Since this is a memoir, I won't rate it, as it never feels right rating someone's life experience.
So, the good....the last few pages have a very strong and positive message. This is a middle grade book, and those are the pages I want to read to my young teens.
But the majority of the pages are filled with...contradictions. I'm not sure how the majority of the book reconciles with what the author is trying to say in those last few pages. There was no bridge between the "struggles" and the happy and positive conclusion.
From an adult perspective, we see one person's story on what it was like being Black and going to a private school with predominantly White people. As a Latina, I could relate to some of the experiences, though my skin color never dictated my entire identity, so my point of view regarding these similar experiences differed greatly from the author's (which is okay, good even).
Basically, for an adult reader, the book is fine.
But this book is for 8-12 year olds, and that's the issue I had. Lines like, "I was failing at being Black" and, "She couldn't cure me" (regarding a friend...and curing her from being her authentic self) are harmful to young girls, especially vulnerable at that age. On top of that, there are so many assumptions made about White people in this book...AND Black people. In one story, the author talks about how insensitive teachers are when making a comparison to something like camping. Because it excludes Black people. Because...Black people dont go camping? I have Black cousins who go camping every year. What kind of blanket statement is that? And then the author further makes the assumption that the Black kids nodding at the comparison clearly have no idea...because there's no way they've ever been camping or can connect a couple dots to understand the comparison? I don't get it. These are college kids at a private university.
I seriously took down seven pages of notes, but I'll stop here. I'd recommend this book to adults who are interested in reading about other people's journeys, with the understanding that this reads more like commentary on an ideology than about actual racial disparities. Good conversation starter, but wouldn't recommend for kids. Unless you want to make them feel more insecure about who they are or make them think who they are is entirely dictated by the color of their skin.