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July 24, 2025
Rhonda Patrick, Ph.D. — Protocols for Fasting, Lowering Dementia Risk, Reversing Heart Aging, Using Sauna for Longevity (Hotter is Not Better), and a Few Supplements That Might Actually Matter (#819)

Rhonda Patrick, Ph.D. (@foundmyfitness) is a biomedical scientist and the founder of FoundMyFitness, a platform dedicated to delivering rigorous, evidence-based insights on improving healthspan and mitigating age-related diseases. Through her podcast, website, and YouTube channel, reaching millions globally, she translates complex science into actionable strategies for metabolic health, brain aging, and overall improved healthspan.
Dr. Patrick’s research explores genetic determinants of nutritional response, metabolic health, micronutrient deficiencies, sleep biology, and hormetic stressors, such as exercise, heat, cold exposure, fasting, and phytochemicals. She is an associate scientist and board member at the Fatty Acid Research Institute, where her work focuses on the role of omega-3 fatty acids in metabolic health and brain aging. Her peer-reviewed publications have appeared in top-tier journals, including Nature Cell Biology, The FASEB Journal, and Experimental Gerontology.
By uniting scientific integrity with protocol-driven precision, Dr. Patrick equips individuals and organizations alike with practical, scientifically sound strategies for optimizing health and longevity.
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SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODEConnect with Dr. Rhonda Patrick:Website | Podcast | Twitter | Instagram | Facebook
Health Protocols and Lifestyle InterventionsSauna Use: Linked to a 65-66% lower risk of dementia and Alzheimer’s disease when used four to seven times weekly. Optimal protocol: 174°F (79°C) for 20 minutes. Temperatures above 190°F (88°C) may be less beneficial.Hot Baths: Provide similar cardiovascular benefits to sauna use, with daily hot baths linked to 28% lower cardiovascular disease risk. Protocol: 104°F (40°C) water temperature for 20 minutes.Intermittent Fasting (IF) — Specifically 16:8: Time-restricted eating with a 16-hour fast and eight-hour eating window, shown to improve metabolic health, blood sugar control, and activate cellular autophagy.Extended Fasting: Water-only fasts lasting seven to 30 days that can trigger profound autophagy and provide anti-inflammatory benefits, though requiring medical supervision for safety.Fasting-Mimicking Diet (FMD): A low-calorie, low-protein, plant-based eating pattern for five consecutive days that aims to provide fasting benefits while allowing some food intake.Norwegian 4×4 Protocol: High-intensity interval training method involving four minutes at 85-95% maximum heart rate followed by three minutes active recovery, repeated four times to maximize VO2 max improvements.Zone 2 Training: Moderate-intensity aerobic exercise performed at conversational pace below the lactate threshold, optimizing fat oxidation, and building aerobic base for endurance and longevity.Tabata: A form of high-intensity interval training (HIIT) that involves short, intense bursts of exercise followed by brief rest periods.Seniors CrossFit: Adapted functional fitness program emphasizing scalable movements, strength training, and community engagement specifically designed for older adults to maintain independence and health.Key Health Concepts and TermsVO2 Max: The maximum rate of oxygen consumption during exercise, considered the gold standard measure of cardiorespiratory fitness and a key predictor of longevity.APOE4: A genetic allele that significantly increases the risk for Alzheimer’s disease, with those carrying two copies developing brain pathology predictably by age 55.Klotho: A longevity-related protein that acts as an anti-aging factor, boosted by exercise and vitamin D, and associated with improved cognitive function and extended lifespan.Heat Shock Proteins (HSPs): Protective proteins activated by heat stress such as sauna use that help repair misfolded proteins, prevent protein aggregation, and provide cellular protection against damage.Autophagy and Mitophagy: The body’s cellular cleanup processes that clear out damaged proteins, organelles, and mitochondria, activated by fasting and intense exercise to maintain cellular health.NRF2 Pathway: A genetic pathway that controls the cellular response to oxidative stress and inflammation, strongly activated by compounds like sulforaphane from cruciferous vegetables.Ketosis / Beta-Hydroxybutyrate (BHB): A metabolic state where the body uses fat and ketones for fuel, with BHB acting as a clean energy source and signaling molecule with anti-inflammatory effects.Glymphatic System: The brain’s waste clearance system that is most active during deep sleep, helping clear amyloid-beta plaques and other toxic proteins from brain tissue.Advanced Glycation End Products (AGEs): Harmful compounds formed when sugar binds to proteins, causing tissues such as blood vessels and organs to become stiff and contributing to aging and disease.Microplastics and Nanoplastics: Pervasive environmental contaminants found in food, water, and packaging that can cross biological barriers including the blood-brain barrier and potentially cause cellular damage.Sick Quitter Hypothesis: A confounding factor in alcohol studies where people who quit drinking due to illness are miscategorized as healthy non-drinkers, potentially skewing research results on alcohol’s health effects.Supplements, Compounds, and ProductsCentrum Silver: A multivitamin specifically formulated for adults 50+ that was used in randomized controlled trials showing it could reduce global cognitive aging by ~2 years and episodic memory aging by ~5 years in older adults.Vitamin D: Recommended dose is individualized based on blood tests, aiming for a level of 40-60 ng/mL. A common starting dose is 5,000 IU/day, but some may need more.Omega-3 Fish Oil: Crucial for brain health. A dose of ~2 grams/day is mentioned. For APOE4 carriers, the phospholipid form (found in salmon roe, krill oil, or created by the body at higher doses) is recommended for better brain delivery.Ubiquinol (Coenzyme Q10): A form of CoQ10 that supports mitochondrial health. Dr. Patrick gives it to her father for his Parkinson’s disease. The VESIsorb formulation by Pure Encapsulations is mentioned for higher bioavailability (and cost).Sulforaphane: A compound from cruciferous vegetables (especially broccoli sprouts) that activates the NRF2 pathway, boosting glutathione and aiding detoxification of pollutants like benzene and BPA. Best taken on an empty stomach unless it causes GI distress.Creatine Monohydrate: The “gold standard” form. Recommended for muscle performance (increasing exercise volume) and cognitive benefits. A 5g/day dose saturates muscles, while higher doses (10-20g/day, in divided doses) are suggested for cognitive enhancement and combating sleep deprivation.Curcumin: Used as a natural anti-inflammatory alternative to NSAIDs for headaches and delayed onset muscle soreness (DOMS). The Meriva (phytosomal) formulation is recommended for bioavailability, with a suggested dose of four 500mg capsules (2g total).Magnesium: Essential for over 300 enzymes, including those that convert Vitamin D. Recommended forms include magnesium glycinate, citrate, and malate. Magnesium Threonate is mentioned for its potential to cross the blood-brain barrier. Typical supplemental dose is around 300-450mg/day.Lutein and Zeaxanthin: Polyphenols important for eye and brain health, found in multivitamins and supplements studied in the AREDS2 trials.Exogenous Ketones: Mentioned as a potential intervention for cognitive decline in aging, as seen in some case studies. The ketone monoester used in studies is noted as very expensive.Psilocybin: Discussed as a non-addictive alternative to ketamine for treating depression and for its potent anti-inflammatory effects, which can be achieved at sub-perceptual doses.Momentous: Brand for NSF-certified creatine, used by Tim.Avmacol: The brand of sulforaphane supplement Dr. Patrick gives to her mother.Xyrem: Oral prescription solution that may be used to treat excessive daytime sleepiness (EDS) in adults and children aged seven years and older with narcolepsy.Thorne: Recommended for Meriva Curcumin and NSF-certified Creatine Monohydrate.Pure Encapsulations: Recommended for O.N.E. Omega-3 Fish Oil, VESIsorb Vitamin D3, and Magnesium Glycinate.Xymogen: Recommended for high-DHA fish oil and Magnesium Threonate.Big Berkey: Water filtration system.Blue Bottle Coffee: Noted for using plastic-free, sugarcane-lined cups that don’t leach microplastics into hot beverages.Foods and BeveragesBroccoli Sprouts: The most potent dietary source of sulforaphane, containing 10-100 times higher levels than mature broccoli plants, with powerful anti-cancer and detoxification properties.Sardines and Salmon Roe: Excellent dietary sources of omega-3 fatty acids EPA and DHA in highly bioavailable phospholipid form, with 40-70% of DHA in salmon roe being phospholipid-bound compared to just 1-3% in regular fish.Xylitol Gum/Mints: Sugar alcohol sweetener with proven dental health benefits, reducing harmful oral bacteria and preventing tooth decay when consumed at 6-10 grams daily, though most commercial gum contains problematic “gum base” polymers.Heavy Cream / MCT Oil: Fat sources commonly used in “dirty fasting” that have minimal impact on insulin levels compared to protein or carbohydrates, with MCTs rapidly converting to ketones while preserving most fasting benefits.PeopleDr. Mark Mattson: A neuroscientist and adjunct professor at Johns Hopkins School of Medicine known for his pioneering research on intermittent fasting and its effects on brain health and neuroplasticity.Dr. Valter Longo: A biogerontologist and professor at USC who directs the Longevity Institute and is renowned for his research on fasting, longevity, and the development of the Fasting-Mimicking Diet (FMD).Dr. Ben Levine: A cardiovascular exercise physiologist and Distinguished Professor at UT Southwestern who demonstrated that a 2-year exercise program can reverse heart aging by up to 20 years in middle-aged adults.Dr. George Brooks: A professor of integrative biology at UC Berkeley who pioneered the “lactate shuttle hypothesis,” revolutionizing our understanding of how lactate serves as a crucial fuel for the brain and muscles during exercise.Dr. Darren Candow: A professor at the University of Regina who directs the Aging Muscle and Bone Health Laboratory and is recognized as a leading expert on creatine monohydrate supplementation and its effects on muscle health.Dr. John Krystal: A psychiatrist and chair of the Department of Psychiatry at Yale School of Medicine who led the groundbreaking discovery of ketamine’s rapid antidepressant effects, revolutionizing depression treatment.Chuck Nichols: A professor of pharmacology at Louisiana State University Health Sciences Center who discovered the potent anti-inflammatory effects of psychedelic compounds through novel 5-HT2A receptor mechanisms.Kevin Rose: A technology entrepreneur, podcaster, and mutual friend who is known for his early trend identification and has been mentioned in the context of third-party testing fish oil supplements.Relevant ResourcesFoundMyFitness: Dr. Rhonda Patrick’s science-based website, podcast, and newsletter providing evidence-based health information on nutrition, aging, exercise, and disease prevention through deeper understanding of biology.Are Saunas the Next Big Performance-Enhancing “Drug?” by Dr. Rhonda Patrick | Tim FerrissDr. Rhonda Patrick on Life Extension, Performance, and Much More | The Tim Ferriss Show #12Exploring Smart Drugs, Fasting, and Fat Loss — Dr. Rhonda Patrick | The Tim Ferriss Show #237Dr. Rhonda Patrick’s Supplement Routine (2025) | FoundMyFitnessVitamin D | FoundMyFitnessDr. Rhonda Patrick’s Omega-3 Supplementation Guide | FoundMyFitnessDr. Mark Mattson on the Benefits of Stress, Metabolic Switching, Fasting, and Hormesis | FoundMyFitness Podcast #66Exactly What Happened When We Tried Hugh Jackman’s ’16:8 Diet’ | Men’s HealthWe Did a 10-Day Fast at Buchinger Wilhelmi Clinic So You Don’t Have To | Robb ReportIntermittent Fasting: Does a New Study Show Downsides — Or Not? | Harvard HealthHow Does VO2 Max Correlate with Longevity? | Peter AttiaPeter Attia on Zone 2 and Zone 5 Training | Peter AttiaFacts And Myths Of Male Fertility: Tight Underwear, Hot Tubs, Marijuana, And More | Office for Science and Society | McGill UniversityDarren Candow, PhD on the Optimal Creatine Protocol for Strength, Brain, and Longevity | FoundMyFitness Podcast #100Reverse Osmosis Water Filter: The most effective filtration technology for removing microplastics and nanoplastics from tap water, with membrane pore sizes capable of filtering particles as small as 0.001 micrometers. Big Berkey systems also provide effective filtration in the 24-26 nanometer range.Loose-Leaf Tea and Tea Steeper: Brewing method recommended to avoid the billions of microplastic particles released by plastic tea bags, using stainless steel, glass, or food-grade silicone infusers for a plastic-free tea experience.NSF Certified for Sport: Third-party certification program that tests supplements for 290+ banned substances and verifies accurate labeling, ensuring products are free of contaminants and safe for athletic use.Sustainability at Blue Bottle: A Timeline | Blue Bottle Coffee LabAlcohol | FoundMyFitnessDr. John Krystal — All Things Ketamine, The Most Comprehensive Podcast Episode Ever | The Tim Ferriss Show #625Relevant ResearchEffect of Cocoa Extract and a Multivitamin on Cognitive Function: A Randomized Clinical Trial | JAMA Network OpenAge-Related Eye Disease Studies (AREDS/AREDS2) | National Eye InstitutePsilocybin Promotes Neuroplasticity and Reduces Neuroinflammation in a Mouse Model of Alzheimer’s Disease | Journal of NeuroinflammationReversing the Cardiac Effects of Sedentary Aging in Middle Age — A Randomized Controlled Trial | CirculationThe Lactate Shuttle During Exercise and Recovery | Medicine & Science in Sports & ExerciseAssociation Between Sauna Bathing and Fatal Cardiovascular and All-Cause Mortality Events | JAMA Internal MedicineSauna Bathing Is Inversely Associated with Dementia and Alzheimer’s Disease in Middle-Aged Finnish Men | Age and AgeingDoes Sauna Bathing Protect Against Dementia? | Preventive Medicine ReportsCreatine Supplementation Improves Cognitive Performance After Sleep Deprivation | PsychopharmacologyAssociation of Daily Step Count and Step Intensity With Mortality Among US Adults | JAMABrief Bursts of High-Intensity Exercise and Cardiovascular Risk | Mayo Clinic ProceedingsMicroplastics and Cardiovascular Disease | New England Journal of MedicineMicroplastics in Beverages: Glass and Plastic Bottles | Science of the Total EnvironmentThe Effect of Xylitol on Dental Caries and Oral Flora | Clinical, Cosmetic and Investigational DentistryInteraction Between Alcohol Consumption and Apolipoprotein E (APOE) Genotype with Cognition in Middle-Aged Men | Journal of the International Neuropsychological SocietyPsilocybin Increases Lifespan and Health-Span of Drosophila via Mechanisms Related to Autophagy | AgingSHOW NOTES[00:00:00] Start.[00:04:54] Dealing with aging parents and other topics on the table.[00:10:43] How a common multivitamin helps reverse cognitive and memory aging.[00:12:04] The importance of supplementation — especially as we age.[00:13:10] Effectively supplementing with omega-3 fish oil to counter APOE4 and Alzheimer’s risks.[00:16:50] The CoQ10 and omega-3 protocol that has helped Rhonda’s father manage Parkinson’s symptoms for nearly a decade.[00:19:28] Sulforaphane: a potent NRF2 activator with an unexpected benefit for Rhonda’s mother’s tremors.[00:25:34] How Rhonda convinced her mom to start CrossFit and the power of community-based, senior-focused fitness.[00:26:52] The earlier the intervention, the better the outcomes.[00:32:25] Intermittent fasting vs. extended fasting and my own results.[00:44:31] Does fasting destroy muscle mass? Debunking the catabolism fear and understanding the crucial role of the re-feeding phase.[00:57:24] “Dirty” fasting: what really happens to autophagy and metabolic benefits when you add a splash of cream or MCT oil to your coffee?[01:00:44] VO2 max: the one metric that may predict lifespan more accurately than anything else, and how we work to improve it.[01:12:07] How a two-year exercise program reversed heart aging by 20 years in previously sedentary, middle-aged adults.[01:16:18] Lactate isn’t the enemy: how vigorous exercise creates a superfuel that protects and grows the brain.[01:20:30] The optimal sauna protocol (temperature and frequency) for slashing dementia risk by 66%.[01:29:17] If you’re human, you’ll find a use for curcumin.[01:30:43] Creatine for cognition: moving beyond the gym with a powerful, science-backed tool for focus and combating sleep deprivation.[01:42:41] Still vitamin D deficient despite taking supplements? Here’s the critical cofactor you’re probably missing.[01:53:52] Shocking sources of microplastics in our daily lives, including chewing gum and teabags.[02:04:10] The uncomfortable truth about “moderate” alcohol consumption, cancer risk, and why the “sick quitter” hypothesis makes most older studies unreliable.[02:17:03] The ups and downs of ketamine and psilocybin on cognition and longevity.[02:24:19] Parting thoughts and where to find more from Rhonda.DR. RHONDA PATRICK QUOTES FROM THE INTERVIEW“After two years of taking the multivitamin, they had improved cognition on a battery of different tests that equated to reducing global cognitive aging by about two years. And on top of that, they reduced their episodic aging by five years. Almost five years. It was 4.8 years.”
— Dr. Rhonda Patrick
“A 70-year-old makes about four times less vitamin D than their former 20-year-old self.”
— Dr. Rhonda Patrick
“There have now been enough studies that have come out looking at cardiorespiratory fitness in the sense of VO2 max and how people with a higher cardiorespiratory fitness have a five-year increased life expectancy compared to people with a low cardiorespiratory fitness.”
— Dr. Rhonda Patrick
“People end up eating about 200 fewer calories per day when they’re doing some form of intermittent fasting.”
— Dr. Rhonda Patrick
“If you have a low cardiorespiratory fitness and you go anywhere above that from low to low normal, it’s associated with a two-year increased life expectancy. And people with a low cardiorespiratory fitness actually have a higher all-cause mortality that’s comparable or worse than people with known diseases like type 2 diabetes or cardiovascular disease or smokers, for example. So in other words, being sedentary is a disease and we need to think about it as a disease and we should be trying to train to improve our VO2 max.”
