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December 15, 2015
***I received a copy of this book from Xpresso Book Tours for promotional purposes in exchange for an honest review.***
Take a moment to look up the statistics for depression in children both currently in and aging out of foster care. Let those numbers really sink in so you can sort of get an idea of what it's like to grow up in a place that really isn't your own. Maybe you might start to see why, after being separated from their siblings or mistreated by their foster parents, people who grew up in the system don't really see life with rose-tinted glasses. Bearing all of that in mind, then approach Lily Velez' debut novel, The Secrets We Kept.
Following the roller coaster love story between Sulligan "Sully" Graham and Cadence Gilbertson, The Secrets We Kept is more than just your average contemporary young adult romance. Cadence and Sully are technically foster siblings who happened to come into each other's lives in exactly the right time. During their adolescence, together they braved the horrors of their foster home shared with Sully's biological brother and their other foster siblings. Of course, sharing such close quarters with one another for so long eventually led to a blossoming romance that lasted through long-distances and adoption until, out of nowhere, Cadence cut all communication with her former foster family -- including Sully. Now that she's returned to New York City from California, she seems like she's a few pieces short of a full puzzle, but it's up to both of them to put her back together again.
What struck me most about The Secrets We Kept was that masterful way in which Velez told this story. I can't speak at all to exactly what it's like to grow up within the foster care system, but the way in which Velez's prose flowed and created the atmosphere surrounding the story made it easy to get lost in and understand their struggles. Even though there are some time skips between past and present, they're never used in such a way that leaves the reader scratching their head. I was actually surprised to learn that this was Velez's first novel, because the way she writes is akin to someone who's been publishing novels for quite some time. The emotions each character feels -- Cadence's growing anxiety over holding her secret, Sully's frustration with being locked out, Spencer's disappointment with being cast away by his brother -- are easily palatable; I actually felt as if I were put into their shoes in each scene.
Furthermore, Velez has clearly done her research when it comes to the myriad issues she tackles over the course of the book, and treats them all with the respect and reverence they deserve. For example, the topic of abortion comes up along the way, which is generally approached quite immaturely in most YA novels in that it's written off entirely as this terrible thing that should never happen. The reality of abortion is that it's not a decision taken lightly by most people who go through the procedure; that sometimes, it's a necessity to maintain one's physical -- or, in this case, mental -- health. I was impressed with how maturely both the author and the characters handled the topic. I also found the book's discussion surrounding the maintenance of one's mental health to be satisfying. I always feel it's good to actually see characters going through therapy as a means to help themselves instead of dismissing it as something laughable to be ignored.
There's been a lot of time between my completing this book and writing this review; as much as I want to include some sort of constructive criticism, I cannot bring myself to find anything that warrants it. The Secrets We Kept is, overall, an extremely well-rounded book that deserves the attention and praise I'm sure it's bound to get now that it's released. I can't wait to shout my love for this from the rooftops -- or, I guess, social media.
Take a moment to look up the statistics for depression in children both currently in and aging out of foster care. Let those numbers really sink in so you can sort of get an idea of what it's like to grow up in a place that really isn't your own. Maybe you might start to see why, after being separated from their siblings or mistreated by their foster parents, people who grew up in the system don't really see life with rose-tinted glasses. Bearing all of that in mind, then approach Lily Velez' debut novel, The Secrets We Kept.
Following the roller coaster love story between Sulligan "Sully" Graham and Cadence Gilbertson, The Secrets We Kept is more than just your average contemporary young adult romance. Cadence and Sully are technically foster siblings who happened to come into each other's lives in exactly the right time. During their adolescence, together they braved the horrors of their foster home shared with Sully's biological brother and their other foster siblings. Of course, sharing such close quarters with one another for so long eventually led to a blossoming romance that lasted through long-distances and adoption until, out of nowhere, Cadence cut all communication with her former foster family -- including Sully. Now that she's returned to New York City from California, she seems like she's a few pieces short of a full puzzle, but it's up to both of them to put her back together again.
What struck me most about The Secrets We Kept was that masterful way in which Velez told this story. I can't speak at all to exactly what it's like to grow up within the foster care system, but the way in which Velez's prose flowed and created the atmosphere surrounding the story made it easy to get lost in and understand their struggles. Even though there are some time skips between past and present, they're never used in such a way that leaves the reader scratching their head. I was actually surprised to learn that this was Velez's first novel, because the way she writes is akin to someone who's been publishing novels for quite some time. The emotions each character feels -- Cadence's growing anxiety over holding her secret, Sully's frustration with being locked out, Spencer's disappointment with being cast away by his brother -- are easily palatable; I actually felt as if I were put into their shoes in each scene.
Furthermore, Velez has clearly done her research when it comes to the myriad issues she tackles over the course of the book, and treats them all with the respect and reverence they deserve. For example, the topic of abortion comes up along the way, which is generally approached quite immaturely in most YA novels in that it's written off entirely as this terrible thing that should never happen. The reality of abortion is that it's not a decision taken lightly by most people who go through the procedure; that sometimes, it's a necessity to maintain one's physical -- or, in this case, mental -- health. I was impressed with how maturely both the author and the characters handled the topic. I also found the book's discussion surrounding the maintenance of one's mental health to be satisfying. I always feel it's good to actually see characters going through therapy as a means to help themselves instead of dismissing it as something laughable to be ignored.
There's been a lot of time between my completing this book and writing this review; as much as I want to include some sort of constructive criticism, I cannot bring myself to find anything that warrants it. The Secrets We Kept is, overall, an extremely well-rounded book that deserves the attention and praise I'm sure it's bound to get now that it's released. I can't wait to shout my love for this from the rooftops -- or, I guess, social media.
December 13, 2015
Review
5 Constellations
This was a very moving story. Yes it was about young love and growing up in the foster care system, but it was also about mental illness, and depression. So many people struggle every day as the author portrays her characters. They feel helpless, hopeless, and alone.
This is the debut book by this author. I was very impressed with the way her words flowed throughout the story. I was particularly impressed with the detail that was given to every aspect of the book. I truly felt that I was back on the streets of Brooklyn, NY. Yes I am a Brooklyn girl. The detail of the group therapy sessions got me thinking that this author did her homework. Curious, I read her blog page. It was very insightful.
