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The Girl in the Song: The True Stories Behind 50 Rock Classics

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Women have long inspired rock artists, but what do fans really know about these muses? The Girl in the Song focuses on the girlfriends, wives, rivals, exes, groupies, celebrities, mothers, children, and even complete strangers who inspired 50 of rock’s greatest songs. Who was the Emily in Pink Floyd’s “See Emily Play”? Did life change for Prudence Farrow after John Lennon wrote “Dear Prudence”? And whatever happened to “the girl with mousy hair,” an ex-girlfriend David Bowie sings about in “Life on Mars”?

            Songs are typically short and one-sided, and rarely do justice to their subjects. But author Michael Heatley explains how each woman inspired the song written about her, when the song was released, and the impact it had on the charts, the performer, and the woman. He also includes a mini biography of the song’s muse. Music buffs will also appreciate sidebars on the performers who wrote about the women in their lives--Pink Floyd’s Syd Barrett would include as many as four girls in the same song--as well as trivia from recording history. It’s the perfect book for anyone who’s ever wondered, “Who was the girl in that song?”

144 pages, Paperback

First published October 1, 2010

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Michael Heatley

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Michael Heatley is the author or editor of over thirty biographies, including Backstreet Boys: The Unofficial Book, Bon Jovi: In Their Own Words and Rolf Harris: The Most Talented Man In The World. In 1995, he wrote the liner notes to Rolf's best-selling album Rolf Rules OK!

Since 1977 he has written more than a hundred music, sport and TV books.

He has written for magazines including Privileged View (for viewers of UK Gold and UK Living), 442 and Fultime (Fulham FC), Music Week, Billboard, Goldmine (US record collecting magazine), Radio Times, Daily Record and the Mail on Sunday color supplement.

In addition, Michael runs a fanzine in honor of legendary Welsh psychedelic rock band Man called The Welsh Connection which is circulated to a small but fervent fanbase on a bi-monthly basis.

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Profile Image for Lynx.
198 reviews114 followers
December 26, 2016
Really fun coffee table book that sheds light on the muses that inspired some of rock n rolls greatest hits.

Don’t go into this expecting deep insight. Each Muse has 2-3 pages with the broad strokes on who they are and how they came to influence the musicians who sealed their fate in rock and roll history. This is however a great introduction for those wishing to learn more on the subject.

I’m pretty baffled by the negative reviews on here by those who didn’t like the fact that they didn’t know every song in the book and even skipped over a bunch because of this. For me, the real fun in reading this was looking up each song and playing it as I read that chapter whether I knew it or not. You’re definitely going to get more out of the book if you put in the effort, and you may just discover some new kick ass music while you’re at it!


For those interested in learning more about Muses check out the awesome podcast MUSES AND STUFF on itunes and Facebook!
Profile Image for TrumanCoyote.
1,111 reviews14 followers
September 22, 2012
A nice idea...but pretty lame execution. The author (or authors--only one is included on the title page) seems pretty much of a musical tourist, which leads to remarks such as that Tusk was Fleetwood Mac's third album (lol), or saying that the relatively slow-selling Madman Across the Water was a blip in Elton John's career (grrrr). Also the thing is filled with book-reportish sentences ("James Taylor used a troubled personal life to help him become a Grammy-winning singer-songwriter, his songs selling in the millions" or "Billy Joel worked tirelessly over his career to become the third biggest selling solo artist in the US"...which I don't think is quite what he was trying to say). Beyond that, much of it sounds like it was taken from press releases (or resumes) issued by the various "girls"...it's all quite bland and inane, with statements like: "[Linda McCartney] was as famous for her antivivisection views and vegetarian lifestyle as for marrying a Beatle" (lol...no, she wasn't). Oh yeah, and some of the songs are pretty marginal ("Hey Negrita"). And the writer has the usual modern-day priggishness, making a great deal of age gaps and so forth.

On the plus side, it's a good-looking book with a number of cool pictures. As long as you don't make the mistake of reading it, you might end up enjoying this one. :)
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867 reviews22 followers
June 12, 2017
Many of the songs are those I listened to when I was young. It's fun finding out about the women the songs were written about. The author did quite a bit of cutting and pasting of text in the biographies of some of the musicians, but overall it's entertaining.
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168 reviews2 followers
October 21, 2018
Most stories were new to me and all where very interesting, you get a background on the songs, peoples lives and the things that move artist to writing these tunes. Great quick read with 50 stories most of which I was not aware of.
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2,061 reviews75 followers
December 12, 2018
I loved this book!
I think that my favourite story was the one about Julian Lennon drawing a picture and telling his Dad, "Look, it's Lucy in the sky with diamonds!"

