We rarely speak about this distinction between different kinds of people: some of us are workers, some are bosses. Some have the capacity for leadership, dominance, entrepreneurship, and others do not. In my experience, both categories are born, not made. This is especially true of successful entrepreneurs like Paul Orfalea. This observation explains a great deal, when receiving the strengths and weaknesses of this book.
It is not likely that you are a high-powered entrepreneur, for two reasons. 1. High-powered entrepreneurs are rare by definition; if the marjority were born unfit to follow a leader, civilization would end. 2. This kind of person is rarely an enthusiastic reader. Some claim to be, and many who make that claim are lying [as entrepreneur Donald Trump claims to have read the Bible]. Their success depends upon the concentration of their own ideas, undilluted by the ideas of others. Paul himself has a convenient excuse; he’s dyslexic and partly started his business in order to pay other people to read for him.
Why then would a Beta worker bee like you and me read an autobiography of an Alpha overlord? For the thrill of his story, and to get some good ideas along the way. He thinks differently from us, and we might benefit from his different thinking. Now that we’ve set the table, let’s enjoy the first course.
Paul was a college student at the University of Southern California in the late 1960s. One day as he stood in line, waiting to copy a paper for an assignment, he flashed on an opportunity. USC had a copy center, but the state school in Santa Barbara did not. Paul would open one there. Now you and I have ideas like this, too, but we don’t act on them. Going into debt and running a business far away would disrupt our lives too much for us to actually do something with the inspiration; not Paul. You probably know the rest of the story. Over the next 30 years his company, Kinko’s, grew like a force of nature and he became a billionaire.
Paul does not say he was born to run this business, although he does credit his Lebanese family of entrepreneurs for modeling the life. Instead he attributes success to his strategy of “being ‘on’ your business, not ‘in’ your business.” By this he means to avoid drowning in minutiae like budgets and memos (they didn’t use email). Instead, focus on the larger issues that will make or break your business. What do customers want from you? How can you give them more of what they want? He writes:
“On days I was [at the first Kinko’s] I rarely made copies or worked behind the counter. To be honest, I was bored at the store. What I really enjoyed was getting out and meeting people—in a word, marketing. . . There’s no better way to stay ‘on’ your business than to think creatively and constantly about your marketing: how you are marketing, who you are marketing to, and always, how you could be doing a better job at it.”
This is the best, almost the only idea he shares in the book, although I’ll summarize the rest. It sounds good, inspiring even, but it is far more practical when you are The Boss. Paul did not want to be ‘in’ his business, but somebody had to work behind the counter and their opportunity for being ‘on’ the business was small. We can imagine how open Paul was to their ideas about marketing, when the customer line was five deep.
For the rest of the book, Paul becomes a character I encountered many times, both in life and in literature, which I call Mister Big Talk. By his account, Mister Big Talk almost never made a wrong step. Even his mistakes turned out to be genius moves. Mister Big Talk begins his inspiring stories on solid ground, but they spin out of Earth orbit, inch by inch, until he’s talked you into the Asteroid Belt. Paul devotes a whole chapter to his superstitions, such as stomping on a found coin, and the business lessons learned by gambling at Las Vegas casinos. He considers this a good use of time and money. I kept waiting for him to admit this was a joke, especially the coin stomping, but apparently he believes he controls the universe in this way.
Along the way, Paul tells us how much he cares about his Kinko’s partners. Now let’s get real: He needed workers. Mister Big Talk does have a genius for pulling people in and rerouting their lives to his own purposes. As long as they give up their own goals in favor of his, they are one big happy family. When any of them disagreed with The Master, things got dark.
Human society needs this kind of person, and we can’t blame them for being the way they are. Greatness demands this kind of narcissism. Charles Lindberg became the first human being to fly across the Atlantic Ocean in one hop, solo. Later in life, he made political speeches that scorched his reputation. His wife warned him repeatedly that he was making enemies for no benefit, but he refused to listen to her. She related the reason to her daughter:
“He had grown up listening only to himself and relying on his own judgment: his survival as a pilot had depended on following his own instincts. ‘If he had listened to others,’ Anne told her daughter, ‘he never would have gotten to Paris.’”
This book is an excellent example of Mister Big Talk, and it may help worker bees like us to handle this kind of person when we meet them. I can’t be hopeful that a worker bee will read it and become Paul Orfalea, because as I observed at the outset, this kind of person is born, not made.