— Dr. Rhonda Patrick
“Over the last few years, intermittent fasting has kind of gotten a bad rap because people now equate it with, ‘Oh, loss of muscle mass. I’m going to be catabolic.’ Well, in order to be in a repair mode, you actually do need to be in a catabolic mode.”
— Dr. Rhonda Patrick
“50 percent of the US population has insufficient levels of magnesium. So you’re talking about a coin toss here, right? One out of two.”
— Dr. Rhonda Patrick
“A woman has a lifetime risk of one in eight of getting breast cancer. So if you have a room with eight people, one of those women, if you’re at a dinner party, and eight women are there, then one of those women will come down and be diagnosed with breast cancer in her lifetime. So when you add alcohol consumption on top of that, if you’re talking about moderate alcohol consumption, that risk can go to one in six, which is very significant for lifetime risk.”
— Dr. Rhonda Patrick
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June 25, 2025
4-Hour Workweek Success Stories — Charlie Houpert on Building “Charisma on Command” to 10M+ Subscribers, From Charging $10 for Seminars to Making Millions, Living in Brazil, Critical Early Decisions, and The Secret to Freedom (#817)
“Do I choose myself in the face of the world offering me all of this temptation to be something else?”
— Charlie Houpert
Charlie Houpert (@charliehoupert) is the co-founder of Charisma on Command, a company that helps people develop confidence, charisma, and strong social skills. Originally launched as a 4-Hour Workweek-inspired “muse,” it has since grown into one of the largest platforms for social skills and confidence training, with more than 10 million YouTube subscribers worldwide and more than a billion views across its content in six languages. His flagship course, Charisma University, has guided more than 30,000 members through practical steps to become more magnetic.
Charlie was once voted “Most Likely to Break Out of His Shell” and began studying charisma to overcome his own social anxiety. He now explores the deeper roots of confidence through archetypal psychology, embodiment practices, and more.
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Companies, Organizations, and BrandsCharisma on Command: a personal development company and YouTube channel focused on enhancing charisma and communication skills through online courses and content.Skillshare: an online learning platform offering thousands of creative and business courses taught by industry experts.TrepStar: an on-demand media fulfillment service specializing in short-run CD, DVD, and USB manufacturing and shipping.Chipotle: a fast-casual Mexican restaurant chain known for customizable burritos, bowls, and tacos made with responsibly sourced ingredients.Airbnb: a global online marketplace connecting travelers with hosts offering unique accommodations and experiences.Google (Adwords): Google’s online advertising platform, now called Google Ads, that enables businesses to display ads across Google’s network.SamCart: an e-commerce platform designed specifically for selling digital products with conversion-optimized checkout experiences and upselling features.Marvel: a multimedia entertainment company famous for its superhero franchises, comic books, and blockbuster film universe.Lexus: Toyota’s luxury vehicle division known for premium cars, SUVs, and hybrid technology with emphasis on craftsmanship and reliability.Patek Philippe: a prestigious Swiss luxury watch manufacturer renowned for creating some of the world’s most expensive and collectible timepieces.Boeing: an American multinational aerospace corporation that designs, manufactures, and sells commercial airplanes, defense systems, and space technology.Whole Foods: an upscale grocery chain specializing in organic and natural products, known for high-quality foods and health-conscious shopping experience.Blogs, Websites, and Online PlatformsKickAss Academy: the original domain name for Charlie’s personal development blog and business before rebranding to Charisma on Command.Reddit: a social news aggregation and discussion platform where users can share content and engage in community discussions across thousands of topics.Clarity.fm: an on-demand consulting platform that connects entrepreneurs with industry experts for paid phone consultations, featuring advisors like Mark Cuban and Eric Ries.WordPress: the world’s most popular content management system, powering over 40% of websites with flexible themes and plugins for building any type of site.vBulletin: a commercial forum software package that enables communities to create feature-rich discussion boards with advanced moderation and customization tools.The Last Psychiatrist: an influential anonymous blog by psychiatrist Dr. Chris Ballas that offered penetrating cultural criticism and psychological analysis from 2007-2014.Cracked: a humor website known for its comedic articles, lists, and videos that blend entertainment with surprising insights and historical facts.Courses and ProgramsCharisma University: Charlie’s flagship online course teaching practical charisma and communication skills through step-by-step training modules, exercises, and real-world application techniques.Marketing Step-by-Step: Eben Pagan’s comprehensive entrepreneurial marketing course covering psychology-driven strategies for customer acquisition, conversion, and business growth.Art of Accomplishment: Joe Hudson’s transformational coaching program blending neuroscience, psychology, and spiritual practices to help high-performers break through limiting patterns and emotional barriers.Books The 4-Hour Workweek: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich by Timothy Ferriss The 4-Hour Body: An Uncommon Guide to Rapid Fat-Loss, Incredible Sex, and Becoming Superhuman by Timothy Ferriss The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists by Neil Strauss I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell by Tucker Max Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg McKeown Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert Cialdini The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem: The Definitive Work on Self-Esteem by the Leading Pioneer in the Field by Nathaniel Branden The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran Running Lean: Iterate from Plan A to a Plan That Works by Ash Maurya How to Win Friends and Influence People: Updated For the Next Generation of Leaders by Dale Carnegie The 80/20 Principle: The Secret to Achieving More with Less by Richard Koch Who: The A Method for Hiring by Geoff Smart and Randy Street Entrepreneur Magazine’s Young Millionaires: Inspiring Stories to Ignite Your Entrepreneurial Dreams by Rieva Lesonsky History of the Peloponnesian War by Thucydides Tested Advertising Methods by John Caples Joint Ventures: From Mediocrity to Millions by Jay Abraham (PDF) Let My People Go Surfing: The Education of a Reluctant Businessman by Yvon Chouinard Losing My Virginity: How I Survived, Had Fun, and Made a Fortune Doing Business My Way by Richard Branson The Angels Knocking on the Tavern Door: Thirty Poems of Hafez by HafezMovies, TV Shows, and Media Inception : Christopher Nolan’s mind-bending heist thriller about extracting and planting ideas through shared dreaming, featuring layered dream sequences within dreams and Leonardo DiCaprio’s reality-questioning performance.Casino Royale (2006): the James Bond reboot featuring an iconic eight-minute parkour chase sequence with freerunner Sébastien Foucan that inspired Charlie’s first business idea for parkour training DVDs. Game of Thrones : HBO’s fantasy epic whose complex characters like Jon Snow and Tyrion Lannister became perfect subjects for Charlie’s “fame-jacking” YouTube strategy, borrowing existing audience attention. The Tim Ferriss Experiment : My reality TV show where I attempted to master various skills in record time, including a particularly cringe-worthy episode about dating and cold approach techniques. True Detective : the philosophical crime drama that was referenced in one of The Last Psychiatrist‘s characteristically penetrating blog post titles, blending pop culture with psychological analysis. Improv & Dragons : Charlie’s own YouTube series combining improvisational comedy with Dungeons & Dragons gameplay, showcasing his evolution from consumer to creator of entertaining content.PeopleNeil Strauss: author of The Game, a controversial exploration of pickup artist culture that inadvertently became a masterclass in social psychology and persuasion techniques.Neville Medhora: a copywriter and entrepreneur who founded Copywriting Course after helping AppSumo achieve their highest sales days through psychological email marketing.Tony Robbins: legendary motivational speaker and life coach known for transforming human potential through neurolinguistic programming and peak performance strategies.Tucker Max: bestselling author of I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell and master of provocative personal branding who provided Charlie crucial early feedback on his business positioning.Eben Pagan: marketing strategist and entrepreneur who created the “Marketing Step-by-Step” course that influenced Charlie’s rebranding to Charisma on Command, known for alliterative branding techniques.David DeAngelo: Eben Pagan’s pseudonym under which he wrote Double Your Dating, demonstrating early personal branding strategies in the dating advice industry.Ryan Holiday: bestselling author and marketing expert who was working as Tucker Max’s research assistant when I first encountered Tucker’s unconventional approach.Brian Chesky: co-founder and CEO of Airbnb, renowned for his philosophy of “doing things that don’t scale” in the early stages of building disruptive businesses.Clay Collins: online course creator who developed influential frameworks for pre-selling courses before creating them, providing Charlie with strategic product launch methodologies.Avicii: Swedish DJ and electronic music producer whose live performance Charlie witnessed during his transformational first visit to Las Vegas.Bill Clinton: 42nd President of the United States whose masterful eye contact techniques in political debates became the subject of one of Charlie’s breakthrough YouTube videos.Greg McKeown: author of Essentialism, advocating for the disciplined pursuit of less but better through systematic prioritization and elimination strategies.Herbie: fictional character from Greg McKeown’s Essentialism representing the bottleneck principle – that improving the slowest part of any system dramatically improves overall performance.Donald Trump: businessman and 45th President whose communication style Charlie analyzed in a viral 2016 video predicting his electoral success, which tripled Charlie’s business.Scott Adams: creator of the Dilbert comic strip and master persuader who also predicted Trump’s victory early, demonstrating advanced understanding of cognitive biases.Conor McGregor: Irish UFC fighter whose psychological warfare tactics and charismatic self-promotion became frequent subjects of Charlie’s behavioral analysis videos.Robert Downey Jr.: Academy Award-nominated actor whose quick wit and magnetic interview presence provided rich material for Charlie’s charisma breakdowns.Gary Vaynerchuk: entrepreneur and social media expert who popularized the “jab, jab, jab, right hook” content strategy of providing value before making sales pitches.Mr. Beast: YouTube phenomenon whose data-driven approach to viral content creation and psychological thumbnail optimization represents modern digital storytelling mastery.David Ogilvy: legendary advertising executive known as the “Father of Advertising” whose timeless principles of persuasion continue influencing modern marketing.Keanu Reeves: the perfect example of an introvert who exudes confidence despite being quiet and somewhat reclusive.Brené Brown: research professor and author whose insights on vulnerability and courage include the wisdom that healthy relationships are never truly 50/50.Thucydides: ancient Greek historian whose philosophy inspired Charlie’s tattoo: “The secret to freedom is courage” — representing the intersection of wisdom and personal transformation.Joe Hudson: executive coach and creator of Art of Accomplishment who guided Charlie through the complex emotional and strategic challenges of buying out his business co-founder.Sam Altman: CEO of OpenAI who publicly endorsed Joe Hudson’s work through social media, validating the psychological frameworks Charlie was learning.Nathaniel Branden: psychologist and author of The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem whose sentence completion exercises helped Charlie excavate limiting beliefs and unconscious patterns.Jay Abraham: business strategist and “old-school” marketing coach who challenged Charlie to create content worthy of being consumed by the people who had influenced him.Kahlil Gibran: Lebanese-American writer and philosopher, author of The Prophet, whose poetic wisdom on human nature continues influencing spiritual and personal development.Dale Carnegie: author of the timeless classic How to Win Friends and Influence People, establishing foundational principles for human relationship dynamics and social influence.Hafez: Persian lyrical poet from Shiraz, considered one of the greatest masters of the ghazal form, whose mystical and romantic verses exploring love, wine, and spiritual yearning have influenced literature for over 600 years.Martha Beck: life coach and author known for integrating ancient wisdom with modern psychological techniques.Brandon Sanderson: prolific fantasy author whose systematic approach to world-building and storytelling demonstrates the intersection of creativity and methodical execution.Richard Koch: author of The 80/20 Principle, advocating for identifying the vital few inputs that generate the majority of meaningful outputs in any system.Yvon Chouinard: founder of Patagonia and author of Let My People Go Surfing, demonstrating how authentic values can drive both business success and environmental activism.Ricardo Semler: Brazilian CEO who revolutionized corporate culture through radical workplace democracy, inspiring alternative approaches to business leadership and organizational design.Richard Branson: founder of Virgin Group whose scrappy, unconventional approach to starting an airline exemplifies entrepreneurial resourcefulness and bold risk-taking.Diana Chapman: executive coach whose interview on this show explored advanced techniques for integrating emotional intelligence with rational decision-making.Sigmund Freud and Carl Jung: pioneering psychoanalysts whose exploration of the unconscious mind inspired Charlie’s Dungeons & Dragons character “Sigmund,” blending psychology with creative expression.Charlie Hoehn: entrepreneur, 4x New York Times bestselling editor, co-founder of Author.Inc, and my former Director of Special Projects.Places and VenuesWashington, DC: the capital of the United States, known for its federal government, historic monuments, and vibrant political and cultural scene.H Street (in DC): a historic corridor in Northeast Washington DC known for its diverse dining scene, nightlife, and cultural venues stretching from Union Station to the Anacostia River.New York City, NY: the most populous city in the United States, renowned as a global center for finance, arts, fashion, and culture.Lower East Side, NYC: a historic Manhattan neighborhood known for its immigrant heritage, trendy restaurants, bars, and mix of affordable and luxury housing.Brazil: the largest country in South America, famous for its Amazon rainforest, vibrant culture, beaches, and cities like Rio de Janeiro and São Paulo.Rio de Janeiro, Brazil: Brazil’s iconic coastal city famous for its stunning beaches, Christ the Redeemer statue, Carnival celebration, and dramatic mountain landscapes.Floripa (Florianópolis), Brazil: the capital of Santa Catarina state, known as the “Magic Island” for its beautiful beaches, technology hub, and high quality of life.Las Vegas, NV: the entertainment capital of the world, famous for its casinos, shows, nightlife, and extravagant themed hotels along the Las Vegas Strip.Vancouver, Canada: a major West Coast seaport city known for its natural beauty, mild climate, diverse culture, and proximity to mountains and ocean.Colombia: a South American country known for its diverse landscapes from Caribbean coastlines to Amazon rainforest, vibrant cities, and rich cultural heritage.Pennsylvania: a Mid-Atlantic U.S. state known for its historical significance, including Philadelphia’s Independence Hall and the Liberty Bell.Los Angeles, CA: the second-largest city in the United States, famous for Hollywood, entertainment industry, beaches, and diverse neighborhoods.XS (Nightclub in Las Vegas): an upscale nightclub at Encore Las Vegas known for its luxurious indoor-outdoor design, celebrity DJ performances, and high-end bottle service.UNLV (University of Nevada, Las Vegas): a public research university known for its hospitality, business, and engineering programs, as well as its Runnin’ Rebels basketball team.South by Southwest (SXSW): an annual conglomeration of interactive media, music, and film festivals and conferences held in Austin, Texas.UT Austin: the University of Texas at Austin, a top-tier public research university known for its academics, athletics, and vibrant campus culture.San Francisco / Bay Area: a northern California region known for its tech industry, iconic Golden Gate Bridge, diverse culture, and steep hills.Concepts, Ideas, and FrameworksManagement Consulting: a professional service where experts analyze organizational problems and provide strategic solutions to improve business performance and efficiency.The Muse: concept from The 4-Hour Workweek for creating an automated, low-maintenance business that generates passive income while requiring minimal ongoing involvement.Scratch-Your-Own-Itch: the entrepreneurial philosophy of solving a problem you personally experience, ensuring product-market fit by building something you genuinely want and need.Moonlighting: the practice of working a side business or project while maintaining full-time employment, allowing entrepreneurs to test ideas with reduced financial risk.Burn the Ships: a commitment strategy inspired by historical military tactics, meaning to eliminate all options for retreat and force complete dedication to a new venture.Fear-Setting: My systematic exercise for defining worst-case scenarios, prevention strategies, and recovery plans to overcome decision paralysis and take calculated risks.The Game: Neil Strauss’ exploration of pickup artist culture and social dynamics, revealing psychological techniques for attraction and social influence.10 out of 10 Upside: the component of fear-setting that focuses on envisioning and quantifying the best possible outcomes of taking action on a decision.Fame-Jacking: Charlie’s term for his YouTube strategy of creating content analyzing famous personalities to attract their fans and leverage existing audience interest.Tripwire: an online marketing strategy using a low-cost, high-value initial product to convert prospects into paying customers and establish a buying relationship.Jab, Jab, Jab, Right Hook: Gary Vaynerchuk’s content marketing philosophy of providing value repeatedly (jabs) before making sales pitches (right hooks) to build trust and engagement.The Herbie Parable: a story from Essentialism about identifying and addressing the primary bottleneck in any system to improve overall performance and efficiency.Audience Capture: the phenomenon where content creators become trapped by their audience’s expectations, leading to creative stagnation and burnout as they chase engagement over authenticity.50/50 Partnership Split: the commonly problematic business arrangement where two partners share equal ownership despite rarely contributing equally, often leading to disputes and power struggles.Sentence Completion Exercises: a psychological technique from The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem using open-ended prompts to uncover subconscious thoughts and limiting beliefs.Shotgun Deal: a business partnership buyout mechanism where one partner names a price and the other must either accept or buy them out at the same price, forcing fair valuation.Mimetic Desire: René Girard’s theory that humans copy the desires of others rather than developing authentic wants, creating cycles of competition and social imitation.Relevant ResourcesBC-X Parkour Philosophy of Continuous Learning | Charlie HoupertFear-Setting: The Most Valuable Exercise I Do Every Month | Tim FerrissStep 1 for Living a Kickass Life: Stop “Just Being Yourself” | KickAss AcademyI Hired a Pickup Artist to Help Me Find a Girlfriend | The Tim Ferriss Experiment #7The Secret Of Bill Clinton’s Charisma | Charisma on CommandThe Listener by James Christensen | The Collection ShopWhy Trump Will SMASH Hillary | Charisma on CommandHow To Build Unwavering Confidence | Charisma on CommandRanking the Most Charismatic Players In Game of Thrones | Charisma on CommandHow to Make a Disrespectful Person Look Insecure for Insulting You | Charisma on CommandHow to Look Extremely Confident (Even if You’re Quiet) | Charisma on CommandBrené Brown — Striving versus Self-Acceptance, Saving Marriages, and More | The Tim Ferriss Show #409The Maintenance of Certification Exam as Fetish | The Last PsychiatristTen Extra Seconds Would Have Saved True Detective’s Finale | The Last PsychiatristAdvertising’s Collateral Damage | The Last PsychiatristIf You’re Watching, It’s For You | The Last PsychiatristJoe Hudson: How to be More Emotionally Intelligent (Without Trying so Hard) | TwitterFilling the Void: Thoughts on Learning and Karma | Tim FerrissMartha Beck — The Amazing and Brutal Results of Zero Lies for 365 Days, How to Do a Beginner “Integrity Cleanse,” Lessons from Lion Trackers, and Novel Tactics for Reducing Anxiety | The Tim Ferriss Show #732Brandon Sanderson on Building a Fiction Empire, Creating $40M+ Kickstarter Campaigns, Unbreakable Habits, The Art of World-Building, and The Science of Magic Systems | The Tim Ferriss Show #794Diana Chapman — How to Get Unstuck, Do “The Work,” Take Radical Responsibility, and Reduce Drama in Your Life | The Tim Ferriss Show #536SHOW NOTES[00:00:00] Start.[00:06:44] Charlie meets the boogeyman (me).[00:10:11] Why defaulting to management consulting after college felt like daily self-betrayal.[00:13:21] Leaping into parkour training via DVD as a first business attempt.[00:15:45] Moonlighting vs. burning-ships entrepreneurship.[00:16:54] Negotiating remote work with a 90% raise.[00:21:22] Charlie moves to New York and kicks off KickAss Academy.[00:22:16] Airbnb survival tactics while living in a 396 sq. ft. apartment.[00:23:26] Using the fear-setting exercise and other disaster-mitigation strategies.[00:26:11] Charlie’s first blog post and crossing the publishing Rubicon.[00:28:26] How Charlie’s first in-person class prompted an accidental business model.[00:34:21] 10 go-getters make an ambitious move to Brazil.[00:32:14] The daily growth whiteboard system.[00:37:58] How a harsh Tucker Max consultation galvanized the rebranding to Charisma on Command.[00:44:39] From financial downturn to pre-selling a course for $12,500.[00:50:44] Finally making enough money to chase summer in six-to-eight-month increments.[00:52:00] Enjoying the sustainable benefits of creating timeless content.[00:54:05] How Bill Clinton seduced 7,000 people into following Charlie on YouTube.[00:55:46] How Greg McKeown’s Essentialism helped solve Charlie’s “Herbie” problem.[00:58:26] Evolving funnel flow and fame-jacking.[01:03:46] YouTube algorithm changes, short-form content, and maintaining audience trust for the long term.[01:10:58] Why I still create this podcast.[01:19:30] The dangers of succumbing entirely to audience expectation over authenticity.[01:21:42] The catalysts that led to time off, an ayahuasca retreat, and a seven-year transformation process.[01:30:26] Making the transition from 50/50 partner to sole owner.[01:35:16] Recommended reading: Six Pillars of Self-Esteem by Nathaniel Branden[01:37:32] The influence of The Last Psychiatrist blog.[01:41:46] Jay Abraham coaching: “Make it good enough for Tim Ferriss.”[01:43:52] How testimonials added a 4x conversion lift.[01:44:31] Coming to an agreement with the co-founder.[01:47:20] Joe Hudson and the Art of Accomplishment.[01:51:57] Why I stand by The 4-Hour Workweek without further revision, warts and all.[01:55:06] Exercising gratitude even when receiving praise is difficult.[01:59:15] Relationship with earlier work: video vs. writing.[02:02:05] Don’t miss “Filling the Void.”[02:03:56] More recommended reading.[02:06:43] Improv & Dragons.[02:08:06] Charlie’s billboard: “Don’t think, feel.”[02:08:57] Parting thoughts.MORE CHARLIE HOUPERT QUOTES FROM THE INTERVIEW“Do I choose myself in the face of the world offering me all of this temptation to be something else?”
