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August 11, 2014

20 – The Hidden Vows that Make us Sick




I had a product on this site where I shared the healing journey, how God heals your broken heart. Instead of selling it, I am going to give it to you for free in six installments. This is installment number five. Hooray! The Gist: Today we’re going to talk about the vows we quietly make […]


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Published on August 11, 2014 03:00

August 8, 2014

For those who shame-whip themselves




What if instead of berating ourselves for our failures and sins and besetting weaknesses, we remember that the sweetness of God informs our worth? What if instead of thinking, “God must be angry at me for all my struggles,” we think, “I am utterly grateful that He sees me as his beloved daughter/son. Nothing I […]


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Published on August 08, 2014 08:45

August 7, 2014

Sex is Scary for Sexual Abuse Victims




  This is the post that started me down the path to write Not Marked: Finding Hope and Healing after Sexual Abuse. It first appeared on Deeper Story. … I sat in the audience, taking notes, my heart sinking deeper into itself. Failure hollered so loudly I wondered if others could hear it. Women laughed, […]


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Published on August 07, 2014 01:45

August 4, 2014

19 – Do I really have to forgive?




I had a product on this site where I shared the healing journey, how God heals your broken heart. Instead of selling it, I am going to give it to you for free in six installments. This is installment number four. Hooray! The Gist: We cannot heal if we hold on to bitterness and unforgiveness. […]


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Published on August 04, 2014 03:00

July 31, 2014

Jim




I never called you Dad. Not Daddy. Father. Papa. Always Jim. Which kept a somewhat safe distance between our hearts in the aftermath of divorce. We spent parts of weekends together as a part of a legal agreement. And yet. You so desperately wanted me to understand you, to know you–the eccentric artist, the light-years-ahead-of-me […]


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Published on July 31, 2014 02:00

July 29, 2014

You may never be popular {but that’s okay.}




I posted this on Facebook yesterday, and it blew up (in a good way.) So I wanted to share it here, with you, my faithful, sweet, praying readers. I pray these words of frailty reach your heart. … I’ve come to the conclusion that God is sovereign over my career/writing/ministry/speaking. He can do whatever He […]


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Published on July 29, 2014 07:50

July 28, 2014

18 – The Beautiful Difficult Power of Truth Telling




I had a product on this site where I shared the healing journey, how God heals your broken heart. Instead of selling it, I am going to give it to you for free in six installments. This is installment number three. Hooray! The Gist: We cannot heal in untruth. We cannot heal telling ourselves lies. […]


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Published on July 28, 2014 03:00

July 25, 2014

Three Stories of Awesome




Today is my friend Twilla’s birthday, though I cannot celebrate with her. She parties on heavenly beaches right now. I wonder if she’s encountered my friend Mike. Or Dr. Willhite. … My calendar reminds me of a standing appointment I have with a friend of mine, only our lives and calendars haven’t allowed for weekly […]


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Published on July 25, 2014 02:52

July 21, 2014

17 – Really? Do you REALLY want to get well?




I had a product on this site where I shared the healing journey, how God heals your broken heart. Instead of selling it, I am going to give it to you for free in six installments. This is installment number two. Hooray! The Gist: Some of us prefer pain to health. We would rather stay […]


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Published on July 21, 2014 03:00

July 17, 2014

Burning out for Jesus




(Note: I wrote this a few months ago on Deeper Story as I was on the brink of burnout. This summer I’m taking a Sabbatical to help me reframe and rethink my life. Prayers appreciated!) … I wish I didn’t have to write this post. It’s a bit embarrassing, hard to admit to. I’ve often […]


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Published on July 17, 2014 02:43