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How to Fall in Love with a Man You Thought You Hated
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For Elizabeth Bennet, Charlotte is the friend who is—annoyingly—always right. Colonel Fitzwilliam is the mischievous brother she never had. And if their convictions that Mr. Darcy is in love with her are correct, he could be the lover she’s always wanted.
There’s only one problem—he tried to ruin her favorite sister’s life, and she made an absolute fool of herself in front of him.
Can lasting happiness come out of such a beginning? And can a man die from chasing a woman too quick to be caught? Darcy is about to find out.
For Elizabeth Bennet, Charlotte is the friend who is—annoyingly—always right. Colonel Fitzwilliam is the mischievous brother she never had. And if their convictions that Mr. Darcy is in love with her are correct, he could be the lover she’s always wanted.
There’s only one problem—he tried to ruin her favorite sister’s life, and she made an absolute fool of herself in front of him.
Can lasting happiness come out of such a beginning? And can a man die from chasing a woman too quick to be caught? Darcy is about to find out.
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First published April 5, 2021
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Elizabeth Adams
27 books292 followersElizabeth Adams is a book-loving, tango-dancing, Austen enthusiast. She loves old houses and thinks birthdays should be celebrated with trips—as should most occasions. She can often be found by a sunny window with a cup of hot tea and a book in her hand.
She writes romantic comedy and comedic tragedy in both historic and modern settings.
You can find more information, short stories, and outtakes at eadamswrites.com
She writes romantic comedy and comedic tragedy in both historic and modern settings.
You can find more information, short stories, and outtakes at eadamswrites.com
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September 28, 2021
4.5 rounded up to 5 stars
There's a simplicity about this story that's very appealing. No major drama or angst - just believable problems for (mostly) Darcy to solve as he works to win his lady.
We begin in Kent. Elizabeth walks with Colonel Fitzwilliam on Rosings grounds. Rather than learning that Darcy separated Bingley from her sister, Elizabeth instead learns the true history of Darcy's dealings with Mr. Wickham. Although she's not in love with Wickham, it absolutely shatters her to realize how badly she misjudged them both and especially how rudely she's behaved towards Mr. Darcy. She can't hold back from crying, and the good colonel is very patient and kind as she recovers her equanimity.
After returning to the parsonage, Elizabeth shares what she's learned with Charlotte. Realizing how shaken and embarrassed her friend is, Charlotte doses her with some liquor before she and Mr. Collins head off to Rosings for the evening without her.
Of course, Elizabeth's absence brings Darcy to the parsonage himself. He finds a rather inebriated Miss Bennet whose response to his declaration of love is quite different than expected. Clearly, she has no idea that his behavior towards her over the past weeks were intended as a courtship, and he needs to exert himself more if he truly wants her to agree to marry him.
The story continues on in this vein. Colonel Fitzwilliam and Charlotte Collins prove to be invaluable allies, providing sound advice to Darcy and Elizabeth. There's still the issue of Mr. Bingley's abandonment of Jane and Darcy's role in it to overcome. Darcy's ingrained snobbery towards tradespeople - including the Gardiners - and his blindness to his own family's unacceptable behavior also must be addressed. Very interestingly, Mr. Wickham's punishment for his sins is handled with finesse courtesy of a usually overlooked source, and he gets no opportunity to mess with Lydia Bennet.
The nature of the plot gives it a rather episodic quality. Normally that's a criticism, but Ms. Adams makes it work. The only true tangent involves matchmaking for other family members, which doesn't relate to the primary storyline.
I do love the way Ms. Adams writes. She's a gifted storyteller, and there are many clever observations about the characters and/or situations sprinkled about. The chemistry between Darcy and Elizabeth is off the charts, particularly when they're seated next to each other at an opera.
Highly recommend. Content is clean.
There's a simplicity about this story that's very appealing. No major drama or angst - just believable problems for (mostly) Darcy to solve as he works to win his lady.
We begin in Kent. Elizabeth walks with Colonel Fitzwilliam on Rosings grounds. Rather than learning that Darcy separated Bingley from her sister, Elizabeth instead learns the true history of Darcy's dealings with Mr. Wickham. Although she's not in love with Wickham, it absolutely shatters her to realize how badly she misjudged them both and especially how rudely she's behaved towards Mr. Darcy. She can't hold back from crying, and the good colonel is very patient and kind as she recovers her equanimity.
After returning to the parsonage, Elizabeth shares what she's learned with Charlotte. Realizing how shaken and embarrassed her friend is, Charlotte doses her with some liquor before she and Mr. Collins head off to Rosings for the evening without her.
Of course, Elizabeth's absence brings Darcy to the parsonage himself. He finds a rather inebriated Miss Bennet whose response to his declaration of love is quite different than expected. Clearly, she has no idea that his behavior towards her over the past weeks were intended as a courtship, and he needs to exert himself more if he truly wants her to agree to marry him.
The story continues on in this vein. Colonel Fitzwilliam and Charlotte Collins prove to be invaluable allies, providing sound advice to Darcy and Elizabeth. There's still the issue of Mr. Bingley's abandonment of Jane and Darcy's role in it to overcome. Darcy's ingrained snobbery towards tradespeople - including the Gardiners - and his blindness to his own family's unacceptable behavior also must be addressed. Very interestingly, Mr. Wickham's punishment for his sins is handled with finesse courtesy of a usually overlooked source, and he gets no opportunity to mess with Lydia Bennet.
The nature of the plot gives it a rather episodic quality. Normally that's a criticism, but Ms. Adams makes it work. The only true tangent involves matchmaking for other family members, which doesn't relate to the primary storyline.