I highly recommend this book, especially to the Young Adult reader. It may shine a light as what they are feeling, or maybe enlighten them as to what the kid at school who stays by him/herself may be going through.
ARC Provided by Xpresso Books. Honest review done by Mollien for Alpha Book Club without influence from publisher or author.
5 Constellations
This was a very moving story. Yes it was about young love and growing up in the foster care system, but it was also about mental illness, and depression. So many people struggle every day as the author portrays her characters. They feel helpless, hopeless, and alone.
This is the debut book by this author. I was very impressed with the way her words flowed throughout the story. I was particularly impressed with the detail that was given to every aspect of the book. I truly felt that I was back on the streets of Brooklyn, NY. Yes I am a Brooklyn girl. The detail of the group therapy sessions got me thinking that this author did her homework. Curious, I read her blog page. It was very insightful.
I highly recommend this book, especially to the Young Adult reader. It may shine a light as what they are feeling, or maybe enlighten them as to what the kid at school who stays by him/herself may be going through.
ARC Provided by Xpresso Books. Honest review done by Mollien for Alpha Book Club without influence from publisher or author.
February 7, 2017
(I received an advance copy of this book for free. Thanks to Blue Typewriter Press and NetGalley.)
This was a YA contemporary story about a couple reunited.
The characters in this were okay, but I didn’t really feel much for them, and I couldn’t really get invested in their story.
The storyline in this was about Cadence moving back to New York after going to live in California, and holding back some big secret from her ex-boyfriend and love-of-her-life Sully. There was some talk of Cadence being depressed and taking anti-depressants, and a real big deal was made of it even when it wasn’t really Sully’s business seeing as he was the one that dumped her, and there was quite a bit of Sully sticking his nose into Cadence’s business. The real secret was held back until right at the end, and it could be a bit of a touchy subject for some people (major spoiler) I did find the pace in this pretty slow though, and the story really struggled to hold my attention.
The ending to this was okay, and things all seemed to work out after the truth came out. I just wish that I had enjoyed the book more though.
5 out of 10
“Some things are just so broken, they can’t be fixed again.”
This was a YA contemporary story about a couple reunited.
The characters in this were okay, but I didn’t really feel much for them, and I couldn’t really get invested in their story.
The storyline in this was about Cadence moving back to New York after going to live in California, and holding back some big secret from her ex-boyfriend and love-of-her-life Sully. There was some talk of Cadence being depressed and taking anti-depressants, and a real big deal was made of it even when it wasn’t really Sully’s business seeing as he was the one that dumped her, and there was quite a bit of Sully sticking his nose into Cadence’s business. The real secret was held back until right at the end, and it could be a bit of a touchy subject for some people (major spoiler) I did find the pace in this pretty slow though, and the story really struggled to hold my attention.
The ending to this was okay, and things all seemed to work out after the truth came out. I just wish that I had enjoyed the book more though.
5 out of 10
December 18, 2015
I don't often review without providing a summary first, but The Secrets We Kept is the kind of book you need to read to experience and understand. It's a young adult book that transcends the genre confinements, with dual POV from a high school girl and a newly-independent male. There's no cliche insta-love, over-the-top smut, or easily handled drama. What there is, however, is a lot of harsh realities in the form of a beautiful fiction story. There's teenage love, emotional foster family situations, loss, and a profound discussion on childhood mental illness and depression.
We begin in the present, learning the current lives of our hero and heroine, Sully and Cadence, separated for a year, and as time goes on we revisit the past and learn the history that both brought together and tore apart the young couple. Their stories are much more than you expect, with a non-traditional family, the characters have fundamental relationships with the minor characters within the foster system. They take on the roles of being older siblings, of hosting parties for one another, and assisting with homework although there are capable adults around. The minor characters were so important to the story and the shaping of the main characters; I really enjoyed the relationships between them and the unique dialogue each had. The bond between the foster children is what really keeps this book moving forward, with the minor characters the tie between the two main characters.
The story itself is hard to read emotionally, because the depression and mental illness discussions feel so real and are real for many. The characters are all dealing with their own individual situations, leaning on each other and sometimes hoping they had some one to lean on. The characters come from all walks of life and have situations to face that make you both sad and hopeful at the same time. I really appreciated how Lily detailed the feelings of every character and dealt with the individual situations uniquely, using the characters to show that you don't have to face anything alone. I finished this book and felt like I should take it down to the local high school library and recommend they share it with students, because I think it contains a valuable lesson on sharing feelings, not judging, and how childhood depression is far more common than many like to acknowledge, to share that there is no shame in any of it. Lily Velez's detailed writing brings to life the characters and I feel like she shared a lot of understanding of childhood depression and mental illness with the depth of her writing.
We begin in the present, learning the current lives of our hero and heroine, Sully and Cadence, separated for a year, and as time goes on we revisit the past and learn the history that both brought together and tore apart the young couple. Their stories are much more than you expect, with a non-traditional family, the characters have fundamental relationships with the minor characters within the foster system. They take on the roles of being older siblings, of hosting parties for one another, and assisting with homework although there are capable adults around. The minor characters were so important to the story and the shaping of the main characters; I really enjoyed the relationships between them and the unique dialogue each had. The bond between the foster children is what really keeps this book moving forward, with the minor characters the tie between the two main characters.
The story itself is hard to read emotionally, because the depression and mental illness discussions feel so real and are real for many. The characters are all dealing with their own individual situations, leaning on each other and sometimes hoping they had some one to lean on. The characters come from all walks of life and have situations to face that make you both sad and hopeful at the same time. I really appreciated how Lily detailed the feelings of every character and dealt with the individual situations uniquely, using the characters to show that you don't have to face anything alone. I finished this book and felt like I should take it down to the local high school library and recommend they share it with students, because I think it contains a valuable lesson on sharing feelings, not judging, and how childhood depression is far more common than many like to acknowledge, to share that there is no shame in any of it. Lily Velez's detailed writing brings to life the characters and I feel like she shared a lot of understanding of childhood depression and mental illness with the depth of her writing.
April 1, 2016
Recently a friend commented on the emotional depth she seemed to be finding in the NYA she’s been reading lately. I have to say The Secrets We Kept by Lily Velez is a great example. The issues explored fall in line with any examination on relationships and the kind of responses you’d expect from the characters. But this is not because of age, but rather circumstance. The author’s use of backstory and reconciliation makes for a very smart read. I nearly finished the story in one sitting and I read deep into the night. I hit about 80% before I was forced to put it down.
