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Writer’s Desk with Shelley Shepard Gray

Writer’s Desk with Shelley Shepard Gray Tricia GoyerWriter’s Desk with Shelley Shepard Gray

New York Times and USA Today bestselling author Shelley Shepard Gray has published over a hundred novels for a variety of publishers. She currently writes Amish and Inspirational romances for Revell, Kensington, and Harlequin. With over two million books in print, and translated into more than a dozen languages, her novels have been Holt Medallion winners and Christy, Inspirational Readers Choice, and Carol finalists.

Shelley has been featured in the Philadelphia Enquirer, Washington Post, Time Magazine, Woman’s World Magazine, First for Women, and USA Today.

She currently lives in northern Ohio, walks her dogs, bakes too much, and writes full time.

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More about Unshaken

He helps her hide until danger has passed. She hopes her cover lasts long enough.

When Stephanie Miller planned her visit to a dollar store in southern Ohio, she was expecting to pick up a few items she couldn’t find in her Amish community. She was not expecting to find herself an innocent bystander as a drug deal went horribly wrong. The sole witness to a murder, now Stephanie is targeted by the gunman.

Hardy Anderson is always ready to help his social worker sister, Bev–which now includes hiding an Amish woman until a killer can be brought to justice. Surely if they dress her in English clothing, Hardy can hide her at the sprawling ranch where he works. But the killer is desperate–and there’s no telling what lengths he will go.

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Q&A with Shelley Shepard Gray

ARCF: What inspired you to write Unshaken? Was there a moment or idea that sparked the story?

SSG: I’ve always been a fan of the movie WITNESS and wanted to one day write a novel that begins with an Amish character witnessing a murder. That was the inspiration. I loved writing a romantic suspense featuring an Amish woman on the run.

ARCF: Can you give us a spoiler-free glimpse of what readers can expect from the plot?

SSG: When a sheltered Amish woman witnesses a murder, a social worker asks her brother-a former military sergeant-to keep her safe on a sprawling ranch in Crittenden County, KY.

ARCF: Who is the heart of this story—and what makes them unforgettable?

SSG: I think Stephanie, the heroine, is the heart of this story. Her emotional journey is almost as tumultuous as the scary situation she finds herself in. She really grows and becomes stronger as the novel continues.

ARCF: Which character’s journey was the most emotional or personal for you to write?

SSG: The antagonist has a point of view in this book, and his journey was by far the most emotional for me to write, mainly because I knew it wasn’t possible for his ending to be a happy one.

ARCF: Did any of the characters surprise you by taking the story in a different direction than you planned?

SSG: LOL, all of the characters took different directions than I planned! At times, I felt like I was herding cats. As I wrote in my letter to the readers at the back of the book, I ended up getting writer’s block and had to ask some neighbors for advice. That was certainly a first!

ARCF: If you could spend a day with one of the characters, who would it be—and why?

SSG: The character I really admired in the novel was Bev. She’s a social worker and has devoted her life to working with kids in foster care. She was so admirable yet didn’t see her strengths. I was a fan of hers.

ARCF: Was there a particular Bible verse or spiritual truth that guided your storytelling in this book?

SSG: I used a verse from 2 Corinthians to guide me.  ‘Anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone, a new life has begun!’  One character’s journey in the book echoes this verse.

ARCF: How do you balance storytelling and spiritual encouragement in your novels?

SSG: I write fiction and feel strongly that my job as an author is to provide entertainment. So, I always focus on the story. My goal is always for the reader to want to read the next page.  That said, the spiritual journeys of each character drove the plot forward.

ARCF: What’s your favorite scene from the book (that you can share without spoilers)?

SSG: My favorite scene is the epilogue. I don’t often add an epilogue, but I wanted to be sure to tie up all the loose ends and make sure the reader was happy with the ending. So, that is my favorite scene. I wrote it before the book was even half way done~and it was what motivated me to keep working on this book.

ARCF: Can you share a small, spoiler-free secret or Easter egg that readers should watch for in the story? 

SSG: Stephanie is stuck in a fancy cabin and becomes addicted to a certain 1980s popular series. She ends up watching it with the hero. I think readers will love it.

ARCF: And finally, can you share what’s coming up next for you?

SSG: I’m currently working on the second book in a new series with Revell, The Amish Widows Club.

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Raising Confident Kids: Building Christ-Centered Self-Esteem

Raising Confident Kids: Building Christ-Centered Self-Esteem Tricia Goyer

Have you ever struggled with your self-esteem? Maybe you’ve stood in front of a mirror and focused on what’s wrong instead of what’s right. Or perhaps the words from your past still echo, whispering that you’re not enough. If you’ve been there, you’re not alone—and neither are your children.

As homeschool parents, we spend countless hours shaping our children’s minds, but how often do we pause to help shape their hearts? Specifically, their understanding of who they are in God’s eyes? The world will tell our kids that beauty is measured in likes, flawless photos, or athletic prowess—but we know better. Our children were made in the image of God, deeply loved, and designed with purpose.

A Truth Worth Modeling

Growing up, I never felt beautiful. Most of my clothes came from yard sales, and I was constantly comparing myself to others. By sixth grade, I had glasses, crooked teeth, and low self-esteem to match. I carried those feelings into adulthood—and even into my relationship with Jesus. I believed He loved me (because He was supposed to), but I didn’t feel beautiful in His eyes.

Then I read this:

“The Lord your God in your midst,
The Mighty One, will save;
He will rejoice over you with gladness,
He will quiet you with His love,
He will rejoice over you with singing.”
—Zephaniah 3:17 (NKJV)

The thought of Jesus rejoicing over me with singing? It stopped me in my tracks. I imagined His eyes filled with love—not disappointment. And I finally understood that I didn’t have to do anything to be loved. I simply was.

That kind of love changes people. And it’s that love we must model for our children.

5 Ways to Model Healthy, Faith-Based Self-Esteem for Our Children1. Speak Life-Giving Words

The way we speak to our children becomes their inner voice. Let your words be filled with truth:

“You are loved just as you are.”“God made you wonderfully and purposefully.”“You’re enough because He is enough.”

“Gracious words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body.”
—Proverbs 16:24 (ESV)

2. Celebrate Who They Are, Not What They Do

Instead of only praising achievements, recognize character:

“You showed kindness to your brother—that’s beautiful.”“I saw how patient you were—that’s the fruit of the Spirit.”

“For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.”
—1 Samuel 16:7 (ESV)

3. Model Godly Self-Esteem

Let your children see you leaning into God’s truth, even on your hard days. Speak aloud the Scriptures you cling to. Show them that you rest in who God says you are—not the world.

“I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.”
—Psalm 139:14 (ESV)

4. Limit Negative Comparisons

Even in casual conversations, avoid comparing your children to others—or yourself. Teach them that their worth isn’t measured against someone else’s success. God’s plan for each of us is unique.

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
—Romans 12:2 (NIV)

5. Remind Them Daily of Whose They Are

Every day, reaffirm this truth: You are a child of God. Write Scriptures on mirrors. Place sticky notes on notebooks. Make God’s Word the loudest voice in your home.

“See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God!”
—1 John 3:1 (NIV)

A Prayer for Homeschool Moms

Heavenly Father,
Thank You for entrusting these precious children to our care. Help us see them as You do—beautiful, unique, created in Your image. Teach us to model Your love so our children don’t question their worth. Silence the lies of the world and speak louder than insecurity. Help us point their hearts to You so that their identity is rooted in truth. And when we struggle with our own reflection, remind us again that You rejoice over us with singing.
Amen.

You don’t have to be a perfect parent to raise confident, faith-filled kids. You just need to model the truth: we’re not perfect, but we are perfectly loved.

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Brave Enough

Brave Enough Tricia GoyerFaith Over Fear

I’ve never considered myself a brave person. I’m not one to bungee jump, and the best I’ve done on the ski slopes is (with much trepidation) the beginner’s run. I’ve never considered myself a particularly brave person. I’m not one for bungee jumping, skydiving, or even roller coasters. I like safety, predictability, and knowing what’s around the corner. Anyone else?

But through the years, God has gently nudged—and sometimes shoved—me out of my comfort zone, teaching me that bravery isn’t always bold and flashy.

Sometimes bravery looks like saying yes to adoption when your house already feels full. Or moving across the country for a ministry job. Or opening your home to your aging grandmother and making her feel treasured. Those big yeses are brave, but I’ve learned that small, daily steps of obedience are just as courageous.

As a writer, I feel this daily. I often want to hide behind my deadlines and responsibilities, but God gently reminds me:

Living brave is saying yes to what matters most—loving my people well, showing up when it counts, and trusting Him to fill in the gaps.

Here are some brave things I’ve done lately:

Taking my kids on a nature walk when I had a pressing deadline.Watching Disney on Ice with my family and seeing their joy light up the night.Playing in the backyard with my grandkids when emails and edits begged for my attention.

None of those things will make headlines, but each one was a brave decision to trust God with my time, my energy, and my purpose.

5 Ways to Be Brave and Step Out in Faith TodaySay yes to something that scares you—but aligns with God’s purpose.
Whether it’s joining a new group at church or volunteering when you feel underqualified, take one small step of faith today.
“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid… for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” —Joshua 1:9
Speak up when it matters.
Whether it’s standing up for truth, offering encouragement, or telling your story, your voice matters.
“Be strong, and let your heart take courage, all you who wait for the Lord!” —Psalm 31:24
Show up even when you feel out of place.
Walk into that Bible study, church group, or community event. Bravery often starts with showing up.
“The wicked flee though no one pursues, but the righteous are as bold as a lion.” —Proverbs 28:1
Let go of control and trust God with your timeline.
Trust that His timing is better than yours. Step out even when you can’t see the full path.
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.” —Proverbs 3:5
Encourage someone else to be brave.
Sometimes the bravest thing we can do is cheer someone else on. Send the text. Make the call. Offer the hug.
“Therefore encourage one another and build each other up.” —1 Thessalonians 5:11 A Prayer for Bravery

Lord Jesus,
Thank You for being my source of courage. There are so many moments I feel unsure, unworthy, or simply afraid. Help me to remember that bravery isn’t about being fearless—it’s about trusting You enough to take the next step. Strengthen my heart, steady my spirit, and help me walk boldly into all You’ve called me to do. Let me be a woman who lives not by fear, but by faith.
Amen.

Bravery might not look like climbing mountains or crossing oceans. It may simply look like choosing faith over fear one quiet, obedient step at a time.

So tell me: What brave thing is God asking you to do today? Let’s encourage one another in the comments—we’re in this together!

With love and bravery,
Tricia Goyer

Additional Resources Daily Bible Podcast

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A Better Way to Handle the Green Cup Wars

A Better Way to Handle the Green Cup Wars Tricia GoyerBecause They Never Fight at 10 a.m. With Calm Voices

Conflict resolution is hard. Especially when you’re a mom spinning ten plates, and two kids decide right now is the time to argue about who had the green cup first.

