My fav quotes (not a review):
• Life is like a river. There is no precharted way; there are no maps to be given to you which are to be followed. Just be alive and alert, and then wheresoever life leads you go with full confidence in it. Tantra is a trust — a trust in the life force. Allow it to lead you, don’t force it. Surrender to it and allow it to lead you towards the sea. Just be alert, that is all. While life leads you towards the sea just be alert so that you don't miss anything.
• You may have heard, "Look at the stranger as if he is a friend," but that is not possible if what I am saying is not possible. First look at your friend as the stranger; only then you can look at the stranger as at the friend. They are correlated
• So never say that "I am hungry." Always say within, "I know that my body is hungry." Give emphasis to your knowing. Then the discrimination is there. You are becoming old: never say, "I am becoming old." Just say, "My body is becoming old." Then in the moment of death also you will know, "I am not dying; my body is dying
• whenever you feel that something is wrong, first find out the cause in yourself. Don't go anywhere.
• We create an untrue world around us because of our projections, but if the reality asserts and the horse neighs from the stable, we ask, "Whom do you believe?" We always believe ourselves, not the reality that goes on asserting. It is asserting every moment, but we go on forcing our illusions. That is why every man feels disillusioned in the end. It is not because of reality. Every man and woman feels disillusioned in the end, as if the whole life has been a waste. But now you cannot do anything, you cannot undo it. Time is no more with you. Time has flown and death is near and you are disillusioned, and now the opportunity is lost.
• Why does everyone feel disillusioned? Not only those who are unsuccessful in life, but those who are successful in life, they also feel the same. It is okay if unsuccessfuls feel disillusioned, but even those who succeed feel this way. Napoleons and Hitlers and Alexanders, they also feel disillusioned. The whole life has been a waste. Why? Is the cause really in reality, or is the cause in the dreams which you were projecting? And then you could not project them and the reality asserted itself, and ultimately reality wins and you are defeated
• Always remember, no matter what you are doing, observe whether your center is involved in it or not, because if it is not involved it is better not to do a thing. Don’t do it! No one is forcing you to do anything. Don’t do it! Preserve your energy for the moment when something real happens to you; then do it. Don’t smile, preserve the energy. The smile will come, and then it will change you completely. Then it will be total. Then every cell of your body will smile. Then it will be an explosion — nothing painted.
• He could have accepted me; then I would have thrown all responsibility on his shoulders. But he refused, and he was the last man. There was no comparison. When he refused, I could not go to anyone else because he was the only shelter
• The moment you become obsessed with an ideal, you are closed
• The scripture is absolutely correct. But come forwards only those who have never sinned. Take these stones in your hands and murder this woman, but only those who have never sinned."
• One psychologist going to another to be analyzed? Psychology is just a profession. Buddha is not in any profession.
• Only the sky is still, fortunately, open to meditate on. Try this technique, it will be helpful, but remember three things. One: don’t blink — stare. Even if your eyes start to feel pain and tears come down, don’t be worried. Even those tears will be a part of unloading; they will be helpful. Those tears will make your eyes more innocent and fresh — bathed. You just go on staring.
• This has to be remembered for many reasons. Spiritual effort is the most contradictory phenomenon. Effort has to be made, with full consciousness
• In the beginning, if you only meditate on the open sky, not doing anything else, intervals will start appearing, because whatsoever you see enters you. Whatsoever you see stirs you within; whatsoever you see is pictured, reflected.
• You see a building. You cannot simply see it; something immediately starts happening within you. You see a man, a woman; you see a car — you see anything. It is not just outside, something has started within, the reflection, and you have started reacting to it
• Go on staring — as if you are trying to find the boundary. Move deep. Move as much as you can. That very movement will break the barrier. And this method should be practised for at least forty minutes; less than that will not do, will not be of much help
• It was so awkward to go up and down the drain-pipe the whole day. For three months, every day going up and down the drain-pipe — it was so awkward, and the whole neighborhood was laughing at me. But you had told me not to go up and down the stairs, so I had to find a way.’