Built during those formative years and while living in foster housing, the two main characters Sully and Cadence, share a long and intense history. The story premise, how it was flipped upside down in the last year before Cadence graduates high school is where the mystery lies. The story is told from both of their POVs, in the present and through flashbacks. So not only do we get both of their perspectives but we also get to see their budding relationship. This made is so easy to FEEL their connection and to sympathize for their struggles.
As the oldest, Sully has always been the house leader and his sentimentality and steady nature make him immediately endearing. He’s one of those kids that learns a lesson once and that’s all it takes. His “street” knowledge and reasoning skills are good so most of the decisions he makes are guided by this, but he also has strong instincts. However, in the case of Cadence and their future, he makes a “rookie” decision that although logical, isn’t so smart.
What I found very powerful were scenes with Cadence, as she tries to dig herself out of a year long depression. Her vulnerability is driven by these fears and its intensely moving to see how she is guided to take chances and start learning to have more faith in people. Considering her life in the New York foster system, she been a very lucky and Sully is a huge part of that. But he is at the center of her despair. There was something about Cadence that resonated with me. While her isolation is mostly self-imposed she is simply at odds with the world. When the one person you trust the most makes a bad call on your behalf, how do you move past it? But Cadence owns her recovery and she’s level headed about this, which I think shows a lot in who she is.
The story is propped up by secondary characters that are important to Sully and Cadence, both as individuals and in support of their relationship (mostly). It would be remiss not to mention Sully’s brother Spencer, and both Novah and Haley in support of Cadence. These three characters add so much to the direction of the story and serve to expose both good and bad aspects of Sully and Cadence.
The Secrets We Kept was a great read and all throughout I was storing up my guesses as to what the BIG secret(s) were. Although this is a defining moment, the story is more about how fear and suppositions paralyze us, why we make choices “anticipating” certain reactions and how faulty that can be. Ms Velez delivers an outstanding first novel!
5 Stars and recommendation!
* I was given a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review
Built during those formative years and while living in foster housing, the two main characters Sully and Cadence, share a long and intense history. The story premise, how it was flipped upside down in the last year before Cadence graduates high school is where the mystery lies. The story is told from both of their POVs, in the present and through flashbacks. So not only do we get both of their perspectives but we also get to see their budding relationship. This made is so easy to FEEL their connection and to sympathize for their struggles.
As the oldest, Sully has always been the house leader and his sentimentality and steady nature make him immediately endearing. He’s one of those kids that learns a lesson once and that’s all it takes. His “street” knowledge and reasoning skills are good so most of the decisions he makes are guided by this, but he also has strong instincts. However, in the case of Cadence and their future, he makes a “rookie” decision that although logical, isn’t so smart.
What I found very powerful were scenes with Cadence, as she tries to dig herself out of a year long depression. Her vulnerability is driven by these fears and its intensely moving to see how she is guided to take chances and start learning to have more faith in people. Considering her life in the New York foster system, she been a very lucky and Sully is a huge part of that. But he is at the center of her despair. There was something about Cadence that resonated with me. While her isolation is mostly self-imposed she is simply at odds with the world. When the one person you trust the most makes a bad call on your behalf, how do you move past it? But Cadence owns her recovery and she’s level headed about this, which I think shows a lot in who she is.
The story is propped up by secondary characters that are important to Sully and Cadence, both as individuals and in support of their relationship (mostly). It would be remiss not to mention Sully’s brother Spencer, and both Novah and Haley in support of Cadence. These three characters add so much to the direction of the story and serve to expose both good and bad aspects of Sully and Cadence.
The Secrets We Kept was a great read and all throughout I was storing up my guesses as to what the BIG secret(s) were. Although this is a defining moment, the story is more about how fear and suppositions paralyze us, why we make choices “anticipating” certain reactions and how faulty that can be. Ms Velez delivers an outstanding first novel!
5 Stars and recommendation!
* I was given a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review
October 17, 2016
The Secrets We Kept is a issue-driven YA story that is told in a unique way. This might be one of my favorite books I've ever read, the style, as well as the realistic presentation of the issues, the relatable and well-developed characters... it all aided to me being impressed by what I read.
I'm having a hard time putting it to words. You have to read it to see what I'm talking about.
I'm having a hard time putting it to words. You have to read it to see what I'm talking about.
December 29, 2015
Sully had me cry. This is such a amazing character. I felt so much for him. He was honest and sweet. hard working and caring. Understanding and loving. I felt for his brother because he was caught in the crossfire and suffered due to Sully’s broken heart. I know that he caused his own pain but he did it out of love and because he wanted Cadence to be able to embrace the life she now had. She had adopted parents who loved her.they were moving and in order for her to go forward he knew that she must let go of the past. So he let her go so she could soar. Only neither one soared. he became less of himself. He retreated from life and almost lost himself and his brother.
When Cadence comes back into his world he almost loses everything again. He just started seeing his brother more and began to come back to music and there she was. This puts his world in a tailspin especially when Cadence wants to stay away from him. He can’t accept that. And he shouldn’t. What’s worse is that his brother learns truths thanks to Cadence and loses hope and faith. This is what sparks Sully. Not trying to get Cadence back but the fact that his brother is now without belief. He wants to be there for him and show him his love and that heart and passion for what you love is what you need to go forward. That family matters but when it comes to dreams it is determination and passion. Letting it all out there. To do this he opens himself up to music again and let’s his life be known. He tells his story and people respond.
Cadence however for me wasn’t that nice at least at first. She was harboring secrets and pain. She also lashed out and didn’t care who she hurt in the process as long as they left her alone. She let go of others to hide from herself and her feelings. It takes one boy to help her see that she needed to have faith and that letting others in can free her. Once she saw that she wouldn’t be judged but that compassion would be seen did she begin to change. Even with all Sully’s kindness and patience she wasn’t very kind to him. It is his unconditional love and faith in her that brings her around. He shows her that nothing matters from the past just that they love each other. He doesn’t give up on his music, his love or trying to show his brother that he should dream and that they can come true. That family is there for you.
