This book is all about the idea that you can’t buy your happiness.
New Minimalism is the philosophy that your time is better spent experiencing life with people than it is spent looking for, managing, organizing, cleaning, and purchasing and (subsequently returning) things.
It’s about being conscious of our consumer-based lifestyle and the weight and heaviness associated with all this “stuff”. It’s something I’ve been personally experiencing this year as I enter retirement and feel somewhat burdened by all my “stuff”. So I purchased this eBook through BookBub as a way to help me unclutter my home.
New minimalism is a middle path between traditional minimalism and over-top consumerism.
This book is about finding your own wonderful unique middle path. It’s about keeping just the right amount that is right for you at this time in your life. Decluttering and redesigning your home. Cultivating a simpler life. It’s also a form of environmental activism.
You also choose to buy less. You focus on purchasing quality and long-lasting goods
Decluttering is about separating your identity from your things. Releasing who we think we should be and embracing the fullest, truest, most loving version of who we actually are.
It’s about being conscious of how advertising triggers our reptilian brain and makes us feel that we are lacking something. Question everything you buy. Ask: Can I live without this? Will this really bring me happiness?
After you have decluttered a good rule to follow is: one item in, one item out.
The authors of the book have found that people who have recently undergone a major life transition or those who experienced a deep shift from what used to be to what is now tend to have the clearest vision of what is important in life. Stuff is worth little, if anything at all, when we are stripped bare in front of life’s big events.
The first question they ask a new client is “Why? Why are you choosing to do this? Why is now the right time to take on a complete decluttering project? Why do you think you haven’t been able to do this on your own? Why is this so important to you?”
Often the answer is that when they walk in the door of their home they want to feel relaxed, , peaceful, calm, rejuvenated, grounded, inspired, energized, balanced, creative, etc.
These questions of how you now feel and how you want to feel is motivation for deciding what to keep or take out of your home.
Often, we hang on to items because: “I might need that” or “this cost a lot” or “one day I’ll have the time to finish the project.” But this is often based on fear and you cannot create a calming inspired home from a place of fear.
They also remind us that our memories and experiences are separate from our possessions. When deciding to part with an item of sentimental value, take a moment to “bless and release” it. And to start “collecting memories, not things”.
Do you need it right now? The idea of keeping something “just in case.” Using phrases like: “I might” or “I could”.
They remind us to leave space for yourself to grow. For whenever we hold on to items “just in case,” we’re locking our future self into a certain way of being. When you hold onto old items “just in case,” you’re committed to staying in place—to having those exact same interests, living in the past.
When you let go of those items you are giving yourself permission to be flexible, to grow and change.
Any project that is incomplete is telling you something: either it is not a priority or you are being unrealistic with your time.
This book is an easy read and gives lots of helpful hints on decluttering all areas of your house.
So, if you want to become more mindful of how full your home is or you’re looking for some help in the process of decluttering and redesigning your home this book might be just what you need.