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Looking Glass Lies
A poignant and relatable novel, Looking Glass Lies captures the war women wage against themselves, and the struggle to see beauty reflected in a mirror not distorted by society’s unrelenting expectations. For most of her adult life, Cecily Ross has compared herself to other women―and come up short. After a painful divorce from her emotionally abusive husband, Cecily returns to her hometown of Canyon, Texas, looking to heal. But coming home isn’t what she expects. In a town as small as Canyon, her pain is difficult to escape―especially with her model-perfect ex–sister-in-law working at the town’s popular coffee-shop hangout. With help from her father, a support group, and an old friend who guides her to see her own strengths, Cecily may have a shot at overcoming her insecurities and learning to love again. The true test comes when tragedy strikes, opening Cecily’s eyes to the harmfulness of her distorted views on beauty―and giving her the perfect opportunity to find peace at last.
318 pages, Paperback
First published May 1, 2017
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Varina Denman
5 books309 followersVarina Denman enjoys writing fiction about women and the unique struggles they face. She seems to have a knack for describing small town life, and her debut novel, Jaded, won the ACFW Genesis Contest, the BRMCWC Selah Award, and the INSPYs Bloggers’ Award for Excellence in Faith-Driven Literature.
She attended three universities over a span of five years, majoring in four subjects and earning zero degrees. However, she can now boast sixteen years as a home educator, volunteering in her local cooperative where she has taught numerous subjects including creative writing and literature. Varina lives in North Texas where she and her husband volunteer as a marriage mentors. She is represented by Jessica Kirkland of Kirkland Media Management.
She attended three universities over a span of five years, majoring in four subjects and earning zero degrees. However, she can now boast sixteen years as a home educator, volunteering in her local cooperative where she has taught numerous subjects including creative writing and literature. Varina lives in North Texas where she and her husband volunteer as a marriage mentors. She is represented by Jessica Kirkland of Kirkland Media Management.
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May 7, 2017
Looking Glass Lies is a brave, much-needed story. Cecily is broken woman and carries major baggage, still reeling from an emotionally abusive marriage. At its core, this story is about a woman who looked for affirmation and worth in another person, in this case a man, only to be let down terribly. As a woman who also struggles with self-worth, self-love and occasional strong emotions, I empathized with Cecily and discovered parts of my own self in her character.
The story is certainly character-driven, but the characters themselves are strong and make a huge impact. I read this in nearly a day because I found myself connecting on a heart-level to Cecily and her pain in such a way that it felt hard to take a break from the story. I truly applaud Varina Denman for tackling such a sensitive topic with compassion but also with an unflinching honesty. I will caution that this story may not be for every reader. This touches on heavy emotions and destructive they can be if handled the wrong way. I admit there was a scene or two that were hard to read through, but it all felt key to Cecily’s character development.
Despite touching on heavier topics and mature themes, it is not without hopeful moments. Many of those come from Shanty Espinoza, one of my most favorite characters ever, hands down. Her heart for other women and her desire to promote self-esteem made me so grateful for the Shanty’s that I know. There are times that I’m Cecily and times that I’m Shanty; sometimes my emotions are upbeat and other days they bring me down. But one thing Looking Glass Lies shows is that it’s okay to have huge, uncontainable feelings in response to suffering – how you choose to let them manifest themselves is what is most important. Suffering can sow seeds of despair and lies about others and yourself, but it can also sow seeds of hope. Cecily didn’t realize that she could choose to say no to the lies that convinced her that she was unworthy of self-love and the love of others.
In addition to the topics addressed in the novel, I also felt the setting to be strong. Canyon, Texas came to life for me and truly felt like a real place. I loved the outdoor scenes and really got a feel for Palo Duro Canyon. In addition to Shanty, the secondary characters are endearing; I especially loved the relationship between Cecily and her dad, with all its bumps and sweet moments, as well as college student Nina’s search for self-worth. While there is a slight romantic thread, this is a journey of one heart, not two, thought a certain old classmate of Cecily’s definitely makes that element a beautiful one.
Just as Cecily has experienced change by the story’s end, I am changed after reading this story. I am like Cecily; I am like Shanty. And most of all, I am unapologetically myself, and I choose to celebrate that. And for anyone that might read this review, no matter what baggage you may be carrying today, I hope you will celebrate your worthy, amazing self – in Cecliy’s words, “your life is worth living, and you are the only one who can live it.”
I received a complimentary copy of this book and chose to review it. This review is my honest opinion.
The story is certainly character-driven, but the characters themselves are strong and make a huge impact. I read this in nearly a day because I found myself connecting on a heart-level to Cecily and her pain in such a way that it felt hard to take a break from the story. I truly applaud Varina Denman for tackling such a sensitive topic with compassion but also with an unflinching honesty. I will caution that this story may not be for every reader. This touches on heavy emotions and destructive they can be if handled the wrong way. I admit there was a scene or two that were hard to read through, but it all felt key to Cecily’s character development.
Despite touching on heavier topics and mature themes, it is not without hopeful moments. Many of those come from Shanty Espinoza, one of my most favorite characters ever, hands down. Her heart for other women and her desire to promote self-esteem made me so grateful for the Shanty’s that I know. There are times that I’m Cecily and times that I’m Shanty; sometimes my emotions are upbeat and other days they bring me down. But one thing Looking Glass Lies shows is that it’s okay to have huge, uncontainable feelings in response to suffering – how you choose to let them manifest themselves is what is most important. Suffering can sow seeds of despair and lies about others and yourself, but it can also sow seeds of hope. Cecily didn’t realize that she could choose to say no to the lies that convinced her that she was unworthy of self-love and the love of others.
In addition to the topics addressed in the novel, I also felt the setting to be strong. Canyon, Texas came to life for me and truly felt like a real place. I loved the outdoor scenes and really got a feel for Palo Duro Canyon. In addition to Shanty, the secondary characters are endearing; I especially loved the relationship between Cecily and her dad, with all its bumps and sweet moments, as well as college student Nina’s search for self-worth. While there is a slight romantic thread, this is a journey of one heart, not two, thought a certain old classmate of Cecily’s definitely makes that element a beautiful one.
Just as Cecily has experienced change by the story’s end, I am changed after reading this story. I am like Cecily; I am like Shanty. And most of all, I am unapologetically myself, and I choose to celebrate that. And for anyone that might read this review, no matter what baggage you may be carrying today, I hope you will celebrate your worthy, amazing self – in Cecliy’s words, “your life is worth living, and you are the only one who can live it.”
I received a complimentary copy of this book and chose to review it. This review is my honest opinion.
April 5, 2017
The message in Looking Glass Lies is phenomenal. So many women look at themselves with critical eyes.
Cecily returns home to Canyon, Texas after her seven year marriage ended. She has very low self-esteem after years of living with a husband who found her not quite enough.
What I loved about this novel in addition to the main message was the emphasis on support groups, the geography of Palo Duro Canyon (I've never been there, but would love to visit), the text message introductions to many chapters and a peek at the man's point of view with pornography.
While all of the novel was realistic, some Christian Fiction readers may find parts difficult to read.
My gratitude to the author and publisher (Waterfall Press) for a complimentary NetGalley copy of the novel. I was not required to post a review and the opinions expressed are my own.
Cecily returns home to Canyon, Texas after her seven year marriage ended. She has very low self-esteem after years of living with a husband who found her not quite enough.
