I absolutely loved Cristela Alonzo's memoir of growing up in poverty in Texas, pursuing her dreams despite racism, colorism, and genderism set to the soundtrack of her life.
Five things about Music to My Years: A Mixtape Memoir of Growing Up and Standing Up by Cristela Alonzo.
1. Each chapter in this book is a beautiful love song to the people and experiences that have brought her to this point in her life. These are real, honest, hard to look at people and experiences but she has a way of finding the meaning - no - of making them meaningful. There's a difference.
2. I have never been a first-generation, US citizen, Latinx woman growing up in abject poverty on the Mexican border of Texas but wow - can I relate to the humanity of her experience. Such different upbringings but such similar experiences. This is because she is honest and forthright and has done a lot of hard work to face, process, and embrace the experiences of her life.
3. I thought I would fly through this book. I love Cristela. I've watched her Netflix special about 40 times (still makes me laugh so hard), saw her in person in 2019 in Houston before we knew the world would close down for a couple of years, and enjoyed her show for the brief time it was on - but after reading this memoir have different feelings about it. I thought she'd make me feel all the feels and this would be easy. It was. She did. It was also beautiful and I found myself savoring it - chapter by chapter and needing time to process. So I did not Zoom through it because I didn't want it to end.
4. I listened to Cristela read this WHILE I read the book. This was optimal because I was able to underline the passages that particularly spoke to me while feeling like she was telling me her own story - in her own words - with her own voice. This is my preferred way to read a memoir. To hear the author. And yes - there are many many underlined portions in my physical copy of this book because Cristela spoke to my heart and Cristela is reflective, and Cristela is honest and raw.
5. I look forward to Cristela's continued offerings to the world. This woman isn't perfect (she lets you know that) but she's honest (how many times have I said that?) and she's kind, and she's loving, and she's loyal - to herself and others. There were so many things said in this book that I would like to scream from the proverbial mountain tops but the ONE that I'll mention here is from the end of a chapter about integrity and her career. "A lifelong dream has the word lifelong connected to it because that's how long the dream takes. There is no end to a dream, just a continuation. I guess I'm saying that if you say yes to happiness, I believe you will always be successful. I really ask the question...what would I do if I had one chance to get everything I've ever wanted. Would I go after it or would I let it slip? Answer: Sometimes I have to do both because all the nos will get me closer to a yes."
Read this book. It's one of my favorites of the year.