In our home, conflict never seemed to show up at a convenient time.

It usually went something like this:

I’d be elbow-deep in dinner prep…Or in the middle of writing a chapter…Or tackling Mt. Laundry (you know the one).

And bam—screaming, stomping, and accusations flying down the hallway.

Here’s what I used to do:

Shut. It. Down.“Enough!”“Figure it out!”“Go to your rooms!”“Not now!”

I thought I was managing the situation, but I wasn’t resolving anything. I was just putting a lid on a pot that was ready to boil over again.

“The truth of the matter is this: Conflict is inevitable,
but peace is a process.”

— Tricia Goyer

The Wake-Up Moment

One day, I realized I was reacting to their emotions instead of guiding them through them. And more than that, I wasn’t teaching my kids how to work through hard things. I was modeling avoidance.

That realization changed everything.

“When we deny the story, it defines us. When we own the story, we can write a brave new ending.” 

—Brené Brown

A New, Better Way to See Conflict

Conflict doesn’t have to be something we fear. It can be an opportunity, a classroom, and a spiritual practice. Learning how to handle conflict well will benefit your kids for life.

“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” — Romans 12:18

When conflict arose, I started doing something new. I slowed down, looked my kids in the eyes, and asked:

“What happened from your perspective?”
“What were you feeling?”
“What do you need right now?”
“What can we do differently next time?”

It’s a different approach, isn’t it? I also created a simple rule: No one’s in trouble. Instead, we’re just working it out.

And honestly? Our whole family dynamic shifted.

“The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives.”

— Dr. Dan Siegel

Conflict doesn’t destroy connection unless we let it. With guidance, it can actually build positive relationships.

What Helped Me MostStop and breathe before responding.
(Even when dinner’s burning.)
Treat conflict like a puzzle, not a fire.
You’re solving something, not putting it out.
Guide, don’t shame.
Your kids are still learning (and so are you).
Use a “talk it out” tool.
I made a printable with prompts. It’s simple, and it works!

Tricia

Free for you: Want my “Talk It Out Together” worksheet to help your kids (and you!) work through conflict calmly? Get it here! And find a fun printable below!

Additional ResourcesCalming Angry Kids

Slammed doors. Hurting hearts. I know what it’s like to parent children with chronic anger. Calming Angry Kids draws on my family’s own experience to help readers:

understand what’s going on in a child’s brainfocus on relationship over rulesteach a child how to handle frustrations without outburstscontrol how they express their own angerestablish a standard of respect in the home

 Including reflection questions and action steps at the end of each chapter, Calming Angry Kids shows weary parents that peace in their home is within reach. Don’t lose hope!

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Strength Beyond Words

Strength Beyond Words Tricia GoyerWhat Samson Taught Me About Writing (and Life)

Have you ever doubted your calling? Maybe you’re in the middle of something God has clearly led you to—writing, parenting, serving, creating—and yet you pause, look around, and think, “This isn’t working. Should I just quit and apply at Walmart instead?”

Yeah. Me too.

I remember reading a thread in a Christian e-writers group years ago where bestselling, award-winning authors admitted they still get hit with insecurities. These were women whose books lined shelves, who had won all the accolades… and still, they sometimes stared at the blinking cursor wondering if their words were worthless.

I could relate all too well.

For me, the struggle usually comes in the messy middle—when I’ve laid out the plot, introduced the characters, and tried to connect the dots. I have scenes written that I hope will matter. Dialogue that I hope rings true. A theme that I hope will thread its way through the chaos of chapters.

But there’s no box lid for this puzzle I’m assembling. I may have a fuzzy idea in my mind, but it’s ever-changing. And while I’ve now written over 80 books, and I’ve learned a system that works for me, there’s still one element that can’t be manufactured or mapped out in an outline:

The Holy Spirit.

When Human Strength Isn’t Enough

Just yesterday, I was walking with my husband John, overwhelmed by all I had to finish before my deadline. I rattled off my list of worries, the to-do’s stacking high in my mind like unfinished chapters.

John smiled and said, “You know, you remind me of Samson.”

I raised an eyebrow, a little skeptical. “Samson?”

“Yes,” he said. “Sure, Samson probably had muscles and could hold his own. Maybe he could take out a few enemies with sheer willpower. But to kill a thousand men with the jawbone of a donkey? That was only possible because the Spirit of God was upon him.”

And suddenly, that truth hit home.

I can write a few decent chapters on my own. I can show up, study craft, and practice discipline. But if a story is going to actually touch hearts, change lives, or reveal God’s goodness—that’s going to take more than effort. That’s going to take God.

“Not by might nor by power, but by my Spirit,’ says the Lord Almighty.” —Zechariah 4:6

That’s true in writing, yes—but it’s also true in all the little places we feel weak: raising our children, serving in ministry, building a business, or simply being a light in this dark world. Our human strength has limits. God’s Spirit does not.

5 Ways to Step into God’s Strength TodayStart your day in prayer.
Invite the Holy Spirit into your work before you begin. Ask Him to guide your thoughts, your words, and your steps. “Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established.” —Proverbs 16:3Show up, even when you feel unqualified.
Bravery is not the absence of fear, but obedience in the face of it. Your “yes” matters more than your resume. “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” —Philippians 4:13Trade striving for surrender.
Hustle is not holy if it leaves no room for grace. Let your work be an offering, not a performance. “Come to me, all you who are weary… and I will give you rest.” —Matthew 11:28Look back and remember God’s faithfulness.
He’s gotten you through before—and He’ll do it again. “Bless the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all His benefits.” —Psalm 103:2Let weakness lead you to worship.
When we feel empty, He fills. When we feel small, He shows up big. “But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’” —2 Corinthians 12:9

So maybe I don’t need a cut-out of a muscle-bound Samson taped to my laptop (although that visual still makes me smile). What I do need is the constant reminder that it’s God’s strength, not mine, that carries the story forward—on the page and in my life.

If you’re feeling discouraged or overwhelmed, remember these two things:

You were never meant to do this on your own.His Spirit is within you, and His strength is more than enough.

Let’s keep showing up, keep writing, keep loving, keep living—all with open hands and surrendered hearts.

Because God knows the whole story—and He sees the beautiful picture that’s forming, piece by piece.

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Weekly readings for the Daily Bible Podcast with Tricia and MichelleJune 2
Proverbs 20-21, Proverbs 22:1-16 Avoiding Strife Proverbs 20: Avoiding Pitfalls

Proverbs 20 offers practical advice on living a life of integrity and avoiding common pitfalls:

Key Verses:

Proverbs 20:9: “Who can say, ‘I have cleansed my heart; I am pure and free from sin’?”Proverbs 20:21: “An inheritance obtained too early in life is not a blessing in the end.”Proverbs 20:27: “The Lord’s light penetrates the human spirit, exposing every hidden motive.”Proverbs 20:29: “The glory of young men is their strength, gray hair the splendor of the old.”

Proverbs 20 encourages avoiding fighting, dishonesty, and overindulgence of alcohol. It reminds us that true character is revealed in tough times and that God’s light exposes our true motives.

Proverbs 21: Righteousness and Humility

Proverbs 21 emphasizes the importance of righteousness, humility, and wisdom. It warns against arrogance and unethical behavior while encouraging us to seek the Lord’s guidance.

Key Verses:

Proverbs 21:3: “The Lord is more pleased when we do what is right and just than when we offer him sacrifices.”Proverbs 21:9 & 21:19: “It’s better to live alone in the corner of an attic than with a quarrelsome wife in a lovely home” and “It’s better to live alone in the desert than with a quarrelsome, complaining wife.”

Avoiding sin requires careful attention and planning. Proverbs 21 underscores that obedience to God is more pleasing than sacrifice, a truth echoed in 1 Samuel 15:20-22.

Proverbs 22:1-16: The Value of a Good Name

Proverbs 22 begins with a powerful statement on the value of a good reputation:

Key Verses:

Proverbs 22:1: “A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold.”

This section highlights the importance of wisdom, humility, and the fear of the Lord. It also offers practical advice on raising children and managing finances.

Word of the Day: Quarrelsome

Definition: Inclined to quarrel; argumentative; contentious.

The Quarrelsome Spirit

Proverbs 21:3 teaches that doing what is right and just is more pleasing to God than sacrifices. This echoes the quarrel between Saul and Samuel. Often, we know the right course of action but choose to quarrel and pursue our own way. This leads to unnecessary strife and poor outcomes.

The Source of Quarrels

James 4:1-4 explains that quarrels stem from our own desires and passions. When we prioritize our desires over God’s will, we create conflict. By focusing on God’s commands and seeking peace, we can avoid unnecessary arguments and foster better communication and understanding.

Reflection and Practical Steps

Reading Proverbs reminds us of the importance of wisdom and the dangers of a quarrelsome spirit. Here are practical steps to apply this wisdom:

Reflect on Motives: Regularly examine your motives and actions to ensure they align with God’s will.

Avoid Arguments: Recognize when arguments arise from personal desires and strive to avoid unnecessary conflicts.

Seek Peace: Focus on building peace, understanding, and good communication in all areas of life.

Obey God: Prioritize obedience to God’s commands over personal desires, knowing this pleases Him more than sacrifices.

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June 3
Proverbs 22:17-29, Proverbs 23-24 The 30 Sayings of the Wise

Welcome to today’s blog post, where we dive into the rich wisdom of Proverbs 22:17-29, Proverbs 23, and Proverbs 24. These passages are collectively known as the “30 Sayings of the Wise,” a treasure trove of advice and knowledge penned by Solomon. Our focus today is on listening, learning, and leaning on God as we navigate life’s conflicts and challenges.

Listen, Learn, Lean

Solomon’s guidance can be summed up in three simple words: Listen, Learn, and Lean. Here’s how we can apply these principles:

Listen: Open your heart to the wisdom in these sayings (Proverbs 22:17).Learn: Internalize these wise words so they can guide you in times of conflict (Proverbs 22:17-18).Lean: Trust in God rather than solely relying on your understanding or these sayings (Proverbs 22:19).

By following this triad, we gain knowledge, good advice, truth, and solutions for our challenges, steering us from conflict toward community (Proverbs 22:20-21).

Navigating Life’s Seven Seas

Solomon’s words offer guidance through seven critical areas of life: finances, friends, faith, failure, family, fools, and the future. Let’s explore each area with relevant sayings.