I do love the way Ms. Adams writes. She's a gifted storyteller, and there are many clever observations about the characters and/or situations sprinkled about. The chemistry between Darcy and Elizabeth is off the charts, particularly when they're seated next to each other at an opera.
Highly recommend. Content is clean.
February 25, 2023
Feb. 2022 - A reread. I forgot how wonderfully written the dialog was in this story!
Still 5 stars...
We finally get to see Darcy woo Elizabeth in the manner she deserves! No awful proposals here, ODC's eyes are open before disaster strikes.
This sweet book is the balm to all those variations that are based on misunderstandings and miscommunication. The ones that make the reader want to scream "just speak to each other already...!"
And of course, the real hero of this story is Col. Fitzwilliam!!! The perfect life coach.
Still 5 stars...
We finally get to see Darcy woo Elizabeth in the manner she deserves! No awful proposals here, ODC's eyes are open before disaster strikes.
This sweet book is the balm to all those variations that are based on misunderstandings and miscommunication. The ones that make the reader want to scream "just speak to each other already...!"
And of course, the real hero of this story is Col. Fitzwilliam!!! The perfect life coach.
November 11, 2021
It's finally happened. An author wrote a variation of Pride and Prejudice that is a perfectly wonderful and satisfying telling of how good it is between Elizabeth and Darcy when they actually court each other! I enjoy Austen variations and retellings, and this one is my new favorite. It's told from both Elizabeth and Darcy's point of view, and they are thoughtful and introspective as they analyze their misperceptions about each other and themselves. There is a good dose of subtle humor and wit, balanced with plenty of dialogue and interactions that keep the pace of the book steady and my interest never waning. I love that Elizabeth gives Darcy a chance, but she also doesn't shy away from the difficult and complicated dynamics of their relationship as well as their families. I appreciated that the author didn't retell certain overused scenes in Austen variations (Lady Catherine's set down of Elizabeth) making the story more unique and creative while still being true to the fundamentals of the characters. Elizabeth and Darcy both grow and develop as individuals as they also grow closer together, through the rocky patches and the earnest wooing. Their chemistry and attraction only grows as they come to know the deeper layers of their lives and personalities, and they strive to become worthy of each other and their increasing regard and love. A must-read for fans of Regency and Austen!
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Disclosure statement: A complimentary copy of this book was provided from a tour group, publisher, publicist, or author, including NetGalley, OR was borrowed from the library, including OverDrive, OR borrowed from Kindle Unlimited, OR purchased. A review was not required and all views and opinions expressed are unbiased and my own.
June 22, 2025
A Regency Rom-Com
Elizabeth is in Hunsford. She is in denial over Charlotte’s declarations that Mr. Darcy is interested in her. How could this possibly be when he only thought her ‘tolerable’. This Charlotte is smart and funny. The usual walk in the park with Colonel Fitzwilliam is given an added twist when Elizabeth happens to mention Mr. Wickham. The Colonel proceeds to fill her in on the true measure of the man, and she recognizes she has been a fool. When he expresses concern for her distress, she tells him,
“I have distressed myself. I have had a taste of my own vanity and the flavor is bitter.”
Upon returning to the parsonage, prior to leaving for Rosings, Charlotte hears the tale and gives Elizabeth tea with brandy for her headache. When Darcy leaves Rosings for the parsonage, ready to propose, he only just gets past declaring his ardent love when Elizabeth starts laughing. Realizing her tea contains brandy, he holds back on the proposal and bids her goodnight.
This is a delightful variation surrounding the courtship of Darcy and Elizabeth that might not have been without the influence and guidance of good friends; namely, Colonel Fitzwilliam and Charlotte Collins. The book is filled with an abundance of delicious banter and teasing among the friends, and eventually ODC. Can Elizabeth overcome her hate and court the man “who has had a hand in ruining, perhaps forever, the happiness of a most beloved sister?”. With a little help and practice with Richard (too funny), will Darcy’s new efforts in properly wooing a woman be successful?
“Fitz, what does it say about me that I had not even attempted to woo her before? That I had not even thought about her feelings one way or another? Shall I make a brutish husband? The sort who makes others pity his wife when they are seen together in public?”
It’s a lighter romantic read, with just a touch of angst when they meet the families. I was laughing or grinning through it all. Definitely recommend this one and will be purchasing it for my permanent Kindle library.
I received an ARC from the author and am voluntarily providing my honest review.
May 8, 2022 - Audiobook (via Scribd)
Excellent narration and performance by Elizabeth Grace.
June 25, 2022 - purchased Audible version
October 7, 2024 - Always a great listen with Elizabeth Adams, and lots of ODC page time.
Elizabeth is in Hunsford. She is in denial over Charlotte’s declarations that Mr. Darcy is interested in her. How could this possibly be when he only thought her ‘tolerable’. This Charlotte is smart and funny. The usual walk in the park with Colonel Fitzwilliam is given an added twist when Elizabeth happens to mention Mr. Wickham. The Colonel proceeds to fill her in on the true measure of the man, and she recognizes she has been a fool. When he expresses concern for her distress, she tells him,
“I have distressed myself. I have had a taste of my own vanity and the flavor is bitter.”
Upon returning to the parsonage, prior to leaving for Rosings, Charlotte hears the tale and gives Elizabeth tea with brandy for her headache. When Darcy leaves Rosings for the parsonage, ready to propose, he only just gets past declaring his ardent love when Elizabeth starts laughing. Realizing her tea contains brandy, he holds back on the proposal and bids her goodnight.
