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February 11, 2020

The Quitter

I let my daughter do that thing that I swore I WOULDN’T do. Hot tip to younger parents- promise nothing- you’re going to spend a lot of time eating so many of vows. I let her quit piano. After years of playing while visibly and vocally and powerfully sharing her displeasure with everyone in the...


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Published on February 11, 2020 11:15

February 10, 2020

Clear vision, rose-colored glasses, and hate versus love

Fluorescent lights don’t impede my vision, but they impact my brain, so I gear up against them: Clear trifocals off, rose-tinted trifocals on. Dark UV sunglasses wrap around peripheral exposure. Sun visor, pulled low over glasses, covers the gap at my eyebrows. I’m vain enough to realize I look ridiculous putting these on to leave...


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Published on February 10, 2020 03:28

February 8, 2020

Talking to Yourself

At 6PM on a Wednesday in the middle of winter, I sat in a corner booth waiting until a class with friends would start. Arriving too early to go to the meeting place, and too late to go home and then back again, I opted for a coffee shop. It was warm, had Wi-Fi, and...


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Published on February 08, 2020 17:16

January 29, 2020

Segullah Podcast “WORDS FALL IN” with Ilima Todd

Stop the clocks! I decided it was time to interview a novelist on our podcast and I found a great interviewee in Ilima Todd. Ilima Todd never wanted to be a writer (she was a physicist), but one day decided she would like to try. Lots of practice later, her novel Remake was published. Later,...


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Published on January 29, 2020 22:54

January 27, 2020

Ready or Not

I recently had to place a child. In an effort to avoid moving this child to our large shelter, I scrambled to find a family that could welcome this little one in a matter of days. Getting the list of approved families, I began reading home studies, consulting with the placement committee, and making calls....


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Published on January 27, 2020 06:00

January 20, 2020

Resolution Evolution

I gave up making resolutions years ago. I abandoned the practice for several reasons. Naturally, I end up breaking my resolutions fairly quickly, which led to shame, discouragement, and a frenzied feeding of my vices. Like Paul, I am grossly disappointed in my ability to keep my resolutions. He describes his wrestle between virtue and...


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Published on January 20, 2020 12:31

January 10, 2020

Great Expectations!

As I write this, my wonderful, talented, intelligent, industrious daughter-in-law has started contractions for her second son. She’s in DC, and I am in the snowy hinterlands of Utah. I’ll head out in a couple weeks to lay eyes and hands on the new little fellow and the rest of the family. I hope Heather...


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Published on January 10, 2020 03:31

January 9, 2020

Great Expectations!

As I write this, my wonderful, talented, intelligent, industrious daughter-in-law has started contractions for her second son. She’s in DC, and I am in the snowy hinterlands of Utah. I’ll head out in a couple weeks to lay eyes and hands on the new little fellow and the rest of the family. I hope Heather...


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Published on January 09, 2020 21:31

January 8, 2020

Savoury and Sharp

Life at the university has picked back up again. This week I’ve been flailing under an avalanche of sticky notes and emails and phone calls asking me to rearrange classes, times, locations, lunch menus, and acoustic panels. (I also had to deal with an unfortunate situation I’m calling, “Christmas Tree, Over and Over Again.” I...


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Published on January 08, 2020 18:40

Savoury and Sharp

Life at the university has picked back up again. This week I’ve been flailing under an avalanche of sticky notes and emails and phone calls asking me to rearrange classes, times, locations, lunch menus, and acoustic panels. (I also had to deal with an unfortunate situation I’m calling, “Christmas Tree, Over and Over Again.” I...


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Published on January 08, 2020 12:40