• not doing anything about meditation — just being there and it happens; just sitting
• But this is the contradictoriness of things: if you don’t have a very developed ego, you cannot surrender. You can surrender only if you have a perfectly clearcut ego. Otherwise you cannot surrender, because who will surrender? So to me, both are half and both are in misery — east and west both. Because the east has taken egolessness, which is the end part, and the beginning part is missing.
• A borrowed knowledge won’t do; borrowed knowledge is useless. Unless it is your own experience, it is not going to change you. Others' experiences are of no help
• Science experiments with the object, religion experiments with the subject, but both are experimentations and both depend on experiment.
• So it happens, and I observe it daily, that a person who was living a very worldly life was not ordinarily so disturbed. When he starts to meditate, or to seek the religious dimension, he becomes more disturbed, more than ever. The reason is that now he has an even keener desire, more impatience. And with the worldly things, things were so real and objective that he could wait for them. They were always in his reach. Now in the spiritual realm things are so elusive, so far away, they never seem to be in reach. Life seems to be very short, and now the object of desires seems to be infinite — there is more impatience and then more disturbance. And with a disturbed mind, how can you meditate
• Cabby, do you know where I am supposed to be going?’ He said, 'No, sir. But I am going as fast as possible.’
• If you bring religion to the outer world, you will create chaos. In India we have created it — it is a mess. If you bring a scientific attitude for the inner, you will create madness — the West has created it
• Impatience is the shadow of desire
• Then meditation is not be practised really; it will start happening to you, because a non-desiring mind is in meditation
• How can you love when you are closed? You live in your prison, I live in my prison, and whenever we meet, only the prison walls touch each other and we are hiding behind. We
• Wherever beauty exists, ugliness exists; wherever ugliness exists, beauty exists
• The whole day, from ten to five, for seven hours, he goes on putting cold cloths on his head and on his stomach.’ But if there was a fan, this man would have felt that Vinoba is not spiritual. And somehow Vinoba is also agreeing with this type of attitude — that Vinoba’s seven hours every day are not important.
• Looking at a beautiful sunrise or sunset, you forget yourself. Then suddenly you feel that something has happened to you. You are not there; something greater than you is there. 'God’ means greater than you —
• Heads can argue. Hearts cannot argue
• When you don’t know what to do, do something.’ But this will not do as far as meditation is concerned
• You may have jumped out because of music, you may have jumped out because of a beautiful sunrise, you may have jumped out because a child was laughing.
• It is very beautiful and very simple. A desire arises. You are walking on the road; a beautiful car passes by. You look at it — and you have not even looked and the desire to possess it arises. Do it. In the beginning just verbalize; just say slowly, 'I have seen a car. It is beautiful. Now a desire has arisen to possess it.’ Just verbalize
• So the question is not of achieving; the question is only of discovering.
• Those bacteria can live eternally — because there is no birth, so there is
• If food is not available, two bacteria will come nearer and nearer and they will become one, their bodies will become one. No birth, no death. With sex entered birth; with birth entered death; with birth entered individuality; with individuality entered ego.
• If you are really in search it is not so easy. And you don’t need any witness. It is difficult and arduous; it may take even lives. And it is painful, it is a long suffering, because much has to be destroyed, much has to be transcended, long-established chains have to be broken. It is not easy. It is not a child's play. It is arduous, and suffering is bound to be there because whenever you start changing your pattern, all that is old has to be dropped. And all your investments are in the old. You will have to suffer
• With a real master it is difficult to be a disciple
• The old doctor said, 'Tickle the patient with a feather
• And truth is individual in this sense — that truth is truth only when experienced
• A Marx, a Lenin, they are fighting for economic freedom
• A Gandhi, a Lincoln, they are fighting for political freedom
• Economic slavery can cease, but then you will become aware of other slaveries — sexual, psychological
• When you are loved and you are in love, you don’t feel gravitation has any effect on you. You can dance, you can fly really. In a deeper way the body is no more — but this is in a limited way. The same can happen when you are in love with the total existence.
