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8 Benefits of Mature Pets

My first shepherd…still missing him.

This time of year, the holidays can prompt yearnings to adopt a new furry wonder. Nothing beats puppies and kittens for fun.

But November is ADOPT A SENIOR PET MONTH and senior citizen pets offer many advantages. Remember that small dogs and cats often live into their mid- to late-teens or early twenties, while larger dogs remain happy and vital at least a decade. Old fogey pets often have lots of love to share, so think about it. November is Adopt A Senior Pet Month.

A puddle of sunshine makes for great napping!

 

8 Benefits of Mature Pets

Less Initial Cost. A mature dog or cat has already been spayed or neutered, and had routine vaccinations. Puppies and kittens are magnets for trouble, and suffer more injuries through nonstop play and exploration than sedate older pets.

Predictable Health. By the time a dog or cat reaches mature status, health or behavior problems will be apparent. That helps adopters plan and provide ways to keep seniors happy and comfortable rather than being surprised by an unexpected issue. For instance, a Dachshund with a history of back problems can be offered steps and ramps to reach the sofa and a beloved owner’s lap. Even with a health challenge, old fogey pets make wonderful companions.

Known Personality. Puppies and kittens are works-in-progress and hard to predict adult personality. For instance, lap-snugglers as babies may snub cuddles once they grow up. But what you see is what you get with an adult pet. The senior dog or cat personality has been established, making it easier to match your perfect pet requirements. You can choose a dog-loving feline, an active rugged dog, or a pet willing to lap sit.

Already Trained. Older dogs often have already been trained basic obedience. They know how to “sit” and walk nicely on leash, for example.

More Polite. The mature dog has fewer urges to act like a juvenile delinquent. They may still have bursts of energy and enjoy playtime. But older dogs won’t be as likely to jump up, “hump” your leg, or knock down the kids trying to race them out the door. Mature felines won’t be as interested in using your head as a launch pad, or your pant leg as a moveable scratch post.

Fewer Behavior Problems. Puppies and kittens only learn by making mistakes. But a mature pet already knows the rules of the house. An older dog knows not to chew the TV remote or your shoes. She’s been housetrained and tells you when she needs to “go.” The mature kitty understands litter box etiquette, no longer climbs the Christmas tree, or swings from the drapes. He knows not to excavate the potted palm or play ping-pong with the parakeet.

Kid Friendly. Older pets that have been around babies, toddlers and young children already know how to interact. They can be a wonderful choice for a child’s first pet. Dogs especially may “adopt” your human baby, and shower the infant with attention, gentle play, and protective care. They put up with toddler tail tugs with a patient purr or doggy grin. Countless children have learned to walk while grasping the furry shoulder of a canine friend, or reaching out for that tempting feline tail. A mature pet can offer the child a special friend who listens but never tells secrets, a sympathetic purring or wagging presence that acts as a stabilizing influence. Older pets are less fragile than puppies and kittens and can teach responsibility and empathy for other living creatures.

Senior Citizen Friendly. Many older people have loved and lived with pets all their lives. But they may worry what might happen should they outlive a newly adopted puppy or kitten. A mature dog or cat offers just as much love but a more manageable number of years that can be more attractive to older owners. Mature cats and dogs have fewer energy needs—they won’t need owners to take them jogging when rolling a ball down the hallway will suffice. Older owners who have fragile skin can also choose mature pets already trained to be careful with claws and play bites. And the older dog—even if not leash trained—isn’t as able to drag the owner around.

 Dogs and cats don’t know they’re old. They only know they are loved. There are many advantages to adopting an “old fogey pet” and these special animal companions return your love in unexpected and glorious ways. And you can help your “golden oldie” live happy, healthy and enjoyable years as long as possible with helpful home care and veterinary help, outlined in my Aging Cat as well as in my Aging Dog books.

I love hearing from you, so please share comments and questions. Do you have an ASK AMY question you’d like answered? Do you have a new kitten and need answers? Stay up to date on all the latest just subscribe the blog, “like” me on Facebook, listen to the weekly radio show, check out weekly FREE PUPPY CARE newsletter, and sign up for Pet Peeves newsletter. Stay up to date with the latest book give aways and appearances related to my  THRILLERS WITH BITE!

Filed under: Cat Behavior & Care, Dog Training & Care Tagged: adopting senior pets, Amy Shojai, benefits of old pets, complete care for your aging cat, Complete Care for Your Aging Dog, www.amyshojai.com

Pet Net Adoption Event & Choosing The Purr-fect Cat

Once again, I’m participating in the Pet ‘Net Adoption Event 2012 running this whole week. This is the 5th anniversary event in which pet bloggers join together to promote good cat and dog care issues. But Petside.com is doing something extra-special. WIN $5000 FOR YOUR LOCAL ANIMAL SHELTER by clicking this Hub Link to browse all the other great blogger contributors, and enter your zip code. The winning shelter will be announced on Dec. 17. You can enter your zip code once per day, for the entire week.

“Can I go home with you, purrrrr-ty please?”

How do you choose the purr-fect cat when more than 40 cat breeds and ten times that number of “mixed” variations represent the feline nation? They all meow, hiss, and purr—more or less; they all sport fur coats, in some form or fashion; and like dogs, they ALL need time and attention. Equal time for the cats–here’s my super-secret-cat-tastic sure-fire way to find the kitty of your dreams!

Teach “liberation training” and your cat can safely see the world with you!

I can hear dog folks snickering, but it’s true. You get out of a cat relationship exactly what you put into it, and cats CAN be trained! My Seren will walk on a leash, come when called, sit up…well, she expects to get PAID of course, in treats and attention. And I’m glad to pay her. To promote the whole idea, there’s even a trained Maine Coon cat (Macy) who is a hero kitty and literally “nails” the bad guy in my pet thriller LOST AND FOUND. But training takes a bit of effort.

