First the quotes...
"Two men sit facing each other and both of them are me. Quietly, meticulously, systematically, they are blowing out each other’s brains, with pistols. They look perfectly intact. Inside devastation."
"Saints may still be kissing lepers. It is high time that the leper kissed the saint."
‘There’s nothing to be afraid of.’ The ultimate reassurance, and the ultimate terror.
"When the ultimate basis of our world is in question, we run to different holes in the ground, we scurry into roles, statuses, identities, interpersonal relations."
"Our social realities are so ugly if seen in the light of exiled truth, and beauty is almost no longer possible if it is not a lie."
"EVEN facts become fictions without adequate ways of seeing ‘the facts’. The choice of syntax and vocabulary are political acts that define and circumscribe the manner in which ‘facts’ are to be experienced."
And now the book itself...
Social phenomenology is the science of own and of others’ experience. It differs from natural sciences as it considers both observer's views of things and how things experience us. The author was a Scottish psychiatrist and describes humans as a experiential behavioral system. He states:
"I see you, and you see me. I experience you, and you experience me. I see your behaviour. You see my behaviour. But I do not and never have and never will see your experience of me. Just as you cannot ‘see’ my experience of you. I do not experience your experience. But I experience you as experiencing. I experience myself as experienced by you."
Human beings relate to each other not simply externally, like two billiard balls, but by the relations of the two worlds of experience that come into play when two people meet. Our behaviour is a function of our experience. We act according to the way we see things. We anticipate the experience of us to others through their behaviour towards us. This leads to unsaid rules of social interaction such as giving gifts (enforced debts) and the fact that you are supposed to like it and reciprocate; projecting on us the anticipated experience of others, "I don't mind my daughter marrying in a lower caste, but what would the society say!" (This creating a scandal network which may be unified by ideas to which no one will admit in his own person); each person claiming his own inessentiality: ‘I just carried out my orders. If I had not done so, someone else would have.’, ‘Why don’t you sign? Everyone else has’, etc. Yet although I can make no difference, I cannot act differently. In this collection of reciprocal indifference, of reciprocal inessentiality and plurality of solitudes, there appears to exist no freedom.
The author says that, "If our experience is destroyed, our behaviour will be destructive. All those people who seek to control the behaviour of large numbers of other people work on the experiences of those other people. Once people can be induced to experience a situation in a similar way, they can be expected to behave in similar ways."
The author presents a scathing account of social conditioning. He says, "We seem to need to share a communal meaning to human existence, to give with others a common sense to the world, to maintain a consensus. Men do not become what by nature they are meant to be, but what society makes them…. generous feelings… are, as it were, shrunk up, seared, violently wrenched, and amputated to fit us for our intercourse with the world, something in the manner that beggars maim and mutilate their children to make them fit for their future situation in life. Education in practice has never been an instrument to free the mind and the spirit of man, but to bind them."
The product of such a brutal fitment is what is considered a normal human being. "What we call ‘normal’ is a product of repression, denial, splitting, projection, introjection and other forms of destructive action on experience. It is radically estranged from the structure of being. "
Alduous Huxley in "the doors of perception" had mentioned of his Psychedelic experience under the influence of drug mescaline. Such experiences have been the basis of many religions. Yet, today such experiences are denounced. The author says, "As domains of experience become more alien to us, we need greater and greater open-mindedness even to conceive of their existence. Many of us do not know, or even believe, that every night we enter zones of reality in which we forget our waking life as regularly as we forget our dreams when we awake. The texture of the fabric of these socially shared hallucinations is what we call reality, and our collusive madness is what we call sanity."
The ‘normally’ alienated person, by reason of the fact that he acts more or less like everyone else, is taken to be sane. Other forms of alienation that are out of step with the prevailing state of alienation are those that are labelled by the ‘normal’ majority as bad or mad. The author calls schizophrenia a successful attempt not to adapt to pseudo social realities.
The author also discusses the meaning of existence and the limitation of language in describing it. He says,
"in saying ‘the sky is blue’ we say ‘the sky’ ‘is’. The sky exists and it is blue. ‘Is’ serves to unite everything and at the same time ‘is’ is not any of the things that it unites. None of the things that are united by ‘is’ can themselves qualify ‘is’. ‘Is’ is not this, that, or the next, or anything. Yet ‘is’ is the condition of the possibility of all things. ‘Is’ is that no-thing whereby all things are."
Kierkegaard remarked that one will never find consciousness by looking down a microscope at brain cells or anything. The quest and musings on existence and reality of it all continue. This book presents another brilliant perspective on the same.