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Viral Solution to Teen’s Messy Room Is Proven Success, Rhymes With Mice

Of course we love our teens but let’s face it, they are slobs. And, I’m not talking an ordinary mess, slovenliness is their superpower; clothes, food, empty dishes and utensils all over the house. We ask, we cajole we threaten or we throw in the towel and just shut their bedroom door. Sadly the behavior…

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How To Throw (And Enjoy) An Open House Graduation Party

If you are reading this, then you (like me) have a kid about to graduate. And I’m guessing you (like me) are probably a bit overwhelmed and in shock (or denial – I’m enjoying denial these days, please feel free to join me.). But while I can’t begin to think about the Fall, I do…

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Parents Need to Set Reasonable Boundaries and Stick to Them

Several jobs ago, I was a middle school dean of students. In charge of enforcing discipline, I regularly managed student situations that involved academic dishonesty, conflicts between classmates, and once–three young men caught walking on the school roof during recess. In general, I loved my job, but keeping middle schoolers on the straight and narrow…

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When Your “Grown and Flown” Moves Out of Town

Last July, my oldest daughter, who had just graduated from college, accepted a job offer in New York City. The fact that she had found a job—one that she happened to be very excited about—in the middle of a pandemic, was reason to celebrate. And yet, as happy as I was for her, I was…

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What Teens Feel When They Leave For College, But Don’t Tell Their Parents

Going away to college is a huge transition for many young adults. Some teens are nervous about heading to college, while others are excited and eager to get out of their hometown. There are things students may worry about, but not want to mention to their parents. 10 things teens really feel when they leave…

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Pride: Make Sure Your Child Feels Seen, Heard and Loved

Your home, like mine, is likely filled with photos, art, and representations of your family through the years. The lucite tissue box adorned with hand-drawn photos of mommy and daughter, made by a very talented Kindergartener. The glass I LOVE MOM paperweight bought at the 5th grade Mother’s Day fair, picked with care from among…

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10 Things Parents Do That College Students Love

College is often a stressful time of life, and sometimes it can feel like parents don’t understand what college students are going through. However, there are some things college students love that parents do; these are things that students sometimes don’t tell their parents.  Ten things you can do as a parent that your College…

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The Alternative to College That Could Be a Great Fit For Your Teen

After 70 years of downgrading and dismissing vocational ed—or what today is called Career Education Training (CTE)—America is taking a second look at this alternative to a bachelor’s degree, and you as a parent should too.  College is not a great fit for all teens Teens have a huge range of skills and learning styles.…

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Must-Have Decorations For an Easy Graduation Party 2021

We are gearing up to celebrate my son and the fact he will be graduating from high school in a few short months. His father will be hosting a small gathering after his commencement ceremony in his backyard and we wanted to make it as special as possible. After all, graduation represents years of hard…

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Photos of Joyful Grandparent Reunions Remind Us of Prom Pics Past

It’s COVID’s second spring, and I’m missing prom photos again on my social media feed. Like crocuses pressing through hard winter mulch, or the return of cherry blossoms and sparrow song, prom photos are a hopeful symbol of vernal renewal. As a mother of four and a survivor of adolescence, I understand the importance of the posing…

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