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10 Signs of an Unhealthy Mother-Son Enmeshment

Can you ever be too close to your mother? Thinking back to when you were a child, did your mother rely on you for emotional support? Were you her favorite? Did she call you her best friend? Were you expected to take care of her? Families with a healthy dynamic have strong, but clearly defined […]

“I’m Just Joking”: 13 Things That Hide Behind It & 10 Powerful Comebacks

Sometimes a joke is just a joke, but often bullies will add, “I was just joking”. It’s quite an effective get-out clause. It implies you’re too sensitive and invalidates the hurt behind the message. If you know someone who repeatedly uses this phrase and you’re wondering if you can’t take a joke, check out the […]

How to Confuse a Narcissist: 6 Things to Do

Learning how to confuse a narcissist can give you back your freedom. However, this must be done carefully to avoid negative consequences. If you want to know how to confuse a narcissist, then listen up. The narcissist is already great at gaslighting, manipulation, and many other strategies. Therefore, you must be prepared to respond to […]

7 Things Narcissists Do When You Go No Contact (& How to Deal with Them)

Going no contact with narcissists is challenging. Narcissists either demand attention or crave validation, depending on their type, and if they lose you, they’ve lost their easiest supply of both. Narcissists invest enormous effort at the start of a relationship to hook you in, and they won’t let you slip away without a fight. So, […]

Visual Learning Style: 15 Signs You Have It & How to Use It to Your Advantage

The saying ‘A picture is worth a thousand words’ makes sense when a vast majority of all information processed by the brain is visual. Therefore, we can assume most of us have a visual learning style, but how can you tell? Think about the following scenario: you are in a big city and have to […]

8 Behaviors That Make Other People Lose Respect for You

Did you know that certain behaviors make people lose respect for you? It’s true. And sometimes we assume these actions are just normal. People lose respect for you more easily than you realize. While living your life and doing what makes you happy, sometimes you do small things that can make you seem inconsiderate and […]

15 Best Careers for Empaths Where They Can Use Their Powers

You might think it’s difficult for an empath to find suitable work, but there are plenty of careers for empaths, you just need to know how to maximize your strengths and take into account any weaknesses. For instance, empaths can be hypersensitive, easily overwhelmed, and have difficulty managing their emotions. However, they are also compassionate, […]

8 Phrases Narcissists Use to Make You Feel Like a Bad Person

There are phrases narcissists use that can make you feel bad about yourself. These aren’t always obvious statements either. Narcissists have the amazing ability to make you feel completely worthless if you let them. And what I mean by this is they are willing to reach for lower than normal depths of negativity to do […]

BPD vs Anxiety: 7 Key Differences & Why the Two Are Easy to Confuse

For adults raised in emotionally invalidating environments, Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can go unnoticed for years. Its symptoms may be confused with anxiety: racing thoughts, emotional overwhelm, and intense fears of being judged or left. But while they share a surface similarity, their roots and treatment differ significantly. Let’s take a look at the emotional […]

Why Do People Fall Out of Love? 8 Common Reasons, Backed by Psychology

It’s easy to fall in love. Whether it’s a witty remark, an intoxicating smell, a warm smile, a kind gesture: the tiniest of things can spark an attraction. But in the UK, 42% of all marriages end in divorce, and despite this number declining, it’s still high. So, why do people fall out of love? […]