I'm a Vladimir Nabokov aficionado, and I devour as much of his work as possible. Iit's a long process, but I'm slowly getting more acquainted with his novels, stories, poems — and, now, letters. It's fascinating to see the process behind a writer's work, and, to some degree, that's exactly what Letters to Vera is. The book spans almost the entire length of the couple's five-decade marriage and, one-sided as it is, paints a very vivid picture of the relationship between Vladimir and Vera.
The book is organized by year, starting from when the young couple met, following through their blossoming romance and early marriage, the birth of their son, Dmitri — passages that provide some of the most adorable fatherly descriptions of raising a child — and into Vladimir's more successful writing career, from his émigré status in Berlin and Paris, to his voyage to the United States.
The book is filled some of Vladimir's best quips and quotes, but this time they're different because they're less thought out. Where his books are carefully plotted, planned and written out, these letters provide a much more personal, quiet look at the Nabokovs' lives. They're Vladimir and Vera at their most intimate.
Reading certain letters, I got a huge kick out of the Pnin-ness that Vladimir himself embodied — and of course modeled the titular character after. He's so timid and cute with his wife on some things, and on others his giddiness and excitement for her rarely written letters, or the progress in his son's education, shines through. And on still other occasions, he adopts a sharp tone with his wife when she insists — invisible to the reader, as her letters were almost completely destroyed — that she needs to stay longer at a sanatorium and with family before she can join his husband on any of his writing tours. But his real-life embodiment of Professor Pnin is the cutest thing when you remember that he was a real person! with real responsibilities! And yet somehow it's adorably hilarious when he tells Vera he doesn't know where to get stamps to mail her a letter because he's scared of the post office.
Funny, personal moments like those make up a large portion of the letters. They're not particularly interesting to people who aren't major fans of Nabokov — or even, probably, to those who are — but they provide a sense of realness to the masterful name that Nabokov's reputation has become.
So the letters are very much a portrait of a happy, loving marriage, despite Vladimir's constant chastising of his wife for not writing more, and for Vera's seeming reluctance to do so. Even still, it's interesting to pick up bits and pieces of unhappiness or worry, such as when their son has to have a surgery at the same time that Nabokov's own health is sub-par. Or the Irina Guadanini affair — this one's particularly interesting because it's a bit of dramatic irony for the educated Nabokov fans. We all know how the story goes: Vladimir, away for work, has a continued affair with a young woman, and keeps it a secret for as long as possible; Vera finds out and tells Vladimir he has to choose. He does, but relapses once, until finally the marriage continues and they live happily ever after. But, reading the letters, there are clearly moments that indicate Vera has more doubts than maybe she let on elsewhere, when Vladimir has to reassure her with comments like: "I am only interested in one woman — you;" "You, and our love, and everything is now always and absolutely safe;" "I don't want to hear any more, darling, of those dark hints of yours;" and "No, — emphatically, I'm not a man about town."
It's a bit disappointing that we don't have the full correspondence, although what does exist is very interesting in the context of Nabokov's books. And it would be better if the correspondence was more consistent; that is, if it had spanned every year of the marriage and not just the earlier years of turmoil. It would be interesting to see how the marriage evolved once they arrived in the United States, and once Lolita really turned Nabokov into the writing legend we know today.