence on my life. He’s still my hero and we stay in touch and celebrate at reunions.

 

This is also the week of Veterans Day, and I’m headed back to San Antonio to speak at a dinner event honoring all Veterans for their service. While I’m there, I’ll go back to Randolph AFB (where all AF returned POW pilots requalified for flying) and the monument honoring those who did not return from the war.

 

The inscription says: “We who came home must never forget those who could not.” To all our Veterans we say thanks for your service.

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Leadership History Lesson for November 7th

On this day in leadership history in 1944, U.S. President Franklin D. Roosevelt became the first person to win a fourth term as president. He served as President from 1933 to 1945.

What���s the leadership lesson? Honorable leaders learn the power of resilience and their understanding to being an effective influence during their leadership tenure. Make sure that you���re aware of your influence and resilience, too.

Franklin D. Roosevelt – Wikipedia

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Leading with Honor Wisdom for Today, November 5, 2021

���The elevator to success is not working. You���ll have to take the stairs.��� ��� Joe Girard

 

 

 

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