This is a delightful variation surrounding the courtship of Darcy and Elizabeth that might not have been without the influence and guidance of good friends; namely, Colonel Fitzwilliam and Charlotte Collins. The book is filled with an abundance of delicious banter and teasing among the friends, and eventually ODC. Can Elizabeth overcome her hate and court the man “who has had a hand in ruining, perhaps forever, the happiness of a most beloved sister?”. With a little help and practice with Richard (too funny), will Darcy’s new efforts in properly wooing a woman be successful?
“Fitz, what does it say about me that I had not even attempted to woo her before? That I had not even thought about her feelings one way or another? Shall I make a brutish husband? The sort who makes others pity his wife when they are seen together in public?”
It’s a lighter romantic read, with just a touch of angst when they meet the families. I was laughing or grinning through it all. Definitely recommend this one and will be purchasing it for my permanent Kindle library.
I received an ARC from the author and am voluntarily providing my honest review.
May 8, 2022 - Audiobook (via Scribd)
Excellent narration and performance by Elizabeth Grace.
June 25, 2022 - purchased Audible version
October 7, 2024 - Always a great listen with Elizabeth Adams, and lots of ODC page time.
June 28, 2021
If you are looking for a romantic comedy with just a bit of angst, I highly recommend this one.
What if Charlotte Collins is more persistent in her opinions regarding Mr. Darcy's interest in Elizabeth Bennet? We all now how stubborn and prejudiced Elizabeth is against him and having Charlotte challenge her opinions is such a great start to the story.
"One is not rendered ridiculous by simply having a different opinion from your own." (quote from the book)
What if Elizabeth reveals more to Colonel Fitzwilliam about her sister Jane's disappointments when they meet while he is doing his annual tour of Rosings Park? What if the discussion goes even further and Mr. Wickham's name comes up?
"Why must men lavish attention on ladies to the exclusion of everything and everyone else, speak to them as if they are in the deepest throes of love and then disappear without a word? It is unspeakably cruel." (quote from the book)
I must say I loved both Charlotte Collins and Colonel Fitzwilliam in this story. They are the wise older 'sister' and 'brother'. The Colonel is just so honourable and gallant. They each play a significant role in this story that helps to enlighten Elizabeth Bennet and Mr. Darcy. A taste of humble pie is served to both.
"I am only a very great fool who has made a goose of herself." (quote from the book)
Not having the disastrous Hunsford proposal definitely lessens the anxiety, but there are still several challenges ahead that have to be navigated. There is much humour laced throughout the story which had me chuckling. I also find that Ms. Adams has an uncanny ability to cut to the heart of an issue. I must say it was wonderful to have Elizabeth and Darcy 'talk' about their concerns and not constantly misunderstanding each other.
"She had agreed to get to know him better, and she was well on her way. If stronger feelings wished to develop, she would give them leave to do so." (quote from the book)
The camaraderie between Colonel Fitzwilliam and Mr. Darcy was heartwarming. They play well off each other and it adds a wonderful lightheartedness to the tale. Between the Colonel and Elizabeth Bennet, they provide Mr. Darcy with certain lessons in manners.
May 9, 2021
Ever fallen in love with someone
Ever fallen in love, in love with someone
Ever fallen in love, in love with someone
You shouldn't have fallen in love with
I loved this book!!!
The author starts at Hunsford where an awesome Charlotte speaks as she finds. Lizzy learns of Wickham's pure evilness from your friendly neighborhood Col Fitzwilliam Darcy's disastrous proposal is interrupted because Charlotte has dosed Lizzy with brandy and Lizzy gets the giggles.
This gives Darcy a chance to learn again from Col. Fitzwilliam that Lizzy doesn't like him and that he has a lot of work to do to get her to courting.
We get to see Darcy do the work, overcome obstacles and be corrected by the Colonel, Lizzy and others. We get to see Charlotte shine and we get to watch Lizzy fall in love with Darcy.
Wickham gets his comeuppance; Caroline is mostly absent and Mr. Bennet is not a ogre.
I loved it
Ever fallen in love, in love with someone
Ever fallen in love, in love with someone
You shouldn't have fallen in love with
I loved this book!!!
The author starts at Hunsford where an awesome Charlotte speaks as she finds. Lizzy learns of Wickham's pure evilness from your friendly neighborhood Col Fitzwilliam Darcy's disastrous proposal is interrupted because Charlotte has dosed Lizzy with brandy and Lizzy gets the giggles.
This gives Darcy a chance to learn again from Col. Fitzwilliam that Lizzy doesn't like him and that he has a lot of work to do to get her to courting.
We get to see Darcy do the work, overcome obstacles and be corrected by the Colonel, Lizzy and others. We get to see Charlotte shine and we get to watch Lizzy fall in love with Darcy.
Wickham gets his comeuppance; Caroline is mostly absent and Mr. Bennet is not a ogre.
I loved it
July 20, 2022
Great story, interesting insights
Another very well written story from the author. Lizzy learns about Wickham from the colonel. The colonel and Lizzy bond with each other much like brother and sister. It s a thread in the story appearing now an then in fun ways.
Darcy’s extended family is much larger leaving lots of new characters for the P&P characters to interact with.
In my opinion the story speaks to Lizzy possibly moving into higher society a more nuisance way. Insightful and possibly a game breaker for Lizzy and her family.
I would give the book a higher rating if I could. I look forward to rereading it after some time goes by.
I wish we would have found out if Jane was protected by Charles from Caroline.
Another very well written story from the author. Lizzy learns about Wickham from the colonel. The colonel and Lizzy bond with each other much like brother and sister. It s a thread in the story appearing now an then in fun ways.
Darcy’s extended family is much larger leaving lots of new characters for the P&P characters to interact with.
In my opinion the story speaks to Lizzy possibly moving into higher society a more nuisance way. Insightful and possibly a game breaker for Lizzy and her family.
