A Tragic Life Blighted by Manipulative Men.
I had enjoyed Claire Tomalin's introduction to her curated collection of "Katherine Mansfield's Short Stories", a writer I really esteem, so was on the lookout for some of her biographies and a copy of this has just come to hand. I devoured it immediately and can confirm that her writing continues to impress me, despite her exhaustive, exacting attention to detail.(1/4 of the book is given over to extensive notes, appendices, references, bibliography AND an index!).
Initially, the first chapters feel a trudge but once I ignored the comprehensive annotation, concentrated on the pages in front of me and explored the occasional footnote, I began to revel in this well-documented history of the finest comic actress of the Regency period in the British Isles. There are also really good representative photographs of her characterisations particularly her theatrical parts, of which her cross-dressing performances were the most notorious. Even Jane and Cassandra Austen saw her in person and she was wellknown to Fanny Burney, Samuel Taylor Coleridge et al.
As William Hazlitt commented(when comparing her daughter, Fanny's performance as Rosalind, unfavourably to that of her mother):
'Mrs Jordan's excellencies were all natural to her; it was not as an actress, but as herself, that she charmed everyone. Nature has formed her in most prodigal humour, and when nature is in the humour to make a woman all that is delightful, she does it most effectually. Mrs Jordan was the same in all her characters, and inimitable in all of them, because there was no one else like her.
Her face, her tears, her manners were irresistible. Her smile had the effect of sunshine, and her laugh did one good to hear it. Her voice was eloquence itself: it seemed as if her heart was always at her mouth. She was all gaiety, openness and good nature. She rioted in her fine animal spirits, and gave more pleasure than any other actress, because she had the greatest spirit of enjoyment in herself.'
Unfortunately, that reputation put her always within reach of the rapacious clutches of the men who frequented the stage and the footlights, and despite her mother's experiences of an identical but less successful career, Dora/Dorothea was destined to follow in her path of multiple failed relationships with men. These ranged from her first seducer/rapist who was a married theatre manager with a pregnant wife to a prince of the realm who subsequently became King William IV.
She ended up after 2 decades of living with the latter, being despatched from her family stately home, and was no longer able to care for the 10 living children she had by him. Prior to this, she had another 3 children by a couple of other men who had continued the stain of illegitimacy to the subsequent generation. And had had other pregnancies resulting in miscarriages as well. Despite her 25 years of ceaseless pregnancies, she had worked incessantly, even going into labour on the stage on 1 occasion! Yet only 1 of her children died in infancy, for she clearly was a committed and resourceful mother always continuing to be the breadwinner of the family. Surely, for the age, this must have been quite a record in both avoidance of maternal but also infant mortality? The following Beatles song I would like to emphasise her feat.
'Lady Madonna, children at your feet
Wonder how you manage to make ends meet
Who finds the money? When you pay the rent?
Did you think that money was Heaven sent?
Friday night arrives without a suitcase
Sunday morning creep in like a nun
Monday's child has learned to tie his bootlace
See how they run
Lady Madonna, baby at your breast
Wonder how you manage to feed the rest
See how they run
Lady Madonna, lying on the bed
Listen to the music playing in your head
Tuesday afternoon is never ending
Wednesday morning papers didn't come
Thursday night your stockings needed mending
See how they run
Lady Madonna, children at your feet
Wonder how you manage to make ends meet'
Then, there's the press and the poison pen trolls. In Regency England, there was no Facebook or Internet to fan the flames, instead there were broadsheets and malicious cartoonists. There's no protection from them, and all you could do is to stand up to your detractors alone, there are no laws to protect your reputation. Nor any laws to prevent your impoverishment by incompetent common law husbands, even prodigal princes.
Perhaps when I hear celebrities whine about the mischievous mainstream media, I can think about the mistreatment of a true heroine of the Regency stage who died alone abroad of a broken heart, having given her all to her family, friends, lovers, colleagues and the theatre-going populace. There was never any welfare state to enhance her life, accommodate her prodigious maternal output, nor to accommodate her in the twilight of her career.
Perhaps, then to finish, another Beatles song comes to mind:
'I look at you all, see the love there that's sleeping
While my guitar gently weeps
I look at the floor, and I see it needs sweeping
Still my guitar gently weeps
I don't know why nobody told you
How to unfold your love
I don't know how someone controlled you
They bought and sold'
A brilliant, beautiful book which I can recommend to the bottom of the heart.
5 emotive stars😪