— Charlie Houpert
“If you don’t believe in it fully, you’re going to sell it with hesitancy.”
— Charlie Houpert
“Don’t think, feel. I know that’s counterintuitive to a lot of people, but lately, that’s been my guiding principle is feel my heart, feel my gut, think from my mind, and try to find some union of the three to move forward.”
— Charlie Houpert
“When you start trading your beliefs for cash or approval, you’re just sending a signal that, ‘I can’t be relied on to be myself and be safe and earn.'”
— Charlie Houpert
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June 11, 2025
Chris Hutchins, Deal Master — Helping Tim Burn 15M+ Miles and Points, Flipping Costco Gold Into Five-Star Trips, Flying to Japan for $222, Tech Tools and Tricks, and Avoiding The Optimizer’s Curse (#815)
“There’s something fun about knowing you kind of ‘got one’ over the system.”
— Chris Hutchins
Chris Hutchins is the creator and host of All the Hacks, a podcast that helps people upgrade their life, money, and travel. He previously founded Grove (acquired by Wealthfront) and Milk (acquired by Google), led New Product Strategy at Wealthfront, and was a Partner at Google Ventures.
Most importantly, he is the person Kevin Rose and I call if we want to figure how to get a better deal on just about anything in the world, or if we just want to learn about his latest hijinks doing things like getting $200 flights to Japan, running gold pseudo-arbitrage at retail, or dirt-cheap trips to Bora Bora. We cover all three and more in this conversation.
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SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODEConnect with Chris Hutchins:Online Tools & ResourcesAll the Hacks: Chris’ primary website for his podcast and resources.Annual Credit Report: the official, government-authorized website for free credit reports.AwardTool: a tool for searching for award flights using points and miles.Booking.com: online travel agency for booking accommodations, flights, etc.Bureau of Labor Statistics: US government agency providing economic data, including consumer spending.Pure: a marketplace for gold and other collectibles.Credit Karma: a website and app offering free credit scores and reports.Expedia: online travel agency.Google Flights: a flight search engine.Miles4Migrants: defunct program that used donated points to fly migrants to safety.Points Path: a browser extension for Google Flights that shows points redemption options.PointsYeah: a tool for searching award flights, featuring a “Daydream Explorer.”Rooms.aero: a tool for searching hotel award availability.Seats.aero: a tool for searching award flight availability, often presented in a spreadsheet-like format.Apple Pay: mobile payment service by Apple.ChatGPT: AI language model.Pepper: a gift card app upgraded to an AI personal shopper.Books Die With Zero: Getting All You Can from Your Money and Your Life by Bill Perkins Happy Money: The Science of Happier Spending by Elizabeth Dunn and Michael Norton From Strength to Strength: Finding Success, Happiness, and Deep Purpose in the Second Half of Life by Arthur C. Brooks The 4-Hour Body: An Uncommon Guide to Rapid Fat-Loss, Incredible Sex, and Becoming Superhuman by Timothy Ferriss The 4-Hour Chef: The Simple Path to Cooking Like a Pro, Learning Anything, and Living the Good Life by Timothy Ferriss The 4-Hour Workweek: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich by Timothy Ferriss The Art of Spending Money: Simple Choices for a Richer Life by Morgan Housel The Man Who Quit Money by Mark Sundeen The Psychology of Money: Timeless Lessons on Wealth, Greed, and Happiness by Morgan Housel The 5 Types of Wealth: A Transformative Guide to Design Your Dream Life by Sahil BloomThe Wealth Ladder: Proven Strategies for Every Step of Your Financial Life by Nick MaggiulliFinancial Institutions & ServicesAmex (American Express): an American bank holding company and multinational financial services corporation that specializes in payment cards.Aetna: a major American health insurance company that provides medical, pharmaceutical, dental, behavioral health, and long-term care benefits.Bank of America: one of the largest banks in the United States, offering consumer and commercial banking, wealth management, and investment services.Capital One: an American bank holding company specializing in credit cards, auto loans, banking, and savings accounts.Charles Schwab: a major American multinational financial services company offering brokerage, banking, and financial advisory services.Citibank: the consumer division of Citigroup, one of the largest banks in the world, providing retail banking services globally.Fidelity: a multinational financial services corporation offering investment management, retirement planning, portfolio guidance, and brokerage services.MasterCard: a multinational financial services corporation that operates a global payment network for electronic payments.Merrill Lynch: a wealth management division of Bank of America providing investment, insurance, and retirement planning services.Morgan Stanley: an American multinational investment bank and financial services company offering securities, asset management, and wealth management.PAMP: a Swiss precious metals refining company and one of the world’s leading bullion brands for gold, silver, platinum, and palladium products.Robinhood: a commission-free trading platform that allows users to invest in stocks, ETFs, options, and cryptocurrencies through a mobile app.Square: a financial services and payment processing company (now part of Block, Inc.) that provides payment solutions for businesses and individuals.Stripe: an online payment processing platform that enables businesses to accept payments over the internet and manage online transactions.US Bank: the fifth-largest commercial bank in the United States, offering banking, investment, mortgage, trust, and payment services.Visa: a multinational financial services corporation that facilitates electronic funds transfers through its payment network worldwide.Wealthfront: an automated investment service (robo-advisor) that provides portfolio management, financial planning, and cash management services.Wells Fargo: a major American multinational financial services company offering banking, investment, mortgage, and consumer finance services.Airlines & Airline AlliancesAir Canada: Canada’s flag carrier and largest airline, offering domestic and international flights with hubs in Toronto, Vancouver, and Montreal.Air France: the flag carrier of France and a founding member of the SkyTeam alliance, operating from its main hub at Charles de Gaulle Airport in Paris.Alaska Airlines: a major American airline based in Seattle, known for its extensive West Coast network and strong customer service reputation.ANA (All Nippon Airways): Japan’s largest airline and a Star Alliance member, renowned for its exceptional service quality and extensive domestic and international network.American Airlines: one of the largest airlines in the world and a founding member of the Oneworld alliance, with major hubs across the United States.Delta Air Lines: a major American airline and founding member of the SkyTeam alliance, with its largest hub at Hartsfield-Jackson Atlanta International Airport.Emirates: the flag carrier of the United Arab Emirates based in Dubai, known for its luxury service and extensive international network connecting six continents.Japan Airlines: Japan’s flag carrier and a Oneworld alliance member, offering domestic and international flights with a focus on premium service and hospitality.JetBlue: a low-cost American airline known for its customer service, free Wi-Fi, and comfortable seating on domestic and select international routes.Lufthansa: Germany’s flag carrier and a founding member of the Star Alliance, operating from major hubs in Frankfurt and Munich.Oneworld Alliance: a global airline alliance founded in 1999, comprising major carriers like American Airlines, British Airways, and Cathay Pacific.SkyTeam Alliance: a global airline alliance founded in 2000, including member airlines such as Delta, Air France-KLM, and Korean Air.Southwest Airlines: a major American low-cost airline known for its point-to-point service model, free checked bags, and no change fees policy.Star Alliance: the world’s largest global airline alliance founded in 1997, with member airlines including United, Lufthansa, and Singapore Airlines.TAP Air Portugal: Portugal’s flag carrier and a Star Alliance member, serving as a gateway between Europe, Africa, and the Americas from its Lisbon hub.United Airlines: a major American airline and founding member of the Star Alliance, with significant hubs in Chicago, Denver, Houston, and San Francisco.Hotels & Hospitality BrandsCap Rocat (Majorca): a luxury fortress hotel in Mallorca, Spain, converted from a 19th-century military fortress offering exclusive accommodations with Mediterranean views.Conrad Hotels & Resorts: Hilton’s luxury hotel brand offering sophisticated accommodations and personalized service in major business and leisure destinations worldwide.Four Seasons Hotels and Resorts: a Canadian luxury hotel and resort company known for exceptional service, elegant accommodations, and properties in premier destinations globally.Hilton Hotels & Resorts: a global hospitality company and flagship brand offering full-service hotels, resorts, and suites with comprehensive amenities for business and leisure travelers.Hyatt Hotels Corporation: an American multinational hospitality company operating luxury, premium, and select service hotels and resorts worldwide with various brand portfolios.Marriott Bonvoy: Marriott International’s loyalty program and hotel portfolio, encompassing 30+ brands from luxury to extended-stay properties across the globe.Miraval Resorts: a collection of luxury wellness resorts focused on mindful living, spa treatments, fitness, and holistic wellness experiences in scenic destinations.Nobu: a luxury lifestyle brand combining world-class hospitality with the culinary expertise of Chef Nobu Matsuhisa, offering hotels and restaurants worldwide.Small Luxury Hotels of the World (SLH): a collection of more than 520 independent luxury hotels worldwide, each offering unique character and exceptional personalized service.Waldorf Astoria Hotels & Resorts: Hilton’s ultra-luxury hotel brand providing iconic accommodations and legendary service in the world’s most sought-after destinations.Retail & Other BrandsAmazon: the world’s largest e-commerce and cloud computing company, offering everything from retail products to digital services and logistics solutions.Amazon Fresh: Amazon’s online and physical grocery delivery service providing fresh produce, pantry items, and household essentials with same-day or next-day delivery.Apple: a multinational technology company known for innovative consumer electronics, software, and digital services including iPhone, Mac, iPad, and Apple Watch.Costco: a membership-based warehouse club offering bulk quantities of groceries, electronics, and household items at discounted prices to members.Dick’s Sporting Goods: a leading American sporting goods retailer offering athletic equipment, apparel, and footwear for various sports and outdoor activities.FedEx: a multinational courier delivery and logistics company providing express shipping, ground delivery, freight, and supply chain management services worldwide.Goodwill Industries: a nonprofit organization operating thrift stores that sell donated goods to fund job training, employment placement, and community programs.Healthy Choice: a food brand owned by Conagra Brands, specializing in frozen meals, soups, and snacks marketed as healthier alternatives with reduced sodium and calories.Lowe’s: a major American home improvement retailer offering tools, appliances, building materials, and services for home renovation and maintenance projects.Spotify: a Swedish music streaming platform providing access to millions of songs, podcasts, and playlists with both free and premium subscription options.US Mint (United States Mint): the official government agency responsible for producing and distributing coins, commemorative coins, and precious metal products for the United States.Whole Foods Market: an upscale grocery chain owned by Amazon, specializing in organic, natural, and high-quality foods with a focus on health and sustainability.Credit Cards & MembershipsAmex Business Gold Card: a premium business credit card offering 4x points on top spending categories and valuable business benefits with flexible payment options.Amex Business Platinum Card: American Express’s flagship business credit card providing premium travel benefits, airport lounge access, and substantial rewards for business expenses.Amex Gold Card: a premium personal credit card offering 4x points on dining and groceries, plus valuable dining and travel credits for cardholders.Amex Platinum Card: American Express’s flagship personal credit card featuring luxury travel benefits, airport lounge access, hotel elite status, and premium concierge services.Bank of America Premium Rewards Card: a premium travel rewards credit card offering bonus points on travel and dining, with enhanced benefits for Preferred Rewards members.Bank of America Unlimited Cash Rewards / Travel Rewards Card: cash back and travel rewards cards that offer enhanced earning rates and benefits when paired with Bank of America’s Preferred Rewards program.Capital One Spark Cash Card: a straightforward business credit card offering unlimited 2% cash back on all purchases with no spending categories or caps.Capital One Venture Card: a travel rewards credit card offering 2x miles on every purchase with flexible redemption options and travel benefits.Capital One Venture X Business Card: a premium business travel rewards card offering enhanced earning rates, travel credits, and Priority Pass lounge access for business travelers.Capital One Venture X Card: Capital One’s flagship travel rewards card featuring premium travel benefits, annual travel credits, and Priority Pass lounge access.Chase Freedom / Freedom Flex Cards: popular cash back credit cards offering rotating 5% bonus categories and flat-rate cash back on everyday purchases.Chase Ink Business Preferred Card: a premium business credit card offering 3x points on select business categories and valuable Ultimate Rewards earning potential.Chase Sapphire Preferred Card: a popular travel rewards credit card offering enhanced earning on travel and dining with flexible Ultimate Rewards redemption options.Costco Executive Membership: Costco’s premium membership tier offering 2% annual reward on qualifying Costco purchases plus additional benefits and exclusive offers.Delta Reserve Amex Card: a premium co-branded credit card offering Delta elite status benefits, Sky Club access, and enhanced earning on Delta purchases and travel.Fidelity Rewards Visa Signature Card: a straightforward rewards credit card offering 2% cash back on all purchases that can be deposited directly into Fidelity investment accounts.Robinhood Gold Card: a cash back credit card integrated with Robinhood’s investment platform, offering 3% cash back on select categories and investment-focused benefits.Southwest Airlines Companion Pass: Southwest’s premier membership benefit allowing a designated companion to fly free (minus taxes and fees) on all Southwest flights for qualifying members.US Bank Four Percent Cash Back Card: a high-yield cash back credit card offering 4% cash back on select categories, though availability and terms may have changed or been discontinued.ConceptsFour Percent Rule (Retirement withdrawal strategy): a retirement planning guideline suggesting that retirees can safely withdraw 4% of their portfolio annually, adjusted for inflation, without running out of money over a 30-year period.Arbitrage: the practice of taking advantage of price differences between markets to buy and sell identical or similar financial instruments simultaneously for risk-free profit.Cash Back Rewards: a credit card benefit that returns a percentage of purchase amounts to cardholders as cash, typically ranging from 1% to 5% depending on spending categories.Coast FI / Coast FIRE (Financial Independence, Retire Early concept): a variation of FIRE where individuals have saved enough that compound growth will fund their retirement without additional contributions, allowing them to “coast” with lower savings rates.Dunning-Kruger Effect: a cognitive bias where people with limited knowledge or competence in a domain overestimate their own knowledge or competence in that domain.FICO Score: the most widely used credit scoring model in the United States, ranging from 300 to 850, used by lenders to assess creditworthiness and loan risk.Fisherman Parable: a parable about work-life balance where a businessman advises a fisherman to expand his business, only to learn the fisherman already enjoys the lifestyle the businessman is working toward.FIRE (Financial Independence, Retire Early) Movement: a lifestyle movement focused on extreme savings and investing to achieve financial independence and early retirement, typically by saving 50-70% of income.Interchange Fees: transaction