TIME CHECK: Allow at least an hour a day for basic training—teaching the cat her name, for example. Add another two hours daily for teaching claw etiquette, the rules of the house (staying OFF countertops), and bathroom manners. Kittens and cats learn toilet techniques very quickly, and done correctly you’ll not need much clean up time for any accidents. You can find out all the must-knows about kitten care and training in my Complete Kitten Care book.  Stay tuned, it will soon be available as an audio book, too.

Adopt a pair–they’ll keep each other entertained, like these Birman littermates. (Image Copr. Susanna Downer)

Sex and looks tend to be the first considerations for most folks. Felines range in size from the five-pound Singapura to the 20-plus pound Maine Coons and Ragdoll cats, and male kitties usually get bigger than the girl kitties.

Skin care is vital for hairless cats and they can get sunburned, too.

Coats vary from long and thick, to short and silky, curled, fluffy, or peach-fuzz bald. As a general rule, more fur means increased coat care. However, the Sphynx (bald) cat also requires sunscreen, and extra baths to fight oily skin secretions that stain upholstery. And remember, the Persian’s glorious coat requires daily attention, while any longhaired feline quickly turns into a matted mess without lots of work.

Depending on the breed, that means combing, brushing and/or bathing on a weekly (or oftener) schedule. Remember, grooming includes ear care, eye care, teeth cleaning, and claw trims. Hairless cats still require bath time. Yes, you CAN bathe a cat but if you don’t want to attempt such things, rethink your cat choice.

TIME CHECK: For grooming claws, ears, eyes and teeth allow for at least thirty minutes a week. And for longhair cats, add another half-hour grooming time each day.

“Can we come out to play?”

Cat breeds vary much less in activity levels, compared to dogs. But the high-energy felines challenge owners as much as their canine counterparts. These types include the Bengal, Abyssinian, Somali, the rex kitties, and any kitten younger than six months. They enjoy swinging from the drapes and emptying your sock drawer if not given something constructive to do.

TIME CHECK: For high energy cats, invest in two to three half hour sessions a day interacting with Sheba. Entertain her, or she’ll find something to amuse herself, such as knocking china off your mantel.

Anubis recommends mature kitties…cuz they’s wise. (Image Copr. Karyl Cunningham)

Old cats will be a known personality, already potty trained, and more predictable behaviors. You can tell immediately if she’s a lap snuggler or prefers window gazing, gets along well with kids and dogs, or fears strangers. Special needs cats that have lost a limb, are blind or deaf typically adjust readily to accommodations–such as simply not moving the furniture. Healthy adult cats can live into their late teens or early twenties so adopting older felines may offer you a decade or longer of grateful love! There are lots of easy home care tips in my Aging Cat book.

TIME CHECK: Cats of all types and ages still need healthy exercise to stay physically and emotionally balanced. Even old-fogie cats benefit from a minimum of 10-minute gentle exercise following a feather toy, for example.

Any size cat seems able to claim the lion’s share of the sofa, and demands pillow space—alternatively, sleeps on your head. Cats in multiples claim major bed space and may squabble over lap time.

TIME CHECK: Allow a minimum of thirty minutes daily ‘schmoozing’ time—that’s the nose-to-nose, cheek-rubbing, butt-scratching, sweet-purring, secret-sharing, quiet communing cat lovers do as a matter of course. The stronger the bond, the more time you spend schmoozing.



So far, our weekly cat time commitment conservatively totals 35-40 hours—multiplied by the number of cats you have. We often make do with less, and our cats suffer. Ignore Sheba and spend little time training and interacting, and you’ll end up with a cat who ignores you, has her way with the sofa, and sleeps her life away.

Therefore, my ultimate secret to obtaining the BEST cat ever: simply devote as much time to Sheba as you would for those things that matter most to you. As you teach, care for, and love her you will create the cat of your dreams!

Okay it’s your turn. How did you choose your furry wonder? What considerations were most important to you? Fur coat or color? Personality? Age? Breed? Please share in the comments and help others find the Cat-Of-Their-Dreams!

I love hearing from you, so please share comments and questions. Do you have an ASK AMY question you’d like answered? Do you have a new kitten and need answers? Stay up to date on all the latest just subscribe the blog, “like” me on Facebook, listen to the weekly radio show, check out weekly FREE PUPPY CARE newsletter, and sign up for Pet Peeves newsletter. Stay up to date with the latest book give aways and appearances related to my  THRILLERS WITH BITE!

Filed under: Cat Behavior & Care Tagged: adopting cats, adoption, Amy Shojai, cat training, cats, choosing cats, donation, kittens, pet net adoption event, shelters, tips for pet adoption, www.amyshojai.com

Pet Net Adoption Event & Choosing the Perfect Pooch

Once again, I’m participating in the Pet ‘Net Adoption Event 2012 running this whole week. This is the 5th anniversary event in which pet bloggers join together to promote good cat and dog care issues. But Petside.com is doing something extra-special. WIN $5000 FOR YOUR LOCAL ANIMAL SHELTER by clicking this Hub Link  to browse all the other great blogger contributors, and enter your zip code. The winning shelter will be announced on Dec. 17. You can enter your zip code once per day, for the entire week.

“I want THIS one!” (Image Copr. TBone Green Acres/Flickr)

Part of successful adoption is in the furry choices you make. Everyone has pet theories on choosing the perfect pooch for your family. I overhear conversations at the grocery, in restaurants, at the post office—everywhere. Folks expound on the “best” dog breed for a family, the “ideal” pup for your four-year-old daughter, and what’s perfect for you—and themselves—whether or not they’ve ever actually lived with that type of pet before. My turn. I’m ready to reveal trade secrets on choosing the perfect pooch.

