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message 1: by Blake (new)

Blake You read my mind! I think you're being a little harsh thoughxD btw... If you're ever in Denver I'd love to take you out for a drink:) There's this really nice place next to the 24 hour fitness I go to! What kind of drinks do you like? wine, beer, maybe some coffee? I sense a lot of altruistic passion in your comment. You seem to have a very solid ethical compass;) That's extremely attractive to see in a woman.


La Petite Américaine Hahaha love it. If I’m ever in your neck of the woods, I’ll let you know...but I want to see your book collection / Kindle history first. :)


message 3: by Blake (new)

Blake 😊


message 4: by Andrej (new)

Andrej You start with advising man to lie/manipulate (ACT confident) and bribe/solicit women (buy drinks). And then so passionately express your hatred towards man and manipulation. Not much sense there just name calling and expressed negative emotions about past experience.

This book has nothing to do with manipulation. It is about discovering and filing the need of a person by your own personal traits. And if you don't have desired traits, move on or work on developing those.

Been nice and smiling not going to get you anywhere with woman. It is equivalent to “If you want to be good at something, all you need to do is just show up”. It is not enough. You need to work your butt off to be good. Showing up is a waste of time.

Advising Non confident men to be or act confident is like telling a poor guy to just man up and be a millionaire. It won't make sense.

This harsh out-lash of yours will only breed more manipulative man you hate so much and create more approach anxiety in man who lack confidence or losers as you call them ;).
By radiating this negative hateful energy you will only attract manipulative, angry and needy man. Who will jump on any opportunity to play on your insecurities for their own gain. Like in the case of Blake. Flattery worked like a charm.


Reevaluate your life, radiate more positive energy, heal your insecurities.


message 5: by Jacquie (new)

Jacquie Blaze Yes, I have applied it all and it works- he's genius. Robert Greene isn't talking about having sex- he's talking about the process of falling in love, which took me years to understand properly. It's a confidence bible. You can see his interview where we delve deeply into exactly this at LoveUnraveled.com
Hope this helps!


La Petite Américaine @andrej: Read my comment again - you missed it the first time. Telling someone to have a sense of self-worth and act accordingly isn’t telling them to lie. It’s telling them to grow a pair. Lacking depth from within means you’ve got bigger problems that aren’t going to be solved in this book.
And you aren’t getting any either. (Sad).
It’s not “hatred of man,” it’s hatred of this book. Take a course in self esteem.


message 7: by Andrej (new)

Andrej @ La Petite: I have read your post twice before I commented. It is disgusting, and I'm not going to waste my energy on going through all that hatred once again. If I need to load up on depression I will watch NEWs, or read haters on youtube.

By telling someone to “grow a pair” as you put it. You manipulate by playing on insecurities of lacking masculinity. So we would look at you as a superior being, and listen respectfully. So without realizing you do the very thing, you hate. And that might be the source of your hatred. Doing things that are not in line with your own beliefs or identity.

It is impossible to Hate just one thing. Eventually, it will corrupt everything inside until there is no way out. No Love, no Compassion, nothing, but a giant black hole consuming everything you once enjoyed and cherished. Leaving you dead inside. Hoping that draining others from their happiness will somehow make you feel alive again.

If you would like to have a conversation I will be happy to do so. But if you are here to just spread hatred, then please find some decency and refrain from doing so.


message 8: by The Dean (new)

The Dean This book has actually been great at helping me heal from a deep romantic seduction that I broke away from, a seduction that created a lot of problems in my life and left lots of emotional wounds in its wake. I became somewhat of a ghost of my previous self and lacked much of the confidence that I had before to the point where I was becoming awkward in my conversations especially with the opposite sex. That being said, seduction isn't about sex, its about persuasion. Its used in politics, commerce and even in the workplace. I cant stop noticing seductions happening everywhere now as well as being able to spot an anti-seducer who encourages men to just buy drinks... yeah chicks like that.. . who doesn't like free drinks?


message 9: by Jed (new)

Jed Scratchard This is exactly how to misunderstand the entire purpose of the book, and clearly was written by someone who has never read it


message 10: by Jerry (new)

Jerry Luan You can seduce lust that way, not love. You don't understand that this book is not some PUA techniques to get you laid. It's about power.


message 11: by Alan (new)

Alan Kraskow "Is it really that hard to get laid? Keep fit, act confident, be nice, buy drinks. Chicks generally like that."

Full of demands and expectations. What comes in return? Pleasure for which a man has to pay? There are professionals who specialize in that. What's the point of spending money on amateur who does it for drinks?

And before you answer or give another advice to men, ask yourself what YOU have to do to get laid.

Not only that but you also very conveniently missed HALF OF THE CONTENT which talks about women using similar tactics.


message 12: by Scott (new)

Scott Balboni I came to this page, also with criticism at the forefront of my prejudiced mind. The comments proved otherwise, I've learned a lot about the book just from other people debunking your absolutely pea brained takes about how men should act in order to get laid. Please never write a book. Please stop reading books for that matter too since you're only going to misinterpret them and spout nonsense about it online.
I came to this page with no intention of learning about this book, and now I will read it because of this comment thread. Thanks


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