fees that merchants pay to card-issuing banks when customers use credit or debit cards, typically ranging from 1.5% to 3.5% of the transaction amount.Loyalty Programs / Points & Miles: marketing strategies that reward customers for repeat business through points, miles, or other benefits that can be redeemed for products, services, or travel.Memory Dividends: Bill Perkins’ concept that experiences create lasting memories that continue to provide value and happiness long after the money spent, unlike financial dividends.Money Rules: Ramit Sethi’s personal finance philosophy emphasizing automation, conscious spending on things you love, and cutting costs ruthlessly on things you don’t care about.Net Fulfillment vs. Net Worth: Bill Perkins’ framework suggesting that maximizing life fulfillment and experiences should take priority over simply accumulating wealth, especially in later years.Optimizer’s Curse: a cognitive bias where people who extensively research and optimize decisions often end up less satisfied with outcomes due to inflated expectations and analysis paralysis.Orthorexia: a term that describes an obsession with eating healthy food. It comes from the Greek words ortho, meaning ‘correct’ and orexis, meaning ‘appetite’.Trough of Sorrow: a startup development phase characterized by declining initial enthusiasm, user engagement challenges, and the difficult period between launch excitement and sustainable growth.VantageScore: an alternative credit scoring model developed by the three major credit bureaus, ranging from 300 to 850, designed to compete with FICO scores in credit assessment.Legislation & Government Entities/ProgramsCredit Card Competition Act: proposed federal legislation aimed at increasing competition in the credit card processing market by requiring large banks to offer multiple payment network options beyond Visa and Mastercard.Crypto GENIUS Act: proposed federal legislation designed to establish a comprehensive regulatory framework for cryptocurrency and blockchain technology, providing clarity for businesses and consumers in the digital asset space.US Mint $1 Coin Program: various United States Mint programs that have produced commemorative and circulating dollar coins, including the Presidential $1 Coin Program and American Innovation $1 Coin Program.PodcastsAll the Hacks with Chris HutchinsPoint Me To First Class with Devon GimbelThe Peter Attia Drive PodcastPeopleMike TysonKevin RoseTom HanksMarie KondoDave PhillipsBrad WilsonJ. Kyle BassChris SaccaChad JanisHannah JanisBill PerkinsDevon GimbelAmy FoxJohn ArnoldPeter AttiaSahil BloomMorgan HouselArthur C. BrooksMark SundeenDaniel SueloRamit SethiRelevant ResourcesHow I Built The Tim Ferriss Show to 700+ Million Downloads — An Immersive Explanation of All Aspects and Key Decisions (Featuring Chris Hutchins) | The Tim Ferriss Show #538Gift Card Deals and Secrets That Will Save You $5k+/yr with Logan Robinson | All the HacksCool Tools for Travel — Tim Ferriss and Kevin Kelly | The Tim Ferriss Show #247The Gold Market: Strategies for Investing and Reselling with Trey Benedict | All the HacksBest Award Search Tools for Booking Flights with Points & Miles with Greg the Frequent Miler | All the HacksWhy Airlines Can’t Survive Without Loyalty Programs | WSJ Case StudyThe Path to Becoming an Expert in Points & Miles with Devon Gimbel | All the Hacks‘Pudding Guy’ Asks: ‘Who Wants to Be a Mileage Millionaire?’ | UC DavisMeet the Genius Who Earned 4,000,000 Airline Miles by Buying $1 Coins from the US Mint’s Website | Luxury LaunchesKyle Bass’s Big Nickel Bet | MoneynessA Shabby Chic Wedding at Alpine Mountain Ranch & Club in Steamboat Springs, Colorado | The KnotTopic No. 420, Bartering Income | Internal Revenue ServiceChris Sacca on Being Different and Making Billions | The Tim Ferriss Show #79Diggnation Live in Austin Texas: Old Rivals, New Vision | DiggnationPlanning the Best Japan Trip Ever with Brandon Pressor | All the HacksFinancial Case Study: Hannah and Chad, Wall Street Minimalists | Professional HoboDeep Dive on Credit Reports, Scores, and Their Real-World Impact | All the HacksDie With Zero: Net Fulfillment Over Net Worth with Bill Perkins | All the HacksJohn Arnold: The Most Prolific Philanthropist You May Not Have Heard Of | The Peter Attia DriveSHOW NOTES[00:00:00] Curses! COVID again. (Start.)[00:00:32] Meet Chris Hutchins: master of All the Hacks.[00:06:22] Coping with a Frankenstein’s Monster of travel points.[00:10:27] How did Chris become obsessed with the art of arbitrage?[00:12:18] Flipping gift cards for fun and profit.[00:17:17] The mechanics of Costco gold arbitrage.[00:22:31] Using AwardTool for finding point deals.[00:25:19] Daydream exploring with PointsYeah.[00:27:27] Why do modern airlines rely on loyalty programs to survive?[00:33:22] Chris maps out the different kinds of points and how to optimize them.[00:36:22] My inner struggle: hoard vs. spend.[00:37:55] Creative uses for large point balances.[00:41:20] Cash back card alternatives.[00:44:14] Chris analyzes the value of my 12 million Amex points.[00:46:23] 200 hotel nights or 150 business class flights?[00:48:47] Seat availability challenges and alert rebooking strategies.[00:55:33] Making use of smaller airline point balances.[00:58:57] Non-travel uses for points.[01:02:26] Strategies for expiring points.[01:06:12] Flexible booking for maximum value.[01:07:12] Using Seats.aero for a Lufthansa first class and Frankfurt terminal experience.[01:10:45] Using Rooms.aero to find surprise hotel deals around the world.[01:11:51] Point strategies gone wrong and the optimizer’s curse.[01:14:36] Using Points Path with Google Flights to decide if a trip is worth the points.[01:15:30] The Dunning-Kruger curve of points hacking.[01:18:13] Escaping the optimization trap: when frugality becomes a burden.[01:21:33] What I could have done differently with my reward cards.[01:24:28] Points arbitrage: buying vs. earning.[01:27:01] Optimal reward cards for small business owners.[01:28:07] Status benefits and Southwest’s companion pass.[01:32:05] Pudding cups, $1 coins, and other heartwarming arbitrage tales.[01:36:47] How Chris saved $11,000 on his wedding by bartering with points.[01:38:53] Using points for employee/family gifts and business benefits.[01:42:09] How Chris would optimize point resources in my shoes.[01:45:16] The joy (and livelihood) Chris gets from sharing a day in his life.[01:46:57] Pondering AI’s future impact on travel, point optimization, regulatory changes, and itinerary planning.[01:53:56] Hotel relationship building through direct communication[01:57:01] Insider restaurant hacks.[01:58:05] Credit card signup bonuses and credit score impact.[02:00:31] Card closure strategy and credit history preservation.[02:03:35] Amex Platinum Card evaluation and optimization.[02:06:12] Using government-sanctioned Annualcreditreport.com to monitor your credit report.[02:08:49] Spousal credit card strategy: doubling bonuses.[02:10:24] Chris’ travel enjoyment philosophy and spending mindset.[02:13:36] Paying cash vs. points at the Four Seasons Lanai.[02:15:08] Learning how to spend money as a frugal person.[02:17:28] High quality experiences over extreme optimization.[02:18:38] Die with Zero: Bill Perkins and the money timing game.[02:21:14] Coast FIRE (Financial Independence Retire Early).[02:22:38] Recommended reading for developing a conscious, fulfilling relationship with money.[02:25:47] The limits of universal financial advice.[02:29:48] Chris’ potential alternative career paths.[02:32:09] The fisherman parable and contentment.[02:33:17] Parting thoughts.MORE CHRIS HUTCHINS QUOTES FROM THE INTERVIEW“I’ve always been thinking in the back of my head, ‘How do I do the thing that everyone else with all this money and all these resources does? How do I get to do that, even though I don’t have the resources?’ So that’s been my MO for life: I don’t want to sacrifice, but I also don’t want to go into debt or just spend money I don’t have.”
— Chris Hutchins
“Sometimes it just feels good to take a free trip. Who cares if it’s a good deal? You went on a trip you weren’t going to take otherwise.”
— Chris Hutchins
“Everyone listening should not be getting less than two points or two percent on any transaction, because you’re just giving money away.”
— Chris Hutchins
“There’s something fun about knowing you kind of ‘got one’ over the system.”
— Chris Hutchins
“I’m not going to let an AI book my travel, but I might let it do some exploration.”
— Chris Hutchins
“If you think too much about money, you just lose sight of the fact that money is a tool to help you achieve things. And if you don’t have any, it’s a really important tool, but as you have more, sometimes it just becomes a thing that you focus on way too much. And if you can learn to be happy with whatever you have, you might not need to chase. And that chasing is so toxic.”
— Chris Hutchins
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June 5, 2025
Chatri Sityodtong, CEO of ONE Championship — From Dirt Poor to Top-10 Sports-Media Franchise, The $100M Breakfast, Dominating Social Media (30B+ Views/Year), Key Strategic Decisions, and The Moneyball of Fight Matchmaking (#814)
“Suffering is a path to our greatness.”
— Chatri Sityodtong
Chatri Sityodtong (@yodchatri) is the founder and CEO of ONE (you might know it as ONE Championship), one of the top-10 biggest sports-media properties in the world in terms of viewership and engagement (alongside the NBA, Formula One, Champions League, and Premier League), with a global broadcast reach to 195 countries.
The largest sports-media property in Asia, ONE is also a celebration of Asia’s great cultural treasure martial arts. Chatri himself has more than 40 years of martial arts experience. He is a certified senior Muay Thai instructor under the legendary Kru Yodtong Senanan, and he holds a black belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu under Master Renzo Gracie. In 2019, he was inducted into the Black Belt Hall of Fame.
Chatri holds an MBA from Harvard Business School and a BA from Tufts University.
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Want to hear another episode with someone who appreciates a good scrap? Listen to my conversation with former mixed martial artist Bas Rutten, in which we discussed martial arts tradition in the Netherlands, bullies, Pancrase, fighting Masakatsu Funaki and Minoru Suzuki, underrated Japanese fighters, pranks, self-defense for beginners and bouncers, street fighting, breathing with the O2 Trainer, and much more.
What was your favorite quote or lesson from this episode? Please let me know in the comments.
SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODEConnect with Chatri Sityodtong:Website | Twitter | Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
Connect with ONE Championship:Website | Twitter | Facebook | Instagram | Threads | YouTube | TikTok
Companies, Institutions, and OrganizationsONE ChampionshipEvolve MMASityodtong Camp/GymFairtex GymHarvard UniversityNextDoor Networks (Chatri’s first startup)KaplanShootoPancraseRenzo Gracie AcademyNFLNBANASCARMLBF1UEFA Champions LeaguePremier LeagueBundesligaUFCYakuzaUniversity of TokyoFacebook/MetaSequoia CapitalRippledot CapitalCAA (Creative Artists Agency)Amazon Prime VideoSky SportsESPNMilken InstitutePride Fighting ChampionshipsK-1Qatar Investment AuthoritySingapore GovernmentNielsenToyotaShopifyPixarSpotifyMarcelo Garcia Jiu-JitsuMiddlebury Language SchoolBooks and Magazines One Up On Wall Street: How to Use What You Already Know to Make Money in the Market by Peter Lynch The Intelligent Investor: The Definitive Book on Value Investing by Benjamin Graham The Wizard of Oz by L. Frank Baum Tao of Jeet Kune Do: New Expanded Edition by Bruce Lee The 32 Principles: Harnessing the Power of Jiu-Jitsu to Succeed in Business, Relationships, and Life by Rener Gracie High Output Management by Andy Grove Creativity, Inc.: Overcoming the Unseen Forces That Stand in the Way of True Inspiration by Ed Catmull Kakuto-Gi Tsushin Martial Arts DisciplinesMuay ThaiBoxingWrestlingJiu-Jitsu (Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu / BJJ)JudoSanchou / Sanshou / SandaKickboxingKarateAikidoKendoMixed Martial Arts (MMA)Submission GrapplingLethweiEvents & CompetitionsAll-Japan Judo Championships (Held at the Budokan)Pancrase: Bas Rutten vs. Masakatsu Funaki, 1996The Super BowlThe Olympic GamesExtreme Fighting Championship (EFC)Renzo Gracie vs. Oleg TaktarovADCC (Abu Dhabi Combat Club Submission Wrestling World Championship)PeopleKru Yodtong SenananBunkerd FairtexAnh FairtexJongsanan FairtexThaworn TrisiripisalMichiyo KomatsuTakeru SegawaRodtang JitmuangnonPeter LynchWarren BuffettBenjamin GrahamSoon LooRichard ArmstrongRenzo GracieBas RuttenMasakatsu FunakiSatoru SayamaRodrigo GracieRumina SatoKazuhiro SakamotoMike MoritzDouglas LeoneMark ZuckerbergMatt HumeRich FranklinTye RuotoloKade RuotoloFloyd MayweatherRocky BalboaStamp FairtexNaomi OsakaRoelof BothaShailendra SinghAtin KukrejaBill GatesFabian StechelHassan Al-ThawadiDemetrious JohnsonAndy GroveRener GracieBruce LeeNick VujicicEd CatmullTang KaiOleg TaktarovKazushi SakurabaErnesto HoostSaenchaiFedor EmelianenkoRamon DekkersRob KamanJonathan HaggertyLiam HarrisonNadaka YoshinariMike TysonMuhammad AliWanderlei SilvaQuinton “Rampage” JacksonMarcelo GarciaJosh WaitzkinDana WhitePlacesSingaporeThailandBangkok, ThailandLumpinee StadiumRajadamnern StadiumPattaya, ThailandUnited StatesSilicon Valley, CaliforniaNew York City, New YorkMorris Hall, Harvard UniversityAlbuquerque, New MexicoJapanTokyo, JapanSaitama Super ArenaNippon BudokanDenver, ColoradoBall ArenaImpact ArenaQatarDoha, QatarPhilippinesManila, PhilippinesChinaBang Phli, ThailandAbu Dhabi, UAERelevant ResourcesChatri’s Triumphant Tale of Overcoming Adversity Detailed in New Short Biopic ‘I Am a Warrior’ | The NationThe Chatri Sityodtong Story | I Am A WarriorBuddhist Funeral Customs | Dignity Funerals“That’s His Dream” — Chatri Reveals What’s Next for Takeru After Shocking Knockout Loss to Rodtang | SportskeedaONE 172: Drama Behind the Scenes | ONE ChampionshipHanmen Kyōshi | WiktionaryHow a Former Hedge Fund Manager Launched One Championship, an MMA Promotion Pushing Into the US | ForbesBushido | WikipediaYamato Damashii – The Spirit of Japan and Kyokushin Karate | The Martial WayThe Birth of a Martial Arts Revolution | Chatri SityodtongExclusive: Chatri Sityodtong on Showcasing “Real-Life Superheroes” at ONE 168 | Sports IllustratedLearn How to Calculate the Total Addressable Market (TAM) | CFIThis CEO Says He Only Hires PhDs, But Not the PhDs You’re Thinking Of | Inc.ONE Championship Raises US Profile | The Japan TimesThree Reasons Why Floyd Mayweather’s 50–0 Record Cannot Be Broken in Boxing History | EssentiallySportsSix Sigma | WikipediaRock ‘Em Sock Em Robots | AmazonMeasure Your Striking Power with Cutting-Edge Precision | PowerKubeHow to Increase Your Luck Surface Area | Codus OperandiG-SHOCK | CASIOHow Will You Be Remembered? | Chatri SityodtongBroadcast TV Reach of Global Sports Properties | InstagramONE Featherweight World Champion Tang Kai | InstagramRE: Deep Fake Scams on Social Media | TwitterThe Marcelotine by Marcelo Garcia | BJJ FanaticsSHOW NOTES[00:00:00] Start.[00:06:49] Chatri Trisiripisal vs. Yodchatri Sityodtong[00:08:35] My own experience with Muay Thai.[00:10:05] Chatri’s introduction to Muay Thai.[00:10:58] Chatri processes the strained relationship with his father.[00:17:28] Fight Porn and my introduction to ONE.[00:18:56] A pep talk in Japanese.[00:23:00] Chatri’s secret life in a Harvard dorm with his mother on $4 a day.[00:30:11] How Chatri made the money to fuel his martial arts ambitions.[00:35:19] Why wealth has never provided Chatri with a sense of security.[00:38:43] The moment Chatri began to fulfill one his mother’s prophecies.[00:41:08] “To unleash your greatness, you must be surrounded by greatness.”[00:44:56] Witnessing Yamato-damashii: the Japanese warrior spirit.[00:48:43] Moving to Singapore and starting Evolve.[00:51:59] Overcoming ONE’s initial financial challenges.[01:03:06] Building ONE with Bushido-grade excellence.[01:08:25] How ONE maintains quality and quantity fights and fighters.[01:16:05] Leveraging social media to bring compelling human stories to ONE’s forefront.[01:26:40] Chatri’s $100 million breakfast with Sequoia Capital.[01:41:42] Making deals with CAA’s Fabian Stechel.[01:45:13] A serendipitous meeting that resulted in investment from Qatar.[01:47:51] Changing lives and building relationships across generations with martial arts.[01:51:35] Recommended reading and admirable storytellers.[02:01:03] A gracious invitation.[02:02:39] Where in the world is ONE enjoyed most?[02:07:14] Dealing with AI development and deep fakes.[02:08:45] Global broadcasting business from behind the scenes.[02:16:31] Funds raised and the competitive benefits of being early in the game.[02:19:30] Fond regards for Renzo Gracie.[02:23:49] Legendary fighters we would love to witness in their prime.[02:26:27] High marks for Marcelo Garcia.[02:29:23] How I learned what Chatri calls “flawless” Japanese.[02:31:16] Chatri’s billboard and parting thoughts.MORE CHATRI SITYODTONG QUOTES FROM THE INTERVIEW“Suffering is a path to our greatness.”
