Oy this book was so long (and so is this review!). And horrifically preachy and moralizing in all the wrong ways (particularly around suicide). And apologetic of rape in "it's just men being passionate" and "it's culturally appropriate for a 20 something dude to have the hots for a 12 year because we're Greeks in the early 20th century" way. And also kind of racist.
The book starts off with Theodora and her husband (the aforementioned pseudo pedophile, who I guess "technically" didn't do anything wrong, because he did wait for Theodora to turn 18 before they got married and did anything, but still...) and their 5 young daughters. The husband is dying from an infection because he's too stubborn to have his leg amputated and doesn't want to be "half a man" and so when he dies, Theodora has to raise her daughters alone through the famine and hardships of WWII. She is still super young and beautiful, but doesn't want to remarry, even though her mom Julia, tells her to so she won't be alone when her daughters get married and leave.
Theodora is somehow shocked *shocked* that her daughters grow up and want to leave, because their little village is "paradise." She tells them the house by the river will always be there for them to come home to as they leave one by one. (Foreshadowing!!)
The daughters don't leave in the order they are born, but the subsequent chapters tell their stories in birth order, which was kind of confusing, and I'm not going back to look up which order is which, so my summary will be as chaotic as this book. Lots of spoilers, because you can't understand the absurdity of this book without them, and really you don't want to spend your days reading this anyway.
Julia the daughter (not the mother) leaves first (I think, this book was so fucking long). Her husband is also quite a bit older than her, but he is a good guy (the best of all the husbands actually) with a batshit crazy mom of his own. His mom hates Julia for no reason. Like hates to the fucking point where she tries to poison her own son, makes it make it appear Julia is having an affair that she isn't having, and other awful things. Luckily the father in this situation is cool, and they eventually figure this all out together, and the couple leaves for a job in Africa (Ghana? I forget where exactly and again, not looking things up). They have a pretty good life (three healthy daughters, one son who either dies at birth or shortly thereafter) and Julia becomes the white savior of the community (so much thinly veiled racism in Julia's chapter). When her husband is killed by the villagers due to his shady business partner causing a major accident and lots of deaths, Julia and her daughters, along with a black woman who has been their servant the entire time, flee back to Greece. She and her batshit MIL have made amends by now, and eventually the six of them end up back in the village at the house by the river.
Melissanthi marries a tobacco baron for his money. Julia the mother is trying to get Theodora to marry the guy, because he's about twenty years older than Melissanthi and is Theodora's age, but he shows up at their house and asks to marry Melissanthi after meeting her like, once. They get married and start off having lots of hot sex. At one point though they have a fight and he rapes her on the floor of their room, but it's cool because it's him being passionate and eventually she's into it (*eyeroll*). The husband ends up having a heart condition and stops it with all the sex, so Melissanthi starts having an affair with a guy who is actually her age, and they truly love each other, but she won't leave her husband because she feels loyal to him. They break up and reconcile over another on the floor rape scene in a hotel that's almost exactly like the one with her husband. Eventually the mother of the guy she's having an affair with finds out about the affair and blackmails her into breaking it off, and the guy is so distraught he kills himself. (This is suicide #1 in this book, BTW.) Melissanthi is horribly distraught and blames herself, even though it is not her fault, and of course finds out she's pregnant immediately after his death. Her husband knows about the affair but is happy about the baby (they hadn't been able to have their own kids). Their son drops dead randomly from an undiagnosed heart condition about 6 or 8 years later, and then her husband drops dead right after the boy's funeral, leaving Melissanthi alone to return to the house by the river.
Aspasia marries a merchant/truck driver, but really wants to be a singer. She has an amazing mother in law, but her husband is kind of an ass. They have two daughters, but she's not particularly interested in being a mother, and is happy to let her MIL take over, particularly when she gets a job singing in clubs. Being a career woman is scandalous. Her husband constantly harps on her to quit, and it isn't said that her earning power is hurting his ego, but it definitely is. She starts traveling to other clubs in the summer and having affairs. Eventually she tries to reconcile with her husband, but by then he knows about the affairs and is pisses (he BTW, also having affairs) and refuses to touch her or talk to her. They sort of make up a bit when their oldest daughter is dying of cancer, but eventually get divorced. The youngest daughter decides to stay with Aspasia and they also go back to the house by the river.
Polyxeni runs away from home to join a traveling theater group, and changes her name to Xenia. She befriends one of the woman (Martha) in the troupe who has a "connection"/lover (Stathis) and the two of them leave to go to Athens where Stathis acts as a sort of agent and gets her jobs in the theater and small movie roles. Xenia has never experienced love and doesn't understand it, so she starts dating a guy who is basically stalking her to figure out what it what, and that makes Stathis furious for "toying" with the guy. When Xenia breaks it off after a year the guy kills himself in front of her apartment and Stathis blames her for his death. (This plot point made me really angry; the guy was written not only as a kind of stalker, but he also had tried to kill himself at least 2-3 other times when his other relationships had ended, it's not like Xenia could have 1) known this before they started dating, 2) ended the relationship in a way where he wouldn't have tried to kill himself, or 3) just kept dating him to her own detriment when he was unstable.)
At Martha's insistence Stathis helps with the PR to make it seem like Xenia was devastated and didn't know what was going on with him. Xenia's career explodes! Martha and Stathis have a daughter. She eventually starts dating another guy many years later and gets dumped herself, takes it really hard, and starts to think more about her future and motherhood, and spends more time with Martha and Stathis's daughter. Martha and Stathis get killed in a car wreck, and Xenia adopts their daughter, and the two of them return to the house by the river.
Magdalini goes to Chicago with Theodora's sister Anna, because she's the scholarly one who wants to further her education in America. Except she never goes to school or takes any classes beyond her English language tutoring, and instead ends up unwittingly marrying a member of the Mafia. At first her mob boss father in law hates her, but because she's nice and friendly with the household staff they take her to overhear some information that saves her husband from being killed, which wins over her FIL a bit, and then later he's smitten with his grandkids (a son and daughter). But it's the Mafia, so a rival faction blows up their house, killing the FIL, and then when she and her husband are getting ready to leave the Mafia and disappear, her husband, son, and uncle are all gunned down. Magdalini goes catatonic for a year, while her aunt Anna takes care of her daughter, and then she, her aunt, and her daughter return to Greece to the house by the river.
Are you exhausted yet? Because I cut out all the moralizing about how children shouldn't "abandon" their parents, how they should always listen to their mothers, how all of the daughters were punished for leaving "paradise" by losing their husbands and/or lovers and/or sons and/or firstborn children, and about how all of the girls had destroyed their souls, but coming home could cleanse them of their wrongness and of daring to have a dream to do something other than live in a small village forever. (Although I honestly kind of zoned out during the reunion chapter, because it was really fucking hokey, but it did literally say something about them destroying their souls.)
Another really odd quirk of this book, particularly noticeable in Aspasia's chapter, was that they tended to not refer to the various kids as "our son," or "our daughter," or even by their name, but as "the child." Like, "what about 'the child.'" "What are we to do with, 'the child.'" I don't know if this is a side effect of the translation from Greek to English, or some quirk of the Greek language I'm unfamiliar with, but it got to the point where it was rather off putting.
I should also note that I normally reserve my 1 star ratings for books I truly hate, and I didn't exactly hate this book (for example, I'd rather read this again than The Buried Giant) but I knocked a star off for the racism and rape disguised as passion.