What I loved about this novel in addition to the main message was the emphasis on support groups, the geography of Palo Duro Canyon (I've never been there, but would love to visit), the text message introductions to many chapters and a peek at the man's point of view with pornography.
While all of the novel was realistic, some Christian Fiction readers may find parts difficult to read.
My gratitude to the author and publisher (Waterfall Press) for a complimentary NetGalley copy of the novel. I was not required to post a review and the opinions expressed are my own.
April 8, 2017
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March 30, 2017
"It's a good thing to have all the props pulled out from under us occasionally. It gives us some sense of what is rock under our feet and what is sand." - Madeleine L'Engle
Cecily Ross has been mired in sand for years; married to an emotionally abusive husband whose unrealistic expectations nearly destroyed her, even after their divorce. Having arrived back in her hometown, she finds a measure of solace living with her father in Canyon, Texas while trying to place the pieces of her life in some semblance of order. Even still, the sinister whispers of her heart tantalize Cecily towards patterned self-destructive behavior , daring her to mar the beautiful young woman that she views in the mirror.
Graham Harper always admired Cecily Ross from a distance even in high school, watching her marry a narcissistic high school sweetheart, Brett; however, the young woman who has returned home is but a hollow shell of the Cecily that he once knew. Following the urging of Cecily's father, Graham makes a friendly overture, knowing that his counseling skills can help Cecily gain positive ground, never expecting the spark of attraction between them to re-ignite. Graham cautiously hopes that giving her a job and leading her towards supportive friends, can help to put all the pieces that were once Cecily Ross, back together again.
Reading this book is like peeling off layers; layers of insecurity that nearly every woman experiences on some level, feelings that have her fighting to measure up to the expectations of those who seem to matter the most, often resulting in utter emotional implosion. Will hitting rock bottom destroy or redeem? Cecily Ross is about to find out.
I am grateful to the author for a copy of this book. The opinions stated are entirely my own.
Cecily Ross has been mired in sand for years; married to an emotionally abusive husband whose unrealistic expectations nearly destroyed her, even after their divorce. Having arrived back in her hometown, she finds a measure of solace living with her father in Canyon, Texas while trying to place the pieces of her life in some semblance of order. Even still, the sinister whispers of her heart tantalize Cecily towards patterned self-destructive behavior , daring her to mar the beautiful young woman that she views in the mirror.
Graham Harper always admired Cecily Ross from a distance even in high school, watching her marry a narcissistic high school sweetheart, Brett; however, the young woman who has returned home is but a hollow shell of the Cecily that he once knew. Following the urging of Cecily's father, Graham makes a friendly overture, knowing that his counseling skills can help Cecily gain positive ground, never expecting the spark of attraction between them to re-ignite. Graham cautiously hopes that giving her a job and leading her towards supportive friends, can help to put all the pieces that were once Cecily Ross, back together again.
Reading this book is like peeling off layers; layers of insecurity that nearly every woman experiences on some level, feelings that have her fighting to measure up to the expectations of those who seem to matter the most, often resulting in utter emotional implosion. Will hitting rock bottom destroy or redeem? Cecily Ross is about to find out.
I am grateful to the author for a copy of this book. The opinions stated are entirely my own.
September 1, 2020
Although difficult at times to read, Denman's latest is powerful and a novel that should be required reading for adults. Every woman, regardless of outward appearance, struggles with body image or self-esteem issues. This book reaches the heart and dares to go beneath the surface to explore the reasons why, yet doesn't offer trite platitude answers. Hope is revealed, but in a subtle way. This is edgy Christian fiction and may not be appropriate for every reader — it touches on some painful and messy situations and has some very mature themes.
A year after her divorce, Cecily Ross returns to her hometown in Texas to live with her father. She suffers from depression and self-harming behavior because she just can't bring herself to move forward after the way she was treated by her husband. Her father encourages her to talk with Graham, an old high school friend who is now a counselor. He suggests a support group, and as Cecily meets with the other women, she begins to explore her thoughts toward beauty and how it affects her. The road is not smooth, and as she makes some steps forward, there are also some steps back as she learns to love herself and others.
May 8, 2017
The book opens with Cecily married and sleeping in the walk-in closet, and by the end of the first chapter I was frustrated with her for staying married to such a life-sucking object lesson in how not to be a man or a husband. (In case you think I’m being unfair, I disliked him even more by the end.)
Fortunately, Chapter Two started with Cecily newly divorced and returning to her home town where she meets up with the new town hero, football star Michael Devins (who owns a coffee shop), and an old friend Graham Harper (who is now a therapist). It’s a book full of broken characters, and there are no easy answers in the journey to healing.
Looking Glass Lies isn’t Christian fiction, and there were a few times where I just wanted to shout at the characters and tell them to get to a church, or to start praying (especially given Varina Denman’s earlier books, which were based around a church community).
But I can see why it’s been written from a general market point of view, because the book touches on several issues that affect many people: pornography (although this was understated in comparison to, say, One Last Thing by Nancy Rue), and a range of mental health issues including self-harm. And these are issues that touch many women, Christian and non-Christian.
The main issue was around body image and body shaming—especially the way we judge others based on their looks at the same time as feeling bad about the way we look. It’s an intensely personal book, both in the way it was written and in the way different people will read it.
This makes it a difficult book to read, and to review. I didn’t connect with any of the characters (in this case, that’s probably a good thing), and there were some writing glitches which caught my attention once too often. It’s definitely worth reading, but it’s a long way from light and entertaining.
Thanks to ARCBA and Waterfall Press for providing a free ebook for review.
Fortunately, Chapter Two started with Cecily newly divorced and returning to her home town where she meets up with the new town hero, football star Michael Devins (who owns a coffee shop), and an old friend Graham Harper (who is now a therapist). It’s a book full of broken characters, and there are no easy answers in the journey to healing.
Looking Glass Lies isn’t Christian fiction, and there were a few times where I just wanted to shout at the characters and tell them to get to a church, or to start praying (especially given Varina Denman’s earlier books, which were based around a church community).
But I can see why it’s been written from a general market point of view, because the book touches on several issues that affect many people: pornography (although this was understated in comparison to, say, One Last Thing by Nancy Rue), and a range of mental health issues including self-harm. And these are issues that touch many women, Christian and non-Christian.
The main issue was around body image and body shaming—especially the way we judge others based on their looks at the same time as feeling bad about the way we look. It’s an intensely personal book, both in the way it was written and in the way different people will read it.
This makes it a difficult book to read, and to review. I didn’t connect with any of the characters (in this case, that’s probably a good thing), and there were some writing glitches which caught my attention once too often. It’s definitely worth reading, but it’s a long way from light and entertaining.
Thanks to ARCBA and Waterfall Press for providing a free ebook for review.
March 26, 2017
I wanted to put this book down so many times, but I couldn't. I'm not just speaking figuratively, either. I would physically put the book down and then pick it right back up again. "One more chapter, one more chapter..."
This book is for every girl, everywhere, that has ever felt less than enough. Not smart enough. Not talented enough. Not popular enough. Not fit enough. Not pretty enough. Or even... not pretty at all.
Oh, that we could wear a sign around our neck that says, "Fragile spirit: proceed with caution." No one knows what's going on in the recesses of our mind; not everyone wears their inner demons on their sleeve for all to see. What kind of world would it be if we did?
One year post-divorce (the circumstances surrounding it revealed in brief snippets throughout the story), Cecily finds herself back home, living with her father in the town where she grew up. Unfortunately, her demons have followed her and if it weren't for the quirky, steadfast leader of her support group and an old acquaintance turned loved interest, her battle would be hard won.
