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Time Out: A laugh-out-loud read for fans of Motherland
Mother of one and professional writer Saoirse (pronounced Seersha, not Searcy – thanks a bunch Game of Thrones!) is still adjusting to the demands of motherhood, four years after the birth of her daughter, Anna. Living in the claustrophobic London suburb of Woodvale, and being surrounded by passive-aggressive mum-wars, isn’t helping. Neither is her increasingly pent-up anger at her once-perfect husband. Her only comrade in arms, best friend Bea, is the one thing keeping her sane. When Saoirse’s agent asks her to pitch for a book, she is horrified to discover the topic is motherhood. How can she possibly write a ‘warts and all’ account of being a mother without giving away what it’s really like?
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May 31, 2020
A hilarious and authentic look at motherhood, the good, the bad, the ugly. Emma Murray has infused this delightful story with loads of wit, whimsy, and humor. As a mother of three adult children (almost) I appreciated this realistic dive into the most remarkable yet most challenging job I’ve ever had. Saoirs is a stressed out sleep deprived mother to precocious four-year-old Anna. Her controlling neat freak husband David has been growing distant. Saoirs has been working as a ghost writer for business publications so when her agent reaches out to see if she would be interested in writing a book about motherhood she is thrown off. How can she possibly write a book about the joys of being a mother when it is a constant struggle. Completely overwhelmed Saoirs is in need of a TIME OUT. Tantruming toddlers, judgmental mommies, hostile teachers, supportive friends, cheating husband, arctic swimming, disturbing dreams, repaired relationships.
This was so fun! I loved Saoirs and would have loved to be one of her mommy friends. The pretentious “organic” mommies were hilarious. I remember being a new mother and so worried I was doing everything wrong and absolutely convinced everyone else was doing everything right. I never made any homemade baby food, never used cloth diapers, breast-feeding was not for me, gave my kids Cheerios, let them watch television.... and you know what? My kids are thriving! I really appreciated the realism in the story and it brought back so many memories both good and bad.
This book in emojis 👨👩👧 🤱🏻 🍼 🍷 🏊♀️ 🧊 💁🏻♀️
*** Big thank you to Boldwood Books for my gifted copy of this book. All opinions are my own. ***
This was so fun! I loved Saoirs and would have loved to be one of her mommy friends. The pretentious “organic” mommies were hilarious. I remember being a new mother and so worried I was doing everything wrong and absolutely convinced everyone else was doing everything right. I never made any homemade baby food, never used cloth diapers, breast-feeding was not for me, gave my kids Cheerios, let them watch television.... and you know what? My kids are thriving! I really appreciated the realism in the story and it brought back so many memories both good and bad.
This book in emojis 👨👩👧 🤱🏻 🍼 🍷 🏊♀️ 🧊 💁🏻♀️
*** Big thank you to Boldwood Books for my gifted copy of this book. All opinions are my own. ***
May 30, 2020
5☆ A Hilarious, Authentic, Relatable, Must Read!
Time Out is a hilarious, honest, relatable to mums and heart warming story of the "Joy's" of Motherhood!
Saoirse is Mum to 4yr old Anna and a ghost writer.
When her agent asks her to write a frank and honest book about Motherhood, she's apprehensive. But why can't she do it!
After all she is a Mum.
What follows next is delving into the trials and tribulations of Motherhood, dealing with fussy food, tantrums, social media mums groups, school, playground dramas and that's just the other Mums lol
Then there is hubby David who is a bit of an ass and seems to be great at doing nothing.
I loved the banter between best friend Bea and Saoirse, it was hilarious especially when they take on the "Organics "
I'm not a Mum but I can honestly see mums all around the world absolutely loving this book and nodding along at the ups, downs and chaos being a new Mum can bring. There is no manual to raising children.
Time Out was exactly what I needed right now, it's Hilarious, Witty, Brilliantly Written, Authentic, Compelling, Uplifting and so very relatable.
The characters are superbly written, and I really hope we get to read more from Saoirse.
If you are looking for an easy, light hearted, fun read that once you start reading be prepared to not put down then I can't recommend Time Out Enough!!
Thank you to Rachel Random Resources and Boldwood books for this copy which I reviewed honestly and voluntarily.
You can Find this Review and all my Other Reviews on My Blog :-
https://dashfan81.blogspot.com/2020/0...
Time Out is a hilarious, honest, relatable to mums and heart warming story of the "Joy's" of Motherhood!
Saoirse is Mum to 4yr old Anna and a ghost writer.
When her agent asks her to write a frank and honest book about Motherhood, she's apprehensive. But why can't she do it!
After all she is a Mum.
What follows next is delving into the trials and tribulations of Motherhood, dealing with fussy food, tantrums, social media mums groups, school, playground dramas and that's just the other Mums lol
Then there is hubby David who is a bit of an ass and seems to be great at doing nothing.
I loved the banter between best friend Bea and Saoirse, it was hilarious especially when they take on the "Organics "
I'm not a Mum but I can honestly see mums all around the world absolutely loving this book and nodding along at the ups, downs and chaos being a new Mum can bring. There is no manual to raising children.
Time Out was exactly what I needed right now, it's Hilarious, Witty, Brilliantly Written, Authentic, Compelling, Uplifting and so very relatable.
The characters are superbly written, and I really hope we get to read more from Saoirse.
If you are looking for an easy, light hearted, fun read that once you start reading be prepared to not put down then I can't recommend Time Out Enough!!
Thank you to Rachel Random Resources and Boldwood books for this copy which I reviewed honestly and voluntarily.
You can Find this Review and all my Other Reviews on My Blog :-
https://dashfan81.blogspot.com/2020/0...
May 23, 2020
The trials and tribulations of being a parent are shared honestly in this hilarious story. It tells the story of Saoirse and David, from when they met to the present day through a series of flashbacks. Saoirse has been working as a ghost writer but her agent has asked her to pitch to write a book about the truth about motherhood. Their precocious daughter, Anna, is now four years old and knows just how to get her own way! Dare Saoirse really write the truth?