I would give the book a higher rating if I could. I look forward to rereading it after some time goes by.
I wish we would have found out if Jane was protected by Charles from Caroline.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
May 4, 2021
Reading an Elizabeth Adams novel is like settling in for a cozy visit with an old friend. I absolutely loved the character driven story; the developing relationship between Darcy and Elizabeth and seeing their strength and honesty make for an enjoyable read. Definitely one of the best low-angst historical romances to read these days!
September 27, 2025
This book saved my day, and I have a feeling that it will save many other days in the future of comfort reads.
Edit. Yes i have re-re-reread it again.
Edit. Yes i have re-re-reread it again.
January 5, 2023
What If Colonel Fitzwilliam Spoke Of Wickham Instead of Bingley on His Walk With Elizabeth?
Rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars
Source: Gift from Author
TYPE OF NOVEL: Pride and Prejudice Variation
THE PREMISE: Between learning about Wickham’s true character and his infamous dealings with Mr. Darcy and Charlotte’s persistent badgering that Mr. Darcy is in love with her, Elizabeth’s pride and understanding in her own judgments is deeply unsettled. Which leads to Mr. Darcy discovering Elizabeth’s true opinion of him, and his wise decision to not to make his proposals. Now determined to be the proper suitor Elizabeth deserves, Mr. Darcy begins to court her in earnest…
WHAT I LOVED:
- Eyes Are Opened: What a great twist to employ! Both Elizabeth’s and Mr. Darcy’s eyes are opened earlier in the story. And because of this, their relationship traverses a different and smoother path. Although there are still a few obstructions for them to navigate around.
- A Satisfying Courtship: Darcy is single-minded in his pursuit (which is so swoony to see), and while he lets Elizabeth set the pace, he let’s her know the depth of his devotion in many ways. The couple shares many private and quiet moments together to further their understanding and feelings for one another, and Mr. Darcy is everything that is patient, ardent, and flirty! I loved witnessing Elizabeth’s progression towards falling in love – how she begins to anticipate their time together and wish for Mr. Darcy’s smiles. In addition, I also appreciated that it wasn’t a perfect courtship and that the setbacks they faced were authentic and understandable.
- Colonel Fitzwilliam: The MVP and hero of this tale in many ways! I loved his relationships with both Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth in this story. With Mr. Darcy he teases and provokes, but also encourages and provides wise counsel. And his relationship with Elizabeth grows deeper into a protective, sibling-like relationship. He is such a loyal and endearing character in this tale, and I was happy to see a little subplot about his own romantic affairs included.
- Charlotte Collins: The wise friend who you should listen to! I loved Charlotte’s point-of-view in this story – she is so observant and she imparts her observations to Elizabeth and to others in the cleverest of ways. I also loved her moments of self-awareness and how she recognizes she has grown and transformed since her marriage.
WHAT I WASN’T TOO FOND OF:
Nothing in particular. Perhaps just a few moments of wanting more.
CONCLUSION:
With sweet scenes of honesty, playful teasing, and ardent love this latest release by Elizabeth Adams is a most delightful and diverting read! Elizabeth Adams always delivers skillfully-crafted stories that are full of wit, romance, and charm. How To Fall in Love With a Man You Thought You Hated is an excellent choice for readers looking for a story that is lighthearted and amusing! I highly recommend!
Austenesque Reviews
Rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars
Source: Gift from Author
TYPE OF NOVEL: Pride and Prejudice Variation
THE PREMISE: Between learning about Wickham’s true character and his infamous dealings with Mr. Darcy and Charlotte’s persistent badgering that Mr. Darcy is in love with her, Elizabeth’s pride and understanding in her own judgments is deeply unsettled. Which leads to Mr. Darcy discovering Elizabeth’s true opinion of him, and his wise decision to not to make his proposals. Now determined to be the proper suitor Elizabeth deserves, Mr. Darcy begins to court her in earnest…
WHAT I LOVED:
- Eyes Are Opened: What a great twist to employ! Both Elizabeth’s and Mr. Darcy’s eyes are opened earlier in the story. And because of this, their relationship traverses a different and smoother path. Although there are still a few obstructions for them to navigate around.
- A Satisfying Courtship: Darcy is single-minded in his pursuit (which is so swoony to see), and while he lets Elizabeth set the pace, he let’s her know the depth of his devotion in many ways. The couple shares many private and quiet moments together to further their understanding and feelings for one another, and Mr. Darcy is everything that is patient, ardent, and flirty! I loved witnessing Elizabeth’s progression towards falling in love – how she begins to anticipate their time together and wish for Mr. Darcy’s smiles. In addition, I also appreciated that it wasn’t a perfect courtship and that the setbacks they faced were authentic and understandable.
- Colonel Fitzwilliam: The MVP and hero of this tale in many ways! I loved his relationships with both Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth in this story. With Mr. Darcy he teases and provokes, but also encourages and provides wise counsel. And his relationship with Elizabeth grows deeper into a protective, sibling-like relationship. He is such a loyal and endearing character in this tale, and I was happy to see a little subplot about his own romantic affairs included.
- Charlotte Collins: The wise friend who you should listen to! I loved Charlotte’s point-of-view in this story – she is so observant and she imparts her observations to Elizabeth and to others in the cleverest of ways. I also loved her moments of self-awareness and how she recognizes she has grown and transformed since her marriage.
WHAT I WASN’T TOO FOND OF:
Nothing in particular. Perhaps just a few moments of wanting more.