Looking Glass Lies deals with the war between one's inner voice and the voices inside one's head that merely echo the world's distorted expectations of beauty. In it, our heroine is forced to ask herself, over and over and over again, "Is it my own voice I hear when I look in the mirror?" The answer, more often than not, is a resounding 'no'. So we are privy to the emotional workings of her journey as she struggles to discern between what is truth and what is a lie, the battle both inward and outward, discouraging and inspiring.
There are lots of areas where I would have loved to have had more of the story to chew through & digest. And yet, to dwell on any of these points of the story would have been to detract from Cecily's story and the inner dialogue that has the power to speak to every reader on a deeply emotional, authentic level.
While it's a tough subject to read, the message within makes it worth every word. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't happy to finally be able to set the book down, but it's only a matter of time before I pick it up again. We could all stand to be reminded from time to time that things aren't always what they seem.
This book is for every girl, everywhere, that has ever felt less than enough. Not smart enough. Not talented enough. Not popular enough. Not fit enough. Not pretty enough. Or even... not pretty at all.
Oh, that we could wear a sign around our neck that says, "Fragile spirit: proceed with caution." No one knows what's going on in the recesses of our mind; not everyone wears their inner demons on their sleeve for all to see. What kind of world would it be if we did?
One year post-divorce (the circumstances surrounding it revealed in brief snippets throughout the story), Cecily finds herself back home, living with her father in the town where she grew up. Unfortunately, her demons have followed her and if it weren't for the quirky, steadfast leader of her support group and an old acquaintance turned loved interest, her battle would be hard won.
Looking Glass Lies deals with the war between one's inner voice and the voices inside one's head that merely echo the world's distorted expectations of beauty. In it, our heroine is forced to ask herself, over and over and over again, "Is it my own voice I hear when I look in the mirror?" The answer, more often than not, is a resounding 'no'. So we are privy to the emotional workings of her journey as she struggles to discern between what is truth and what is a lie, the battle both inward and outward, discouraging and inspiring.
There are lots of areas where I would have loved to have had more of the story to chew through & digest. And yet, to dwell on any of these points of the story would have been to detract from Cecily's story and the inner dialogue that has the power to speak to every reader on a deeply emotional, authentic level.
While it's a tough subject to read, the message within makes it worth every word. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't happy to finally be able to set the book down, but it's only a matter of time before I pick it up again. We could all stand to be reminded from time to time that things aren't always what they seem.
May 4, 2017
This is probably one of the hardest books I've had to review. I had a love/hate relationship with it. Well, hate is probably too strong a word-maybe dislike is better. And I don't even know if dislike is the correct expression of how I feel?? I'm going to do my best to express my thoughts but forgive me if it comes across disconnected because honestly my thoughts are pretty scattered on this story.
First, let me say that I think Ms. Denman is a fabulous author. Her writing is gripping, eloquent, and she has the ability to dive into personal issues with grace. And she does it again in Looking Glass Lies. The topics covered in this story are: Hard. Personal. Touchy. And stuff most people don't openly talk about. So it's great when authors can bring these topics to the surface and open up a conversation so that those dealing with the issues might feel like they're not alone. We need more stories like that-offering grace, redemption, and hope. I guess it's that last part that gives me pause in this particular story.
We meet thirty-something Cecily Ross (at first I thought she was much older than she was until I was corrected several chapters in) who in the opening chapter is struggling with self-harm, self-deprecation, and self-loathing that seems to be the fault of her husband. A chapter later, a year has passed, and Cecily is divorced and back in her hometown.
There's authenticity in the struggle Cecily is facing and that it doesn't just go away if we think good thoughts, but the plot of the story seems to stall at her "therapy" almost like most of the book is about why she's stuck in her issues and for a time it felt like I was reading a non-fiction complete with advice and encouragement coming through secondary characters (a therapist and small group leader).
This story is heavy. As I mentioned before it touches on the harm caused by pornography and because the story is told primarily through Cecily's POV, it felt a little bias towards men. There were several occasions throughout the story most of the men are portrayed as having an issue with looking at women in degrading ways (I almost want to say all the men because there's even a part when the love interest looks at someone in a way that causes the main character to see him "lusting" after what she's not). I was desperate for a good man. A hero. And while there is a man who is good-the relationship didn't feel authentic to where the characters were at in their lives for me to believe in their love.
There's a tragic ending (or really, an almost ending) that hurt my heart more than anything because it diminished my empathy towards Cecily and left me unsure of where I was supposed to see the grace, redemption, and hope in this story.
I've seen and heard great response to this story and I can see where the open discussion regarding how women see themselves is distorted by what the world defines as beautiful is pertinent and important in this current day and age but this story left me wanting to see the characters discover and transform to overcome the issues brought up. By the last page I was like, "Wait, no. There has to be more." And maybe there will be?
I appreciate Ms. Denman's courage to engage readers with these tough issues and believe this is one of those books that might be best read in a book club where real discussions can take place in a safe setting where encouragement, help, and prayer can lead to the grace, redemption, and hope we all long for.
**I received a copy of this book from the author in exchange for my honest review.
First, let me say that I think Ms. Denman is a fabulous author. Her writing is gripping, eloquent, and she has the ability to dive into personal issues with grace. And she does it again in Looking Glass Lies. The topics covered in this story are: Hard. Personal. Touchy. And stuff most people don't openly talk about. So it's great when authors can bring these topics to the surface and open up a conversation so that those dealing with the issues might feel like they're not alone. We need more stories like that-offering grace, redemption, and hope. I guess it's that last part that gives me pause in this particular story.
We meet thirty-something Cecily Ross (at first I thought she was much older than she was until I was corrected several chapters in) who in the opening chapter is struggling with self-harm, self-deprecation, and self-loathing that seems to be the fault of her husband. A chapter later, a year has passed, and Cecily is divorced and back in her hometown.
There's authenticity in the struggle Cecily is facing and that it doesn't just go away if we think good thoughts, but the plot of the story seems to stall at her "therapy" almost like most of the book is about why she's stuck in her issues and for a time it felt like I was reading a non-fiction complete with advice and encouragement coming through secondary characters (a therapist and small group leader).
This story is heavy. As I mentioned before it touches on the harm caused by pornography and because the story is told primarily through Cecily's POV, it felt a little bias towards men. There were several occasions throughout the story most of the men are portrayed as having an issue with looking at women in degrading ways (I almost want to say all the men because there's even a part when the love interest looks at someone in a way that causes the main character to see him "lusting" after what she's not). I was desperate for a good man. A hero. And while there is a man who is good-the relationship didn't feel authentic to where the characters were at in their lives for me to believe in their love.
There's a tragic ending (or really, an almost ending) that hurt my heart more than anything because it diminished my empathy towards Cecily and left me unsure of where I was supposed to see the grace, redemption, and hope in this story.
I've seen and heard great response to this story and I can see where the open discussion regarding how women see themselves is distorted by what the world defines as beautiful is pertinent and important in this current day and age but this story left me wanting to see the characters discover and transform to overcome the issues brought up. By the last page I was like, "Wait, no. There has to be more." And maybe there will be?
I appreciate Ms. Denman's courage to engage readers with these tough issues and believe this is one of those books that might be best read in a book club where real discussions can take place in a safe setting where encouragement, help, and prayer can lead to the grace, redemption, and hope we all long for.