Out of the months of babes, indeed.
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368 reviews13 followers
November 3, 2010
Fun bathroom reading about various pop song heroines: Rosanna, Rikki, Suzanne, Judy Blue Eyes, etc.
Profile Image for Patricia.
199 reviews4 followers
March 31, 2012
This book had so much potential, but it missed out on one of the most important elements - the lyrics. How can you have a book describing "the girl in the song" without adding what the song is actually about? The songs were in random order and spanned a variety of genres, but without lyrics for context, I found myself skipping through to songs or artists I knew. Even then, I also found that the writing didn't really even flow well. It might start out talking about a David Bowie song, and within that talk about the girl it was about, then David Bowie's career but, again, no real context to the song. Wikipedia would probably tell more and with better writing. I picked up one or two tidbits from the whole book that I will probably hold on to. I thought it would be a good "waiting for the judge to take the bench" book, but it only lasted me two days because I skimmed most of it.
Profile Image for Ann Keller.
Author 31 books112 followers
June 10, 2011
Ever listen to an outstanding love song and wonder about whom the song was written? Well, here’s your chance to find out! This book is peppered with wonderful summaries of how such songs were written, the background of the composer, performers and the inspiring girl who started it all.

From Beware of Young Girls by Dory Previn to Wonderwall by Oasis, She’s Leaving Home by the Beatles, Uptown Girl by Billy Joel and Miss Amanda Jones by the Rolling Stones, The Girl In the Song will fascinate you. Able to be read at a single sitting or in small gulps like poetry. Excellent synopses. I really appreciate knowing the background of the songs I hear on the radio. It makes them live!
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52 reviews23 followers
October 29, 2017
Very quick read, and tons of fun just to flip through! It’s really interesting to hear some of the stories behind these women we always hear about in classic songs like “sweet child of mine” and “dear prudence”. If anything, this book proves why women are so often muses- we are complex, multidimensional, interesting, memorable and strong. All the things that make a good song.

The majority of songs mentioned are songs from the 1960’s, so if you are a fan of that time like I am them this definitely provides some insight!
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666 reviews10 followers
March 16, 2016
A pretty thin look at the female inspirations behind famous songs. The passages were mostly common knowledge, dull and poorly written. The book wasn't even big budget enough to get the rights to print the lyrics for most of the songs so unless you knew them off the top of your head, the passages weren't all that poignant. Too bad, I love this kind of stuff.
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54 reviews2 followers
April 5, 2021
While I find the idea for the book great, the book itself is disappointing. The authors seem to be all over the place, jumping from one place to another, often the text has little to do with the inspiration behind the song. I felt like the authors came up with a brilliant idea, but did not pull it through till the end, trying too hard to find the fifty women and fill the pages with text at any cost. A bit more research and a more insightful approach would not have hurt.
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811 reviews
July 24, 2017
Not many of the songs were relevant to my interest. But if they are favorites of yours you will like it!
Profile Image for Dave.
577 reviews11 followers
September 22, 2017
A heavily fossilized attempt at demystifying the "mystical she". No head turner.
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158 reviews18 followers
December 21, 2019
I really enjoyed this book. I've bought 3 more copies for my friends for Christmas. Great gift for any fan of music.
Profile Image for Tamara.
48 reviews
April 24, 2023
Love this book! Wish they would do a "sequel!"
Profile Image for Robyn Obermeyer.
560 reviews47 followers
August 18, 2023
I love music and have always been interested many songs! Like ships and boats and cars and guitars women inspire lot in life!
Profile Image for Susan.
296 reviews
May 29, 2025
Disappointing

