This was not what I expected. I picked the book up on a whim because Elder M. Russell Ballard quoted from her book in his recent talk "Daughters of God" and in Jane Clayson Johnson book "I am a Mother" she also references a quote from Quindlen. Boy was I surprised.
I was expecting a book about life, motivation, mothering & it's okay if you're not perfect. The quotes I knew and had felt moved by were there, buried, like needles in a haystack, but they were there. They felt almost out of context to me, I think more-so because my expectations were so different when I started the book, but I learned so much I was not looking for.
The chapters (maybe 2) on mothering were not what I anticipated. Anna Quindlen is a liberal, mother and columnist who wrote for years for the New York Times. When she retired she took up writing novels. The book is more so about many of the issues facing our society and nation as a whole. She has exceptionally thought out and articulate ideas about everything from politicians, hunger in America, homelessness, motherhood, race, war, gun control and the oil crisis. The book made me think about things that we often don't want to think about, let alone talk about because we think it can't really be happening. Here? in the Land of the Free? Each chapter it seemed was a 4-5 page editorial on different issues facing our nation. Many swept under the rug in attempt to make them disappear. Temporarily.
Although I did not agree with all her ideas I felt she kept a fairly neutral stance on many of the issues and just laid some of the facts out for the reader to sort through. There were several times I needed to grab a dictionary to look up a word she used,in my opinion she is an amazing writer. Over all I was impressed. It made me think, like I have not thought in a long while.
It still surprises me, because of the controversial things she discusses, that she was quoted by either of the people that made me pick the book in the first place, but they did.