**I received a copy of this book from the author in exchange for my honest review.
April 5, 2017
This was the book I was seeking to read for comfort at age 20. It addresses the constant assault women feel to look a certain way, and the constant barrage of visual stimulation tempting our men in the most innocent of places. At 2o, trying to help a significant other through a porn addiction and trying to find out how I could help him and what my role was in the problem was grievous and I was constantly looking for stories of girls like me, but found none.
At 31, that significant other is my husband who still fights "Every man's battle" but more often than not wins. Still, the book hits close to home as I can still empathize with the book's protagonist and definitely still struggle with self-esteem. These struggles are real and widely prevalent, yet rarely addressed in media, especially for women older than their teens.
Again, Varina Denman has identified a sensitive and critical topic that needs to be discussed and addresses it head-on instead of shying away. I was so captivated by the rawness of the story that I finished the book in a day!
I received an advanced copy of Looking Glass Lies in exchange for my honest review.
At 31, that significant other is my husband who still fights "Every man's battle" but more often than not wins. Still, the book hits close to home as I can still empathize with the book's protagonist and definitely still struggle with self-esteem. These struggles are real and widely prevalent, yet rarely addressed in media, especially for women older than their teens.
Again, Varina Denman has identified a sensitive and critical topic that needs to be discussed and addresses it head-on instead of shying away. I was so captivated by the rawness of the story that I finished the book in a day!
I received an advanced copy of Looking Glass Lies in exchange for my honest review.
April 6, 2017
What a beautiful, brave, and heart wrenching story. I think it's fair to say there will be triggers in this book for several women. However, the authors bravery and tact enabled me to keep reading. I really appreciate this story. Aside from the emotional connection, the writing alone is on point. Great character building, good story, closure at the end. I hope you read it and find encouragement.
June 9, 2017
Looking Glass Lies is a poignant read that will transform the reader. Cecily Ross struggles with her self-image. I think everyone can identify with that issue. I loved how Varina Denman tackled the subject. She laid it all out, exploring every nook and cranny of this issue. She also included a diverse group of secondary characters.
Shanty is half-Black and half-Asian. Her husband is from Latino descent. Shanty is the one who motivates and encourages Cecily to love herself just the way she is. I loved her character and I love that she has her own social media page.
If you’ve ever struggled with self image, please read this book. It will encourage you and help you see that God created you just the way you need to be.
First written at: https://diversitybetweenthepages.word...
Shanty is half-Black and half-Asian. Her husband is from Latino descent. Shanty is the one who motivates and encourages Cecily to love herself just the way she is. I loved her character and I love that she has her own social media page.
If you’ve ever struggled with self image, please read this book. It will encourage you and help you see that God created you just the way you need to be.
First written at: https://diversitybetweenthepages.word...
October 28, 2017
Talk about a real book with real characters. Thank you, Denman, for your bravery and her heart to tackle the deep and hard things of life.
November 7, 2017
This novel resonated deeply with me, as it likely will with any woman who picks it up. Who among us hasn’t compared herself to other women at some time or other—whether it be in physical appearance, intelligence, housekeeping or mothering skills, or a host of other areas—and come up short? For women who have suffered emotional and/or physical abuse, like Cecily, these comparisons can be debilitating.
My heart ached for Cecily from the opening pages of this book. Although the first chapter only hints at the reasons for her poor self-image, it’s enough for us to understand that the lies she believes have been subtly and not-so-subtly reinforced by her husband over and over again. We gain a better understanding of what Cecily endured in her marriage as the story progresses, and although Denman is tactful in the way she imparts the information, she still allows the reader to grasp the full, ugly truth.
Part of that truth is the destructive power of pornography—on both men and women. Denman handles the topic with grace, sensitivity, and purpose, and while this doesn’t make the topic any more palatable, it does give the reader courage to confront it. And we do need to confront it. We need to realise how ubiquitous the temptation is, and that it can sink its talons into the willing and unwilling alike.
Given Cecily’s emotional state and the weighty topics included, it would be easy for this novel to become mired in negativity, but Denman never lets us dwell there. Instead, she's created a cast of characters who bring much needed dimension, colour, and occasionally even levity to the story, particularly Shanty Espinosa—loud and extroverted support group leader.
Former school friend and counsellor Graham ‘Cracker’ Harper is another character who connects with Cecily, on both a professional and non-professional level. It is in this relationship that the reader can clearly see the way in which Cecily’s wounds not only blind her to the truth about herself, but also colour the way she sees and interprets everyone around her.
This is a novel that asks us to become vulnerable on behalf of its characters so that we can share their pain and grow with them. It doesn’t provide pat answers, quick-fixes, or one-size-fits-all solutions, but it does encourage us to look beyond the lies and take control where we can: in our response to the lies and the amount of power we give them.
It’s not an easy read, but it is a powerful one that will stay with me for a long time to come.
I received a copy of this novel from the author. This has not influenced the content of my review.
My heart ached for Cecily from the opening pages of this book. Although the first chapter only hints at the reasons for her poor self-image, it’s enough for us to understand that the lies she believes have been subtly and not-so-subtly reinforced by her husband over and over again. We gain a better understanding of what Cecily endured in her marriage as the story progresses, and although Denman is tactful in the way she imparts the information, she still allows the reader to grasp the full, ugly truth.
Part of that truth is the destructive power of pornography—on both men and women. Denman handles the topic with grace, sensitivity, and purpose, and while this doesn’t make the topic any more palatable, it does give the reader courage to confront it. And we do need to confront it. We need to realise how ubiquitous the temptation is, and that it can sink its talons into the willing and unwilling alike.
Given Cecily’s emotional state and the weighty topics included, it would be easy for this novel to become mired in negativity, but Denman never lets us dwell there. Instead, she's created a cast of characters who bring much needed dimension, colour, and occasionally even levity to the story, particularly Shanty Espinosa—loud and extroverted support group leader.
Former school friend and counsellor Graham ‘Cracker’ Harper is another character who connects with Cecily, on both a professional and non-professional level. It is in this relationship that the reader can clearly see the way in which Cecily’s wounds not only blind her to the truth about herself, but also colour the way she sees and interprets everyone around her.
This is a novel that asks us to become vulnerable on behalf of its characters so that we can share their pain and grow with them. It doesn’t provide pat answers, quick-fixes, or one-size-fits-all solutions, but it does encourage us to look beyond the lies and take control where we can: in our response to the lies and the amount of power we give them.
It’s not an easy read, but it is a powerful one that will stay with me for a long time to come.
I received a copy of this novel from the author. This has not influenced the content of my review.
April 4, 2017
Only three times in my life has a book left me speechless. This book was the third. Varina puts into words the emotional roller coaster women go through because of shame, insecurities, and the words and actions of others. I did not realize the deeply hidden lies I had believed. I shattered my looking glass lies finally.
Varina also shines a bright light on the issue of pornography. I had not realized how much it is "in your face" for men and women until I read this book. The point-of-view of a man dealing with the struggle of porn addiction made me realize how media and entertainment influence so much. Just an easy scroll through an innocent web search can produce a graphic photo. (Side note- I asked my husband about this, and he said it happens all the time. That breaks my heart. A homeschooling mom friend of mine has had this happen to her as well, while she was teaching her children.)
Varina dives in to the topics of body shaming, insecurities, pornography addiction, and the healing that must come from the ashes of the wounds caused by each. This book is a must read for any person who has felt ashamed or insecure. It is a must read for any person who has been caught off guard by an inappropriate photo during a web search. It is a must read for those who love a person caught up in looking glass lies.