CONCLUSION:
With sweet scenes of honesty, playful teasing, and ardent love this latest release by Elizabeth Adams is a most delightful and diverting read! Elizabeth Adams always delivers skillfully-crafted stories that are full of wit, romance, and charm. How To Fall in Love With a Man You Thought You Hated is an excellent choice for readers looking for a story that is lighthearted and amusing! I highly recommend!
Austenesque Reviews
November 9, 2022
3.5 stars rounded up to 4 stars. 254 pages on my Kindle. This story had no angst.
Elizabeth does not receive that proposal at Hunsford. However, she is filled in by the Colonel as to Wickham's true self and that, in turn, has she reevaluating her opinion of Darcy. Charlotte also sees a different side to Darcy's attentions to Elizabeth. Thus, Charlotte and the Colonel are matchmakers of a sort in this story. The Colonel often makes observations and teases Darcy. Plus the Colonel has a bit of a romance in this variation.
Darcy finds himself being corrected in his opinions and/or his behaviors over and over again. For instance: when his relations either ignore or grill Elizabeth, he is silent and finds himself fearful that Elizabeth will break up with him. He realizes his error and again makes apologies. (They are in a courtship at this point but Elizabeth has stressed that she is not in love and wants to get to know him better.)
Wickham has a different fate in this story. Caroline is basically absent. Bingley returns to court Jane but we read as he, too, has some apologizing to do. Aunt Gardiner is more present then Mrs. Bennet and we read as she coaches Elizabeth about her relationship with Darcy. Elizabeth also has a few words with which to admonish Darcy as he seems to look on the Gardiners with disdain, also.
There is romance as ODC steals moments here and there to share caresses and kisses.
Elizabeth does not receive that proposal at Hunsford. However, she is filled in by the Colonel as to Wickham's true self and that, in turn, has she reevaluating her opinion of Darcy. Charlotte also sees a different side to Darcy's attentions to Elizabeth. Thus, Charlotte and the Colonel are matchmakers of a sort in this story. The Colonel often makes observations and teases Darcy. Plus the Colonel has a bit of a romance in this variation.
Darcy finds himself being corrected in his opinions and/or his behaviors over and over again. For instance: when his relations either ignore or grill Elizabeth, he is silent and finds himself fearful that Elizabeth will break up with him. He realizes his error and again makes apologies. (They are in a courtship at this point but Elizabeth has stressed that she is not in love and wants to get to know him better.)
Wickham has a different fate in this story. Caroline is basically absent. Bingley returns to court Jane but we read as he, too, has some apologizing to do. Aunt Gardiner is more present then Mrs. Bennet and we read as she coaches Elizabeth about her relationship with Darcy. Elizabeth also has a few words with which to admonish Darcy as he seems to look on the Gardiners with disdain, also.
There is romance as ODC steals moments here and there to share caresses and kisses.
May 17, 2021
I loved it. ❤
April 18, 2021
Wow! This book is PHENOMENAL! It is entertaining, romantic, heartfelt, swoon-worthy, and is an all-around amazing "Pride and Prejudice" variation! Whenever I picked up "How to Fall in Love With a Man You Thought You Hated", I was whisked back in time to Regency Era England, and went on such a journey with this story!
This is the first book I have read by Elizabeth Adams, and it certainly will not be my last! Her writing style is spectacular, visceral, and wonderful! She truly knows how to make a story jump off of the page, and I could envision each and every moment with the characters! Moreover, it is so apparent how much she respects and adores the original "Pride and Prejudice"! Ms. Adams seamlessly weaves events from the original book with new ones, as well as characters from Ms. Austen's novel with some of her (Ms. Adam's) own creation as well. I felt that the original characters were pretty true to who they are in Jane Austen's book, just under a different set of circumstances, and everything flowed quite well!
This variation imagines what might have happened had Darcy courted Elizabeth upon falling in love with her. After finding out what kind of man Mr. Wickham is, Elizabeth slowly finds herself feeling something different for Mr. Darcy than she ever has felt before. She is unsure about what she is feeling, but knows that there is something drawing her to Mr. Darcy, and they agree to take the courtship slowly. Will Elizabeth admit to herself that what she is starting to feel is love? With some bumps and hiccups along the way, will love prevail? You will just have to read to find out!
Also, YES CHARLOTTE!! YOU GO GIRL!! I absolutely adore Colonel Fitzwilliam as well! What kind, caring people with such hearts of gold!
If you enjoy variations of "Pride and Prejudice", I highly recommend this book! I found myself turning the pages to see how everything would work out, and many moments brought such a smile to my face. I can't wait to see what Elizabeth Adam's writes next!
Thank you so much to HFVBT and Elizabeth Adams for the review copy of this book, I loved it! All opinions expressed in this review are my own!
This is the first book I have read by Elizabeth Adams, and it certainly will not be my last! Her writing style is spectacular, visceral, and wonderful! She truly knows how to make a story jump off of the page, and I could envision each and every moment with the characters! Moreover, it is so apparent how much she respects and adores the original "Pride and Prejudice"! Ms. Adams seamlessly weaves events from the original book with new ones, as well as characters from Ms. Austen's novel with some of her (Ms. Adam's) own creation as well. I felt that the original characters were pretty true to who they are in Jane Austen's book, just under a different set of circumstances, and everything flowed quite well!
This variation imagines what might have happened had Darcy courted Elizabeth upon falling in love with her. After finding out what kind of man Mr. Wickham is, Elizabeth slowly finds herself feeling something different for Mr. Darcy than she ever has felt before. She is unsure about what she is feeling, but knows that there is something drawing her to Mr. Darcy, and they agree to take the courtship slowly. Will Elizabeth admit to herself that what she is starting to feel is love? With some bumps and hiccups along the way, will love prevail? You will just have to read to find out!