Get ready for meeting some other mums to be in the antenatal classes, the 'perfect' mums who seem to have such idyllic lives with their little darlings - until you accidentally learn what their husbands reveal about their offspring! The questions the Mum's ask on Facebook and the 'perfect' advice provided by some who seek to impress contrasting with the honest, down to earth. replies from others. There are some brilliant characters superbly portrayed and the relationship between Saoirse and those around her is central to the story. The strain of being a new parent puts a strain on the relationship between Saoirse and David - as neither really know what they're doing and lack of sleep is really problematic. It shows the value of supportive friends, avoiding those aspiring to prove themselves and communicating hopes and fears. This is certainly not parenthood looked at through rose coloured glasses, but it is a fun read and a spotlight on the realities compared to the ideals of parenthood and relationships.
I requested and was gifted a copy of this book via NetGalley and this is my honest review after choosing to read it and finding it to be a fun look at life!
Get ready for meeting some other mums to be in the antenatal classes, the 'perfect' mums who seem to have such idyllic lives with their little darlings - until you accidentally learn what their husbands reveal about their offspring! The questions the Mum's ask on Facebook and the 'perfect' advice provided by some who seek to impress contrasting with the honest, down to earth. replies from others. There are some brilliant characters superbly portrayed and the relationship between Saoirse and those around her is central to the story. The strain of being a new parent puts a strain on the relationship between Saoirse and David - as neither really know what they're doing and lack of sleep is really problematic. It shows the value of supportive friends, avoiding those aspiring to prove themselves and communicating hopes and fears. This is certainly not parenthood looked at through rose coloured glasses, but it is a fun read and a spotlight on the realities compared to the ideals of parenthood and relationships.
I requested and was gifted a copy of this book via NetGalley and this is my honest review after choosing to read it and finding it to be a fun look at life!
May 18, 2020
A cute read which was quite realistic as I could see my sister going through the same.
A humorous take on the darnest things that kids do. The characters were full of life and humor. The story flowed smoothly; the author quite showed the life of a working mother or wanting to work mother. Managing everything was a herculean task when the main character was asked to wrote a book on motherhood, it all came out.
A quite a different read it was
A humorous take on the darnest things that kids do. The characters were full of life and humor. The story flowed smoothly; the author quite showed the life of a working mother or wanting to work mother. Managing everything was a herculean task when the main character was asked to wrote a book on motherhood, it all came out.
A quite a different read it was
May 31, 2020
I enjoyed 'Time Out' very much. It is an honest, well written, amusing account of motherhood told through the eyes of Saoirse. The setting in a London suburb reminded me of the TV series "Motherland". I particularly enjoyed the descriptions of the 'Vale Mums' and Saoirse's friendship with Bea.
May 30, 2020
The light- hearted, laid back blurb for Time Out had me requesting in from the publisher straight away.
Saoirse lives in London with her 4 year old daughter Anna and her husband is trying to juggle family life with being a ghost writer.
When her agent asks her to write about her experiences of motherhood, she's not sure she can do it, or what people will think.
She has tried various outlets in her attempts to find likeminded people in the same situation as her but so far has stumbled upon a forum for mothers which is of questionable help. A group for mothers and babies is not much help either and she seriously doubts whether she'll be able to find kindred spirits. That is, until she makes an unexpected friendship in Bea. Bea was amazing and someone I'd like to have known.
Time Out is laugh-out- loud, honest and at the same time, raw. I really liked Saoirse's take on life and how she analysed what life put her through. I was glad she was able to find support and friendship. I was rooting for her. Anna is loveable but is also a handful and her love of iPads and straight-talking attitude even at the tender age of 4 was endearing.
The pace of the novel is relaxing yet absorbing and I'm glad to have come across it. Time Out is the first novel I have of Emma Murray's and I recommend it to every woman, whether they are a mother or not, and also every man who wonders what motherhood is like for their wife or girlfriend.
Saoirse's account of her once-perfect relationship with her husband was riveting and it was eye-opening and upsetting all at once to be witness as to where, when and how the cracks started to appear. I felt for her and Anna.
Thanks to Emma Murray and Boldwood Books for my ARC in exchange for an honest and voluntary review.
5 stars.
Saoirse lives in London with her 4 year old daughter Anna and her husband is trying to juggle family life with being a ghost writer.
When her agent asks her to write about her experiences of motherhood, she's not sure she can do it, or what people will think.
She has tried various outlets in her attempts to find likeminded people in the same situation as her but so far has stumbled upon a forum for mothers which is of questionable help. A group for mothers and babies is not much help either and she seriously doubts whether she'll be able to find kindred spirits. That is, until she makes an unexpected friendship in Bea. Bea was amazing and someone I'd like to have known.
Time Out is laugh-out- loud, honest and at the same time, raw. I really liked Saoirse's take on life and how she analysed what life put her through. I was glad she was able to find support and friendship. I was rooting for her. Anna is loveable but is also a handful and her love of iPads and straight-talking attitude even at the tender age of 4 was endearing.
The pace of the novel is relaxing yet absorbing and I'm glad to have come across it. Time Out is the first novel I have of Emma Murray's and I recommend it to every woman, whether they are a mother or not, and also every man who wonders what motherhood is like for their wife or girlfriend.
Saoirse's account of her once-perfect relationship with her husband was riveting and it was eye-opening and upsetting all at once to be witness as to where, when and how the cracks started to appear. I felt for her and Anna.
Thanks to Emma Murray and Boldwood Books for my ARC in exchange for an honest and voluntary review.
5 stars.
July 3, 2020
Saoirse is currently failing. At everything. Or at least that’s the way it feels. Her work as a ghost-writer for business books has dried up, she’s constantly battling with her neat-freak husband, and being a mum to four-year-old Anna is the hardest job she’s ever had.
Oh my goodness, I could completely relate to the parenting challenges. When my daughter was young, I remember seeing social media posts from other mums who seemed to have sussed it all - from breastfeeding to making their own healthy food to playdates to radiating joy at how amazing motherhood was. I kept wondering what the heck I was doing so wrong and felt permanently inadequate. I therefore loved reading about a character who didn’t find any part of it easy either. I absolutely loved Emma Murray’s description of the Vale Mums – the Facebook and local community of mums who appeared to judge instead of support their fellow mums. Some of the Facebook exchanges and Saoirse’s reactions to these were absolutely hilarious. Working from home with no family and few friends in the areas, Saoirse’s loneliness compels her to keep checking the Facebook group even though every interaction makes her feel inadequate. I think that’s something many readers can relate to as well. It’s so easy to keep reaching out to a community, particularly an online one, to fill a gap in your life even though every interaction affects your self-esteem.