For those who have read the book, I looked in the mirror and smiled.
*I was given an advanced copy for my honest review. This is my honest review.
Varina also shines a bright light on the issue of pornography. I had not realized how much it is "in your face" for men and women until I read this book. The point-of-view of a man dealing with the struggle of porn addiction made me realize how media and entertainment influence so much. Just an easy scroll through an innocent web search can produce a graphic photo. (Side note- I asked my husband about this, and he said it happens all the time. That breaks my heart. A homeschooling mom friend of mine has had this happen to her as well, while she was teaching her children.)
Varina dives in to the topics of body shaming, insecurities, pornography addiction, and the healing that must come from the ashes of the wounds caused by each. This book is a must read for any person who has felt ashamed or insecure. It is a must read for any person who has been caught off guard by an inappropriate photo during a web search. It is a must read for those who love a person caught up in looking glass lies.
For those who have read the book, I looked in the mirror and smiled.
*I was given an advanced copy for my honest review. This is my honest review.
March 31, 2017
Looking Glass Lies is for every woman. Varina peels back the layers of emotional despair and insecurities that most every woman has experienced at one time or another. When we judge ourselves by our looks, what we wear, what other people think about us as an employee, as a wife, mother, daughter, and sister over shadows who we are as a person. As I read this book I saw myself, my mother, my daughters, and friends. We may not all talk about it but we notice other women and we see men looking at other women and wonder if our husbands are too.
The beauty of fiction is we watch a character struggle and become victorious, yet we still stay in our messed up, painful life and don’t see victory. What if we learned from a character, and became victorious in our own life? That is exactly what Varina does in this book. She doesn’t just write a great story, she gives us as readers hope that we could look at ourselves differently and truly see that beauty is who we are not how we look.
I highly recommend this book!!
I received a copy of the book from the publisher all opinions expressed are mine alone.
The beauty of fiction is we watch a character struggle and become victorious, yet we still stay in our messed up, painful life and don’t see victory. What if we learned from a character, and became victorious in our own life? That is exactly what Varina does in this book. She doesn’t just write a great story, she gives us as readers hope that we could look at ourselves differently and truly see that beauty is who we are not how we look.
I highly recommend this book!!
I received a copy of the book from the publisher all opinions expressed are mine alone.
May 8, 2017
This book should be read by every single woman. Why? Because I don't know of a single woman who doesn't have any self image issues. We all do. Even, my most beautiful friends will complain about something they are unhappy about. We are bombarded by Hollywood, TV ads, and billboards everywhere that we should be unhappy with the way we look. We compare ourselves. It's human I suppose. But, we are a masterpiece made in God's own image. I want to congratulate Varina Denman in her quest to share this message to women every where. WE have value and we are loved. This book will cause you to think and ponder. This book while a compelling story on so many levels will also make you swoon. I loved the hero, Graham. Absolutely loved him. I encourage you to read this book and share it with your friends. *I was given this book by the publisher through netgalley and was under no obligation to leave a review.
March 29, 2017
I love Varina Denman books and this one was no exception. I could not put this book down. It is well written and kept me wanting more. Every girl should read this book as it gives new insight to self image issues. It gave me all the feels! I laughed, I cried and all while reading about an important issue in today's society. Get it. Read it. You will be glad you did.
I voluntarily reviewed a complimentary copy of this book.
I voluntarily reviewed a complimentary copy of this book.
May 4, 2017
Before I share my thoughts, I need to mention some trigger warnings. This is not a feel good or light read. If you’re looking for that kind of read, then I suggest you look elsewhere. However, self-image and body-shaming is something every woman struggles with and therefore, I think this is a must read. Cecily Ross is the main character who has a ton going on which only worsen her view of her self-image. She is so far gone in her problems and negative thinking that she often thinks about hurting herself physically. Cutting, depression, grief, suicide, pornography addiction, cheating, and divorce all appear in the novel. Do keep in mind that not all of these pertain to our main character, but some of the other characters in the novel. We’re dealing with some heavy stuff that I’m glad Varina Denman has decided to cover. We need to raise more awareness in this area. If you’re looking for a novel that deals with real issues, broken people trying to put the puzzle pieces back together, and a sense of hope, then you’ll want to pick this novel up.
Cecily has come a long way. I love when authors give us a character who has major struggles and learns to become victorious. I also loved that Mrs. Denman doesn’t automatically make her life go back to being perfect. Body-shaming will be something that she will struggle with for the rest of her life, but she finds hope and becomes a healthier person through it. Shanty and Nina were awesome side characters as well. I don’t want to give too much about the story away so I’ll just it leave it at that.
Then there’s Graham, the small town’s counselor. His character was one of my favorites. I studied counseling in college so this is always something I find fascinating. I loved that he was the kind of person who would take the time out of his personal schedule to sit down and listen to someone vent, offer the resources and advice that he can, and help them become victorious over their battles.
I loved traveling to small town Canyon, Texas. The descriptions made me feel as if I were there sight-seeing with the characters. I could smell, taste, feel the canyon rock and the natural breeze of the air. Oh and you can’t forget about the super cute romance.
Varina Denman did a beautiful job with this novel. She made it real, raw, and emotional. If you want to be challenged and not read another novel that doesn’t encourage you to reach for victory in your own lives, then this is for you.
The only thing that I would have liked to see more of is the faith element. Mrs. Denman shares a scripture or two and sometimes mentions God, but there was very little of that in the novel.
Overall, I highly recommend this novel to women everywhere and all ages. This would be the perfect book club pick as there are so many things you can discuss. Perhaps even support groups and counselors can use this with their clients.
Disclaimer: I received a copy of this book from the publisher for my honest review, which I have given. I was not required to write a positive review and have not been compensated for it in any way. All opinions expressed are my own.
Cecily has come a long way. I love when authors give us a character who has major struggles and learns to become victorious. I also loved that Mrs. Denman doesn’t automatically make her life go back to being perfect. Body-shaming will be something that she will struggle with for the rest of her life, but she finds hope and becomes a healthier person through it. Shanty and Nina were awesome side characters as well. I don’t want to give too much about the story away so I’ll just it leave it at that.
Then there’s Graham, the small town’s counselor. His character was one of my favorites. I studied counseling in college so this is always something I find fascinating. I loved that he was the kind of person who would take the time out of his personal schedule to sit down and listen to someone vent, offer the resources and advice that he can, and help them become victorious over their battles.
I loved traveling to small town Canyon, Texas. The descriptions made me feel as if I were there sight-seeing with the characters. I could smell, taste, feel the canyon rock and the natural breeze of the air. Oh and you can’t forget about the super cute romance.
Varina Denman did a beautiful job with this novel. She made it real, raw, and emotional. If you want to be challenged and not read another novel that doesn’t encourage you to reach for victory in your own lives, then this is for you.
The only thing that I would have liked to see more of is the faith element. Mrs. Denman shares a scripture or two and sometimes mentions God, but there was very little of that in the novel.
Overall, I highly recommend this novel to women everywhere and all ages. This would be the perfect book club pick as there are so many things you can discuss. Perhaps even support groups and counselors can use this with their clients.
Disclaimer: I received a copy of this book from the publisher for my honest review, which I have given. I was not required to write a positive review and have not been compensated for it in any way. All opinions expressed are my own.
May 3, 2017
Looking Glass Lies by Varina Denman is one of those stories that should be a "must read" for every younger person, and anyone who has ever looked in a mirror. In short, all of us. It is good fiction gently wrapped around a life story most of us can relate to.
