Katrina L. Burchett's Blog, page 2
April 28, 2011
Book Covers
I believe a book cover should be a reflection of the story inside, so, yes, I do judge books by the covers. Sometimes that works for me and sometimes it doesn't. I don't decide to buy a book just because the beautifully designed cover has drawn me to it. I read the synopsis and if it interests me, then I buy the book. Well, not always right away. I still have so many books saved in my Amazon cart. Some covers have been deceiving; a book that's nice on the outside but inside there's lots of profanity and other content I didn't expect or care to read. I do not like it when the cover misrepresents the content. There have also been times when the story wasn't what I thought it would be, even after reading the synopsis. I buy most books from Amazon, but I also buy books from Barnes and Noble and Books-A-Million. From now on no matter where I shop, I'm going to have to 'search inside the book' to be sure it's one I really want to spend my money on.
The cover image in the corner is one that immediately caught my eye, and some others are: Sellout (Hardcover) by Ebony Joy Wilkins, Stars in the Night (Softcover) by Cara C. Putman, A Girl Named Mister (Hardcover) by Nikki Grimes, Hot Girl by Dream Jordan, Black Tuesday (Hardcover) by Susan Colebank, Saving Maddie (Hardcover) by Varian Johnson, Be Careful What You Pray For (Hardcover) by Kimberla Lawson Roby, and After (Hardcover) by Amy Efaw.
April 25, 2011
Self Diagnosis: Uncomfortable, But Necessary
I've always been able to communicate better with the written word. Paper, pencils, pens, typewriter keys and now computer keys have always been my friends. And music is my friend; especially songs with uplifting lyrics. And movies on DVD and Blu-ray are my friends. But when it comes to people, it's like I want to socialize but the thought of socializing brings on anxiety. I'd like to make a new friend or two, but the thought of those unfamiliar to me coming into my space brings on discomfort. It's like I'm thinkin' come and stay away from me at the same time. Sounds weird, I know. But this is how I am, been that way for a long time and it's what I do not like about myself.
This isolation mentality is not normal. A little while back I finally asked God, "What is wrong with me?" It may have been a few weeks after that I came across an article about Avoidant Personality Disorder. I read it and I said, "My goodness, that's me. Some of the symptoms aren't as extreme as they were when I was younger, but that's me." I grew up in a household where there was always confusion and chaos. I grew up being criticized quite a bit. I was bullied in grade school and in middle school, verbal abuse mostly. Some didn't like my light skin, some made fun of the way I walked (I have my mom's bowed legs and my dad's slew feet), and some always had something to say about how skinny I was. Back then it was 'stick and stones can break your bones, but words can never hurt you'. Yeah, right. That's a lie from the pit of hell. WORDS CAN HURT and it took me a long time to get over some of the things that were said to me. No wonder I had low self-esteem. Not that I even knew it at the time, like I didn't know that I suffered from clinical depression when I was around seventeen, eighteen. People didn't talk about those things back then the way they do today. I heard the symptoms of clinical depression a good while back and that's when I knew what had been happening with me all those years ago. If you have a child suffering from depression, please don't think it's something they can just get over. Take it seriously; find out what's going on with them and seek help. I hear about young people taking their own lives and it breaks my heart.
I am still shy today, but not extremely shy. I am not a people person; I have trust issues. I've been trying to work at being comfortable around others. I participated in a couple of book events since I published Choices and it wasn't easy for me, but I communicated with people, even waved them over to my table. When I'm out and about I always have promotional materials with me and I kindly ask people if they'd like a pen or if I could give them a bookmark. Before I published Choices, I was okay with a smile and a quick hello even if I didn't know the person, but now I'm like 'God's just gonna make me talk'. I understand Him wanting to get me out of my comfort zone; not much growth comes from staying in a place where I keep to myself all of the time. We all have our gifts, though, and writing is the gift God has given me. I know I wouldn't be very good as a public speaker, so Choices is my way of reaching out. I wrote a good story, if I say so myself. If you haven't journeyed through the lives of Shauntice, Angel, LaKeeta, Bridgette and Hope, please consider buying a copy of Choices today. I do believe you will be entertained and enlightened and I'd truly appreciate the support.
This isolation mentality is not normal. A little while back I finally asked God, "What is wrong with me?" It may have been a few weeks after that I came across an article about Avoidant Personality Disorder. I read it and I said, "My goodness, that's me. Some of the symptoms aren't as extreme as they were when I was younger, but that's me." I grew up in a household where there was always confusion and chaos. I grew up being criticized quite a bit. I was bullied in grade school and in middle school, verbal abuse mostly. Some didn't like my light skin, some made fun of the way I walked (I have my mom's bowed legs and my dad's slew feet), and some always had something to say about how skinny I was. Back then it was 'stick and stones can break your bones, but words can never hurt you'. Yeah, right. That's a lie from the pit of hell. WORDS CAN HURT and it took me a long time to get over some of the things that were said to me. No wonder I had low self-esteem. Not that I even knew it at the time, like I didn't know that I suffered from clinical depression when I was around seventeen, eighteen. People didn't talk about those things back then the way they do today. I heard the symptoms of clinical depression a good while back and that's when I knew what had been happening with me all those years ago. If you have a child suffering from depression, please don't think it's something they can just get over. Take it seriously; find out what's going on with them and seek help. I hear about young people taking their own lives and it breaks my heart.