Finances

Wise stewardship of resources is crucial. Solomon highlights five pearls of wisdom to manage financial conflicts:

Poverty Police (Proverbs 22:22-23)Borrow Barrier (Proverbs 22:26-27)Sanctified Survey (Proverbs 22:28)Riches to Rags (Proverbs 23:4-5)Lawful Landmarks (Proverbs 23:10-11)Friends

The company we keep influences our lives significantly. Solomon advises avoiding:

Anger Danger (Proverbs 22:24-25)Slothful Man (Proverbs 23:19-21)Bad Company (Proverbs 24:1-2)Resist Rebels (Proverbs 24:21-22)Faith

Wisdom in faith connects God’s character to our challenges:

Hard Work Helps (Proverbs 22:29)Bribe Tribe (Proverbs 23:1-3)Common Sense Counts (Proverbs 23:15-16)Warn the Unwary (Proverbs 24:11-12)Failure

Failure can be a stepping stone or a stumbling block. Solomon highlights pitfalls to avoid:

Chameleon Complex (Proverbs 23:6-8)Wayward Women (Proverbs 23:26-28)Drunken Dodo (Proverbs 23:29-35)Pressure Pusher (Proverbs 24:10)Family

A strong family reflects God’s love. Solomon offers pillars for a God-honoring home:

Receive Reproof (Proverbs 23:12)Disciple Discipline (Proverbs 23:13-14)Secret Agents (Proverbs 23:22-25)House of Leadership (Proverbs 24:3-4)Fools

Dealing with fools requires wisdom. Solomon provides guidance on this:

Wisdom Wasted (Proverbs 23:9)Rebel Rascals (Proverbs 24:7)Slippery Schemer (Proverbs 24:8-9)Bounce Back (Proverbs 24:15-16)Weep Over Others’ Woes (Proverbs 24:17-18)Future

Hope for the future comes from God. Solomon shares ways to embrace this hope:

Envy Evil Error (Proverbs 23:17-18)Wise Words Win Wars (Proverbs 24:5-6)Sweet Success (Proverbs 24:13-14)Wicked Worry (Proverbs 24:19-20)Word of the Day: Keep

Definition: To retain possession of.

Solomon urges us to keep these sayings in our hearts, guiding our paths. The Bible often uses “keep” to describe a shepherd’s care for his sheep, reflecting a sense of treasure and protection.

Personal Takeaway

Reflect on what God keeps for us:

Inheritance: 1 Peter 1:4Our Sorrows and Tears: Psalm 56:8His Promises and Covenant: Deuteronomy 6:4

Isaiah 26:3-4 reminds us:

"You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you! Trust in the Lord always, for the Lord God is the eternal Rock."

When we keep our minds on God and follow His ways, He provides perfect peace. This connects beautifully with Proverbs, where our trust in God leads to righteousness and a smooth path ahead (Isaiah 26:7-9).

Conclusion

As we reflect on these 30 Sayings of the Wise, let’s commit to listening, learning, and leaning on God. By doing so, we navigate life’s challenges with divine wisdom and experience the peace and guidance that comes from keeping our hearts aligned with His Word.

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June 4
Song of Songs 1-8 The Depths of Love

Today, we’re diving into the rich and poetic waters of Song of Songs 1-8, a collection of Hebrew love poems that many believe were written by Solomon. This beautiful book takes us through the journey of love, from courtship to marriage, with conversations between a shepherdess, her entourage, the shepherd, and King Solomon.

Understanding the Song of Songs

The Song of Songs is essentially a dialogue about romantic and intimate relationships. While marriage and sexual relationships are central themes, it’s important to remember that the Bible also honors celibacy. As Paul states in 1 Corinthians 7:7-9, each person has their own calling, whether to marry or to remain single.

“The best way to see this book is as a literal, powerful description of the romantic and sensual love between a man and a woman, observing both their courtship and their marriage.”

Enduring Word Bible Commentary

The Purpose of Love Poetry in the Bible

Why include such a poetic book in the Bible? Because God created love, marriage, and sex. As Christians, we should engage in healthy conversations about these topics, ensuring they are grounded in biblical truth rather than worldly distortions.

Three Types of Love in Song of Songs

In the Song of Songs, three Hebrew words describe different facets of love:

Raya (Friendship): This term refers to a companion or soulmate, highlighting that our special person should be our best friend (Song of Songs 4:7).Ahavah (Deep Affection and Commitment): This word signifies a deep, committed love that goes beyond fleeting romantic feelings. It’s the kind of love that sustains a marriage and involves making a lifelong decision to be with another person (Song of Songs 8:7).Dod (Passion): Dod represents the physical, sexual aspect of love, emphasizing passion and romantic feelings (Song of Songs 1:2).The Sequence of Love

In our culture, people often start with Dod (passion), then move to Raya (friendship), and finally to Ahavah (commitment). In other cultures, such as those with arranged marriages, the sequence often starts with Ahavah (commitment), followed by Dod (passion), and hopefully leads to Raya (friendship).

Personal Takeaway

Initially, I often skimmed through this book of the Bible, but deeper study and discussion revealed its profound themes of love and commitment. It emphasizes that love is an ongoing journey, always deepening as time goes on. This is true in romantic relationships, with our children, and with God.

The garden imagery in Song of Songs reminds us of Eden and points forward to the ultimate union with Christ in Revelation, where love will be perfect and untainted.

Word of the Day: Love

Definition: A profoundly tender, passionate affection, often mingled with sexual desire, for another person; active, self-giving concern for the well-being of others.

Song of Songs directs us to the essence of love between a man and a woman, but it also points us to God’s perfect love. This book highlights that God knew what He was doing when He created sex, and it underscores the need to reclaim the true meaning of love from a world that has cheapened it.

As Song of Songs 8:7 says:

“Many waters cannot quench love, nor can rivers drown it. If a man tried to buy love with all his wealth, his offer would be utterly scorned.”Reflections on God’s Love

John 3:16 reminds us:

"For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son."

And 1 John 4:7-12 beautifully captures the essence of God’s love for us:

"Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God... In this is love, not that we have loved God but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins."The Layers of Love

God designed love with many layers—friendship, commitment, and passion. Each layer is interconnected and reflects the complexity of human emotions, a testament to divine design.

Conclusion

Love, in all its forms, is patient and kind. It protects, trusts, hopes, and perseveres (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). Whether we look at love through the lens of friendship, commitment, or passion, these verses apply.

Let’s commit to exploring and embracing the depth of love that God designed for us, and allow it to guide our relationships and our faith journey.

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June 5
[READING OF THE DAY] The Search for Meaning Solomon’s Downfall: 1 Kings 11 and 2 Chronicles 9:29-31

In our readings today, we delve into the troubling yet instructive tale of Solomon’s fall from grace. Despite his renowned wisdom, wealth, and achievements, Solomon’s heart was led astray by his numerous wives and concubines. With seven hundred wives and three hundred concubines, Solomon’s marital choices defied God’s commands, leading him to worship foreign gods and build altars for idols.

1 Kings 11:10 tells us:

"Although he had forbidden Solomon to follow other gods, Solomon did not keep the Lord’s command."

This disobedience provoked God’s anger, and He declared that Solomon’s kingdom would be torn away, sparing only one tribe for the sake of David. God raised adversaries against Solomon, including Hadad the Edomite, Rezon the son of Eliada, and Jeroboam. Unlike David, who waited on God to establish his throne, Jeroboam seized power on his own, and his reign lacked divine blessing.

2 Chronicles 9:29-31 records Solomon’s rule, his death, and the ascension of Rehoboam. Solomon reigned for forty years and was laid to rest in David’s city.

Ecclesiastes: Deconstructing Wisdom and Meaning

Following Proverbs, we turn to Ecclesiastes—a book that challenges our understanding of wisdom and life’s meaning. Written in a reflective and often somber tone, Ecclesiastes confronts us with the harsh realities of a fallen world. The teacher, traditionally thought to be Solomon, uses the term “hevel” (often translated as “meaningless”) to describe life’s fleeting and enigmatic nature.

Word of the Day: Meaningful

Definition: Full of meaning, significance, purpose, or value; purposeful; significant.

Ecclesiastes opens with a stark declaration:

“Everything is meaningless, completely meaningless.”

Let’s flip this around and consider what “meaningful” looks like. A synonym for meaningful is significant. What does a significant life entail? Solomon, who had all the world’s riches and wisdom, offers profound insights.

God intends for our lives to be meaningful by His standards. Our present lives prepare us for eternity. Therefore:

Memorize His word to know Him better.Read His word to understand His will.Steward your gifts for His glory.Reflections and Applications

Ecclesiastes teaches that a meaningful life isn’t found in worldly pursuits but in contentment, gratitude, and purpose in the present moment. Solomon, who experienced everything, realized that life’s true meaning lies in knowing and serving God. This perspective aligns with Jesus’ teachings in Matthew 6:33-34:

“Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need. So don’t worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring its own worries. Today’s trouble is enough for today.”

By the end of Ecclesiastes, we are reminded to:

“Remember your Creator” and recognize that God will judge every deed, underscoring the importance of living a life oriented toward eternity.

Personal Takeaway

Solomon’s story and the book of Ecclesiastes challenge us to reassess our values and priorities. True wisdom and fulfillment come from aligning our lives with God’s purposes, embracing our roles as stewards of His gifts, and seeking significance in His eternal plan.

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June 6
Ecclesiastes 1:12-18, Ecclesiastes 2-6 Vanity of Vanities

Today, our journey through the Bible takes us into the profound and thought-provoking book of Ecclesiastes. We dive into the reflections of the teacher, traditionally believed to be Solomon, as he examines the pursuit of wisdom, possessions, and the meaning of life.

Solomon’s Pursuit of Wisdom and Pleasure

Ecclesiastes 1:12-18 introduces us to Solomon’s quest for wisdom. Solomon, famous for his unparalleled wisdom and wealth, embarks on a journey to find the true essence of life. He tests possessions and pleasures:

“I denied myself nothing my eyes desired; I refused my heart no pleasure. My heart took delight in all my labor, and this was the reward for all my toil.”

But does this bring happiness? Solomon’s conclusion is stark:

“Yet when I surveyed all that my hands had done and what I had toiled to achieve, everything was meaningless, a chasing after the wind; nothing was gained under the sun.”The Certainty of Death and the Meaning of Life

Solomon reflects on the certainty and cruelty of death. In Ecclesiastes 3, he weighs time, eternity, and despair:

“To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die.”

However, amidst the talk of meaninglessness, we find a glimmer of hope:

“What do people really get for all their hard work? I have seen the burden God has placed on us all. Yet God has made everything beautiful for its own time. He has planted eternity in the human heart, but even so, people cannot see the whole scope of God’s work from beginning to end.” (Ecclesiastes 3:9-11)

God’s Enduring Work

Ecclesiastes 3:14 offers further insights:

“I know that everything God does will endure forever; nothing can be added to it and nothing taken from it. God does it so that people will fear him.”