Denman's deft hand at touching on sensitive subjects such as low self-esteem, self harm, suicide and grief, as well as the power we allow others to have over our thoughts - all without becoming either maudlin or flippant - is the sign of well researched topics. Her ability to weave these sensitive subjects into a beautiful story filled with help, hope, redemption, and even a touch of romance snuck in, is the sign of a good writer.
The characters of Cecily and her friends, Graham, Shanty, and Nina are likeable, rather complex characters (Shandy is one if my favorites). But Denman doesn't leave it all peaches and cream. There's an unsavory character or two, a nasty little antagonist, and even a couple secondary characters who's stories were hinted at so caringly that I for one am hoping Denman makes this into a series. I want to find out more about these others characters in the background! Denman's writing talent is on full display with this book.
This is a voluntary review from a complimentary copy of this book.
Denman's deft hand at touching on sensitive subjects such as low self-esteem, self harm, suicide and grief, as well as the power we allow others to have over our thoughts - all without becoming either maudlin or flippant - is the sign of well researched topics. Her ability to weave these sensitive subjects into a beautiful story filled with help, hope, redemption, and even a touch of romance snuck in, is the sign of a good writer.
The characters of Cecily and her friends, Graham, Shanty, and Nina are likeable, rather complex characters (Shandy is one if my favorites). But Denman doesn't leave it all peaches and cream. There's an unsavory character or two, a nasty little antagonist, and even a couple secondary characters who's stories were hinted at so caringly that I for one am hoping Denman makes this into a series. I want to find out more about these others characters in the background! Denman's writing talent is on full display with this book.
This is a voluntary review from a complimentary copy of this book.
May 7, 2017
This is one of those books that had me pulled in from the first pages and that I couldn't put down. It is a must read for every woman, especially for those that have dealt with low self esteem and wondering if they are good enough. Following Cecily's story was not always an easy read but well worth staying with the story to see how God worked in her life to help her see that she is loved and is a beautiful person in His sight. I was given a copy of this book, but a positive review was not required. The opinions expressed are my own.
April 23, 2017
While different from her other novels, Varina Denman did a wonderful job writing this book. I really thought the whole body image issue was written accurately and painfully true. Same goes with the struggle of porn and getting caught up in that whole world. At times I thought this book could have been written a tad different, it was a bit hard to totally get into. While I could relate to the difficulties I couldn't always see the connection with the characters. Otherwise this book was a great read dealing with difficult issues.
"Thanks to the author for offering me a free e book copy in exchange for an honest review."
"Thanks to the author for offering me a free e book copy in exchange for an honest review."
April 19, 2017
Looking Glass Lies is an amazing, amazing read. I’m not gonna lie, some if it was hard to read, really hard. It’s a raw read with vulnerable characters, I think that was why I cared so much for them and kept turning the pages to see what would happen.
Cecily Ross returns home to try to heal from a painful divorce. But, for awhile, she continues down the same road of believing the lies in her head.
This powerful book really makes you stop and think about what lies you believe about yourself. What lies society is telling you. Who you can trust. Grab your copy today!
Cecily Ross returns home to try to heal from a painful divorce. But, for awhile, she continues down the same road of believing the lies in her head.
This powerful book really makes you stop and think about what lies you believe about yourself. What lies society is telling you. Who you can trust. Grab your copy today!
May 12, 2017
It’s probably safe to say that every American woman (and perhaps every woman) has dealt with self-esteem issues and feelings of shame at some point. To some degree each one can relate to the women in Looking Glass Lies.
Addressing such issues as pornography, emotional abuse, extramarital affairs, and cutting, this is not an “easy read,” especially for someone who has gone through similar experiences. However, Graham and Shanty both offer valuable counsel to those who are hurting.
None of the characters are without struggle–either past or present. Isn’t that true of life? Things are rarely what they seem, and so often as we get to really know people, we discover the terrible burdens they bear.
With very realistic problems, emotions, and reactions, Looking Glass Lies holds out hope to those who are hurting, and wisdom to those who seek to love them through the healing process.
(This review was first published on my blog -- sarahruut.com. I received a complimentary copy of this novel. The thoughts expressed here are entirely my own.)
Addressing such issues as pornography, emotional abuse, extramarital affairs, and cutting, this is not an “easy read,” especially for someone who has gone through similar experiences. However, Graham and Shanty both offer valuable counsel to those who are hurting.
None of the characters are without struggle–either past or present. Isn’t that true of life? Things are rarely what they seem, and so often as we get to really know people, we discover the terrible burdens they bear.
With very realistic problems, emotions, and reactions, Looking Glass Lies holds out hope to those who are hurting, and wisdom to those who seek to love them through the healing process.
(This review was first published on my blog -- sarahruut.com. I received a complimentary copy of this novel. The thoughts expressed here are entirely my own.)
January 4, 2018
Varina Denman has always had a way with words, and her newest release is no exception. If you have ever felt less than, not good enough, not skinny enough, not pretty enough.......you get the picture.....then this book is for you and Shanty is your biggest cheerleader! And realistically, what woman on the face of the planet has never experienced self esteem issues or body image issues? I don't want to give too much away, but every woman should read this book. Be prepared though, because Shanty is so relatable, that you will probably see some of yourself within her. Grab your favorite drink, prop your feet up, and keep a box of tissue nearby. I highly recommend this book! Excuse me, while I go read it again!
August 16, 2018
This book was very good and so honest, and it freakin' slayed me. Too many feels and loads of triggers, but I'm glad I read it. The characters were nicely written and fully developed. I liked (& could somewhat relate to) the main character, and I found myself having a total book crush on Graham Cracker.
I love thought-provoking, relative stories like this and I highly recommend it, if you can tolerate the triggers. The heavy subject matter reminded me why I have to be in a good headspace to read anything other than my go-to stories about easy, breezy, light, HEA romances.
I love thought-provoking, relative stories like this and I highly recommend it, if you can tolerate the triggers. The heavy subject matter reminded me why I have to be in a good headspace to read anything other than my go-to stories about easy, breezy, light, HEA romances.
April 12, 2017
Wow! What a book.
This book gives us a hard look at low self esteem lots of women have because of poor body image.
Also in the book we see depression, pornographic addiction and self cutting.
I enjoyed the book and the discussion at the end. This book is for those who like powerful Christian
Women's fiction.
This book gives us a hard look at low self esteem lots of women have because of poor body image.
Also in the book we see depression, pornographic addiction and self cutting.
I enjoyed the book and the discussion at the end. This book is for those who like powerful Christian
Women's fiction.
May 3, 2017
LOOKING GLASS LIES
“Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit. 1 Peter 3:3-4
STORY-LINE LOOKING GLASS LIES BY VARINA DENMAN:
Looking Glass Lies by author Varina Denman will rip out your heart. An intense look into today’s society filled with warped values, self-destruction, and deception. I could not put this book down.
Cecily Ross, divorced from her mentally abuse husband, returns home to Canyon, Texas hoping to find peace and a way to fix herself. Thinking she never met the beauty standards the media sells women, Cecily has a wealth of self-confidence and emotional issues. Returning homes supposed to help her center and heal emotionally; things do not always work out as we hope. However, with her father at her back, a support group led by an awesome woman, an old friend at her side, and maybe a little romance, Cecily may just change her life. Come with Cecily and friends on their journey of revelation and renewal. My reviews for psychological woman’s romance fiction novel, Looking Glass Lies, follows.