This is a beautiful feel good story. It has sadness and heartache but also is uplifting. Sully is amazing and he tries so hard. He is honest and caring and once he gets life reality by his brother he wakes up out of his grief and pain and becomes who he was meant to be. And it is a uplifting and inspiring transformation. As is Candace’s change. She goes from being depressed, miserable and pushes people away by lashing out and hurting others to a more happy and loving person. she learns to accept her past and that she won’t be tossed aside but loved and cared for no matter what. She finds herself and what it means to love and be who you are. This is a uplifting kind wonderful story about two people who lost each other and themselves and how they find their way back. Back to family, friends, their hopes, dreams and each other. A story that uplifts you and makes you feel.
When Cadence comes back into his world he almost loses everything again. He just started seeing his brother more and began to come back to music and there she was. This puts his world in a tailspin especially when Cadence wants to stay away from him. He can’t accept that. And he shouldn’t. What’s worse is that his brother learns truths thanks to Cadence and loses hope and faith. This is what sparks Sully. Not trying to get Cadence back but the fact that his brother is now without belief. He wants to be there for him and show him his love and that heart and passion for what you love is what you need to go forward. That family matters but when it comes to dreams it is determination and passion. Letting it all out there. To do this he opens himself up to music again and let’s his life be known. He tells his story and people respond.
Cadence however for me wasn’t that nice at least at first. She was harboring secrets and pain. She also lashed out and didn’t care who she hurt in the process as long as they left her alone. She let go of others to hide from herself and her feelings. It takes one boy to help her see that she needed to have faith and that letting others in can free her. Once she saw that she wouldn’t be judged but that compassion would be seen did she begin to change. Even with all Sully’s kindness and patience she wasn’t very kind to him. It is his unconditional love and faith in her that brings her around. He shows her that nothing matters from the past just that they love each other. He doesn’t give up on his music, his love or trying to show his brother that he should dream and that they can come true. That family is there for you.
This is a beautiful feel good story. It has sadness and heartache but also is uplifting. Sully is amazing and he tries so hard. He is honest and caring and once he gets life reality by his brother he wakes up out of his grief and pain and becomes who he was meant to be. And it is a uplifting and inspiring transformation. As is Candace’s change. She goes from being depressed, miserable and pushes people away by lashing out and hurting others to a more happy and loving person. she learns to accept her past and that she won’t be tossed aside but loved and cared for no matter what. She finds herself and what it means to love and be who you are. This is a uplifting kind wonderful story about two people who lost each other and themselves and how they find their way back. Back to family, friends, their hopes, dreams and each other. A story that uplifts you and makes you feel.
October 10, 2017
Me tardé meses en leer este libro, me pareció demasiado lento y luego la trama no logró atraparme. No conecté con ningún personaje, Cadence demasiado indecisa y Sully demasiado insistente, por la salud emocional hay que saber cuándo decir no y cuándo hay que dejar ir a las personas. El final no me pareció real, después de descubrir el origen de la depresión de Cadence se necesita más que lo que se nos plantea en el libro para un proceso de superación.
December 13, 2015
Josie's 4.5 Star Review
I am not really a fan of YA stories, but this book was written so well that I could not get enough. I am going to try not to give anything away in this review because it should be read blindly to fully understand and appreciate this very powerful story. The subject matter that was touched upon in this book are not YA but it did fit well for the story. Besides a complexed love story, the characters deal with depression, tragic loss, and the good and bad of the foster care system in the United States.
Sully and Cadence‘s story unfolds over a period of time, and the author gives readers a look into their life by going into the past. Their story is much more than I imagined. Their young lives in the foster care system broke my heart but watching them find a love that transcended their chaotic worlds touched me deeply. Where this story focuses on Sully and Cadence, we are also gifted with some pretty incredibly written side characters that made this story more believable. Growing up in a world with no family these characters find family and love within each other that spans time and distant. Each of these characters play a role in Cadence and Sully lives.
After being apart, Cadence and Sully paths cross again, but when Sully looks into her eyes, he no longer sees the light that once shone so bright. Sully tries so hard to show Cadence that she can trust him and all she wants is to keep him away. Cadence and Sully broke my heart. It was obvious their love was true and strong but a dark secret keeps them apart. The author navigates readers through a roller coaster ride of emotions, secrets and revelations that tore at my heart. I needed to go through this journey to truly understand and appreciate the characters unique relationship. I have to say I completely fell in love with this story. This journey was not an easy one, it tried my patience more often than not but it was so worth it. With the love, courage and support from their very unique and unusual family, Sully and Cadence find the courage to reveal secrets that will either make or break them. You are going to want to pick this book up and take a ride with these young characters. You will not be disappointed.
December 17, 2015
First off , I want to say how beautiful this cover is - It would have to be one of my favourite book covers for 2015. It's what drew me to this book mainly. Unfortunately for me , it was one of those cases where I should not have judged a book by the cover as though The Secrets we Kept was a good read , it was a little too slow for my liking . The good thing though was once the story got moving along and the two main characters Sully aka Sullivan and Cadence actually spent more time together and their past - the time spent away from one another and the dark secrets both were hiding came spilling out that was when it's pace picked up. So if you are one who loves fast-paced novels, you will have to persevere with this one as it does get better. The Secrets We Kept is the tale of two people who first met in foster care and then grew to share a love together and a whole lot of firsts , then a moment came that none of them expected and the two were separated and now Cadence is back and Sully wants answers but more so he wants her. The author navigates readers through a roller coaster ride of emotions, secrets and revelations as we note that the light that used to shine from Cadence's eyes have disappeared due to her secret which we later learn was about abortion. The Secrets We Kept is an angsty novel and does deal with alot of edgy issues from Foster Care, to Teen Angst and Romance to Abortion and Mental Health.
If you are in the mood for a bit of a heavier read and are a fan of that Teen Angst , then check out Lily Velez's The Secrets We Kept today.
If you are in the mood for a bit of a heavier read and are a fan of that Teen Angst , then check out Lily Velez's The Secrets We Kept today.
February 9, 2017
Mixed feelings here as some aspects of the tale are well written. The kids are from foster homes and have been around the country a bit, so we feel instant sympathy for them as they try to make their way. Most of the action occurs in New York but we don't see much of the city or landmarks which for me was a downer. There's school settings, grungy music clubs and parks.