This shows us that:

God’s actions are permanent.God’s actions are effective and complete.God’s actions are totally secure.The Futility of Wealth and Success

In Ecclesiastes 4-6, we see that riches and success do not bring true happiness. The teacher states:

“Then I observed that most people are motivated by success because they envy their neighbors. But this, too, is meaningless—like chasing the wind.” (Ecclesiastes 4:4)

We also see the value of companionship:

“Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed.” (Ecclesiastes 4:9)

The teacher discusses the futility of political power, the importance of fearing God, and the fleeting nature of life:

“Better one handful with tranquillity than two handfuls with toil and chasing after the wind.” (Ecclesiastes 4:6)Word of the Day: Vanity

Vanity is often described as excessive pride in one’s appearance or achievements. However, the Hebrew word “hevel” used in Ecclesiastes conveys the idea of something transient and insubstantial, like a breath or vapor.

Solomon reflects:

“Then I considered all that my hands had done and the toil I had expended in doing it, and behold, all was vanity and a striving after wind, and there was nothing to be gained under the sun.” (Ecclesiastes 2:11)Personal Takeaway

Ecclesiastes challenges us to reassess our values and priorities. True wisdom and fulfillment come from aligning our lives with God’s purposes. The book concludes with a powerful reminder:

“Remember your Creator” and recognize that God will judge every deed, underscoring the importance of living a life oriented toward eternity.

Solomon’s reflections on vanity remind us that worldly pursuits are fleeting. What truly matters is our relationship with God and how we steward the gifts He has given us.

Conclusion

As we reflect on Ecclesiastes, let’s strive to find contentment and purpose in the present moment, trusting in God’s eternal plan. By seeking His wisdom and living righteously, we can navigate life’s challenges with a deeper understanding of what truly matters.

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June 7
Ecclesiastes 7, Ecclesiastes 11:1-6 The Futility of Striving

Today’s Bible reading takes us through Ecclesiastes 7 and 11:1-6, offering profound insights into the pursuit of wisdom, the futility of striving, and the importance of finding contentment in the present moment.

Wisdom for Life: Ecclesiastes 7

Ecclesiastes 7 begins with a series of comparative sayings:

"A good name is better than fine perfume, and the day of death better than the day of birth." Ecclesiastes 7:1

This poetic verse highlights that while a good reputation is invaluable, life’s journey is often arduous and challenging.

The Value of the Present: Ecclesiastes 7:10"Do not say, 'Why were the old days better than these?' For it is not wise to ask such questions." Ecclesiastes 7:10

Longing for the past can blind us to the opportunities and blessings of the present. As Owens Lee Pomeroy said, “Nostalgia is like a grammar lesson: you find the present tense and the past perfect.”

Reflections on Injustice: Ecclesiastes 8

The teacher in Ecclesiastes 8 grapples with life’s big questions, including the seeming injustice in the world:

"There is something else meaningless that occurs on earth: the righteous who get what the wicked deserve, and the wicked who get what the righteous deserve." Ecclesiastes 8:14

This reminds us of historical injustices, like those seen during World War II, where the righteous suffered and the wicked were exalted.

Embrace Life: Ecclesiastes 9-11

Ecclesiastes 9 urges us to enjoy life while we can, recognizing its unpredictability:

"Go, eat your food with gladness, and drink your wine with a joyful heart, for God has already approved what you do." Ecclesiastes 9:7

Ecclesiastes 11 continues with practical wisdom, encouraging us to diversify our efforts and embrace the uncertainties of life:

"Sow your seed in the morning, and at evening let your hands not be idle, for you do not know which will succeed, whether this or that, or whether both will do equally well." Ecclesiastes 11:6Word of the Day: Striving

Definition: Making great efforts to achieve or obtain something or to struggle vigorously.

The Cost of Striving

From birth, society teaches us to strive—to hit milestones, achieve success, and continually push forward. However, this relentless pursuit can come at a cost. Solomon warns that excessive striving is ultimately meaningless. True fulfillment comes not from pushing through at any cost but from finding balance and prioritizing what truly matters.

A Personal Battle with Striving

As an author and mother, I constantly battle the urge to strive. Balancing my career with caring for my family, I often remind myself of God’s call to prioritize people over work. Despite the demands of my career, I pause to make dinner, spend time with my children, and care for my elderly grandmother. This balance reminds me that if I focus on God’s work—caring for others—He will take care of my work.

Corrie ten Boom beautifully captured this sentiment:

“If you look at the world, you’ll be distressed. If you look within, you’ll be depressed. If you look at God you’ll be at rest.”

Striving in the Right Way

If we must strive, let it be in alignment with God’s will:

Colossians 3:23: “Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men.”Hebrews 12:1: “Let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.”Philippians 3:14: “I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.”Conclusion

Ecclesiastes teaches us to find joy and meaning in the present, to balance striving with contentment, and to prioritize our relationship with God above all else. As we reflect on these lessons, may we seek wisdom, embrace life’s uncertainties, and strive for what truly matters.

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June 8
Ecclesiastes 11:7-10, Ecclesiastes 12, 1 Kings 12, 2 Chronicles 10, 2 Chronicles 11:1-17 Trusting God’s Control

As we conclude our journey through the book of Ecclesiastes, the Teacher leaves us with profound wisdom. The beauty of life is in its balance—the joy of light and the inevitability of darkness. Solomon advises us to rejoice in our years but to remember that life also brings challenges and uncertainties.

"Light is sweet, and it is pleasant for the eyes to see the sun."
- Ecclesiastes 11:7Youthful Rejoicing and Eternal Perspective"Rejoice, O young man, in your youth, and let your heart cheer you in the days of your youth."
- Ecclesiastes 11:9

Solomon reflects on the days of his youth, perhaps with a hint of nostalgia and regret. He urges the young to enjoy their lives while keeping in mind the greater purpose and eternal perspective. It’s a reminder that life’s pleasures are meant to be enjoyed, but they are not the ultimate source of meaning.

The Teacher’s Wisdom on Proclaiming God’s Truth

The Teacher understood the importance of delivering God’s truth effectively:

Teach people knowledge.Find acceptable words.Bring forth what is upright—words of truth.Make words as goads and well-driven nails, with point and direction.Speak the words given by one Shepherd.Acknowledge that good study is wearisome and be willing to pay that price.The Whole Duty of Man"The end of the matter; all has been heard. Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the whole duty of man. For God will bring every deed into judgment, with every secret thing, whether good or evil."
- Ecclesiastes 12:13-14

Solomon, a man who experienced the highs and lows of life, ends with a powerful reminder: our ultimate duty is to fear God and keep His commandments. Everything we do will be brought into judgment, emphasizing the need for a life lived in reverence to God.

Lessons from Rehoboam: 1 Kings 12 and 2 Chronicles 10-11

In our reading today, Rehoboam, Solomon’s son, becomes king. The people of Israel request lighter taxation and more lenient rule. Rehoboam seeks advice from the elders, who suggest he should listen to the people. Instead, he follows the counsel of his peers, asserting his authority even more forcefully.

"My father laid heavy burdens on you, but I’m going to make them even heavier! My father beat you with whips, but I will beat you with scorpions!"
- 1 Kings 12:14

Rehoboam’s harsh response leads to a rebellion, dividing the kingdom into Israel and Judah. Jeroboam becomes the king of the northern kingdom, establishing idol worship to prevent his subjects from returning to Jerusalem.

God’s Intervention

Rehoboam plans to fight Jeroboam, but God sends a prophet instructing them to avoid war. They listen, preventing further conflict. This act of obedience contrasts sharply with Rehoboam’s earlier prideful decisions.

Word of the Day: Control

Definition: The power to influence or direct people’s behavior or the course of events.

Trusting God’s Control

At the end of Ecclesiastes, Solomon emphasizes that God is in control and that our duty is to fear Him and keep His commandments. This truth extends to Rehoboam’s story, where his struggle for control led to division and conflict.

When we try to control situations out of fear, it often leads to more problems. Instead, we should look to God, who is ultimately in control. As Susie Larson wisely said, “The enemy amplifies your fears. He makes a big deal out of your weaknesses. He exaggerates your troubles. And He lies about your worth.”

Turning Over Control to God

“The Lord is my shepherd; I have all that I need. He lets me rest in green meadows; he leads me beside peaceful streams.”
– Psalms 23:1-2

Turning over control to God means trusting Him as our Shepherd, believing that He provides for us, leads us to peace, and fights for us. When we relinquish our need to control, we find true peace and security in His guidance.

Conclusion

As we wrap up our study of Ecclesiastes and learn from the history of Israel, let’s remember that our ultimate duty is to trust God, follow His commandments, and live with the assurance that He is in control. This perspective allows us to enjoy life’s blessings without being overwhelmed by its challenges.

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Writer’s Desk with Ann H. Gabhart

Writer’s Desk with Ann H. Gabhart Tricia GoyerWriter’s Desk with Ann H. Gabhart

Ann H. Gabhart is the bestselling author of many novels, including The Song of Sourwood Mountain, In the Shadow of the River, When the Meadow Blooms, Along a Storied Trail, An Appalachian Summer, River to Redemption, These Healing Hills, and Angel Sister. She and her husband live on a farm a mile from where she was born in rural Kentucky. Ann enjoys discovering the everyday wonders of nature while hiking in her farm’s fields and woods with her grandchildren and her dogs, Frankie and Marley.

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More about The Pursuit of Elena Bradford

Nothing would please her family more than her securing an admirable match, but true love and loyalty are harder to come by than she imagined.

At twenty-two, Elena Bradford has never met a man who made her consider marriage. But when her father dies and leaves the family deeply in debt, Elena becomes their only hope. Her mother uses their last funds to take Elena and her younger sister to Graham Springs, Kentucky, where people find healing by drinking the mineral spring water and healthy recreation through the many daily activities–including dances almost every evening.

As her mother schemes to find Elena a wealthy husband, Elena finds herself drawn to two men her mother would never consider. Charming artist Kirby Frazier spends his days drawing and painting the guests, but his real mission is to find a wealthy bride to finance his dream to go west. Melancholy Andrew Harper has come to Graham Springs in need of healing after a broken heart.

When a beautiful young lady shows up at the Springs with no chaperone and a story that seems suspicious, nearly everyone is charmed and intrigued. But when an unexpected tragedy occurs, Elena, Kirby, and Andrew will all be faced with decisions of life, love, and loyalty.

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Q&A with Ann H. Gabhart

ARCF: What inspired the central theme of The Pursuit of Elena Bradford ?

AHG: The story centers around family and how a person sometimes must sacrifice her own dreams and expectations for the ones she loves. I like writing about family relationships, especially sisters, perhaps because I have two sisters who are my best friends.

ARCF: How would you describe Elena in one sentence?