— Chatri Sityodtong
“You never know what is good luck or bad luck until many years later, when you discover what the lessons were of that experience.”
— Chatri Sityodtong
“If you’re fighting for yourself — you’re fighting because you want a six-figure salary, you’re fighting because you want to buy a nice car — it’s very easy to quit. But when you’re fighting for something bigger than yourself, it’s impossible to quit.”
— Chatri Sityodtong
“I truly believe my grandmaster, Kru Yodtong Senanan, who used to always tell me — I never really understood it until much later in life — ‘To unleash your greatness, you must be surrounded by greatness.'”
— Chatri Sityodtong
“In society, I’m a CEO, but when I’m in training, I’m a nobody. These guys beat on me, but it levels me up. It’s a daily reminder to me that I’m here to learn, grow, and evolve and be the very best martial artist I can be.”
— Chatri Sityodtong
“Love, pain, and suffering. That combination can work magic in terms of unleashing human potential. You will discover things about yourself that you never even knew existed in you.”
— Chatri Sityodtong
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May 30, 2025
Q&A with Tim — Three Life Commandments, 4-Hour Workweek Exercises I Still Use, The Art and Joy of Inefficiency, Stoicism Revisited, and Much More (#813)
Welcome back to another in-between-isode, with one of my favorite formats: the good old-fashioned Q&A.
I answer questions submitted by the small-but-elite group of test readers of my upcoming THE NO BOOK. The community is closed for new members, as we have the right number of people now, but I hope to potentially expand it once the book comes out.
This episode explores everything from childhood nostalgia and the outdoor activities I’d want to share with future kids to what my personal, highly comfortable, cult uniforms might look like if I were ever so inclined – don’t worry, I’m not. We also cover how I use AI, Stoicism, tools from The 4-Hour Workweek that I still use, and much, much more.
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What was your favorite quote or lesson from this episode? Please let me know in the comments.
SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODETim’s Three CommandmentsMovement is medicine.To save the self, help outside the self.Request what you want more/less of.Core Practices from The 4-Hour Workweek80/20 (Pareto Principle): Focus on the 20% of activities that produce 80% of your results.Parkinson’s Law: Work expands to fill the time available, so set tight deadlines to force efficiency.Fear-Setting: Define your worst-case scenarios in detail to realize most fears are overblown.Definition: Clearly specify what you want from life before optimizing how to get it.Elimination: Say no to everything that doesn’t serve your defined goals.Automation: Create systems that work without your constant involvement.Personal Projects & VenturesThe No Book: My first book in more than seven years, and my first collaboration (with Neil Strauss).Coyote: My card game in collaboration with Elan Lee and the kind folks at Exploding Kittens.COCKPUNCH / Legends of Varlata: My foray into fictional experimentation and exploration.Saisei Foundation: My non-profit funding psychedelic science, accelerated TMS, indigenous language/medicine/traditions/land rights, and metabolic psychiatry.5-Bullet Friday: My weekly newsletter.Books & Other Media Awareness: The Perils and Opportunities of Reality by Anthony de Mello Midnight’s Children: A Novel by Salman Rushdie Meditations by Marcus Aurelius I Don’t Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression by Terry Real Running Toward Mystery: The Adventure of an Unconventional Life by Tenzin Priyadarshi and Zara Houshmand Gold by Rumi, translated by Haleh Liza Gafori The Angels Knocking on the Tavern Door: Thirty Poems of Hafez by Hafez, translated by Robert Bly and Leonard Lewisohn Brotherhood of the Screaming Abyss: My Life with Terence McKenna by Dennis McKenna Trickster Makes This World: Mischief, Myth, and Art by Lewis Hyde Brain Energy: A Revolutionary Breakthrough in Understanding Mental Health–and Improving Treatment for Anxiety, Depression, OCD, PTSD, and More by Christopher Palmer The NeverEnding Story by Michael Ende The 4-Hour Workweek: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich by Timothy Ferriss “Slow Dance” by David Weatherford The ONE Thing: The Surprisingly Simple Truth Behind Extraordinary Results by Gary Keller and Jay Papasan Mad Max The NeverEnding Story (Film) Arcane Inside the Actors Studio ConceptsStoicism: An ancient Greek and Roman philosophy that teaches virtue, wisdom, and emotional resilience through accepting what you cannot control while focusing your efforts on what you can control.Mezcal: A smoky, Mexican distilled spirit made from the agave plant. Delicious, but hard to justify at $72 per glass without warning.Sufism: The mystical dimension of Islam that emphasizes direct personal experience of the divine.Epicureanism: An ancient Greek philosophy that advocates pursuing pleasure and avoiding pain as the path to happiness, emphasizing simple pleasures, friendship, and freedom from anxiety.The Nothing (from The NeverEnding Story): A destructive force that consumes imagination and hope, representing despair and the loss of wonder.Vibe Coding: Programming based on intuition and feel rather than strict methodology or documentation.Metabolic Psychiatry: Treatment approach viewing mental health disorders as metabolic dysfunction in the brain.Ketogenic Diet: High-fat, low-carb eating plan that forces the body to burn fat for fuel instead of glucose.Electroceuticals / Accelerated TMS: Medical devices using electrical stimulation to treat conditions, with TMS targeting specific brain regions magnetically.Somatic Exercises: Movement practices that focus on internal physical sensations to release tension and trauma stored in the body.Kundalini Activation: Spiritual practice aimed at awakening dormant energy believed to reside at the base of the spine.Byron Katie’s “The Work” and Turnarounds: Self-inquiry method questioning stressful thoughts through four questions, then reversing beliefs to find opposite perspectives.Software, Apps, & ToolsScrivener: My preferred tool for organizing large writing projects.Google Gemini AI: Google’s “personal, proactive, and powerful” AI assistant.The Way: Henry Shukman’s meditation training app.PeopleAnthony de Mello: Author of Awareness.Neil Strauss: Collaborator.Marcus Aurelius: Stoic philosopher.Haleh Liza Gafori: Translator of Rumi’s poetry (Gold).Jalal al-Din Rumi: Sufi poet.Hafez: Sufi poet.David Weatherford: Poet of “Slow Dance.”Molly Ferriss: My best friend.Salman Rushdie: Author of Midnight’s Children.Gary Keller: Businessman, co-author of The ONE Thing.Terry Real: Therapist, author of I Don’t Want to Talk About It.Henry Shukman: Meditation teacher, creator of The Way app.Dennis McKenna: Ethnobotanist, author of Brotherhood of the Screaming Abyss.Terence McKenna: Ethnobotanist, brother of Dennis.Lewis Hyde: Author of Trickster Makes This World.Richard Branson: Entrepreneur, proponent of capping downside.Mark Twain: Titan of American literature.Chris Sacca: Investor.BJ Miller: Palliative care physician, source of “Don’t believe everything you think.”Byron Katie: Creator of “The Work.”Nolan Williams: Researcher in electroceuticals.Chris Palmer: Proponent of metabolic psychiatry.Hatsumi Masaaki: Grandmaster of ninjutsu, possible calligrapher of “nin” (resilience).SHOW NOTES[00:00:00] Start.[00:04:44] Instilling nostalgia in future children.[00:06:29] Secret suspicions about success.[00:09:50] Comfy clothes and commandments for my newThe post Q&A with Tim — Three Life Commandments, 4-Hour Workweek Exercises I Still Use, The Art and Joy of Inefficiency, Stoicism Revisited, and Much More (#813) appeared first on The Blog of Author Tim Ferriss.
May 23, 2025
The Random Show — New Health Gadgets, Tim’s Latest Adventures, How to Drink Less, Zen Retreats, AI + Your Genome, and Colonoscopy Confessions (#812)
Welcome to another wide-ranging “Random Show” episode I recorded with my close friend Kevin Rose (digg.com)!
We cover dozens of topics: from the cutting edge of health tech to pro-tips for colonoscopies; AI; adventures in Japan and Taiwan seeking out perfect coffee and tea; tips for drinking less alcohol; powerful documentaries like 32 Sounds and books such as Awareness; the unexpected joys and therapeutic benefits of adult Lego; and much, much more.
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Want to hear the last time KevKev and I did a Random Show? Listen to our conversation here in which we discussed the societal impact of reality-bending AI, the pros and cons of training to failure, inexpensive injury avoidance/reversal, ethical wild meat harvesting, aliens, aversion-defusing meditation, alternative field trips, and much more.
What was your favorite quote or lesson from this episode? Please let me know in the comments.
SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODEConnect with Kevin Rose:Website | Instagram | Twitter | Threads | Bluesky | Digg.com
Art, Collectibles, & Games Coyote : Card game by Tim Ferriss and Exploding Kittens.Hokusai’s “The Great Wave off Kanagawa”: The original woodblock print/art piece.LEGO The Great Wave off Kanagawa (Hokusai): Specific LEGO set.LEGO Bonsai Tree: Specific LEGO set.LEGO Lucky Bamboo: Specific LEGO set.Nanoblock Cherry Blossom Tree: Specific Nanoblock set.HealthColonoscopy: Medical screening procedure.Propofol: Anesthetic drug.Full-Body MRI Scan: Medical imaging (Prenuvo provides this).GRAIL Test: Blood test for cancer screening.Accelerated TMS (Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation): Medical treatment for OCD/depression.Trazodone: Prescription drug mentioned for sleep, with side effects.VO2 Max Test: Physiological test for cardiovascular fitness.ECG (Electrocardiogram): Heart monitoring feature (e.g., on WHOOP).EEG (Electroencephalogram): Brainwave test for sleep studies.Whole Genome Sequencing: Comprehensive genetic test.Homocysteine Test: Biomarker test discussed by Kevin.Profi Nasal Spray: Hydrogel nasal spray for trapping viruses/bacteria.Saline Mist Spray: Nasal hydrating spray.Oriental Beauty Oolong Tea: Specific type of Taiwanese tea.Zone 2: “Some pain, much gain,” according to the Mayo Clinic.Dashi: Japanese soup stock sachets.Sertraline: Prescription medicine commonly known by the brand name Zoloft.Mounjaro: An injectable medicine for adults with type 2 diabetes.Methylated B Vitamins: Supplements Kevin used.NAC (N-acetylcysteine): Supplement Kevin used as a methyl donor.Books Bad Science: Quacks, Hacks, and Big Pharma Flacks by Ben Goldacre The 4-Hour Body: An Uncommon Guide to Rapid Fat Loss, Incredible Sex, and Becoming Superhuman by Timothy Ferriss Fight Club: A Novel by Chuck Palahniuk I Don’t Want To Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression by Terry Real Awareness: The Perils and Opportunities of Reality by Anthony de Mello Everything Is Its Own Reward: An All Over Coffee Collection by Paul Madonna The Well of Being: A Children’s Book for Adults by Jean-Pierre Weill Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams by Matthew Walker 10% Happier: How I Tamed the Voice in My Head, Reduced Stress Without Losing My Edge, and Found Self-Help That Actually Works — A True Story by Dan HarrisMovies and TV Shows 32 Sounds : Immersive documentary about sound by Sam Green. Flow : Latvian animated film about a cat in a post-apocalyptic world (low poly aesthetic). Fight Club : Don’t talk about Fight Club. Blade Runner : Dystopian sci-fi set in the far future of 2019 Los Angeles. 10 Years with Hayao Miyazaki : Docuseries about the creative process of the Studio Ghibli founder. My Neighbor Totoro : 1988 animated fantasy film written and directed by Hayao Miyazaki and animated by Studio Ghibli. Spirited Away : 2001 animated fantasy film written and directed by Hayao Miyazaki and animated by Studio Ghibli. Ponyo : 2008 animated fantasy film written and directed by Hayao Miyazaki and animated by Studio Ghibli. Up : Animated comedy-drama adventure film produced by Pixar. Max Headroom : Advertised as “the first computer-generated TV presenter.” Minority Report : 2002 action film loosely based on Philip K. Dick’s 1956 novella. Ex Machina : Sci-fi movie discussing AI. Her : Movie about AI relationships.PeopleMichael Jackson: Mentioned in relation to Propofol.Peter Attia: Referenced for scientific literacy (studying studies) and Zone 2 training.Henry Shukman: Zen teacher, involved with The Way app, led the mini Zen retreat.Sam Green: Academy Award-nominated filmmaker of 32 Sounds.J.D. Sampson: Musician, original music for 32 Sounds.Barry Bonds: Baseball player who raised eyebrows for using performance-enhancing drugs.Brad Pitt: Actor who somehow doesn’t know the first rule of AA club.Katsushika Hokusai: Japanese artist of “Under the Wave off Kanagawa.”Darya Rose: Kevin’s better half.Terry Real: Author of I Don’t Want To Talk About It , discussed male depression.Craig Mod: Fellow Westerner residing in Japan, recent guest on this show.Gen Yamamoto: World-famous bartender.The Quantified Scientist (Rob ter Horst): YouTuber who reviews wearable technology.Anthony de Mello: Author of Awareness .Paul Madonna: Author of Everything Is Its Own Reward .Hayao Miyazaki: Founder of Studio Ghibli, subject of an NHK documentary miniseries.Walt Disney: Animation empire builder.Nolan Williams: Scientist at Stanford, head of brain stimulation lab, expert on Accelerated TMS.Matthew Walker: Sleep scientist, author of Why We Sleep , involved with Somnee device.Chris Palmer: From Harvard, discussed metabolic psychiatry.Craig Venter: Genomics pioneer, his personal genome sequencing cost mentioned.Alexis Ohanian: Co-founder of Reddit, working with Kevin on Digg.Sam Altman: CEO of OpenAI, involved with Worldcoin (World ID).Chris Hutchins: Host of All the Hacks podcast.Elan Lee: From Exploding Kittens, partnered with me on the game Coyote.Willoughby B. Britton: Researcher investigating adverse events of meditation.Dan Harris: Journalist, author, podcaster, meditation advocate.Valerie Forstman: Zen master who co-led the retreat with Henry Shukman.Alex Albrecht: Kevin’s Diggnation co-host.PlacesNew Mexico: Location of the mini Zen retreat with Henry Shukman.Taiwan: Country off the coast of China.Taipei: Capital of Taiwan.Really Good Seafood: Highly recommended restaurant in Taiwan.Japan: Country of coffee, culture, and Hokusai.Tokyo: City in Japan.Ginza: District in Tokyo, location of Glitch Coffee.UAE (United Arab Emirates): Persian Gulf-adjacent nation.Abu Dhabi: City in UAE, noted for AI and genomics advancements.San Francisco, CA: Location of Red Blossom Tea Company; Paul Madonna‘s drawings often feature SF.Austin, TX: Home sweet home and 10 Squared location.Romania: Country mentioned for an espresso sign.Brasov: City in Romania with the espresso sign.Nijiya Market: Japanese grocery store chain in the US.Walmart: Retailer for the Coyote game.SXSW (South by Southwest): Festival where a live Diggnation event occurred.Companies & OrganizationsPrenuvo: Company providing full-body MRI scans.Netflix: Streaming service.Rotten Tomatoes: Review aggregation site for movies.Nintendo: Gaming company, referenced for “low poly” aesthetic.PS5 (PlayStation 5): Gaming console.Cannes Film Festival: Where the movie Flow premiered.AA (Alcoholics Anonymous): 12-step program.NA (Narcotics Anonymous): 12-step program.LEGO: Toy company (adult LEGOs, The Great Wave, bonsai, bamboo shoots).: LEGO competitor (cherry blossom tree).Glitch Coffee: Coffee shop in Ginza, Tokyo, praised for its latte.Sendai Koffee: Coffee shop in Japan, praised for Colombian varieties.Koffee Mameya: High-end coffee shop in Tokyo.Café de L’Ambre: Coffee shop in Tokyo known for aged coffee beans.Ghibli Museum: Museum in Japan (Studio Ghibli).NEZUCAFÉ: Cafe within a garden inside the Nezu Museum.Bear Pond Coffee: Coffee shop in Tokyo (Angel Stain espresso).Red Blossom Tea Company: Tea importer in San Francisco, specializing in Taiwanese oolongs.WHOOP: Wearable fitness tracker company and device.Apple: Tech company (Apple Watch).Oura: Tech company (Oura Ring).Garmin: Wearable tech company.10 Squared: Peter Attia’s performance center in Austin.Peloton: Exercise equipment company (bike seat issue mentioned).Profi: Brand of nasal spray (hydrogel).CVS: Pharmacy.Walgreens: Pharmacy.Okume: Dashi brand established in 1871.Versa Gripps: Brand of lifting straps.Studio Ghibli: Japanese animation film studio founded by Hayao Miyazaki.NHK: Japanese public broadcaster.Poj Studio: Online retailer for artisanal Japanese goods.MagVenture: Manufacturer of TMS (Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation) devices.Saisei Foundation: My nonprofit foundation focused on cutting-edge scientific research and other uncrowded bets.Somnee: Sleep device associated with Matt Walker.Stanford University: Nolan Williams’ institution; Profi nasal spray development.NASA: National Aeronautics and Space Administration.23andMe: Genetic testing company.LifeLock: Identity theft protection company.Digg: Website being revived by Kevin Rose and Alexis Ohanian.Trustpilot: Online review platform.BBB (Better Business Bureau): Organization.Worldcoin: Sam Altman’s identity project (World ID).OnlyFans: Content subscription service.Exploding Kittens: Game company, partnered with me for Coyote.The Way: Meditation app by Henry Shukman.Sanbo Zen: Lineage of Zen taught by Henry Shukman.True Ventures: Venture capital firm where Kevin is a partner.UCSF: University of California, San Francisco, mentioned regarding novel protein research for dementia.AlphaFold: An AI system developed by Google DeepMind that predicts a protein’s 3D structure from its amino acid sequence.Gadgets, Wearables, & EquipmentAirPods: Wireless headphones.WHOOP Device: Wearable fitness tracker.Apple Watch: Smartwatch.Oura Ring: Smart ring.Garmin Wearables: Fitness trackers/smartwatches.Peloton Bike: Exercise bike.Versa Gripps: Specific type of lifting straps.MagVenture TMS Device: Medical device for brain stimulation.Somnee Device: Transcranial electrical stimulation device for sleep.Digital Concepts & ToolsZK Proofs (Zero-Knowledge Proofs): Cryptographic method discussed for verifying online identity/claims.World ID: Digital identity obtained via eyeball scan (Worldcoin).Relevant ResourcesThe Benefits of Staying 30, 