Also, YES CHARLOTTE!! YOU GO GIRL!! I absolutely adore Colonel Fitzwilliam as well! What kind, caring people with such hearts of gold!
If you enjoy variations of "Pride and Prejudice", I highly recommend this book! I found myself turning the pages to see how everything would work out, and many moments brought such a smile to my face. I can't wait to see what Elizabeth Adam's writes next!
Thank you so much to HFVBT and Elizabeth Adams for the review copy of this book, I loved it! All opinions expressed in this review are my own!
April 24, 2021
5+++stars! A fabulous read. I purchased the paperback book.
August 2, 2023
Adorable
Sprightly and witty dialogue. A superb Charlotte with a dry and pithy sense of humor. A Colonel so acts as everyone's best big brother. A Darcy who learns quickly, but still stumbles.A Lizzy who opens her mind and heart without being too obstinate. A lovely story of muffins and bonnets and romantic
Sprightly and witty dialogue. A superb Charlotte with a dry and pithy sense of humor. A Colonel so acts as everyone's best big brother. A Darcy who learns quickly, but still stumbles.A Lizzy who opens her mind and heart without being too obstinate. A lovely story of muffins and bonnets and romantic
April 5, 2022
Someone should explain head-hopping and why you avoid it to Elizabeth Adams. But not that editor who left so many non-Regency words. They should be fired. 3.5 stars and she's lucky to get them--and that's only for the feel-good at the end of the book.
I write reviews of a technical nature with no summaries. Instead, I concentrate on the aspects of the book that might cause a reader to drop stars but are not usually detailed in a book review by other reviewers.
The premise is a good one, and although many elements of the story line are not new, they are handled well. The flow is slightly on the slow side, considering that this has a bit of a comedic feel. I found I came back to it with a bit of reluctance each time rather than the eagerness I usually find with a JAFF novel. Some sections had to use canon, and the author did an excellent job of summing Wickham's story in the narrative.
Editing for language was poor. The average JAFF novel has a half-dozen non-Regency words and 2-3 non-British words or phrases. Here's the non-Regency words in this novel: boredom, sharing, snorted, discombobulated, swish, snob, outing, neckline, fingertip, staff, "wedding breakfast," and a couple I'm pretty certain of, but I can't find a source. Non-British words include gotten, toward, "We will", "I will," "you shall," intermission. There was "blousy" for "blowsy," "on" for "one." A good dozen contractions were left on the table, said by characters of higher class--Austen only used eight contractions in P&P and reserved them for silly characters or those of lower class in her books.
As far as punctuation goes, there were some missing commas, but otherwise the editing for punctuation seemed fine.
A canon error had an 18-month-old girl as the youngest Gardiner child. Austen is clear that there are two older girls of six and eight and two younger boys. A Regency error is a seven-course meal. Rarely were they more than two courses. Consent to a courtship was another error that has been made common by Regency romance books. It just wasn't done. You were courting or not courting by your actions. No one asked about it.
Point of view was handled with an amateurish hand considering the experience this author has. The head-hopping was dreadful from start to finish. Head-hopping stops the reader dead and causes them to re-read to make sure they got the narrator's identity right. Anything that stops a reader from reading is a no-no in fiction. The author wasn't using an omniscient narrator approach (which allows multiple views but in always the ON's voice) because her characters' feelings and thoughts were too deep and personal in places. So she's managed a mash-up of third person multiple with some deep point of view and head-hopping. She needs to study point of view and then write to only one per scene and maximum four per novel.
The author used filter words, so she could have done better by showing instead of telling.
Scene-setting was done quite well, with the situation lending a hand to show the action between the protagonists in most cases.
I enjoyed the characterizations the author chose to use for this book, taken from the depth of character Austen offered us in the original.
The angst was fairly low, mostly in relation to the protagonists' separation and the time it took to get them together.
I'm not a fan of the cover or the title. The cover is muddy and dark, and it's hard to see the text on the background. The designer chose a font that's harder to read. The heads should not be chopped off in this case. Nothing in this cover pops out on the shelf and says "buy me!" The title is cute in concept, but difficult in practicality. Readers forget the last half, don't want to write it all out, etc., etc. So why bother? A shorter, more succinct title could have been contrived that said the same thing overall. I've had longer working titles, but sense chose something palatable in the end.
I can't in all honesty recommend this book, mainly due to the head-hopping. It's a good idea poorly executed in that one respect. I found the book slow even though the premise is a good one, and I enjoyed the ending enough to mark four stars (3.5). I doubt I'll read another book by Elizabeth Adams, though.
Disclaimer: I'm a JAFF author, and my reviews might be considered to be a conflict of interest by some. However, I was a reader first, and my reviews are honest and impartial. I write them for the benefit of both the reader and the author.
I write reviews of a technical nature with no summaries. Instead, I concentrate on the aspects of the book that might cause a reader to drop stars but are not usually detailed in a book review by other reviewers.
The premise is a good one, and although many elements of the story line are not new, they are handled well. The flow is slightly on the slow side, considering that this has a bit of a comedic feel. I found I came back to it with a bit of reluctance each time rather than the eagerness I usually find with a JAFF novel. Some sections had to use canon, and the author did an excellent job of summing Wickham's story in the narrative.
Editing for language was poor. The average JAFF novel has a half-dozen non-Regency words and 2-3 non-British words or phrases. Here's the non-Regency words in this novel: boredom, sharing, snorted, discombobulated, swish, snob, outing, neckline, fingertip, staff, "wedding breakfast," and a couple I'm pretty certain of, but I can't find a source. Non-British words include gotten, toward, "We will", "I will," "you shall," intermission. There was "blousy" for "blowsy," "on" for "one." A good dozen contractions were left on the table, said by characters of higher class--Austen only used eight contractions in P&P and reserved them for silly characters or those of lower class in her books.
