Warm and witty reflections on modern life alongside some short stories that fans will recognise fed into plotlines and characters in later novels. Doesn't shy away from difficult subject matters but they're handled with sensitivity and a sense of reconciliation. Funny, poignant, touching and always entertaining.
"Valya was fabulous. (And just a small bit mad, as befits a woman who has just been left by her husband.) I loved her. I am always at my happiest with slightly mad people."
"But most of us haven't the energy to be active feminists; we're knackered, holding down demanding jobs, getting our roots done, fighting low-level depression, trying to do Pilates, doing school runs if we have children or agonizing about when the best time to have a baby would be, if we haven't. We don't have it all. We're too busy doing it all, to have it all... What feminism needs is a make-over... For example, did you know you can be a feminist and a) wear pink, b) have sex with men, c) enjoy a good laugh? Amazing, no? As long as you believe you're entitled to the same rights as everyone else (i.e men) you're a feminist. See, that's not so bad, is it?"
"I'm sad but I will live with it... It's taken me forty years to discover that I can have confrontations- and survive."
"...life is what happens while we're waiting for it to be perfect enough to live it."
"...she tried to swallow away the sweet, hard stone of sadness in her chest. But, even as she felt the loss, she knew she was going to be fine. In the midst of the grief, at the eye of the storm, was the certainty that she was going to cope with this. She was alone and it was okay."
"It complicated things that I loved him. Or had loved him... seeing how wrong I'd been was hard to suck up. Especially because we sometimes had our good days. Even now. There were times when he was like the person I first met. But I wasn't. My stomach was always a walnut of nerves, wound tight with anxiety, wondering what would happen to tip his mood... The more he hit me, the less sure of myself I became. At times he almost had me convinced it was what I deserved."