As the title suggests, Saoirse needs some time out. When her bestie, Bea, offers her the chance to stay in her mother’s holiday home in Ireland, Saoirse sees this as the perfect opportunity to get her head together, decide what she wants from the future and, ironically, work on a pitch for a book about motherhood.
This is a fabulous story of recognising that perfection doesn’t exist and we’re really all muddling through the best we can; even those who make out otherwise. Supported by a well-formed interesting cast of secondary characters, I loved Saoirse’s journey. She’s a completely relatable character who I rooted for throughout. Even though I’ve said the motherhood thread really resonated with me, I think readers will be just as engaged with this book even if they don’t have experience of small children in their lives. It’s witty, fun, beautifully-written and has a couple of surprises in there. Very highly recommended. Excited to see what comes next from Emma Murray.
Oh my goodness, I could completely relate to the parenting challenges. When my daughter was young, I remember seeing social media posts from other mums who seemed to have sussed it all - from breastfeeding to making their own healthy food to playdates to radiating joy at how amazing motherhood was. I kept wondering what the heck I was doing so wrong and felt permanently inadequate. I therefore loved reading about a character who didn’t find any part of it easy either. I absolutely loved Emma Murray’s description of the Vale Mums – the Facebook and local community of mums who appeared to judge instead of support their fellow mums. Some of the Facebook exchanges and Saoirse’s reactions to these were absolutely hilarious. Working from home with no family and few friends in the areas, Saoirse’s loneliness compels her to keep checking the Facebook group even though every interaction makes her feel inadequate. I think that’s something many readers can relate to as well. It’s so easy to keep reaching out to a community, particularly an online one, to fill a gap in your life even though every interaction affects your self-esteem.
As the title suggests, Saoirse needs some time out. When her bestie, Bea, offers her the chance to stay in her mother’s holiday home in Ireland, Saoirse sees this as the perfect opportunity to get her head together, decide what she wants from the future and, ironically, work on a pitch for a book about motherhood.
This is a fabulous story of recognising that perfection doesn’t exist and we’re really all muddling through the best we can; even those who make out otherwise. Supported by a well-formed interesting cast of secondary characters, I loved Saoirse’s journey. She’s a completely relatable character who I rooted for throughout. Even though I’ve said the motherhood thread really resonated with me, I think readers will be just as engaged with this book even if they don’t have experience of small children in their lives. It’s witty, fun, beautifully-written and has a couple of surprises in there. Very highly recommended. Excited to see what comes next from Emma Murray.
May 27, 2020
Completely relatable, Utterly outrageous and absolutely hilarious!
I read Emma Murray’s debut novel, Time Out, in sixteen hours (and that counts seven hours of sleep when I had to tear myself away). While I was awake, I simply could not put it down. My children were largely left to their own devices, the bath water went cold last night, and I stayed in bed with a cup of tea to finish it this morning. Simply, it is unputdownable.
Funny, outrageous and supremely well written, Time Out is the story of Saoirse (pronounced Seersha not Searcy), who is asked to pitch a book on the real truth of motherhood. As a working from home mother of one, Saoirse is looking for the project that she can put her real name to, having been a ghostwriter for a number of years. The trouble is, she’s concerned that her own experiences of motherhood, which include running the gauntlet of the ‘Organics’, a posse of local mums on a social media group, keeping her four year old Anna sweet with a combination of sugar and iPad use and bonding with the equally sweary but loveable Bea over their respective parenting disasters, might be a little too ‘real’. Throw in a husband she adores but also wants to murder for his neat-freak tendencies, and Saoirse isn’t sure at all that she’s the right fit for this project.
We travel through Saoirse’s life as she tries to find a way to write the pitch for the book she’s not even sure she wants to write, and we’re literally up close and personal during her triumphs and disasters, told brilliantly in Emma Murray’s hilarious and confiding style. From London’s Wood Vale to County Wexford, we are encouraged to laugh, grimace and punch the air alongside her. Saoirse is irrepressible, honest, and very, very sweary, and she’s exactly who I needed to spend time with after ten weeks in lockdown with my own little ‘angels’. I started to laugh at the mention of ‘guilty pleasures’ and continued throughout this novel, which is interspersed with brutal, comical honesty and heart wrenching pathos. Fabulously Irish, brilliantly funny and completely addictive, this is a book that will lift you out of the doldrums, make you realise that even the most seemingly capable parents have their off days, and fill you with hope that it will all be OK in the end (Ryan Gosling lookalikes and Cheerios notwithstanding). Treat yourself, and pick up this book – you’ll have a ball. I can’t wait for the next one!
I read Emma Murray’s debut novel, Time Out, in sixteen hours (and that counts seven hours of sleep when I had to tear myself away). While I was awake, I simply could not put it down. My children were largely left to their own devices, the bath water went cold last night, and I stayed in bed with a cup of tea to finish it this morning. Simply, it is unputdownable.
Funny, outrageous and supremely well written, Time Out is the story of Saoirse (pronounced Seersha not Searcy), who is asked to pitch a book on the real truth of motherhood. As a working from home mother of one, Saoirse is looking for the project that she can put her real name to, having been a ghostwriter for a number of years. The trouble is, she’s concerned that her own experiences of motherhood, which include running the gauntlet of the ‘Organics’, a posse of local mums on a social media group, keeping her four year old Anna sweet with a combination of sugar and iPad use and bonding with the equally sweary but loveable Bea over their respective parenting disasters, might be a little too ‘real’. Throw in a husband she adores but also wants to murder for his neat-freak tendencies, and Saoirse isn’t sure at all that she’s the right fit for this project.