CHARACTERS, PLOTTING, DEVELOPMENT:
Talk about an emotional roller coaster; Looking Glass Lies has it in spades. Filled with drama, emotional turmoil, self-destructive behavior, and the jaundice view the media gives women of themselves, Looking Glass Lies grabs the reader immediately and never let’s go. Every woman who has ever looked in the mirror and seen ugly, imperfection, or compared herself to the latest stick thin model, should read this novel. Denman faces these issues head-on and takes off running. She masterfully impresses on the reader to see their true self; stop listening to the media who’s only interested in the bottom line, the almighty dollar. For the attitudes we develop towards our body from childhood will have grave consequences later in life. Denman impressively demonstrates that sex sells everything from soup to cars; leaving the men and women of the world with unrealistic ideals and motivations.
Cecily character fits all the above to a T. But as Deman leads us through the novel, we find women are not alone in the quest for perfection. Men have their own set of ideals to live up to. The characters in this novel are believable and realistic. Denman developed them progressively throughout the story-line; some unlearn habits of a lifetime while others sink under the media lies. Denman skillfully shows each one of us have issues, some seen from the outside, some are not; but inside, we all suffer in different degrees and ways. Throwing in a sweet romance to soften an otherwise heart ripping story-line, gives the reader relief from the drama of negative emotions.
The pace of the story is perfect for the length of the novel, along with plotting that keeps the reader glued to the pages. Grab a box tissues as you sit down to read Looking Glass Lies; you will need them. Also, Deman includes beautiful vivid descriptions of the Canyon area and all nature can provide in this area of Texas.
In concluding my reviews for woman’s psychological romance fiction, Looking Glass Lies, I found an intensely emotional and drama filled book. I commend Denman for her bravery in bringing this subject to the public’s attention in an enjoyable avenue. Also, Denman included quotes from Ralph Waldo Emerson which applied so well to the story-line; as usual her research is impeccable. Denman is one in a million as she writes about issues relevant to life in today’s world. I would not hesitate to buy this book for my self or a friend.
LOOKING GLASS LIES RECOMMENDATION: STARS 5
I could do no less than give this novel 5 well-deserved stars for subject, gutting wrenching drama, composition, development and prose. If you have not read her earlier novels, I highly recommend you do so.
FINALLY, PLEASE NOTE:
I am not obliged to post a review for this book; I am doing so on my own and at a voluntary basis with an honest reviews for psychological woman’s romance novel, Looking Glass Lies. I received this book from Netgalley. Furthermore, book reviews of any novel are dependent on the book/novel review author’s opinion. Consequently, all book/novel reviews on-line and on my blog, are my opinions. Furthermore, no one influenced my voluntary reviews for psychological woman’s romance novel, Looking Glass Lies.
“Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit. 1 Peter 3:3-4
STORY-LINE LOOKING GLASS LIES BY VARINA DENMAN:
Looking Glass Lies by author Varina Denman will rip out your heart. An intense look into today’s society filled with warped values, self-destruction, and deception. I could not put this book down.
Cecily Ross, divorced from her mentally abuse husband, returns home to Canyon, Texas hoping to find peace and a way to fix herself. Thinking she never met the beauty standards the media sells women, Cecily has a wealth of self-confidence and emotional issues. Returning homes supposed to help her center and heal emotionally; things do not always work out as we hope. However, with her father at her back, a support group led by an awesome woman, an old friend at her side, and maybe a little romance, Cecily may just change her life. Come with Cecily and friends on their journey of revelation and renewal. My reviews for psychological woman’s romance fiction novel, Looking Glass Lies, follows.
CHARACTERS, PLOTTING, DEVELOPMENT:
Talk about an emotional roller coaster; Looking Glass Lies has it in spades. Filled with drama, emotional turmoil, self-destructive behavior, and the jaundice view the media gives women of themselves, Looking Glass Lies grabs the reader immediately and never let’s go. Every woman who has ever looked in the mirror and seen ugly, imperfection, or compared herself to the latest stick thin model, should read this novel. Denman faces these issues head-on and takes off running. She masterfully impresses on the reader to see their true self; stop listening to the media who’s only interested in the bottom line, the almighty dollar. For the attitudes we develop towards our body from childhood will have grave consequences later in life. Denman impressively demonstrates that sex sells everything from soup to cars; leaving the men and women of the world with unrealistic ideals and motivations.
Cecily character fits all the above to a T. But as Deman leads us through the novel, we find women are not alone in the quest for perfection. Men have their own set of ideals to live up to. The characters in this novel are believable and realistic. Denman developed them progressively throughout the story-line; some unlearn habits of a lifetime while others sink under the media lies. Denman skillfully shows each one of us have issues, some seen from the outside, some are not; but inside, we all suffer in different degrees and ways. Throwing in a sweet romance to soften an otherwise heart ripping story-line, gives the reader relief from the drama of negative emotions.
The pace of the story is perfect for the length of the novel, along with plotting that keeps the reader glued to the pages. Grab a box tissues as you sit down to read Looking Glass Lies; you will need them. Also, Deman includes beautiful vivid descriptions of the Canyon area and all nature can provide in this area of Texas.
In concluding my reviews for woman’s psychological romance fiction, Looking Glass Lies, I found an intensely emotional and drama filled book. I commend Denman for her bravery in bringing this subject to the public’s attention in an enjoyable avenue. Also, Denman included quotes from Ralph Waldo Emerson which applied so well to the story-line; as usual her research is impeccable. Denman is one in a million as she writes about issues relevant to life in today’s world. I would not hesitate to buy this book for my self or a friend.
LOOKING GLASS LIES RECOMMENDATION: STARS 5
I could do no less than give this novel 5 well-deserved stars for subject, gutting wrenching drama, composition, development and prose. If you have not read her earlier novels, I highly recommend you do so.
FINALLY, PLEASE NOTE:
I am not obliged to post a review for this book; I am doing so on my own and at a voluntary basis with an honest reviews for psychological woman’s romance novel, Looking Glass Lies. I received this book from Netgalley. Furthermore, book reviews of any novel are dependent on the book/novel review author’s opinion. Consequently, all book/novel reviews on-line and on my blog, are my opinions. Furthermore, no one influenced my voluntary reviews for psychological woman’s romance novel, Looking Glass Lies.
May 15, 2017
3.5 stars
I love to read, and I don't shy away from a book just because it deals with the darker side of life. But I also love a book with the hope-filled redemption & healing that can only come from relying on Christ to change us, Christian friends who can give us wise counsel on our journey, and can help steer us back to the Father's arms. I'm certainly not knocking non-believing friends or counselors, as they can be a valuable asset to our personal growth. To me, there's just something much deeper and more meaningful when you can look at a situation from a spiritual prespective.
I've read the Mending Heart series by this author and they more than met with my expectation. She dealt with tough issues with grace, forgiveness and faith-filled hope. This one was tougher for me to read, not because of the issues she dealt with, but because I would have liked to see things more from a Christian viewpoint and dealt with accordingly. No, that doesn't mean it makes life easy or the path smooth, it means that we have a hope in spite of our circumstances and Someone we can turn/run to when others reject us. I struggled with reading about the abuse from a spouse as I've been through that. All the ways they can make you feel like nothing, unloved and like the lowest human on earth. Only through the grace God extended to me, healing my deepest hurts and giving me love of a good man have I been able to see myself as worthy & beautiful inside. I've had to fight the demons of doubt, insecurity, worthlessness and the like and it's only through clinging to God's promises in His word that has gotten me through. I literally would not be the person I am today without finally realizing He loves me unconditionally!
