After more than 3 decades, my favorite book still holds up!
I've re-read A Little Princess several times over the course of my life, and each time I've loved it just as much as I did the first time. But lately, I've developed a tendency to get annoyed by certain Victorian children's literary tropes. For instance, I found the kids' earnestness in Burnett's The Secret Garden oblivious and cloying when I re-read it a few years ago. But not so for this book. A Little Princess remains moving and sad and magical and important.
My son is 9 years old, an age when boys often hear "princess" and run for the hills - even, sadly, ones raised by a feminist like myself. I know he's open-minded, even so (he has no problem watching Disney princess movies or even romcoms with me), but I wasn't sure how he'd be in a few years - teens can be...tough. I hope it won't be the case. Anyway, now felt like the best time to share my favorite book, a book that contains so many of my values and so much of my worldview (minus the racist and colonialist vibes), with him. So, a few months ago we started reading it together before bed. It wasn't always easy - the language can be tricky for a 9-year-old, and yet, it usually kept my son's attention. Sometimes, I'd even ask if he wanted to change things up and read another story for a bit and come back to this one later, and he always said no.
We've had very different childhoods and a lot of different interests, so I'm not sure he related to it the way I did when I read it in my youth - he certainly didn't come out of it saying it was his favorite book. But he really seemed to enjoy it, to marvel at some of its coincidences and magic, to loathe Miss Minchin.
As for me, I can't remember the last time I read A Little Princess, but I sure can say I don't think I ever cried before at the part about the hungry girl and the fourpence. Maybe that's the effect of being a parent, or I don't know, it just moved me more now. Whatever the case, I came out of this book loving it as dearly as ever.
(Btw for parents who might be concerned about some of the now-racist/colonialist things in this book (which were actually fewer than I'd expected), I personally explained the context to my son. Once or twice, I also replaced what would be an extremely offensive word today with another one, but still explained that I was doing that. I think we shouldn't cover up history, because we can learn from it and hopefully make changes for the better, and, good or bad, it's the story of humanity. It's important to be aware that bad things existed, just like the good ones. I personally think the values A Little Princess teaches and embraces - the power of imagination, of hope, of dreams, of kindness, of mercy, the ability to stick by your principles, the fact that "everyone is a story" - outweigh these regrettable details that were a part of that time.)