We travel through Saoirse’s life as she tries to find a way to write the pitch for the book she’s not even sure she wants to write, and we’re literally up close and personal during her triumphs and disasters, told brilliantly in Emma Murray’s hilarious and confiding style. From London’s Wood Vale to County Wexford, we are encouraged to laugh, grimace and punch the air alongside her. Saoirse is irrepressible, honest, and very, very sweary, and she’s exactly who I needed to spend time with after ten weeks in lockdown with my own little ‘angels’. I started to laugh at the mention of ‘guilty pleasures’ and continued throughout this novel, which is interspersed with brutal, comical honesty and heart wrenching pathos. Fabulously Irish, brilliantly funny and completely addictive, this is a book that will lift you out of the doldrums, make you realise that even the most seemingly capable parents have their off days, and fill you with hope that it will all be OK in the end (Ryan Gosling lookalikes and Cheerios notwithstanding). Treat yourself, and pick up this book – you’ll have a ball. I can’t wait for the next one!
March 26, 2020
I loved this book. It is the most realistic book on being a mother I have ever read. Every woman that has had a child will appreciate and understand some of the things that these mothers went through. At times I laughed out loud picturing a child doing these atrocious things. Other times I wanted to step inside the book and hug Emma and Bea. The characters are wonderful and easy to love. This book is so relevant to now, with everyone posting amazing pictures of their children, dressed up and clean, smiling,etc. Every mother knows the struggle to get a child dressed and smiling for a picture yet we are constantly bombarded with these pictures on social media. It makes all of us feel like we are a failure and that there is something wrong with us or our children. The author took a fictional, sometimes funny book and made it seem like nonfiction. The storyline was strong and flowed wonderfully. A little twist added to the book and made me love it even more. A great book to read when you have escaped to the tub for a half hour or when travelling. Thank you to NetGalley and Old Time Books for the opportunity to read this wonderful book.
May 31, 2020
Emma Murray's Time Out is hilarious and heartwarming. It's a funny, possibly exaggerated, yet honest look at how outrageously hard it can be to keep it all together while being a mom. At the same time, this book is a reminder of the importance of a support system: old friends, new friends, parents, and sometimes even a kind word from a stranger.
There is a fun surprise near the end; I probably should have seen it coming, but I didn't, and I loved that.
Moms of all ages and levels of parenting experience will enjoy this book. Thank you to NetGalley, the publisher, and the author for sharing an advanced copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.
There is a fun surprise near the end; I probably should have seen it coming, but I didn't, and I loved that.
Moms of all ages and levels of parenting experience will enjoy this book. Thank you to NetGalley, the publisher, and the author for sharing an advanced copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.
October 7, 2020
WOW!
It’s been so long since I‘ve read something so awesomely hilarious, honest, fresh and witty. I totally loved every minute and page of it. Didn’t want it to end!
It takes mountains of courage and a drop of madness to write so openly and brazenly accurate about motherhood. Every woman who has a child can relate, can see herself in Saoirse.
Motherhood can be a blessing and a curse, and Emma Murray’s beautifully written novel shows you that it is okay to feel annoyed and elated at the same time; it is okay to “timed out” yourself; it is okay not to be perfect mother as long as both you and your child are doing fine.
Motherhood is the upmost challenge for every woman and I am not speaking physically. Forget about the pregnancy, the kilograms and the millions other things that changed in the process. Forget about the birth pain and the postpartum depression. Believe me, it is not the hardest thing!
The hardest thing is afterwards … after your baby is born. It is after that you realized how much your life has changed and it won’t be the same any more, ever again. For better or for worst.
Don’t get me wrong! A child gives you an unimaginable joy, it makes you whole and complete, but also it can make your life a living hell … at the very same time.
If you survive the first a couple of years, they say, it becomes easier. But I am not so sure. It is a constant roller- coaster, a non-stop struggle from the get go, a pure schizophrenia 24/7. You want to reclaim some space and time for yourself, to take a break, to relax just for 5 minutes. And when you think that you can’t do it anymore, she comes, snuggles cozily into you and says: “Mommy, I love you”. And you ready to lift mountains to make her happy. Just like that. It is so easy and so hard to be a mom.
I loved that book! I loved everything in it! It is a very good read!
Highly recommend it! Definitely, my choice of the year!
It’s been so long since I‘ve read something so awesomely hilarious, honest, fresh and witty. I totally loved every minute and page of it. Didn’t want it to end!
It takes mountains of courage and a drop of madness to write so openly and brazenly accurate about motherhood. Every woman who has a child can relate, can see herself in Saoirse.
Motherhood can be a blessing and a curse, and Emma Murray’s beautifully written novel shows you that it is okay to feel annoyed and elated at the same time; it is okay to “timed out” yourself; it is okay not to be perfect mother as long as both you and your child are doing fine.
Motherhood is the upmost challenge for every woman and I am not speaking physically. Forget about the pregnancy, the kilograms and the millions other things that changed in the process. Forget about the birth pain and the postpartum depression. Believe me, it is not the hardest thing!
The hardest thing is afterwards … after your baby is born. It is after that you realized how much your life has changed and it won’t be the same any more, ever again. For better or for worst.
Don’t get me wrong! A child gives you an unimaginable joy, it makes you whole and complete, but also it can make your life a living hell … at the very same time.
If you survive the first a couple of years, they say, it becomes easier. But I am not so sure. It is a constant roller- coaster, a non-stop struggle from the get go, a pure schizophrenia 24/7. You want to reclaim some space and time for yourself, to take a break, to relax just for 5 minutes. And when you think that you can’t do it anymore, she comes, snuggles cozily into you and says: “Mommy, I love you”. And you ready to lift mountains to make her happy. Just like that. It is so easy and so hard to be a mom.
I loved that book! I loved everything in it! It is a very good read!
Highly recommend it! Definitely, my choice of the year!
January 23, 2022
I ended up reading the series starring the main character, Saoirse, back to back to back. So far there are 3 books. I don't know if I will read a fourth. Probably because she started getting on my nerves in book #3 and I was over her by then. The first book sets things up fairly nicely though.
Saoirse is a married mom of one. Her daughter, Alice, is like Damien reborn. Her husband David practically gets hives though if their house is out of order and when she loads the dishwasher the wrong way. When Saoirse is approached to write a book pitch about "real motherhood" she initially balks. She doesn't know if readers will want to read about that. But when she starts writing, she realizes that there are things she wished she had been told. And then when it looks like her husband may be having an affair, she realizes some time away from him staying in her friend's mom's home in Ireland, may be what she needs.
