Notes I took on the book are below, but basically the main point is: go outside, and take your kids with you. Benefits to an outdoor lifestyle range from brain development, health (both physical and mental), spiritual, sense of belonging in time and space, etc. There is no downside to spending time outside other than a larger pile of laundry to do when you get home.
How to Raise a Wild Child by Scott Sampson
Reasons for the movement indoors:
• Screens
• Parental fear (abduction, injury, etc.)
• Litigation as a result of injury
• Increased structured “playtime” as a result of fear of litigation
• Less nature readily available (urban sprawl)
• Biology becoming the study of genes and molecules rather than on whole organisms (pg. 43)
“Beyond the obesity, stress and other negative effects of remaining indoors, recent research indicates that unstructured play in natural settings is essential for children’s healthy growth. As any parent or early childhood educator will attest, play is an innate drive. It is also the primary vehicle for youngsters to experience and explore their surroundings. Compared to kids confined indoors, children who regularly play in nature show heightened motor-control – including balance, coordination, and agility. They tend to engage more in imaginative and creative play, which in turn fosters language, abstract reasoning, and problem-solving skills, together with a sense of wonder.” Pg. 37
Chapter 1: Wilding the Mind: What is Nature, and Do We Really Need It?
1. A deep connection with nature doesn’t arise through periodic trips to national parks or other wilderness. While such trips can leave deep impressions, even more important are abundant experiences in wild or semi-wild places, typically close to home.
• Make getting outside a habit; for children as well as adults
• Use weekends for planned trips, night time walks
• Invite nature into your yard; bird houses, logs, rocks, ponds, native flora and fauna
• Make the schoolyard a classroom; relevant, hands-on learning
Chapter 2: The Power of Place: Discovering Nearby Nature
1. A meaningful connection with nature does not arise in a single, emotionally charged event, no matter how powerful. Rather, it emerges organically and gradually over many years, the result of a spiraling feedback loop interweaving emotions with understanding. (pg. 57)
2. Three themes have emerged as being most critical in promotion nature connection:
• Experience:
• Mentoring:
• Children tend to value what you value, so start noticing nature yourself, taking a few minutes each day to become more aware of the other-than-human world around you. (pg. 64) If you don’t value nature, your children won’t either (pg.76)
• Mentors should:
• 1) value the natural world and demonstrate that through their own actions 2) pay close attention to their mentees; How do they learn best? What are their interests? What are their strengths? 3) Active listeners and questioners; seldom answer givers
• Activities: sit-spots to learn the language of birds, tell a non-fiction nature story from the day, nature journal with words, drawings, observations, questions, etc.
• Understanding: what is interesting and meaningful for the child, as well as having and selectively doling out answers to children’s questions.
Chapter 3: The Way of Coyote: Nature Mentoring Basics
1. Pay close attention to children’s interactions with nature and follow their lead. Tailoring experiences and questions to kids’ specific interests is the best path toward inspiring passion for the natural world. (pg. 91)
Chapter 4: Hitched to Everything: Place-Based Learning
1. Place-Based Learning: Uses direct experiences in local landscapes to inform larger-scale explorations. Understand and intimately experience one’s local oak or fir forest (whatever the local environment has) before diving into books and videos about other environments.
• Requires firsthand experience
• Grounded in values such as community, sustainability, and beauty
• Traditional schools can re-think their playgrounds to include vegetable gardens (which get used in the cafeteria), butterfly garden (plants), hummingbird garden, habitat for bees, pond and wetland that support dragonflies, frogs, water-striders and fish. Green natural playgrounds nurture wildlife as well as children; providing natural places to run and play, corners of solitude, shade to escape midday sun. Reduces uncivil behavior and stress while promoting focus. (pg. 113)
• Begin with the big idea that everything (including us) is interwoven with everything else. Then seek out regular opportunities to feed the flame of wonder with this insight. We are part of nature, and nature is part of us! (pg. 119)
• Try putting an imaginary “bubble” around a piece of nature. Experience what it experiences: what does it see, hear, small, touch, taste, feel? Why?
• Discover the role that a certain organism plays, and how it interacts with other organisms: solar energy grabber, plant eater, animal eater, decomposer/recycler, predator/prey, pollinator, earth/animal pairings (worm, soil), how do farm animals and crops affect/integrate with the local ecosystem etc. (pg. 121)
Chapter 5: Mothers All the Way Down
1) Mentors must tell indigenous stories, focusing on how everything is connected and related
• First big idea: Ecology – the interconnectedness of everything with everything else; how nature works.