“Get the leaves, get the leaves…where’s the leaves?” (Image Copr. Melissamethamphetimine/Flickr)

More than 400 dog breeds and ten times that number of “mutt” variations woof and cavort around the world. They all bark (sort of); they all have fur (more or less); and most important of all, they ALL need time and attention. Lots of it. Think of your very bright, high-energy, precocious four-year-old daughter again to guestimate the average attitude, attention span, and learning curve of any prospective pooch.

“Where’s the Great Pumpkin? Does he bring treats?” (Image Copr. RickieBPhotography/Flickr)

TIME CHECK: Allow at least an hour a day for basic training—teaching the dog his name, for example. Add another two hours daily for potty breaks and the clean up time for any accidents in a pup’s learning curve. Refer to 10 Top Tips for Your New Pup for more advice.

Looks and size tend to be the first considerations for most folks. All kinds of coiffures abound: long fur, silky hair, and curly coats vary from slick and short to fluffy and thick—or even bald. As a general rule, more fur means increased coat care. The Bichon Frise’s white powder puff good looks don’t magically appear, and the Afghan and Chow quickly turn into matted messes without lots of work.

Depending on the breed, that means combing and brushing, plucking, stripping, clipping, and/or bathing on a weekly (or oftener) schedule. Remember, grooming includes ear care, eye care, teeth cleaning, toenail trims and (ahem) anal gland expression. Don’t ask.

TIME CHECK: Add another one to two hours grooming time each week.

“Play play play run chew play chew chew run play play PLAY!!!”  (This is USCHI, the cover dog model on my thriller LOST AND FOUND, and already a titled tracking dog.)

These days I hear so much from folks (mostly dads) who feel they and the kids deserve an “active breed.” That would include big dogs such as Labs, German Shepherds and Goldens, and medium to smaller breeds like Border Collies and JRTs. Active breeds are great fun!—especially for gone-all-day-to-work folks willing and able to deal with furniture damage from bored doggy teeth.

TIME CHECK: Invest in two to three hours a day exercising Fido to protect the furniture. Alternatively, purchase a herd of sheep. The cost should be offset in what you save in lawn mower service.

Big dogs take up more space—expect a Greyhound to claim at least half of the sofa and nearly all of the bed. Small dogs in multiples also claim major bed space and multiple dogs may squabble over lap time.

TIME CHECK: Allow a minimum of thirty minutes daily ‘schmoozing’ time—that’s the nose-to-nose, tummy-rubbing, ear-scratching, treat-mooching, secret-sharing, quiet communing dog lovers do as a matter of course. The stronger the bond, the more time you spend schmoozing.

So far, our weekly pet time commitment totals 40 hours—that’s the conservative end—for any size, shape, or age dog. Of course, people (and sadly, their dogs) make do with less all the time.

“You are my perfect match!”

But my ultimate secret to obtaining the BEST dog ever: simply devote as much time to Fido as you would for those things that matter most to you. As you teach, care for, and love him you will create the dog of your dreams.

Or you could settle for a stuffed animal instead. But then you’d miss out on all that schmoozing—which is why we have dogs in the first place!

Okay it’s your turn. How did you choose your furry wonder? What considerations were most important to you? Size? Looks? Age? Breed? Please share in the comments and help others find the Dog-Of-Their-Dreams!  And don’t forget to SHARE THIS BLOG and the link for the $5000 donation to other pet lovers!

I love hearing from you, so please share comments and questions. Do you have an ASK AMY question you’d like answered? Do you have doggy behavior problems and need answers? Stay up to date on all the latest just subscribe the blog, “like” me on Facebook, listen to the weekly radio show, check out weekly FREE PUPPY CARE newsletter, and sign up for Pet Peeves newsletter. Stay up to date with the latest book give aways and appearances related to my  THRILLERS WITH BITE!

Filed under: Dog Training & Care Tagged: adopting dogs, Amy Shojai, choosing dogs, dog training, dogs, donations, pet net adoption event, puppies, shelters, tips for training puppies, www.amyshojai.com

Pet Proof Your Holidays

Holiday ribbons can be fun to play with–but dangerous if not supervised and eaten!

Holiday homes become pet playgrounds at this time of year. Thanksgiving weekend often is the time the Christmas tree goes up and cats delight in un-decking the halls and climbing the tree. Dogs eat decorations and baptize the tree. The result is a holiday season that’s anything but merry. Refer to these tips to keep your pets safe and your holiday happy.

Plants and Pets. Dogs and especially puppies chew nearly anything. Cats rarely eat plants, but they do claw them and then lick/groom away the residue. Beware of holiday floral arrangements that contain pet dangers. Lilies can cause kidney failure. Holly and live mistletoe cause nausea, vomiting, diarrhea and lethargy if ingested by your pet. Poinsettias are NOT deadly but can cause nausea and/or mild vomiting.

Choose pet-safe plants and set them out of paw-reach. Or consider using silk or plastic holiday plants make an equally showy statement without the poison potential.

Fire Hazards. Fireplaces offer extra warmth and atmosphere to holiday gatherings, but can prompt singed whiskers or burned paws. Candles prove irresistible especially for kittens who paw-test everything to see what it is, or meet it head-on to sniff and explore. That’s not just painful for pets, it’s a fire hazard for your entire family should Fluffy knock over the Menorah.

Instead, electric candles are available for decorating purposes. If you must have the real thing, ensure pets are safely out of the way and candles out of paw-reach. Be sure the fireplace screen is secured against curious pets, too.