So I say all that to say, I enjoyed the story. I think it has the power to touch women who have struggled or are struggling with the issues the author deals with within the pages of this book. I think it will make women take a second look at the person in the mirror and turn their thinking around. Since it didn't solely come from a Christian perspective, it was a bit disappointing to me, like it lacked something more to make it really meaningful for me personally. It's only through Christ that I was able to overcome these issues and self-viewpoints in my own life. I also see where the author wanted a farther outreach to those who would never intentionally pick up a “Christian” or “Inspirational” book. I have mixed feelings on this one and I want to be fair and honest in my review. There is value in this story and it has the power to change women's lives. For me personally, I just wished it would have been more faith-filled.
* Thank you to Netgalley and the author for providing me with a complimentary copy. All opinions expressed here are strictly my own. *
I love to read, and I don't shy away from a book just because it deals with the darker side of life. But I also love a book with the hope-filled redemption & healing that can only come from relying on Christ to change us, Christian friends who can give us wise counsel on our journey, and can help steer us back to the Father's arms. I'm certainly not knocking non-believing friends or counselors, as they can be a valuable asset to our personal growth. To me, there's just something much deeper and more meaningful when you can look at a situation from a spiritual prespective.
I've read the Mending Heart series by this author and they more than met with my expectation. She dealt with tough issues with grace, forgiveness and faith-filled hope. This one was tougher for me to read, not because of the issues she dealt with, but because I would have liked to see things more from a Christian viewpoint and dealt with accordingly. No, that doesn't mean it makes life easy or the path smooth, it means that we have a hope in spite of our circumstances and Someone we can turn/run to when others reject us. I struggled with reading about the abuse from a spouse as I've been through that. All the ways they can make you feel like nothing, unloved and like the lowest human on earth. Only through the grace God extended to me, healing my deepest hurts and giving me love of a good man have I been able to see myself as worthy & beautiful inside. I've had to fight the demons of doubt, insecurity, worthlessness and the like and it's only through clinging to God's promises in His word that has gotten me through. I literally would not be the person I am today without finally realizing He loves me unconditionally!
So I say all that to say, I enjoyed the story. I think it has the power to touch women who have struggled or are struggling with the issues the author deals with within the pages of this book. I think it will make women take a second look at the person in the mirror and turn their thinking around. Since it didn't solely come from a Christian perspective, it was a bit disappointing to me, like it lacked something more to make it really meaningful for me personally. It's only through Christ that I was able to overcome these issues and self-viewpoints in my own life. I also see where the author wanted a farther outreach to those who would never intentionally pick up a “Christian” or “Inspirational” book. I have mixed feelings on this one and I want to be fair and honest in my review. There is value in this story and it has the power to change women's lives. For me personally, I just wished it would have been more faith-filled.
* Thank you to Netgalley and the author for providing me with a complimentary copy. All opinions expressed here are strictly my own. *
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May 23, 2017Simple but striking imagery on the beautiful book cover, and an important message inside, I'm sure. (Although I don't believe that challenges with body image is an issue that only women deal with--not at all. But given that this is women's fiction, of course the focus is on women here, appropriately.)
While I went in expecting a serious story dealing with tough topics, I suspected for a while that Cecily's point of view might be too utterly down-in-the-dumps depressing too long for my reading taste. But that turned out not to be the case. I also thought Graham's thoughts and feelings about all he wanted to be for Cecily were spelled out a little too much, giving them something of a trite feel in places. But I liked how their characters began to get along together, and I was all into their story, until I wasn't.
This book was presented to me as Christian Fiction, but I think if I were to keep reading with that in mind, I might become more disappointed. If my expectations had simply been set for women's fiction, I'd feel differently, but the mental clash I experienced past the halfway mark, unsure of exactly what I was reading...
Well. Genre expectations are important to me where ChristFic is concerned. So I won't be finishing this one.
While I went in expecting a serious story dealing with tough topics, I suspected for a while that Cecily's point of view might be too utterly down-in-the-dumps depressing too long for my reading taste. But that turned out not to be the case. I also thought Graham's thoughts and feelings about all he wanted to be for Cecily were spelled out a little too much, giving them something of a trite feel in places. But I liked how their characters began to get along together, and I was all into their story, until I wasn't.
This book was presented to me as Christian Fiction, but I think if I were to keep reading with that in mind, I might become more disappointed. If my expectations had simply been set for women's fiction, I'd feel differently, but the mental clash I experienced past the halfway mark, unsure of exactly what I was reading...
Well. Genre expectations are important to me where ChristFic is concerned. So I won't be finishing this one.
May 16, 2017
I love to read. It’s a great means of escape. I can get away. I can be who I want to be. I can giggle. I can laugh. I can sigh. I can put it down and forget it when I’m done.
Having read the synopsis, I had a general idea of what this book was about. Or, at least I thought I did. I think I had some preconceived notions: Cecily Ross was a victim of abuse. Eventually, she’d get away from her husband, get a life of her own, gain some strength and become a brand new woman.
My ideas sound ridiculously simple. And, as it turns out, they were.
Although I am single and not a victim of the abuse that Cecily experienced, I identified with her in more ways than one.
I too have struggled with low self-esteem and body image issues. I too have read Psalm 139:14 over and over. I memorized it. I committed it to memory. But, what I’ve learned, just like Cecily had to learn, it that it is a journey. No one knows your struggle better than the Lord your God, and only He can place the right people in your path to guide you. Even when you stumble or take five steps back for every progressive one, He’s right there, waiting to restore you to your proper place.
I cried while reading this. I repented while reading this. I realized that I needed some healing while reading this.
It’s a beautiful story...because it’s real. It’s one I’ll refer to again and again - particularly Shanty’s writing exercises. By the way, you’ll LOVE Shanty. In my mind, we’re the best of friends. I admired her courage in the face of adversity.
This book is highly recommended. Don’t expect too many fun and games and fairy tales. Expect a realistic experience - one that could definitely be rewarding in the long run.
Nicely done, Varina Denman.
I was given a copy of this book. The opinions expressed are my own.
Having read the synopsis, I had a general idea of what this book was about. Or, at least I thought I did. I think I had some preconceived notions: Cecily Ross was a victim of abuse. Eventually, she’d get away from her husband, get a life of her own, gain some strength and become a brand new woman.
My ideas sound ridiculously simple. And, as it turns out, they were.
Although I am single and not a victim of the abuse that Cecily experienced, I identified with her in more ways than one.
I too have struggled with low self-esteem and body image issues. I too have read Psalm 139:14 over and over. I memorized it. I committed it to memory. But, what I’ve learned, just like Cecily had to learn, it that it is a journey. No one knows your struggle better than the Lord your God, and only He can place the right people in your path to guide you. Even when you stumble or take five steps back for every progressive one, He’s right there, waiting to restore you to your proper place.
I cried while reading this. I repented while reading this. I realized that I needed some healing while reading this.
It’s a beautiful story...because it’s real. It’s one I’ll refer to again and again - particularly Shanty’s writing exercises. By the way, you’ll LOVE Shanty. In my mind, we’re the best of friends. I admired her courage in the face of adversity.
This book is highly recommended. Don’t expect too many fun and games and fairy tales. Expect a realistic experience - one that could definitely be rewarding in the long run.
Nicely done, Varina Denman.
I was given a copy of this book. The opinions expressed are my own.
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