I am still shy today, but not extremely shy. I am not a people person; I have trust issues. I've been trying to work at being comfortable around others. I participated in a couple of book events since I published Choices and it wasn't easy for me, but I communicated with people, even waved them over to my table. When I'm out and about I always have promotional materials with me and I kindly ask people if they'd like a pen or if I could give them a bookmark. Before I published Choices, I was okay with a smile and a quick hello even if I didn't know the person, but now I'm like 'God's just gonna make me talk'. I understand Him wanting to get me out of my comfort zone; not much growth comes from staying in a place where I keep to myself all of the time. We all have our gifts, though, and writing is the gift God has given me. I know I wouldn't be very good as a public speaker, so Choices is my way of reaching out. I wrote a good story, if I say so myself. If you haven't journeyed through the lives of Shauntice, Angel, LaKeeta, Bridgette and Hope, please consider buying a copy of Choices today. I do believe you will be entertained and enlightened and I'd truly appreciate the support.
April 22, 2011
Tyler Perry as Madea: Do I Have A Problem With It?
Years ago I was watching a preview for a movie and I kept thinking that the woman standing at her front door looked more like a man. I felt kind of bad about that, because it wasn't like I was trying to judge or anything; I was only making an observation. Later I found out that I had nothing to feel bad about because there was a man under that gray wig and behind all that make up. Tyler Perry portrays Mabel "Madea" Simmons.Even though he had been writing, directing and performing in stage plays for years, I didn't know anything about Tyler Perry until the preview of the movie Diary of a Mad Black Woman, inspired by the play of the same name. Ever since then, different people have criticized this man because he puts on a dress to play a woman. This is how I feel about it: The man is acting. I had no problem with Dustin Hoffman as Tootsie or Martin Lawrence as Big Mama (I loved Big Mama's House 2, by the way) or Robin Williams as Mrs. Doubtfire or Tom Hanks and Peter Scolari disguising themselves as women in Bosom Buddies, and I have no problem with Tyler Perry as Madea.
Why are some people always trying to find the worst in everything? Yes, Tyler Perry has flaws; we all have flaws. But as far as his work, he brings something good to people's lives with Madea; he makes them laugh. And he's not doing it like some comedians do, which is by making fun of another person's weaknesses or imperfections or personal problems or using so much profanity that if there is a good joke in there, it's difficult to find. Let me tell you, I always appreciate it when someone can make me laugh because laughter brightens my days. And, oh yeah, if you know anything about me at all, you know I'm gonna quote the Bible: A merry heart does good like medicine, but a broken spirit dries the bones. That's Proverbs15:13 the New King James Version. The New Living Translation: A glad heart makes a happy face; a broken heart crushes the spirit.
I've gotten the impression after hearing Tyler Perry speak on occasion, that he'd rather not play Madea anymore. He said something like it takes four hours to get into the make-up and the entire costume, and it can get hot in all of that padding. I don't think he feels good at all luggin' those big saggin' breasts around. I believe he said they are stuffed with bird seeds. If you have never seen the wild woman Tyler Perry created, check out the picture of Madea up in the corner. That's a whole lot of birdseeds! But this talented man has said that as long as people want to see Madea, he'll play the role. I do not condemn him for that choice. I applaud him for giving people want they want; a character they enjoy watching because she makes them laugh.
I admit that I'm not into everything Tyler Perry has created. I'll watch Meet the Browns every now and then, because I like that the show addresses teen issues, but, I'm sorry, Mr. Brown is too zany for my taste. And I guess Madea can go too far every now and then, but it's not like 'ridiculous over the top humor', but more like 'this woman just does not care and in real life she'd probably be in jail a lot longer than she was in Madea Goes to Jail'. Anyway, like I said before, I have no problem with Tyler Perry as Madea. I like Madea's humor and boldness, but what I like most is that she always has words of wisdom to share. Nobody should take her seriously when she tells Bible stories or quotes the Bible, though, because, even though she makes it funny, she does not know what she's talking about.
I haven't seen all of Tyler Perry's movies in the theater; sometimes I waited for the DVD. However, I do plan to show my support this weekend and go see Madea's Big Happy Family. I'm not going just to see Madea, though. I really like Loretta Devine and Cassi Davis.
January 1, 2011
It's January 1, 2011 and Jesus Still Hasn't Come Back. Will He Ever?
Since I was young I've heard people talking about how Jesus is coming back one day. It's taught from the pulpit, it's in songs, Christians speak of it often, and it's in the Bible (Matthew 24). But it's been a very long time since Jesus died on the cross; almost two thousand years, I believe. Is His return ever going to happen?