A girl who moved away after she was adopted, returns when her new family moves back to NY, but her new outlook on life means she wants to break away from the past boyfriend from foster care. They do have a lot in common, but she has different opportunities now and he's completely tied up in his music. Should they try to get back together or not? The lad, probably rightly, thinks that she's a fantastic girl for him and doesn't want to lose her.
I suggest that girl readers should be a little more cynical because not all young men will be so keen to stay with the first girl they see. It's natural for young people to grow and explore. We see a lot of counselling sessions as the modern approach to dealing with unhappy situations and trauma. Anyone interested in counselling young people will probably get a lot out of this book. On the other hand I found it slowed down the story and made for repetition. The tale may interest teens who want to see how hard it is to break into music - very hard.
I downloaded a copy when the author made it free. This is an unbiased review.
A girl who moved away after she was adopted, returns when her new family moves back to NY, but her new outlook on life means she wants to break away from the past boyfriend from foster care. They do have a lot in common, but she has different opportunities now and he's completely tied up in his music. Should they try to get back together or not? The lad, probably rightly, thinks that she's a fantastic girl for him and doesn't want to lose her.
I suggest that girl readers should be a little more cynical because not all young men will be so keen to stay with the first girl they see. It's natural for young people to grow and explore. We see a lot of counselling sessions as the modern approach to dealing with unhappy situations and trauma. Anyone interested in counselling young people will probably get a lot out of this book. On the other hand I found it slowed down the story and made for repetition. The tale may interest teens who want to see how hard it is to break into music - very hard.
I downloaded a copy when the author made it free. This is an unbiased review.
December 16, 2015
I received this book in exchange for an honest review and honestly speaking I could not recommend it more. Not only to the YA audience it’s targeted at but to parents, grandparents, aunts, and uncles. Or brothers and sisters. Or any person actually because the themes the authors tackles are universal.
More than ‘just’ writing a lovely love story, debut author Lily Velez gives us a beautifully written book about depression, friendship, family, and second chances. Not an easy fit for seasoned writers, a monumental one for a first-timer and Lily Velez pulls it off awesomely. I particularly liked her choice of third person for the narrative and the way she presented the flashbacks. As for the characters, both main and supporting onThe Secrets We Keptes, they’re likeable, believable, and endearing. What else can one ask for, right?
More than ‘just’ writing a lovely love story, debut author Lily Velez gives us a beautifully written book about depression, friendship, family, and second chances. Not an easy fit for seasoned writers, a monumental one for a first-timer and Lily Velez pulls it off awesomely. I particularly liked her choice of third person for the narrative and the way she presented the flashbacks. As for the characters, both main and supporting onThe Secrets We Keptes, they’re likeable, believable, and endearing. What else can one ask for, right?
December 16, 2015
I received this book as an ARC for a honest review. This book was read and reviewed by Stacy Aube for Cutting Muse Blog Review.
A very moving read.
Childhood depression is all to real.
Sully and Cadence were childhood sweethearts until circumstances tore them apart. Now Cadence is back but different. Can their love surpass all the hardships?
A very moving read.
Childhood depression is all to real.
Sully and Cadence were childhood sweethearts until circumstances tore them apart. Now Cadence is back but different. Can their love surpass all the hardships?
October 20, 2016
I have to admit, I was totally attracted to that cover when I requested this book. Just LOOK at it! It's a stunner, and it's super artsy, as well. I have also always wanted a glimpse into the foster system, and what it's like for teens. Thus, I expected good things from this story, and that's what I got!
The Secrets We Kept revolves around the dual-POVs of teens Sully and Cadence. They were both in the foster system, which got them together, but unfortunately, Cadence's move had forced them to break up. As luck would have it, Cadence ends up moving back near Sully, but she is quite different; and it's hard for him to place his finger on what's changed. In spite of that, Sully still knows that he can make things work between them, and pick up where they left off beforehand. Cadence, though, is hiding some secrets, BIG ones, ones that can threaten the two from getting together. Will the two be able to hit it off without Cadence's secrets slipping out, and ruining their relationship?
The characters of this book are very well-developed, and I felt like I could connect with them well. First, let's talk about Cadence. Yes, she did get stubborn and whiny at times, but I don't blame her, due to everything she was going through. I really felt for her as she kept having to move, and also as she had to bubble up her big secrets. I could not imagine living a life like that! So, I think she was a pretty nice character inside, but it's just that her circumstances were quite unfortunate.
Now, I'd like to talk about Sully. I loved his determination to be with Cadence and to figure out what's been changing in her life. Reading the story, I could tell that he was a very loyal person, which showed in his persistence and curiosity for Cadence. In a way, this reminds me of Miles in Looking for Alaska and his persistence for Alaska, which, ironically, I am currently reading for school! :) Anyway, I'd totally want Sully as a friend, that's for sure! :)
Because of the secrets unravelled near the end of the book, I don't really think this book would be suitable for tweens or younger teens (unless they are very mature). I don't want to spoil anything as it wouldn't be fair to those who haven't read this book, but it is mature, so I'm just giving you a heads-up, and recommending that you only pick up this book if you're fine with some mature themes.
Overall, I really liked most things about this book, which includes the characters, plot, and writing style, but I just think it could be a little shorter, as there were quite a few scenes I don't think were necessary. Any who, if you'd like to take a peek into the lives of teen foster children, and are also on the lookout for great characters and beautiful writing, then don't hesitate to read The Secrets We Kept! :)
The Secrets We Kept revolves around the dual-POVs of teens Sully and Cadence. They were both in the foster system, which got them together, but unfortunately, Cadence's move had forced them to break up. As luck would have it, Cadence ends up moving back near Sully, but she is quite different; and it's hard for him to place his finger on what's changed. In spite of that, Sully still knows that he can make things work between them, and pick up where they left off beforehand. Cadence, though, is hiding some secrets, BIG ones, ones that can threaten the two from getting together. Will the two be able to hit it off without Cadence's secrets slipping out, and ruining their relationship?
The characters of this book are very well-developed, and I felt like I could connect with them well. First, let's talk about Cadence. Yes, she did get stubborn and whiny at times, but I don't blame her, due to everything she was going through. I really felt for her as she kept having to move, and also as she had to bubble up her big secrets. I could not imagine living a life like that! So, I think she was a pretty nice character inside, but it's just that her circumstances were quite unfortunate.
