The authors committed the cardinal sin: they wrote a book that was a bore to read. The book is made up of numerous short vignettes from various people from all walks of life. Each person's story is unique, but what is lacking is any cohesiveness to tie everything together, to show the bigger picture. Over and over you read about some guy or gal, how serving in the military was hard, failures, triumphs, jacked situations, overcoming, people dying, limbs blown off, how it affected them, how they dealt with it, or didn't. There is even one vignette from a reporter. None of it was stuff that hasn't been heard before - except maybe the women's stories, and all of it amounted to one big nothing for this reader. I'm a veteran from an era when simply being in the military didn't qualify you for a 'thank you for your service'. In fact, even though Vietnam was over, you could still be spit upon in some cities if you went out in dress uniform. Most of us joined for many of the same reasons the folks in the book signed up. Learn a trade, my dad served, so here I am, my turn, or it was just a call to duty. When President Carter's boondoggle rescue attempt to get the hostages out of Iran happened, we thought we were going to war. We didn't. Later, after the twin towers were pulled down, we did go to war. I never saw combat - the timing just wasn't right. I consider myself lucky because I've heard stories from Vietnam vets, from Gulf War vets, seen pictures of horrific stuff. It is nothing to speak about, and most of those guys don't. Instead, they usually get that far away look in their eyes and mumble about how 'fucked up' it was and they are glad they are home. But for the ones who talk about it....read the book if you have to know. I am sure this book will be therapy for some struggling veteran dealing with PTSD, or struggling to live civilian life. It may even stop a veteran from suicide. In that sense, the stories needed to be told. But what this book is not, and why I did not like it, is what it purports to be: a book of stories that America needs to hear. What this book was for me is stories about shit happening. I already knew that. There are plenty of 5 star reviews - I'm glad for those folks. Maybe you will enjoy it as much as they did. Nevertheless, this book is one that is not going to go on my recommended reading list.