Toxic Treats. Gobbling any sort of candy may cause vomiting and/or diarrhea, but chocolate poses special dangers. Too much chocolate, which contains a stimulant called theobromine, can kill your pet. Keep holiday candy out of reach, in latched cupboards, to keep your canine glutton from over-indulging.

Flavored aluminum foil, grease-smeared turkey strings, and cellophane candy wrappers can be dangerous to pets if swallowed—dogs and cats rarely unwrap treats before eating. Eating raw yeast bread dough also causes problems when the dough rises in the tummy.

Christmas Tree Tips. Cats consider the tree a feline jungle gym with cat toys that swing, sparkle, and invite paw-pats and biting. Some dogs take “aim” at the tree just as they would your outside shrubs and baptize the greenery. Drinking from treated water in the base can poison pets. Eating tinsel and ornaments can prove deadly, and dogs often chew through electric cords with shocking results.

Smaller trees can be set on table tops, inside of baby play pens, or in a room protected by a baby gate. Situate breakable and dangerous decorations on the top of the tree out of reach of inquisitive pets.
Make the area around the tree unattractive to keep paws at bay. Clear plastic carpet protectors and place under the tree—nub side up. That makes cruising or lounging under the tree uncomfortable. The soft “tacky mats” available from home product stores designed to keep throw rugs from sliding around work well to keep small pets away because they dislike walking on sticky surfaces.
Use your pet’s smell sense to keep her away from the tree. Citrus scents are off-putting to cats so scatter orange or lemon peels (or potpourri) around the base of the tree. Vicks (menthol smell) also works as a good pet repellent. Dip cotton balls in the ointment and stick in the lower branches of your tree. They’ll look a bit like snow and blend in with the rest of the decorations.
Create a “pet safe” tree decorated with dog toys and catnip mice. Place these within paw reach on lower branches and reserve the off limits decorations for the top of the tree.

Offer the fur-kids some cheap thrills under the tree with dog chew toys or catnip mice for legal playtime. Boxes, bags, crinkled wrapping paper and used ribbons offer fun hideouts, paper to shred and chase—for more fun AFTER you’ve opened your holiday gifts.

How do you keep your cats out of the tree, and your dog from leg-lifting on the boughs? Any tips? Any funny stories to share? I think we’ve all THOUGHT we were prepared but then the pet got creative despite our best efforts.

ENTER the Lost And Found Book Basket Give-Away, deadline November 25, for your chance to win a pet-centric basket of goodies and paw-tographed copy of the book!

I love hearing from you, so please share comments and questions. Do you have an ASK AMY question you’d like answered? Do you have a new kitten and need answers? Stay up to date on all the latest just subscribe the blog, “like” me on Facebook, listen to the weekly radio show, check out weekly FREE PUPPY CARE newsletter, and sign up for Pet Peeves newsletter. Stay up to date with the latest book give aways and appearances related to my  THRILLERS WITH BITE!

Filed under: Cat Behavior & Care, Dog Training & Care Tagged: Amy Shojai, christmas trees and cats, holiday pets, pet proof for holidays, www.amyshojai.com

Thanksgiving the Pet Writer Way

Happy  Thanksgiving! It’s time once again to count my furry blessings. I don’t do that often enough.

I’m thankful to be home with my family—furry and human—rather than on the bumpy road and bumpier plane. I’m thankful my human family, though miles away, remain close-knit and loving. And I’m thankful all remain healthy.

I’m thankful for veterinarians who make life better for the pets we adore. I’m thankful for researchers who work to find diagnoses, treatments, and cures for our ailments, both for pets and for people. I’m thankful for the animal welfare volunteers who do the work of the angels when others somehow let pets down.

I’m thankful that I have the best job in the world, sharing information about the cats and dogs that have become so important to our emotional and physical health. I’m thankful for publishers, editors, magazines, newspapers, TV and radio shows, websites, bloggers and email lists that share these important resources to benefit cats and dogs and the people who love them. And I’m thankful to writing organizations, teachers, agents and all those who promote the craft of good communication and help others pursue this rewarding craft.

Seren still has to have the last word.

I’m thankful that I found a dumped kitten sixteen years ago and brought her into my home and heart. I’m thankful that Seren-kitty still acts like a kitten and stays so healthy. I’m sure my veterinarian also is thankful Seren remains spry, since she is not a happy patient and the clinic staff likes to keep their fingers intact. I’m thankful Seren only rarely presents a hairball “gift” and that I’ve not found it barefooted at 3 a.m. for many months. I’m thankful she’s given up playing “gravity experiments” with my fine breakables, and has decided my lap is a very-good-cat-place. I’m also thankful that she’s accepted the Magical-Dawg is here to stay, and even allows him within sniffing range now and then. (gasp!)

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My, how Magic has changed…here at 17 days old.

I’m thankful for responsible breeders who ensure purebred dogs and pedigreed cats have a healthy paw-start in life. I’m thankful that Magical-dawg at age six has become a bit…just a bit…less driven. I’m thankful for water hoses, and tennis balls, stuffed teddy bears and Frisbees that wear Magic out without exhausting me at the same time. I’m thankful my roughneck dawg recovered from his mystery medical issue this year. I’m thankful Magic is smart, funny, a comedian, and a wonder to train—and doesn’t argue but has accepted that the cat is the boss of him. And I’m thankful that these furry muses inspire me daily with their presence.

I’m thankful that although he never grew up with pets, my husband loves Seren-kitty and Magic-dawg as much as I do. I’m even more thankful they adore him back (that could get awkward!).