• Whatsoever the cause, but you have jumped out for a moment — out of the body. The body is there, but tossed aside; you are not attached to it. You have taken a flight
• Attachment is a question of attention. If you pay attention to the body, you are attached. The game finishes: suddenly you come back to the body, and the blood is there and the pain. And you wonder how it happened — when it happened and how it happened and how you were not aware of it.
• Man has become conscious. Man has become conscious of time, and the moment you become conscious of time, you are thrown out of eternity. Then you are in a hurry. So as man's consciousness evolves more, he is more hurried, he becomes more and more time conscious. Go to a primitive society: they are not time conscious. The more civilized a society, the more time conscious.
• And it is good, so don't be afraid of it, and don’t think that this passivity is not real. This is being said by your mind which needs and wants the feverish activity and the glow that comes through fever. Fever is not awareness, but in fever you can have a very unhealthy awareness, alertness. That is diseased; don’t hanker for it. Allow it to go, fall into passivity
• If the animal is satisfied then the divine is in discontent. If the divine is satisfied then the animal is in discontent. A part is always in discontent.
• Movement is pure, and then it comes back to you — virgin. As it left you it comes; it carries nothing.
• He has come to the midpoint, the golden mean. Secondly: it is very easy to move to the other extreme — very easy. If you eat too much you can fast easily, but you cannot diet easily. If you talk too much you can go into silence very easily, but you cannot talk less. If you eat too much, it is very easy not to eat at all — this is another extreme. But to eat moderately, to come to a midpoint, is very difficult. To love a person is easy; to hate a person is easy. To be simply indifferent is very difficult
• Religion basically means: for the divine against the animal — so every religion is part of the conflict.
• These techniques we are talking about will be of no use if your mind thinks there is no hurry. Then you can go on postponing and death will come first. That day will not come when you think there is a hurry, when you think that now the moment has come
• The minister said, 'The meaning is easy. Those fingers are symbolic of quotation marks. That sermon was not mine — it was borrowed.’
• Knowledge is gathered through this faculty. But knowing reveals two things: the known and the knower
• Buddha used to say that his path is a middle path — majjhim nikaya
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• "Bliss never happens through effort. Effort is always tension-creating; it gives anguish. Effort is always ugly because you are forcing something. Understanding is not an effort;"
• -Page 733
• "That is why in the old biblical language they have used the word 'know' for sex, for love — for deep love. It is not coincidental. In the Bible it is reported that "Adam knew his wife Eve, and then Cain was bom.""
• -Page 735
• "The leader became afraid — leaders are always afraid. They are leaders because cowards are there, and those cowards choose them. They are leaders of the cowards. If there were no cowards, there would not be any leaders. Basically, they are chosen by cowards, so they are leaders of cowards."
• -Page 736
• "The cat said, "I am a cat and he is a mouse. There is no other technique. I am a cat — that is enough. What is the use of any technique? Being a cat is enough. When I entered, it was enough that a cat should enter. I am a cat.""
• -Page 739
• "Accept dogs! Do not make a condition that 'If they stop barking, then I will sleep.' Just accept."
• -Page 767
• "Then go on with the sound. Be aware, alert. Move with the sound to the very end. See both the poles of the sound, both the beginning and the end."
• -Page 769
• "You are hearing an instrument — a sitar, or anything. Many notes are there. Be alert and listen to the central core, the backbone of it around which all the notes are flowing, the deepest current which holds all the notes together — that which is central, just like your backbone."
• -Page 773
• "The child is born, and he has started to be a politician. The moment he is related to the world, to the parents, to the family, he is in politics. Now he has to take care about his faces. He will smile as a bribery. He will try to find out in what ways he should behave so that he is accepted more, loved more, appreciated more. And sooner or later the child will find out what is condemned by the parents, by the family, and he will start repressing it. Then the false has entered."
• -Page 785
• "There is not going to be any harm. I am just walking, taking a walk, and I am not going anywhere — just walking. So there is no need of mind; I can be non-efficient."