So I am not a mother (happily), but there were times I was like good God you picked well. It sounds exhausting. I loved reading about Saoirse and her best friend Bea, and the terrible Woodvale moms. And I can see why she loved her husband and was also getting frustrated with him. At times you are on her side, and at other times you are not.
I thought the ending was a bit off though. There's something that happens and I just shook my head about it. Probably because Saoirse acts as if what happened was the biggest thing ever and pretty much ignores the other people it impacts.
Saoirse is a married mom of one. Her daughter, Alice, is like Damien reborn. Her husband David practically gets hives though if their house is out of order and when she loads the dishwasher the wrong way. When Saoirse is approached to write a book pitch about "real motherhood" she initially balks. She doesn't know if readers will want to read about that. But when she starts writing, she realizes that there are things she wished she had been told. And then when it looks like her husband may be having an affair, she realizes some time away from him staying in her friend's mom's home in Ireland, may be what she needs.
So I am not a mother (happily), but there were times I was like good God you picked well. It sounds exhausting. I loved reading about Saoirse and her best friend Bea, and the terrible Woodvale moms. And I can see why she loved her husband and was also getting frustrated with him. At times you are on her side, and at other times you are not.
I thought the ending was a bit off though. There's something that happens and I just shook my head about it. Probably because Saoirse acts as if what happened was the biggest thing ever and pretty much ignores the other people it impacts.
April 2, 2022
Funny, relatable and easy read.
May 26, 2020
I thoroughly enjoyed this book. It's a brutally honest book about motherhood, told through the eyes of Saoirse (that's Seersha, not Searcy, if you don't mind!), mother to horrendous toddler Anna, and wife to increasingly distant David.
She does enjoy her job as a ghostwriter, although she's reached the stage where she'd like to be an author in her own right, wanting to see her own name credited for her work. Truth is though, she isn't too sure what she'd write about, or if she actually has to confidence to do it. She's barely managing to be a mother! How on earth can she be a writer? And then ... there's dealing with the absolute worst thing about being a mother: other mothers! Specifically the ones who are all judge-y and who always seem to know what they're doing, and who do it so much better than everyone else ... i.e. you!
Thank goodness Saoirse has her best friend Bea to rely on. Gorgeous, Amazonian, no-nonsense Bea, who just happens to be a single mom, doesn't put up with the preach-y nonsense the other moms are spouting, and who doesn't give a damn if she tells them what she thinks of them!
But then Saoirse suddenly gets the opportunity she's been waiting for - the chance to pitch for her very own book ... only it's a tell-all book about the reality of motherhood! Not quite what she'd envisaged. As she finds herself surrounded by the perfection of Insta-Mommies and their spotless, shiny, smiley offspring, she wonders if she's the right person for the job. She can't help comparing their bright pics of happy families with her own reality of harassed mom, monster child and barely-there dad! If she thinks she's going to get any support or encouragement from the other mothers at the school-gate, or from those on her local Facebook Mommy group, she can think again! All that's on offer there is criticism and competition.
The strange thing is that Saoirse finds she's able to vent her feelings in the draft of her pitch for the motherhood book that she claims she doesn't think she can write! And when Bea offers her an opportunity to take some time out in Ireland she decides it might be just what she needs to write this pitch that she never thought she could write. Her time away opens her eyes to some real home-truths about motherhood in all its harsh realities and makes her realise that writing about the topic honestly instead of sugar coating it as is done far too often, is something that she's perfectly suited to do!
This is such a gorgeous book about friendship, relationships and motherhood (surprise, surprise!), but it's also a loud shout about how we should be standing up for each other and supporting each other instead of constantly trying to pull each other down. We should be admitting to our flaws more, we should be reaching out to others more, especially when we can see that they're struggling. Emma Murray has written a 5-star 'how-to' book on being part of the village ... 'it takes a village to raise a child' but it also takes that village to raise up a mom!
She does enjoy her job as a ghostwriter, although she's reached the stage where she'd like to be an author in her own right, wanting to see her own name credited for her work. Truth is though, she isn't too sure what she'd write about, or if she actually has to confidence to do it. She's barely managing to be a mother! How on earth can she be a writer? And then ... there's dealing with the absolute worst thing about being a mother: other mothers! Specifically the ones who are all judge-y and who always seem to know what they're doing, and who do it so much better than everyone else ... i.e. you!
Thank goodness Saoirse has her best friend Bea to rely on. Gorgeous, Amazonian, no-nonsense Bea, who just happens to be a single mom, doesn't put up with the preach-y nonsense the other moms are spouting, and who doesn't give a damn if she tells them what she thinks of them!
But then Saoirse suddenly gets the opportunity she's been waiting for - the chance to pitch for her very own book ... only it's a tell-all book about the reality of motherhood! Not quite what she'd envisaged. As she finds herself surrounded by the perfection of Insta-Mommies and their spotless, shiny, smiley offspring, she wonders if she's the right person for the job. She can't help comparing their bright pics of happy families with her own reality of harassed mom, monster child and barely-there dad! If she thinks she's going to get any support or encouragement from the other mothers at the school-gate, or from those on her local Facebook Mommy group, she can think again! All that's on offer there is criticism and competition.
The strange thing is that Saoirse finds she's able to vent her feelings in the draft of her pitch for the motherhood book that she claims she doesn't think she can write! And when Bea offers her an opportunity to take some time out in Ireland she decides it might be just what she needs to write this pitch that she never thought she could write. Her time away opens her eyes to some real home-truths about motherhood in all its harsh realities and makes her realise that writing about the topic honestly instead of sugar coating it as is done far too often, is something that she's perfectly suited to do!
This is such a gorgeous book about friendship, relationships and motherhood (surprise, surprise!), but it's also a loud shout about how we should be standing up for each other and supporting each other instead of constantly trying to pull each other down. We should be admitting to our flaws more, we should be reaching out to others more, especially when we can see that they're struggling. Emma Murray has written a 5-star 'how-to' book on being part of the village ... 'it takes a village to raise a child' but it also takes that village to raise up a mom!
