“A man’s friendships are one of the best measures of his worth.” –Charles Darwin
This was volume three in the Linda Wells Memory series and I struggled to write a review that could do it justice.
Volume 1: Memory: Lasting Impressions: 514 pages
Volume 2: Memory: Trials to Bear: 566 pages
Volume 3: Memory: How Far We Have Come: 570 pages
Wikipedia states that a chronicle ‘is a historical account of facts and events ranged in chronological order, as in a time line.’ Yep, that about says it… as it was the chronicles of the life and times of Elizabeth and Fitzwilliam Darcy. This was a time line that picked up after volume two and continued the story of [ODC] our dear couple and their family and friends. I equate my struggles in writing this review as trying to write a review for an encyclopedia. I highly suggest reading volumes 1&2 due to the continued history between the characters. Wells does a fantastic job of reminding readers of what happened in the other stories, but still, there was a lot that a reader needs to know about these people and their relationship to each other.
Rating: MA: mature audience: adult themes, graphic, descriptive sex scenes [even more than the other books] if that is possible.
“Friends show their love in times of trouble, not in happiness.” –Euripides
This volume had a different tone than the other two volumes as it leaned more heavily on the male perspective. The actions and interactions centered mainly within the circle of family and friends of D&E. You have the Fitzwilliam relations, headed by Lord Matlock… Darcy, our dear Colonel and his Fitzwilliam brothers. Throw in Lucas, Bingley, the de Bourgh brothers, then the other gentlemen from volume one and two and you have a lot of testosterone floating around the place posturing for their ladies. The sexual undertones were rampant as the guys were bawdy, bodacious and just screaming sexy. I think they were more than happy to take any excuse to look smoking hot.
On the flip side of that coin, you have the women that paired with these guys. This story became like episodes of ‘Friends.’ Perhaps this should be retitled ‘Cousins, Brothers, and Friends.’ There were lots of people running around, lots of drama, lots of growing pains as couples paired up, married, tried to live their lives while dealing with in-laws and out-laws, and having their babies. It seemed, at one point in this third book, that every woman was pregnant. There were babies dropping everywhere. Sadly… not all were successful. I love that quote from Queen Victoria: “Being pregnant is an occupational hazard of being a wife.”
Caroline: “I wasn’t ecstatic about being pregnant – I wasn’t somebody who actively wanted kids. Certainly, there were no fantasies about nappy-changing.” –Elizabeth McGovern
O Caroline, you social climbing, b-witch extreme… what have you done? I cannot imagine her thoughts as she ignored and threw away her best blessing. She would pay dearly for her choices. I wonder if she would have acted like that had she secured her greatest dream… that of being Mrs. Darcy? Wow! Her superior attitude dug a hole that she could never have crawled out if she had a lifetime. This was a blinding surprise that I did not see coming. It was a sad reflection on the plight of women regarding marriage, the need to provide heirs and dealing with the dangers of pregnancy during this time period.
“Some women can’t stand being pregnant, getting big and bloated, and hauling around a giant stomach, and some women, for reasons probably understood by Darwin, love it.” –Rich Cohen
Bingley: over the three volumes we literally watched Bingley scratch and claw in his progress to move from his trade roots to the landed gentry. It was a hard struggle and I so wanted him to find his happiness. I was concerned as his roving eye fell on every-single-female ‘angel’ within range of his notice… dang… what a hound dog. He had so much to learn and we the reader watched him evolve and grow right before our eyes. He had to put up with a lot on his journey to the higher circles. He had to endure a lot of disappointment and heartache in that journey.
M/M Bennet: Their relationship with their daughters would never be the same. Starting in volume one… the only change began with Mr. Bennet [reluctantly but finally forced to act]. But… was it too late for him? Mrs. Bennet remained the weak, mean understanding, self-serving harridan. Nothing swayed her point of view. She was a braggart, prolific gossip [not averse to using creative license], cruel and just plain vicious. She was so bad that Mary’s wedding [at her request] was held in London with the wedding breakfast at Darcy House. Even though Mrs. Bennet had been warned… repeatedly, she could not keep her mouth shut and just HAD to say hurtful cutting things to Elizabeth and even snide remarks in regard to Mary. That woman will never learn. At least Lydia was witness to what her mother was doing. She was able to have sensible conversations with her older sisters that were eye opening and demonstrated her growth from the previous books. She was, at last, on the road to improvement. I liked this side of her. What??? Yep, I said that.
Kitty, Georgiana and even Lydia, grew up a lot in this last book. I liked them and the epilogue was really kind to them.
Oh, the children: babies and toddlers always steal the show. There were several scenes with the daughters and their fathers that will simply bring you to tears. They were so sweet and touching. I love those guys.
Journal entries: as in volume 1&2, this volume continues the journal entries of D&E. He reads her journal and she reads his. I enjoyed this part even though at times it was tedious. They were able to convey their thoughts, feelings, fears, emotions on the page without interruption and, when read, could see what the other was trying to say. I’ve read too many misunderstanding stories that just kill me. I want to scream ‘say what you mean and mean what you say.’ The author also used the entries as a plot device to deliver information in a different format instead of pages and pages of text. They were short, concise and I enjoyed them. Some of them brought tears to my eyes. I found that I teared up more in this story.
Villains: we didn’t have to deal with danger from any of the fronts that we are accustomed to in a JAFF story. Most of the true villains [Wickham and Mrs. Younge] were dealt with in the previous volumes. OMG!! That was horrible. This story dealt mostly with the consequences of those previous encounters with evil [Lizzy still weak from being shot, and Darcy’s headaches from his TBI (traumatic brain injury)]. This story had a few smarmy low-life society rakes that were just disgusting. One in particular we met in Vol. 1. We had a few scenes with the oily Mr. Collins and his trying to worm his way into the hearts of the single ladies and the social circle with D&E. Lady Catherine was put in her place… literally.
Propriety was thrown out the window with all the PDA [public displays of affection] that I don’t think Regency would have allowed or tolerated. D&E were the ape leaders of their social group of family and friends. Everyone wanted to be like them and patterned their lives after the behavior of ODC. Whatever D&E were doing… everyone else did also. Just saying. [4.5-stars]