Interesting but more gossip magazine than historical archive. I'm not sure what I expected, but was disappointed by the result.
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335 reviews18 followers
September 11, 2012
After all these years she’s still stunning, would still turn heads including mine, I ruminate as I look at a recent image of her garnered from on-line. And in her youth she turned the heads of two of the greatest rock stars on the planet; firstly Beatle George and then later his good pal, Eric Clapton. And she inspired my favourite song! These days ‘God’ loves to hold back that instantaneously recognisable opening riff to it – teasing his audience, fiddling around with the melody for minutes until he unleashes ‘Layla’ in all its majestic glory, watching in bemusement as the punters ‘go off’. From bombastic rock perfection the song then winds down to lilting piano, before building again – and it’s all a paean to this one glorious woman. How gut-wrenching it must have been to be so in love with best mate’s wife – the pain of it all sent Clapton spiraling down to a dark place assisted by heroin. George of course couldn’t let Clapton outdo him so, from his pen, came another romantic gem ‘Something’. She certainly did ‘move’ these fellows. But even then classic love songs hadn’t finished with Pattie Boyd. About to go out one evening with now hubby Eric, Pattie casually asked if she looked okay. From that query we have the sublime ‘Wonderful Tonight’ – the most powerful reminder of all just how lucky we are to have our own goddess in our lives.
This is the nutshell of just one of the stories covered in this informative delve into the background some tunes, redolent of times past, about bewitching women. Within its covers we find out that Pattie’s sister got in on the act by impacting on Donovan so much that he produced ‘Jennifer Juniper’ as a result, and then there were two of Dylan’s muses. For his mentor and lover, Joan Baez, there came ‘It Aint Me Babe’, and for Suze Rotolo, for gracing that iconic cover as well as his bed, we have ‘Don’t Think Twice, It’s All Right’. There are tales of the power of famous beauties such as Marianne Faithful, Brigitte Bardot, Christie Brinkley, Caroline Kennedy, Rosanna Arquette, Angela Bowie and more. I discovered the mysteriously notorious Candy Darling inspired another of my favourite ditties, ‘Lola’ – or did she/he? You will have to peruse ‘The Girl in the Song’ to discover the identity of the Rikki who was implored ‘not to lose that number’, and the book will also leave the reader to wonder just why Cohen, in later life, snubbed the Suzanne who inspired his inspired titular song. The two collaborative authors give a potted history of these bewitching damsels and short biographies of their admirers. By its nature I suppose it has to be factual, but I would have liked a bit more ‘heart’. I guess most of these stories could be fleshed out in other places. Faithfull’s at times painful autobiography, for instance, is an excellent read. I was intrigued by several inclusions and certainly will investigate more.
The opening night of this year’s series of RocKwiz featured Judy Collins and Whitlam’s leading hand Tim Freedman. It was magical to watch as she turned the tables on a flirtatious Tim, eye-balling him with those piercing azure eyes, and, at seventy plus, still daring him. She, who did so much to give the world Leonard Cohen and Joni Mitchell, still sends out incendiary sparks with just ‘the look’. The younger version broke Stephen Stills’ heart, and as a result the epic CSNY classic ‘Suite Judy Blue Eyes’ is ours for posterity.
Gifted men have the ability to make the subject of their tributes to love resound forever. Mere mortal males do not have the luxury of the ability to do the same, but if a book such as this has any message (I think only one of the partnerships survived - Bono’s), it is to cherish these beautiful creatures who share our lives, and at every opportunity tell them that they do indeed look ‘wonderful tonight’
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1,450 reviews12 followers
December 5, 2019
Viele Musikfans haben sich schon gefragt, wer eigentlich Suzanne aus dem gleichnamigen Song von Leonard Cohen ist oder Emily aus "See Emily Play" von Pink Floyd, wer die winzige Tänzerin in Elton Johns "Tiny Dancer" ist oder wer da in "She's Leaving Home" von den Beatles von zu Hause abhaut.

50 Antworten finden sich in diesem kleinen Büchlein. Die beiden Autoren haben auf 2-3 Seiten pro Lied Interessantes und Wissenswertes zusammengetragen, etwa Infos zur Person und zur Entstehungsgeschichte des Songs oder Erläuterungen zu den Lyrics, und mit Fotos und einer Infobox zur Band bzw. dem Interpreten ergänzt, oft noch mit einigen spannenden oder skurrilen Fakten garniert.

Angesichts des knappen Formats darf man natürlich keine tieferen Analysen erwarten, aber für Menschen, die musikalische "fun facts" mögen oder generell für Liebhaber von Wissen, das die Welt nicht braucht, ist "The Girl in the Song" durchaus empfehlenswerter Lesestoff, der Appetit macht, mal wieder in der eigenen Musiksammlung zu stöbern oder auch, sich mit dem einen oder anderen Künstler genauer zu beschäftigen. Durch die kurzen Kapitel eignet sich das Buch auch hervorragend zum Häppchenlesen (etwa als Lokuslektüre).
Profile Image for Jen.
5 reviews1 follower
June 4, 2011
Ever wondered who Sharona was, and why The Knack were singing about her? What about Dear Prudence?