AHG: Elena is attractive but has never thought of herself as pretty even though she has striking blue-green eyes that hint at her artistic nature.

ARCF: Is there a particular historical or emotional backdrop that anchors this story?

AHG: The setting, Graham Springs, was an actual resort that was a popular place to go to “take the waters” in the first half of the 19th Century. The history of Graham Springs with its spring water reputed to heal various ailments is threaded throughout the story as Elena and the other characters take advantage of the healing waters, the lawn bowling, battledore (badminton), beautiful gardens of flowers, and the elaborate balls in the evenings. The initial inspiration that took me to Graham Springs was reading about the mysterious woman who showed up at the resort, gave a fake name, charmed the men, and danced the night away until the day came to a tragic end. Her identity is still unknown to this day although various theories have been advanced, and now I’ve added my own story about the dancing lady.

ARCF: What do you hope readers feel or reflect on after finishing the novel?

AHG: I always want readers to be glad they read my book and met my characters. I hope they will think about the importance of family and of trusting the Lord to make a way out of no way.

ARCF: Which secondary character do you secretly (or not so secretly) love the most—and why?

AHG: When I’m writing a story, I often have a surprise character walk into the story that I didn’t expect to become an important character. That happened with General Dawson in this story. At first, I intended him to merely be an older gentleman Elena and her sister dreaded seeing come their way to ask them to dance. He was far from the most accomplished dancer, stepped on their toes, and bent their ears with stories about when he was part of the calvary. But he just wouldn’t move off the dance floor or out of Elena’s story. The General turned out to have the wisdom of many years of experience to share and the kindly manner of a true gentleman. He understood more than most and was always showing up just when needed in a scene. I was very relieved when the spring water helped him become stronger and gave him more energy for those dances.

ARCF: How did you approach the romantic elements in this story? Was it love at first draft?

AHG: Definitely not love at first draft or even first thought. Throughout much of the story I was as unsure as Elena exactly how the romance would work out, but I kept writing until she finally stepped into the arms of the one who was perfect for her. 

ARCF: Were there any characters that refused to behave the way you originally planned?

AHG: Characters always have a way of surprising me as the story unfolds. Elena, Kirby, Andrew, and Ivy all grew and changed in ways I didn’t foresee. Perhaps Elena did so most of all as she became less focused on her own hopes and dreams and was willing to do whatever was needed for her family.

ARCF: If Elena could give advice to your readers, what would she say?

AGH: She would say that life can spring surprises on you and that sometimes a person must put their own dreams aside for the good of those she loves. She would then tell them that prayers are answered, sometimes in unexpected ways, but that whether the answer is what you hoped for or not, you can always depend on the Lord’s love and help.

ARCF: What was the most rewarding—and most difficult—part of writing this novel?

AHG: It is always rewarding to walk my characters through a story, have them come to life in my imagination, and then find a satisfying ending for their fictional journeys. The most difficult part of writing this novel was stepping into this background where most of the characters were wealthy and accustomed to the finer things in life. Many of my books are set in rural areas or small towns with characters who have no concerns about social standing but merely get by as best they can. They are more like me, a small town, country girl. But I did enjoy bringing Elena to life and dressing her up in elaborate ballgowns to dance the nights away. Many things–love, loyalty to family, personal faith, and more–hold out the same challenges and joys whatever the financial situation of a character.

ARCF: Did you discover anything new during your research for this book?

AHG: I love researching the historical backgrounds of my novels and discovering things to bring my story to life. That was certainly true with the background of The Pursuit of Elena Bradford. I learned more about the spring waters people hoped would be healing. Best, I liked finding out about the owner of the Springs, Christopher Columbus Graham. He was a soldier, an explorer, a doctor, and an author along with being the best offhand rifle shot in the country. He lived to be 103 which perhaps proved his spring water did have healing properties. I learned about ballroom dancing and what ladies of the day were expected to wear. That made me glad styles have changed!

ARCF: Do you plot everything in advance, or do you let the story unfold as you write?

AHG: I am not a plotter. I come up with my main characters, my setting, my historical elements, and a vague idea of what might happen next and then put my fingers on my keyboard and let the story come to me. Years ago, I took a correspondence writing course where the last assignment was to write a novel outline. I never sent in that assignment since instead of writing the outline, I wrote the novel. I’ve been writing books ever since.

ARCF: What snack or drink got you through late-night writing sessions?

AHG: Black tea, hot and unsweetened.

ARCF: If your book had a scent or candle inspired by it, what would it smell like?

AHG: Roses. Yellow roses, specifically, along with other flowers. That is because the gardens at Graham Springs played such a part in my story. Especially those roses.

ARCF: Can you share one line or moment from the book that makes you especially proud?

AHG: I liked my opening lines. I thought they revealed Elena’s character and her dilemma at the story’s beginning.

Elena Bradford had yet to meet the man to make her consider marriage.

She would, her mother assured her when Elena was younger.

She should, her mother insisted when Elena turned twenty.

She must, her mother demanded when Elena’s father died.

ARCF: If Elena were living in today’s world, what career or path might she pursue?

AHG: She would be an artist since sketching and painting brought her joy. However, since even in today’s world artists can struggle for enough success to support themselves with their art, she might have combined her eye for beauty and her love of flowers to become a florist or a landscape artist.

ARCF: What’s one spoiler-free secret or surprise you can tease to get readers excited?

AHG: A cat shows up out of nowhere to climb into Elena’s lap when she most needs a friend. Pet lovers will enjoy meeting this cat that seems just a little more than the normal stray cat.

ARCF: And finally, can you share what’s coming up next for you?  

AHG: I headed back to the Appalachian area in Kentucky for a new story about a young woman, Kallie Mae, who has a hunger to learn to read after missing out on going to school when she was a child due to family sorrows. Being able to attend one of the Moonlight Schools, started by Cora Wilson Stewart in 1911 to teach adults, opens new doors to learning for Kallie and gives her a chance for love.

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Let Yourself Rest, Mama!

Let Yourself Rest, Mama! Tricia Goyer

I’ll never forget a particular day back in 2006. I was sick—truly sick—and for once, I let myself stay in bed. The stuffed nose and sore throat weren’t fun, but (should I admit this?) the idea of going nowhere and doing nothing kind of appealed to me.

And do you know what surprised me the most?

The world didn’t stop turning.

The kids still did their schoolwork. I emerged from my cocoon a few times to help with math problems or find the missing phonics book. My 11-year-old made me lunch, and a sweet friend brought over homemade chicken noodle soup. (Thank you again, Twyla!) My errands? Handled by my teenage son, who was more than happy to burn my gas instead of his. Even from bed, I managed to catch up on my Beth Moore Bible study, read a bit of A.W. Tozer, and email my to-do list to my amazing website team.

And yes, I did all of it from beneath my comforter, in my coziest pajamas, without brushing my hair.

Looking back, that day reminds me of something we all need to hear from time to time:

It’s okay to rest. In fact, sometimes it’s essential.

When You’re Sick (or Just Worn Out), the World Can Wait

As homeschool moms, we often feel like everything depends on us. The lesson plans, the meals, the laundry piles, the emotional temperature of the house… it’s a lot. And while we joyfully carry this calling, there are days when our bodies—or our spirits—just need to pause.

Mama, hear this: Resting isn’t failure. It’s faithful stewardship.

Even God rested. After creating the entire universe, He set the example for us—not because He needed it, but because we would.

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” – Matthew 11:28

“In peace I will lie down and sleep, for you alone, Lord, make me dwell in safety.” – Psalm 4:8

“The Lord is my shepherd; I lack nothing. He makes me lie down in green pastures, He leads me beside quiet waters, He refreshes my soul.” – Psalm 23:1-3a

“Be still, and know that I am God.” – Psalm 46:10

“So then, there remains a Sabbath rest for the people of God.” – Hebrews 4:9

God doesn’t expect you to keep going nonstop. In fact, His Word commands us to rest—because He knows our limits better than we do.

5 Things to Tell Yourself When You Need a Sick Day“I’m not failing my family by resting. I’m modeling good stewardship of the body God gave me.”“My kids can learn flexibility, responsibility, and compassion when I step back.”“Rest is productive. It allows me to recover so I can serve with renewed strength.”“God is with me in the quiet. He sees, He cares, and He will carry what I can’t.”“This is a season, not a setback. My value isn’t in what I accomplish, but in Whose I am.”

So today, if you’re fighting a fever or just worn down by a hard homeschool week, give yourself permission to rest.

Curl up in your bed with a warm drink.Let the kids eat cereal for dinner.Say yes to a movie day or independent reading time.Ask for help if you need it.

You don’t have to push through everything. The world will wait. God’s grace never runs out.

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Needy Isn’t Always Greedy

Needy Isn’t Always Greedy Tricia Goyer

Yesterday, I found myself overwhelmed by a familiar feeling—I was just plain needy.

Needy for love. Needy for attention. Needy for someone to notice me, think of me, say a kind word. I wanted to know that what I was doing mattered, that my efforts were appreciated. I longed for encouragement… and maybe a few more 5-star book reviews (just being honest!).

Have you ever felt that way, too?

I’ve had days where I wonder:

What is wrong with me? Why can’t I be content for more than a few moments? Why doesn’t the sunny attitude I started with last through the afternoon?

It’s in those moments I’m tempted to shame myself—You should be more grateful. You should be stronger. But then I remember a quote that once showed up in my inbox like a little love note from God:

“God created us to have needs, not counting them as sinful or selfish. Without them, we’d have no way of knowing our need for God or how much He loves us.”

—Anonymous

Yes. That’s it. That’s the truth I needed to hear.

God intentionally made us with needs. They aren’t flaws. They’re invitations—reminders that we were never meant to live independently from Him. When I feel empty, discouraged, or even overlooked, it’s not a sign of failure. It’s a signal that it’s time to reconnect with the only One who truly satisfies.

“And my God will supply all your needs according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus.”
—Philippians 4:19 (CSB)

When I sit with Jesus in those needy moments, I find that His presence fills the empty spaces in my heart. I feel His pleasure when I pray. I sense His nearness when I open His Word. I may still be waiting on encouragement from people, but I’m no longer starved for hope.

5 Ways God Meets Our Deepest Needs

1. God Meets Our Need for Love with His Constant Presence

“I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.”
—Jeremiah 31:3 (NIV)

God doesn’t just love us when we’re strong or successful. He loves us when we’re weak, weepy, and wondering if we’ll ever be enough.

2. God Meets Our Need for Purpose through His Calling

“For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.”
—Ephesians 2:10 (NIV)

Even when no one notices, God sees. The dishes you wash, the encouragement you give, the words you write—they are all part of His eternal plan.