As far as punctuation goes, there were some missing commas, but otherwise the editing for punctuation seemed fine.
A canon error had an 18-month-old girl as the youngest Gardiner child. Austen is clear that there are two older girls of six and eight and two younger boys. A Regency error is a seven-course meal. Rarely were they more than two courses. Consent to a courtship was another error that has been made common by Regency romance books. It just wasn't done. You were courting or not courting by your actions. No one asked about it.
Point of view was handled with an amateurish hand considering the experience this author has. The head-hopping was dreadful from start to finish. Head-hopping stops the reader dead and causes them to re-read to make sure they got the narrator's identity right. Anything that stops a reader from reading is a no-no in fiction. The author wasn't using an omniscient narrator approach (which allows multiple views but in always the ON's voice) because her characters' feelings and thoughts were too deep and personal in places. So she's managed a mash-up of third person multiple with some deep point of view and head-hopping. She needs to study point of view and then write to only one per scene and maximum four per novel.
The author used filter words, so she could have done better by showing instead of telling.
Scene-setting was done quite well, with the situation lending a hand to show the action between the protagonists in most cases.
I enjoyed the characterizations the author chose to use for this book, taken from the depth of character Austen offered us in the original.
The angst was fairly low, mostly in relation to the protagonists' separation and the time it took to get them together.
I'm not a fan of the cover or the title. The cover is muddy and dark, and it's hard to see the text on the background. The designer chose a font that's harder to read. The heads should not be chopped off in this case. Nothing in this cover pops out on the shelf and says "buy me!" The title is cute in concept, but difficult in practicality. Readers forget the last half, don't want to write it all out, etc., etc. So why bother? A shorter, more succinct title could have been contrived that said the same thing overall. I've had longer working titles, but sense chose something palatable in the end.
I can't in all honesty recommend this book, mainly due to the head-hopping. It's a good idea poorly executed in that one respect. I found the book slow even though the premise is a good one, and I enjoyed the ending enough to mark four stars (3.5). I doubt I'll read another book by Elizabeth Adams, though.
Disclaimer: I'm a JAFF author, and my reviews might be considered to be a conflict of interest by some. However, I was a reader first, and my reviews are honest and impartial. I write them for the benefit of both the reader and the author.
February 26, 2025
I tossed between 4 and 5 stars but couldn't really think of a reason to withold the 5. This was enjoyable, it made me smile so much and I know I'll read it again in a heartbeat.
I've realised recently that I don't like P&P retellings. I love P&P, the book, the movies (both the BBC and Keira Knightly version), the story is great. So I don't need to re-read the exact same beats done slightly differently. I can love P&P retellings (see Lizzie Bennetts Diaries), but often the fact that it is a retelling is what would hold me back from full devotion and happiness. The reason is the story is predictable (obviously). I know Lizzie will hate Darcy, I know she'll fall for Wickham's lies, I know Wickham with run off with Lydia etc. And so the beats of P&P that are not my favourite will be repeated in almost exactly the same way.
I was intrigued though when this installment by Elizabeth Adams was reported to not to be a straight retelling (which I likely wouldn't have picked up) but was rather a variation - which I have never read before (variations I mean). And boy did it blow my mind.
The very initial part of the story (first 15%) was quite slow. This is where the story parallels the original P&P. Because of this and the language was not exactly Austen, it was a little jarring. I questioned if this book would be for me, but then this beautiful thing happened. Elizabeth Bennetts and Fitzwilliam Darcy talked. About their issues, and miscommunications, and faults, and mistakes - and resolved them. And each time I thought a conveniently placed miscommunication trope of hijinks would hijack the plot, they talked some more. Like adults. It was beautiful. And so enjoyable to reach.
I also think because of this diversion, it makes the romance in this variation much more compelling that the original P&P (pauses for the gasps). We got more of Elizabeth (believe it or not). We got a lot more of Darcy (since he has his own POV). We got a lot more of absolutely everyone, Colonel Fitzwilliam, Charlotte even Mr. Bennett, I'm talking everyone, and I was hear for it. I especially appreciated that because so much service was given to Darcy and Elizabeth's relationship we were able to dive deeper into what their family life would have been like, and how that was part of the decision Elizabeth had to make.
I'm losing coherency, so in summary I am a fan.
I've realised recently that I don't like P&P retellings. I love P&P, the book, the movies (both the BBC and Keira Knightly version), the story is great. So I don't need to re-read the exact same beats done slightly differently. I can love P&P retellings (see Lizzie Bennetts Diaries), but often the fact that it is a retelling is what would hold me back from full devotion and happiness. The reason is the story is predictable (obviously). I know Lizzie will hate Darcy, I know she'll fall for Wickham's lies, I know Wickham with run off with Lydia etc. And so the beats of P&P that are not my favourite will be repeated in almost exactly the same way.
I was intrigued though when this installment by Elizabeth Adams was reported to not to be a straight retelling (which I likely wouldn't have picked up) but was rather a variation - which I have never read before (variations I mean). And boy did it blow my mind.
The very initial part of the story (first 15%) was quite slow. This is where the story parallels the original P&P. Because of this and the language was not exactly Austen, it was a little jarring. I questioned if this book would be for me, but then this beautiful thing happened. Elizabeth Bennetts and Fitzwilliam Darcy talked. About their issues, and miscommunications, and faults, and mistakes - and resolved them. And each time I thought a conveniently placed miscommunication trope of hijinks would hijack the plot, they talked some more. Like adults. It was beautiful. And so enjoyable to reach.
