Cara Chow > Quotes

“That's the first time I've ever heard the idea of unconditional love outside the context of religion. In theology class, I always hear about God's love, about his loving us even though we're sinners. But the idea that real live parents could be unconditionally loving is completely foreign... How can anyone be loved not for what they do but for who they are? Isn't who you are defined by what you do?”
― Cara Chow, Bitter Melon

“So how do you know when you're a winner? Easy. It's when good is not good enough.”
― Cara Chow, Bitter Melon

“When I look back, my greatest accomplishment in high school has nothing to do with competition and winning. I learned to use my own judgement and not to follow others blindly. I learned to judge myself based on my own standards. I learned to find my own voice. I learned to speak my own truth. I have nothing to show for these achievements, no grades, no medals, trophies, or diploma. Yet these are the achievements that can't be taken away by loss, failure, or misunderstanding.”
― Cara Chow, Bitter Melon

“It is like choosing whether to cut off one's right hand or one's left hand. It is like having to decide whether to save your drowning mother, knowing that you may both drown, or swimming to shore alone, knowing that you can only save yourself. If that is your dilemma, which way is right? Which way would you choose?”
― Cara Chow, Bitter Melon

“After coming this far, I can´t give up.”
― Cara Chow, Bitter Melon

“Then I remember what Mom said about eating bitter melon. If I keep eating this, will I get used to it? Will I learn to like it? Somehow I don't think so.”
― Cara Chow, Bitter Melon

“If we can't be the best, are we just wasting our time?”
― Cara Chow, Bitter Melon