This was by far the most personal and most interesting- and consistently interesting, never any dull moments for me- political memoir I’ve ever read!
I also greatly enjoyed getting to live vicariously through Power, as someone deeply interested in a foreign policy career before severe illness derailed my plans, and as someone who has grown evermore interested in journalism, especially the amazing work of foreign correspondents. I will never have those careers but damn, did I ever enjoy reading all the details of Samantha’s experiences. I also deeply admire what a full, varied, and impactful life she’s had so far. Especially to see a woman who had my idea of it all- the incredible and varied career, an amazing husband, and sweet kids. She doesn’t shy away from the hardships of how often her job took her away from her family, even detailing how often her son begged to see her more, but I got the impression she did the best she could on every front and I have tremendous respect for her. I also adored some of the anecdotes she shared about her kids, like them discussing wildlife with various ambassadors during parties at the US UN Ambassador parties or how she would try to briefly and in child friendly language explain conflicts in the world, such as when her son, who loved elephants kept discussing how much he wanted to visit Zimbabwe as they had they highest population of elephants and Samantha was forced to explain that then Zimbabwean leader Robert Mugabe was “not nice” to his country’s citizens. In response her son first inquired why the country couldn’t pick a different leader and upon being told Mugabe would not allow them to, he then asked how old Mugabe was and after being told he was 91, her son smiled and said “Great. So we’ll be able to see the elephants pretty soon.” Little comments like that, or how upon being shown videos a year or two later of Mugabe stepping down, her son had by then grown wise enough to ask if the new leader was any better, just made it so neat to see how this children growing up in this wildly unusual situation that was the norm to them, viewed and understood things. Or my favorite story, when Obama was about to announce his plan to open relations with Cuba, Samantha was so excited and longing to tell someone that she described it to her son, explaining how the US government had placed an embargo on Cuba. Later that day, just as Obama was set to make his announcement, Samantha received a call from her son’s school describing an incident where another child had accidentally given her son a bloody lip during recess and her son grabbed the phone to urgently request that “Mommy, we need an embargo for Sawyer.” Describing the fancy UN residence at the Waldorf, Power remarked that this was likely the first time young children had lived there and I think those kinds of additions helped depict the uniqueness of Samantha’s position and situation.
I also enjoyed her discussions about being a woman in the jobs she held. So often she also showed how she and other women, tiny minorities in their positions were able to band together and help one another cope. She very openly discussed how in her days as a foreign correspondent the women correspondents would send one another emails entitled “Ew” to describe their latest experience of sexual harassment. Or during her days at the National Security Council, the small group of women on the NSC began having Wednesday night gatherings with wine and cheese where they would discuss everything from the job to their dating/spousal or parenting woes. The women who were part of the Wednesday meetups helped empower one another to speak up during meetings which was something Samantha sometimes struggled with, and they made sure to give one another a chance to speak when they each lead meetings. This same group supported her as she went through IVF to conceive her second child. I loved knowing that in the often petty and backbiting world of politics, and in the especially difficult position as women in security, these women all had one another’s backs. There were even fewer women in the UN, a time when Samantha was often the only woman in the room. On advice from Madeline Albright, who had also served as UN Ambassador before her appointment as Secretary of State, and who held her own “G7” or “Girl 7” meetup of what was then only seven female ambassadors, Samantha, being reminded of her Wednesday group at NSC, made sure to do the same. Fortunately, during her time at the UN, the number of female ambassadors was between 36-42 (out of 193 countries, still a long way to go!). I fully admit, a major aspect for my choosing to read this book at all is my tremendous respect for female diplomats and politicians and truly believe, beyond the fact that women deserve equal representation, our governments and world would be a lot better if we had far more women in politics. Perhaps that’s also what kept this book so interesting to read, Power, like many (certainly not all) women in politics before her, genuinely wants to make the world a better place and was in most ways above the power games and petty squabbling that the men so often get caught up in.
I appreciated how even when she disagreed with decisions made by President Obama (most notably how he reneged on his promise to Armenian supporters to finally refer to the Armenian genocide as a genocide, and she discusses at length both her views on Assad’s massacres in Syria and where the president was coming from, his deeply torn views, on not doing more, even going so far as to quote interviews he gave where he explained his thinking as well as times he got frustrated with Power.) You can tell she and Obama both have a lot of respect for one another and oof, did I ever find myself missing such a sane government! It was enlightening and fascinating to see how decisions were made (or not) and how day to day happenings went on during the Obama White House. Reading this book also gave me an ever deeper respect and admiration for Barack Obama, both as president and human being.
Similarly, I learned so much about the UN and it’s work and as someone (especially someone more entwined in Israeli politics than even those of the US- and even Power acknowledged how screwy the UN Human Rights Council could be with their disproportionate amount of declarations against Israel and how many of the members of UNHRC are countries guilty of horrific human rights violations of their own!) I fully admit to never being fond of the UN. Reading this book changed that for me and I was especially grateful for Power repeatedly pointing out that the UN is not a single entity, just a building where countries gather. Samantha discusses the things she helped accomplish in the UN both small and large- from choosing to meet with the missions from all 193 UN countries (which in a number of cases meant she was the first US representative to visit with some of these countries), or working to release a group of twenty female political prisoners across the world, to how she helped fight for LGBT and women’s rights, how valiantly she fought to try and restrain Russia’s actions as they annexed first Crimea and then Eastern Ukraine, her efforts to get more women involved within the UN, at the security council, even as part of the US’s own mission. Most notable was the incredible effort undertaken to combat Ebola and what a profound example it was of the various countries coming together to prevent a huge disaster that risked becoming a global threat, and how successfully these countries worked together to get the disease first under control and then eradicated, making what was by far the most deadly occurrence of Ebola far, far less deadly than initial estimates had been at its height. I think the Ebola section is truly a highlight of the book and one I’d especially recommend to others who think the UN is ineffective.
Towards the very end of the book is a discussion addressing how any one person can help when there’s seemingly so much going on in the world. This was very fitting given the previous 500+ pages one can’t help but both admire and be inspired by Samantha Power and her lifelong work towards change. Here she discusses her own personal motto of “Shrink the Change”, how “big problems are most often solved by a series of small solutions, sometimes over weeks, sometimes over decades.” And she also mentions Obama’s own saying that “Better is good”, as in even if you can’t fix or solve a problem, making the effort and making it even a little better is still an achievement and worth doing. More than anything, I think Samantha’s story is one of exactly this, piecing away at major world problems, doing what she could from where she was at- as a journalist, as part of her work at NSC, at the UN, no matter how small the effort might be, proving repeatedly how successful such efforts can be. What an amazing and fascinating life Samantha Power has lead!