April Cassidy's Blog, page 42

A Big Lightbulb Moment about True Contentment

From WorthyofLove who shared about her husband’s old text messages a few weeks ago… April, Wow! I just had serious lightbulb…..and your name kept popping in my head so I just know I need to share it with you! God has been working on my heart much deeper these days since I last shared in […]

Things Got Worse at First When I Began to Change – by The Restored Wife

The Restored Wife Shares some of the most difficult parts of her journey with us (by the way, her husband’s response is pretty common): When I started this journey, I had no idea how to be respectful or submissive – our biggest issue at that time was the way both of us reacted any time there […]

What Is the Best Way to Handle the Finances?

      ————– In my view, there isn’t a specific “one right way” to handle money issues in a godly marriage. We want to use scriptural principles. We need to manage our money wisely, realizing we are stewards of all that God has given to us. The money is all His ultimately, it is […]

Not a “Successful Marriage Story”… Yet

  Check out my 35 minute interview from last Tuesday with Charlie and Keith at KLFC Radio in Branson, Missouri! ———— A guest post: This is my first time posting but I have followed your blog and been on the respectful wife journey now for about 3 years of my almost 7 year marriage. My […]

WorthyofLove Finally “Gets” Her Husband’s Text Messages

      TODAY’S GUEST POST: Sometimes, our husbands don’t share that they are feeling disrespected or that we are sinning against them and we have no idea we have contributed to the problems in our marriages. But other times, they truly do clearly try to explain that they feel unloved, mistreated, and disrespected – and we […]

A Wife Finally “Gets” Her Husband’s Text Messages

      TODAY’S GUEST POST: Sometimes, our husbands don’t share that they are feeling disrespected or that we are sinning against them and we have no idea we have contributed to the problems in our marriages. But other times, they truly do clearly try to explain that they feel unloved, mistreated, and disrespected – and we […]

Encouragement for Those Who Are “in the Trenches”

    1. SPIRITUAL HEALING TAKES TIME This journey is a process. There are stages. If there is major woundedness in an individual or in a marriage, it often takes a long time to heal. Expect that it will be many months or maybe even a year or years before anything close to “total healing” […]

4 Question Survey for Husbands

Gentlemen, I would love for all the husbands who can to please respond – it will help us as wives to better understand our brothers in Christ and our husbands, I believe. Thanks so much! We are also interested in any further explanation you would like to offer on these issues. We ladies tend to […]

Does Your Husband Contact You from Work? – A QUICK SURVEY

I’d love to hear as many responses as possible to these questions  to help me with a post I would like to write. Thanks so much for your help!!! And if you want to add anything else on these topics in the comments, please feel free to share. It may help me with the direction […]

Even Once My Marriage Is Healed – I Still Can’t Go Back to My Old Ways

Even now, I can’t possibly revert back to the way I used to interact and think about Greg.  I can’t cling to Greg in an unhealthy way. I must be sure I don’t idolize him. I need to continually take every thought captive for Christ as His power abides, fills, and strengthens me. I have a […]