3. God Meets Our Need for Encouragement through His Word

“The law of the Lord is perfect, refreshing the soul.”
—Psalm 19:7 (NIV)

When people are silent or forgetful, God’s Word speaks. Open your Bible, and you’ll find reminders of who you are and whose you are.

4. God Meets Our Need for Identity by Naming Us His Own

“See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God!”
—1 John 3:1 (NIV)

You are not just a face in the crowd. You’re a beloved child of the King.

5. God Meets Our Need for Strength by Giving Us His Spirit

“He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak.”
—Isaiah 40:29 (NIV)

You don’t have to muscle through the day alone. God is with you, and He empowers you through His Spirit.

When You’re Feeling Needy, Remember This:

It’s okay to feel needy. It’s okay to feel like you need someone to care, someone to see you, someone to love you. And guess what? You do.

“Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.”
—1 Peter 5:7 (NIV)

God does care. He’s not asking you to “get it together.” He’s inviting you to bring your messy, hungry, aching heart straight to Him.

So next time you catch yourself in the mirror, whisper this reminder:

“If I didn’t have needs, I wouldn’t need God. So, Sister, bring those needs to the One who is already thinking about you and loving you more than you can imagine.”

What’s one need you’re bringing to God today? I’d love to hear—and pray for you. Share in the comments below.

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Summer Bucket List BINGO!

Summer Bucket List BINGO! Tricia Goyer

When I was a kid, most of my summer days were spent outside. Sure, I loved to read, but sunshine and fresh air were non-negotiable. Why? My mom kicked me out of the house—and sometimes locked the door behind me! I had to find places to go and things to do. Can you relate?

Now, as a mom of ten, I’ve heard those familiar words more times than I can count: “I’m bored.” Which often means, “Mom, entertain me,” or “Can I have more screen time?” But summer isn’t meant for just screens and snacks—it’s a gift from God, filled with sunshine, growth, discovery, and memory-making.

Let’s help our kids finish summer well—with fun, meaningful activities they’ll remember! Here’s your printable Summer Bucket List BINGO for each age group. Pick 5 in a row (horizontal, vertical, or diagonal) to complete a “BINGO.” Then, for a real challenge, go for a blackout!

Summer BINGO for Babies & Toddlers
(Ages 0–3)Splash in a kiddie poolWater play with cups, spoons, or water toysBlow bubblesFinger paint with yogurt or edible paintsStroller nature walkDance in the sprinklerRead books outsideSing songs with hand motionsVisit a farmPlay with sidewalk chalkWatch butterfliesScoop and pour sandPick wildflowersSensory bin playCuddle and cloud-watchTaste-test fruit slicesBuild a block tower outdoorsUse toy trucks and cars in the dirtGaze at the stars (early evening)Practice animal sounds with stuffed animalsMake fruit juice or yogurt popsiclesMake homemade ice creamPlan a play date at a local playground or parkPaint with water on the sidewalkEnjoy a popsicle picnic on a blanket Summer BINGO for Preschoolers
(Ages 4–6)Visit a farmer’s marketGo berry pickingBuild a toilet paper roll bird feederPaint rocksColor scavenger huntFly a kiteMake juice popsiclesBackyard picnicWatch a sunsetNature walk leaf collectionPress flowers in a bookBuild a cardboard fortRoast marshmallowsPuddle jumpLibrary summer reading programCreate a nature collageBuild with pool noodlesHave a costume paradeCatch raindrops in cupsTrace shadows with chalkWatch fireworks or stargazeCatch firefliesMake homemade ice creamCreate bubble artFreeze small toys in ice and excavate Summer BINGO for Elementary Kids
(Ages 7–10)Bug collection boxSidewalk chalk muralsMake a time capsuleSkip rocksVisit a nature center or museumFamily bike rideBackyard campoutFlashlight tagPaper airplane contestTry geocachingPlant flower or veggie gardenDesign a board gameCatch firefliesMemorize a Bible verseStart a book clubBuild LEGO summer scenesDIY birdhouse craftWater balloon fightHave a family game nightMake your own comic stripJoin a summer reading programHost a lemonade standBake cookies from scratchCreate a treasure huntLearn a Bible verse song Summer BINGO for Tweens
(Ages 11–13)Build a stick fortDIY science experimentBake and deliver cookiesWrite a short storyCreate a summer scrapbookNature photographyChalk mural projectMake a video journalPrayer journalCook dinner for familyGo fishingMake homemade pizzaStart a lemonade standWrite letters to grandparentsStargaze and ID constellationsLibrary summer reading challengeBabysit a siblingVolunteer at church eventHave a day at the lakeLearn an origami craftTry a new outdoor sportMake tie-dye shirtsDesign a family flagBuild a bird bathOrganize a clothing or toy donation Summer BINGO for Teens
(Ages 14+)Volunteer locallyDIY photoshoot with friendsSunrise hikeHost a themed movie nightLearn a new skillIce cream outing with siblingRedecorate your roomRead a book & review itCook a full mealJournal through PsalmsOrganize a closet or garageLead a Bible study for siblingsCreate a worship playlistBabysit for a neighborHave a day at the lakeMake a vlog or blogDo yard work for a neighborPlan a no-tech dayServe at VBS or church campPlan a game night for familyWatch fireworksOrganize a car wash fundraiserLearn a new worship song on an instrumentPlan and lead a family devotionTry out a new podcast and discuss it with family

Summer Tip for Parents: Print each BINGO sheet by age group or write the ideas on a poster. Encourage your kids to fill in a row for a special treat—or go for a blackout challenge by summer’s end!

Encourage Connection: Summer is a gift. Let’s use it to laugh more, explore more, read more, and grow in grace together.

“This is the day the Lord has made; we will rejoice and be glad in it.” – Psalm 118:24Prayer for a Joyful Summer:

Lord, thank You for the warmth and joy of summer. Help us use this season to draw closer to each other and to You. Bless our family with laughter, learning, and rest. Help us cherish the ordinary and see Your goodness in the small moments. Amen.

Do you have a favorite summer activity? Share it in the comments!

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When You Feel Like an Outsider

When You Feel Like an Outsider Tricia Goyer

Many years ago, my husband John and I found ourselves searching for a new church home. With a preschooler, a toddler, and a baby on the way, most Sundays felt like a balancing act—and honestly, I spent more time out of the sanctuary than in it.

One Sunday, we visited a large church with a cry room. I quietly slipped in with my toddler, my heart already worn thin. As I entered, I felt every mom in the room glance my way. No one was unkind, but I didn’t feel seen either. I settled on the sofa, found a toy for my daughter, and listened to the other moms continue their conversation—without acknowledging me.

I didn’t expect a welcome committee. But I hoped for connection. And instead, I felt invisible.

Looking back now, I’m sure they were just curious about the new mom who had wandered in. Still, I remember the sting of that moment.

The whisper that said, You don’t belong here.

A few years later, I took my youngest kids to a Vacation Bible School at a church we don’t attend, and again I felt it—that same whisper. Families greeted each other, grouped together, and I stood off to the side wondering if anyone noticed me at all.

Whether you’re a young mom, a single adult, a visitor, or someone walking into church with emotional baggage no one can see—feeling like an outsider is something most of us have experienced. But in those moments, God’s truth speaks louder than any insecurity.

5 Truths to Remember When You Feel Like an Outsider

1. You can still choose connection.
Even when it feels awkward or uncomfortable, God invites us to reach out. One smile, one hello, one moment of courage—it can change everything.

“A friend loves at all times.” —Proverbs 17:17

2. You’re not alone in feeling alone.
Chances are someone else is standing on the sidelines too. Instead of shrinking back, let’s look around for someone else who needs a friendly face.

“Therefore encourage one another and build each other up.” —1 Thessalonians 5:11

3. Jesus understands what it means to be left out.
Born in a stable. Rejected by His hometown. Misunderstood by the very people He came to save. Jesus sees you—and He walks with you.

“He was despised and rejected by men, a man of suffering who knew what sickness was.” —Isaiah 53:3

4. Prayer changes perspective.
When insecurity rises up, prayer settles it down. Invite Jesus into your awkwardness and let His peace fill the gaps.

“Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything.” —Philippians 4:6–7

5. We are called to welcome others just as Christ welcomed us.
It’s not just about being included—it’s about including others. We are Christ’s ambassadors, and hospitality is part of His heart.

“Therefore welcome one another as Christ has welcomed you, for the glory of God.” —Romans 15:7Will You Reach Out?

I’m thankful that over the years, those “outsider” moments have become fewer. But when they do creep in, I now have a game plan. Instead of retreating, I try to reach out. Because someone else might need the exact welcome I wish I had received.

So what about you? Have you seen someone at church who stands alone? A newcomer who seems unsure where to go? A visitor wrangling kids with tired eyes?

Smile. Say hello. Ask their name. Offer a seat or a helping hand. These small acts may seem simple, but they reflect the heart of Jesus more than we know.

Let’s be people who notice the unnoticed.
Let’s be the welcome someone’s heart is quietly hoping for.
Let’s create a church where no one stands alone.

With joy and grace,
Tricia Goyer

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Weekly readings for the Daily Bible Podcast with Tricia and MichelleMay 26
I Kings 4, Psalm 72, Psalm 127 Abundance in the Land

In today’s readings, we explore the reign of King Solomon, focusing on his officials, governors, and the remarkable peace and prosperity of his kingdom.

1 Kings 4 details Solomon’s officials and governors, who managed provisions for his vast kingdom. Each of the twelve district governors ensured the kingdom had ample food for one month a year. The people of Judah were numerous and content, enjoying plenty to eat and drink. Solomon’s rule extended from the Euphrates River to Egypt, and neighboring kingdoms paid him tribute. “God gave Solomon very great wisdom and understanding, and knowledge as vast as the sands of the seashore” (1 Kings 4:29). Solomon composed 3,000 proverbs and 1,005 songs and spoke with authority on various subjects, attracting people from all around to hear his wisdom.

Psalm 72 is a prayer for the king, asking God to grant the king a heart for righteousness, a hand for justice, and compassion for the poor and needy. This psalm, attributed to either Solomon or David, reflects a heart of humility and recognition that all good things come from God.

Psalm 127, a song of ascents written by Solomon, emphasizes that everything we have is from the Lord. It highlights the blessing of children, describing them as a gift and reward from God.

Word of the Day: Abundance

Definition: Ample quantity, affluence, and wealth, plentifulness.

Praise God in Times of Plenty

Have you ever experienced a time when everything seemed to be going well? This was the case for King Solomon in Israel. He had an abundance of wisdom, population, wealth, and peace. This prosperity resulted not from Solomon’s military victories but from the wise leadership of his father, King David, and God’s providence.