• -Page 786
• "When Bosho was asked, "What is your meditation? What is your SADHANA, spiritual practice?" he said, "When I feel hungry I eat and when I feel sleepy I go to sleep. This is all." The man who was asking said, "But this we all do. What is special about it?" Bosho repeated it again. He said, "When I am hungry 'I' eat and when I feel sleepy 'I' sleep."
• -Page 786
• "Someone asked Buddha, "I want to serve humanity. Tell me how I can serve." Buddha looked at the man very deeply, penetratingly, with deep compassion, and then he said, "But where are YOU? WHO will serve humanity? You are not yet."
• -Page 835
• "Tantra says, acceptance will be followed by transformation, but do not make acceptance a technique for transformation."
• -Page 839
• "When you are fighting with yourself, there is no problem around you. When you are fighting with someone else, the society will create problems for you. When you are fighting with yourself, the whole society will worship you. It is good because you are not harming anyone."
• -Page 870
• "Allah will do - any word that brings your total breath out so that you exhale completely and you are emptied of breath."
• -Page 881
• "Massage the stomach to relax, and you will feel more fearless, less afraid."
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• "Toilet training is the first repression of the child and its natural spontaneity, but it seems difficult to listen to these psychologists."
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• "A vow can be helpful if taken in a very relaxed, deeply meditative mood. Otherwise you are simply showing your anger, your frustration and nothing else, and you will forget the vow within twenty-four hours."
• -Page 907
• "For example, the man is always on the woman — on top of the woman. This is an egoist posture because the man always thinks he is better, superior, higher — how can he be below the woman? But all over the world in primitive societies the woman is above the man. So in Africa this posture is known as the missionary posture, because for the first time when missionaries — Christian missionaries — went to Africa, the primitives just could not understand what they were doing. They thought it would kill the woman."
• -Page 919
• "The need is for love; it is not for food. But food and love are deeply related, so when the need for love is not felt, or is suppressed, a false need for food is created and you can go on eating. Because the need is false, it can never be fulfilled, and we live in false needs."
• -Page 924
• "Ordinarily, when you are in the sex act, there are four persons, not two, and this is a square: four angles are there because you yourself are divided in two — into the thinking part and the feeling part. Your partner is also divided in two; you are four persons. Two persons are not meeting there, four persons are meeting."
• -Page 941
• "Condemnation can only create hypocrisy. Then you try to pretend, to show, that you are what you are not. Hypocrisy means you are the real man, not the ideal man, but you pretend, you try to show, that you are the ideal man."
• -Page 977
• "Dissatisfactions are felt, miseries are felt, pains are felt. Whenever you suffer, you become the suffering. That is why the whole life becomes a hell. You have never felt the positive; you have always felt the negative."
• -Page 990
• "Tantra says in neither waking nor sleeping are you real. You are real only in between. So don’t be concerned with the waking, and don’t be concerned with dreaming and sleep. Be concerned with the gap; be aware of the gap. While passing from one state to another have a glimpse. And once you know when the gap comes, you become the master of it. You have the key; you can open that gap anytime and enter into it. A"
• -Page 992
• "Illusion means the inability to decide whether the thing is real or unreal. This confusion is MAYA."
• -Page 996
• "What are you doing when you are disciplining a child? You are forcing something which is not natural to him. You are asking and demanding something which he will never do spontaneously. You will punish him, you will appreciate, you will bribe him, you will do everything to make him social — to take him away from his natural being. You will create a new center in his mind which was never there, and this center will grow and the natural center will go into oblivion, into the unconscious."
• -Page 1000
• "Can you remember any moment in your life when you were spontaneous, when you just lived in the moment — when you were living yourself and you were not following someone else?"
• -Page 1001
• "The ego will be there just on the periphery, but you will be able to see it now. Like any other object, you will be able to observe it. And once you become capable of observing your ego, your false center, you will never be false again. You may need your false center because you have to live in a society which is false. You will be able to use it now, but you will never be identified with it. It will be instrumental now. You will live on your center, in your center."