• Second big idea: Evolution – how nature came to be
• “Your mother wasn’t the only one responsible for your birth. It was your grandmother, and before that your great-grandmother and your great-great grandmother. Long before that, it was the long unbroken chain of mammal mothers, reptile mothers, and amphibian mothers. We also owe a deep thanks to our fish mothers and countless other sea creatures and bacteria that gave rise to them even further back in time. Earth Mother gave birth to the first life, and the Great cosmic Mother birthed the first stars. You can think about it as a huge family tree.” (pg. 141)
• Everything around us is interconnected not just through the ecological flow of energy and matter, but also the flow of relationships through time. We’re surrounded by relatives, all of us intertwined in a grand, unfinished story. Understanding and experiencing this story can help foster deep nature connection. (pg. 142)
Chapter 6: The Playful Scientist: Mentoring Young Children
1) Don’t let facts hinder the experience, because it’s in the experience that young children are likely to find the greatest understanding (pg. 151)
2) Children have “lantern consciousness” where many things are illuminated and considered. Adults have “spotlight consciousness” where focus is narrowly and specifically directed.
3) Psychologists tell us that real play is spontaneous, freely chosen by children and kid-directed. And play activities are intrinsically motivated, with no external goal or reward. (pg. 158) This means parents need to butt out. Unstructured means freeplay without ADULT GUIDANCE OR SUPERVISION. (pg. 170)
• The best toys of all time according to WIRED magazine: 1) stick, 2) box, 3) string, 4) cardboard tube, 5) dirt! These “loose parts” can be anything, where as a toy car is always a car, a doll is always humanistic. (pg. 160)
4. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends sixty minutes of unstructured free play per day to support children’s physical, metal and emotional health. (pg. 159)
• Perhaps the greatest secret to being a nature mentor during the early childhood years is at once the easiest and most difficult thing to do. It is, simply, to get kids outside, get out of the way, and let ‘em play! (pg. 170)
Chapter 7: The Age of Competence: Mentoring During the Middle Childhood Years
1) Nine to eleven year olds will start to want to experience nature farther away from the safety and security of mom and dad.
• How do we stem the tide of children falling out of love with nature during middle childhood? One part of the answer may be communities formed around family nature clubs.
• Children and Nature Network (online)
• For children in middle childhood, tap into their longings by fostering nature experiences with plenty of exploration, autonomy, and demonstrations of competence. (pg. 196)
• As children get older, increase the separation to give children the freedom to take some risks, make some mistakes, and deal with consequences. (pg. 197)
Chapter 8: The Social Animal: Mentoring Adolescence
1. For youth today, the all-important impulse control and inhibition system, so highly dependent on experience is underdeveloped by the time adolescence strikes; teens are ill prepared to deal with risk and often end up making poor choices. Ergo, give them plenty of opportunities to make calculated risks during the middle childhood years so soften the transition to adolescence.
2. Put adolescents together in outdoor situations where they can take calculates risks with each other while demonstrating new skills and strengths. Make sure they have a deep degree of autonomy from adults and strong peer support. (pg. 208)
3. Create opportunities for regular time in wild nature where adolescents can engage in challenging, adventurous activities with one another (peers, not parents). (pg. 224)
4. To increase the chances of getting yourself outside (with your kids), pick something that you like to do. Pick something for each season so that you have something to do outside all year long. (pg. 225)
Chapter 9: Dangerous Liasions: Balancing Technology and Nature
1. The hybrid mind is capable of switching back and forth between the digital and physical world. It doesn’t have to be all one or the other. (pg. 239)
• Digital photography, videography, geocacheing, field guide apps, etc.
2. Biomimicry = no longer something to learn about, nature is something to learn from. The idea that nature has already figured out the solution to many of human problems; grab solar energy like a leaf, create color like a butterfly, recycle waste like a swap. (pg. 251)
3. Mentor the children in your life to embrace both technology and nature, to establish a balance where high-tech AND nature-loving become the thriving norm. (pg. 253)
Chapter 10: The Re-wilding Revolution: Growing Nature Lovers in the Big City
1. Thrivability, not just sustainability
2. People are not likely to alter their behavior on global issues, if they’re not engaged locally. We may not be able to change global issues as individuals, but we can change local issues. Changing local issues leads to changing global ones.
• Architects are designing “Living Buildings” that exist in harmony and partnership between human and nature’s needs
3. We no longer know what is “normal” for our area because we see our environment for a relatively short period of time in relation to how long the planet have been around – we’ve lost more than we can imagine without realizing it.
• Going native with plants and animals helps to restore the ecosystem.
4. Rather than sharing knowledge and expertise, your chief goal as a nature mentor is to help instill a deep longing for nature. (pg.281)