God’s promise to Abraham in Genesis 22:17 was fulfilled during Solomon’s reign: “I will certainly bless you. I will multiply your descendants beyond number, like the stars in the sky and the sand on the seashore. Your descendants will conquer the cities of their enemies.” Israel thrived and grew, as David prayed in Psalm 72:6-7, “May the king’s rule be refreshing like spring rain on freshly cut grass, like the showers that water the earth. May all the godly flourish during his reign. May there be abundant prosperity until the moon is no more.”

When we’re doing well and have plenty, we should praise God for everything, including our children. It’s essential to be humble and thankful, recognizing that God’s goodness and mercy allow us to enjoy life. However, we must also remember that in times of abundance, we can easily forget our need for God.

Recognizing Abundance in Our Lives

What does abundance look like in your life? It might be time—what I wouldn’t give for a few more hours in my day! Maybe you have more money than you need, an abundance of creativity, leadership abilities, love, or friends.

Think of a flourishing garden in the fall, reaping an abundant harvest of vegetables and fruit. The rain, like in Psalm 72, nurtures the plants, and the right balance of sun and clouds allows them to thrive. You tend to your garden, pulling weeds and caring for it throughout the summer. As you harvest, prepare food for your family, share with friends, and preserve some for the winter, you experience true abundance. God blesses us, and we do some of the work.

Personal Takeaway

Reflect on Solomon’s reign and the importance of seeking wisdom, humility, and obedience in your own life. How can you apply these principles to experience God’s blessings and prosperity?

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May 27
Proverbs 1-4 The Importance of Wisdom

The book of Proverbs is a rich collection of wisdom literature, primarily attributed to Solomon. It’s structured into six units, with chapters 1-9 serving as a general prologue. A recurring theme is that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, a phrase unique to Israelite poetry.

Proverbs 4:13 urges us to "Hold on to instruction, do not let it go; guard it well, for it is your life."Proverbs 1

Proverbs 1:8-9 emphasizes the importance of parental teaching:

“Listen, my son, to your father’s instruction and do not forsake your mother’s teaching. They are a garland to grace your head and a chain to adorn your neck.”

Key lessons include:

The importance of teaching our children about dangers and wisdom.The consequences of ignoring wisdom: “For they hated knowledge and chose not to fear the LORD. They rejected my advice and paid no attention when I corrected them. Therefore, they must eat the bitter fruit of living their own way, choking on their own schemes.” (Proverbs 1:29-31)Proverbs 2

This chapter lists desirable attributes to seek: wisdom, knowledge, understanding, and insight. God provides these to protect and guide the faithful.

Proverbs 3

Proverbs 3:21 encourages us to maintain common sense and discernment:

“My child, don’t lose sight of common sense and discernment. Hang on to them, for they will refresh your soul. They are like jewels on a necklace.”

Proverbs 3:5-6 is a well-known passage:

“Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”Proverbs 4

A reinforcement of earlier lessons: don’t forget wisdom and guard your heart diligently. The heart is described as the wellspring of life, emphasizing the need for vigilance in what influences it.

Word of the Day: Wisdom

Definition: The quality of having experience, knowledge, and good judgment; the quality of being wise.

Seeking Wisdom in Today’s World

In an age of information, true wisdom is often overlooked. Young people today may fill their minds with fleeting entertainment rather than seeking lasting wisdom. To seek wisdom:

Fear of the Lord: Have reverence and awe for God.Accept Correction: Be open to learning from mistakes and receiving guidance.

Proverbs 3:11-12 reminds us:

“My child, don’t reject the LORD’s discipline, and don’t be upset when he corrects you. For the LORD corrects those he loves, just as a father corrects a child in whom he delights.”Guarding Our Hearts

Proverbs urges us to guard our hearts against negative influences. Be mindful of what we consume and who we spend time with.

“As Satan keeps special watch here, so must we keep special watch as well. If the citadel is taken, the whole town must surrender. If the heart is captured, the whole man—affections, desires, motives, pursuits—will be handed over.”

Jerry Bridges

Personal Takeaway

Reflect on how you can apply these principles of wisdom and vigilance in your life. How can you seek God’s wisdom and guard your heart against distractions?

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May 28
Proverbs 5-7 Focusing on Preparation

Today, our focus is on three chapters from the Book of Proverbs: Proverbs 5, 6, and 7. These chapters are rich in wisdom and offer practical advice for living a life pleasing to God. As we delve into these passages, we’ll highlight the Word of the Day: Prepare, and draw out personal takeaways to make the teachings relevant to our daily lives.

Proverbs 5: The Peril of Immorality

In Proverbs 5, we find a father urgently warning his son about the dangers of succumbing to the allure of an immoral woman. Her lips may seem sweet like honey, but in the end, she leads to destruction and death. The father’s plea is clear: avoid the temptation at all costs and stay true to the one God has given you.

This chapter resonates deeply as it highlights the deceptive nature of sin. Sexual sin, in particular, can quickly ensnare a person, bringing regret and pain. The analogy to Eve’s temptation in the Garden of Eden reminds us that sin often appears desirable but ultimately leads to ruin. God sees every path we take, and He examines our actions. This is a call to stay vigilant and avoid the traps of sin, whatever form they may take.

Proverbs 6: Practical Wisdom for Daily Life

Proverbs 6 offers a wealth of practical advice, cautioning against unwise financial agreements and encouraging diligence and hard work. The example of the industrious ant serves as a reminder of the value of preparation and planning. This chapter also addresses the severe consequences of adultery, emphasizing the destruction it brings to one’s life and reputation.

A notable part of this chapter is the list of seven things that the Lord detests:

Haughty eyes (pride)A lying tongueHands that shed innocent bloodA heart that devises wicked schemesFeet that are quick to rush into evilA false witness who pours out liesA person who stirs up conflict in the community

These verses remind us that sin is multifaceted, encompassing our actions, words, thoughts, attitudes, and the impact we have on others. Understanding what God hates helps us align our lives with His will and seek His forgiveness when we fall short.

Proverbs 7: The Power of Temptation

Proverbs 7 continues the theme of avoiding sexual immorality, with the father urging his son to guard his heart and obey God’s commands. The seductive tactics of the immoral woman are vividly described, highlighting how temptation can be alluring but ultimately destructive.

The commentary on this chapter underscores the power of experience to shape our habits. Surrendering to temptation strengthens its hold on us, making it increasingly difficult to resist in the future. This is a powerful reminder of the importance of building godly habits and relying on God’s strength to overcome temptation.

Word of the Day: Prepare

Definition: To make ready beforehand.

The wisdom in Proverbs serves to prepare us by teaching what is right and wrong, and giving advice on how to please God. As Proverbs 6:20-22 says:

“My son, keep your father’s command and do not forsake your mother’s teaching. Bind them always on your heart; fasten them around your neck. When you walk, they will guide you; when you sleep, they will watch over you; when you awake, they will speak to you.”

Preparation is a theme that runs throughout our lives. Whether it’s planning a garden, preparing for a trip, or guiding our children, taking the time to prepare is crucial.

Personal Takeaway

Reflecting on these chapters, I am reminded of the importance of preparation in my spiritual journey. Just as my parents prepared the garden for planting, I need to prepare my heart to receive God’s wisdom. This involves studying His Word, seeking His guidance, and building habits that honor Him.

Moreover, understanding what God hates and recognizing the seductive nature of sin helps me stay vigilant. I am thankful for Jesus, who faced God’s wrath on our behalf and offers forgiveness and freedom from sin. With the Holy Spirit’s help, I can live differently, aligning my life with God’s will.

Proverbs 5, 6, and 7 provide timeless wisdom that prepares us to navigate life’s challenges. By embracing these teachings, we can avoid the pitfalls of sin and live in a way that honors God. Let’s take to heart the lessons from these chapters, prepare ourselves with God’s wisdom, and strive to live lives marked by righteousness and integrity.

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May 29
Proverbs 8-10 Seeking the Wisdom of God

Welcome to today’s blog post accompanying the Daily Bible Podcast! Our focus is on three chapters from the Book of Proverbs: Proverbs 8, 9, and 10. These chapters are rich in wisdom and provide practical advice for living a life pleasing to God. As we delve into these passages, we’ll highlight the Word of the Day: Seeking, and draw out personal takeaways to make the teachings relevant to our daily lives.

Proverbs 8: The Beauty of Wisdom

G. Campbell Morgan described Proverbs 8 as having “nothing greater or grander in all the Biblical literature, as setting forth the beauty and grace of that wisdom which has the fear of Jehovah as its chief part.” In this chapter, we turn from the adulterous woman to Lady Wisdom, who offers invaluable treasures. Wisdom calls out to us from hilltops and town gates, urging us to embrace what is right, true, and wholesome. Her gifts—knowledge and understanding—are more precious than rubies, silver, or gold. Wisdom teaches us to hate evil, pride, arrogance, corruption, and perverse speech. The close connection between wisdom and God brings joy to those who follow, listen, watch, and wait for her.

Proverbs 9: The Invitation of Wisdom and Folly

In Proverbs 9, wisdom and folly are personified, each inviting us to follow them. Wisdom hosts a feast in her seven-pillared mansion, symbolizing perfection and stability. In contrast, Folly lures the naive with stolen pleasures, leading them toward death and the grave.

Proverbs 9:12 states,

“If you become wise, you will be the one to benefit. If you scorn wisdom, you will be the one to suffer.” This chapter emphasizes the importance of seeking wisdom, understanding, and virtuous behavior, which lead to life.

This theme of a banquet is echoed in Matthew 22, where Jesus describes a great banquet and the invitations extended. Both passages highlight the choice between following wisdom or folly, representing godly versus worldly concerns.

Proverbs 10: The Proverbs of Solomon

With Proverbs 10, the book transitions from introductory teachings to a collection of Solomon’s wise sayings. These short, insightful proverbs often compare and contrast with each other, providing practical guidance for daily living.

For example, Proverbs 10:31 says,

“The mouth of the godly person gives wise advice, but the tongue that deceives will be cut off.” Similarly, Proverbs 10:12 states, “Hatred stirs up strife, but love covers all sins,” which is echoed in 1 Peter 4:8: “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.”Word of the Day: Seeking

Definition: Attempting to find something.

Proverbs 8:34-36 illustrates what seeking looks like:

“Blessed are those who listen to me, watching daily at my doors, waiting at my doorway. For those who find me find life and receive favor from the LORD. But those who fail to find me harm themselves; all who hate me love death.”

Seeking wisdom involves listening, watching daily, and waiting. It’s akin to a scholar waiting eagerly at the door of a school, longing to learn what is good and right. We are always seeking something, whether it’s knowledge, entertainment, or comfort. True seeking should focus on godly pursuits rather than self-indulgence.