Now, I'd like to talk about Sully. I loved his determination to be with Cadence and to figure out what's been changing in her life. Reading the story, I could tell that he was a very loyal person, which showed in his persistence and curiosity for Cadence. In a way, this reminds me of Miles in Looking for Alaska and his persistence for Alaska, which, ironically, I am currently reading for school! :) Anyway, I'd totally want Sully as a friend, that's for sure! :)
Because of the secrets unravelled near the end of the book, I don't really think this book would be suitable for tweens or younger teens (unless they are very mature). I don't want to spoil anything as it wouldn't be fair to those who haven't read this book, but it is mature, so I'm just giving you a heads-up, and recommending that you only pick up this book if you're fine with some mature themes.
Overall, I really liked most things about this book, which includes the characters, plot, and writing style, but I just think it could be a little shorter, as there were quite a few scenes I don't think were necessary. Any who, if you'd like to take a peek into the lives of teen foster children, and are also on the lookout for great characters and beautiful writing, then don't hesitate to read The Secrets We Kept! :)
December 9, 2015
I was given a copy in exchange for an honest review.
this was a great romance, but it wasn't just about the romance, it's about the friendships and family that you have that are willing to help you through anything. The lesson you can take away from this book is that you are never alone in your life, there is always someone to help. This was a really great book and I will highly recommend it.
Review done by Cat for Cat's Guilty Pleasure
this was a great romance, but it wasn't just about the romance, it's about the friendships and family that you have that are willing to help you through anything. The lesson you can take away from this book is that you are never alone in your life, there is always someone to help. This was a really great book and I will highly recommend it.
Review done by Cat for Cat's Guilty Pleasure
September 15, 2015
This book is PHENOMENAL. The character development is incredible, you feel like you are right there in the book with each person. Every detail in this book is thought out and it is beautifully written. I couldn't get enough... Once you start reading, you will not stop!!
November 7, 2015
Really sweet, moving, relatable story. I want a sequel, maybe about Spencer or Haley. That would be so awesome!
Review to come!
Review to come!
July 15, 2023
No review as I DNF'd.
I will say the writing is good, but the story was way too slow for me.
I will say the writing is good, but the story was way too slow for me.
December 27, 2015
MEH.
This book has so much potential. I wanted to like this, I really do, but it was too dramatic (it's not even funny) for my liking.
This book has so much potential. I wanted to like this, I really do, but it was too dramatic (it's not even funny) for my liking.
March 26, 2017
Blue Typewriter Press and NetGalley provided me with an electronic copy of The Secrets We Kept. This is my honest opinion of the book.
Sully Graham and Cadence Gilbertson were childhood sweethearts, broken apart by circumstances that separated them by miles. One year later, Cadence unexpectedly returns, but she has changed. Her refusal to see Sully and her subsequent mixed messages leave all of those who "loved her when" puzzled as to her behavior. Will a grand gesture by Sully open a dialogue between the two teenagers that found each other in childhood despite very difficult circumstances?
The Secrets We Kept was a thinly plotted YA romance which had nothing to help it stand apart from the many books in the genre. The most compelling part of the book, namely the foster care aspects, were barely highlighted in any meaningful way. The characters were developed well, but it was not enough to elevate this book from an average read for me.
Sully Graham and Cadence Gilbertson were childhood sweethearts, broken apart by circumstances that separated them by miles. One year later, Cadence unexpectedly returns, but she has changed. Her refusal to see Sully and her subsequent mixed messages leave all of those who "loved her when" puzzled as to her behavior. Will a grand gesture by Sully open a dialogue between the two teenagers that found each other in childhood despite very difficult circumstances?
The Secrets We Kept was a thinly plotted YA romance which had nothing to help it stand apart from the many books in the genre. The most compelling part of the book, namely the foster care aspects, were barely highlighted in any meaningful way. The characters were developed well, but it was not enough to elevate this book from an average read for me.
December 17, 2015
Originally posted on Daydreaming Books.
*I received an eARC of this book from Xpresso Book Tours for the blog tour in exchange for an honest review.*
Trigger Warning: Depression
It's difficult to express this book into one line or so. So I'm going to dive directly into the review...
Cadence and Sully first met at a foster home, since then they have been together but he broke up with her when she moved to California after getting adopted. After one whole year she’s back to New York but something seems different about her. Sully wants her back in his life but she wants to maintain her distance from him. Incidentally Sully discovers her bottle of antidepressant medicine but she shuts him off and her other old friends after that. Can Cadence open up to him or the even bigger secret she's hiding will destroy their hope for future?
This story definitely isn't light in any way. It potrays the harsh reality that so many people has to face in foster homes. It deals with so many other aspects as well, like anxiety, depression, death, guilt and moving forward in life by accepting the ultimate truth. I did face difficulty in connecting with the characters but nonetheless they were uniquely portrayed. Every character had their specific voice and they were so different from each other. I liked the bonding between the children in the foster home where Cadence and Sully lived. But the plot felt a bit flat for me, although it dealt with pretty serious issues but it felt like it was neither moving anywhere.
Cadence was definitely a unique character. She didn't trust people easily and when she did, she trusted them with her whole heart. The story dragged on a bit but finally after the revelation about her big secret I could understand where she was coming from. She suffered from depression after moving away and that intensified much more after the "incident" which I can't reveal without giving out the main secret. Sully was a nice character. He loved Cadence and he sacrificed his love because he wanted her to actually live her life. That was indeed sweet and I liked that he fought to win her back. Oh before I forget, I loved the friendship between Haley and Cadence, they met in a support group and they both opened up to each other. Without Haley's support she would've never gotten the strength to finally confess everything.
Overall, The Secrets We Kept was a story of love, loss and moving forward. Although I liked Cadence and Sully, I didn't find myself rooting for them that much. The writing style was simple and easy to read. I did feel a little confused at first because it was suddenly going to the flashback then jumping into the present once again. The pace was even throughout the book, it was neither too slow nor too fast. Everything was neatly executed and realistically portrayed.
Recommend it?
Yes.