May 21, 2020
What a wonderfully honest book about motherhood and the stresses and strains it has on a relationship Time Out was to read. Saoirse has been a ghostwriter and is suddenly asked to pitch for a book about motherhood, this means she will finally get to put her name on the cover of a book. The catch is that it needs o be an honest look at motherhood.
Saoirse often looks at Facebook posts from other mums about how well their children are behaving, how the meals are always cooked from scratch and how they often appear to look down on any parent who deigns to give their child a sweet, white bread sandwich or a processed meal.
The social media brigade put additional pressure on new mums to fit in. It has turned into a competition as to who can be the best mother. Saoirse is finding the stress of her “little horror” very trying to say the least. Her marriage is stuck in a rut and she is given a reprieve with a break in Ireland to have a Time Out and concentrate on her writing.
While in Ireland it gives her the chance to look at her life, her marriage and how she feels like she is failing. She meets another Mum and they are able to let off steam. But it is the meeting with an old school friend and Saoirse’s Mum visiting that make her look at the bigger picture.
This is such a great book that does such a good job of looking at parenting in today’s society. It shines a light on the competitive nature of being seen to do the right thing. I really enjoyed how the author tackled the parenting insecurities with the stresses on a marriage and some of the inappropriate and unpredictable things that children can say or do.
A fabulous read that had me hooked and also made me feel glad that my children were born prior to the arrival of Facebook and social media. But a refreshing read and one I would definitely recommend.
Saoirse often looks at Facebook posts from other mums about how well their children are behaving, how the meals are always cooked from scratch and how they often appear to look down on any parent who deigns to give their child a sweet, white bread sandwich or a processed meal.
The social media brigade put additional pressure on new mums to fit in. It has turned into a competition as to who can be the best mother. Saoirse is finding the stress of her “little horror” very trying to say the least. Her marriage is stuck in a rut and she is given a reprieve with a break in Ireland to have a Time Out and concentrate on her writing.
While in Ireland it gives her the chance to look at her life, her marriage and how she feels like she is failing. She meets another Mum and they are able to let off steam. But it is the meeting with an old school friend and Saoirse’s Mum visiting that make her look at the bigger picture.
This is such a great book that does such a good job of looking at parenting in today’s society. It shines a light on the competitive nature of being seen to do the right thing. I really enjoyed how the author tackled the parenting insecurities with the stresses on a marriage and some of the inappropriate and unpredictable things that children can say or do.
A fabulous read that had me hooked and also made me feel glad that my children were born prior to the arrival of Facebook and social media. But a refreshing read and one I would definitely recommend.
June 7, 2020
TIME OUT in the sense of this title isn't so much referring to that sort of activity, but rather someone actually taking time out from their everyday rat race to find themselves, reclaim the life they have lost, tackle that NEW THING that's come their way, and realize that sometimes life DOES suck, but in the end, it's really what we choose to make of the choices we're given that can change that tide.
Honestly? Sometimes I would kill for an actual TIME OUT. I mean, life gets scary busy with all the work obligations, family obligations, every-other-thing-that-pops-up-and-we-feel-compelled-to-say-yes-to obligations. It would be ABSOLUTELY LOVELY to have a Cube to hole up in (it's a gorgeous house on a cliff made mostly of glass and surrounded by stunning vistas, small towns, and good hearted people)...not to mention the FABULOUS support system our gal Saoirse has, even if she doesn't quite feel it at the start.
Watching her struggles, listening to her inner monologue DYING to come out, seeing the constraints she put on herself loosen and her hair really come down was truly inspiring, uplifting, and a downright riot! Between the "adult words" aplenty, the attraction that never should have been, the Organics (the mom version of Mean Girls), the riotous friends, and the book that may or may not end of being pitched as in thrown versus tried for, this story has so much going for it and then some!
**ecopy received for review; opinions are my own
Honestly? Sometimes I would kill for an actual TIME OUT. I mean, life gets scary busy with all the work obligations, family obligations, every-other-thing-that-pops-up-and-we-feel-compelled-to-say-yes-to obligations. It would be ABSOLUTELY LOVELY to have a Cube to hole up in (it's a gorgeous house on a cliff made mostly of glass and surrounded by stunning vistas, small towns, and good hearted people)...not to mention the FABULOUS support system our gal Saoirse has, even if she doesn't quite feel it at the start.
Watching her struggles, listening to her inner monologue DYING to come out, seeing the constraints she put on herself loosen and her hair really come down was truly inspiring, uplifting, and a downright riot! Between the "adult words" aplenty, the attraction that never should have been, the Organics (the mom version of Mean Girls), the riotous friends, and the book that may or may not end of being pitched as in thrown versus tried for, this story has so much going for it and then some!
**ecopy received for review; opinions are my own
May 25, 2020
This is a witty and amusing look at the life of a parent which had me smiling, especially the parts where Saoirse read the latest postings from the local Mum's social media group. The 'Organics' Mums' responses were priceless. Beneath the surface of the humour. there is an important message about meeting others with kindness and offering the hand of friendship to people who may be lonely and under pressure.
Saoirse's relationship with her husband is under strain and although her husband, in her eyes, is full of irritating habits, it is interesting to hear her mother and Bea's take on him. You see that Saoirse's view of him may be a little unreliable. This is a fun read with a cast of slightly eccentric characters and some genuinely funny moments.
In short: A wry look at motherhood and marriage.
Thanks to the author for a copy of the book.
October 25, 2020
Good craic
Loved the whole storyline got really into it,it just shows good friends are worth holding onto, last chapter hilarious out of the mouths of babes and children eh!!!
Loved the whole storyline got really into it,it just shows good friends are worth holding onto, last chapter hilarious out of the mouths of babes and children eh!!!
May 26, 2020
I've read a few books about motherhood and the joys and dramas that surround bringing up a mini version of yourself. The honesty and truth that is written in Time Out is hilarious and fantastic. It describes the real horrors of being a parent. I loved it and related to a lot of what Saoirse described.
I'm sure we've all been there as new mothers, when we have every Tom, Dick and Harry wanting to impart their words of wisdom on you on how to raise your child. Saoirse deals with these people the best way she knows. Through a lot of healthy swearing 😊
This book isn't just about being a parent. This book follows the relationships that are built and broken as life goes on. We see how Saoirse finds a kindred spirit in Bea. Bea is a friend we all need in our lives to boost us and to handle those hard situations that we get ourselves into.