I’m thankful for my church family—pet lovers or not—who also support my furry notions. I’m particularly thankful to the Cuchara Gang (you know who you are) who lift me up with friendship and love. I’m thankful for the gift of music I get to share with colleague musicians who have become wonderful friends, and especially thankful for my partner-in-play-writing-crime who helped make our theatrical dreams come true this past year when life threw us some Kurves.

Finally, I’m thankful to you—yes, those who read this blog, the folks who have “adopted” my new thriller, those who offered awesome applause and support me in so many  ways.

Without you, I would not have a career, and my life’s passion would remain unfulfilled.

Without you, your pets wouldn’t have the wonderful love and care you provide.

Without you, there wouldn’t be any reason for this heartfelt—THANK YOU!

I love hearing from you, so please share comments and questions. Do you have an ASK AMY question you’d like answered? Do you have a new kitten and need answers? Stay up to date on all the latest just subscribe the blog, “like” me on Facebook, listen to the weekly radio show, check out weekly FREE PUPPY CARE newsletter, and sign up for Pet Peeves newsletter. Stay up to date with the latest book give aways and appearances related to my  THRILLERS WITH BITE!

Filed under: Cat Behavior & Care, Dog Training & Care, Theater & Performance, Writing Advice & More Tagged: Amy Shojai, giving thanks, pet writer, pets, Thanksgiving, writing, www.shojai.com

Holiday Pet Visits

Basset pups share a hammock–is there room for another visitor? Image Copr. EsaGirl/Flickr

Are pet holiday visits in your travel plans? Family gatherings are a big part of the holidays, and pets double the fun—and the stress. Cats hate strange environments, so a pet sitter is the best choice for kitty. But dogs love new places, and you’ll save boarding cost by taking him along for the ride. Besides, pets are part of the family, so we want to share our furry loves with relatives.

But when your King meets Grandma’s Sheba for the first time, how do you keep the fur from flying? How would you like a stranger sleeping in your bed, eating from your plate, or (ahem) using your toilet? Pet introductions can take days, weeks, or sometimes months to be successful, so don’t expect overnight miracles. Follow these 10 tips to keep the pets happy and safe, and stay on speaking terms with your relatives.

The Resident Pet “owns” the house and yard. Therefore, give him continued access to his territory.
Confine the Guest Pet in one room. Provide familiar bowls, beds, litter pans, and toys in the room where the owner sleeps. The owner scent helps keep the Guest Pet calm even when he’s alone, and confinement provides a familiar home base where he’s safe from the Resident Pet. Confining him behind a closed door also tells the Resident Pet that only part of her territory has been invaded.
Create good associations. Feed the pets on opposite sides of the closed door, or offer favorite toys or games. This helps each identify the other pet’s presence with “good stuff” and helps relieve tension.
Use baby gates. The see-through barrier allows the Guest Pet to be part of the gathering without trespassing on the Resident Pet’s turf. A baby gate also gives curious, friendly pets (especially dogs) a safe way to meet. Moveable baby gates can divide a hallway or stairs to segregate whole sections of the house when necessary.
Leash the guest dog. This keeps him under control around the resident pet. That’s especially important with a resident cat.
“Potty” dogs separately. Distract the Resident Dog with treats or a game out of sight when the Guest Dog must leave his room.
Supervise yard interactions. Once dogs experience friendly meetings through the door for a couple of days (no growls, or elevated fur—whines are okay), a nose-to-nose play meeting is possible. Be sure each dog’s owner is present.
Leash both dogs. Bring the Resident Dog out first because he “owns” the yard. Remove any toys, bones or other resources they might argue over.
Walk the leashed dogs parallel to each other on opposite sides of the yard, back and forth, slowly bringing them closer. Stop if you see tucked tail, growls, or fluffed fur—they aren’t ready to play. Play bows (“elevator butt” posture) buy the dogs a 5-10 minute off-leash game before separating them. Play time can be extended if they do well.
Don’t force interactions. When an adult kitty visits, she’ll be happy to stay in the room and wait for your visits. A resident cat also may simply disappear to a safe place in the house to avoid contact with strangers (human or furred). Visiting kittens may be fearless–but also remember what potential “bugs” they may transmit before fully vaccinated so take care. Separation usually is best.

It’s hard to predict first meetings. You don’t love everyone you meet—(especially weird Cousin Cylene!) so why should your pets be any different? If pets will only be together a few days, aim for management or tolerance. There will be time enough over future visits for pet-to-pet love to blossom. You can find detailed tips in the book ComPETability: Solving Behavior Problems In Your Dog-Cat Household.

How have you managed visiting with pets–or visitors who bring pets? Had some success? What worked–and what didn’t work? Please share your experiences. Would you welcome them into your home again? Why/why not?

ENTER the Lost And Found Book Basket Give-Away, deadline November 25, for your chance to win a pet-centric basket of goodies and paw-tographed copy of the book!

I love hearing from you, so please share comments and questions. Do you have an ASK AMY question you’d like answered? Do you have a new kitten and need answers? Stay up to date on all the latest just subscribe the blog, “like” me on Facebook, listen to the weekly radio show, check out weekly FREE PUPPY CARE newsletter, and sign up for Pet Peeves newsletter. Stay up to date with the latest book give aways and appearances related to my  THRILLERS WITH BITE!

Filed under: Cat Behavior & Care, Dog Training & Care Tagged: Amy Shojai, ComPETability books, how to introduce dogs, introduce cats, introduce dogs, Thanksgiving pets, vacation with pets, www.amyshojai.com

Monday Mentions: Author Hate, Furry Love & Thanks

Hey, it’s Thanksgiving week, and I’m up to my furry chin in to-do lists. The next two weeks will be crazy-busy for me and probably for y’all, too. I just uploaded my first audio book along with updated (in color) photos on the Kindle version of Complete Kitten Care because I wanted the SQUEEE! kitten pictures to be available with the newest Kindle Fire versions et al. I’ll let you know when the audio book becomes available at Audible.com–I’m told that will be in two to three weeks.