This book delves into the stories behind 50 classic songs, the women who inspired them, and (shocker!) the men who wrote the songs. It was hard to put down - simulataneously frivolous fun and insightful profiling. However, I would have appreciated seeing some female songwriters represented; the women in this book are (for the most part) portrayed as peripheral muses, footnotes, and sometimes tragic figures; it's as though the book assumes women weren't writing music at this time, and if they were, they were not putting women in their songs.

One of my favorite parts of the book was the story behind "My Sharona." I never really liked the song, but the bittersweet story behind it gave me a new appreciation; the book describes a deathbed meeting between Sharona and the songwriter that will stay in my head for a long time to come.
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Author 2 books20 followers
October 1, 2013
The cover to this book is super cute with two shades of pink font against a black and white sixties girl photograph, but we aren't supposed to be judging books by their cover.

If it's only what's inside that counts, then this book could have used a little bit of a makeover. It seems that this turned out to be a slim textbook, rather than a sleek expose on the sirens that inspired some of the greatest rock songs of all time. On top of all that, this book covers a few songs that I've hardly ever heard of (and I am a diehard rock n' roller) and seems to be more concerned with bubbles in the corner that explain the origin of the band at hand. Ummm... we know who the Rolling Stones are. I would have rather heard more about Bianca and Mick's late night arguments.
Profile Image for PennsyLady (Bev).
1,130 reviews
January 16, 2016
softcover
144pg

The Girl in the Song: The Stories Behind 50 Rock Classics, a companion piece to The Boy in the Song: The True Stories Behind 50 Rock Classics
is an enlightening mini trek into rock history (144 pg)
It's not designed to be an exhaustive reference book but it’s a researched book of musical trivia for anyone who’s ever wondered, “Who's the girl in that song?”

Some I easily knew: It Ain't Me Babe (Bob Dylan) and some I found a bit more difficult: Rosanna (Toto)
"Author Michael Heatley explains how each woman inspired the song written about her, when the song was released, and the impact it had on the charts, the performer, and the woman."

There is also mini bio of the muse in that particular song.

An enjoyable read!
Profile Image for Julia.
55 reviews
December 13, 2011
on the one hand very interesting to hear about the origns of those 50 (well, 51) songs but on the other hand very, very, very, very narrow in the choice of topics. only a handful of songs from the 80s and 90s, the rest all from before that and mostly out of the UK Pop scene (Beatles/Rolling Stones/Bowie) or the US Folk scene (Dylan/Crosby, Still & Nash/Baez) with many repeat offenders. The same incident was introduced twice for two different songs.
Most of these tidbits can be found on the respective Wikipedia page as they are without exception well-known songs.
In short: interesting but superfluous
Profile Image for Derrian.
166 reviews
July 31, 2014
A great little book about some of the most famous songs written about women over the years. I love reading about things like this,and although I could probably find out exactly the same information on Wiki,it's nice to have it all in one book.

My only complaint is that it would be better if more of the lyrics were quoted and discussed,rather than mainly focussing on how the songs came into being.

A great book for pop buffs!
Profile Image for Ryan Work.
733 reviews5 followers
December 4, 2010
This is an interesting book showcasing the women who inspired 50 rock songs. I'm always curious about the story behind songs however most of the stories were the same. Guy meets girl... writes song... gets married... gets divorced. I think Bono was the only one who stayed married. If you are a music fan, I recommend reading this book but just skipping to the songs that mean the most to you.
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Author 0 books102 followers
January 31, 2011
Mildly interesting but written in a plodding style, this book provides little beyond well-known public relations packet-style information. The best new item I read here was that David Bowie's "Golden Years" was offered to Elvis Presley in 1975. My imagination has been churning on how that would have sounded.
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22 reviews
April 27, 2011
I have waited for some time to read this book, and I am savoring it like a savory succulent piece of meat smothered in gravy! hahahaaaaa Besides a painting or sculpting, I don't think there is any better way to give tribut to a woman...if in fact it is a tribute. This book give the dirt on a few songs we all just might know. I just wish it was a little bit more inclusive.
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