Kathryn Hughes's 1998 biography of the author of *Silas Marner,**The Mill on the Floss,* and *Middlemarch,* among other novels, is well researched, engaging, and sometimes wryly humorous. Hughes shows George Eliot in all her contradictions and complexity, explaining as much as anyone could how the writer got the way she was.
Eliot is frustrating to many feminists because despite living an unconventional life, she highly valued conventionality. She was the "Last Victorian" in the sense that her brilliant heroines usually chose to renounce the full development of their brains for a quiet domestic life. Eliot herself had a remarkable career and 23 years of living with a married man who couldn't get a divorce under contemporary British law. For many years she was a social outcast, even from her family.
But she was in many ways a conservative, believing in gradual and incremental change over revolution or anything imposed from the top down if people weren't psychologically and socially ready. She passed through passionate religious phases, ending up what I'd call a highly moral humanist. Together with "husband" George Henry Lewes, she financially supported his actual wife, the woman's many illegitimate children, and a long list of Lewes's relatives without complaint.
It was fascinating to learn from this book that there never would have been a George Eliot, novelist, if not for Lewes, who encouraged her to move from journalism into fiction and became Cheerleader No. 1. After once expressing the mildest doubt about her untested ability to write dramatically, he learned a lesson -- thereafter keeping his and everyone's reservations from her, propping her up through her paralyzing bouts of depression and dark periods of low self-esteem, even getting publisher Blackwell to write his pathologically touchy author fulsome letters of encouragement. After Lewes died, Eliot married a man 20 years younger, who during the short time they were together before her own death, performed the same sustaining function.
If you don't believe me, read the book and see what a strong case Hughes makes from the available data. Eliot was undoubtedly a genius but also a victim of debilitating insecurities.