On this New Year's Day I'd like to share 2 Peter 3:8,9 (New Living Translation): But you must not forget, dear friends, that a day is like a thousand years to the Lord, and a thousand years is like a day. The Lord isn't really being slow about His promise to return as some people think. No, He is being patient for your sake. He does not want anyone to perish, so He is giving more time for everyone to repent.
Romans 10:9-10: If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is by believing in your heart that you are made right with God, and it is by confessing with your mouth that you are saved.
I feel like Jesus does, I do not want anyone to perish. If you haven't received Jesus as Lord and personal Savior and you'd like to, this prayer is for you: Father, I confess that I have sinned. I repent of my sins and ask your forgiveness. I believe that Jesus is Your Son and that He died on the cross for my sins, and that He was resurrected, and by faith I receive Him as my personal Savior and friend.
Congratulations you are born again! Welcome to God's eternal family! There is no better way to begin the New Year than to have your name written in The Lamb's Book of Life! Praise God and Hallelujah!!!
YouTube - Spensha Baker - Hallelujah
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May the Lord bless you and protect you.
May the Lord smile on you, and be gracious to you.
May the Lord show you His favor and give you peace.
THANKS FOR STOPPING BY. HAVE A BLESSED NEW YEAR!!!
On this New Year's Day I'd like to share 2 Peter 3:8,9 (New Living Translation): But you must not forget, dear friends, that a day is like a thousand years to the Lord, and a thousand years is like a day. The Lord isn't really being slow about His promise to return as some people think. No, He is being patient for your sake. He does not want anyone to perish, so He is giving more time for everyone to repent.
Romans 10:9-10: If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is by believing in your heart that you are made right with God, and it is by confessing with your mouth that you are saved.
I feel like Jesus does, I do not want anyone to perish. If you haven't received Jesus as Lord and personal Savior and you'd like to, this prayer is for you: Father, I confess that I have sinned. I repent of my sins and ask your forgiveness. I believe that Jesus is Your Son and that He died on the cross for my sins, and that He was resurrected, and by faith I receive Him as my personal Savior and friend.
Congratulations you are born again! Welcome to God's eternal family! There is no better way to begin the New Year than to have your name written in The Lamb's Book of Life! Praise God and Hallelujah!!!
YouTube - Spensha Baker - Hallelujah
- Watch more Videos at Vodpod.
May the Lord bless you and protect you.
May the Lord smile on you, and be gracious to you.
May the Lord show you His favor and give you peace.
THANKS FOR STOPPING BY. HAVE A BLESSED NEW YEAR!!!
September 21, 2010
When I Get Discouraged
I published Choices back in 2007. On the day it was released I was in a hospital bed with a staph infection in my bloodstream, but even though I was deathly ill I still remember wondering about my Amazon sales, hoping somebody bought a book. That first year months went by without a book sale and, even though sales have picked up, today there are still boxes of books stored in a closet in my husband's office (well, I guess I should call it our office now, since I kinda took over most of the sp...
June 21, 2010
The Problem With Some Christian Novels
Christian fiction is my genre of choice, next to young adult novels, which I'll read if the story is Christian fiction or not. I do have to start being more careful about my reading choices, though, because, in my eagerness to support authors of young adult fiction, I have bought quite a few books lately where characters are taking the Lord's name in vain all left and right. To see or hear the sweet name of Jesus Christ - a name higher than any other name - being used as an expression or a cu...
May 19, 2010
It's More About the Lyrics Than The Music
I am a Christian who really needs to open her Bible more often. I'll read from God's Word every week, but not every single day. What I will do most days, especially first thing in the morning, is listen to Christian music. Well, it's not really about the music, but the lyrics. Meditating on the lyrics helps me to keep my mind stayed on Jesus or lifts me up when I'm down or brings me peace when I'm angry or reminds me that God has not forgotten about me or helps me to love others when I just d...
I'm Not A Book Blogger, But I Do Write Reviews
I've been thinking a lot lately about starting a book blog, but I'm going to have to think about it a little more. Book blogging looks like a lot of work and if I start one I want to keep up with it but right now I'm not sure I have the energy. I do post reviews on Amazon, Goodreads and Shelfari, though, and I'd like to share my latest:Three Novellas
Showers of Blessings by Angela Benson
Assistant Pastor Andrew Gooden has a gambling problem and his wife, Sandra is so tired of dealing with it. T...
April 29, 2010
Growth Is A Good Thing
I think back to the past every now and then. Well, actually sometimes more than I should because there were a lot of things in my past that don't make me feel good to remember. But today I thought about a conversation I had with my youngest sister. I was visiting her and she was listening to music and I remember asking, "You listen to that?" It was a white artist. Her response, "I listen to all kinds of music." I got to thinking about my narrow-minded self after that and today I also listen t...
April 24, 2010
This Book Thing Is Not Easy
I never believed this whole book thing was going to be easy but it is even more difficult than I thought it was going to be. Even though sales have picked up a bit, it is taking a long time to build a readership. I've done what I can afford to do to let people know my book is available. I have a website. I paid for flyers and promotional pens and business cards and cute little promotional flashlight keychains (Shauntice has one, so that's why I bought these) and handed them out. I've advertis...