60, and 90 Days Sober: A Path to Lasting Recovery | High Focus Centers PAAI Sex Bots Are Here, Fires Reboot Kevin’s Life, Wild NVIDIA Updates | Diggnation #009Brad Pitt Says He Was Told off by Alcoholics Anonymous for Speaking About the Group: ‘It’s Anonymous’ | The IndependentThe Surprising Evolution of ‘The Great Wave of Kanagawa’ by Hokusai | My Modern MetTerry Real — The Therapist Who Breaks All The Rules | The Tim Ferriss Show #810Why China-Taiwan Relations Are So Tense | Council on Foreign RelationsLittle Island, Big Tea Game: The Guide To Taiwanese Tea | Tea CuriousHokkaido Milk: A Complete Guide for Beginners! | SakuracoAn Easy Guide to Ordering Coffee in Japan | Flexi ClassesGeisha (Coffee) | WikipediaCraig Mod — The Real Japan, Cheap Apartments in Tokyo, Productive Side Quests, Creative Retreats, Buying Future Freedom, and Being Possessed by Spirits | The Tim Ferriss Show #802Craig Mod Returns — Epic Walks in Japan, The Art of Slowness, Digital Detox, Publishing “Impossible” Books, and Choosing Beauty Over Scale | The Tim Ferriss Show #803Peter Attia’s 10 Squared: The Three Pillars of Forever Fitness | Men’s HealthDrug-Free Nasal Spray Blocks, Neutralizes Viruses, Bacteria | Harvard GazetteThe Stranger (Clip) | Scrubs“Squirrel!” (Clip) | UpNolan Williams — A Glimpse of the Future: Electroceuticals for 70%–90% Remission of Depression, Brain Stimulation for Sports Performance, and De-risking Ibogaine for TBI/PTSD | The Tim Ferriss Show #714Effects of Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation Combined with Sertraline on Cognitive Level, Inflammatory Response and Neurological Function in Depressive Disorder Patients with Non-Suicidal Self-Injury Behavior | Actas Españolas de PsiquiatríaChris Palmer, MD, of Harvard Medical School — Optimizing Brain Energy for Mental Health, The Incredible Potential of Metabolic Psychiatry, Extraordinary Case Studies, and Harnessing Mitochondria for Anxiety, Depression, OCD, PTSD, and More | The Tim Ferriss Show #633Dr. Matthew Walker, All Things Sleep — How to Improve Sleep, How Sleep Ties Into Alzheimer’s Disease and Weight Gain, and How Medications (Ambien, Trazodone, etc.), Caffeine, THC/CBD, Psychedelics, Exercise, Smart Drugs, Fasting, and More Affect Sleep | The Tim Ferriss Show #650Dr. Matthew Walker, All Things Sleep Continued — The Hidden Dangers of Melatonin, Tools for Insomnia, Enhancing Learning and Sleep Spindles, The Upsides of Sleep Divorce, How Sleep Impacts Sex (and Vice Versa), Adventures in Lucid Dreaming, The One Clock to Rule Them All, The IP Addresses of Your Memories, and More | The Tim Ferriss Show #654Overlooked Proteins May Be Key to Better Diagnosis of Alzheimer’s | UC San FranciscoCraig Venter Sets X PRIZE for Human Genome Sequencing | Scientific AmericanGenetic Information Privacy | Electronic Frontier FoundationLifeLock CEO’s Identity Stolen 13 Times | WiredMax Headroom Makes His American TV Debut | LettermanMax Headroom Signal Hijacking | WikipediaOnlyFans Sued by Men Claiming Models Used ‘Chatters’ to Talk to Them | ViceDiggnation Live in Austin Texas: Old Rivals, New Vision | DiggnationHenry Shukman — Zen, Tools for Awakening, Ayahuasca vs. Meditation, Intro to Koans, and Using Wounds as the Doorway | The Tim Ferriss Show #531Zen Master Henry Shukman — 20 Minutes of Calm, Plus the Strange and Powerful World of Koans | The Tim Ferriss Show #560Dr. Willoughby Britton — The Hidden Risks of Meditation, Overlaps with Psychedelic Risks, Harm Reduction Strategies, How to Choose a Retreat, Near-Death Experiences, and More | The Tim Ferriss Show #705Dan Harris on Becoming 10% Happier, Hugging Inner Dragons, Self-Help for Skeptics, Training the Mind, and Much More | The Tim Ferriss Show #481SHOW NOTES[00:00:00] Start.[00:05:13] Two old men discuss the importance of regular medical checkups.[00:11:47] Zen and the art of 32 Sounds.[00:14:50] Going with the low-poly Flow.[00:18:02] KevKev goes cleanclean and sober.[00:25:10] The first rule of AA is you do not talk about AA.[00:26:24] LEGO bricks (and Nanoblocks) as art for grown-ups.[00:28:27] Maintaining sobriety with a partner who still drinks.[00:31:47] Addressing under-the-hood reasons behind addiction with a group.[00:35:41] TimTim talks Taiwan and tea.[00:43:13] A Japanese coffee bender.[00:48:56] An “expresso” intervention.[00:50:02] Where Americans can get Taiwanese tea if they can’t make the trip.[00:51:16] Kevin’s new WHOOP wearable and quantifying health benchmarks/goals.[00:57:45] I’m getting a new exercise bike because the old one rubbed me the wrong way.[00:59:11] Kevin keeps COVID and cooties at bay with Profi in his schnozz.[01:02:01] Sippin’ dashi and conquering anxiety with Awareness.[01:06:36] Getting a (Versa) Gripp on eclectic injuries.[01:10:07] Finding magic in the ordinary with Paul Madonna and Hayao Miyazaki.[01:13:19] The Well of Being is back in stock for a reasonable price.[01:14:02] Finding Asian artisanal goods in the US without having to travel.[01:16:49] Squirrels: distracting dogs and humans for millennia.[01:18:04] My personal ups and downs with accelerated TMS.[01:28:27] The current state of consumer-level sleep aid technology.[01:33:47] How full genome sequencing helped Kevin tame a once-insurmountable health issue.[01:36:16] Eyeing traffic at the intersection of AI and life sciences.[01:38:30] Genetic data privacy concerns.[01:42:36] Face to face with my deepfaked side hustler.[01:44:06] Kevin’s unsettling AI headphone review experiment and its implications for real humans.[01:47:03] Steps Kevin has taken toward proving he’s a real boy.[01:48:23] “You were talking to models — you were just talking to large language models.”[01:50:25] Exploding Kittens and I made a game together: Coyote.[01:52:06] When meditation retreats go right (and wrong).[01:59:21] Parting thoughts.The post The Random Show — New Health Gadgets, Tim’s Latest Adventures, How to Drink Less, Zen Retreats, AI + Your Genome, and Colonoscopy Confessions (#812) appeared first on The Blog of Author Tim Ferriss.
May 15, 2025
2x Olympic Archery Medalist Jake Kaminski — Lessons Learned and Mantras Used After 1,000,000 Arrows (#811)
“I’m well over a million shots the same way—same technique, same thought process, same thought at full draw. … Sustained effort is what really makes you good.”
— Jake Kaminski
Jake Kaminski (@jake_kaminski_) is a two-time Olympic silver medalist in archery and a longtime member of the US Archery Team, with more than a decade of international competition experience. Known for his technical precision and deep knowledge of the sport, Jake helped lead the US to team silver medals at both the 2012 London and 2016 Rio Olympic Games.
Since retiring from Olympic competition, Jake has become a leading voice in the archery world through content creation, product innovation, and educational events. He runs a successful YouTube channel, writes training guides, and develops high-performance gear under the Kaminski Archery brand.
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Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Overcast, Podcast Addict, Pocket Casts, Castbox, YouTube Music, Amazon Music, Audible, or on your favorite podcast platform. Watch the interview on YouTube. The transcript of this episode can be found here. Transcripts of all episodes can be found here.
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Want to hear an episode with MeatEater kingpin Steven Rinella? Listen to our conversation, in which we discuss how Steven got me to overcome my lifetime aversion to hunting, why the conservation-minded non-hunting crowd should care about the decline in hunting and fishing license sales in the United States, the politics of reintroducing predator species to popular hunting grounds, close encounters of the grizzly kind, and much more.
What was your favorite quote or lesson from this episode? Please let me know in the comments.
SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODEConnect with Jake Kaminski:Website | YouTube | Patreon | Kaminski Archery Backyard Championship
The transcript of this episode can be found here. Transcripts of all episodes can be found here.
Archery Concepts, Techniques, & TerminologyOlympic Recurve: Specific discipline/bow style used in the Olympics.Barebow: Discipline/bow style with minimal aids, uses string walking.Compound Bow: Bow style using cams/pulleys.Longbow: Simple, traditional bow style.Horse Bow / Asiatic Bow: Shorter recurve bow, often shot with a thumb release.Target Panic: Psychological issue affecting aiming/release.Clicker: Mechanical device used as a draw check and release trigger (primarily recurve).Shot Cycle / Shot Sequence: The repeatable physical and mental process of shooting an arrow.KSL Method: Biomechanically focused archery technique developed by Kisik Lee.Ape Index: The ratio of an individual’s arm span relative to their height.Biomechanics: Study of movement and structure in biological systems.Anchor: Consistent placement of the draw hand on the face/jaw.Let Down: Aborting a shot before release.Follow Through: Maintaining tension and direction after the arrow is released.Tension and Direction: Key principle of maintaining force towards the target (bow hand) and away (draw hand).Release: The act of letting the string go (viewed by KSL as a result of follow through).Blank Bale Practice: Shooting at a target butt with no face/aiming point, focusing on form.String Walking: Technique in barebow where the archer moves their fingers down the string to adjust elevation.Instinctive Aiming: Aiming without a dedicated sight or aiming reference point, relying on subconscious coordination.Cross Eye Dominant: When a person’s dominant eye is opposite their dominant hand.Hook: Specific placement and tension of fingers on the bowstring.Grouping: The proximity of arrows to each other on the target.Khatra: Specific movement/technique used in thumb draw/horse bow shooting.Archery EquipmentIndo Board: Balance training tool.Stabilizers: Rods attached to bows (Olympic recurve, compound) to add weight and reduce vibration.Riser: The central handle section of a bow.Limbs: The flexible parts of the bow that store energy.Arrow Rest: Device that supports the arrow before/during the shot.Zniper Fall-Away Arrow Rest: Specific magnetic fall-away rest mentioned for barebow.Plunger / Button: Adjustable device on recurve/barebow risers that helps tune arrow flight.Finger Tab: Protective leather/material worn on draw fingers.Peep Sight: Small aperture on compound bow string used as a rear sight.Mechanical Release / Release Aid: Device used to draw and release the string on compound bows.Arrows: Projectiles shot from the bow.Easton RX7: Specific model of large-diameter aluminum arrow.Easton Avance: Specific model of smaller-diameter carbon arrow.Fletching: Feathers or vanes on the back of an arrow for stabilization.Nock: Attachment point on the back of the arrow that clips onto the string.Sight: Aiming device (used on Olympic recurve and compound).Bowstring: Cord connecting the limb tips.Bag Target: Type of archery target filled with material.Target Bale: The backstop material archery targets are attached to.TheraBand: Elastic resistance band used for training.General Brands & ProductsMuscle Milk: Protein shakes.Maui Nui Venison: Sustainably sourced meat snacks.Pique Tea: Instant tea crystals.Momentous: Science-backed supplements.Fuel: A carbohydrate/electrolyte supplement by Momentous.Kinesiology Tape: Elastic therapeutic tape.Rick Simpson Oil (RSO): Specific type of full-spectrum cannabis oil (used topically).SAM (Sustained Acoustic Medicine) Device: Sustained acoustic medicine for soft-tissue injuries.LICUS (Low-Intensity Continuous Ultrasound): Therapy for numerous clinical disorders.Institutions, Organizations, & PlacesOlympic Training Center (San Diego): Facility where Jake lived and trained.Junior Olympic Archery Development (JOAD): Youth archery program in the US.Korea Archery Team: National archery system/team of South Korea.United States Archery Team: National archery system/team of the USA.Lancaster Archery Supply: Large archery distributor and host of the Lancaster Classic.Elma, NY: Jake’s home town.MeatEater: Outdoor lifestyle company founded by Steven Rinella.ShotIQ: Archery training system/company by Joel Turner.Gotham Archery: Archery range in Brooklyn, NY.Easton Archery Center of Excellence (Salt Lake City): Archery range and facility.Park City Fit: CrossFit gym in Park City, UT.Buffalo Bills: NFL team.Buffalo Sabres: NHL team.Events & CompetitionsOlympic Games: Major international multi-sport event (specifically London 2012 mentioned).Lancaster Classic: Major annual indoor archery tournament in Lancaster, PA.Empire State Games: Multi-sport competition within New York State.Junior World Championships (Archery): International competition for junior archers.: National archery competition in the US.World Cup (Archery): Series of international archery competitions.Kaminski Archery Backyard Championship: Digital archery tournament created by Jake.X Games: Extreme sports competition.World Championships (Tango): Competition.National Championships (Sanshou): Competition.Books & Media The 4-Hour Chef: The Simple Path to Cooking Like a Pro, Learning Anything, and Living the Good Life by Timothy Ferriss The 4-Hour Workweek: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich by Timothy Ferriss The 4-Hour Body: An Uncommon Guide to Rapid Fat-Loss, Incredible Sex, and Becoming Superhuman by Timothy Ferriss Robin Hood (Disney Film) The Karate Kid Austin Powers: International Man Of Mystery PeopleSusan Garrett: Dog agility champion.The Rock: Actor and professional wrestler.Lady Gaga: Singer, songwriter, and actress.Steven Rinella: Hunter, writer, founder of MeatEater.Robin Hood: A legendary outlaw archer from English folklore.Joel Turner: Archery coach, founder of ShotIQ.Bodie Turner: Son of Joel Turner, highly successful compound archer.Harry Staebell: Jake’s childhood coach/mentor.Nariyoshi Miyagi: The wise, Okinawan-born karate master from The Karate Kid.Kisik Lee (KSL): Jake’s coach, former Korean National Head Coach, influential archery figure.Austin Powers: International man of mystery.Dan Schuller: Jake’s childhood competitor and fellow resident athlete.Brady Ellison: Jake’s Olympic teammate, famous competitor.Jacob Wukie: Jake’s Olympic teammate.Eeyore: Winnie-the-Pooh’s sad donkey friend.: Jake’s sister.Heather Kaminski: Jake’s wife, manual therapist.LeBron James: Basketball player.Kobe Bryant: Basketball player.Michael Jordan: Basketball player.Rick Simpson: Associated with Rick Simpson Oil (RSO).Henk Kraaijenhof: Famous track coach.Chris Spealler: Owner of Park City Fit.Relevant ResourcesBow and Arrow | WikipediaArchery Beginner Gear Guide | Jake KaminskiNew to Archery? Five Tips for your First Day of Shooting | Jake KaminskiThe Ethical Bow Hunting Shot | Bow LifeSouth Korea’s Archery Invincibility Explained | Land of LegendsStaying Sane with Meditative Archery | Spirituality+HealthWhat Top Archers Think About at Full Draw | Jake KaminskiArchery Strength Training Playlist | Jake Kaminski100 Positive Affirmations for Better Self-Care | Crisis Text LineParis 2024 Olympics: Republic of Korea Continue Dominance, Winning Tenth Straight Archery Gold Medal in Women’s Team | OlympicsThe Olympic Experience of Silver Medallist Jake Kaminski | World ArcherySHOW NOTES[00:00:00] Start.[00:06:50] A glimpse into the high-precision world of Olympic archery.[00:11:04] How Jake and I connected.[00:18:27] Jake’s auspicious introduction to archery.[00:21:15] Why you (Yes! You!) should try archery.[00:22:01] The differences between bows.[00:25:19] The admirable proficiency of Shot IQ’s Bodie and Joel Turner.[00:26:24] Ethical bow hunting, performing under pressure, and transitioning from rifle to bow.[00:29:22] Why I wouldn’t have cut it as a competitive archer in Korea.[00:30:14] Mindful archery and training hard to make competition easy.[00:37:00] What Jake did when compound bow archery started to get boring.[00:40:00] Meeting legendary Coach Kisik Lee (KSL).[00:43:06] The upsides of having no social life as a kid.[00:45:20] The welcoming weirdness of archery communities.[00:46:33] For the sake of form, Coach Lee shakes things up.[00:51:21] “I am.” — an affirmation for apathy adjustment.[00:58:11] London, 2012 Olympics: when it all starts coming together.[01:08:28] How does teamwork play out in archery?[01:15:40] My own experience with Coach Lee.[01:19:23] The trials of training and traveling.[01:27:33] Blank bale practice.[01:31:14] Layering, biomechanics, and other early points of focus.[01:33:03] The underrated importance of follow through.[01:36:40] Coach Lee’s take on follow through vs. release.[01:37:29] Gauging tension and intention as an instructor.[01:38:52] Attention to grouping over hitting the bullseye.[01:40:57] Making adaptations for physical limitations.[01:43:30] The ups and downs of our patented “Jesus take the wheel” instinctive approach.[01:46:24] Warm-up tournaments, barebowing, black bales, and string walking.[01:50:54] Recovering from the disaster that made me rethink Lancaster.[01:55:15] Rebalancing gear: arrows and arrow rests.[02:00:50] The importance of practicing in tournament-like conditions.[02:04:03] Securing convenient fuel.[02:08:17] Lancaster preparation logistics (with special thanks to Heather Kaminski and Rick Simpson Oil).[02:13:17] The glue that holds us together: note-taking and training logs.[02:16:47] Even counterintuitive consistency is key.[02:18:45] Our experience at Lancaster.[02:28:00] “The goal is to do the least necessary, not the most possible.” — Henk Kraaijenhof[02:31:44] Learning by observation and conversation on the practice range.[02:35:35] What’s the Kaminski Archery Backyard Championship, and why should you get involved?[02:40:30] How can you (and why should you) get started with archery today?[02:42:48] Parting thoughts.MORE JAKE KAMINSKI QUOTES FROM THE INTERVIEW“Anything you can do to make things more difficult—to shoot in the rain, to shoot in the wind, to shoot in the heat—I would do because, I don’t know, maybe I just enjoy torturing myself. But I found it to be really important. And once I got to the training center, listening to some of the other successful athletes giving talks at the training center about their success and how things went and what made them successful, a lot of them were leaning into the same kind of thing—training hard to make competition easy.”