I have some fun blogs planned this week for Woof Wednesday (taking your doggy to visit relatives–what to do & what NOT to do), and Furry Friday (holiday safety including Christmas tree tips for pet lovers). I’ve tried to put together some posts ahead of time to clear my schedule to record the AUDIO BOOK VERSION of my thriller Lost And Found.  THANK YOU so much to everyone who has “adopted” my debut thriller and posted such glowing reviews. Nearly 250 readers have also added the book to their “to-read” list. Paws crossed they enjoy reading it as much as I did writing the story. Oh, and that’s another reason for blogging ahead–I simply must get started writing the next September and Shadow book. HINT: I’m listening to readers’ comments and suggestions so the next book also hits a furry home run.

Monday Mentions is the mash-up-day of all the neato-torpedo writer links and videos, pet schtuff and bling and writer-icity crappiocca collected over the past week.  Enjoy! And please have a safe, happy and blessed Thanksgiving holiday.

WRITER-CITY SCHTUFF

Why Publishers Hate Authors an entertaining and enlightening read from Author Beware

Sleuthfest Saturday in February time to start planning your 2013 events calendar and this one looks like a winner

Romance Novel Convention looks like another good option in August 2013

On Turning DOWN a Pub Contract food for thought

Creative QR Codes–Make ‘Em Work for You

Getting More “Likes” and “Follows”

Debut Novel Success, A Case Study this is fascinating, authors will want to read this one

NaNoWriMo Tips from Jenny Hansen (you’ll want to follow this blog, trust me!)

Blogger/Brand Relations notes from BarkWorld by paw-some pet blogger and social media maven Dr Lorie Huston

EBook Promotions 101 from Gordon Kessler, lots of terrific info here.

Revolutionary Characters, an awesome post from Kristen Nador

Amazon Reviews–The Good, The Bad, The Clueless? another discussion of the review removal situation

Giving the Gift of Ebooks–with Livrada a new way of doing things

Crazy Writers & Creativity

Pinterest Promo Tips for Writers

PET SCHTUFF

9 Common Buggy Myths a great list and info for pet lovers from one of my fav bloggers Pet Health Gazette

Hank The Cat Got 6000 Votes in the recent senate race…now that’s one cool kitty!

a list from history, fun stuff

What Dogs Want in a Toy boy did they nail this one! Magical-dawg could have written this!

Don’t forget to ENTER the Lost And Found Book Basket Give-Away, deadline November 25, for your chance to win a pet-centric basket of goodies and paw-tographed copy of the thriller book!

I love hearing from you, so please share comments and questions. Do you have an ASK AMY question you’d like answered? Do you have a new kitten and need answers? Stay up to date on all the latest just subscribe the blog, “like” me on Facebook, listen to the weekly radio show, check out weekly FREE PUPPY CARE newsletter, and sign up for Pet Peeves newsletter. Stay up to date with the latest book give aways and appearances related to my  THRILLERS WITH BITE!

Filed under: Cat Behavior & Care, Dog Training & Care, Writing Advice & More Tagged: Amy Shojai, cat behavior, cat care, Complete Kitten Care, dog care, dog training, writing advice, www.amyshojai.com

Caring For Your Aging Cat: 9 Common Conditions & What To Do

Seren “mostly” acts mature now–but every so often she forgets herself and zoooooooms just like in her younger days.

Do you share your heart with an aging cat? You’re not alone. Half of all pet owners today have an animal aged seven or older. Modern veterinary care means cats often live into their late teens or early twenties. That’s a GREAT argument for adopting a mature feline this month during Adopt A Senior Pet Month. But living longer increases the chance they’ll develop common “old cat” conditions. That’s why I wrote the book Complete Care for Your Aging Cat because medical help is important–but the book also explains how you can keep your old-timer happy and healthy.

My, how you’ve grown! Seren at just under 5 months having just had her tummy-tuck (spay) surgery.

My Seren-kitty not only inspired the kitten book when she was a take-no-prisoners baby, she also inspired the aging cat book–and Seren inspires me every day when my own creaky joints act up. Getting older is NOT for weenies, but it’s not a sentence for chaining yourself (or your cat) to a rocking chair. Here are some simple and/or inexpensive ways from the book that owners can help keep an aging cat happy and healthy.