*I received an eARC of this book from Xpresso Book Tours for the blog tour in exchange for an honest review.*
Trigger Warning: Depression
It's difficult to express this book into one line or so. So I'm going to dive directly into the review...
Cadence and Sully first met at a foster home, since then they have been together but he broke up with her when she moved to California after getting adopted. After one whole year she’s back to New York but something seems different about her. Sully wants her back in his life but she wants to maintain her distance from him. Incidentally Sully discovers her bottle of antidepressant medicine but she shuts him off and her other old friends after that. Can Cadence open up to him or the even bigger secret she's hiding will destroy their hope for future?
This story definitely isn't light in any way. It potrays the harsh reality that so many people has to face in foster homes. It deals with so many other aspects as well, like anxiety, depression, death, guilt and moving forward in life by accepting the ultimate truth. I did face difficulty in connecting with the characters but nonetheless they were uniquely portrayed. Every character had their specific voice and they were so different from each other. I liked the bonding between the children in the foster home where Cadence and Sully lived. But the plot felt a bit flat for me, although it dealt with pretty serious issues but it felt like it was neither moving anywhere.
Cadence was definitely a unique character. She didn't trust people easily and when she did, she trusted them with her whole heart. The story dragged on a bit but finally after the revelation about her big secret I could understand where she was coming from. She suffered from depression after moving away and that intensified much more after the "incident" which I can't reveal without giving out the main secret. Sully was a nice character. He loved Cadence and he sacrificed his love because he wanted her to actually live her life. That was indeed sweet and I liked that he fought to win her back. Oh before I forget, I loved the friendship between Haley and Cadence, they met in a support group and they both opened up to each other. Without Haley's support she would've never gotten the strength to finally confess everything.
Overall, The Secrets We Kept was a story of love, loss and moving forward. Although I liked Cadence and Sully, I didn't find myself rooting for them that much. The writing style was simple and easy to read. I did feel a little confused at first because it was suddenly going to the flashback then jumping into the present once again. The pace was even throughout the book, it was neither too slow nor too fast. Everything was neatly executed and realistically portrayed.
Recommend it?
Yes.
November 16, 2016
Originally Posted At:
www.thebookishloner.com
*I received a copy of this book through Netgalley and the publisher in exchange for an honest review.*
My Thoughts
Ok, so let's start off with the good. I really liked the idea behind The Secrets We Kept. The fact that the story was focused on foster kids and their relationships was unique. As was how they cope with being separated or adopted out of the system. There were also several good life lessons to be learned throughout the book's duration and a heavy discussion about a topic that I won't spoil by talking about. That being said, the negatives started to outweigh the positives.
From early on it becomes obvious that Sully is obsessed with Cadence. I really feel like it was an unhealthy obsession. He literally could not have a conversation with his brother or friend without bringing Cadence up. Even after they were broke up, it may have even been worse at that time. Cadence wasn't as bad as Sully but that was because her story required her to separate herself from Sully, she didn't give herself any other choice. Though she did suffer from depression shortly after moving away from him and who's to say if that would have resolved itself had it not been for something that happened which caused her to lose herself even more.
The last thing that I had a major issue is something I wasn't sure that I would bring up in my review, because it has to do with the formatting. I usually don't touch on that type of stuff when reviewing ARCs just because there is still a process that they go through before becoming a finished product. But just in case it remains, I wanted to make not that it was really confusing how the author would have the characters flash back and forth between the present and past. Rather than having it separated by chapters the flashbacks would occur throughtout, which I've seen done and it can work fine, but there was no clear break or change in font to indicate that we had gone into a flashback. Overall it was very confusing and often made me lose my concentration.
www.thebookishloner.com
*I received a copy of this book through Netgalley and the publisher in exchange for an honest review.*
My Thoughts
Ok, so let's start off with the good. I really liked the idea behind The Secrets We Kept. The fact that the story was focused on foster kids and their relationships was unique. As was how they cope with being separated or adopted out of the system. There were also several good life lessons to be learned throughout the book's duration and a heavy discussion about a topic that I won't spoil by talking about. That being said, the negatives started to outweigh the positives.
From early on it becomes obvious that Sully is obsessed with Cadence. I really feel like it was an unhealthy obsession. He literally could not have a conversation with his brother or friend without bringing Cadence up. Even after they were broke up, it may have even been worse at that time. Cadence wasn't as bad as Sully but that was because her story required her to separate herself from Sully, she didn't give herself any other choice. Though she did suffer from depression shortly after moving away from him and who's to say if that would have resolved itself had it not been for something that happened which caused her to lose herself even more.
The last thing that I had a major issue is something I wasn't sure that I would bring up in my review, because it has to do with the formatting. I usually don't touch on that type of stuff when reviewing ARCs just because there is still a process that they go through before becoming a finished product. But just in case it remains, I wanted to make not that it was really confusing how the author would have the characters flash back and forth between the present and past. Rather than having it separated by chapters the flashbacks would occur throughtout, which I've seen done and it can work fine, but there was no clear break or change in font to indicate that we had gone into a flashback. Overall it was very confusing and often made me lose my concentration.
January 2, 2017
I have mixed feelings about this book. I really liked most of the characters and enjoyed their stories of shared trauma and triumph in the foster system. There are some awesome kids that have survived and found nice families and friendships. Sully was a character I rather enjoyed. His secrets were completely understandable, but caused pain and betrayal nonetheless. He carried a heavy weight that he could have shared with his brother, but chose to protect him instead. That didn't end well. Then there is Cadence. Her secrets ruined lives as well, most notably her own. All because she couldn't trust and let others help her through her problems. I understand that her past didn't exactly leave her open to trusting and she thought her new life was too good to be true, but I was really mad at her for keeping her secret and the decisions she made because of it. She was not a character I liked at all. From the beginning I had a hard time liking her. Her big secret was obvious long before she finally told anyone and I was not a fan of her for it. I personally feel she deserved all the guilt and self-loathing she felt. I know others will feel differently, but that is how I feel. Even before I knew the epicenter of her breakdown, I just didn't like her. The stories/flashbacks from before she left for California just didn't contain a character I was interested in, so it made it even harder for me to feel sorry for her. If she had been a more interesting character, I would have liked this book a lot more.