— Jake Kaminski
“Practice scores don’t matter.”
— Jake Kaminski
“Ultimately, nobody’s going to prevent you from succeeding or failing except for yourself. So you’ve just got to get out of your own way and let it happen. You’ve already put in the time, you put in the effort, just go have fun. Just shoot some arrows and maintain composure.”
— Jake Kaminski
“If I were to wave a magic wand and try to make things better the next time, it would be doing archery more often. It’s not about how many arrows you do in one session; it’s how many sessions in a week can you do and how many days in between each session are there? Anything more than one is too many, in my opinion.”
— Jake Kaminski
“You look experienced from experience. You don’t just get it. You’ve got to make that groove in the brain, and really make that neuromotor connection strong enough to where it just fluidly happens. That’s why an expert is an expert. They’ve done the same thing thousands and thousands and thousands of times. I’m well over a million shots the same way—same technique, same thought process, same thought at full draw. So it’s an immense amount of effort and work over time. Sustained effort is what really makes you good.”
— Jake Kaminski
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2x Olympic Archery Medalist Jake Kaminski — Behind-the-Scenes Stories of Coaching Tim, What Archery Teaches About High Performance, and Excellence Under Pressure (#811)
“I’m well over a million shots the same way—same technique, same thought process, same thought at full draw. … Sustained effort is what really makes you good.”
— Jake Kaminski
Jake Kaminski (@jake_kaminski_) is a two-time Olympic silver medalist in archery and a longtime member of the US Archery Team, with more than a decade of international competition experience. Known for his technical precision and deep knowledge of the sport, Jake helped lead the US to team silver medals at both the 2012 London and 2016 Rio Olympic Games.
Since retiring from Olympic competition, Jake has become a leading voice in the archery world through content creation, product innovation, and educational events. He runs a successful YouTube channel, writes training guides, and develops high-performance gear under the Kaminski Archery brand.
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What was your favorite quote or lesson from this episode? Please let me know in the comments.
SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODEConnect with Jake Kaminski:Website | YouTube | Patreon | Kaminski Archery Backyard Championship
Archery Concepts, Techniques, & TerminologyOlympic Recurve: Specific discipline/bow style used in the Olympics.Barebow: Discipline/bow style with minimal aids, uses string walking.Compound Bow: Bow style using cams/pulleys.Longbow: Simple, traditional bow style.Horse Bow / Asiatic Bow: Shorter recurve bow, often shot with a thumb release.Target Panic: Psychological issue affecting aiming/release.Clicker: Mechanical device used as a draw check and release trigger (primarily recurve).Shot Cycle / Shot Sequence: The repeatable physical and mental process of shooting an arrow.KSL Method: Biomechanically focused archery technique developed by Kisik Lee.Ape Index: The ratio of an individual’s arm span relative to their height.Biomechanics: Study of movement and structure in biological systems.Anchor: Consistent placement of the draw hand on the face/jaw.Let Down: Aborting a shot before release.Follow Through: Maintaining tension and direction after the arrow is released.Tension and Direction: Key principle of maintaining force towards the target (bow hand) and away (draw hand).Release: The act of letting the string go (viewed by KSL as a result of follow through).Blank Bale Practice: Shooting at a target butt with no face/aiming point, focusing on form.String Walking: Technique in barebow where the archer moves their fingers down the string to adjust elevation.Instinctive Aiming: Aiming without a dedicated sight or aiming reference point, relying on subconscious coordination.Cross Eye Dominant: When a person’s dominant eye is opposite their dominant hand.Hook: Specific placement and tension of fingers on the bowstring.Grouping: The proximity of arrows to each other on the target.Khatra: Specific movement/technique used in thumb draw/horse bow shooting.Archery EquipmentIndo Board: Balance training tool.Stabilizers: Rods attached to bows (Olympic recurve, compound) to add weight and reduce vibration.Riser: The central handle section of a bow.Limbs: The flexible parts of the bow that store energy.Arrow Rest: Device that supports the arrow before/during the shot.Zniper Fall-Away Arrow Rest: Specific magnetic fall-away rest mentioned for barebow.Plunger / Button: Adjustable device on recurve/barebow risers that helps tune arrow flight.Finger Tab: Protective leather/material worn on draw fingers.Peep Sight: Small aperture on compound bow string used as a rear sight.Mechanical Release / Release Aid: Device used to draw and release the string on compound bows.Arrows: Projectiles shot from the bow.Easton RX7: Specific model of large-diameter aluminum arrow.Easton Avance: Specific model of smaller-diameter carbon arrow.Fletching: Feathers or vanes on the back of an arrow for stabilization.Nock: Attachment point on the back of the arrow that clips onto the string.Sight: Aiming device (used on Olympic recurve and compound).Bowstring: Cord connecting the limb tips.Bag Target: Type of archery target filled with material.Target Bale: The backstop material archery targets are attached to.TheraBand: Elastic resistance band used for training.General Brands & ProductsMuscle Milk: Protein shakes.Maui Nui Venison: Sustainably sourced meat snacks.Pique Tea: Instant tea crystals.Momentous: Science-backed supplements.Fuel: A carbohydrate/electrolyte supplement by Momentous.Kinesiology Tape: Elastic therapeutic tape.Rick Simpson Oil (RSO): Specific type of full-spectrum cannabis oil (used topically).SAM (Sustained Acoustic Medicine) Device: Sustained acoustic medicine for soft-tissue injuries.LICUS (Low-Intensity Continuous Ultrasound): Therapy for numerous clinical disorders.Institutions, Organizations, & PlacesOlympic Training Center (San Diego): Facility where Jake lived and trained.Junior Olympic Archery Development (JOAD): Youth archery program in the US.Korea Archery Team: National archery system/team of South Korea.United States Archery Team: National archery system/team of the USA.Lancaster Archery Supply: Large archery distributor and host of the Lancaster Classic.Elma, NY: Jake’s home town.MeatEater: Outdoor lifestyle company founded by Steven Rinella.ShotIQ: Archery training system/company by Joel Turner.Gotham Archery: Archery range in Brooklyn, NY.Easton Archery Center of Excellence (Salt Lake City): Archery range and facility.Park City Fit: CrossFit gym in Park City, UT.Buffalo Bills: NFL team.Buffalo Sabres: NHL team.Events & CompetitionsOlympic Games: Major international multi-sport event (specifically London 2012 mentioned).Lancaster Classic: Major annual indoor archery tournament in Lancaster, PA.Empire State Games: Multi-sport competition within New York State.Junior World Championships (Archery): International competition for junior archers.: National archery competition in the US.World Cup (Archery): Series of international archery competitions.Kaminski Archery Backyard Championship: Digital archery tournament created by Jake.X Games: Extreme sports competition.World Championships (Tango): Competition.National Championships (Sanshou): Competition.Books & Media The 4-Hour Chef: The Simple Path to Cooking Like a Pro, Learning Anything, and Living the Good Life by Timothy Ferriss The 4-Hour Workweek: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich by Timothy Ferriss The 4-Hour Body: An Uncommon Guide to Rapid Fat-Loss, Incredible Sex, and Becoming Superhuman by Timothy Ferriss Robin Hood (Disney Film) The Karate Kid Austin Powers: International Man Of Mystery PeopleSusan Garrett: Dog agility champion.The Rock: Actor and professional wrestler.Lady Gaga: Singer, songwriter, and actress.Steven Rinella: Hunter, writer, founder of MeatEater.Robin Hood: A legendary outlaw archer from English folklore.Joel Turner: Archery coach, founder of ShotIQ.Bodie Turner: Son of Joel Turner, highly successful compound archer.Harry Staebell: Jake’s childhood coach/mentor.Nariyoshi Miyagi: The wise, Okinawan-born karate master from The Karate Kid.Kisik Lee (KSL): Jake’s coach, former Korean National Head Coach, influential archery figure.Austin Powers: International man of mystery.Dan Schuller: Jake’s childhood competitor and fellow resident athlete.Brady Ellison: Jake’s Olympic teammate, famous competitor.Jacob Wukie: Jake’s Olympic teammate.Eeyore: Winnie-the-Pooh’s sad donkey friend.: Jake’s sister.Heather Kaminski: Jake’s wife, manual therapist.LeBron James: Basketball player.Kobe Bryant: Basketball player.Michael Jordan: Basketball player.Rick Simpson: Associated with Rick Simpson Oil (RSO).Henk Kraaijenhof: Famous track coach.Chris Spealler: Owner of Park City Fit.Relevant ResourcesBow and Arrow | WikipediaArchery Beginner Gear Guide | Jake KaminskiNew to Archery? Five Tips for your First Day of Shooting | Jake KaminskiThe Ethical Bow Hunting Shot | Bow LifeSouth Korea’s Archery Invincibility Explained | Land of LegendsStaying Sane with Meditative Archery | Spirituality+HealthWhat Top Archers Think About at Full Draw | Jake KaminskiArchery Strength Training Playlist | Jake Kaminski100 Positive Affirmations for Better Self-Care | Crisis Text LineParis 2024 Olympics: Republic of Korea Continue Dominance, Winning Tenth Straight Archery Gold Medal in Women’s Team | OlympicsThe Olympic Experience of Silver Medallist Jake Kaminski | World ArcherySHOW NOTES[00:00:00] Start.[00:06:50] A glimpse into the high-precision world of Olympic archery.[00:11:04] How Jake and I connected.[00:18:27] Jake’s auspicious introduction to archery.[00:21:15] Why you (Yes! You!) should try archery.[00:22:01] The differences between bows.[00:25:19] The admirable proficiency of Shot IQ’s Bodie and Joel Turner.[00:26:24] Ethical bow hunting, performing under pressure, and transitioning from rifle to bow.[00:29:22] Why I wouldn’t have cut it as a competitive archer in Korea.[00:30:14] Mindful archery and training hard to make competition easy.[00:37:00] What Jake did when compound bow archery started to get boring.[00:40:00] Meeting legendary Coach Kisik Lee (KSL).[00:43:06] The upsides of having no social life as a kid.[00:45:20] The welcoming weirdness of archery communities.[00:46:33] For the sake of form, Coach Lee shakes things up.[00:51:21] “I am.” — an affirmation for apathy adjustment.[00:58:11] London, 2012 Olympics: when it all starts coming together.[01:08:28] How does teamwork play out in archery?[01:15:40] My own experience with Coach Lee.[01:19:23] The trials of training and traveling.[01:27:33] Blank bale practice.[01:31:14] Layering, biomechanics, and other early points of focus.[01:33:03] The underrated importance of follow through.[01:36:40] Coach Lee’s take on follow through vs. release.[01:37:29] Gauging tension and intention as an instructor.[01:38:52] Attention to grouping over hitting the bullseye.[01:40:57] Making adaptations for physical limitations.[01:43:30] The ups and downs of our patented “Jesus take the wheel” instinctive approach.[01:46:24] Warm-up tournaments, barebowing, black bales, and string walking.[01:50:54] Recovering from the disaster that made me rethink Lancaster.[01:55:15] Rebalancing gear: arrows and arrow rests.[02:00:50] The importance of practicing in tournament-like conditions.[02:04:03] Securing convenient fuel.[02:08:17] Lancaster preparation logistics (with special thanks to Heather Kaminski and Rick Simpson Oil).[02:13:17] The glue that holds us together: note-taking and training logs.[02:16:47] Even counterintuitive consistency is key.[02:18:45] Our experience at Lancaster.[02:28:00] “The goal is to do the least necessary, not the most possible.” — Henk Kraaijenhof[02:31:44] Learning by observation and conversation on the practice range.[02:35:35] What’s the Kaminski Archery Backyard Championship, and why should you get involved?[02:40:30] How can you (and why should you) get started with archery today?[02:42:48] Parting thoughts.MORE JAKE KAMINSKI QUOTES FROM THE INTERVIEW“Anything you can do to make things more difficult—to shoot in the rain, to shoot in the wind, to shoot in the heat—I would do because, I don’t know, maybe I just enjoy torturing myself. But I found it to be really important. And once I got to the training center, listening to some of the other successful athletes giving talks at the training center about their success and how things went and what made them successful, a lot of them were leaning into the same kind of thing—training hard to make competition easy.”
— Jake Kaminski
“Practice scores don’t matter.”
— Jake Kaminski
“Ultimately, nobody’s going to prevent you from succeeding or failing except for yourself. So you’ve just got to get out of your own way and let it happen. You’ve already put in the time, you put in the effort, just go have fun. Just shoot some arrows and maintain composure.”
— Jake Kaminski
“If I were to wave a magic wand and try to make things better the next time, it would be doing archery more often. It’s not about how many arrows you do in one session; it’s how many sessions in a week can you do and how many days in between each session are there? Anything more than one is too many, in my opinion.”
— Jake Kaminski
“You look experienced from experience. You don’t just get it. You’ve got to make that groove in the brain, and really make that neuromotor connection strong enough to where it just fluidly happens. That’s why an expert is an expert. They’ve done the same thing thousands and thousands and thousands of times. I’m well over a million shots the same way—same technique, same thought process, same thought at full draw. So it’s an immense amount of effort and work over time. Sustained effort is what really makes you good.”
— Jake Kaminski
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May 9, 2025
Terry Real — The Therapist Who Breaks All The Rules (#810)
“A boy’s question of the world is ‘What do you got for me?’ A man’s question of the world is ‘What’s needed here?'”
— Terry Real
Terry Real is a nationally recognized family therapist, author, and teacher. He is known for his groundbreaking work on men and male psychology as well as his work on gender and couples.
His book I Don’t Want To Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression, the first book ever written on the topic of male depression, is a national bestseller. His new book, Us: Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship is a New York Times bestseller.
Terry’s Relational Life Institute offers training for therapists and workshops for couples and individuals.
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What was your favorite quote or lesson from this episode? Please let me know in the comments.
SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODEConnect with Terry Real:Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook
Books Us: Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship by Terry Real I Don’t Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression by Terry Real Fierce Intimacy by Terry Real Outlive: The Science and Art of Longevity by Peter Attia Violence: Reflections on a National Epidemic by James Gilligan The Big Sleep by Raymond Chandler Hard-Boiled: Great Lines from Classic Noir Films by Peggy Thompson and Saeko UsukawaTherapeutic Approaches & ModalitiesRelational Life Therapy (RLT): Terry Real’s primary approach.Internal Family Systems (IFS): Mentioned as having some similarities to RLT’s parts work; Terry discusses similarities and differences.Men’s Intensive Group Therapy: Run by Terry. Format includes check-ins, emerging themes, and deep trauma work.12-Step Programs (e.g., Al-Anon): Mentioned in context of addiction and support.Core RLT Concepts & FrameworksThree Parts of the Human Psyche (RLT Model):Wise Adult (prefrontal cortex, choosing part)Wounded Child (flooded, emotional part)Adaptive Child (kid’s version of an adult, automatic/knee-jerk responses, self-protection)Relational Mindfulness: Core skill of shifting out of the adaptive child.Remembering Love: First skill; remembering you care about the person you’re speaking to.Miserable Comfortable vs. Happy Uncomfortable: States related to staying in old patterns vs. embracing growth.Taking a Position (as a therapist): Contrasted with neutral mirroring.Objectivity Battles: Arguments over who is “right” or whose reality is accurate (RLT argues objectivity has no place in personal relations).Relational Answer (to who’s right/wrong): Focus on collaborative solutions.Repair: Critical process in relationships; a “one-way street” initially.Normal Marital Hatred: The idea that it’s normal to go through phases of intense dislike or “hatred” for one’s partner in a long-term relationship.Deal-Breakers & Relational Reckoning: A process/question (“Am I getting enough…to make grieving what I’m not getting worth my while?”) to assess relationship viability.Preconditions for RLT Couples Therapy: Issues like active addiction, violence, or untreated psychiatric conditions that need addressing before RLT can be effective for the couple.Leverage (Negative and Positive): Therapeutic technique to motivate clients.Covert Depression (in Men): Depression masked by behaviors like rage, philandering, withdrawal, self-medication.Normal Boyhood Trauma (under patriarchy): The trauma of boys being taught to disconnect from vulnerability and emotions.Psychological Patriarchy: Traditional masculinity’s impact on individuals and relationships (distinct from political patriarchy).Toxic Individualism: Overemphasis on the self at the expense of relational connection.One Up / One Down Positions: Dynamics of superiority/inferiority in relationships (builds on Pia Mellody’s work).Love Avoidant: A pattern of behavior stemming from early experiences, often involving fear of engulfment.Full-Respect Living: Holding others in respect even when disagreeing.Poisoned Privilege: The negative impact of entitlement, often seen in “one-up” positions.Relational Joy vs. Gratification: Deep, connected pleasure vs. short-term pleasure.Loving Power: Asserting oneself while maintaining connection and care for the relationship.General Psychological & Relational ConceptsRelational Heroism (coined by Belinda Berman)Male Depression (and Overt Depression)Couples TherapyCodependency (described as “fawn” or “fix” response)Fight, Flight, Fawn (stress responses)Harmony, Disharmony, and Repair (Ed Tronick’s rhythm of all relationships)Dual Diagnosis (e.g., addiction and depression)TraumaPatriarchyIndividualismEnmeshmentPolyamoryManosphereGrandiosityCompanionable Marriage (as a historical norm)Organizations & InstitutionsAl-Anon: Support group for families of alcoholics.The Meadows: Treatment center where Pia Mellody worked.Sounds True: Publisher of Terry Real’s Fierce Intimacy audio program.Movies & ShowsThe Hurt LockerAdolescenceThe Big SleepPeoplePeter Attia: Doctor, author, friend of Tim Ferriss, mentioned in relation to male depression and his book Outlive.Kevin Rose: Friend of Tim Ferriss, mentioned in relation to couples therapy.Belinda Berman: Terry Real’s wife, a family therapist, coined “relational heroism.”Gregory Bateson: Anthropologist, influential in family therapy, husband of Margaret Mead, known for concept of “humankind’s epistemological error.”Margaret Mead: Anthropologist, wife of Gregory Bateson.Edward Tronick: Infant observational researcher, known for the “harmony, disharmony, and repair” rhythm in relationships.T. Berry Brazelton: Pediatrician and researcher, worked alongside Tronick.Sigmund Freud: The father of psychoanalysis.James Framo: Considered a father of couple’s therapy.Esther Perel: Therapist, mentioned as working with Peter Attia.Pia Mellody: Therapist, mentor to Terry Real, influential in 12-step community, associated with The Meadows, concepts like “one up, one down.”Riane Eisler: Scholar, author, known for concepts like “power over vs. power with.”Carol Gilligan: Psychologist, ethicist, known for work on gender studies (e.g., “the binary,” “no voice without relationship”).Olga Silverstein: Therapist, known for “the halving process” (splitting human qualities by gender).Keith Richards: Guitar hero.Richard “Dick” Schwartz: Founder of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy.Adolf Hitler: The gold standard of human villainy.Erik Erikson: Child psychoanalyst.Elon Musk: Mentioned as an example in a discussion about aspirational masculinity vs. relational well-being.James Gilligan: Psychiatrist, author of Violence, worked with criminally insane.Sam Harris: Neuroscientist, author, podcaster (mentioned for his meditation app).Mahatma Gandhi: Political ethicist who led the campaign for India’s independence from British rule.Martin Luther King Jr.: Civil rights champion.Raymond Chandler: Noir author (The Big Sleep).Sam Spade: Fictional detective from Raymond Chandler’s work.Humphrey Bogart: Actor.Lauren Bacall: Actress.Relevant ResourcesTerry Real — Breaking the Rules of Traditional Couples Therapy for Superior Results, A Few Frameworks That Work | The Tim Ferriss Show #798Is Marital Hate Really “Normal”? | CoveteurWhen to End a Relationship | Terry RealTerry Real: Breaking the Cycle of Shame, Anger, and Depression | The Peter Attia DriveQuiet Desperation: The Male Manifestation of Depression | Hudson Clinical CounselingTerry Real: Gender, Power and Relationships: The Crushing Effects of Patriarchy | Finding Brave with Kathy CaprinoThe Power of Partnership: Riane Eisler’s Gifts to the World Are Needed Now More Than Ever | MenAliveCarol Gilligan: Why I Changed My Mind on the Gender Binary | New StatesmanMasculinity: A Civilization at War With Itself | Imago Relationship TherapyWhy Do Trans Women Face So Much Violence? | American Civil Liberties UnionRLT Conference 2025Maasai in Tanzania | Minority Rights GroupMorani: The Warriorhood Tradition of the Kenyan Tribes | Dietmar Temps PhotographyThe Great Divide with Terry Real | Making Polyamory WorkTreating “The Untreatable”: How to Transform Narcissistic Relationships | Terry RealSHOW NOTES[00:00:00] Start.[00:05:51] The pumpernickel story.[00:09:44] Wise adult, wounded child, and adaptive child.[00:11:25] Relational mindfulness.[00:12:11] Remembering love.[00:13:29] Why do we remain loyal to bad relationships?[00:16:58] The RLT stance on taking a position as a therapist.[00:18:46] Objectivity battles.[00:24:11] Entering into compassionate curiosity about your partner’s subjective experience.[00:29:40] Normal marital hatred.[00:34:19] Taking the first steps toward repair.[00:37:03] Empathizing with someone whose reality doesn’t match yours.[00:39:45] Should you stay or should you go? Understanding relational reckoning.[00:43:41] Leveraging a resistant partner toward therapy.[00:46:03] The preconditions that must be addressed before RLT can be effective.[00:48:37] Understanding covert depression in men.[00:52:52] Determining underlying depression.[00:54:36] Favored modalities for working with trauma.[00:55:04] Parsing the patriarchy.[00:59:35] Taking care of your relationship’s biosphere without being codependent.[01:03:23] Terry’s prescription for overcoming my own faulty childhood templates.[01:07:05] Pondering gender expectations and expressions.[01:13:06] Were Terry’s distinctly different boys raised similarly?[01:15:05] A good Morani vs. a great Morani.[01:16:53] The greatest achievement of Terry’s life.[01:18:44] Advice for people who want to be better parents than the ones they had.[01:21:17] The typical format of Terry’s men’s group therapy.[01:23:56] Full-respect living, group guidelines, and boundaries.[01:25:07] Comparing and contrasting Relational Life Therapy (RLT) with Internal Family Systems (IFS).[01:27:54] Modern relationship challenges — from polyamory to monogamy.[01:29:53] The research is clear: Humans are born to be intimate.[01:32:16] Toxic femininity and the new world order.[01:34:40] Relational empowerment vs. individual empowerment.[01:35:45] One up, one down.[01:37:50] From grandiosity to baseline: Relational joy vs. gratification.[01:43:06] How to learn more about Terry’s work.[01:45:16] Recommended reading.[01:49:09] Terry’s billboard.[01:49:34] Parting thoughts.MORE TERRY REAL QUOTES FROM THE INTERVIEW“A boy’s question of the world is ‘What do you got for me?’ A man’s question of the world is ‘What’s needed here?'”
— Terry Real
“Family pathology rolls from generation to generation like a fire in the woods taking down everything in its path until one person in one generation has the courage to turn and face the flames. That person brings peace to their ancestors and spares the children that follow.”
— Terry Real
“Have the courage to move beyond the defaults you were handed, and do it with help.”
— Terry Real
“Part of the reason why we don’t change is we’re loyal to the relationships that we learn how to be screwed up in. And it feels odd. I say we’re immigrants. We leave the old country and the old people behind.”
— Terry Real
“Enter into compassionate curiosity about your partner’s subjective experience. They’re nuts? Okay, but find out what kind of nut they are.”
— Terry Real
“Repair is a one-way street. … If you have a disgruntled partner, you are at their service. … Somebody comes to the customer service window and says, ‘My microwave doesn’t work.’ They don’t want to hear you say, ‘Well, my toaster doesn’t work.’ They don’t want your excuses. Fix the goddamn microwave. … Put yourself aside and tend to them.”
— Terry Real
“Boys and men get depressed because of what I call normal boyhood trauma under patriarchy. We are taught at three, four, five years old to deny our vulnerability, to disconnect from our feelings, to disconnect from others, all in the name of autonomy. We cut off half of our humanity, the feelings, the vulnerability, connection, really, in some ways, the most rich, nourishing parts of what it means to be a human. And that cutoff, which is imposed on boys, that cutoff is traumatic. And it also renders you isolated and lonely. So there’s a lot of trauma. That trauma becomes depression, that depression becomes acting out or self-medication. And if you really want to heal someone, you hit all three layers. First the defenses, then the depression, then the childhood trauma.”
— Terry Real
“Moving men, women, non-binary folk into true intimacy is synonymous with moving them beyond traditional gender roles, beyond patriarchy. Men have to move into vulnerability and open their hearts. Women have to move into assertion with love — not with harshness, but with love. And doing that on both sides moves beyond anything that this culture teaches us. It’s pioneer work.”
— Terry Real
“It absolutely kills me when people describe my work as ‘Terry’s trying to feminize men.’ No, I want whole human beings. I want smart, sexy, competent women. I want powerful, big-hearted, compassionate men. We don’t need to halve ourselves in compliance to the world order. We can be whole.”
— Terry Real
“There’s a saying: ‘Therapists are people who need to be in therapy 40 hours a week.’ I became a professional therapist to heal myself and then I became a family therapist to learn how to have a relationship.”
— Terry Real
“Not being intimate is as bad for your body as smoking a pack and a half of cigarettes a day. This is hard, black and white research. We are born to be intimate. Moving beyond traditional gender roles is the only way to get there. So stop whining, stand up, and learn a few relational skills. It’s good for you, it’s good for your body, you’ll live longer, it’s good for your marriage, and it’s good for your children.”
— Terry Real
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May 8, 2025
“What might this look like if it were easy?” — A Conversation at Harvard Business School
Harvard Business School (HBS) reached out last year to create a case study on my entrepreneurial journey, which tracks me from childhood to the current day. The case study, titled “Tim Ferriss: What Might This Look Like If It Were Easy?” is roughly 40 pages, and you can buy it for $11.95 here. I don’t earn a penny. The whole experience culminated in two classes at HBS in Professor Satchu’s “Founder Mindset” course.
Following one of the classes, student Jay Bhandari interviewed me for the “Between Two Classes” series at The Harbus, a publication by Harvard Business School students, who kindly gave permission to share it with you here.
I hope you find something below useful.

In a Q&A with your fans, you talked about the value of identity diversification. This approach is antithetical to advice we often get to commit and focus on a domain. How do you reconcile those two competing philosophies?
I think they complement each other rather than compete. Identity diversification simply means cultivating multiple, independent areas of growth in your life where you can chart progress. This is engineered so that your self-worth isn’t entirely dependent on one thing, such as the regular ups and downs of your own startup. Being overinvested gets a lot of media play and X threads, but there’s a nasty survivorship bias at work. I’ve seen dozens of founders implode because their “startup as self-worth” metrics went sideways for a few months. I prefer an approach with more margin of safety, and it’s entirely compatible with domain mastery. For instance, you could very well spend 40 to 80 hours per week on your startup, but if you supplement that with indoor rock climbing, weight training, chess club, or something else that has its own metrics for growth, even if new regulations or a competitor tank your startup for a short stretch, you can still offset the blow with progress outside of the office. It’s cheap psychological insurance. I think of identity diversification as a huge competitive advantage in games that depend on endurance. At the highest levels, that’s pretty much everything. If Michael Jordan could afford to play copious amounts of golf and poker, you can afford to have side interests.
Is there anything about your life you wish you had focused on sooner? If you could spend time with 28-year-old you, what would you tell him?
To my younger self: meditate twice daily—10 minutes is plenty—and get accelerated TMS as soon as it’s ready for showtime. See my other answers for elaboration. I’d probably also share an embroidered quote I bought at a thrift shop in Marfa, Texas: “Today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.”
What do you think young ambitious people are over- and under-indexed on?
I think HBS students are over-indexed on buying the implicit investment banking and management consulting pitch of something like “get broad exposure to industries and then you can pick your lane and do anything!” If you’re non-technical and stay in either of those for more than a few years, the odds of you leaving to start your own startup (outside of finance or consulting) is roughly the same as the likelihood of a five- to 10-year entrepreneur joining investment banking or consulting. In other words, low. I’ve seen this play out 100+ times. Sure, there are some exceptions, but I wouldn’t bet on being one of them unless you’ve committed to an exit plan before you enter those games. And if you want to be an edge case, find and study at least five to 10 edge cases you could emulate before you accept the job. If you can’t find them, that tells you something.

Many in the HBS, Type-A crowd are no stranger to stress, anxiety, and depression. What are tips, mantras, and systems you’ve developed for managing your mental health when you’re actively in a dark place?
To be clear, I’m not a doctor and don’t play one on the internet. The “actively in a dark place” makes this a very dicey question. That said, having spent some time in dark places, especially in college, I’ll share a few things that I’ve seen work. Please do your own homework and speak with your medical professionals.
For acute suicidal ideation, I would call the 988 helpline first and potentially consider a series of ketamine infusions/injections per the protocols suggested by John Krystal, MD, professor of neuroscience at Yale University. Ketamine can be very addictive, and I’ve seen people unravel their lives with it, but in dangerous self-harm circumstances, it can be a life-saving intervention. It effectively pauses the incessant thought loops driving the desperation. For more of my thoughts on suicide, including my description of a close brush in 1999, read tim.blog/suicide.
If we’re talking about general prevention and self-care, I would highly suggest daily cold exposure (e.g., I do 3–5 minutes in a 40–45° F bath daily) and short meditation sessions 2x/daily (e.g., Transcendental Meditation for 20 minutes twice a day or The Way App with Henry Shukman for two 10-minute sessions). I typically meditate immediately upon waking and then again before dinner or bed. This is less than 30 minutes a day. Do your pre-hab, and you’ll need less rehab.
If you have a history of trauma, see tim.blog/trauma for a list of resources that I and designer Debbie Millman have found effective. Trigger warning: it’s not a fun read, but it might be helpful for some. Your mileage may vary.
For treatment-resistant depression, I would consider accelerated TMS (transcranial magnetic stimulation), à la the SAINT protocol co-developed by Dr. Nolan Williams at Stanford University. BrainsWay and MagVenture both make compelling devices with different approaches. I firmly believe TMS and other forms of brain stimulation can have near-immediate and durable effects that rival the effects of psychedelics in outcomes. I say that as someone who’s funded a lot of the science related to psychedelics since 2015 through my non-profit, Saisei Foundation.
Once legal, and assuming you have no family history of schizophrenia, borderline personality disorder, psychosis, etc., I might suggest investigating various psychedelic-assisted therapies for depression (e.g., psilocybin) on a once-annual cadence, but there are more known risks than with brain stimulation like TMS. For instance, and I’ve seen this firsthand, combining ayahuasca and SSRIs increases the risk of serotonin syndrome, which can be life-threatening in severe cases. Regard any of these compounds with the same respect you would treat major neurosurgery. For more education on the science, applications, and possible mechanisms of action, I suggest the research of Dr. Gül Dolen and Dr. Nolan Williams, as well as the Netflix miniseries based on Michael Pollan’s book of the same name, How to Change Your Mind. The MDMA and psilocybin/mushroom episodes are particularly strong.
Last but not least, don’t ignore diet. Read up on “metabolic psychiatry” and Dr. Chris Palmer, Assistant Professor of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. Ketosis and other interventions can produce nearly miraculous results for a number of psychiatric conditions, including those that are strongly contraindicated with psychedelics, like schizophrenia.
If you were starting over today in 2025 and were in your late twenties, what would you be doing?
I would be looking for fast-growing industries that are unsexy and under the radar, and I’d aim to join a startup of fewer than 100 people, where I’d be able to watch deal-makers making deals and making decisions. In contrast, if you’re trying to create an AI startup like everyone else, it’s going to be a crabs in a bucket scenario for 99% of the people involved. Sure, you might be the super crab 1%, but I generally prefer less crowded spaces, where you can typically get more regular interaction with the A+ players.
Let’s take luck out of the picture. What skills, habits, mantras, or areas of personal growth would you most attribute your success to?
Playing the long game and not being in a rush. I choose projects and a lot of investments based on the learning, skill development, and relationships that will transcend them. If you allow such things to snowball over time, eventually the critical mass makes success almost inevitable. This might sound hand-wavy, but you can approach it systematically. Go to tim.blog/mba or Google “Tim Ferriss real-world MBA” for some angel-investing examples of how I’ve applied this. This isn’t the only approach I’ve seen work for “success” (dangerous word, that!), but it seems replicable.
If you could put a message on a billboard that reaches HBS students, what would it be?
I would borrow from Dr. BJ Miller, a hospice physician who’s helped thousands of people to navigate death, whose answer was “Don’t believe everything that you think.”
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