About 75 percent of senior cats have arthritis. When creaky joints hurt, she can’t perform cat-yoga stretches to groom herself and may become matted. Place kitty’s bed under a lamp for soothing heat to loosen up creaky joints. Gentle massage works well, and over-the-counter supplements such as omega-3 fatty acids and glucosamine-type products also help.
Does the water bowl run dry? Does your cat urinate a lot? Diabetes could be an issue. High protein diets can reverse diabetes in some cats—your vet will determine this. Meanwhile, add litter boxes on each floor and both ends of the house so kitty has quick access to the facilities.
Old cats often get fat, which aggravates arthritis and can lead to obesity. Slim tubby tabbies by setting the food bowl on top of a cat tree so she must move to eat. And place a portion of her meal inside a puzzle toy so she must “hunt” to shake out the food.
Deaf cats often become more vocal and “holler” from the next room when they can’t hear you. Use vibration or visual cues to alert your deaf pet to your presence. Stomp your foot when you enter the room, for example, or flick lights on and off to avoid startling the cat.
With age, cats lose their sense of smell so that food is less appealing and they snub the bowl. Heat makes odors more pungent. Zapping the food in the microwave for 10 seconds may be all that’s necessary to stimulate a flagging appetite.
Constipation develops when the cat’s digestion doesn’t “move” as well as in youth. Added fiber can promote regularity. Many cats love the flavor of canned pumpkin, a natural high fiber treat. Buy a large can, and divide into single servings in ice cube trays, and freeze—then thaw just what you need. Once or twice a week should be enough to keep kitty regular.
Seventy-five percent of cats have dental problems by age two, and the risk increases 20 percent for each year of your cat’s life. Commercial “dental diets” can be helpful, as can chicken or malt-flavored pet toothpaste. Offer a taste of toothpaste as a treat—the enzyme action breaks down plaque even if kitty won’t let you brush her teeth. Also, entice your cat to chew by offering thumb-size hunks of cooked steak. For toothless cats that have trouble eating dry foods, run small amounts of dry food in the blender with low-salt chicken broth for a softer alternative.
Blind cats adjust so well and the loss is so gradual that you may not notice a problem—until you rearrange the furniture. So status quo your décor to help your cat can remember a mental map of the household. Place baby gates at stairs or other danger zones to protect blind cats from a misstep. Offer fair warning with sound cues about your location to prevent startling the blind cat. Scent can help identify important landmarks for the cat. Try dabbing a bit of mint on wall corners or tying catnip toys to furniture. “Bell” the other pets so the blind cat knows they’re near.
Senility—yes, cats can get kitty Alzheimer’s, especially those over 14 years. These felines become confused, forget where to potty, cry, and may not recognize you. It’s heartbreaking for pets and owners alike. The drug Anipryl from your vet temporarily reverses signs in a percentage of cats, but the supplement Cholodin FEL also works pretty well. Delay the onset of senility in all cats by exercising the feline brain with play, games and puzzles.

What are some other “home care” tips that have worked well for YOUR “golden oldie” kitty? Have you discovered some awesome care product that makes life easier for you, and more comfy for your pet? What are the “old cat” issues that you deal with? Please share!

I love hearing from you, so please share comments and questions. Do you have an ASK AMY question you’d like answered? Do you have a new kitten and need answers? Stay up to date on all the latest just subscribe the blog, “like” me on Facebook, listen to the weekly radio show, check out weekly FREE PUPPY CARE newsletter, and sign up for Pet Peeves newsletter. Stay up to date with the latest book give aways and appearances related to my  THRILLERS WITH BITE!

Filed under: Cat Behavior & Care Tagged: aging cat, Amy Shojai, cat arthritis, cat blindness, cat obesity, complete care for your aging cat, senior pets, vacation, www.amyshojai.com

Caring For Your Aging Dog – 8 Common Conditions You Should Know

Pete the senior boxer takes kitten socialization duties very seriously. (Image Copr. Tonya Jensen)

When November rolls around each year we take time to celebrate the many blessings we’ve enjoyed. Pet people of course give thanks for their animal companions, and November traditionally is Adopt A Senior Pet Month.

Do you love a senior citizen canine? Join the crowd! Fifty percent of owners share their heart with pets aged seven or older. Modern veterinary care helps many dogs stay healthy a decade or more, and Toy dogs sometimes double that and age gracefully well into their twenties. A longer life increases the odds dogs develop “old fogie” problems, though. That’s why I wrote the book Complete Care for Your Aging Dog because medical help is important–but the book also explains how you can keep your old-timer happy and healthy.

Heck, I am so much a believer in the fact that senior dogs can still have fun and remain engaged in life, that Bruno (a senior citizen tracking dog) plays a featured role in my thriller LOST AND FOUND. Here’s a quick sample of some of the simple and/or inexpensive tips for dealing with these 8 common aging dog issues.

Arthritis can affect all dogs but large breeds are most prone. Extra weight puts greater stress on the joints. Achy joints cause limping, difficulty climbing stairs or getting up after naps. A heating pad placed under the dog’s bed soothes creaky joints. Gentle massage as well as OTC supplements such as omega-3 fatty acids and glucosamine-type products also helps. Low impact exercise—walks or swimming—and slimming down pudgy pooches delays problems. Provide steps—even a cardboard box—to help old dogs navigate stairs or hop onto the sofa.
Dogs suffer from cataracts more than any other species, but blindness rarely slows them down. They compensate by relying more on sense of smell and hearing. Owners may not notice vision loss unless the dog visits unfamiliar surroundings. Avoid rearranging furniture so blind dogs can rely on their memory of familiar landmarks. Baby gates placed near stairs protect blind dogs from falling. Avoid startling blind dogs by announcing your presence before walking near or petting. Blind dogs enjoy games with noisy toys they can hear, or hide-and-seek with strong scented objects.
Constipation affects many old dogs. When they stop moving on the outside, the inside movement slows down, too. A treat of a half cup milk, or 1 to 3 teaspoons of nonflavored Metamucil twice a day (depending on size of the dog), or high fiber foods like raw carrot or canned pumpkin help keep things moving. Most dogs like the taste of pumpkin or squash.
Is he ignoring your commands? Sleeping too much? He could be deaf. Hearing naturally fades with age, but you can compensate by using vibration and hand signals. Stomp your foot to get his attention. Then use a flashlight switched on/off to call him inside, or the porch light to signal dinner is served. Vibrating collars also work well to communicate with deaf dogs.
Eighty percent of dogs have dental problems by age three, and the risk increases 20 percent for each year of the dog’s life. Enzymes in special “dental diets” and meat-flavored pet tooth paste helps break down plaque. Offer dental chews, rawhides, a chew-rope covered with dog toothpaste, or even apples and carrots for healthy tooth-cleaning chews.
Does she leave a wet spot where she sleeps? Incontinence refers to loss of bladder tone, and it mostly affects old lady spayed dogs. Prescription drugs may help, but management is equally important. Increase her potty breaks, and pick up water bowls two hours before bedtime. Toddler “pull up” pants work for some dogs or choose doggy diapers to help contain the urine.
Forty to 50 percent of dogs aged five to twelve are overweight. Obesity often affects aging dogs because they exercise less but eat the same amount. Extra weight makes arthritis worse. Feed smaller meals inside puzzle toys so that the dog takes longer to eat and feels more satisfied as she works to earn her kibble.
Thirty percent of dogs aged 11 to 12 show one or more signs of senility—canine Alzheimer’s. Affected dogs act confused, forget to ask to go outside, cry, and may not recognize you. This heartbreaking condition often causes owners to put dogs to sleep when symptoms develop. A prescription of Anipryl from your vet temporarily reverses signs in about 30-60 percent of dogs, but the supplement Cholodin also works pretty well. Two commercial foods (Hill’s Prescription b/d, and Purina Pro Plan Senior 7+ Original) also reverse signs for a while in some dogs. The saying “use it or lose it” also applies to dogs, so delay the onset of senility by exercising the doggy brain with obedience drills, interactive play, and puzzles.