We see the development of family relationships and how they have an impact on the way we grow. I liked reading about David, Saoirse's husband. Even though he irritated the hell out of me and at times I wondered how Saoirse could live with him. But, as we chipped away at his character and got more of an understanding it was clear to see why he is the way he is.
Time Out is the first in a three part book series. And, I can't wait to see what happens next to the characters that we have met in Time Out.
Time Out is a light hearted read. An honest outlook at life, relationships and bringing up children.
I'm sure we've all been there as new mothers, when we have every Tom, Dick and Harry wanting to impart their words of wisdom on you on how to raise your child. Saoirse deals with these people the best way she knows. Through a lot of healthy swearing 😊
This book isn't just about being a parent. This book follows the relationships that are built and broken as life goes on. We see how Saoirse finds a kindred spirit in Bea. Bea is a friend we all need in our lives to boost us and to handle those hard situations that we get ourselves into.
We see the development of family relationships and how they have an impact on the way we grow. I liked reading about David, Saoirse's husband. Even though he irritated the hell out of me and at times I wondered how Saoirse could live with him. But, as we chipped away at his character and got more of an understanding it was clear to see why he is the way he is.
Time Out is the first in a three part book series. And, I can't wait to see what happens next to the characters that we have met in Time Out.
Time Out is a light hearted read. An honest outlook at life, relationships and bringing up children.
July 5, 2020
This book consists of 25 chapters that is split into 3 parts, this splitting into three parts is perfect for this book as it gives you a clear view of where the main character Saoirse grows. The character in herself is very relatable and as a reader you are able to see bits of yourself/ your views in the characters.
Now before I read this book I did see that someone described it as 'laugh out loud' now I wanted to make my own decision on this but as I read I had to agree with this comment. This book will have you giggling away to yourself from the very first chapter. One of the great things about this book apart from the laughing is that some chapter (clearly marked) take you into Saoirse past, which helps you as the reader understand the things she has gone through. The Author has used this as a great way to make you relate to the character even more and allows you to get more information on the background of the characters.
Overall I really enjoyed this book and found it to be well written. Not only that but this book really grips the reader and makes them want to read on. Once you start getting into this book you won't want to put it down until you finish it.
Now before I read this book I did see that someone described it as 'laugh out loud' now I wanted to make my own decision on this but as I read I had to agree with this comment. This book will have you giggling away to yourself from the very first chapter. One of the great things about this book apart from the laughing is that some chapter (clearly marked) take you into Saoirse past, which helps you as the reader understand the things she has gone through. The Author has used this as a great way to make you relate to the character even more and allows you to get more information on the background of the characters.
Overall I really enjoyed this book and found it to be well written. Not only that but this book really grips the reader and makes them want to read on. Once you start getting into this book you won't want to put it down until you finish it.
February 6, 2021
This book blows. I was able to read it from my prime account but it was such a waste of time. The narrator of this book constantly complains about motherhood and makes it seem like she regrets it for what seems like forever.
I get that raising a kid is hard but like damn, it could be a lot worse. Even recently there has been a huge awareness on social media about miscarriages and here’s a whole book about how parenting is sooo hard. Life is hard man! What a huge first world problem this book is.
How long is a mother/father’s sleep schedule messed up for in the whole life span of another human? Literally just in the early years of raising a kid...
Didn’t laugh out loud not even once- was too busy judging the fictional character representing bitter mothers everywhere smh
I get that raising a kid is hard but like damn, it could be a lot worse. Even recently there has been a huge awareness on social media about miscarriages and here’s a whole book about how parenting is sooo hard. Life is hard man! What a huge first world problem this book is.
How long is a mother/father’s sleep schedule messed up for in the whole life span of another human? Literally just in the early years of raising a kid...
Didn’t laugh out loud not even once- was too busy judging the fictional character representing bitter mothers everywhere smh
May 27, 2020
I received a free electronic copy of this ARC from Netgalley, Emma Murray, and Boldwood Books. Thank you all for sharing your hard work with me. I have read this novel of my own volition, and this review reflects my honest opinion of this work. Emma Murray writes a fast-paced first-person accounting of life in the fast lane in London, learning to set priorities and determine what is honest and real in a modern life story.
Saoirse and daughter Anna find their way through London life and Irish family in this tightly told tale. Husband and Father David is also learning to set aside some of his self-protective habits that hold his family at a distance. Time Out was a good read with lots of laughs and some very interesting folks.
pub date May 26, 2020
Boldwood books
Reviewed at Goodreads and Netgalley on May 20, 2020. Reviewed on May 27, 2020, at AmazonSmile, Barnes&Noble, Kobo, and GooglePlay. Not available for review at BookBub.
Saoirse and daughter Anna find their way through London life and Irish family in this tightly told tale. Husband and Father David is also learning to set aside some of his self-protective habits that hold his family at a distance. Time Out was a good read with lots of laughs and some very interesting folks.
pub date May 26, 2020
Boldwood books
Reviewed at Goodreads and Netgalley on May 20, 2020. Reviewed on May 27, 2020, at AmazonSmile, Barnes&Noble, Kobo, and GooglePlay. Not available for review at BookBub.
October 25, 2020
Great story, crammed with laughs. A credible and likeable character whose situation is absolutely believable. Highly entertaining.
October 22, 2020
True
One of the best books i’ve read about struggles of a first time mum. Hilarious. Funny. True. Inspiring. Motivating. the gesture of a complete stranger towards a struggling mother was the best thing of all. I will think about doing it myself next time i run i to a struggling mum. Loved it.
One of the best books i’ve read about struggles of a first time mum. Hilarious. Funny. True. Inspiring. Motivating. the gesture of a complete stranger towards a struggling mother was the best thing of all. I will think about doing it myself next time i run i to a struggling mum. Loved it.
December 25, 2020
Not too impressive as a story, but I believe it would be useful for mums to relate to the struggles of motherhood.
I liked that it was a light quick read though
I liked that it was a light quick read though
June 1, 2020
I loved the honest description of a new mother’s struggle with sleep deprivation, isolation, resentment, and judgmental people, including other new moms.
