Extremely disappointed in this book. I didn't enjoy the read and don't feel i have any further insight into the author than i did before i started it. I'd never really paid much attention to culture club or boy george musically (apart from the commercial hits that are always played on the radio e.g. karma chameleon), however i've always felt boy george was a fascinating person who has lived an incredible life, therefore would have an amazing story to tell in his book. The bad thing is, he doesn't tell that story in the book.
The book is not cohesive and seems to read like the author is just stating every random thought and memory in his head. He gives no timeframes or dates to reference anything, and only ever stays surface level with little to no detail given other than, this happened, that happened. Its like george is giving a quick run down of everything he can remember before he forgets it. It might as well have been bullet points. It is clear that george is currently at a place in his life where he does not want people to remember the negative events of his life, so he seems to decide to either skip them all together or gloss over them as if it was barely worth mentioning (for example his prison sentence).
I did my research before reading this book as boy george has written two previous autobiographies in 1995 and 2003, so i wanted to clarify if this was a contiuation of the previous books or a stand alone. Boy george himself stated in several promotional interviews for the book that this is his definitive autobiography, which covers both the previous books as well as his life up to date. Considering the 1995 book was 500 pages and the 2003 book was 300 pages, plus there has been 20 years of life lived between 2003 and 2023 (when this book was released), i was shocked to find the 'definitive' autobiography was 360 pages. 800 pages of previous books plus 20 further years squeezed into 360 pages seemed quite a task, but it becomes quite clear how this was achieved when you learn that your not getting any actual stories, just a quick list of random things that happened. After choosing to read the definitive autobiography as opposed to the previous ones, i was also not happy that the previous books were referred to on numerous occasions, and on multiple occasions george mentions a situation that happens then comments that hes not going into it and if you want to know you can read the other books to 'look it up'.
The book seems to skip extremely large chunks of time that featured what you would think were quite important details to include, such as the break up of culture club, which is never directly mentioned, and only indirectly mentioned in the sentence, 'i hadnt performed with the band for a number of years'. Theres also barely any mention of his solo career apart from random comments about 2 or 3 song he recorded which he liked.
Another issue with the book is that george seems to presume everyone reading it knows his story and the characters involved. I know some of george's story and the characters involved such as marilyn and steve strange, however if i did not know the little that i already knew, i would have been lost as the book does not give any information on who these people are or why they are significant to be mentioned in george's story. Additionally, as i only casually knew george's story, there were multiple occasions when he was speaking about people, places and events that i knew nothing about, and given he does not feel the need to give any context about anything in the book, it was hard to keep track.
The last few chapters are awful as they have no direction and seem like the author is desperately trying to remember anything else that happened at any point in his life, just to fill pages. Oddly, the only chapter in the whole book that george seems enthusiastic in giving detail to, is the chapter on his stay in the jungle for the reality show 'I'm a celebrity... get me out of here'. The amount of detail he goes into about his brief under two week stay on the show, makes it feel like it belongs in a completely different book, and really highlights how lack luster the detail given in the rest of the book is.
Overall the book reads as though boy george was at an interview, and the interviewer has stated, 'before we start, give us a quick and condensed run down of your life'. George states in the book he used a co-author, so you almost get the impression, george just gave the co-author a run down of what he wanted included in the book, and the co-author included it 'as is', with no further questions asked. No wit, no sass, no excitement, no fasinating insight into fame and fortune, no drama or gossip, no detail, nothing you would expect from a boy george biography. Ironically the main ingredient missing from the book seems to be 'boy george', and what you are left with is a tired, unenthusiastic book by someone who seems passed caring and likely only did it for the cheque. Would not recommend.