I also think because of this diversion, it makes the romance in this variation much more compelling that the original P&P (pauses for the gasps). We got more of Elizabeth (believe it or not). We got a lot more of Darcy (since he has his own POV). We got a lot more of absolutely everyone, Colonel Fitzwilliam, Charlotte even Mr. Bennett, I'm talking everyone, and I was hear for it. I especially appreciated that because so much service was given to Darcy and Elizabeth's relationship we were able to dive deeper into what their family life would have been like, and how that was part of the decision Elizabeth had to make.
I'm losing coherency, so in summary I am a fan.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
February 17, 2023
I really enjoyed this take on Pride and Prejudice. Well written as is everything I’ve read by Elizabeth Adams.
April 27, 2021
Another amazing book by Elizabeth Adams! She's definitely in my top 10 favorite JAFF authors, and I've even purchased her books after having read them through Kindle Unlimited. I'd just downloaded the sample for this book as I was interested to see what this book would be like. But of course, by the time I got to the end of it, I was sucked in and proceeded to purchase the book in order to finish the whole thing. I love the author's way of writing that not only entertains and draws the reader into the world she's creating.
What could have been just a mundane story about Darcy and Elizabeth courting (which I've sadly read before) was transformed into a something more that didn't need too much angst or obstacles for ODC because you get more than enough from their own personal journeys without feeling drowned by their introspection or repetitive thoughts. I am a fan of character studies, similar to the book's leading lady, so this was perfect to entertain me when I really should have been reading something for school instead.
What could have been just a mundane story about Darcy and Elizabeth courting (which I've sadly read before) was transformed into a something more that didn't need too much angst or obstacles for ODC because you get more than enough from their own personal journeys without feeling drowned by their introspection or repetitive thoughts. I am a fan of character studies, similar to the book's leading lady, so this was perfect to entertain me when I really should have been reading something for school instead.
April 27, 2021
This is a very interesting story quite a unique take on ODC story. Relatively low angst but surprisingly pointent in places IMO.
Fabulous read one for the shelf to revisit in future.
Fabulous read one for the shelf to revisit in future.
October 8, 2024
Absolutely delightful
The title expertly tells us the plot so I shall not comment further on that.
Elizabeth Adams is a skilled wordsmith and it shines through in this book. The humour is delightful and the character development is excellent. For fans of the good Colonel he has plenty of page time in this book too.
I listened to this book and the narration by Elizabeth Grace is very good indeed.
The title expertly tells us the plot so I shall not comment further on that.
Elizabeth Adams is a skilled wordsmith and it shines through in this book. The humour is delightful and the character development is excellent. For fans of the good Colonel he has plenty of page time in this book too.
I listened to this book and the narration by Elizabeth Grace is very good indeed.
April 28, 2021
Fabulous
A fabulous and fun variation inspired by author Jane Austen’s classic novel Pride and Prejudice by the talented Elizabeth Adams. She always writes such humorous and lovable characters that you’re enthralled in the story until the very last page and leaves you eagerly awaiting her next offering.
A fabulous and fun variation inspired by author Jane Austen’s classic novel Pride and Prejudice by the talented Elizabeth Adams. She always writes such humorous and lovable characters that you’re enthralled in the story until the very last page and leaves you eagerly awaiting her next offering.
July 22, 2024
Such a good low angst story.
I really liked Darcy and Elizabeth's courtship, and all their sweet moments.
As for the narrator, Elizabeth Grace is my absolute favorite amongst other narrators. She does such a brilliant job. You won't regret.
I really liked Darcy and Elizabeth's courtship, and all their sweet moments.
As for the narrator, Elizabeth Grace is my absolute favorite amongst other narrators. She does such a brilliant job. You won't regret.
December 12, 2021
A calm reading, a fun reading and a lovely story.
I have enjoyed Colonel Fitzwilliam and Charlotte, apart from Elizabeth and Darcy, of course.
I have enjoyed Colonel Fitzwilliam and Charlotte, apart from Elizabeth and Darcy, of course.
November 14, 2023
Ms Elizabeth Adams did it again. This is a wonderful story. I quite enjoyed it though my favorite book written by this author is still "On Equal Ground", tearjerker galore.
June 13, 2021
4.5⭐️
Always enjoy a story by Elizabeth Adam’s.
Always enjoy a story by Elizabeth Adam’s.
May 18, 2023
3.5 stars. I enjoyed this simple sweet story of Darcy courting Elizabeth. The ending felt very abrupt - to the point that it a bit unsatisfying.
I purchased the audiobook and it was well narrated by Elizabeth Grace.
I purchased the audiobook and it was well narrated by Elizabeth Grace.
November 15, 2023
This is a new favorite for me. Elizabeth Adams is another of my favorite JAFF authors (I own all of her books in the Kindle version AND nearly all in Audible)
Charlotte is one of the stars of this book. The 2nd half of the book needs more of this Charlotte in my opinion.
Charlotte is one of the stars of this book. The 2nd half of the book needs more of this Charlotte in my opinion.
May 5, 2021
A bit silly. Sounds like a TV series. ODC act like modern people. Not badly written though.
July 29, 2021
4.5 rounded up. This was a low angst, light hearted read that was lots of fun! I enjoyed the sweet courtship of D&E. It was adorable, witty, and romantic. Sometimes it’s nice to read a story where D&E resolve their issues early and we get to enjoy them working together for most of the story. I also loved that while Wickham was discussed, the character himself had little page time. Speaking of Wickham, I absolutely loved how Charlotte dealt with him when she returned to Hertfordshire! I had a huge smile on my face during that part. Well done!
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