The second read of this book was interesting as I felt I needed to write discussion questions for our book club (coming up next Monday) since there weren't any readily available online. I think writing the questions made me think more deeply about the book, and about how Xandra changes over time in the book. I look forward to discussing it. (Note my questions are at the bottom of this review).
This book was recommended to me by a smart, eloquent, well-read, thoughtful 4th grader. I was impressed by Snyder's writing style, her characters and setting are very engaging. First of all, I love that the main character, Xandra, takes her given name of Alexandra and shortens it into something unique. (I wonder is that where "Zilpha" comes from?). I thought that Xandra's attitude toward the kids at school and her attitude toward her siblings changed for the better throughout the book. As far as school Xandra starts off afraid to talk to Belinda since she's not a popular kid - in fact Xandra doesn't even want to be seen with Belinda. By the end of the book, Xandra is open about their friendship. Similarly at the beginning of the book, Xandra seems very disconnected to her "siblings," but by the end, she has gotten closer to all of her brothers and sisters.
The relationship between Xandra and Tory, that they played together as children but grew apart as they got older parallels my daughters' relationships. I liked seeing them grow closer again by the end, and hope ferociously that my children end up close as adults!!
One thing I didn't like about the book was when Xandra asked Belinda and Belinda's grandfather questions and they didn't answer her. I feel frustrated when characters ask questions and don't get the answers or the full answers they are looking for.
Books mentioned:
the Borrowers
Narnia stories
Green Knowe books by: Lucy Boston
JRR Tolkein
The Unseen Discussion Questions:
0.5 The main character’s name is Alexandra, which is often shortened to Alex, Alexa or even Lexie. She shortens it to Xandra....can your name be shortened at all? What other nicknames can your name have? Do you have nicknames that do NOT relate to your name? What are they?
1. At the beginning of the book, Xandra makes it a point to use the term “siblings” instead of “brothers and sisters.” How does her relationship with her “siblings” change throughout the book. At the end of the book, she chooses to sit with her family at dinner, even arriving early for the first time EVER! Xandra says hi to each family member as they come into the dining room. She realizes that all her siblings hate the fact that their parents are often not with them at mealtimes, one twinster says, “‘Yeah another big togetherness night at the Hobsons.’” The other twinster says, “‘And another important lesson in family values, in case any of us might forget what’s really important around here.’” page 167 They all work as a team to eat really fast and be done before the parents get home to give them a taste of their own medicine.:
Augusta (the “baby,” “Darling Little Gussie”) At first how does Xandra feel about Gussie? How do you know (page 21 - jealous of how Clara, the babysitter just “forgot all about everybody else when the beautiful new baby was born.” ) How does Xandra feel about Gussie by the end of the book? Why do you think their relationship changed? (Gussie never tells on Xandra when Xandra gets angry at her and yells and shakes her. When Xandra helps Gussie out when she’s on the skateboard, and they end up talking about how the old things in the basement are things no one wants anymore, and Gussie says the things told her she had to put the skateboard away. Pg 109, 110. Gussie runs into the room with an armful of picture books for Xandra when Xandra is injured and resting on the couch. Xandra makes up a story to tell Gussie (about her little stuffed bear) for the first time ever page 159 Gussie wants to help Xandra carry her books when she picks her up (with Clara) afterschool - even offering to scratch under her itchy bandage pg 181. They hug after Xandra helps Gussie buckle in)
Tory (the pianist, older than Xandra) At first how does Xandra feel about Tory? (Left behind, they used to play together (games like Ragbag) and now Tory was older and practicing music instead) How does Xandra feel about Tory by the end of the book? (like friends) Why do you think their relationship changed? (because Xandra helped Tory to feel calm before her recital by reminding her of the Ragbag Game they used to play. Because Tory invites Xandra into her room - voluntarily interupting her practicing to talk about the old games they used to play, and the pretending they did about being Tarzan and Cleopatra pg 98, 99. Tory also seeks Xandra out in her room to talk about her scary night in the forest - inadvertently helping Xandra stay out of The Unseen. They play scrabble together at the end of the book 196)
The Twinsters aren’t very nice to Xandra when she interrupts their golf game...they catch her and hold her and are about to tape her mouth when Clara (the babysitter) happens by and puts stop to it. How does Xandra feel about the Twinsters by the end of the book? Why do you think their relationship changed? (because the Twinsters rescued her when she was alone in the woods all night, even literally giving her the shirts off their backs ripped into bandages for her leg/ankle, even though it was very cold outside. They send her an apology note after mocking her for her teeth, even complimenting her on her aim when she threw water at them. Pg 185. They bring her kittens to save, too pg 198
2. Gussie likes to go into Xandra’s room and play with her cherished stuffed animals - and Xandra gets very angry with Gussie for doing that. She shakes and slaps Gussie and then worries that she’ll get in trouble. Do you have a sibling (or cousin, or friend) who invades your space and touches your things? How do you deal with it?
3. Xandra and Belinda discuss books that they both love, including:
The Borrowers
The Chronicles of Narnia
The Green Knowe (by: Lucy Boston)
J.R.R. Tolkein’s collection
Have you read any of those? Do you agree that you could read them “over and over”? (page 29)
4. How does Xandra think of Belinda in the beginning vs. the middle vs. the end of the book? (a weirdo that dresses funny, embarassed to be seen with her VERSUS As a friend who should keep in touch when she moves)
5. Xandra helps wounded animals and nurses them back to health. She lets them go when they are better because she doesn’t like the idea of caging wild things. Xandra also takes a later bus, and takes the long way around her neighborhood to avoid being seen with Belinda. Is Xandra a good person? To be a good person do you have to make good choices all the time? Can you be a good person and still do mean things sometimes?
6. When Xandra enters the part of the basement where she keeps her cages for wounded animals, “...she immediately began to feel better, calmer and less impatient.” (page 39) Do you have a place that helps you feel calmer and more patient? Is it a place to be by yourself or with other people?
7. Belinda describes The Unseen as, “‘...not really a place, because it’s everywhere, all the time, only most people can’t see it.’” Have you ever had the feeling that there is more to what’s around us than what we can see?
8. Belinda makes Xandra promise not to use the feather again unless Belinda is there to help her...but after the visit to Belinda’s grandfather, Xandra tries to ask Belinda questions, to which she only replies, “‘You mustn’t use it anymore. Not ever anymore.’” page 207. When people are asked direct questions and they refuse to answer in books, it makes me feel angry. What did you think when Belinda wouldn’t answer Xandra’s questions? If someone didn’t answer your questions, and instead told you not to do something, do you think it would convince you not to use it? Or would it make you want to use it even more? Did you wish (as I did) that Belinda would take the time to explain why Xandra shouldn’t use it, so that Xandra could make an informed decision?
9. After Xandra gets lost in the forest, spending the night outside, and needs medical attention for her injury, her dad is going to take her to the doctor, but when the babysitter offers to drive her instead, HE TAKES HER UP ON THE OFFER! Xandra guesses that he is thinking, “...the broken leg was no more than what a certain person deserved for running away and getting her leg broken and taking the Hobson’s minds off more important things.” page 152 How would it make you feel if your mom or dad had someone else take you to the hospital in this type of instance? Should her dad have done this or something else? (More important the the health of your child?!?!? I’m offended for Xandra! What a terrible parent!!!)