This is just the sort of book which gladdens my heart because I’m sick of the “Motherhood is bliss!” brigade.
I could wholeheartedly relate to the snobbish, competitive new mothers who would rather die than admit that they were struggling, too.
I have also faced the brunt of uppity mothers who think their word is the last word in parenting, and the author cleverly calls them the “Organics.”
“Don’t you EVER judge a sleep-deprived mother for giving her tantruming toddler a lollipop.”
I can also relate to the loss of self-esteem that a new mother faces.
“Ordinary, boring mum who has made zero impact on the world. It’s hardly the most flattering description, is it?”
And also the resentment she faces when she sees that NOTHING has changed in her husband’s life.
“More resentment built as I watched him enjoy his usual forty-minute shower-and-shave routine when I would be lucky to have a shower at all.”
Part I of the book is amazing with its description of how a new baby places undue stress on a marriage to the point of breaking.
Part II is where I felt the novel faltered because the plot was running away with no clear direction.
The plot regains its footing in Part III, with the grandmother delivering some hard truths about how social media is a poor substitute for the community support that had been present earlier.
The writing style clearly conveys the semi-hyper mood that Saoirse is in all the time, which to people without young children, may seem irritating or maddening. That’s what happens the first few years into parenthood and I’m glad this book doesn’t sugarcoat it.
I don’t think everybody can relate to this book, especially those who have not been around small children. But for mothers of babies and toddlers, this is the book that needed to be written!
(I received an ARC from Rachel's Random Resources in exchange for an honest review.)
This is just the sort of book which gladdens my heart because I’m sick of the “Motherhood is bliss!” brigade.
I could wholeheartedly relate to the snobbish, competitive new mothers who would rather die than admit that they were struggling, too.
I have also faced the brunt of uppity mothers who think their word is the last word in parenting, and the author cleverly calls them the “Organics.”
“Don’t you EVER judge a sleep-deprived mother for giving her tantruming toddler a lollipop.”
I can also relate to the loss of self-esteem that a new mother faces.
“Ordinary, boring mum who has made zero impact on the world. It’s hardly the most flattering description, is it?”
And also the resentment she faces when she sees that NOTHING has changed in her husband’s life.
“More resentment built as I watched him enjoy his usual forty-minute shower-and-shave routine when I would be lucky to have a shower at all.”
Part I of the book is amazing with its description of how a new baby places undue stress on a marriage to the point of breaking.
Part II is where I felt the novel faltered because the plot was running away with no clear direction.
The plot regains its footing in Part III, with the grandmother delivering some hard truths about how social media is a poor substitute for the community support that had been present earlier.
The writing style clearly conveys the semi-hyper mood that Saoirse is in all the time, which to people without young children, may seem irritating or maddening. That’s what happens the first few years into parenthood and I’m glad this book doesn’t sugarcoat it.
I don’t think everybody can relate to this book, especially those who have not been around small children. But for mothers of babies and toddlers, this is the book that needed to be written!
(I received an ARC from Rachel's Random Resources in exchange for an honest review.)
May 31, 2020
If there's one thing that I like doing, it's discovering new authors. Emma Murray is certainly a new author for me but having enjoyed reading 'Time Out' as much as I did, I will definitely be reading more of her work in the future. Overall I enjoyed reading 'Time Out' but more about that in a bit.
I have to be honest and say that it took me a little while to get into this book. I was feeling tired when I started to read the story and I was finding it difficult to concentrate for any length of time. I do think that the fact I am neither married nor a mother might have had something to do with it too as I found it a bit difficult to relate to Saoirse's story. However, once I got to the end of the first 50 pages or so, I was 'into' the story. I had to binge read 'Time Out' over the course of a few days. Boring things like life kept getting in the way. The pages turned quite quickly and I seemed to motor through the story. This was a fun, uncomplicated and light hearted read.
'Time Out' is well written. The author has one of those writing styles that is easy to get used to and easy to get along with. In fact reading this book felt more like a chat between friends rather than a book. I hope that makes sense. Emma drew me into the story eventually and I genuinely felt as though I was part of the story myself. I chuckled away to myself on more than one occasion whilst reading 'Time Out'.
In short and overall I did enjoy reading 'Time Out'. People with children will particularly enjoy 'Time Out'. I will definitely be reading more of this author's work in the future. The score on the Ginger Book Geek board is a very well deserved 4* out of 5*.
I have to be honest and say that it took me a little while to get into this book. I was feeling tired when I started to read the story and I was finding it difficult to concentrate for any length of time. I do think that the fact I am neither married nor a mother might have had something to do with it too as I found it a bit difficult to relate to Saoirse's story. However, once I got to the end of the first 50 pages or so, I was 'into' the story. I had to binge read 'Time Out' over the course of a few days. Boring things like life kept getting in the way. The pages turned quite quickly and I seemed to motor through the story. This was a fun, uncomplicated and light hearted read.
'Time Out' is well written. The author has one of those writing styles that is easy to get used to and easy to get along with. In fact reading this book felt more like a chat between friends rather than a book. I hope that makes sense. Emma drew me into the story eventually and I genuinely felt as though I was part of the story myself. I chuckled away to myself on more than one occasion whilst reading 'Time Out'.
In short and overall I did enjoy reading 'Time Out'. People with children will particularly enjoy 'Time Out'. I will definitely be reading more of this author's work in the future. The score on the Ginger Book Geek board is a very well deserved 4* out of 5*.
September 12, 2020
Addictive and unputdownable
Its been a long time since I've read a book so quickly. Love it when I find a book like this.
Absolutely hilarious. Can't wait to read more from this author 😍
Its been a long time since I've read a book so quickly. Love it when I find a book like this.
Absolutely hilarious. Can't wait to read more from this author 😍
March 17, 2021
Couldn't put this book down. Made me giggle , made me made, sad ,the lot. I loved all of the characters and wanted to get a piece of all of them. Absolutely adored this, had no idea I would like it this much
September 5, 2020
Great read for any mum
Realistic portrayal of motherhood, prolific swearing included! Would absolutely recommend. After 6 months of lockdown and no school or nursery I needed a read like this
Realistic portrayal of motherhood, prolific swearing included! Would absolutely recommend. After 6 months of lockdown and no school or nursery I needed a read like this
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