November 2, 2016
There is definitely a compelling story here of loss, depression, family and coping through grief. For me, it doesn't really deliver on its promise. The basic premise is our main characters separated a year ago when Cadence was adopted out of their foster home and relocated to California with her new family. Now she and her family are back, and Sully wants to know what happened to her, why she doesn't want to get back together, and why it seems like she's keeping secrets. One of the secrets is that she's been taking antidepressants (and everyone's reaction is bizarrely over-the-top, and really bothered me). As far as the other secrets, Sully and the readers are unfortunately kept in the dark for nearly 80% of the book, even though most will probably suspect them from early on. There is not much tension or real conflict in the story, despite the fact that we have very traumatized teenagers and a situation ripe for it. There are sudden flashbacks in every chapter that can be jarring even when you're prepared for them.
Sentence by sentence, it is lovely writing. The story itself just dragged a lot for me and I never felt any real chemistry between the two main characters.
*I received a copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for an honest review*
Sentence by sentence, it is lovely writing. The story itself just dragged a lot for me and I never felt any real chemistry between the two main characters.
*I received a copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for an honest review*
October 25, 2015
The Secrets We Kept is a beautifully written book. From the start, the reader is hooked and is able to go into the characters’ lives so well it’s as if they were good friends. You won’t finish this book without a connection to at least one of the characters (but probably all!). The reader is able to journey through the ups and downs alongside the characters, feeling their emotions and turmoil, their happiness and hopefulness. You’re rooting for them and comforting them the entire way. Lily Velez really captures the feelings of each scene and is able to translate that for the readers and bring these characters to life.
The story isn’t just about romance – it’s about friendships, brotherhood, sisterhood, and the gentle reminder that you don’t have to go through life on your own. There are always people wanting and willing to help, to listen, to encourage, and to support – and with them, you’ll be able to get through anything, no matter what. It’s a really great book to read and I highly recommend it!
The story isn’t just about romance – it’s about friendships, brotherhood, sisterhood, and the gentle reminder that you don’t have to go through life on your own. There are always people wanting and willing to help, to listen, to encourage, and to support – and with them, you’ll be able to get through anything, no matter what. It’s a really great book to read and I highly recommend it!
October 28, 2015
the secrets we kept is a truly moving story about the power of love, friendship, family and forgiveness. it grabs you right from the start and pulls you into the lives of it’s lead characters and makes you really feel the ups and downs that they are going through. it would be impossible to read this story and not feel yourself completely connected to the loveable and trying characters of this sweet tale. from the graham brothers and their array of friends and acquaintances, to the soft spoken and timidness of young haley, there are characters from all walks of the personality scale that are bound to pull at your heartstrings. it leaves you longing for a sequel.
lily velez definitely knows how to spin a tale and make it come to life, she knows how to draw her readers in and keep them hooked right until the very last page. this book is a definite must read for any and all ages. i highly recommend picking up your copy and snuggling up on the couch for a night of great reading.
lily velez definitely knows how to spin a tale and make it come to life, she knows how to draw her readers in and keep them hooked right until the very last page. this book is a definite must read for any and all ages. i highly recommend picking up your copy and snuggling up on the couch for a night of great reading.
October 31, 2016
*This book was received via Netgalley in exchange for an honest review*
I really liked the characters in this book, the plot was good and overall the book was really moving. I did have a few issues with some of the content of the book and was really annoyed at the characters once the big secret was revealed and they realised lots of heart ache could have been avoided had they just communicated with each other and explained their actions in words. I did, however, think that Sully's actions to win back Cadence were really sweet and the author gave a good insight into some of the experiences of foster kids and the foster care system as well as how that experience can shape the children and the effect on their emotions. Overall, this was quite a good book but the complication seemed to have been one that could have been avoided had Sully and Cadence communicated instead of shutting each other out.
I really liked the characters in this book, the plot was good and overall the book was really moving. I did have a few issues with some of the content of the book and was really annoyed at the characters once the big secret was revealed and they realised lots of heart ache could have been avoided had they just communicated with each other and explained their actions in words. I did, however, think that Sully's actions to win back Cadence were really sweet and the author gave a good insight into some of the experiences of foster kids and the foster care system as well as how that experience can shape the children and the effect on their emotions. Overall, this was quite a good book but the complication seemed to have been one that could have been avoided had Sully and Cadence communicated instead of shutting each other out.
October 17, 2016
I received this book via NetGallery in exchange for my honest review.
This story was very strong and moving it dealt with so many different issues, depression, foster care, trust, love.
Both characters Sully and Cadence were very strong, they were both dealing with very big issues in there life from young children to adults. When you read about the past between them you can feel the connection between them, the love between them. I really made you root for them in the future. One thing I would have liked more was to read more about them together as adults working through there problems. We didn't get to read much about them reconnecting once all the secrets were out. I would have liked for the story to have moved a bit faster so we could experience more of that.
Overall I enjoyed the story, it was very emotional and heartbreaking.
This story was very strong and moving it dealt with so many different issues, depression, foster care, trust, love.
Both characters Sully and Cadence were very strong, they were both dealing with very big issues in there life from young children to adults. When you read about the past between them you can feel the connection between them, the love between them. I really made you root for them in the future. One thing I would have liked more was to read more about them together as adults working through there problems. We didn't get to read much about them reconnecting once all the secrets were out. I would have liked for the story to have moved a bit faster so we could experience more of that.
Overall I enjoyed the story, it was very emotional and heartbreaking.
December 15, 2015
This is a book aimed at the primarily at YA market but is just as significant for an older audience. Based around the two main characters Sully & Cadence … it’s a look at life in the foster system, covering depression, anxiety, death, love, relocation & how it affects the young lives.
Written with a lot of poignancy, depth & understanding it really portrays the helplessness involved when deep secrets threaten to disrupt love & life all the time reminding us what the support of friends, family & trust can overcome. Sweet, sometimes awkward but a worthwhile read.
Thanks to the author & Xpresso Book Tours for the opportunity to read this in exchange for my honest opinion.
Written with a lot of poignancy, depth & understanding it really portrays the helplessness involved when deep secrets threaten to disrupt love & life all the time reminding us what the support of friends, family & trust can overcome. Sweet, sometimes awkward but a worthwhile read.
Thanks to the author & Xpresso Book Tours for the opportunity to read this in exchange for my honest opinion.
December 21, 2015
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