Psalm 27:4 reflects a heart that seeks God:

“The one thing I ask of the LORD— the thing I seek most— is to live in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, delighting in the LORD’s perfections and meditating in his Temple.”Personal Takeaway

Reflecting on these chapters, I see the profound importance of seeking wisdom in my spiritual journey. Just as my parents prepared our garden, I need to prepare my heart to receive God’s wisdom. This involves studying His Word, seeking His guidance, and building habits that honor Him.

Understanding what God hates and recognizing the seductive nature of sin helps me stay vigilant. I am grateful for Jesus, who faced God’s wrath on our behalf and offers forgiveness and freedom from sin. With the Holy Spirit’s help, I can align my life with God’s will and seek to live differently.

Seeking Wisdom Daily

Proverbs 8:34-36 encourages us to seek wisdom actively. This means listening, watching daily, and waiting for wisdom. Just as a scholar eagerly awaits learning, we should eagerly seek God’s wisdom in our lives.

Modeling Seeking for Our Children

Solomon grew up observing his father David’s example, which profoundly impacted him. As parents, our duty is to model seeking God for our children. Ephesians 6:4 instructs fathers to bring up their children “in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” Our actions speak louder than words, and seeking God benefits us and sets an example for the next generation.

Proverbs 8, 9, and 10 provide timeless wisdom that prepares us to navigate life’s challenges. By embracing these teachings, we can avoid the pitfalls of sin and live in a way that honors God. Let’s take to heart the lessons from these chapters, prepare ourselves with God’s wisdom, and strive to live lives marked by righteousness and integrity.

What insights did you gain from today’s readings? How can you apply the wisdom of Proverbs in your daily life? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below!

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May 30
Proverbs 11-13 Encouragement when Hopes are Deferred

In today’s readings, we dive into the wisdom of Solomon in Proverbs 11, 12, and 13. Solomon, known as the wisest man in all the world, shares timeless truths through these chapters. The Hebrew word for wisdom, “khokhmah” (hook-mah), signifies not just knowledge but also skill and applied knowledge. As we explore these proverbs, let’s focus on how to apply these teachings in our daily lives. Remember, these proverbs are probabilities, not promises. They guide us on how to live rightly and treat each other kindly in a broken world.

Proverbs 11: The Way of the Righteous and the Wicked

Proverbs 11 is filled with contrasts between the righteous and the wicked. It emphasizes that godly people are rewarded while evil people are punished. Here are a few highlights:

Humility and Wisdom: “When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.” (Proverbs 11:2)Righteous Living: “The righteousness of the blameless makes their paths straight, but the wicked are brought down by their own wickedness.” (Proverbs 11:5)

The humble person knows that walking in God’s ways is the right way to live. We are encouraged to be gracious, giving, truthful, and honest, avoiding gossip and deceit.

Proverbs 12: Conduct and Character“The wicked die and disappear, but the family of the godly stands firm.” (Proverbs 12:7)

Proverbs 12 reflects on the conduct and character of people and the consequences of their actions. It provides a detailed description of the godly:

The plans of the godly are just.The words of the godly save lives.The godly care for their animals.The godly are well-rooted and bear their own fruit.The godly escape trouble.No harm comes to the godly.The godly give good advice to their friends.The way of the godly leads to life.

While these statements are generally true, we recognize that godly people still face trouble and harm. However, those who follow God experience fewer of these difficulties compared to those who don’t.

Proverbs 13: Listening to Wise Advice“Walk with the wise and become wise; associate with fools and get in trouble.” (Proverbs 13:20)

Proverbs 13 begins with a father advising his son to listen and accept wise correction. This chapter underscores the importance of choosing wise companions and heeding their advice.

Steven Curtis Chapman’s song “Walk with the Wise” beautifully encapsulates this idea:

“If we walk with the wise, we will grow wise,

And if we walk in the light, then our path will be bright.”

This song reminds us that wisdom is often passed down from those who have already walked the path we are on. By learning from their experiences, we too can grow wise.

Word of the Day: Defer

Definition: To put off to a later time; postpone.

“Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a dream fulfilled is a tree of life.” (Proverbs 13:12)

When our hope isn’t in the Lord but in earthly things, we can easily grow weary. Deferred hope can lead to a heavy heart. I have experienced this personally, as I’m sure many of you have. But even when we can’t see it, God has a plan, and we must remain faithful that He will bring that plan to fruition.

One commentary I read stated, “People can bear frustration only so long; they must have encouragement to continue. Perhaps believers should make it part of their task to help others realize their hopes whenever possible.” This is profoundly true. Encouragement can be scarce, but it is crucial. Reflecting on this verse now, I wonder if my hope has been misplaced in the past, wanting God to answer my prayers in my timing, not His.

Now, looking back, I see how life has bloomed in unexpected ways. There is gratitude and awe for all He has provided. If you feel heartsick from deferred hope, grieve the loss but set your hope on our Savior. He wants to fulfill our dreams and longings if they align with His will.

Personal Takeaway

God’s Word helps us navigate personal situations and emotions. It provides examples and teachings that guide our lives. Charles Spurgeon wisely said, “Nobody ever outgrows Scripture; the book widens and deepens with our years.” The Bible remains relevant, offering comfort, direction, and hope as we grow in understanding.

The more I read God’s Word, the more I want to read it. Let’s immerse ourselves in these proverbs, learn from them, and apply their wisdom to our lives. By doing so, we align ourselves with God’s will and experience the richness of His blessings.

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May 31
Proverbs 14-16 Reverence for God in our Daily Lives

Today’s readings take us through Proverbs 14, 15, and 16, offering profound insights into the “fear of the Lord”—a deep reverence for God’s knowledge, power, and direction. This reverence impacts our actions, decisions, and character, guiding us to live with integrity and righteousness.

Proverbs 14: The Fear of the Lord

Key Verses:

Proverbs 14:2: “Whoever fears the LORD walks uprightly, but those who despise him are devious in their ways.”Proverbs 14:27: “The fear of the LORD is a fountain of life, that one may turn away from the snares of death.”

Reverence for God leads to upright living and serves as a source of spiritual nourishment, helping us embrace the abundant life God desires for us.

Proverbs 15: The Power of Our Words

Proverbs 15 emphasizes the impact of our words. Gentle and wise words can defuse anger and bring life, much like a tree offering shade and fruit.

Key Concepts:

A soft answer turns away anger.Gentle words are a tree of life.Wise individuals listen to constructive criticism.Fools despise correction and discipline.

By seeking knowledge, thinking before speaking, and surrounding ourselves with wise advisors, we can harness the power of our words for good.

Proverbs 16: Living with Integrity and Trust in GodProverbs 16:3: “Commit your actions to the LORD, and your plans will succeed.”Proverbs 16:8: “Better to have little, with godliness, than to be rich and dishonest.”Proverbs 16:9: “We can make our plans, but the LORD determines our steps.”

Proverbs 16 highlights the importance of living with integrity, humility, and trust in God. By committing our actions to the Lord, we align our plans with His will, leading to success and righteousness.

Word of the Day: Reverence

Definition: Deep respect for someone or something. It comes from a gesture indicative of respect, like a bow or curtsy.

Proverbs 14:26: "In the fear of the LORD one has strong confidence, and his children will have a refuge."

Reverence for God provides confidence and assurance in His faithfulness, extending blessings to future generations. It’s a powerful legacy that can impact our children and their descendants.

Generational Impact of Reverence

Reverence for God can have a lasting impact across generations. A family deeply rooted in faith can stand strong even in challenging circumstances. My daughter Leslie’s family, part of the Christian Brethren Church in the Czech Republic, exemplifies this. Despite historical adversities, their reverence for God has been a refuge and blessing, leaving a legacy of faith for future generations.

Personal Reflection

How are you revering God today? What does this reverence look like in your daily life? Fostering a deep reverence for our Heavenly Father is essential for reflecting His greatness. Solomon’s life is a testament to using God-given wisdom humbly to demonstrate God’s greatness to the nations.

Proverbs 14-16 remind us to live with reverence, integrity, and trust in God. By committing our actions to the Lord and seeking His wisdom, we align our lives with His will, experiencing His favor and blessings. Let’s immerse ourselves in these proverbs and apply their wisdom, living godly lives that reflect our deep respect for God.

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June 1
Proverbs 17-19 Keeping a Sensible Perspective Proverbs 17: Wisdom, Justice, and FamilyProverbs 17:3: “The refining pot is for silver and the furnace for gold, but the Lord tests hearts.”Proverbs 17:20: “One whose heart is corrupt finds no good; and one whose tongue is perverse falls into trouble.”

As we age, we learn that true character is often revealed during difficult times. Hardships test our hearts, revealing hidden flaws and false beliefs. It’s during these moments that we see our true selves and realize the importance of aligning our desires with God’s will. Testing is challenging, but it’s a divine opportunity to purify our hearts and strengthen our faith.

Isaiah 26:8 reflects a pure heart’s desire:

"Yes, LORD, walking in the way of your laws, we wait for you; your name and renown are the desire of our hearts."Proverbs 18: The Power of the TongueProverbs 18:2: “Fools find no pleasure in understanding but delight in airing their own opinions.”Proverbs 18:10: “The name of the Lord is a strong tower; the righteous run to it and are safe.”

Proverbs 18 underscores the impact of our words. Foolish words lead to conflict and ruin, while wise words are life-giving and protective. Our speech can be a source of wisdom and safety when we rely on the Lord.

Proverbs 19: Controlling AngerProverbs 19:11: "Sensible people control their temper; they earn respect by overlooking wrongs."

This ties into Proverbs 16:32:

"Whoever is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city."

Anger is a powerful emotion, often rooted in deeper issues like abuse, abandonment, and pain. Understanding this helps us manage our reactions. Sensible people use good judgment and remain level-headed, recognizing that others’ anger often has little to do with them personally. Developing this perspective feels like a superpower, allowing us to navigate conflicts with grace and wisdom.

Word of the Day: Sensible

Definition: Having, using, or showing good sense or sound judgment. A sensible person is level-headed, calm, and makes wise decisions.

Exercising Good Judgment

Proverbs teaches us the value of wisdom and being level-headed. With age, I’ve learned that it’s not all about me. Here are practical ways to exercise good judgment:

Stay Calm: Others’ anger doesn’t have to affect you.Avoid Quarrels: Choose not to engage in conflicts.Set Boundaries: Recognize when it’s not your responsibility to solve others’ problems.Discern Rumors: Don’t spread rumors; defend those who are wronged.

Being sensible means leaning into God and trusted individuals while stepping back from those set on their own ways. Wisdom involves not wearing ourselves out trying to fix others, but speaking the truth and welcoming those willing to listen. Change must come from within, and only those who choose to change can truly transform.

Living Sensibly

Living sensibly involves making wise decisions and maintaining calmness and good sense. By doing so, we reflect the wisdom found in Proverbs and demonstrate a life guided by godly principles.

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