What are some other “home care” tips that have worked well for YOUR “golden oldie” dog? Have you discovered some awesome care product that makes life easier for you, and more comfy for your pet? What are the “old dog” issues that you deal with? Please share!

I love hearing from you, so please share comments and questions. Do you have an ASK AMY question you’d like answered? Do you have a new kitten and need answers? Stay up to date on all the latest just subscribe the blog, “like” me on Facebook, listen to the weekly radio show, check out weekly FREE PUPPY CARE newsletter, and sign up for Pet Peeves newsletter. Stay up to date with the latest book give aways and appearances related to my  THRILLERS WITH BITE!

Filed under: Dog Training & Care Tagged: adopt a senior pet month, Amy Shojai, caring for your aging dog, common old dog health problems, Complete Care for Your Aging Dog, Lost And Found, old dog and kitten, old dogs, Tonya Jensen, www.amyshojai.com

Monday Mentions: Botox Murder, Book Baskets & Veteran’s Day Reunions

Paw-tographed copies of LOST & FOUND, PET CARE IN THE NEW CENTURY plus bunches of dog-centric toys, products and assorted schtuff.

The past week I’ve spent sharing both dog viewpoint excerpts and cat-centric samples from the thriller LOST AND FOUND on the blog to promote an awesome book basket give-away (in the pictures). I have to tell you, the Magical-Dawg and Seren-Kitty were quite distressed to see me pillaging their supplies–but they’ll get over it. The give-away runs through November 25th and you can learn more and sign up here for you chance to win your choice!

Paw-tographed copies of LOST & FOUND, COMPLETE CARE FOR YOUR AGING CAT plus bunches of cat-centric toys, products and assorted schtuff.

Did you know that November is National Adopt A Senior Pet Month? Stay tuned, the next few blogs will offer some tips on how to keep your fur-kids happy, healthy and youthful throughout their golden years. For cat folks, there’s a good article in the links, below, on kitty arthritis you’ll want to check out.

Monday Mentions is the mash-up-day of all the neato-torpedo writer links and videos, pet schtuff and bling and writer-icity crappiocca collected over the past week.  Be sure to check out two awesome videos–first, a neat discussion of extroverts vs introverts (which are you?). And next a short but very powerful video I think is very appropriate for pet lovers on Veteran’s Day.

WRITER-ICITY SCHTUFF

Self Publishers Saving the Industry?  see what David Gaughran has to say.

Promo Ideas for the holiday season

JA Konrath on Deleted Amazon Reviews hooo boy…

10 Famous Authors & Their Fav Recipes a fun article for foodies and readers

Penguin-Random House Merger what Author’s Guild says, via Author Beware blog

Writing By Hand Spurs Creativity? interesting discussion re: typing vs writing

Is Your Book “Free?” Post It Here a list of several good options, as well as why some Free Sites are getting the cold shoulder from Amazon

Redirect PlugIn my friend and brilliant thriller author Diane Capri pointed me to this–after changing book titles if you need new linkage, this will help!

PET SCHTUFF

Feline Arthritis Info since November is Adopt A Senior Pet Month…how timely!

Blogpaws Twitter Paw-ty this Tuesday, check it out! If you write about critters, you need to learn about this group. Check out these twitter tips for pet lovers (and others) from the awesome Cokie Cat

Westchester Cat Show this is a lovely event if you’re in White Plains check it out.

DYI Doggy Nail File teach Fido to do his own nails, this is awesome

MISC. SCHTUFF

ASCAP Helps Hurricane Vics

Amy Interviewed About KURVES, THE MUSICAL! how cool is that? by my ‘home’ community theater peeps from Indiana. Hey if you know anyone interested in producing the show…send ‘em my way.

Facebook Format Changes–Again? well maybe

How To Spot A Liar good for your writing…and real life!

Botox As Murder Weapon why didn’t I think of that? From DP Lyle’s great blog

I love hearing from you, so please share comments and questions. Do you have an ASK AMY question you’d like answered? Do you have a new kitten and need answers? Stay up to date on all the latest just subscribe the blog, “like” me on Facebook, listen to the weekly radio show, check out weekly FREE PUPPY CARE newsletter, and sign up for Pet Peeves newsletter. Stay up to date with the latest book give aways and appearances related to my  THRILLERS WITH BITE!

Filed under: Cat Behavior & Care, Dog Training & Care, Theater & Performance, Writing Advice & More Tagged: Amy Shojai, Kurves, Lost And Found, pet behavior, pet care, theater, Thrillers, writing advice, www.amyshojai.com